OurTime Reviews

I signed up for this website a three days ago, completed ALL the questions, set my criteria for height and age range. Received a few emails, responded and asked questions. Never heard back from them. The matches that were selected for me, didn't meet any of my criteria, age, fitness, height. I called to cancel my 6 month subscription 3 days later and was told NOT POSSIBLE. Spoke to a Jeremy and was told supervisor would tell me NO also. NOT PLEASED. STAY AWAY, they also run Match.com.

There are some real people on this site. But, there are also a LOT of fake accounts. Guys who fall instantly in love and eventually ask for money... they get easy to spot after the first few. The worst part of the whole experience was finding out that the site was sending out messages on my behalf. I noticed in my mailbox a lot of replies and when I clicked to open there were messages sent to guys that I hadn't done! I would imagine to keep guys interested or to stop someone from deleting their profile (and I imagine I got a few bogus messages too). When I messaged these guys to tell them, "Sorry but I didn't send those messages," the site deleted me. LOL... I guess as punishment? Haha so I relogged on and needed a new password. Rode out the rest of my one month membership, and exchanged emails with a few men I thought sounded genuine... we'll see...

OurTime.com is made for older people like me who are over 50 so I am not wasting my time with people who are too young because that is a waste of my time and their time. I enjoyed the experience just sometimes too many matches. It's overwhelming. Sometimes I like to be able to respond to all who contact me. With so many matches it's hard to do that. Sometimes I don't have enough time to answer everyone.

The pros, is that their app is easy to navigate. Had no problem with that. The desktop is a little more complicated but not hard. The cons is that there are quite a bit of scammers, but they seem to follow the same pattern. First they exchange a couple of emails with you, then they either ask for your email address or cell (don't fall for this) or they send this long email of how much they love you and age and distance should keep lovers apart or some such nonsense.

I agree with the majority of the folks who have given this site low reviews. The site is actually kind of hard to get through, with different filters for different things; and they are BURIED in the site itself, in places you would never think to look. I'm pretty savvy, and am on several other sites and none of them (even Match.com, this site's owners) is as bad. I get "matches" from women, although I have clearly specified that I am looking for a man; the age range is off, the geographical range is off, the number of actual paying clients is very, very low -- and since you can only send "flirts" and can't answer if you don't have a paying membership, the number of flirts is outrageous, and the number of actual contacts is underwhelming. They have an aggressive message if you don't respond to all those idiotic "flirts" that says you're a "poor responder". Give me a break. Why on this great earth would I spend my time responding to shadows?

They send you matches and you can click yes or no. You never hear from a single person. The people that do contact you live at least a thousand miles away and supposedly want to meet you. You never get a date.

This site deleted my information as soon as I entered it. They objected to the line where I said I would not renew, but they did not have to delete all my information. I asked them to return the information to me or give me a refund. They did not do so and continued to bill me for another 3 months. The phone number they give for resolution of problems does not work. This site will steal your money and make it impossible to resolve issues.

Worst site and experience in my entire life. Originally tried joining for 1 or 3 months but there was nothing stating what services were provided except for the 6 month plan; there was a list of what you received so I joined. Always severe technical issues, I had age criteria but was matched with much older men, would attempt to send a message and an automatic message would come up, tried to change or override. It was absolutely the worst and frustrating, would back out and try again, same issue. Was hacked 4 times, received several email messages with OurTime logo claiming my sex preferences, etc was changed and to contact them.

I have been on this terrible site since the end of last year. I have not met one person who was a real person. This site is full of catfishers and more phishers than I can count. I have been asked to go into their bank accounts to move money around. Why? Because he is in England and has no access to the internet. Oh really then how can you send me emails? I thought they came via the internet. I have been asked for iTunes gift cards. Because, "my iPod got wiped out and I am deployed and cannot buy one." Again is the message still coming from the internet? The latest, he was real good, or so he thought.

First of all, they advertise these nice looking mature adults and when you join everyone on the site looks like they homeless. Where did they find these people and how do they afford to be on the site. Every once in a while someone will send you a message or flirt that looks decent, when you message back they don't really exist. The site says you cannot continue with this person. Some kind of error. That is because they are NOT REAL MEMBERS. When you try to reach OurTime there is no one to help you.

There is an elaborate process of registration, tons of personal information: physical appearance, photos, likes, dislikes, what kind of dating possibilities might be available out there, huge lists of prospects: "favorites," (people you have chosen out of many, many people), "flirting" - that's when you advise someone that you are interested in them, "favorites" - those whom you've chosen for further potential association. The cost is relatively cheap $19.97 to start, although they are constantly offering upgrades for incentives of all kinds. Too good to be true for us lonely women.

It was awful. I spend several hrs trying to stop getting contacted from the LDS community that just received all my photos and info from the OurTime site that I had just joined. It asked after paying to join if you were interested in your info going to other free dating sites like LDS. I pick the no option (opted out) twice and still started and kept receiving messages from the LDS site and another one both I had opted out of. I was so mad but just kept getting sent in circles when trying to stop this. I also couldn't get to the place where you can stop the automatic renewal. I finally had to call a number I searched for online to contact them directly. 1-866-727-8920 and spoke with a Nice young man named Joseph who was an immediate big help and he got my subscription canceled and my $ refunded. Thank goodness for Joseph.

I am a 72 year old female who joined OurTime.com hoping, not for a marriage partner but for a companion where two people find each other and enjoy each other's company and have mutual respect. What I found, in my opinion, was a site fraught with useless matches, "matches" looking for a green card, out-and-out perverts and a customer service (or lack of one) that could not answer a single question unless it was part of some script and refusals to transfer to a supervisor.

I cannot believe the service with OurTime dating site. You put what you are looking for. Forget it you are getting everyone in the country even when you put less than 75 miles and you don’t want a smoker or you are searching for men, too bad you are getting them all including women. So I am sure I was probably a woman on some other women’s website as a match. Then there are some good looking men - guess what they are past men that have moved on. So ladies those men are not really looking for women because they are really not on the site. Then of course you have perverts and dorks but that is just part of looking. I can accept that better than the lies this website has.

Signed up 4/24/2018. 1st 3 days, lots of hits, flirts, etc. I became suspicious, when I started getting "messages" from females, as I signed on as a woman seeking a man. Got a long message from a woman whose friend saw me through her acct. and wanted, desperately to meet me and gave me an email. I wrote back that that was "different" but would consider if I was sent a pic and bio. 10 mins later, I went back and the message was gone, as though it never existed. I began to notice that I was getting auto msgs. from men who had NOT even viewed my profile... especially from OOS. That's when I started to search for complaints. I immediately canceled any future renewal. For the past 3 days, I am getting only a couple of views and bot messages from others, not viewing. Oh... you can GET views, if you want to pay more for tokens. It's a fraud. Don't waste your time, money, or heart. Class action suit, anyone??

I signed up for a month and things were going fine. This morning, I started receiving dozens of emails "responding" to my email but I never sent them out. Quickly realized my account had been hacked. I must have received 75 emails from people. I called OT customer service 4 times and on the fourth time asked to cancel my account, remove my profile and receive a refund. They refused the refund. I asked to speak to a Supervisor, she refused. So I paid for 4 weeks and got 2 and have spent two hours trying to get my profile down and go through this mess and potential security breach. Way to have great customer care... horrible company, People Media and OurTime.

I was on free membership when I was getting emails telling me I have messages. Favorites. Flirts. So I took a chance and paid for a month. Then I might see it was all a lie. No messages, no favorites. No flirts. So don't do it. Oh. They charged me a extra 3.99 fee on top of the monthly membership.

While I didn't actually become a paying member of OurTime, I was in the process of filling out my profile this morning in preparation to do so, when a well-known image of an abusive scammer flashed before my eyes. He/she/it was apparently in the process of viewing my profile. I knew right then that I was writing a profile on a dating site where I should never spend one dime of my money. Acknowledging that red flag, I deleted my profile and all images within. Thank you, OurTime, for letting me know in advance and prior to my providing payment for your "services," that you're actually ScammerVille. And after having read the bulk of complaints here, I feel like I dodged a bullet.

Signed up for a months subscription, I did read up on how to cancel it before I paid the fee so I would know how difficult it might be. You have to log into the "full site" to do so, just an FYI. Ok, so I created my profile, upload pics, etc, etc. 99.9 % of the flirts and messages were from scammers. They're easy to pick up in once you've experienced them as I have on other dating sites. They always want you to text their phone or immediately ask for your email address.

This Online dating site, appears to be nothing but a site where you pay to see irrelevant advertisements. Many of the advertisements are hacked advertisements apparently infected with viruses with the intent of scamming the consumer out of money whilst scaring them into thinking their computer has a dangerous virus. The profile has to be reviewed by them if you make a minor change and OurTime doesn't like it. They delete your entire profile instead of reverting back to the old one. There is no way to know if somebody is a paying member or not. So, if you like someone you have no way to know if they can reply to you. Effectively, a big waste of time.

I came back to Michigan in December. I joined OurTime.com to meet local men as friends. Most of the messages I received were copy/paste of the same "profile" and often began "I think humor is important, and I laugh at myself often." There were a couple other redundant messages. About 90% of the people who sent flirts, Favorites, liked my picture, or messaged were from over 1,000 miles away. No one I sent a chat to ever answered, and only two ever responded to messages. The bots are loaded up on that site.

I became a member on April 11, 2018 because I was hoping to meet a lady near my age for communication together. I found a report on the MSN web page that read "Find Who Is the Top 5 Rated Dating Sites". I checked the page and saw that OurTime had a 4 star rating so I gave it a try and became a member. I received many messages and as I read the content I realized the person was part of the Romance Scammers groups. I had memberships at 3 other dating sites and all three had problems with Romance Scammers but what I found out right away was 100% of messages that I received came from Romance Scammers.

My letter to OurTime sums it all, 2018-04-13. Not for a second do I believe that OurTime is prepared enough to deal with hackers. Sad that I had to experience this in the short time I was with your matching company. In only four months, three hackers contacted me. I believe without a doubt that your company is not capable of responsibly protecting its customers, and that you are mostly concerned with the public not knowing how bad and how often people's profiles are hacked.

I signed up for an OurTime.com subscription on 6 April 2018. By 10 April 2018, my profile was hacked and two charges were made, one was for a one month subscription of $22.47 and the other was for 280 tokens that was $9.99. On 11 April 2018, I contacted OurTime.com at 866-727-8920 about the problem and told them I wanted a refund for the two charges that I did not authorize and for the one month subscription since I was only four days into it. They refunded the two unauthorized charges but refused to refund my subscription charge because they stated that it was in their user agreement. I told two different representatives that the problem was not mine but was their fault because of lack of security for their site and because of that, I should be refunded.

Online senior meeting - Ourtime.com and Zoosk are ridiculous. First time tried online meeting. Paid, only there for a week before I removed. Nothing but total scammers the system and men online. They pick up on the little information you provide then hit on you immediately with the info. Men claim to be well off, have big paying jobs. Give you the same line that lost their spouse five years before, own yachts in MO of all places. Want to take you to Paris, if you describe you love God they will try to lead you to believe they are His disciples. Please women have enough sense to realize this and avoid them. If you don't use common sense and realize the scammers you can get yourself in a world of trouble.

They make it impossible to delete your profile so you're looking at profiles of people no longer on the site. They send you pictures of the same people over and over. They write your profile and make you go out and sign in directly to their official site to write one on your own. It’s not easy to maneuver or figure out your account. Trying to stop using the site, not renew after you figure out how to stop it you're not sure it’s stopped. POF PlentyOfFish is free and has a 10 times easier and better site to use.

So, signed up, wrote a profile, kept getting “likes” from the same 3 men - 2 who live on the other side of the US - went in to my profile to try rewriting it- discovered that everything I had written was GONE, replaced by something about my “sense of style” and how favorite thing is good wine- (making me sound conceited- plus I don’t even drink wine). HOW can they attach false statements to MY photo??? Cancelling & filing complaint with my state’s Attorney General!

I was so skeptical about paying $30.00 to sign up and I am so glad my skepticism paid off this time. I ran into several of the same problems mention by a few people on this site. Under "My View" I had 16 pages of men (over 100) men total that I supposedly viewed. This was FALSE, as I only viewed maybe 30 men total during my time on the site. Clearly something they are controlling on their end. I was getting countless of flirts, (300 total), and out of the 300 it stated that I had 16 actual messages from men. I was skeptical of this as well because I signed up a few months ago for another site which is the sister site of OurTime operated by People Media and once I paid the views, flirts and messages stopped. I hope others do their research first regarding these sites before paying them.

I had used this service a few years ago with no problem, but now after signing up, I was shocked when it showed I had "favorited" and "liked" over 10 people on the first day. I never did this. So you have no idea whether the people that have contacted you are real. It's a total scam and I wish I had known before paying.

I asked for my money back after 1 day on this site. Fake flirts, scammers, profiles that appear to be men & then when you look again it's a woman's profile that has been sending you messages... I guess from profiles being hacked. There needs to be a class action lawsuit brought against these people & their scam network!!!

OurTime advertises free trial but they trick you into paying. Then they connect you to several other dating websites which you did not ask for. One hour after paying I had looked at horrendous selection of members and difficult website and immediately tried to cancel via phone and email. One hour after paying to access site which could not be accessed without paying! They never responded to my emails and kept sending me emails. The potential dates who contacted me online sent repeated messages and it felt like I was being stalked. But the primary complaint is that the site tricked/manipulated me into paying when they advertise a free trial. And then they ignored my attempts to cancel until finally today I got through to someone - many times they could not be reached by phone - and hope that they deleted my account from OurTime and the others they had linked me to. Horrible horrible experience.

I don't blame dating site because I didn't make a love connection. Some people are lucky enough to be on a site at the same time, find each other and have a happy ending, most of us will not and I realize that. However, when I have been on a site for 5 months and not one date and no real messages, I have to question the validity of the site. Question, how many active members they really have. Before paying I signed up did a search and saw that there were quite of few recently active men that met my requirements, I was getting views, flirts and messages everyday. After I paid, (I was lucky the price that I paid was at a much reduced rate from what was first offered, I think less than $40.00) poof, all of my messages, views, and flirts stopped and the ones I supposedly had, I couldn't access them and I could no longer see last activity dates for members.

I have been on several dating sites that were free. I was able to get and go on dates without paying a fee. However On OurTime dating I was charged a fee that was going to be recurring and didn't get one date. I think they are just out to take your money. I requested a refund and a cancellation and did not get either. Do not join OurTime dating site!

From my one month experience as a member of Match.com which resulted in being a victim of fraudulent billing by Match.com, I presumed Match.com was the worst of the bunch. WRONG!!! I saw an ad on TV for internet dating that was geared for the over fifty crowd so, out of curiosity I headed to OurTime.com. I accepted a two week trial offer, posted a professional profile, I am a lawyer, with photos, I frequently run 10k's so my body weight is within parameters set by the gov, have a full set of hair, am over 5'10", then went fishing for a contact.

I purchased a 3 mos subscription and the software is terrible. I think the company sends messages to subscribers to make them think someone is interested in them when actually the person never did sent a message. Their renewal process is also a scam because they just renew even though they were told upfront no automatic renewal. There are so many scammers on this site. In three months at least 7 contact me. Don’t waste your money.

When you have a free account, it's extremely limited, you can't send messages, or view who's "flirted" with you. During this period, I had the experience that I was getting multiple hits per day, lots of messages and flirts. In my account, highlighted red text showed large numbers of people supposedly dying to meet me. I fell for it and purchased a one-month subscription. Instantly, upon my being able to view all of my admirers, the numbers dropped significantly, and since then I barely get any hits. I am attractive and successful, and I am confident in being able to attract people, so it's not me... I believe they pile on all these extra hits in order to get you to pay for an account, then when you do, the reality is, very few people initiate any form of real contact. Waste of money for sure.

My daughter bought me a 6 month subscription. I went on the account and clicked on the do not auto renew in November 2017. On March 8, 2018 they automatically renewed my account anyway. I clicked on an email and it took me to the site before I realized they had auto renewed the account. I then called and on March 13 and told them the situation and asked for a refund of my $99 and they would not refund it and would not let me talk to a manager. I told them I was not happy with their online site and did not want to be renewed and asked why they would auto renew when I indicated not to. The customer service rep refused to budge and would not transfer me to a manager. I do not recommend this site to anyone. The worst dating site ever.

Within 5 days of signing up with "Our Time" (Oct. 2017) my account was hacked at least 3 times. My personal data was changed from female looking for male TO female looking for female; next hack changed my picture and age; and third time back to female looking for female. Thought it was done...but nope, on Mar 12, 2018, the search returned to female looking for female AND 2 of the 3 the "essays" composed for site were changed. Calling their 800 is useless.

As a single lady I joined OurTime to “find my one and only”. I paid for this experience only to find at least 85% of the men who contacted me were not who they professed to be. I tested these men out by allowing access to my cell number, knowing if they were hackers or scammers. I could block them after any amount of calls. One man even went so far as to say he was Italian, with an accent, but did not speak one word of Italian. He even set up a phony business website! I’ve attempted to contact OurTime to no avail. To all those seeking happiness it’s highly unlikely you will find it on OurTime. I do not believe OurTime cares about its’ honest members and too. Is scamming the public!

I agree with the majority who find OurTime to be a poorly run site. Worst of all are the scammers. I get messages from fake profiles anywhere from three to eight times a day. These idiots want me to text them or visit their Facebook page. Sure, I report the scammers, but why should I have to? Why doesn't OurTime check all new accounts and photos before they're posted? Then there are the constant popups, bugging me for enhanced services, at a price of course. I could go on for a long time about how bad this site is, but suffice it to say that even if OurTime offered me a free renewal I'd turn it down.

Now, after creating a profile I am not able to log onto the site. I keep getting routed to a site in the U.K. Luckily the app on my phone was still working and I could get in from there to view the full website, and cancel my subscription.

Actually I joined a few days ago and found a guy I really like. Since then we have been talking to each other on the phone... will be video calling this weekend. So far he seems legitimate. I don’t know why all the bad reviews. My experience so far is good. But will see what happens.

I created an account but didn't actually pay until 3 weeks after - when I received a great deal in an email. Fast forward to today, I log into my laptop and discovered that during the 3 weeks I wasn't a paying member, they would send fake messages to other members. OurTime sent members that I clicked 'yes I would be interested' fake messages that; I made them my favorite member, I loved their pictures, I wanted to hear more from them, I had sent a flirt...which I had NEVER sent. That eventually triggered an email sent to those members that I had liked their profile somehow. And eventually, those members would reply back to my profile with either flirts or a response that would trigger an email back to me that someone had made me there favorite, or I have a message from a member, etc... all to entice me to pay to join.

This site is unsatisfactory. They put photos of men who look like very nice among people who are very poor looking to give the appearance that the site is legitimate, when those people are not actually on the site. They send out messages without your permission, creepy looking men. Most are below 50. Don't waste your money or time. Plenty Of Fish is no better either.

This site should be removed from the internet as its filled with bots, scammers, and Fishers constantly trying to suck you into their scheme and the site itself will edit your content without your permission or a notification. It's a site that is full of those trying to take advantage of seniors. After chatting with one and finally giving her my cell number after what I believed was someone genuine, the next day she tries to get me to send her an $200.00 iTunes card. I may have been born at night, but it wasn`t last night. The site itself changed my info saying I loved my whiskey when I rarely even drink at all and never said any such thing! Avoid this site at all costs, It should be shut down and the people running it should be prosecuted!

I actually thought this site was legit. NOT. What a joke. OurTime uses pictures of models to lure you into thinking they have great people on their site. When you send them a "wink" you never get a reply back. When it says they are online to chat, they aren't. Matches sent to you and nowhere near what you listed for preferences. I thought since this site was supposed to be for people over 50, that it would be legit. Guess people will scam anyone at any age. Don't waste your money, here or any other dating site. I've looked up others and they all have the same bad reviews. I guess the only way to meet people is through people you know. Too bad the lowest is 1 star. I wish 0 would count because they don't even deserve 1 star.

I subscribed for a three month period, in that time I had 34 women try and scam me for money, I reported this to OurTime customer care team, three days later the woman that I reported was back on the site using a different profile but her profile pictures were the same. The company claim all profiles are verified, this is totally untrue, in the time I was on this site I saw on average 4/5 women who were clearly not genuine, I have also had women message me regarding the number of men who are also using this site for the same purpose, to scam them for money.

Fake messages are the best you get. Several times a week I get a very non personal message from a very attractive women who is conveniently located more that a 1000 miles away. If I respond I get another generic message supposedly from this very attractive women who has no intention of ever meeting me. Unless you are VERY unattractive and desperate, you will not find love here. Pay the $36 for a one month trial, don't waste anymore on the longer term memberships. Pay only with a VISA gift debit card from Walmart, or you will be automatically re-billed. Zero stars!

After only a few days using this dating site I felt as though I had been lured into a scamming site. The first man I had a chat with texted me once or twice and then told me he wanted me to contact him via his private phone and email, that he did not like the site. Red flags went up. After a few Google searches to find out what scammers can do with your personal phone number and email, I began to feel that he was out for no good. I chatted briefly with a few men and decided that one was about 50 miles away and I decided to meet up with him for coffee. I thought it best to meet him in his neck of the woods so that he would not follow me home and learn anything about me other than our first initial meeting. I felt safe that it was a very public place that we would be meeting.

After subscribing only 1 of 1000s is worth contacting. And he is not interested in dating nor is he within 1000 miles of me. Doesn't matter what your settings are, this is a scam website taking advantage of everyone honest, letting catfish scavenge them. Do NOT put your heart or money here. If you are there already subscribing, just right click on each photo and run a Google search. Every attractive one will be a celebrity's profile, or a stolen photo. All Attorneys General should take this site down as a consumer-damaging scam and we need you to act. This site is a scourge to America. The only local profiles which appear for the subscribers are catfish. I am so soured on this, I call myself The Cat. I check out everyone, and have not found one attractive yet to be real. This site has wasted our subscription money. Pants on Fire red flags here. Avoid it.

All the other reviews reflect my own experiences. The only thing I can add is that the only time you can see activity for the people you are interested in is when you send a flirt. The one I chose hadn't signed into her account for 4 months. In addition, it seems pretty easy for scam artists to set up fake profiles, although most of them disappear within minutes (meaning someone is catching them and reporting; not sure if it's OURTIME or a savvy customer). I've filed a complaint with PayPal. Even if you can't get your money back, if enough people complain, maybe something can be done.

I signed up for this site 1/18/17. I paid for a month membership only. I specified that I was interested in local responses, never received one. I live in Ohio, the closest received was Kentucky. I canceled after a month. But kept my profile open. At the beginning of this year I answered an inquiry from someone in Houston. I am familiar with Texas so I responded. It took him about 6 weeks but he finally starting asking if I would pick up gift cards for him to use for his "daughter" among other things. That is not going to happen.

Most of the 1-star reviews used the site for a month or less. I signed up with a 6-month membership. Initially, it does start out as described, with mostly long-distance or otherwise unsuitable matches. But I think part of that is because most, like me, start with incomplete or first draft profiles. As your profile develops and some time is spent declining inappropriate matches, the site does a decent job in presenting potential matches, and I connected with a number of very real people over the latter 3 months.

This is a horrible site. Like others keep sending people from across the US. Where's the locals? And what's with these flirt and messages when my profile's hidden? Clearly just to edge me back on the site. Sad they take your money for nothing. I've only been on a couple days and it smells of a scam through and through. Calling today to cancel what a waste of money. Already know I won't get my money back.

After a month I let my subscription lapse. I would get 37 year olds from all over sending flirts/likes which I didn’t like, however as quickly as they came in they disappeared. My recommendation were never followed, they would send matches that never fit my profile. After letting it lapse within in 24 hours I had over 50 views within that time frame. When I was on the site the most views I would get in a day was 5 max!! I think this site takes advantage of older individuals who are truly looking for someone. I would recommend using your money in another way to find someone special!! This site is the worst!!

Have been on this site for less than a week. My account was hacked by what I am sure, is a disgruntled "trolling troglodyte" who took offense to me alerting the service to a "fake or scammer" profile. Customer service not available after 5:00 on Fridays. Can't send an email to them either to report the security breach, over the weekend. Should be interesting come Monday morning, how they're going to handle this. Don't have high hopes for a professional or truly "customer service" oriented response and/or "call to action". Don't waste your time and or money on this site.

I signed up January 18, 2018. I received what seemed like computer generated responses. In other words no messages received were in the persons in words. I received messages and flirts from men who never even viewed my profile and were not on my profile reviewed list. I had preferences that were not met either years younger or lived out of state. Good luck in trying to cancel the renewal. It is not set up for you to do so. But I have contacted my credit card company and requested a new card number...so they make it difficult to cancel. That's one way to do it...

My short term experience on this website has been that there are mostly fakes and not real people on this website. Check them out the best you can, use Google or whatever you can to check them out before you give them any info about you. I filed a complaint today on 3 of them, but there are more I could have. I'm sure OurTime won't do a thing about it. Nor will they refund your money. But some of what I've found is a phone number that said "dangerous", an address that doesn't exist, different pictures and info/profile on FB, and even one who changed his picture and age right after I gave him an email address (I printed out both profiles). And be sure you set up a new and separate email account to use. Be smart and be wary... If you have mistakenly set up an OurTime account.

I was a member for few months a couple of years ago. I then quit. I now get constant supposed flirts. I can't get my information off their site it seems. If I click, they try to sell me a new subscription. If these are real, OurTime is posting my information without my permission and scamming the people flirting me. If they are not real, the company is trying to defraud me as well as misusing my personal info. Horrible!! Never sign up!

OurTime/People Media is a scam. I urge every member to file a complaint with the Better Business Bureau. The site has consistently matched me with people from a different time zone, people 20 years older than me and 20 years younger than me. I sent an email 4 days into my paid membership with no reply, which after I called today they told me they could not find my email. How convenient. They refused me a refund even though they did not provide the service they should have. This company is a lie and a scam...

Scammed my $111.75 - This site is amazing. It automatically sends flirts from you to people you have not even viewed. Then you will receive Flirts and messages from across the nation from Beautiful women, when I would ask if this was a fake message. "Did you message me?" They would respond, but not in any way mentioning my question. I Just signed up yesterday 2/4/18. This is such a scam. Go to settings and try to cancel the auto renewal... IT WON'T LET YOU!!! Please Consumer Affairs Email or Call, please leave me a message as I don't answer unknown callers. Me at this point I'm not really sure how to turn off the auto renewal. I saw their Ad on network TV in Tulsa, Ok. I'm not sure which one. I guess I can start calling them??

The least I can do is hopefully save someone else the expense and time. I was getting likes and views just about every other day from “Our Time” until I actually paid for three months. Then none... it's almost like day and night. It’s so obvious that their staff has set up email scamming bots (automatic batch code programs) that send out fake emails to recruit people and steal their money. Anyway... SERIOUSLY... don’t waste your money on this rip-off web site. Also... as websites go it is poorly written. You would think that since Match.com owns Our Time they would have a better website!

I considered joining, wrote a short bio, but didn't join. I have received 95 Flirts, 20 messages and several pages of matches. After several weeks of daily messages, I saw a photo of someone I met several years ago. I searched for him on the internet and there they were - the same photo of him, the obit of his wife dated eight years ago and his obit dated four years ago!!!

Piece of crap. All these dating services have the same type of programming. Right off there was a problem with inputting date of birth. The system requires one to click the back arrow 60 times to get to the desired yr. I attempted to contact customer service but couldn't select a category and even that didn't work. If I even thought I would pay money for this program I certainly wouldn't because of its primitive set up and poor reviews.

I have tried three different online dating sites, Zoosk, Plenty of Fish, and Our Time. Neither of them produced anything and we're very expensive by today standards. Despite best efforts I've only received one reply out of hundreds by a woman who said that she wanted to meet but then disappeared. On Our Time, several of the people that were sent to me were from at least 1000 miles away or scammers. I think your best bet is to try to meet people the old-fashioned way and save your money, it seems that these sites purposefully don't want you to meet anyone or people were just looking around to see what's out there and not very serious. I understand that it's difficult being alone, but the sites potentially can break down your self-esteem, and you don't want to give them that kind of power.

Joined this morning. By 7pm I had gotten over a DOZEN bogus messages, ALL FROM HOT WOMEN LIVING VERY, VERY FAR AWAY. Apparently the CS's that run this site feel the need to "salt the mine" as they say. Too bad they're such short-sighted idiots; if they left it alone people might have actually stayed.They're just like all the other internet scammers; they don't make their revenue from the continuing business of legitimate users, they make their revenue from all the POOR OLD SUCKERS that pay them, find out it's a scam, and then leave.

I signed up to this site in hope meeting a mate or date. Two months into the membership I haven't yet to go on one date. I signed up for six months since it was the cheaper option, after 24 hrs I realized how bad my decision was, wanting to back away and get a refund, my request was confronted with a strong no refund. Beware if you sign for this site. All matches are not really matches, I get women as matches people I didn't choose as part of my ethnicity, soooo unprofessional, disgusting customer service, do yourself a favor: don't waste your money, didn’t try to call their CS, better talk to your wall.

I signed up on January 3, paid for one month membership. I decided on January 5 to cancel the auto renewal. I met the first guy who turned out to be a scammer. The second, a scammer. On January 18, my Paypal was charged and the auto renewal was activated. I logged into my account to find that someone hacked my account and had been sending messages to other men. I sent the men messages to ignore the emails and that my account had been hacked. I changed my password, but to find that they locked me out of my account. I called customer service and demanded a refunded and to give me access to my account which they gave me my money back, but still no access.

I joined this dating site on 18th December for one month as there was a special offer of £5 and cancelled a few days later. I telephoned to complain as they reinstated my account on the 18th of January, and took £40 out of my bank account. I just want to warn other users to be careful.

There are perhaps a few "real" seniors on this website, but they definitely are in the minority. Based on my search criteria, OurTime.com claims I have 146 matches. The profiles for about 80% of these matches are so incomplete that they appear to be either bogus or whimsical. But in any case, not serious. About 90% of these matches have not been active at any time recently, which could mean they found somebody - or gave up in disgust like I have done. The primary purpose of this business seems to be to generate website traffic - which generates ad revenue for OurTime.

I felt it necessary to post my review because I don't agree with all the negativity being broadcasted on this site! I signed up in April 2014 as a trial. Of course I could only see the profiles of whom I was matched up with, and to respond I had to pay. I took the chance and said I'd give it a try for one month and if it didn't work I would cancel. I was matched up with a couple of gentleman, and after a few dates in of course public places, I found the love of my life! We have been together since May 2014, and last year in February he proposed to me! We have been living together for a year and a few months and I could not be happier! After a 20 year marriage and 2 children I never thought love existed anymore! Thanks to OurTime I found love! Thank you OurTime.com! Could not ask for more!

The reason for this review is because I am so dissatisfied with their program and services. I 100% agree with all the other reviews I just read as I have experienced the same things they have. IT IS CLEARLY A SCAM AND CERTAINLY MISUSE OF SENIORS LOOKING FOR COMPANIONSHIP! There's a scam about FREE TRIAL, every time you view "their" picks for you, they are gentlemen who do not fit your desires like a smoker for a non smoker, different religions when you're specific about what you're looking for, different ethnicities, sending you people who live thousands of miles away, when you were specific about local and it just goes on and on with improprieties! I wish there were a way to get my money back and the service fee attached to signing up for "membership". It is a shame that big companies scam on seniors and misuse their well intentions to build their wealth!

I've tried OurTime online dating twice now (stupid me) and both times it was a complete waste of time. All the negative reviews posted here on Consumer Affairs are absolutely true. There's no real dating going on - they just want your money. For me, the men who did reply were either crude and looking for a hookup or needy and overbearing. Setting an age range for potential suitors goes unnoticed - if you ask for ages 55-65 you can bet you're going to get a lot of people well into their 70s.

I signed up for OurTime.com when it was indicated that I had a "free" month to test out the website. So I agreed to do that and signed up through PayPal. Even on the OurTime website under my account information, it showed that the payment was declined which further indicated that this was, in fact, a free "test" period. Not. I was charged $33.95 and later told it was nonrefundable because I had actually messaged some gentlemen on the site. Wasn't that part of the free package... to test out the website for a month? After two weeks I dropped out of the website because I noticed the following: When I first signed on I received multiple "hits' from men all over the country. Since that is unreasonable to expect someone to date men from other states, I contacted the website and explained that I was only interested in the local members.

I was on this site for all three days. I decided at that point that I no longer wanted to be contacted by the majority of the people. They were matching me to. I received several Dogo messages request for adult pics, etc. I went online and change my automatic renewal to off. When I went back in it showed that it was on when I went to edited it showed that it was off. I did this twice. I searched online and search the site and was unable to find any place where I could cancel my account, so I called the customer service. Customer service advised me that my auto renewal was still on. At this point I requested that my account be completely cancelled and for my auto renewal to be turned off.

First my reference to being a scam - I can't count how many times I've gotten an email that someone has sent a flirt or has favorited me, only to go to the site and there's nothing. I shouldn't be surprised as I found out after Match.com owns OurTime, and Match is notorious for sending bogus notices of someone being interested, especially if you're a free member to try and get you to pay to see a message that isn't there. But tonight, their customer service dept. really got me.

I signed up for the free trial, but you cannot read any messages when on the free trial so pretty useless. I paid for one month (34$) and was bombarded with ads. The site is hard to navigate (I am computer and software savvy) and looks like something from the 1990s. I got "matches" - most of them were from different parts of the country, more than a 2 or 3 days drive away from where I live. I got several messages, anywhere from the simple "I like your picture" to invitations for back rubs and to have my "body covered with kisses". I found a lot of dirty old men or very nice grandpas who I helped navigate through using chat. I am disgusted with myself for trying this - it's an online meat market. Would love to see the actual number of successful relationships coming out of here.

I just created a profile and paid for a month subscription but I noticed something really odd so I started to investigate. This site is a scam, it is designed to take your money and keep you interested so that you won't cancel. I also noticed that they enrolled me in two other sister sites, I was getting blasted with flirts and messages from those sites but none from the OurTime site. When I tried to access the messages from the other site they wanted more money, go figure. This site is definitely a scam.

I have been on this site for one month plus. I have chatted with at least 15 scammers and hackers. They are very nice and continue to make you the perfect date. But you never date. They talk the talk but never follow through. All have accents and some you can barely understand. They also post pictures of the best looking men. So watch out. But you waste your time on a relationship you think you are establishing. I was hacked over weekend twice, which are very busy for dating. By hacked, someone changed my gender as well as parts of my profile. So this was irritating. They are closed so you can't do anything but wait til Monday. I had one decent date in a month. It's not worth the time.

While I know that there are over a million people on OurTime and I have met with at least one, I have come to the conclusion that the website generates fake traffic to get people to pay or renew their paid subscriptions. I wasn’t getting any real communication at the site except canned flirts and ‘I’m interested’ emails (which admittedly is partially my fault) and I decided to let my paid subscription expire. Lo and behold my email inbox is jammed with flirts and notices that I am someone’s ‘favorite’. Easily tenfold the normal number (which is somewhat annoying to begin with). My conclusion was that they were generating fake traffic to make me feel like I had a real shot at meeting many women. They don’t need to do this and I find it a deceptive business practice. I edited my profile to state this and ‘poof’ that part of my profile is gone. I reposted that and expect it to disappear again quickly. The decision to renew or not has been made for me.

OurTime should be charged with fraud. I have been online for one week now, and believe I have not communicated with one human. It’s all a prop; canned messages, canned flirts, canned responses… After asking a few question, and receiving a few responses, my out of state beauty “Dak1899... (A 6'3" beauty from somewhere in Texas) is no longer available to receive messages from you." (Meaning me.) She must have gotten hurt when I accused her of being part of the scam. Could some staffer actually be reading these messages? I wish I was an attorney.

From the minute my payment cleared, I started getting 'interest' and 'profile views' from women all over the country! I must be amazing... I can't prove it, but I am pretty close to certain that OurTime generates artificial traffic to make you feel... better? Then I noticed that I was liking profiles, and sending really lame messages to people in other states! No I wasn't! I am in Florida, and I noticed I supposedly sent a lame canned message to a woman in California. But I didn't, so I sent her an apology. Then I noticed my Sent Items mailbox was FULL of creepy canned messages to woman I DID NOT CONTACT OR CLICK ON. Within a short amount of time, I know I want out.

It's a dumb database programmed to do nothing but put your picture in front of men (women) who get photo options, "Do you like this woman or this one?! How about this one, or this one? And this one?" Like they are shopping for shirts!! So every time a man chooses your picture over another picture you get "A Message". Then, the site encourages men to send a wink or an icebreaker. And all they do is click ok and the site does everything for them, without any effort on their part. So I get 4 or 5 messages a day from the SAME USER and when you open up "the message" there is NO MESSAGE!!! Just a redundant msg just like the previous one... "I like your picture" and then another one FROM THE SAME USER. "I like your photograph". Then in comes another message from the same user "I like your profile!" Then another message FROM THE SAME USER "You caught my eye"...

I stopped the auto re-billing and they blocked my account even though I had paid for an additional two months. This site is a totally fraudulent based on the way they control your account and your re-billing options. If you don't want the auto re-billing... They block your account immediately even if you paid for the entire 6 months. Not only that, when you reinstate the auto re-billing they charge your account immediately... watch yourself. This is the worst site I have been on since 2001.

Within a couple of days as a paid member, I contacted Our Time to find out why I was receiving singles that did not fit my search profile. They said basically that the way it worked was, they sent who was available within my area. They also sent the same people over and over each day, including women, which definitely did not fit my profile. I asked for a refund and was told the fee was nonrefundable and to block the automatic renewal, which I did. The site is a scam. I’d have done better keeping my money!!!

I do not think that it's fair. That OurTime.com would take my money and then provide me with matches that are from out of state. That is incredible. And if that isn't enough you do not get mail. All you get are flirts. Then when you write the people back you get some more flirts as a response to your letters. I have had to block half of the people who flirted with me because they wouldn't stop flirting. It just went on and on until I blocked them. I find it hard to believe that the people are real on there. People don't usually behave like that. Also, I did get flirts from people that were under the age of fifty as well. Like who would really go there at age forty. Whether half of these people are paid for or not I don't know. All I know is that I could not find a button to stop the flirts. Again I did not receive letters just flirts.

This is my second time on OurTime and I'm very disappointed. The advertisements on the site make it difficult to navigate. This is a paid subscription. Also when it supplies the Daily Matches there is no matching to the criteria which I have defined. There is no attempt to match based on selected criteria such as age, race, geographic location, non-smoking or marital status.

I've read so many negative reviews of OurTime.com, and truthfully, I've had some of the same experiences as those people complaining. But, on the whole, I've also met some very nice gentlemen on this site. I've found it's a MUCH better environment (at least for me) than Match.com, PlentyOfFish or OKCupid. OF COURSE there are some "duds" and OF COURSE there are scammers on there - you just have to know how to recognize them. OurTime.com also regularly gives you advice on HOW to recognize them and to make sure to report them. It also gives advice on regularly updating your profile to make it fresh. I can't speak for anyone else, but, my experience here has been positive.

The dating site is horrible! First, it wouldn’t let me create an account and when it finally did, it wouldn’t let me upload any photos and this was after paying for a one month membership. It wasn’t until a couple of weeks had passed and I looked at my account that I realized it wasn’t posted because my photos were not uploaded. I complained and given the company’s error that they would offer me a couple of months for the technical difficulties experienced. They didn’t offer anything to compensate or correct their poor service.

This dating site is sooo riddled with hackers that it becomes virtually impossible to connect with eligible daters. In less than 72 hours my profile was hacked and perverted which required a shutdown and complete reinstatement six times. Getting over the phone help is squeezed into 8 am to 5 pm Mon-Fri BUT the hackers know this and rob your profile times and days the customer service is closed. So you find yourself paying for MANY days of a site which is inaccessible. People Media Inc is very resistant to give out refunds and run you around for weeks to wear you down. Match.com (owned by same company) is the same exact problem. Find other ways to meet and date. These sites are pure brain damage!

This site preys upon lonely seniors. It posts inaccurate information to attract your attention such as saying that you have new flirts and new messages when neither is true. When you log in on the site, it is the same old information sometimes months out of date. The site keeps recycling "matches" that you have rejected months ago. Do not waste your money here. You are better off sitting at home and using your money to buy a good bottle of booze.

Do not waste your time and/or money subscribing to this site. It is the biggest scam! 99% of my matches were from across the country and all guys contacting me were looking for a hookup or whatever else I wasn't. I received the same matches weeks in a row. It is a shame that such business continues to thrive. I canceled my renewal within weeks of using the service, removed all my pictures and just accepted that I was victim of a scam! Customer service is the greatest waste of time and keep in mind that subscription is non-refundable!!!

I signed on for a month and immediately was bombarded with 'likes' and 'smiles' and automated, pre-written messages. I would say that a third of those messages were from people thousands of miles away; or they had no photos, or their profile was so full of spelling and grammar mistakes that it was obvious English wasn't their first language. There are far, far too many fake profiles on this site. In addition, although they claim they're targeting 50+ folks, they are an awful lot of younger singles on here - either fake profiles or looking for their cougars. If you want to try it out, be aware of the scams, the fake profiles. The best test: see if they want to meet in person. That takes care of many of them really quickly.

I signed up for this service only to find they do not screen their people. Anyone can sign up even catfisher and scammer. I fell for one and was taken for a ride. I just got an email stating I signed an inappropriate text. Not sure how when you have to pay for the service in order to send a text. DO NOT sign up.

First the dating site is a scam. It tells you people viewed your account that really didn't, in turns it states you viewed accounts that you didn't. Then I stopped automatic renewal shortly into my 6 month subscription, so when the 6 months was up I wouldn't be able to communicate with other members. I went in to delete my account and photos and it recharged me another 6 month subscription and automatic renewal. I immediately contacted the company and state I DID NOT search profiles just went in to delete my account and was charged. They finally refunded my money but charged me a $3.99 processing fee. That is underhanded and deceptive. All I wanted to was remove my photos so they could not use them.

I have been a paid member 2 times in the past, so I know as to what I speak. First - read these other reviews. They are being 100% truthful. When you put up your profile and pictures, etc (and BEFORE) you have paid - you will get COUNTLESS views, flirts, messages, etc. Then you decide to pay and find out these are from people FAR AWAY. I mean 1,000's of miles away. Also you will soon learn most HAVE TO BE FAKE because their brief description says the EXACT SAME THING. Yes, there will be a handful of local members who are real people but 90% of these are unpaid members so you can't contact them anyway. Also most of these local "members" are old profiles by people who have not signed on in years. I can think of nothing more sinister and evil than to prey on a person who wants to find love, companionship, a friend or whatever...

I was often matched with the same people repeatedly even though I had dismissed them. I was matched with individuals ten years older than the age range I had chosen. I was matched with several people whom I had blocked. A number of potential matches were just profiles of people who no longer were members. I was matched with several obviously fake profiles or catfish playing games and scamming users. There were repeated technical issues, but no tech support. Customer service is useless. The service also tricks users by including one deadline before renewal, but then shutting down the user profile or continuing it by charging a higher fee all without notice. I have traded emails with so-called support and received repeated generic responses that achieved no resolution. The company obviously is used more to make money from desperate people than to provide a legitimate service.

I was tricked into joining for 6 months. The site has all ages, not 50 and older. You get the same matches EVERY DAY, the men are disgusting! All that shows up for me, are men hundreds and hundreds of miles away. This is the scum of the scum men. Don’t use this site!!

First thing that you should do is stop the auto billing. Mind you, once you've done this you get inundated with sign up, special deal (LOL). This site adds a link to match.com, go figure! This site also does not police who signs on and there are a lot of scam attempts from ladies who will ask you to send them an email, very irritating. Certainly not what I had anticipated.

In trying to stop my automatic renewal ending 5 months from now, somehow I have been charged another $45. For another renewal, now I have 325 days of a subscription. I wish I could get a refund for now, instead of however they did this. Called credit card company they have opened a dispute. Writing congressman next. Companies like this should be investigated.

I have never experienced so many scammers as I have on this site. Almost every few days my profile was compromised. I got so upset I removed my profile about 8 days into a one month pay period. I would not recommend this site to anyone except scammers.

This service is appalling. Nearly every contact has no picture and/or is from another state. The number of local contacts can be counted on one hand and I live in the tri-state area. The site is also riddled with young men looking for hookups. I cannot believe I actually thought this might lead to some dates. Complete garbage.

I've been on Our Time about 1.5 years. Each time my account comes up for renewal my views are manipulated going from 10-15 per day to over 50! As soon as I renew, views go right back to a normal amount. Now messages also seem to be manipulated. I receive notices from my email provider that I have mail on Our Time which is normally accurate but this week the mail was not there which has happened before. A fellow I liked messaging who told me he enjoyed our correspondence also disappeared from site with no explanation. Views have dwindled to less than 4 per day despite new photos that draw many views and messages on other sites. My subscription isn't due to expire until February and I won't be renewing. Can't help but think their employees get bored and manipulate the service they're supposed to be providing. Has anyone else had similar experiences?

I felt the ads are misleading... I was under the impression I was only being charged for 1 month, I never received a receipt, etc saying. After being on the site for a few weeks I checked my account and much to my surprise I was charged for 6 months!! After speaking to their customer service about this issue, and asking to speak to the account mgr, which they would not, they WILL NOT REFUND anything to my satisfaction! And NO the results were not good as well. It seemed the only messages I received were their 'auto-generated' messages... I DO NOT RECOMMEND THIS SITE!

From DAY 1 when answering a "potential" match my OT account was compromised. My first match asked for my email right off the bat to... as he claimed... would make it easier to correspond. Although reluctant to comply we emailed back & forth a few times until he decided NOT to reply back. Shortly after I began receiving Spam emails from those claiming to be members... asking to click for more pic and in doing so I was transported to a site asking for billing info. Becoming suspicious I called OT & found out that their security experts were "already aware." They closed my account already explaining why I couldn't LOG ON.

I became a member on October 2, 2017 by submitting Credit card data. Within a week I was sure this was not for me. I have been trying to cancel my membership effective at the end of my month paid dues on November 2, 2017. I have been unable to get to the correct site to cancel. When I try a known site, such as, ourtime.com, the message gets diverted to one of their sites used to relay so-called information. Can anyone provide me with the proper contact point to cancel?

While using the site I saw numerous postings of people that had been hacked. Then it happened to me. I called 4 times trying to get straight. It became obvious that they only had you change your password and they were incapable of helping you to get that done. Finally told them to cancel the account. I still getting messages. All they could do was hem and has. I also sent copies of 2 emails that I received that I felt were hacking potential. They never bother to respond to me.

I enrolled with OurTime with the intention of finding correspondence and potential dates. The site lures you in with a $19.99 one-month subscription, but then bills you for a 6 month one, and I have no way of redacting it. Every single person I've corresponded with through the site has attempted to scam me, or has lied about his circumstances. I know that the site itself has no way of controlling that, but it speaks to the type of person who uses it. Buyer beware.

I've been on dating sites periodically for several years. Yes, it's a crapshoot to find one that meets your needs and fulfills your expectations- especially online. But OurTime claims to be a dating site for "50 and over". Yet, as a male, you will be bombarded by phishing accounts from such gems as "Shelly, 25, Venice, California" or "Bambi, 35, Wheeling, West Virginia"- accompanied by photos of girls 5 to 10 years younger and profiles that state "Bambi has yet to complete her profile". And that's after you're suckered into buying a "premium" membership for $19.95 only to find you're also billed for another $119.95 (the discounted rate) for six months of additional misery.

The first time I signed on was in late 2014. I signed up for 6 months. I really didn't meet or have any responses until the very end. That's when I met the love of my life. He was not a scammer, and really was all of that and more. Unfortunately after a little over a year he called off our engagement.

I tried the OurTime dating site. I was very disappointed in the quality of the site. I am a female looking to meet a man. This is a 50+ dating website. I was getting potential matches that were women and young men. I entered criteria of the person I was hoping to meet, and the matches that I was being sent on a daily basis were not all within that criteria. When I decided to cancel the account, I was told that there was no chance of a refund, no chance of escalating to management, and that I should continue to "enjoy" the website for the remainder of the time I had previously paid for. I do not recommend OurTime at all to anyone! Never again!

After a week, my profile pictures started to become so magnified that I couldn't see anything but the grainy top of a head or a drooping eye. I would also get notices that I had 4 flirts or 6 flirts and I would open the site and there wouldn't be any flirts. I also indicated that I was interested in ** and ** men, but I got everything including women. I never got one response from anyone I messaged. So when I called for a refund I was told over and over that they couldn't give me a refund because I had already used the site. When I asked them, "Why I should pay for a dating site where I couldn't even see the men available for dating," they still insisted they couldn't give me a refund. By the way I called the tech department twice and they said they would fix the problem, but obviously they didn't. They said they would stop my automatic renewal for me, but no refund. Don't go near this site.

Beware of all the sites that end with PeopleMeet. They are all pretty much the same as far as how they work. BBPeopleMeet, OurTime and numerous others. This review is of OurTime. If you do pay for a membership make sure to go into your profile and remove the auto-renewal. That is another way they get you. If you really want to try the site only sign up for a month. Because in my opinion that time frame you usually see the very few that are real. These sites are FULL of inactive accounts. Also beware of fakes. If it looks too good to be true it usually is. I have flirts from women that are way younger than me and almost look like models. I am not saying I am ugly by any means but come on... Really? Good luck to everyone.

I have joined Ourtime twice. You think I would have learned the first time. I didn't and did go back for more. I will try to be brief and outline my complaints. I think the one that I hate the most is when Ourtime sends you flirts from men who don't even know the flirt has been sent. Ourtime often will do this when your membership expires and they want to make it look like you are receiving mail so you'll join again. Of course you can't open mail unless you pay. You can join for free but it does you no good because you can't contact anyone. So it looks like they have so many members, but they really don't. Ourtime will send you matches who are all over the country and any age even though you have stated your preferences for men who are closer and within a certain age range.

This bogus site is not worth a dime. Twice my profile's been wiped out, and a customer service 'rep' told me last, that use of the term "e.g." is not allowed, as so many people would not know what it meant. So anyone on this site who DOESN'T know what that means is NOT the kind of person I'd be interested in anyway! The whole thing's a total crock.

I originally joined OurTime about a year or so ago. I got very little interest from others, maybe a small handful of "likes" and a couple messages. I decided to leave the site, but, right after I did, I got a couple "favorites, flirts and messages", and felt compelled to lay down my hard-earned cash for another 6 months. The timing was odd, but I couldn't pass up the chance to look into who was suddenly messaging me. Of course, those did not pan out. Fast forward another 6 months with only a small number of contacts (emails, flirts), so I decided to leave again. Lo and behold, after cancelling my paid membership, I was suddenly SWAMPED with flirts, favorites, emails, likes and more. I got 20x more of contacts in two weeks than I had in the entire previous 6 months. As of last count, I had 15 new flirts, 14 favorites, 30 messages and 345 profile visits, all in just two weeks. Suddenly I was Channing Tatum!

Incredibly deceptive site. I totally agree with the rest of the negative complaints for OurTime.com. Most of the time is spent getting rid of scammers. When I did finally meet someone I liked and we exchanged a couple messages, they shut my account down for no reason, and cannot get back in touch with her. I called and they said it was because I was using a VPN (private network). SO WHAT? VPN's are used by many people to protect their identity on the internet. What this means is OurTime is more interested in SPYING on you, rather than provide a legitimate dating site. AVOID OURTIME for your own protection.

I tried to sign up for one month only but somehow I was charged for 6 months. I emailed Our Time but it was impossible to reverse the charges for 5 months. I was given the run around so didn't think it was worth the fight. I then kept getting flirts and emails from the states when I am in Ontario, Canada. I once again emailed OurTime and was told that they only look at your interests and not the location. Even though I have said in my profile "Don't bother contacting me if you're not within driving distance" I'm still getting flirts and messages from Texas, California, BC, etc so in my opinion, a BIG SCAM! Don't waste your money on this site.

I first joined last year and was very disappointed of the results; basically lots of scammers and my profile was hacked several times. I cancelled my subscription before the expiration date. That is how bad was my experienced. Then last month, I got an offer for 50% and tried once more. Then, one day I checked my profile and it was gone and was replaced with a generic. I called and reached a call center in Cebu, Philippines. I specifically asked to speak with the Supervisor on duty to tell me the reason why profile was taken down.

First of all, it cost me $121 for 6 months. I cannot look through this site freely, because constant advertisements that pop out every 2 sec, without option to remove them. I paid my money for NOT to watch advertisements, but find somebody to spent my life with. It is very disturbing and annoying. I plan to cancel my membership. Waste of my time.

I set up a profile but hadn't even completed it when I was notified my birth date had been changed as I requested. I called as I pulled up my account to find my pic was off my profile and a younger woman was there. She had talked with nearly 50 men talking trash. I was really upset. Nothing changed though they said on phone they reset my account. I'm writing our state attorney general's office. Not a reputable site!!!

Ladies beware of Ourtime.com dating site! I was scammed by a man for 1850.00. It almost cost me my job and my home! I just want women to know; if he sounds too good to be true he probably is a scam artist.

OurTime.com is so so. Many of the write-ups sound similar in wording, phrasing, etc. Also the matches many times don't match for example out of the requested age range, smokers when only non-smokers wanted, not in the requested area.

I received an email stating that personal information had been changed - when I attempted to log in, the password had also been changed and all attempts to reset blocked!! The Help line is NOT 24 hours so someone had access to my information for over 12 hours... SCARY...

I became a member of OurTime.com and the very first guy that contacted me was a scam! Just wanted money or iTunes cards. Once I stopped communicating he had someone else contact me via hangouts and email and told me he was in a car accident and was going to die if I did not send $1200. Needless to say, I did not. Took awhile, but they finally stopped communicating. Also, because all of the guys who contacted me would never meet, I sent out AT LEAST 25 messages to guys in my general area asking them to just meet so I could see if the web site was real. Not one responded!!! This is a FAKE website. Save your money!!!

Don't feel most of the people, both men and women, at the OurTime.com site are completely honest. They only write the positive stuff and nothing negative... We all have faults so why not put some of the smaller ones out there? I love to sing with the radio, but I know I am a terrible singer. I put that out there.

I could not delete previously read messages and could not contact OurTime.com by email or phone to make corrections. Setting up profile preferences are useless as they are ignored. The service is overpriced, over 70.00 for 6 months, and this with a discount I obtained. Most of the online dating websites are bad, this one is one of the worse.

Years ago I was on Match.com. After over 8 years I decided to try again. This time with OurTime.com. They have terrible customer service. I signed up and was on the site, to discover immediately my password was used for my "handle" name. I was shocked. I called and had them change it, and they warned me I could only do this twice (even though not my error). They had zero answers as to why my password was used. 10 days later I uploaded additional photos. The photos were kept in pending stage for 5 days.

On the dating sites, they tell you to be honest and say thank you, I do not think we are a match. Wow, just try it. You get called bad names, put-downs about your photos, etc. What is with these supposedly adult men who act like middle school kids? Where is their maturity to understand that not all women will want to go out with them. If one cannot take rejection, then they should not be on Internet dating sites. Such rude men. And so many men want someone 20 years younger. Show me a healthy 30 year old who wants a 50 year old when she can get a great 30 year old. Either she wants a daddy or a bank account, in my opinion. I have seen it over and over. They get their bank account, and then find a 30 year old stud to help them enjoy their new found treasure. Yes, I have seen that happen.

Site is the PITS. The first two months on OurTime I got hit with so many scammers. I found myself constantly having to refresh the page. Constant Pop Ups for them wanting me to renew membership. It got so bad I withdrew my profile. Portions of my profile disappeared when I went to reactivate. I had to call customer service. After being back for 4 weeks same crap. One day I got faved by three different profiles, but the pictures were of the same woman. WTF! Called to complain. Did not get anywhere. Turns out I was on the phone with another Country. When I asked to speak with someone from USA couldn't be done. Don't waste your MONEY.

I have been on this site for couple of years now with minor success. When I logged on last week to cancel my membership, I noticed it had automatically renewed THE DAY BEFORE. ONE day before my email. When I called their customer service line, no-one answered because it was after hours by 45 minutes. I then emailed them asking to cancel and refund my $90. I never heard from them. I called and finally was able to speak with a customer service rep. Explained the situation. She told me she did see my email and put me on hold. After a few minutes she told there was nothing she could or would do, and that I still had to pay the $90 for ONE day. WARNING! If you do want to use this site, pay very close attention to your renewal date, because even ONE day will cost you. This company does not care about its customers.

It was difficult to get on the site, I had to change my password 3 times. Today, I uploaded my head shot, which I had done specifically for these dating sites and they rejected it. It's clear and no one else is in the shot. I have it up on 4 other sites no problem. Does anyone know how I can get my money back?!?

I have just signed back in over 2 years ago. The issue that people are writing has happened to me. The company send the emails to you to get you to stay on. Their system won't give you matches in the location you asked for. It will give you match all over the states. You have to go into system and search for your area. It generates so many out of your location you spend more time deleting them. When I left a while ago I was sent emails over email I finally had to block their site because it would not stop. I had my profile hacked. I honestly believe it is company doing this because they're trying to sent flirts, emails, etc to your account. They mess up your account by accident. It not only this company Match does same this. I believe they are the same company because exact same this happen on Match less than 24 hours of our time issues. I also signed up for promotion and should be charge next month same price. They are charging me full price.

I created a free account. There was nothing stating that you can not have any type of contact with other members, send or receive messages as well as not being able to see who is sending messages and flirts. Within the first 2 weeks my notifications indicated I had over 130 messages and even more flirts. 3 separate times I wrote on my profile that I could not respond to my messages because I was not a paid member and that I would consider it in the near future. OurTime kept deleting the statement. That should have been my first warning. I went ahead and subscribed for 1 month with automatic renewal. The number of interests declined dramatically, and my matches were not within the ages and ethnicity I selected. The few I responded to all replied back with a phone number or personal email to contact them, so I'm assuming they were scams.

I had not been on the site for approximately months. Before, I went off the site, I deleted all flirts. When I checked 6 months later, I was advised I had 71 messages. Yet, when I reviewed there were at least 3 flirts from the same person as well as old flirts that I previously deleted. Obviously this was to entice me into signing up again. I also viewed a profile and received an alert that the person saved me as a favorite. The person was supposedly online and available to chat. I sent a message with no response. I sent a regular message and still no response. Clearly this was a fake profile. The person had all the attributes that I indicated I was looking for in my profile. The person even lived in the same town. Well the men in my town would hardly date interracially so this was the first red flag. This site will not get any more money from me.

SAVE your money and don't fall for this SCAM!!!

As soon as I cancelled my subscription, I immediately started to receive an unbelievable number of views, flirts, and messages (over 30 views the day after I cancelled, and at least 20+ every day thereafter). In the 2 years I had been a member, I had never received this high a volume. These were automatically generated responses, and about 90% had no pictures in their profiles. It is hard to believe that this kind of behavior from a company is even legal... Unbelievable.

I wanted a 1-month subscription to OurTime date site, but accidentally clicked on the 6-month subscription at 5:00 pm on June 21, 2017. I tried immediately calling customer service, but lo and behold they close at 5:00 pm, central standard time. Um, no 24-hour customer service?? Ridiculous... I sent an e-mail to customer service and was told "Thank you for your email. I understand that you currently do not want to take advantage of our six month membership. Please keep in mind this package offers a great discount when compared to the monthly rate. Per our Terms and Conditions, we have a No Refund policy on all accounts. However, as a courtesy, I can offer you a partial refund for all but one month worth of service. Would you like me to process this refund of $50.86 for you? Please reply to this email so I may address your concern in a timely manner. I look forward to your reply."

I was a member of this site for 6 days before I got hacked! Do not accept email requests from so-called members. I received scanned letters from supposed interested men and then they used my information to hack my account. They also set me up on a couple of additional sites and charged me for them. They do not list their phone number on these sites and when you do get a hold of them they apologize. I finally got them to take down my site but would give no refund. Don't give these people your money - everyone on the site is a scam!

I cannot think of a single positive remark to make about this company. The "today's matches" which are sent are useless. For example, I am a non-smoker. I refuse to consider any potential match who smokes. This is a very basic, binary criteria. My matches come up repeatedly including smokers. I have contacted customer support after reviewing the FAQs. The response I received was a copy and paste of what was posted in the FAQs. I was advised that I should expand my criteria for more and better matches. Why? I was also told the feature of "today's matches" will provide better matches as I continue to rate the ones I am sent. Unfortunately after six months they are no better. I am completely dissatisfied. I'm sorry I spent the money. I feel sorry for anyone else who has spent money for their "services" as they aren't providing any.

It seems this website is profiting off advertisement and not delivering what they say. The website states people are online to chat, but once you go and start chatting, it shows the person offline, when the other page shows that same person online. They say woman are available to chat, when in fact they can't communicate via chat unless they are members. They don't advertise that part on their website. Furthermore, they are piggybacking off other dating sites for their information and profiles. Every time you click on any part of their web page it is switching to another page, thus creating more revenue from their advertisers. I probably can guess they generate all their revenue from advertising on their website. They are misleading the consumer into thinking they are actually going to meet someone, their profits are mostly based on advertisement alone. I would like to see their margins of advertisement vs members services. WHAT A SHAM!

I have been subscribed for 3 days, and already I am marking it as junk mail. Occasionally a nice real person comes up, but there are many fake messages, outright scams, repeated useless e-mails, and many people outside of my area. Pretty useless. Best to use eHarmony or Match.com.

OurTime uses models to lure men in. I had a subscription with OurTime that I hardly ever use because there are no one of interest. One day I had 4 alerts on my email that someone is interested in me, so I clicked on the message and it took me into their site and showed me this beautiful lady. I was like wow she is beautiful so I responded and with that she was gone from the site and my subscription was renewed. It's a scam that Match.com use as well. Men and women stay away from these sites. They are using models and spyware to steal our hard earned money and don't care about us. That was the last $29.95 at that time and they left my account in the negative. They don't care so please don't use their sites. If you take some time and read these reviews you will see similar things have happened to others all over, let our money be the last ones that they steal. Don't use OurTime!

I signed up for the non-renewable one month service with this dating site. After a while it was clear that profiles were looking the same and they were not real. Made one contact that answered and it was some guy that just thought it was a site like Tinder. Just wanted a booty call. Other than that one connection the rest were fake and it was a huge waste of money.

I signed up for only one month but they charged me for 6 months. I canceled the same day but they refuse to refund my money. When I went to their website to look up their refund policy it says that page is unavailable.

I signed on as a paying member (Paying 2 months in advance), thinking that by making a financial investment vs being a non-paying customer, it would make for a more positive experience... especially in the event I might need support from the service reps on the site. I could not have been any more wrong... Customer "Non-service" is what it should be called. I paid for a 2-month membership. The site itself is not the most user-friendly, but I hung in there, figuring I would get more familiar & comfortable with it... and that things would get better. I did become more familiar with it before too long.

I attempted to subscribe for 6 months, before I could get out of the page an additional subscription of 3.99 a month was added to my account. I was not able to cancel as fraud because I initiated the first transaction. However, very shortly thereafter I received a text from my bank that someone was attempting to fraudulently use my card. I canceled the card and had to spend the time to change all my auto-bills with merchants. I just opened my statement and there is another huge fraudulent charge on my account prior to me canceling my card.

I had signed up with OurTime in 2013, and then I got a job in Tokyo, Japan. I still tried to use the site, but my profile was mysteriously taken down because OurTime said they suspected it to be a fraudulent profile. When I returned to the States in October 2016, I set up a new profile, careful to decline auto renewal, and chose the 1 month membership option. When I stated in my profile that in the past I had not had as much as 1 connection on OurTime and not much luck in meeting females on OurTime that I was interested in, even though they had expressed interest in me first, my profile was deleted by OurTime. I also realized that if OurTime noticed that you had not logged in for a while, your inbox would be full of 'profile views', 'favorites', 'messages', etc.

This is not the site (OurTime.com) if you're wanting to find companionship or a romantic relationship. This is a Romantic Scam website. I wasn't on the site very long. Why? Most of the men on this site are vulgar. Messaging me their vulgar sexual fantasies. Less than 2 months on this site was enough for me, unfortunately I did not cancel or omit my credit card from my account and the automatic rollover took place. I immediately call my bank on the same day it was withdrawn and was still charged for the worst dating website (OURTIME.COM) for another year of subscription. That I will not be using. PEOPLE... do yourself a favor DO NOT use this website.

This is a scam. Don't waste your money. Profiles are fake. If you do not auto renew you will be flooded with views but look closely, they are simply profiles you've seen before and you may have rejected these individuals in person. Now with your not renewing these same rejected profiles are interested in you again. Fraud--Scam. Once they have credit card info it is nearly impossible to cancel. Had to cancel card and work with credit card company to block them. I believe many of the profiles are fake and most of the matches they send you are the wrong age and live several states away. Beware this is a terrible site and should be closed down. Write to the authorities as this site is horrible and is "stealing" money from people.

Beware! So many things wrong with this company. First, they fabricate a large percentage of so-called "profiles". If you read people's thoughts about themselves, their entire stories are identical, right down to the grammar and punctuation errors. Five identical words by two different people is assumed to be plagiarism. Here we have dozens of people all choosing identical entire paragraphs. Statistically impossible.

I joined OurTime.com and uploaded my photo with full description. I paid using PayPal. Being a wary customer, I copied photos of the 5 men I was interested in. They were supposedly local to me (Blacksburg, Virginia). I used Google Photo Search and came up with completely different identities for these men. They were as follows: an architect living in OK (same photo as is on his website), a politician in VA (married and never lived in Daleville where OurTime.com had him living), an army enlisted officer living in PA (this one was listed as a medical doctor, living in Roanoke, VA), an unidentifiable person sitting in his car, a married guy living in Alaska (also listed as having a doctorate, but his true identity said he was a tax preparer).

I have met some really nice gentlemen and have made many friends, but none have been a "match". I am not that fussy and am not looking for money, but it seems that the men who really interest me do not even respond to my flirts. I am 66 years old and am willing to date a couple years younger or up to 8 years older. I get many men in 50's and many in late 70's but very few in my age group. Those in my age group are either very unhealthy or very overweight. I am in good physical shape and want the same. It really seems like Tucson and surrounding area has no men for me. I am willing to travel to meet someone, but my disappointment at meeting out of town men has discouraged me from traveling too far anymore. Is my age group that difficult to match? I do wish there was more help available to help those of us looking for our last love.

I have been a member of OurTime several times over the last five years and have not even had a hint of success. The people on the site are rude, unresponsive and the site itself is poorly designed and operates very slowly. The fees OurTime charges are exorbitant and they look to get additional money from members by offering tokens to send gifts to other members. This dating site is way overrated and a waste of time and money. I will never visit it again and I do not recommend it.

I have been on this site for about 44 days off and on. 1st and foremost, this website is a hotspot for scammers, which I delete and report daily with absolutely no response from those running this site, which tells me that this whole thing is pretty much on autopilot?? Secondly, website is rigged with all kinds of traps & tricks to squeeze more money out of poor participating saps. Everything you click on is followed up by some request to charge your card and it is hard to turn off auto renewal without having to go through an ordeal, which means that this website is all about the money - not the people? Thus, I probably will NOT be renewing another 30 days.

I joined their dating service for only 1 month. In that time I got a few emails and a few ladies that viewed my profile (for the complete month I would say about a total of 40 view and about 5 messages) in which I replied and none contacted me back. So I did not renew my membership. THE DAY AFTER MY MEMBERSHIP ENDED I GOT 75 VIEWED ME request so far (next day after membership ran out LOL) AND SO FAR 9 NEW MESSAGES. LOL. More than when I was a member.

I tried joining OurTime over two years ago and have found it to be a total scam. After about six months and not meeting anyone I decided to cancel. After canceling I started getting all sorts of emails from them. They stated I had a ton of messages, so I should sign up so I could read them and if I rejoined they would give me a discounted price. (A discounted price that was supposed to roll over automatically and I would stay at that price as long as I continued) Sadly enough I did and as soon as I did those messages disappeared. Then every so often I would get a message in my inbox and when I tried to reply no one would reply back. After having this happened several times I realized that what they were doing was stringing me along.

I've been a member of OurTime twice; the first time was back in 2015. I think that with that first membership I was able to set my criteria for ethnicity, etc., but I wasn't able to do that this time so of course all the respondents to my profile were not what I was interested in. But what really ticks me off is that the week I canceled my auto-renewal, I got messages from a couple of decent guys and I was enjoying talking to them. I told them my membership expired at the end of the week, on 3/3/17. With one of them, the conversation progressed to the point I gave him my phone number. But the other guy didn't contact me again until the day my membership was supposed to expire. I logged into the site just fine that morning, though, so I responded to his message.

It appears someone from Germany hacked my OurTime account. When I called Customer Service, I was advised, no they cannot provide a temp password so I can log into my account to change the password. Even though they say they offer a non-breachable site, the fellow I spoke to wouldn't address that statement. They will refer me to someone who can fix the problem, for a one-time fee. No, they don't know what the fee is. I should delete my account. I will lose the rest of my paid up fee. How do I delete my account when I can't get into it lol.

Dating site has became a place for scammers with a terrible seductive charm to rob women out of their money. It was my first time ever on this site. Every men I met on this site were scammers. When they realized that I suspicious of them, they would delete their profile. One of them succeeded in lying about everything and rob me of about $10,000.00. They are always in a hurry to Facetime with you and then use their seductive charm on you. If you are not strong, they will be able to control you to do whatever they want. Some of them wants to marry you in a hurry and then kill you so they can take over your possessions. From my experience, I am very sure that most mysterious death and lost of women are as a result of all these scammers borrowing money from their girlfriend and then kill them to close the case.

I have used our time twice. On both occasions the site did not live up to its advertisements but then few things really do. Of course the site is a bit of a scam and their primary purpose is to get more money out of you but you really do need to sign up if you want to use the site. The only free site I have found is POF. Everyone else's offer of free is just a lure to get you to sign up. I did have some success on OurTime but I have found the site to be a bit unscrupulous in its dealings (sending messages and flirts on your behalf, loading your inbox with messages that disappear when you signup and of course the auto renewal) and you have to be aware and realistic when you join. I think it works better if you are in a larger population center.

The first few days after using the free trial service I was contacted by three men two of which tried to scam money from me. The other bluntly ask for sex but that is not my biggest complaint. When my free subscription was over I opted not to renew it. Someone went into my account and renewed my subscription without my permission. They in turn charge me with a six months subscription. I immediately called them and told them that I do not want this account no longer that I did not renew my subscription. The gentleman told me that they would not charge my account as it was cancelled the same day. They charged my account anyway. I've been trying to get ahold of them. They sent me a letter stating that I subscribed when I did not. I asked for my money back. They refused. These people are not on the up-and-up. I would advise anyone not to use this dating site.

A real person never responds to your problem. I put in my age group up to 60 and they kept matching me with men in their late 70's. When I brought this to their attention on more than one occasion, I received an automated response that had nothing to do with my complaint. They do not address your concern or even match you with what you are looking for, they just pick people randomly. Then about a little over a week before my month expires as I would not sign up for automatic renewal as this site is a shame, I am not even able to get on the site, so I paid for a month and only received maybe 3 weeks of the service. I will dispute the bill as I paid for a month, I should have access for a month. Do not do it.

I signed up for 6 months on OurTime and was locked out of my profile after 2 weeks. My profile was hacked after two weeks sending embarrassing pictures and misinformation to my contacts on the site. I called OurTime who was less than helpful telling me they would reactivate my account and get it back online. Why would I want to get back on the same account that has already been hacked and has distributed misinformation under my profile? I indicated that I absolutely do not want to reopen this account or any other account with OurTime. They were also not willing to refund any portion of the $80 I paid. Buyer beware. This site has big problems and may cause more harm to your reputation than it's worth.

Two months and I have met no one. Everyone who flirts or messages me is either: 1) in another state (my profile says LOCALS ONLY), 2) does not know how to smile or take an attractive picture, or upload a picture at all, 3) is not my type -- it's all in my profile, or 4) says something rather suggestive. Most of the profiles are lame and don't tell you anything about these guys.

I joined in August--they led me to believe that it was $3 a month. I paid for the full year. Checked my credit card statement this month and I was automatically charged again. When I called, they said that I agreed to the automatic renewal program, and the $111 I paid was only for 6 months. I am not that desperate. They refused to give me a credit for the 6 mos I have been charged for $107. It is a racket - I am appalled and feel scammed and deceived. Don't fall for their scam.

I signed on two days ago, paid them for a month's membership, COULD NOT RETRIEVE EMAILS SENT TO ME AND COULD NOT SEND ANY, or see people who are interested in me. I contacted them to try to find out why, and received a ton of advice for techy things that I could not understand, could not get any real help. Done with this crap.

I joined on 1/4/17, Its only been one day and realized what a big ripoff this site is, very few choices to pick from then the ones you do talk with try to scam you out of money. Plus most of the men on the site are very scary looking. Tried to cancel due that I haven't been on here very long and already realized what a huge ripoff it is. Sad thing the company rips you, doesn't help when the people you choose to talk with are doing the same thing. Please do not use this site.

Our time has too many scam artist, their m.o. is very long bios with way too much information. I received no less than 10 messages like this. They "like" your profile and may even chat with you. Their command of the English vernacular is horrible. When you take something like this seriously and realize, that these companies are connected to a myriad of other online dating sites, it's just deplorable. The company was contacted and did not remove these profiles. I believe that they are the ones who sponsor these bogus and fake profiles. You've been warned.

Had a one month subscription. Canceled after two weeks for many reasons... 1. No live phone help. 2. Tons of fake profiles contact you that clearly do not even look at the profile you make for yourself. Many pretty faces 30 years my younger even though my profile stated I would ignore such types. 3. At first many contacted me but then they taper off. One or two would act interested as if to lead you on in chat so you don't cancel. 4. The profiles you look at never check yours back at all so they are all ghost just to waste your time and lead you on, I think. Profile changes in text and added photos are instantly "approved" leading me further to assume they don't even have real employees. 5. The interface is horrible. It kept telling me I have mail or flirts when nothing was there.

I became a member of OurTime in June 2016. I'm 67 years old, slender, attractive, well educated and articulate. I have common, ordinary interests and hobbies. I'm not radical about anything. I think I'm an average retired, financially stable pretty lady. My beef: This site is matching me up with absolute losers. I've only meet one guy in all this time who's in reasonably good health. My profile says that that is important to me, but the sicker a guy is the more likely he'll contact me. I found a scammer (I didn't lose any money but wasted several weeks texting with him). One guy told me on the third date that if we continue to date and become involved that he expected me to give him control of my assets. No, really, I'm serious, that's what he actually said. I've been stood up twice for that first/introductory meeting.

This was my first time ever on a dating site. I had no idea these "Romance Scams" existed. I met Raffaello ** in Dec., 2014. His profile said he was a widowed Veterinarian from Texas. He was raising his 16 year old son and caring for his elderly mother (one hell of a guy!!). He gave me his TX cell phone # and an email address. Six months later, I discover he is an illegal Nigerian living in Malaysia. When I contacted Romance Scams.org & gave his info, they "immediately" identified him as a Nigerian scammer. (Pics & profile totally fake). Why doesn't the dating site have this capability? The site requests that I myself identify scammers and report it to them. They need to identify and protect me from these predators!!

I've used a few different dating sites and this one by far is the worse. I initially signed up for it for 3 months but they renewed my account for 6 more months even after I didn't want it. Every time you sign on you get a pop-up box that says they will give you a discount if you sign up longer but they charged my card even though I said no. But overall it's a huge scam. I've had it now for several months and still haven't had a face to face date. I've only communicated with two women on the site. I think they just use google photos off the internet and make up accounts. I constantly will go to the site and it will indicate I have a message. But when I click on my message box it will say I have no messages. So overall, do not use it. There are plenty of other sites where you can meet someone! Pass this along to all who are considering this site.

I signed for one month, later found I had been charged for six, plus "other" fees. Amount charged did not correspond to advertised price. Probably hidden in fine print. Totally unresponsive customer service, they don't want to hear from you and make it hard/impossible. They set you up for automatic renewal and you have to find and opt out. And then their candidate pool is terrible, boring, generic, and pathetic. They seem to randomly assign "suggested" possibilities from far away. Look elsewhere, I urge you.

I have been on the website for a total of 13 days. The experience can be summed up in one word: scam. My request for a refund of the unused portion of my 3 month subscription was met with a resounding "no" due to the fact that I had actually used the site! Customer service 1st hung up on me, then, on the 3rd call, tried to talk over me the entire time and refused to allow me to speak with a supervisor. My advice: don't do it, stay away from "OurTime".

Received a flirt from a female supposedly in my local area. We started to communicate online through the dating site. After a couple of days she told me her membership was up and I shared my personal email address with her. Then she informed me she was out of the country visiting her mother and would return in two weeks. She started requesting more pictures and some very personal information. I did not send any more pictures because I noticed a lot of spelling and grammar errors. I asked her some very pointed questions about our local area based on my suspicion. The communications suddenly stopped. I strongly feel I was being hacked for more personal information which I didn't give. I have been on numerous dating sites in the last three years and found that you have to be extremely careful and have not been very successful in finding anyone worth trusting or dating in the long run.

Joined about a month ago. Within a few minutes I had several emails in my end box. So I opted to purchase a membership. Later, I felt it was a bait and switch. I had received emails stating someone had flirted or view my profile. Only paid members can communicate. Even if a paid member contacted a non-paid member. It would appear maybe 1 in 15 are actually paid. Then I started getting bombarded with fake/scammers. One day alone, I received 23 oversea scams. I email customer service. Response was nowhere related to questions asked. Makes me wonder if it was even read by a real person. Bottom line, stay away. Site is really shady.

For two years in a row (even though I cancelled after this happened last year) Our Time has renewed my account to the tune of about $85.00 - with no notice that it was going to happen. Although they inundate you with their so-called matches, they can't send an email that they're going to take money out of your account! I used an expletive with the idiot customer service person. I never do that. Don't join their matches - ugh.

If you want to date the dregs of society, this is the online dating site for you! Fortunately I only signed up for one month. I wish I can get my money back. Most of the men on this site are substandard, high school or technical school education, live in trailers, ride Harleys, wear cheap gold chains, white beater shirts... you get the idea. Occasionally you get someone decent but they are one in a million and you're probably not compatible with them. Don't waste your money on this junk online dating site.

I have had 4 scammers since I have been enrolled only about 2 weeks. I was told I could report a concern by clicking on the concern icon on every profile but there is nowhere on any profile to report it. I have sent 3 emails telling them of the problem but absolutely no response. For the last 8 hrs or more I have been unable to use the site accurately because one person's profile is like frozen on top of the main screen and I cannot get it removed. Therefore I can only see half of my messages and can only write and even see just a little of what I write on the screen. I have tried and tried to contact someone but there is no one to contact. When you do what they tell you there is no one to tell you how to navigate on this site.

I've been on OurTime since August. The service from OurTime and People Media the parent company is horrible. No less than 4 times in 3 months they shut my account off because "it appears to be compromised". They don't me tell that they are doing it. I find out when I try to log in. You get a message to reactivate your account. When you try to do that you get a message to call. When you call them you get a call center that appears to be in the Philippines. They are hard to understand and take excruciatingly long to resolve anything.

I had my account set up at my old work email address which was ** and I no longer work there. I paid for six months and was able to get into my account from my personal email address which is **. Now when I do log on, it is asking me to join again. What I am asking is if you could update this and put my personal email address as my main, and give me the access.

The smartest way to deal with OurTime dot com is to use a virtual credit card number. You can set the maximum charge amount and also stop them from setting your account to automatically renew. At the very bottom of their newly-revised "contract" is this:

I joined December 26th and before I could proceed (view matches) I had to joining, I elected to try for 1 month at a total of $33.95. I deleted the account December 28 as it wasn't what I was hoping for. I called the number listed asking to be prorated and they refused so I am out of the monies. Plus the majority of so called matches were not nothing in common just reading the profiles. Hate this site.

I signed up because I saw several women from my area in the intro list. I was pleased to see that OurTime wanted to know my preferences: female, nonsmoking, age 50-65, within 50 miles. OurTime gives an updated list of 11 people who are supposed to your preferences. They were at least all female (except the 2 guys who "favorited" me???). It was not unusual to find a smoker on the list, they were aged anywhere from 41 to 76, and were from up to 200 miles away. I guess so they could always list 11 people. I do not recommend OurTime as an online dating site.

Stay away from this site. They suck. No Customer Service. Very restrictive hours of communication. Ask for a refund. If they refuse go to your credit card company and dispute, and report fraud. Your account is hacked very quickly.

Last night I joined Our Time for $111, and I sent one message. I immediately knew this was the wrong thing for me. I don't want to date. I have a guy I see already. So as soon as I could, this morning called early.. I can not get my money back. As I see others have had this problem also. If I had bought something anywhere, could have gotten a refund. I am terribly disappointed in not only your site but also your service.

Joined end of November, 4-5 days into, account could not be accessed, customer NO-service suspected HACKING, reset my account and I used for another few days before it happened AGAIN. Customer NO-service said it was experiencing HACKING problems, to open another account with new info! If they're that vulnerable, WHY would I want another account? Requested a refund, prorated if they wanted to do that... I was denied, again said I should open another account. Asked to speak to supervisor, was told he was "busy" with something else. I signed up 11/22/16, my account unavailable majority of time until today 12/5/16. This is unacceptable business practice, then to DENY a refund! DO NOT USE THIS SERVICE, in my opinion the worst case of fraudulent business behavior and NO customer service once you've paid for it!

Cancellation policy - Join one day and canceled within 24 hours and they still charged my account. Then sent a message with a link to a cancellation site for OurTime. Did that, paid another fee, they charged my account, did nothing and only said that Our Time could not refund my fee. They said I had the account open too long, it was less than 24 hours. Total sham.

I have to update my previous review. The site had charged 111 dollars US to my PayPal act (3 months) when I thought I was just renewing for a month. There was no button to confirm what I was actually purchasing. I did succeed in contacting them (Peoplemedia, for those interested) by phone. The wait time was short and the agent was polite. He agreed to refund me 2 of the 3 months however he refused to refund the amount in full because I had sent one message. I replied that I'd just sent the message to a contact advising her that I was leaving the side, and had only used it for about a minute. I threatened to pursue them through PayPal.

Have not even seen the "free browsing" which is all I was interested in--to see what kind of people were on it. I set up an account and it would not let me upload a photo. It stopped there and didn't even ask me to join up or give a payment (which I was not planning to do anyway). Thank God I checked ratings and feedback on this GREAT Consumer Affairs site. Wow, www.OurTime.com is a giant scam obviously. I need to quickly delete my account in case they use it for advertising or try to bill me for something. Yikes!

I became a member on OurTime 11/12/16 for one month. When I looked at my bank statement they had charged my first 3 months. When I called the girl said it was my fault because I probably don't hit the 1 month button. So they would not refund my money. When I joined I did so because it said 50% off. Price was 14.98. I got charged 34.49 plus 3.99 plus 15.99. She that was the correct charge and would not refund my money. Very bad site. DO NOT JOIN.

This site continues to have problems--and yet I've been told on several occasions that they are working to improve the site. I requested a membership at one level and they up the level (without my consent) and charged me the higher fee. Emails from them indicated I had selected the higher level, and they could not make adjustments. However they have told me that they will refund my fee in total (especially after I told them that this constitutes "Bait & Switch" and is highly illegal).

I joined last week and had to contact company as they put the one month subscription through as several months instead of just one. I was very hesitant to join but thought it time to try to find a friend or companion to do things with. I started getting flirts and emails right away but noticed that they all wanted my email address immediately before even trying to contact me through the site. The pictures of the gentlemen were nice and seemed professionally done but it was the wording in the messages that showed me that they were not writing the way they should have been. The same wording was used and they explained that their subscription was up and they couldn't renew so they wanted me to email them so "we could get to know together better"!

This is a scam!! They have taken money out of my account without permission. I will be going to my bank and reporting fraud and speaking to an attorney about filing a class action suit. Having read reviews from others, I believe there is a case for this.

Luckily I only paid for one month. Company has a long disclaimer form and hard to see refund policy, but can point to the appropriate location to find the "no refund policy. Members are allowed to continue the use of the site through its full term." Why would anyone want to continue with fake pictures, men lying about their age? Daily connections offered by the company show the same men everyday which shows low participation on the dating site. OurTime is affiliated with Match.com and the same men show up on Our Time. Better quality of men are shown when one is ready to cancel subscription. I believe the company holds back the better quality of men before the membership expires to keep you as a subscriber. Not only is it the above two dating sites mentioned, but many others. Just realize "free membership" has a catch.

OurTime.com has automatic renewals on your subscription to their service and states they match you with appropriate subscribers. However, like many others who have reviewed them, they spike your inbox with profiles when your subscription is close to ending or cancelled as a ploy to get you to renew. If you don't pay, you cannot contact anyone on the site. Once I renewed, they started sending profiles of people not even remotely close to my profile preferences...not close to the city I live in and as much as 25 years younger than the age range I stated as my preference.

As a newly divorced woman from a 33 year marriage, I was not looking for another lifetime mate but a friend, companion, or just someone to talk to. Girlfriends and family are great but sometimes you just want to be held or cuddled. Again not a sex partner just friend. Well as time went by I met several nice men, had some 1 and only dates, and some dated several times. When I had responses I didn't care for and blocked those were respected. And the 2 names I turned in were handled immediately.

I joined OurTime.com a year ago. After a short period of time I realized that some of the "potentials" didn't actually exist and 2 of them insulted me. My prescription was for 60 days and on my account page I said NO to automatic renewal (I have a copy of this page which includes payment history). Since my subscription ended after 60 days I thought that was that. However, I found out that every 3 months OurTime was charging me 69.00 for renewal even though it clearly indicated I said 'no' to automatic renewal. The reason I missed them is because I shop at a store with a similar name. I believe they charge your account every 3 months in the hopes that you will overlook it. Reading the many, many complaints about OurTime has me wondering why they are still in business. I told OurTime at their site customer service that I wanted a full refund but of course never heard back.

Without authorization, they charged my credit card $98.84. I confirmed with them my account to be closed 6 months ago. It caused my credit card to overdraft. **, I can barely make ends meet and then they ruin my credit. DO NOT USE THIS SITE. TERRIBLE, not trustworthy. Never went on one date. They are idiots!!!