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OurTime is an online dating community for people in their 50s, 60s and older. Through the app, users can customize their profiles, browse curated matches and exchange messages. The app is compatible with Android, iPhone (iOS 11.0 or later), iPad and iPod touch.

Pros
  • Curated matches
  • 14-day trial subscription
  • Easy-to-use app interface
Cons
  • App contains ads
  • Pricey monthly subscriptions

Helpful Reviews

Salem, OR
Verified purchase
Customer service is a joke. I upgraded, paid the fee. The charge cleared my bank and showed up on my credit card statement. No upgrade appeared on my account and all previous acti...

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Birmingham, Alabama
Verified purchase
I went out on a lot of dates with this site. Everyone was nice and polite for the most part… I didn't meet my true love on a dating site but I was only on it for 6 months. My expe...

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What is OurTime?

OurTime is an online dating app designed for singles over the age of 50. The app is simple to use and easy to understand. Features include liking individual profiles, sending messages to other singles and a “Discovery” feature to find other singles.

How does OurTime work?

To use OurTime, you must download the app (from the App Store or Google Play) and set up an account. You have the opportunity to customize a dating profile and match criteria. You can also update the profile and match settings at any time.

Once your account is activated, you can browse matches or find other singles using the “Discover” feed. The app also sends a personalized daily list of matches that meet your criteria. Simply tap the heart to indicate you’re interested in a person’s profile.

With a paid subscription, you can send messages to other members and see when your messages have been read. With the free version, you can reply to messages if the paid subscriber assumes the cost.

OurTime costs

OurTime dating site costs range from free to $89.99. Initial access to premium features costs $37.99. In most states, discounted rates are available for long-term subscriptions:

  • One-month premium subscription: $29.99
  • Three-month premium subscription: $69.99
  • Six-month subscription: $89.99

OurTime FAQ

What does the red dot mean on OurTime?
The red dot indicates that you are offline and not available to take messages. If you’d like to change this setting, click the red dot and you will be back online.
What does the green dot mean on OurTime?
The green dot means that you are online and able to receive messages. If you would like to go offline and not answer messages, hit the green dot once.
Is OurTime free?
Yes, you can download OurTime for free. However, most of the best features are considered premium and require you to pay. You can purchase an upgrade without a subscription but at a higher price. If you’d like to upgrade your membership for more features, you must pay an additional monthly fee.
How much is OurTime per month?
Depending on the subscription plan you choose, expect to pay between $15 and $30 per month for OurTime premium features. For example, you have the option to purchase one month of premium features for $29.99, or you can purchase six months of premium features for $89.99.
Who owns OurTime dating service?
OurTime is currently owned by People Media. The same company owns several other dating websites, including Match.com, BlackPeopleMeet.com and SingleParentMeet.com.

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Is OurTime a good dating site?

OurTime is good — for those who get matches. Some reviewers complain about possible scammers, but that happens with almost every dating site. OurTime dating services are ideal if you’re looking for a no-nonsense approach to mature online dating. The app lets users join for free, but many of the most desirable features are only available with paid subscriptions, which can get pricey. To learn more, read OurTime dating site reviews below.

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    Reviewed May 28, 2026

    My profile was hacked by someone from "Caracas, Venezuela", as I was informed by Our Time. As a result my profile was taken down and I was blocked from seeing anything. I was told to file an "Appeal" to my "Ban" from the site. Even though I did nothing wrong, I filed an appeal and was told I could create a new profile, but had to use a new email address. I did that but still couldn't create a new profile since the system wouldn't accept my cell phone number. I have submitted two "appeals" to the ban, been told someone would get back in touch with me in 24-48 hours. Still nothing. Never got to speak with a live person, and have had numerous emails, always from someone different, to no avail. I'm done with this site! Done with online dating - too many scammers and fake profiles.

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    Reviewed May 26, 2026

    Strange situation... I set up my profile and got experience on the OurTime.com site, was able to Search and see who Viewed me (blurred until I "joined"). Then I paid for my Membership to get access to the Who Viewed Me, etc. Once I paid, I could NOT see who Viewed me and could No Longer Search at all (I could see who Liked me though)... Site would just say Something Went Wrong... After weeks of sending Customer Service details they requested about the issue, their last request was for me to log on to Match.com and a few other things... I am not a Member of Match.com and responded that to them... Also I said Again, I am not on the App, I am on a Desktop, linked directly to the OurTime site. From May 8th to the 23rd patiently trying, I finally said that if OurTime could not give me the basics I paid for, to cancel and give a refund.

    This morning, I logged on and YAY, the Who Viewed me Worked and the Search Worked! WOW. Finally fixed! Later, at 9am today 5/26/26, OurTime emailed and said we canceled you as per your request... I went back to Our Time and Views were blurred out and Search worked but Likes was blurred out now..... So this is the experience of a Real Single, paying their Membership fee... and what is worse is that the Online Dating Scammers seem to have no issues joining and communicating to us, pretending to be Singles... Ugghhh.... I do not know if OurTime processed a Refund, but what a headache...

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      Punctuality & Speed

      Reviewed May 26, 2026

      Way too many scammers, low life Catfishers on this site. No monitoring. Sad that so many people want to separate you from your money. After a while you can tell pretty fast tho. If they have more than 2 pictures and don't look like the same person it's a scammer. If they don't reveal much info, probably a scammer.

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      Reviewed May 22, 2026

      In my profile I stated that I was interested in meeting someone who lived in a 50 mile radius of me. Their recommendations typically included people who lived thousands of miles away. Most of the people that I liked never replied to me or even acknowledged me. I get the impression that many of their users are subscribed to the free service that allows them to view member profiles, but does not allow them to reply.

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      Customer Service

      Reviewed May 22, 2026

      All I get are men from out of state. I don’t get many local men. Then the scammers. Oh my God! I have been bombarded!,,, They all start the same way. "You are so beautiful. My subscription is almost up. Can I have your email address?"

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      Reviewed May 18, 2026

      This site is a scam. I was hacked...People with other names sending messages on my profile. When I notified customer service by email, they banned me and didn't notify me. After several emails requesting help as I was unable to log in, I eventually got a notice I was banned to suspicious activity and I needed to appeal. I paid for 6 months, can't sign up for a new account and use the remainder of my time. I am told no refunds on cancelled account even though I didn't cancel...I was banned. I will fight this just to save other people from going through the same thing. I noticed on your Consumer Affairs reviews they have 4 5*, 8 4*, 3 2*, 58 2* and 769 1*. The 1*s are all similar to my problems. They need to be shut down!

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      Reviewed May 16, 2026

      OurTime has frozen my access to use it! It has an unsecure site.

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      PriceRefunds & Payouts

      Reviewed May 8, 2026

      I thought I was going to be charged one month, but they charged a full year which I couldn't afford. When I requested a refund, they ignored me so I filed a dispute with my bank. Then, they removed my access to my account, and when I asked AGAIN for a refund, they said they would but never did. I'm on a fixed income and $89.95 is a lot of money to me. I wouldn't recommend them, they are underhanded and sneaky.

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      Customer ServiceTimeliness

      Reviewed May 7, 2026

      Terrible experience! Difficulty logging in and creating account. Profile is incomplete and was then blocked, but cannot find out why. After several attempts at obtaining info and getting AI responses, I asked for my account to be deleted. No response. "Customer service" is non existent.

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      Reviewed May 5, 2026

      I feel this site baits you in so they can gather people's information and sell it out for marketing purposes. While I agree, paid for services have value but OurTime isn't willing to prove theirs. You are required to buy a package of likes, super likes, matches, comments.... whatever. Much like buying tickets at the fair so you can get on the rides. There is nothing to confirm if someone is real or a fake profile. (In fact, all the images are blurred out of the people interested in you.....who does that?)

      If you're charging, then that should be a given. I don't have faith in this dating service and haven't enjoyed my first impressions and then some. I felt baited in by their advertisement. If I knew there was a pay to play fee, I would not have entered my information. Upfront fees for services should be advertised first from any site or service before you enter all your personal and private information. I really believe they do it this way so they can gather people's information to sell off to companies for marketing.

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      OurTime.com Company Information

      Company Name:
      OurTime.com
      Year Founded:
      2004
      City:
      Dallas
      State/Province:
      TX
      Country:
      United States
      Website:
      ourtime.com