OurTime Reviews

I've been a member of this site, Match.com, POF, OKCupid, eHarmony,and Zoosk and this site is among the worst of them. I won't go through all the functionality of the site because if you get on the site it's fairly straight forward. It doesn't cost anything to put up a profile but the only thing you can do for free is send a "flirt" message.

I have been a member for less than a month. I've been scammed over 15 times. Please be warned this site is dangerous. Do not use this site. I repeat: DO NOT USE THIS SITE! Unless you want to be scammed. You won't get a refund either. They're HACKERS! BEWARE!

Signing up is free. Viewing people is free. Contacting them isn't. However, if someone who is NOT a member likes your profile or picture, it automatically generates a "message" to you. Trouble is - you can't read it without signing up. And if you DO sign up and send a message, unless THEY are a member, all they will get is an ever increasing number in the "inbox" icon. They can't see it. I guess the upside is that if you send a message and don't get a response, there is a 50/50 chance that they aren't a member and not that they don't like you.

I am a victim of identity theft that is coming from www.ourtime.com. I contacted the website and was told there was nothing they could do. One of the women that was scammed contacted them and was told the same thing. The scammer is using a fake copy of my driver's license with wrong state seal and pictures. BEWARE of **. This is the scammer.

6 months into my sentence here but getting out soon. Lots of fake profiles, web traffic is so slow some conversations take place over days. The list of daily matches really means throw a match on them. Desperate grannies, methheads, some too homely to comprehend. Worth your subscription just to realize how fortunate you are to be by yourself. It's all Hardtimes here lads, yes indeed. Hardtimes.

I almost fell for the scams but just caught myself before I gave him the benefit of the doubt. Unfortunately a lot of people here are mistaking a response from somebody who actually has a bot program with a fake account. It’s so easy to Pkg a fake account by snagging someone else’s pics from Facebook or some other social network then catfish until you contact them. They usually have terrible grammar or never answer your specific questions is a telltale sign. Telling you their wife/husband just died or this is the last day before their account is closed or they have an emergency won’t you please help? Vultures preying on your search for a partner and urging you to click on a link to hack your computer or android. OurTime isn’t the only one, Tinder and others have the same issues. Just be aware, cautious and never ever click on that link!

I would never use this site...scammers galore. Complained to customer service with no satisfaction and when I cancelled my subscription was told I wouldn't be given any type of refund even though I only used 1 month of a 6 month subscription. Don't use OurTime.com if you are actually looking for a mate...You won't find anyone here and the customer service won't help you. They gladly take your money but even if you aren't satisfied with the service, they won't give you anything back. I hated everything about my experience and advise anyone to stay away!!

1st time trying a dating site. Will never do it again! OurTime disregards the search criteria you enter & send non matching people as well as many scammers trying to get you. I am not into women which are fat, old, ugly, other race, atheist & other attributes & in no way match my search entered. I complained via email; twice & they "accidentally" deleted my profile within 30 minutes! (which I spent a lot of time with details entering!) In addition Ourtime keeps sending the same "deleted" matches over & over each day. What a waste of time & money!

Avoid this site. Scammers are galore. Mug shots, not glam shots hit your inbox by the hundreds in less than 24 hours; extremely bad. You may have read online that this is a good site for individuals over 50 years of age. Do not believe it and tell your friends! Stay clear.

First of all I joined this site on Sunday the 28th of July and shut it down Tuesday the 30th. I felt like I was on a ** site with the quality of men that were emailing me. My pictures are clean and pure and I thoroughly explain my moral values and my faith. Of course I emailed customer service and told them that the quality of people they attract to their site is questionable. I only exchanged one or two emails and nothing was remotely attracting. All I received back was "No Refund Policy". I wish that I could put a zero because this site doesn't even deserve a one.

Save your money. If you want only vague information on potential connections you have very few options on how to get connected. I ask for a total refund for less than a week of $34.00 for one month and as usual it's they can't do it. But when I sign up everything was free. Until I wanted to chat. Oh another thing you are on auto renew when you sign up. These people are crooks. Be careful. This site is the scammers. I think the scammers and scammers are in cahoots with each other. And us honest decent people are the victims.

The site creates fake connections to get you subscribe. It’s a dishonest business model. Don’t waste your time and money. It advertises to help people over 50. However it’s actually shamefully exploiting this age group.

This paper won’t give me my money back. I signed up two days ago and right away I realize this is a terrible site so I asked for my money back two days later and they won’t give it to me. This is the worst song I’ve ever seen. I couldn’t operate it. In other words it’s useless to me totally useless. I only had it two days. I want my $81 plus back. How could this be? Maybe it was in the fine print but I don’t have glasses. I’m 71 years old just looking for a partner and they rip me off $81 for two days. That’s all two days two days two days. I want my money back but I’m never gonna give up until I get it back. If I can have to write to them. Put it on Internet. Put it on Facebook. I will. Please help me please. I need the money.

Most of the "matches" selected were at distances out of my area; some from thousands of miles away. Many weren't even close to being a "match". I was hacked 3 times and my picture and profile were altered by the hacker. I asked for a refund and was refused. Money at my billing rate was taken from my bank account after I cancelled my subscription. It was difficult to contact someone to get that money returned. They returned the money, but then money was taken from my account by an affiliated site for LDS Singles. I had never even heard of the site until I saw the withdrawal on my bank statement. They returned that money too. I quit back in February and I've received hundreds email messages since then and continue to receive them. I wouldn't register on their site if it was free and I advise others to look elsewhere.

Over a one year using this website these are the experiences that I have found using this website. The first thing that I realized was when I was receiving letters, the letters that were given to me were very generic and standard letters. They don't write an original letter based on what you see from the profile. Many women here are using what we call "cat fishing" meaning that they fish you with sexy greetings or inappropriate conversation for adults. When you talk to them after their SMS chat program, most girls will respond with another question after you ask them a question. Some other folks will just keep writing your questions like an icebreaker conversation when you never texted them in the first place.

Luckily I only signed up for a month because it is by far the worst dating site ever. Save your money!! The site is full of scammers and fake profiles. The men look like they were all recently released from mental hospitals or prisons. Nobody wants to have a normal conversation, they just "view" your profile day after day and send silly "flirts". I ended up reporting over 30 profiles for scamming. All the "matches" they send you are from all over the country even though you enter your ZIP code, etc. And I thought other sites were a joke! I wouldn't stay on "OurTime" if it was free...

Signed up on OurTime for 1 month. Immediately got 2 scammers. Also getting matches for members over 1000 miles away. Sent messages to numerous women, never got any responses. Don't waste your time or money. Stay away.

I thought I got a good deal and given the advertising I thought it would be a positive experience. That was false. Hundreds of profiles later, hundreds of messages and not more than a couple of returned messages and one like. I know that women thing that 80% of men are less than average, but this is just a waste of time. Most of the profiles are from non-paying members. I can’t reiterate enough. Stay away from this site. It’s loaded with scammers and it’s very difficult if not impossible to get a refund. Steer clear!!!

$100 for a 6-month subscription is too much to spend for what you get. In four months, nothing that looked quality popped up in my inbox, and most of those that did arrive were silly little "pokes" without any real message attached. Additionally, the interface for this website is not easy to figure out. If you want to hide your profile, it's apparently not possible. Likewise, it's very difficult to figure out how to cancel your account once you become disillusioned with the whole process. Even after I canceled my membership, my profile was visible to members, so I had to take the time to remove all photos and text that I had placed on my profile.

If there was a minus star rating that is what I would give it. Meeting a relatively attractive, single, intelligent male will not happen. Better luck in the grocery aisles! Full of fakes and scammers. This site should be banned.

This site allows for too many fake profiles and scammers. Especially if you are a man that is educated with apparent financial stability. And the search mode with filters allows in persons that don't fit the filter you requested! I complained several times to customer service with my legitimate concerns. I got back the usual corporate brush-off, with no real solutions. I DO NOT RECOMMEND THIS SITE AT ALL!

This company is listed as one of the best dating sites in Canada. I tried it and within 24 hours was incredibly disappointed in the ease of the app as well as the format. I contacted customer care within 24 hours to ask for a refund because I wasn’t happy and they refused based on my interaction with other profiles. I had refused every single suggestion they had sent my way. The app isn’t user friendly. Don’t give them your money, it’s not worth it. You won’t get what you paid for and they are not professional enough to stand by their product.

I signed up for 30 days. Thank God I only signed up for 30 days! I immediately made sure to cancel automatic billing. The site isn't user friendly. Most of the guys are gnarly at best. Not many to pick from and it doesn't filter for distance so I get men from CA and NY contacting me.

OurTime has been a joke. They don’t give many options that may match you, the filter isn’t great, I said I was looking for people of a certain race and I kept getting other races. Guys that did connect would text to chat then take 2-3 days to respond. I am sorry but if you are seriously looking for a mate how do you just check in every 2-3 days. One guy I finally starting chatting with ended up standing me up. Another guy I was chatting with would not respond back for a day or two then said he’s working a lot?? Then why are you looking for a relationship. This has just been a waste of my money and after 1 month I’m done. Don’t waste your money. These are either people hired to talk to you to keep you coming and staying and spending another month or men that really aren’t serious.

I have tried Our time.com/senior people meet. This makes my Third time. In the past I really never had any problems. I meet a few nice ladies from time to time. However this last time April 2019 I could not pay for some reason with any card type payment. My cards are all good so I assumed it was a problem on their end. I really wanted to try this again and at their 65% offer I felt is was worth sending them a check. They cash my check in May and everything looked good. I was communicating with people my own age. In June my subscription was over. So much for so much for a 6 month Subscription. First I sent them a email and the following day Today I called them.

I signed on for a 6 mo period, was contacted by several people right off, all scammers. Within 4 days my account was hacked & over 500 messages were sent out & the next morning my credit card company sent me a fraud alert. Hackers were able to get my credit card & had made $2,000 in charges overnight. The company did not want to close my account & I had to argue to get a refund... Still waiting for confirmation that it went through. They keep telling me they are working on security but I am still getting messages that lead me to a page asking for my info even though my account is supposed to be closed.

Useless from the point of view of meeting someone. Many of the men have one of several oft repeated one sentence self-descriptions, so they are either fake or by people so unable to communicate they must pick a pre-written one. The very few genuine or interesting men seem to get so many replies that they get lost in the confusion, as some have said to me. A few have been perverts, whom you can block. Business wise, you constantly receive pop-up pleas to upgrade, even when trying to do things like cancel automatic renewal. When I apparently accidentally accepted one of these, my complaint went unanswered until I appealed to the credit card company, at which point Ourtime did take the trouble to fight the credit company refund to me.

I signed up March 2019. The site is not free as it claims it is. You have to pay before you can even look at any messages or anything. After I paid I realized I could not even write a profile and mostly what I received were winks or flirts and any actual messages were rare and fake. I wrote and asked for a refund and was told I could not get a refund because it was paid through Apple. Then I tried to use my account and I could not log in. I wrote again and was told they had deleted and blocked my account which I had paid for and had basically not even used. They told me via email that they could not disclose even to me the reason they blocked and deleted my account. DO NOT USE THIS SITE, IT IS A SCAM!!

I registered for OurTime and I paid for the 6 months discount subscription, I have tried uploading my pictures and it has been pending approval for almost 2 weeks. Contacted the support but I am getting pre-determined response, not even talking to anyone. I have been widowed for 4 years and i work on an oil rig, I thought I would meet someone special who I could spend my retirement life with. Please chat me on Hangout ** or email me.

Every attractive lady that has contacted me on this site so far has been a scammer. They send you their phone # and say, "Text me" which is against the rules, this way the scammer gets your # and hacks your info or they send you their email address. Same thing. Now they have yours when you contact them. First they'll ask you where you're from, where you grew up but not answer similar questions. Plus the site matches you up with people who don't come anywhere near to your preferences, age, race, distance and so unattractive. Total rip off. Save your money.

Previously, I emailed OurTime to cancel my subscription. OurTime did not cancel and billed me for another $107.94. When I saw that PayPal had paid them, I called OurTime. I was told my account would be canceled and I would receive a refund back to my Paypal account. Well, one week later the money had not been returned to me. I kept receiving notifications from OurTime that members wanted to get in contact with me. Whenever I tried to respond, I would always receive a pop-up saying, "reactivate" my account and receive a 255 discount.

I am trying go delete matches, especially out of the area matches. I hit the delete button and the unwanted matches do not disappear. How do I delete them permanently? I have tried this multiple times and no luck. I do not want to see the same names turn up.

I recently created an online profile for OurTime. Since you can't see or read message unless you're a paid member, when I saw the (onsite) offer of a subscription at 65% off regular price I was ready to subscribe. That's where the problem started. No matter how I tried to process my subscription payment, I received the message that my payment was declined. I tried subscribing through the app as well as on the desktop site. I tried PayPal, 2 different credit cards and a bank card. Despite the fact that all of these payment methods had ample funds from which to draw at, the result was the same - payment declined. On 05/28, I used the customer contact email offered on the site. Today is 05/30 and I still haven't gotten a response.

I joined this site. I have nothing but outstate scammers.. I report and block them to have them come back in a day with same picture but different name and whereabouts.. I want a refund.. Also they keep sending messages to men I did not send one to? I.e. like I enjoyed their profile? I never send one.. I truly think this site needs to be investigated by police. Never again..

I did receive some nice comments from others on the site, which was good for my confidence. I was nervous about dating because I haven't dated since my divorce 7 years ago. I went on two okay dates that didn't work out. My number one complaint is there are a ton of scammers on the site. They ask for your email and then email from a fake OurTime email, so that you will click on their links. Long story short a scammer hacked into my account and messaged a ton of people, changed my profile, and put a pic of a 25 year old. I called OurTime and they helped me reset it. However the scammer already said crazy things to others and a lot people blocked my profile! Then the next day someone was using my account again. I had to call and cancel the account and they refused to refund me even though I had just paid for another month.

I joined this site expecting to find mature 50+ singles as myself. I initially received many notices that men were reviewing my profile. Within the first evening I received 4 contacts that were scammers. All 4 were instantly in love with me planning our lives together and all 4 immediately wanting my offsite contact information from me because they were not renewing their subscription or were viewing from a friend's subscription that was leaving the site as well. One put himself in a position that he desperately needed $7000 in CASH mailed to him at a USA address that would forward it to him in the UEA where he was "stuck". Now that I have stated in my profile not to contact me unless you are real and not a scammer I'm not receiving anything but viewers. Don't bother.

After going through the long process of putting all of my information, photos and summary as well as the 'matching' criteria I found that I couldn't not communicate with anyone at all unless I paid for a subscription. I don't want to waste my money and time to find out that all of the messages (there were quite a few) that were coming in were from people who I wouldn't have chosen. At least there should be a preview of the person sending the message. That might be worth paying a fee for.

I signed up 15/08 to the site and thought it would be an honest place since it's for mature people. I was emailed by this man on the site. He's a longstanding member of Match as well & I suspect many other sites. He & I exchanged a few emails where he started using what looked like common interests & other tactics in order to gain trust & a bond. He bored me what I thought was his life story. Even revealing details that should remain private about his family. He confessed he had been 'stalking' me & many other exotic women (black hair, dark olive skin, dark eyes) every day for months. His type- Asian, middle-Eastern, Mediterranean, mixed race or **.

One of the most unattractive men members of any date site. I was getting tons of flirts AKA time wasters and rarely an email. If I would respond to the email the message would pop up "Member no longer found." SCAM. Or respond and never hear or see the profile that the initially contacted me. Now that I no longer want to renew my membership I'm receiving messages from the site admin that I have about 28 messages waiting and that I should renew to be able to read the messages. BARELY ANY MESSAGES IN 6 MO. AND NOW 2 DAYS AFTER EXPIRATION OF MY MEMBERSHIP I RECEIVED 28 MESSAGES. LIES, LIES. Save your money and treat yourself to a lunch instead of giving your money to these criminals.

I have just looked at this website as I was considering joining with 30% discount. I went on the home page and it said I had had 164 profile views, had some winks and one person had me as a favourite. INCREDIBLE! I had no profile on there, and my glance at the website could not have conjured up ANY attention. I will spend my money elsewhere thank you. This should never be allowed as so dishonest.

I had taken a break from the OurTime dating site. When I logged on to what I thought was an inactive profile there were flirts from people who I had previously contacted and from whom I had not received a reply. I contacted them and they indicated they had not contacted me. This is fraud!!!! I am trying to find a site to have them investigated.

I enrolled 3/25 to the site because of my age and thought it would be a honest place since it's for mature people. I started talking to this man on the site and sooner we exchange phone numbers and started texting each other; the man sounded a well educated man and said he was an architect. He even sent me pictures of some work he was going to work on, it seemed like it was real but I very precarious about because it sounded too good to be true.

After reviewing the PATHETIC CHOICES I removed my info and selected unsubscribe. No matches considered any of my preferences. For example I wrote I dislike facial hair. OurTime continues sending emails and to harassing me.

I had belonged to this site about a year ago and met some people on it, but when I came back to it to rejoin this spring of 2019 it had changed for the worse. I went to update my profile, and it had a 200 character (not word) limit. This means about 2 sentences to a field. How am I supposed to say anything meaningful in 2 sentences? They are treating it like a dating app, not a paid for dating site. For the prices they charge, you should be able write at least 2 short paragraphs per field. Even the free dating sites let you write enough about yourself. I contacted them about this, and got a form letter back that had nothing to do with what I asked. Who do they think is going to pay a lot of money to just upload a few pictures? I for one am not interested in that kind of a shallow dating site.

After seeing this on TV I thought it might be a real service - WRONG, it's just another dating scam. Within days of signing up and finding out the only way to get & receive messages was via a paid subscription I was being locked out. Technical support reset my passwords and finally told me my account had been hacked - after they supposedly "cleaned up" my account I still was not able to consistently log in.

Joined this. Was approached by scammers. Three of which were using same story. Was approached by 2 people with same story. They were leaving site but had shown my profile to a friend who fell in love with it. The friend was not on site but they gave me their email address. Asked me to contact it. I fell for the first one but when I reviewed the same lead from another person I knew it was a scam.

The people who run this site, "People Media " are vengeful and retaliatory. Complained about overcharge and next thing my account was sabotaged, became irregular and neither received nor was able to send views and messages. If that was not enough harassment and revenge, I then started to receive multiple harassing and annoying phone calls from telephone numbers not valid in the USA, which I believe may have been made from People Media outside the USA and thus untraceable by US AUTHORITIES, and in furtherance of OurTime's vengeful, petty retribution.

Many profiles are fake or non paying members who are unable to read messages sent to them. Profiles not screened (“”...always looking for a "quickie","I like kinky"). After messaging back and forth, the profile disappears or the member is looking for finance support. OurTime is owned by IAC, which also owns Match and Chemistry.com. Shame on them! This site should be called "scam.com".

I have sent several messages to women and found them to be fake profiles. Chatted with one for 3 days and then she disappeared, another fake. Had a lady friend put her profile on the site, after trying to send her messages for several days that she never got she deleted her profile. That was a month ago and the site is still showing her as an active member, even shows her online for chat. LOL. Fake scammers are another problem. Don't waste your time and money. As for me I'll go back to the old way of trying to meet someone.

Like others, I should have read reviews prior to prepaying a 6-mo subscription. I signed up Jan 2019 and immediately continued to get locked out of my account with no email notification from OurTime. About a month into it, and being asked to reset my password again (I believe I had already set it up 4 times by this point), I reached out to their customer service. They acknowledged they were locking me out and provided a few possibilities, none of which applied to my usage. This is likely an authentication issue on their end they need to fix.

I joined this site just 1 week ago and am now a victim of hackers scammers. I am dealing with a real mess. I called the customer service number provided 886-320-0106 and it is a non-working number. I want my profile removed and my money back but can't find the actual working number to call them.

I would never have joined this site had I known it is a scam. People wanted me to go to other sites to review their profile there and it would have required I join that site. This is a typical scam from out of the United States!

Being an older person, I decided to try this site rather than more general sites like Match. It was highly touted in some online articles. But what a waste! There is no way to control searches, so I only get matched with people who live within a few miles of me but have nothing in common. From a few minutes after I signed up, I was bombarded with scam messages, many with exactly the same text, and most of them from distant locations. After a day, I canceled my membership. Unfortunately, there does not seem to be a way to get a refund. I don't know if there is a connection, but then I got locked out of my account and had to change my password! I would rate this ZERO STARS if I could -- a total waste of time and money.

I was contacted immediately but all were from far away with fake profiles. The harassment started about two days into my paying for the account. One person would not take no for an answer. I would suggest for personal safety you do not go on this site.

I made the mistake of buying a discounted 6 months membership. I wish I read all review before purchase. I got suspicious when I got a lots of admires just in 20 minutes even now that my profile has only one picture. All the messages was robot standard messages and all from a distance! No one from my area! They push you to give them your phone number or email, which I refuse but two "admires" sent me phone number and email. I google phone number, and it was fake. Red flag! I immediately cancel my subscription and call 833-223-8873 to cancel my membership, remove my profile and get money back, but guess who was operator? Yeah, Indian guy who refuse to connect me with supervisor and hang up on me. Unbelievable. I contact with my credit card company and file a complaint. I am going to file a complaint with Texas Attorney General. This company needs to be shut down and monitored by the FCC and FTC.

The site is a pain to use. Not very user friendly. Most of the profiles are inactive, fake or non-paying members who can't read what you write. You can't search by distance, only "near me" which might be a few hundred miles away if you live in places like Colorado where there are so few women on dating sites. Marketing material is very misleading. I've yet to find a button to hide my profile as I don't want to use the site at the moment, so that means that unsuspecting women will be sending emails with no idea that I won't be reading them. Then again, I've yet to ever receive an email, so who knows. I suspect there are very few legitimate users.

I truly dislike these folks. Besides the usual excessive marketing emails and teasers that lead you to think you can actually accomplish something without paying, in my judgment, they over-monitor profiles. To be specific, I noticed a couple of profiles where the user name was actually the person's whole name. I was tired of my user name, so I changed it to a combination of my first and middle name, as all one word, but not my last name. They changed it to just my first name. Then I made a collage of pictures that showed my face and reflected my interests. They deleted that photo because they said it was trademark infringement. (I used a similar collage about 2 years ago on a number of other sites and there was never such an issue.) There is no appeal as they said in their message to me that they do not respond to emails. There is zero likelihood that I would ever pay them for anything.

Forums are better. I have not found the website very easy to use and I feel like there are many false profiles, however I am not good with technology so I am giving them the benefit of the doubt. I am a widowed 65 year old working at my Deli shop and I just wanted to find a place to meet new people. It seems there are many like-minded people on this site, however, so feel free to call me at ** if you are in the PA area.

The site is horrible. You cannot set limiting parameters, such as you cannot limit who sees your profile by locality or other selections. It just all around is user-UNfriendly, they won't grant refunds, and I actually think it has a tendency to draw really sleazy people. Use any other dating site but this one.

Robot messages. Same stories for different people. Pictures are too good to be true. No locals responded, but plenty of out of state responses. Stay away from OurTime.com. Added note: As of 3/25 unable to find site. Hopefully it’s gone. Don’t believe the commercials on TV.

First of all, I subscribed in this website a week ago, I uploaded my photo and after one week it wasn't approved yet, so I contacted the customer service and I asked why? They sent me an automatic message to tell me how I upload a photo then I resent another mail and finally someone answered me and apologized for this error, it was a system error he said, then I decided to upgrade my membership to enable me messaging someone that interested me, so I paid, and then I sent message, but no answer and I discovered that this person was not connected to the site since September 2018.

95% or more of the profiles you see are fraudulent in some way. Most pictures are of people who are not actual members. IF YOU QUIT BE SURE TO TAKE YOUR PROFILE DOWN FIRST, they do not do that. Look for awhile and you will find the EXACT same wording in profiles for many different people. These are generated by the company to make it look like they have millions of users. Then you have the scammers who will not ask for money right away, but eventually do. And of course the sex creeps that should really be on Ashley Madison paying for what they want rather than stalking seniors. Read all of the reviews about billing practices and refund refusals This company needs to be shut down and/or monitored by the FTC and FCC. I urge everyone with an issue to write to the Texas Attorney General and file a complaint. I am contemplating a class action lawsuit but don't know how to contact everyone.

Take what these reviews say seriously. Are there more bad ones than good? If I could give a ZERO I would. Because once you are involved and finished putting your wallet away, and you've got your profile complete...you're going to have to pay attention to these messages you get. In the case of a woman making a profile, expect to be called ’Dear’, be told you are beautiful, and realize how a majority of responses to your messages are created by bots (robots). In the case you do happen to talk to a real human...be satisfied with the fact that it may not even be an adult your talking to! I do not think an adult would be sending you flowers and fruit baskets, then asking for money. OF COURSE, the money is to travel to meet you! OF COURSE it will be PAID BACK TO YOU. It is not true, and it should be shut down.

The Our Time site sent out on its own over 200 "Likes" and letters from my profile page. They sent me men and women even though my settings said "Women" only. They generated fake contacts sent to me from other profiles. I determined this at first based on the identical response coming from the profile to which I had responded. Later it became even more obvious when the "Canned" greeting of "I like your profile..." arrived several times from several profiles, even though I had eliminated everything from my profile and there was nothing to like. I requested a refund and was denied. I asked for a Supervisor and was denied and was told if I repeated my request for a Supervisor, I would be disconnected.

Can someone please tell these people how to take pictures so you are the MOST attractive and not the least attractive!! Also pictures of your dog, car, house don’t count! Am I dating them! Don’t cut your head off in the photo, don’t look down into the camera, don’t wear an old bathrobe, don’t leave any empty portrait and say “ask me for my photo!” If you didn’t take the effort to post it then why am I taking the effort to ask you??? Some of them look like they should be lying on a slab in Turner & Porter!! Really?? Don’t waste your money!! If this is our choice when we get older then may God have mercy on our souls!! Try Match much better!!

Shortly after subscribing my credit card was fraudulently used. I had to have my credit card shut down because of the fraud and I can't say for sure that this site is connected... It's the only time this has happened and it happened shortly after joining. I read another review where something similar but worse happened to another person's credit card that was connected to this dating site. Due to the rest of my experience with this site I do believe most of what other people are saying in their reviews is accurate.

I'm having a blast on this site, although my Hubby has passed on, I wanted to fill a void by meeting new friends, so far so good. Like I said you can block or delete which I am famous for, so use your head and don't get caught in a trap, don't be hungry, and don't be stupid.

I'm suspicious about the safety of this online dating thing. Why do I get so many "likes", etc from out of state? The only "match" I responded to lives 400 miles from me... I pointed that out and his response was he can "fly in any time", but when I asked him questions about himself (nothing too intrusive, just what you would want to know for someone you just met) he responded in a generic way, overly idealized, and did not answer the questions. Red Flag! Forget it... I discontinued the account though of course I have to let it run the full month in advance I paid for...

Immediately after joining I was besieged with initial contacts from women. When I responded they tried to redirect me to someone else with a sob story and an email. Other contacts said they hadn't contacted me and were hacked. I was denied a refund and I fear about my financial information being available to hackers and scammers. After reporting incidents to OurTime those profiles are still online.

The OurTime dating site is just as much of a hoax as the other dating sites. Sixteen days after joining, paying, doing my profile and trying 5 times a day to use the site with NO success I realized they must not of activate my acct. After 3 days of trying to get into my acct to cancel my subscription I got angry enough, googled a phone number for OurTime and called them. I was notified that they had immediately cancelled my subscription right after approving my profile & pics (16 days ago), because they "thought" someone was trying to hack into my acct. My question was, so Why wasn't I notified??? They already had my credit care #, email address AND phone #. So they didn't even try any excuses as to why I wasn't even informed.

Joined 3 months ago. Wrote an initial profile and went to edit and improve it, but it locked me out and wouldn't accept my password. It took a week to get them to correct it. Now, I went to change some items on my profile and it erased my profile and limits what you can write to 200 characters (that's 2 short lines). They said they're having problems with the website and don't know if or when they'll correct it. THIS WEBSITE SUCKS. MATCH IS MUCH BETTER.

I went on the dating site "OurTime.com" to meet someone to go to dinner with, not to get married. Immediately I had lots of admirers, but from faraway states! This is very annoying to say the least. The site sends out "flirts" automatically to people I would never in a million years want to communicate with, some real trolls. Then there's the "please contact my friend who saw your profile and pic and thinks you are the most beautiful thing, but doesn't want to go on a dating website". All very suspicious. All this in 10 short days. So I deleted my profile and of course had paid for 30 days. Many, many liars and scammers and you can't tell if anyone is really a real person. This was a serious disappointment.

Many profiles are their own employees sending messages to keep clients engaged until your subscription is up. They then will keep you from being able to log in to cancel or make changes until they automatically charge to your acct. Refuse refunds. Refuse to let you speak to a supervisor. Claim they do not know who their CEO is. This site is a scam!

I made the mistake of buying a discounted 6 month membership. 3 months in I was uneasy because two members had been aggressive and highly sex sexual. The site is supposed to be for over 50 year olds who are looking for a relationship. They profess to screen profile postings. Last week I scrolled through the "Views". Only a photo and first line of profile is shown. This man wrote, "I ** every day". That was only sentence on post. I immediately reported him, and called customer service dept to request refund of 3 months future membership. She denied, refused to connect me with supervisor. This company should never be allowed to be in business. They are scamming customers.

I was on site for 6 weeks and was sent messages from 6 individuals with sad stories about friends of theirs who saw my profile but too afraid to use site and I should contact them offline and then they ask for money. I reported it each time and told them their site was unsafe and to warn other users but they just keep saying to report it and they will investigate. They have no control of their site and they are the biggest scammers of all taking people's money and trying to sell more services. They do NOT care about their customers on this that site and it is very dangerous as I had messages from users who said they didn't send them and their profile was hacked. Please stay away from this dangerous site.

There are a lot of fake profiles on there or you cannot make specific information as to what you want and what type of person and what area. They just put a whole bunch of junk up their whole bunch of faces that you never recommend it to anybody to do anything with it. I’m just out of a long-term relationship last year and so I was looking for early conversation in the conversation. Save your money.

I have no recall of ever signing up to OurTime or giving them any personal details. However, I was seduced by an offer of one month's membership. I was told that unless I cancelled, the full amount would be taken from my account the following month. As I was going to be away then, I cancelled prior to that date. I was asked for my password but as I don't recall ever having given one -if I had, I'd have asked for it to be 'remembered'- I couldn't provide it, subsequently, another month has been charged to my account and thus far I can find no way of exiting the site.

Site assumes you never delete messages. If you delete a message, you will not see it in history. You need to keep your inbox cluttered with junk just because you may want to review the old message. Any IT problem - you are on your own. IT does not have estimated time to correct the issue and would not contact you with the updates on a ticket. OurTime service is not worth the money they charge. You pay fees for no service and pure site's features.

Tried this dating site out and nothing but problems, dating out of race I don't do and they can't understand that, pop up trying to get your money, this site sucks. They are scammers too. Went on one date, her pic is nothing like what she looks like, she kept asking me how the dating site is going, she said just keep trying on the dating site, I think she was a plant. She is gone now, and many others don't respond and they want more money. Don't even give them any of your money, I said 30 miles from house and they are sending me ladies 1000 miles away, the site sucks bad, real bad. Worst one of them all.

Recently I try to sign in as a new member. and I was facing the problem to access to it. and I have been trying to log in for amply of times. I am telling myself I will find another day to try to sign up again. Due to my busy schedule I dont have the time as this moment of time. I was very shocked that many of you was having the bad experience of ourTime.com. and I am very sorry. Online dating can end up like a disaster. I can truly comprehend. Currently I join few dating website. It turn up African scammers. Yes I was being trained to handle to this kind of scammers ever since 2010 till now. Don't reveal your bank or credit card detail to them then you will be fine.

This site is full of fake profiles. Women who act like they are interested but aren't really. Was contacted by a local "Lady", we chatted for two weeks and then she wanted to meet me. I set up a dinner reservation and she cancelled 3 hours before the date. After 2 weeks said we were not compatible? Waste of time, don't be suckered in by the "Over 50" ads.

So it appears, like for many reviewers, the site is a waste of time and money. A lot of flirts and messages that say the exact same thing, one clue it's bogus. Had one guy state he was military, stationed in Afghanistan, widowed etc. Having been in the military and plenty of family that were, I asked where, what he was doing etc. Gave me a generic explanation and I googled the unit he was in. What a surprise that his description was the exact same one from Wikipedia. Deciding to play along, I offered to have my nephew meet him as he was heading to the same area. Never heard another word! Go figure.

This is not good. I was curious. Went to this site! Free they said. Well I put, "Woman seeking man..." Guess they got a mix up because I get put on the site with a wrong list. Getting messages and flirts from other women? They keep coming. I did not completed all their questions so they keep emails to this. I want to delete all contact with them! I just hope they do not charge me. I tried to contact them and all they do is give me their rates to pay. I am not a man seeking a women.

I signed up on a trial basis for free, watched for the first five days as I received numerous likes and messages, of course the only way to read your messages and see who flirted or liked you was to become a paid member. Naturally, human curiosity got the best of me, I paid for one month, right after that the messages and likes stopped, even those I replied to failed to reply back. What's worse, my credit card was stolen from this site, used in three different areas of the USA to make purchases online. Fortunately, my credit card company alerted me and we those charges will not be my responsibility and new card will be issued. DO NOT BECOME A PAID MEMBER...ONE BIG RIP OFF!

I signed up for a subscription here and things were fine for about 2 weeks. Then I had issues logging in. I contacted their support and went through several back and forth sessions with them telling me to do different things. I did all of them and finally they suggested to use a different browser to access the account. I do not want to use a different browser for just this when I use a major browser (Edge) for all my other sites. I do not appreciate being blamed for their issue. I finally told them to cancel if they did not fix this. I have now cancelled and requested a total refund. I will not be going back.

The site is basically a scam and not worth spending 5 cents...When you click "Search" a bunch of random photos appear that come from who knows where and are based on nothing...You don't get a chance to choose any "looking for" characteristics other than basically zodiac sign and eye color...The site is a total waste and should be avoided at all costs....Open the phone book and point and you will do just as well.

I should of known better... Nothing in life is free. "OurTime" is related & very similar to "Match.com". They say "it's free", but you have to pay to check your messages, plus pretty well everything else. I am having a hard time deleting my profile. I WOULD NOT recommend this site to anyone. This is what you call FALSE ADVERTISING.

I have read lots of reviews about this dating site. All those reviews are absolutely right. My experience is a really unique one That I didn't see on any other reviews. Here it goes!! This site lures me in with 50% discount and then tries to cross sale me bunch of useless, add-on, junk services. They deactivated my account after I canceled the automatic renew feature. It seems my account was in total hiatus. Every time I tried to view woman's profile or sent message, the PC screen would darken with a bright pop-up ad reminding me to reactivate my account of six month for $80.27. What kind crap is this? I enrolled and paid for six month; They deactivated my account only after two month?

I was on OurTime for 6 months. I had one date in 6 months. On Match.com, I had 28 dates in 6 months. When they say there are 500 people in your area, 475 are people who used the system years ago and 25 are current members. They charged me $117 for 6 months. I sent out 150 messages to nice people. I got a reply from about 7 of them. I had one date. I have a master's degree and have been working for the same employer for 34 years. My profile is quite strong and got nothing on OurTime. I had lots of dates on Match.com. What is really unusual on OurTime is the number of people who don't even open the email you sent them. About 80% don't even look at your email and 15% read it and then delete it. You get a response 5% of the time. It almost seems like this website is a complete scam. Do not give them a penny. It's a penny wasted.

I joined (paid) for our time November 2018. I sent messages to several men I found interesting. When they responded I found their profile information had been changed. Some of them while I was online. Pictures deleted and changed from male to female. This site must be set up by scammers to steal from mature people. I have already set it up not to renew and forwarded messages to the customer service. I do not believe that I will get a response. Stay away from this site. I have had messages from a few men but the interest is very short lived and it takes several days for all responses to come. I do not believe that I am corresponding with real people but people hired to respond to the messages.

I joined this one dating website. Within a couple days I started getting emails from people that I never gave my email address to. I notified OurTime if this privacy breach and wanted to have my profile permanently deleted from their website. I received a response saying they would refund my money within 12 hrs. 4 days later nothing from them, either about the info beach or refund. DO NOT USE THIS WEBSITE OR BET BUYER BEWARE.

Other reviewers called this company/services a SCAM. That may be an UNDERSTATEMENT. Everything is a tease. Nothing works. You receive CONSTANT new matches. You can’t save those profiles you like for follow up. App has no utility and you have to rely on main website where you’re hit with pop-ups. The whole operation is engineered to collect your money and they refuse refunds. I was not even allowed to speak to a manager. NO LEGITIMATE business anywhere on earth refuses that. Customer service reps are foreign and clueless. They’re useless and promote cheap PR lines.

When you are on the site, the renewal box pops up CONSTANTLY! You have to indicate "No thanks" to move on. (Which is intentionally microscopically small.) In error I apparently missed the mark & renewed when I was only a month into my subscription. I immediately called my credit card, explained it was an error & they did a chargeback. Initiating a chargeback shut down my account. Period. I had to call & they "gave/comped" (in their words) the days I had paid for on my original subscription. At that point I explained my dilemma & asked to cancel. I was told no due to the chargeback process.

I am a long term member of this site although I actually view the site very infrequently as each time I do, there is very little activity. I realized that activity increases dramatically as the account is due to expire and this company wants you to renew your subscription. Suddenly I had over 100 views of my information, multiple flirts and a couple of dozen messages. Naturally, for me to view any of this good news, I had to renew for another 6 months at another $117.00. I called customer service to express my dismay. Well, that was quite the experience in itself. Got a woman on the phone who I could barely understand. She was in the Philippines. There is nobody in America I could speak with. This company is a scam. I spoke with 4 women in 8 years. Turns out, none lived in my area. Save your money folks!

OurTime update limits description fields to 140 characters. What a joke removing our long profiles. No WARNING. Had I known I would not have updated my description. I imagine it is greed. If we pay more no doubt we will be able to once again write longer profiles. GREED. What horses behind thought this up? Fire them, this is not the service I paid for. Called them 866-727-8920, long wait times. More than 20 min on hold, to drill down to a human being, and finally customer service said there is nothing they can do to help, the new upgrade is the way it is going to be, really??

My experience was a total negative. I was enticed to join by reviewing the prospects they showed that were close to the area I reside in. This was false advertising. The messages I received came from out of the U.S. and totally out of my area. They also were out of the age range and gender I requested. Anyone I communicated with did not want to communicate on the site. They just wanted my e-mail. While on the site they keep trying to get you to upgrade, and buy their products. I am trying to get a refund, but not too hopeful after reading reviews.

Every time I open the website an advertisement overtakes the site and will not let me out of it. Even if I shut off WiFi and data it still takes over. I am not able to contact the company because of the advertisement.

Paid for 3 month membership. Logged out after doing my profile. Cannot get back in. They tell me wrong password and email. I know what my password and email is. Sent several messages to them, they totally ignore them. They have taken few out of my bank. Guess NON WILL BE MY NEXT STEP.

There are three areas of filling out your profile where you can tell your story, what you're looking for, and what else you would like to add. THEY NOW LIMIT YOU TO 140 CHARACTERS! THIS ISN'T TWITTER! What can you possibly say and truly express yourself when you are so limited. I called the company and they said it was an update. I explained I signed up because I saw very lengthy profiles and thought I could do the same. Then I was told there was an update and now the limitation. I said I wanted a partial refund since they weren't providing the service I paid for. The answer was no! Horrible customer service.

I joined OurTime and quickly realized that many of the profiles pictured are not active accounts. Read a lot of profiles and you'll see that many have the exact same wording, as if they were auto-filled. I started writing to everyone pictured to see who was real and who was a ghost profile and 12 hours later I was locked out of the site. (3 out of 10 verified that they were actual, live participants.) I am contacting the Attorney General to file fraud charges.

Just to update my experience with OurTime.com I requested a full refund, otherwise I would let my credit card company get involved. I felt security as the main issue. They promptly responded with the offer. Customer care was very understanding. They asked for suggestions of improvement of which I did. They would send those to the Products and Development Team. The main issue is the site allows pictures and profiles to be copied. Hackers and make copies and use those on that site or other sites. I experienced the site was full of stolen identity. Therefore one never knew it was an actual contact or a con.

Wasted my time entering personal data and then could not contact any women. They never tell you that to get any contacts at all you have to pay. This is just a scam site to get your money. Makes OKC seem like a wonderful place!

Terrible and altered messages sent to other members from me that I in fact DID NOT SEND!!! I want my money back! And I cannot find the settings button to unsubscribe!!! I need your help Consumer Affairs!!! Please call me at your earliest convenience.

Avoid at all costs. Web app is lacking features that are available only on full web site. If you use mobile app and use a free or open network your account to access it - your account gets locked out and you have to call in to get a new password, only to find out that if you try to access it from your home computer, their system will see you accessing it from a different ip address, and lock you out again. Lots of fake people on site, from states or provinces that are not anywhere close to where you are. I paid for a month access, and only was able to access the site 30% of the time.

This site is very time-consuming. They allow you to filter your search options, but it does no good. So they send you potential matches and you have to look at their profile. Of course, now this user gets notified that someone viewed their profile. The site in itself is a scam, then add to that the number of fake profiles and people reaching out from remote areas. Don’t waste your time and money.

I agree with the other reviews. There are a lot of auto generated messages/flirts that just take up your time. AFTER I joined for six months, they changed the format and will only allow you to write a couple lines for your profile description. They said that was a recent change. So since I have almost five months left, I requested a refund. No refunds, sorry. Never again for me on this site.

I joined this site in October 2018, every single lady I communicated with was a scammer. This site belong to Match.com, so right side of screen constantly advertise Match to get you join there. I was with Match before joining OurTime, it is bad too. System generates lots of fake messages and flirts. I canceled after one month, although I had paid for 6. No refund. Absolutely waste of money, you will be sorry if you join. DO NOT JOIN THIS SITE.

This site should be shut down. Where do I begin? OT self generates messages to members. I spoke to one man who said he spent hours responding women who had thought that he was sending them flirts. He took the time to explain to ALL of them...that he did not send these messages. When I realized this was happening I looked on my sent file and saw dozens of flirts I had not sent and even, to make it even more creepy...detailed messages that I had not written.

This site has so much potential but scammers and some members make OurTime a waste of time. Hackers infiltrate accounts and then send messages to real members trying to get personal information. Scammers can substitute a picture in a profile with another one which is usually a picture of a very attractive person. No matter how many times you write that you do not want a pen pal, you get messages from women (in my case) from across the nation. I suppose it could be worse. I have not gotten messages from women living abroad yet.

I paid them my money and filled out 99% percent of the profile. I got a few flirts and talked with a few people. Through the whole month I got maybe 10 views or so and a few messages. I went to the site on the 8th of Dec. 2018. There were no mess. No flirts, nothing at all. No views. So I go away for the weekend. I come back on Tuesday. I thought I would take a look and see what might be happening. I knew my time there was close to the end. So when I get there. I see I got 61 views. Several mess. And flirts. So I got to looking at the dates. Most of them were from before the subscription had ran out. But I was just now getting them. I was at the site days after some of them were sent and they were not there. OOOh and you see... They want me to give them more money to see what I should have seen already. I mean think about it. Why would I only get maybe 10 views in a whole month and then in one day which was December 9 get 21 views. LOL.

I joined and got several responses, But you can't respond until you pay. So I paid with PayPal because I know I can stop renewal with PayPal easy. Anyway I paid and started seeing who was interested in me. Most were way out of what I was looking for. Last week I got 3 replies from very pretty girls. RED FLAG. So when I went to the site to respond their profiles were already taken down.

Stay away from this site. I got messages from many woman and it was always the same message with a few small changes. Most were in foreign countries and needed money. My site was hacked many times and changed from male to female. Calling them did no good. I got charged for an extra month and actually cancelled my credit card to avoid being robbed again. This is the only site I've been on and I will never use a dating site again. The profiles are fake, the messages are canned, and you don't know who you are really talking to. One day I got 42 PAGES of flirts, etc from men after my profile was changed. This site is one big scam.

Stay away! Waste of money for the following reasons: 1. Fake profiles are rampant. Pictures are no match for ages. 2. False number of available matches. Most profiles are expired!! Proof is to run a few flirts. Check your Flirts sent and you will see that most have not logged in in over 30 days and some for many months! 3. Scammers contact you every day! Asking for email, phone numbers. Sending their contact numbers in profile info or on their pictures. 4. Misleading matches. They have expired memberships. 5. Unpaid members send messages but can't return your replies and you don't know that they are simply trials. 6. The "I'm Interested" feature shows mostly expired profiles, scammers and fake profiles. Overall, OurTime.com is a Scam in itself. No way to get your money back.

This is the most famous email I get... I've had three so far. One was at a Thanksgiving party. Another his pal was hanging over his shoulder and needed to reach out to me but I'm deactivating tomorrow. And number three below. "Hello dear, I hope this note finds you well. I was online trying to deactivate my account since I already got a life partner here on OURTIME and we are getting married by Dec 31th, that was when my Friend, William came across your profile as he was actually standing beside me, he's been all over me about getting in touch with you. He said you seems like a woman he will like to know better. He lives in the same area as you. He is only here for a job inspection.

I experienced hack profiles and photos and not just one or two. It is saturated with foreigners. Never give anyone your email! When they are pushy, lack of photos and the same stories you know right away.

Paid for 6 months then the next day the features I was to receive by fronting the 6 month payment was removed!!! Really bad management and easy to hack accounts as they will not spend the money to really secure the site.

I posted my profile and did not pay any money to subscribe for some months. They finally posted a person that I wanted to communicate with so I paid and joined. Now, I get profiles of women and the messages turn into males. Messages from women who allegedly have a desire to communicate with me do not respond if I send them a message. Then, the site tries to get me to send more money to "Promote" myself to get better results. I am paid up until June of 2019 but am searching for a contact point to remove myself from the site and forfeit my subscription. I wish we could minus stars.

OurTime / People Media will send you an ad advertising 565% off the membership, then when you click on it, they tell you, "You are not eligible for the 65% off. Try 56% off instead." Or they send you The top ten matches in your area with the people picture & their name; Then when you click the photo their profile does NOT come up. When you go to edit matches it takes you to the website but now since November 2018 they have eliminated Username search so you can't look at the profiles they just sent YOU! What a crock of **. The top matches they send you on their header don't match to top matches in your specific area. They could be 90 miles away. OurTime is going downhill it seems. Then the prices have gone up as well. Each discount has a 3.99 Processing fee. So the advertised 25% off has a 20% surcharge for the one month bill! So you really only get 5% off. Not 25% off.

Unfortunately lots of scammers on OurTime. Also the site would tell me I had 4 messages the day after I deleted 4 flirts. I'm sure they do that just to get you to log in and be active on the site. I am not happy with scammers. I set my account to Non Renew when my 6 months are up.

The dating site OurTime is a scam site, the site sends messages from you saying you're interested in someone. My membership has had to be reset several times to nonrenewal, and the site sets it back to renew, they scammed my credit card for another month, and my month since I've joined won't even be up for 5 days. Most messages are from fake members trying to get your email address.

I went into this experience with the hopes of finding a stable relationship. The response was of a sexual nature from a male on the site. The second experience was actual being told that his profile was FAKE!!! I have terminated my account and only being active on the site for 5 days. If you are serious looking for companionship I would advised looking on another site. With that being said OurTime.com should advised to protect yourself. Which I did. If you can't at least be aware of the FAKE accounts it is damaging your brand. The third experience was being asked what I did for employment to a male profile didn't have a photo. The experience was hurtful and disturbing to me. I wasted 33.00 dollars of my hard earn money for NOTHING!!!!

Absolutely full of scams/spam. Very disappointed in the site. You have to be pretty sharp to not get caught up in it, and it makes answering members or reaching out almost impossible. DO NOT waste your money with this one. Maybe they will straighten it out, but from what I have learned, it has been going on for a long time.

I subscribed on October 31, 2018 and removed my entire profile and photos today November 03, 2018. In 4 days all I received were messages and flirts from Scammers and Fake profiles. I noticed some profiles were hacked, same wording but different pictures. I reported the ones I discovered but OurTime, does NOT do anything about it. They do NOT protect and safeguard their paid members. All of the people I mentioned, were from out of my State, there was NONE from my area. This has been a scary experience. Unfortunately, I cannot give this site a minus zero star. Please be aware!

The scammer put up fake pictures and profile. He asked for my email to talk off the site. We emailed constantly for a month. He said he was working in Indonesia and was moving back to my hometown. Of course he was widowed for four years and had a son. I looked up his Facebook - I was his only friend. The Facebook information gave a different age. He claimed his income was over 100,000. I believed him until he asked for money this morning. Even though he claimed to be a millionaire. He told me everything I wanted to hear. LADIES run from this site.

I have only been contacted by men who want free sex. I thought that at our age they would have been passed that stage. A few men were obviously scammers but I followed my instinct and ignored them. My biggest issue is that when I have tried to cancel my membership the site freezes due to long script! I have a feeling that it is designed to do this so that you cannot cancel your membership and end up paying for another six months. I will now have to cancel the next pay and by contacting my bank. Really annoying!

I joined for a month. Got lots of flirts messages. Pictures were 10-20 years old. Lied about everything from age to income. Most claim they make 150,000 plus a year. Then ask you for money or they want phone sex. Claim they are so honest. Found one I thought might be interested in until he said he was a one woman man and wanted to try to build a future with me. Next day he was trolling for more woman. Really? As for drama men you got us beat. Very disappointed.

I have joined OurTime.com as I am genuinely seeking a compatible man for a serious relationship. Well, the first 10 days I was on, I was contacted by 12 men, out of which 8 were Scammers. I am intelligent, so when one of the guy, I was communication with asked for money as he was in the military, I REFUSED! I had already did some homework on him and he did not exist. I told him that he was a Scammer and guess what, he sent me picture of a Canadian Military ID Cards which was good but fraudulent, nevertheless!

I went on OurTime 3 yrs ago. I was a widow and I was preyed upon by I scammer who tried to get money out of me but didnt and then I'd also been talking with another man who I ended up being with for the last 3 yrs who has Narcissistic personality disorder and another mental disorder. And now I see he's back on looking for his next victim. Please beware that these sites attract narcissistic people looking for their next person to victimize control and isolate. They lie to you. Every move is calculated. Their love is fake. They mess with your head. They come on strong and push relationships quickly. Place your boundaries right off the bat. Listen to your gut feelings and red flags.

Got romanced scammed. I thought I met the love of my life. He took all of my money and had me sell my house with the promise of a wonderful life together. Now I have no savings, retirement or home. I am not stupid. I fell in love. I still do not believe this has happened. Still in shock.

I signed up for 6 months on OurTime as it seemed the best for over 50's dating. However, now I have used it for a while I cannot recommend it. Biggest complaint is that there is no way to see when someone was last online. Most other dating sites have this feature. I believe this is because there are a lot of defunct profiles out there that OurTime uses to pad their user numbers, so they do not want you to have this info. This is confirmed by the low number of responses I have gotten from OurTime, much lower than any other dating website. There is also no way to bookmark a profile so you can come back to it, and the site is generally clunky to use and not well designed.

I joined for free, they kept going to membership page, so I paid for a one month subscription. I have not been able to log in. No one can't get things straight. Cannot get any messages or anything .I did get in once to see my account and stop the renewal, I had another account that showed payment and the free account. I am so annoyed that no one can fix. DON't USE OURTIME!!!

OurTime.com uses auto renew but they don’t tell you when it is approaching so when I saw a charge on my charge card, I called them within 5 days of noticing it to delete my account but they informed me that 1 message had been sent within those 5 days so it was ineligible for a refund. $107.90 for 1 message. I consider that just plain wrong.

Found it odd there are numerous empty photo profiles... And you will receive an initial screen requesting an upload before continuing. EVERYTIME I logged on I uploaded a very nice semi silhouette of myself. It was rejected as not a clear picture. Seriously. As a single female I'm cautious... particularly as I have a job with the public. Used the same pic on another dating website with no problem. I would steer clear of this site. Shop but don't invest. I also suspect fake profiles are on there.

The OurTime.com dating site is by far the worst site I've ever used. I've tried and still subscribe to two of the popular dating sites and I tried OurTime simply because I wanted to increase my exposure to single women. This site (OurTime) offers few controls or parameters to limit who can visit you and what that does is waste your time with email or "flirts" from inappropriate people that you have to physically delete. Furthermore, this site allows people to send more than one or two communications and that means one screwy person can fill your inbox and waste your time. There doesn't seem to be a way to filter out the inappropriate people and that can get quite annoying, especially for non-paying members who want to 'test-the-waters' before subscribing.

Senior widows should be cautious. I signed up for a month and was immediately taken to an upsell page. Foolishly, I admit, I fell for it, thinking that it would still be deducted monthly and that I'd be able to cancel if I felt the need. Wrong on both counts, which would have been fine if it had not been for the disturbing experience I had with the site. Widowed 10 months ago and now 63, I was feeling lonely - knowing no single men my age. I guess when you're happily married, you only hang out with other married couples. At least, that's what we did. My son suggested I try the site. I was skittish about online dating, but I gave it a try. In less than 24 hours, I was contacted by over a dozen men, most of whom may have been nice, legitimate seekers I suppose. But 3 of them messaged me 'for a friend' or 'for a cousin' they had been showing the site to when my picture came up.

Subscription ended up being hacked I don't know how many times. Messages going out that I did not send and my profile completely changed. OurTime did NOT care! At least until I posted my ended subscription and non-membership. They made sure to help me understand I could not do this.

Signed up and all the names seem fake. Had no responses or all the flirts look generated. When you cancel it's amazing how your account gets 12 flirts and 4 emails. As soon as you pay. There are nothing but false emails. Save your money. Go old school and have the courage to ask someone on a date in your area. A lot more less discouraging.

My account was renewed without my permission and they would not refund the charges. My account was hacked several times and they did nothing to help other than say "change your password" which I did several times to no avail. I got men from all over the US and Canada while I requested a 50 mile radius of Atlanta. My age group was 55-70 and I kept getting men from 70-95 yo. The hacker had conversations with the men and was able to get their personal information like name, address, phone number and even street address. They could have cared less!

Not only was my account hacked OurTime.com kept charging me after I went on and specifically checked off the box that said not to. I have not been able to find a way to talk to anyone from this company. I'm canceling my account now, I hope that works!

Do not even sign up because they will charge your card long after you quit. They are criminals. Your credit card become their bank account. The men are mostly fake, scammers, too young or old, too far, too ugly, worthless, uneducated, unemployed otherwise unfit.

A total scam!!! This is filled with bots, only the very ugliest are real!!! I get chat requests all the time and not one connected, get messages and same generic introduction b, I reply and nothing.. STAY away before you just waste 30 dollars if not much more!!

Signed up for a six month membership. Every time I log in I receive 15, 20 messages that someone flirted or messaged me. TOTAL B.S. Stay Away and save your money. Might as well throw it out your car window on the freeway. Total Crap...

Had to reply to appr. 150 women because Richard ** hacked my account and OurTime did NOTHING. CANCELLED before renewal date but they had no record so no refund. Guess they really need my 30 dollars. Of course not... MY ACCOUNT AND PROFILE WAS HACKED!!! Again, no reply from OURTIME. Said they didn’t get my e-mails. Also automatically hooks you up with their other websites that sends you profiles but when you click you have to pay AGAIN. DO NOT GET ON THIS WEBSITE OR SENIORPEOPLEMEET. By the way OURTIME, I gave you the name of the guy who hacked me and his e-mail, **, how's your investigation going. You got my money so what do you care?

I have been trying for six month to cancel. My niece set this up and I never wanted it. Do not know log in info. THE PHONE # PROVIDED IS NOT REAL- RECORDING THEN HANGS UP! I have to go to bank and file a dispute every few months! TOTAL SCAM.

I've paid for all the top dating sites, and by far, this is the worse of the top 10. I paid for the 6 month special which I regretted within 1 week on the site. When checking the website via the APP, it always has the same "new members." There is no way to get out of the loop as the site will just reload the next 15 and back again, and always the same exact guys! Are you telling me there are no new members within a 50 mile radius of my location? When I perform the search, it doesn't keep my original search criteria! If this is a 50+ dating website, why does the criteria start at age 18? I've blocked some profiles, however, somehow, they show back up a week later!

I joined for ONLY one month to see what it was about. My profile was HACKED TWICE within ONE week. My Profile picture was changed and sent out to hundreds of men across the US and BC. Then the second time the HACKER put her picture on my profile ALONG with my picture and added her email address for men to contact her. When I called OurTime for a refund they only offered to extend my membership a couple of days. This site is HORRIBLE.

I was bombarded by scammers. I had been warned what to watch for, but I did find it easy to fall into their initial trap. Things to watch out for are texting only, the texted grammar is not always correct, they say they are going away to a foreign country and then need money, they are widowed for 5 - 6 years, may have 2 children, are engineers, have several degrees, etc. I did not send anyone money or give out any information, except one of them got my email address. I checked some phone numbers that I was given by the dating prospects to contact them. The phones all lead to landlines that they text from. I went on several phone line websites and posted warnings about some of the numbers as Potential Scam. I don't think OurTime does anything to check their customers' legitimacy, I canceled my membership after two week.

I have been on this site for about a month. The scammers are rampant and even though I cannot get a refund I will cancel my membership. I recently started getting emails from persons on OurTime. How would they ever get my email. I never give it out. I have had only had 3 legitimate interchanges and although there was not a match it was such a relief that there is someone who isn't out for something. Profiles describing a ** male, come with pictures of women or ** men. It is so obvious that the scams are happening. I am left with the impression that OurTime is in it for the $$ only and could care less who gains access to the site or how it is used.

Another thing is that you will get "views" of people who really didn't look at your profile (unless they viewed you as a daily match). BOTH parties need to be paid (wasn't always this way) ala Match. I reported several scammers daily & advised others that they were breaking policies & for my efforts my PAID account was cancelled just days after I renewed so when asked for at least a partial refund was denied; HOWEVER, I contacted my credit card company & filed a dispute & was given a full credit so I'd advise all of you to do the same because until this company starts losing membership $$ it won't change its practices.

Recently my dad's OurTime account was either hacked. One day he was receiving views from all over the US. When contacting People Media, the first rep we spoke to argued with us that if some suspicious happened they would have contacted us. We were never contacted. We wanted a refund and to cancel the acct but she would not let us. After giving us an temp password...we were still unable to get into acct and had to call again.

Went into site, thought after I filled all out and wanted to back out, I clicked on the wrong place by mistake. Saw I already had correspondence, so I clicked on it. I contacted them 3 minutes after all this and told them to please refund me. They said no because I opened the correspondence. Sadly I stayed, to no avail. Why? So that they would not resell my space and earn more money. My experience was negative all the way, and awful. Profile was "woman seeking man" and there were so many woman hitting on me. Wasting my time and theirs. They kept on changing parts of my profile. Not worth the money.

I have had to report several scammers. There is no way to block users that are miles and miles away from you from seeing your profile and contacting you. I can't log in at all right now and I can't even google how to contact them. I don't know if it is their site or a hacker doing that. They lure you in by telling you that you can see who is on there but you cannot. So they post your pic and personal info when you aren't a member. Then they email you telling you how many people are messaging you. Cost was $107 and now I'm back to being told I am receiving messages but cannot access the website.

Their website leaves a lot to be desired. Things that you think that would be included as a service to the customer show up as pop ups asking you to purchase as extras. Example: confirmation that the person you are sending an e-mail actually gets it. It seems like at every turn, a pop up appears asking for some extra money for something.

I have been scammed 3 time on this site - all lead-up to requesting money. I have had numerous unauthorized log ins to my account. Twice I have had my profile changed by someone else. I would NEVER recommend this site to anyone.

You have to subscribe to Ourtime.com to read messages sent to you. Luckily, I only paid $40 for 6 months. This dating site is no better than pof.com, which is free unless you want to upgrade. Ourtime.com is supposed to be for 50+ singles, yet I was receiving messages from 20 somethings. Obviously, they don't screen their clients. I was also sent messages from scammers. To top it off, my account was hacked. I called customer service only to be told since I used their dating site, I can't receive a partial refund. She reinstated my original profile and pictures. Currently the pictures are of me, but the profile has changed back to what the hacker wrote. Please don't waste your money on Ourtime.com. It isn't worth it!

Recently I’ve become a victim of a scammer on this site. As Bonnie has stated on the ConsumerAffairs website, I have also received messages from women, old men with no shirt no teeth, men who look inebriated or high on drugs (?) as well as fake pictures. I received the almost same exact message from 2 men, with only a change in which they were born. RED FLAG! The one I chose to respond to communicated that we should exchange email to communicate off the site. We did. The next thing I knew he was planning our life together, the same thing Bonnie alluded to in her post. At one point I discussed speaking with him on the phone to set-up a time to meet in person. I wanted to know he was real. He originally provided his number and I responded likewise. Chris, if that his real name (?) kept ignoring this request. Another RED FLAG!

I first signed up for free, very soon I had about 15 messages which I couldn't read until I paid so I did. These were from webcam models 30 years my junior doing some "catfishing". Later a lot of messages being sent were accidental including 12 I sent without knowing it. All have the phrases "You look like someone I'd like to know" or "You deserve a flirt." "I'd love to hear from you". Well you get the idea, you click the wrong place and you've sent a message or flirt without your knowledge. There are good people on OurTime, but the site itself is a joke and ripoff in my opinion.

I’ve been a victim of scammers 3 times on this site, luckily I’m not a stupid woman so I reported them. I’ve received messages from women, old men with no shirt no teeth in, and I met 3. One was about 150 lbs heavier than his pic the next was planning my life before I met him in person. It was just a nightmare, if you’re thinking this is an upstanding site cause it’s for older people don’t be fooled. For men if you don’t mind younger women that come on the site cause they need money and will play you, and most fall for it have at it... I can only describe this site as looking at a prison line up!!! Trust me when I say that, if you see a nice looking guy on the site it’s probably a scammer... save your money. There’s nothing real on the site.

I have been on our time for more than a year. I would guess I'm lucky because 80% of contacts have been real. But that might be my achilles heel. My problem has been more with the quality of men I have met and dated men with moderate to severe mental health issues. I even had to beg OurTime to take steps to consider removing one after proof. Some of these men could actually be a danger. What I'm looking for is to spread the word about some of these very challenged men so women don't waste their time and possibly heart on some of these guys.

I called customer service immediately, could not get a refund. But I did cancel any further charges, I hope. WORST SITE TO DATE, PUN INTENDED!

I came onto the site with honesty and openness rarely afforded to anyone. I had all good intentions. Except I was the only one with good intentions. There was one that wanted a "casual" relationship (if I knew what that meant), another wanted over $8,000 so he could payoff the SEC in a money laundering/tax evasion suit, another wanted me to send him $100-$200 so he could buy gift cards to get himself around China. And, of course, both said they would pay me back. And one of my personal favorites was the one that had the photo of himself, shirtless, with a bit in his mouth admitting that he was "submissive". Further, very few of the "Today's Matches", followed my profile. Very, very frustrating. I have requested a refund. Let's see how that goes.

I had been communicating with an individual who held himself out as military close to retirement. There were many red flags in the communications. I finally did some digging and could not confirm the details he was stating and discredited the ones that he did. Fortunately, I have family in the military and they were able to help me with this. The site needs to have a better vetting policy in order to have legitimate individuals interested in meeting. This was my only time and will be my last.

Please don’t waste your money or your time on “OurTime”. This is absolutely the worst ‘dating’ site I have ever encountered. I carefully and specifically put what I am and am not looking for. I receive messages and ‘matches’ from the very people I’m definitely not looking for. I’m not looking for a woman. I receive ‘matches’ for women. I have no interest in atheists; I get matched with atheists. I not only don’t smoke, it makes me physically sick to be around people who do. I get matched with smokers. There are ‘auto responses’, for lazy men who don’t want to take the time to write an actual message themselves. I’ve gotten hundreds saying, “Nice profile, would like to know you”, or “Nice picture, you stand out from the crowd.”

I did meet a few people, but it's just not worth wasting money on this. The majority are not in my town, and some are even out of State. Also some same sex people have propositioned me. Mostly all the photos are years old, and when you meet these people & talk to them, you want to walk out. It's all a flip of the coin whether you find someone. At this time the site does not work. It keeps flipping to a site in the U.K (very strange). Not recommended.

I don't like the fact that OurTime will tell someone you found them interesting, when you did not. I have received quite a few messages from guys thanking me for showing an interest in them, or that I said I liked their photo! Then I see my photo and a note in a bubble saying "I am interested in you", "Let's chat" or something to that effect. So, it seems if you just look at a photo or maybe read a bit of the profile out of curiosity, it will tell the person you are interested in him or her. I feel this is deceiving to the man or woman, as to possibly get their hopes up, when there is no interest at all. I did not see this in the rules, so I'll just have to try to be as careful as possible and wait it out until my account expires.

Warning to people looking for relationships on line. Avoid this website at all costs. You will regret it if you don't. It doesn't even deserve a 1 star rating and you will pay through the nose to cancel your subscription. I met a couple of truthful men online but the rest are pathetic.

I just joined yesterday. I'm hoping I'll be able to stop a renewal next month. I also can't believe how silly I was to not check the reviews first. I have always done that for everything! I try to delete contacts and it's not working. Then I wanted to see if a certain person responded, but this site wanted MORE MONEY for me to see if and when that person responds. I take full responsibility for my blunder and will pay for the month.

Signed up for a month and in that time spoke to 1 lady, didn't go anywhere... The response rate is truly appalling as it was with there other site dating direct (in the end they gave me the option for ladies to contact me free resulting in a few conversations on dating direct). I cannot recommend this site, if you're a decent bloke trying to find a lady to date there are far better sites that are cheaper and yield a result, this one is crap.

Yea, you meet who you think are nice girls but 4 of them asked me for money because they got into Ghastly situations and they all seem to be self employed, parents dead, no family and trapped in a foreign country. They sold my email and I'm still getting spam emails about 'she flirted with you' and when I look at the links, it's not from OurTime.com, it's from some spam outfit with a virus or Trojan hiding behind the link. After this experience I'll probably never go to a dating site again. Someone needs to shut this site down.

I signed up on OurTime.com in July 2018, within a few days I realized that 9 out of 10 of the emails that I was sent and profiles I visited were fake. There is no verification process and most profiles are fake. Seniors are being targeted on this site. Save your money and go out and join a few clubs, dancing, kayaking, playing pool but you will waste your money and time on this site.

I guess you can't blame Our Time for the scammers of this world. You have to be your own advocate for safety. If you get contacted by a man with a Swiss accent from ** delete immediately. Don't waste your time. Another rich man who needs iTunes gift cards.

On the site for 1 month. My profile was hacked 3 times. They changed gender search & my personal details. They've changed my pic twice. When I try to upload original pic, I had to wait for approval. I've responded to 4 inquiries only. 2 of whom were scammers. I've hidden my profile, someone unhid it & changed pic & details. I paid for the subscription in good faith, but my profile continues to be unusable. This is a total waste of time & money, very frustrating that these thieves continue stealing money from honest people. They're as bad as the loser scammers that this site is full of.

I signed up for this and immediately started receiving flirts and emails from fake profiles. I know they are fake because I found some of them on Facebook. Total scam. I also started getting spammed like crazy so they definitely sell your info. When I canceled I suddenly had a bunch of messages and new flirts from supposed admirers. Don't get scammed by this site and waste your money. They are no better than eHarmony. They're all crooks!

I've been off and on this site for many years, and I have met some nice folks. However, in my last 6 mos, most of the profiles I found interesting turned out to be fakes. Also, I find it interesting that a week before my subscription expired, I started receiving an enormous amount of matches, flirts, photo likes, etc. Just a ploy to keep me interested and rejoin. Save your money.

I was on this site 3 days and someone calling himself Dennis hacked my account. I called helpline. A women did was reset password. She told me I could not talk to IT people. I had to go to some website that she sent me at my email. Some company that runs their website. And I was hacked on weekend so you have to wait till M-F to call. This morning Sunday 7/22/2018 again. I could not log in again. After the first time I started get mail or texts to my cell from girls claiming to be from the site. I did a background check on number. They were fake. Do not sign up on this site.

I have been receiving information from people who don’t exist as well. They are often out of state but now showing up as people from my state. If I ask a specific question about their town which is near me, they don’t reply. Viewing traffic is heavy on Friday nights with people’s profiles disappearing the next day. It is very disappointing indeed.

From the moment I became a subscriber I realized that I had made a mistake. I was contacted by phony profiles who were only interested in obtaining personal information on me. Take heed. Be warned, this site is a scam infested social media nightmare.

The site appears to be a scam... based in fake profiles and no regard to personal preferences. Most every message received is from out of state, with the same M. O., almost the same details like being written from a script. They disappear quick once you let them know. I specified local contacts, daily I would get profiles from all over the east coast. Save your time and money, steer clear of OurTime.com!

I signed up yesterday with ourtime.com for a free account. I filled out everything and uploaded some pictures. I immediately was bombarded with "Likes", "Somebody favorite you" and "Messages". Of course, with a free account you are not able to see who it was. One has to subscribe in order to see this info. This was going on throughout most of the night. This morning I logged back in and discovered in the "Notification" field (on the bottom of the main site) that somebody had sent a answer to my message.

When I tentatively joined to have a look, I got stalled according to their estimation, at 18% complete, so I gave up and went to bed. Then began a steady stream of notifications, asking for money, showing me my matches, flirts, propositions etc. Although I unsubscribed (successfully, by their reply) numerous times, the spam just kept coming, 24 hours a day. Women from as far away from Edmonton as Des Moines Iowa were apparently desperate to meet a guy with no picture and an 18% profile. I have (successfully, according to their warped command of the English language) unsubscribed a bunch more times, but the spam just keeps coming. Avoid these charlatans the way you would a steaming mound of Ebola vomit.

Where do I begin? This site is full of scammers and catfish! I have connected online with three people and they all turned out to be scammers. The latest forgot to mention on his profile that he has a child. Also represented his self on profile as being in the science/engineering field and is supposedly doing automotive bodywork (how is that scientific?). He sent a phone number for texting, which belonged to a woman (probably the wife?). When I declined his offer to meet for lunch, he sent a tirade about things I will not write here, but suffice it to say that he would have made me a 65 year old sex slave if he had his way! Incredible. Also my matches rarely had anything to do with what I wanted as far as level of education, even got some from women... STAY AWAY FROM THIS BUSINESS. You have been forewarned.

If you make any indication in your profile that you cannot IMMEDIATELY respond to messages for any reason, your profile essay will get declined. The terms of service say that you cannot say that you are not paying member. Which means they want everybody to appear as if they can respond to you immediately, whether they can or not. But what OurTime does not tell you is that you cannot not state that you are unable to immediately respond to messages FOR ANY REASON. For example, you cannot say the following... "I won't be logging on for a few weeks, because I have some personal issues that I need to take of, but I promise to get back with you." If you say something like that (or anything remotely similar), your essay will get declined.

Just signed up for OurTime after having a free account for a couple of months that I did not use. It seemed like a safe site and connected to Match.com which I think has a fairly good reputation overall. Decided to add photos to my profile on the free account but when I did, the photos were tagged as pending for 2 days in a row. On 3rd day when I tried to log in, my account was not accessible so I called the customer service number given on the message displayed. The CS rep was pleasant and tried to retrieve my account but after searching several ways, she could not find any evidence of an account being set up. She suggested I start over with new account. I did and decided to give it a shot and try the paid subscription. Immediately I began getting "flirts", photo likes and some weird messages... many from out of state.

This website is an absolute joke and a fraud besides. They show you a photo of a person and when you try to pursue it, it often turns out to be a different person in a different city. DO NOT join this site. Customer service is non-existent. They connect you to someone in the Philippines and then that person refuses to allow a supervisor to come on because they are told just to repeat the same lines over and over. DO NOT WASTE YOUR MONEY.

I wanted to take a look at this website and provided little more than my email address. After a few minutes I tried to deactivate the "account". The website advertises that you can cancel at any time and your information will be deleted. Upon checking my "account status" I receive the message that account information is unavailable. I sent them email asking that they delete my account and information and they reply that the account, which existed for all of a few hours, was under review by their security folks and they can't delete it. It's the roach motel folks, you can get in but you can't get out. Luckily I didn't sign up or provide and personal information. They do this probably to artificially inflate their "membership" numbers. What a scam. Stay away.

This online dating site automatically debit my checking for 7 months at 30 bucks a pop. No email. No notification. Nothing. I obviously don't check my account with a fine tooth comb - had a major medical issue but now I need to add it to the list - Scam. I need to let bank know and I've went on the site to cancel. I don't see a phone number to call.

Especially for seniors this site leads you right into fraud and worse. It's a very spammy site with many phony profiles whose sole interest is to secure personal information. I've been on other dating sites and like Match.com this site is VERY SPAMMY and many people aren't who they see. Here are guidelines that I live by on dating sites:

I've read many of the reviews, and from my own experience, I think this site engages in some questionable/unethical practices. While it is important to remember, like offline dating, this requires effort, good judgment and a sense of humor, at times, there are some real problems OT introduces into the brave world of dating over 50:

I joined OURTIME about 2 weeks ago. The first person that I began talking to said that his subscription was about out and asked if we could talk on Google hangout. This is the first dating site I have been on and didn't think anything of it when he asked to talk on Google hangout. After talking for a few times, I realized that English did not seem to be his primary language. He told me that he had a post graduate degree in Business Admin. and that he was educated here in the US. I finally caught on and told him never to contact me again. Then began to receive some really nasty emails from people I didn't recognize.

From October 2017 to January 2018 my profile was hacked two times. Pictures and geographic location was changed. The company did little except to reset my password so I could get back in and fix my profile. When I let my membership lapse they were quick to offer a 50% discount subscription and suddenly I was getting messages and likes! However, I would have to pay to find out who. After each renewal the profiles that had liked me were withdrawn or no longer available. Yet they appeared on SeniorPeopleMeet another site owned by the same company. When I finally stopped my subscriptions I started to get spam mails to my regular email from OurTime which tried to get my credit card info by claiming I was due a refund. This site is a spam! Their concern for your information security is a joke, and the people who do respond are likely employees who are trying to get you to renew. Avoid this site.

This site seems to cater to Scammers. Every guy claims want to get to know you, "Oh but I live in Gaza, France, always out of the States, but I will be back in a few months. Give me your phone number so we can get to know each other till I get back to the States". Check the profile and almost all of the guys who want your money say they make over $100000 - that is your first clue. They are good looking and look younger than the profile says they are- 2nd clue.

Navigating this site is horrible. Don't waste your money. Constant pop ups annoy to no end and they have all these additional charges for stupid things like when the last time someone was online. And be careful to close your account after a month because it will charge your card automatically. I just tried to discontinue my account when my month is up and I still haven't found the link to my account info. They hide it --- at the time of this review I still haven't found it. Oh, and when you set your preferences, they keep injecting matches that you don't want and have to keep resetting... Save your money.

I only joined OurTime.com a few days ago, I have not been proactive, rather waiting to see what contacts I would get. I have had several flirts, and actually have been talking to one match almost exclusively. Very happy with the site, so far. The site is very easy to use, and I am quite impressed by the quality of the matches, and it has been fun reading and responding to the flirts and it is nice to know there are other who are also looking. However, there was a huge amount of emails the first day, a bit overwhelming but nothing to complain about. And the couple of obviously fake responses.

Ladies, be very careful, just because someone is handsome and knows all the right things to say, does NOT mean they are worthy of you. I just had 78 thousand taken from me. Charmed me until I really got worried about mind control. I was doing whatever he asked of me. Check them out thoroughly. And don't assume they are giving the right name, or showing their true picture. CAUTION!!! We feel because the site is for older people, that we are safe. NOT TRUE AT ALL! Be very careful!!!

I was very disappointed with the photos and profiles I was matched with. I did not find most of them to be a good match. Most of the people I was matched with were out of my preferred date range and photos were not up to date. The profiles of some members were not entirely honest. For example, when I said I was only interested in casual dating, I was matched with the same. However, some members were really interested in more than that. So I wasted my time in a lot of cases. I cancelled my one year membership 4 months early, forfeiting the money I had already paid, and never tried OurTime again. In fact, I was so mentally or emotionally exhausted after using the site for 8 months I never used a dating site again. I do not recommend people in my age group rely solely on a dating website.

I have only been on Our Time for a couple of weeks. ALL of the men that reached out to me have fake profiles & live in Nigeria. There is absolutely no vetting on these sites. It is a catalog for phishers & worse.

In general my experience was okay. It was very easy to use and to make a profile. The quality of the matches is sometimes hard to meet nice people but if you meet quite a few people eventually you do meet some nice people also. I liked that the people seemed a little more down-to-earth. When I used OurTime as opposed to just plain Plenty of Fish the people seemed a little more mature on that site and like they were genuinely interested in meeting someone.

The website itself is very good, the matches though do not represent themselves like they truly are though but that it not the website's fault. It is an easy to use site and app and I will stick with it. I do like that it is geared more to a specific age range of people, it is better than a site that has a broad range and makes it more limiting to find someone age appropriate. Overall it is a decent site. Just haven't had much luck finding a good match on there.

This site is NOT in real time. I found they would keep your profile even after you canceled your membership unless you requested specifically so. No wonder I did not get any response from the men I contacted. I was able to see (in one of pages) that they were last logged in a month ago, two months ago, 6 months ago. Also many different icons and pre-fixed messages are just so redundant and impersonal. Then one day, "flirt" was sent to all without me doing so. I think most messages you get when you first join are the scammers, asking phone numbers and e-mail addresses. Anyways don't waste your energy on here!

I wish zero stars was an option, this is supposed to be a dating site for over age 50 individuals. The free membership does not allow you to do anything, so the only option presented by the website is a 6-month membership fee (which will cost you about $120). I spent over an hour answering all these questions and uploading profile photos and a few photos of landscapes I had taken (since photography is one of my hobbies). Every few days all my photos would disappear, no reason given by the website. There is no support on the website to ask why my profile keeps getting changed and deleted. Everyday they will email you with "so-called" matches, every person I was matched with looked like local gang-members or men in prison. I make a six-figure salary (and am highly educated) and I am being matched with men who have completed some high-school and appear to be unemployed.