OurTime Reviews

They charged my card $82.06. Haven't used them in years. Mostly prostitutes and fake profiles. SCAM. SCAM. STAY AWAY. No way to contact them thru phone. No live person. Now got to wait for refund of money they stole.

After app 5 months w/: Our Time.com.. When OurTime constantly "matched' me with other members who made home 75, 150 miles away when my profile limited 50 miles..and the age, religious status limits were ignored by OurTime... Suddenly my profile was hacked into with much older women living on the coasts starting thanking me for "liking them"....whereby I informed all that my profile was hacked and OurTime was informed...but weeks later nothing was done, even proposed with excuses especially were rampant. App 20 emails went back n forth to no avail.. Their phone # 833 223 8873 was answered by robot simply referring all to "customer service"... On top of all this they are playing games re canceling my subscription with auto pay collection of app $ 159.oo. My credit and Credit Card relationships are excellent.. So they will stop pay and file SCAMMER V OurTime.

I do not recommend! I regretted as soon as I did and was able to see what I had purchased. I contacted them the very next morning, no response. Again, a couple days later. Again, no response. What it cost, and then constantly having to add money, is horrible. Yes, you can cancel the subscription, but they will continue to charge the original amount.

Signing up is easy. Then the trouble begins. False likes, listings of subscribers who have not been paid up or active for months, constant "begs" for upgrades, and customer service that is totally inadequate. And to top it off, there is no way to communicate by phone- only back and forth emails which the customer service team doesn't read or is incapable of understanding. I suggest you keep your money in your pocket. This has been expensive lesson for me. Oh, and one more thing - there is no situation, regardless of how bad their service is, that will qualify you for a refund - even a prorated one!

TOTAL SCAM!!! They take your money and then don't provide any service. At least half of the women that contacted me wanted money, have their phone numbers in their profiles, and when it's time to renew it's a nightmare! I Don't recommend this site!!!

Don’t ever cancel/not renew your membership— your profile remains visible. Ourtime will continue to contact you constantly re: suggestions or likes. If you are curious, the picture will be blurred out, no details about the “like” unless you sign up for another months long membership. Meanwhile, they’ve seen your profile. Don’t fall for this—- it’s shameful and wrong.

This site has been difficult to us, I have not like anyone on it and they keep wanting more money to just see profiles. The picture are mostly blurry and the profiles I do see don’t have much information. I wish I could get my money back and get out of there but I paid for three months.

As others have mentioned, this site is horrible. They have fake profiles, there are women on there that are professional hookers, other women looking for Visas to the US, I had at least 10 women ask me for money and a place to live. Multiple women asked me for personal information. Many women on the site are still married. They AUTO charge your card for every mouse click and then it's $150 for a six month subscription and then women who don't pay CAN'T respond to your unless you PAY MORE. Horrible, horrible site.

Maybe this site works well for you if you live in NJ, CT, or PA, but I have to scroll through 50 profiles before one in LI or the city boroughs comes up. So if you live on LI, this is a waste of money (unless, of course, you’re fine with driving an hour and a half to two hours, for a date). Then, there are the 28 and 40 something year olds who try to engage with me; why are they even permitted to be on a site that specifically advertises for “over 50”? What a waste of money this was for me.

It’s really terrible when a business takes advantage of older people who are looking for companionship in a relationship. That is these people. First of all, they completely disregard your distance preferences and send matches that are hundreds of miles away. There are many scammers. They completely disregard, what you’re looking for. There is no live customer service. Once you leave, they will try to entice you back by saying they have new matches for you. If you want to use this service, take the one week subscription because you will see everyone that they have for you and after that, They are just trying to keep you hooked by sending you false hope messages. Do not waste your money.

Good luck contacting customer service. There's no phone number, just an email and they might get back to you. These dating apps are designed to make money not for you to meet someone and the fake profiles on OurTime will send you a like by automation just to keep you interested.

IF OUR TIME IS NOT A SCAM IT IS VERY CLOSE TO IT. Everything costs 'extra'. After joining and paying to be a full member (about $80 for three months), it tries to milk you at every opportunity. Buy a BOOST to push you up on searchers list, pay 24 bucks extra to have other member be able to answer your messages for free. Yes, that is true! You must pay extra to answer messages. This is a terrible site with the constant micro transactions. Want to talk to Tammy? Just another $14 will get through to her. I hate this dating. Go to Silversingles, they are upfront there. Don't know much else to say except AVOID this site.

In the filter section where you enter info such as max and min height or age. I entered 45 miles maximum away, but the majority of the men that come in are 60 to 100 miles away. I have emailed them multiple times but no help.

Warning: This site posts likes and messages before you pay to join. Once you pay, these 'female members' never respond or have suddenly left. All the older members hit you up. I've have women as old as 78 send me messages.

When you set your search parameters, included of course is age. You can select "Deal Breaker" if you do not want to include people outside the range you have selected. I did this, but am constantly being Liked and messaged by guys who are older.

First... Save yourself a lot of aggravation and move on to another dating site. As others have mentioned, automatic renewals will sneak up on you since you will become disenchanted with the site early and forget to cancel the subscription renewal. If you believe this won't happen to you, be ready to pay extra for any communication with a prospective match. You will end up paying top dollar to communicate. Customer service will offer a renewal discount "after the fact" when you call to complain...But don't fall for it. In short, all you get for your money is a chance to browse... And many of the offerings are dated and not really active individuals. Lastly, find a different and reputable dating site and start over. Even though I am stuck with my membership...I am going to block Our Time from sending me any more e-mails. TERRIBLE DATING SITE!

I would not recommend Ourtime. I used it then decided it wasn't for me but since I paid a discount amt for a few months, I decided to let it run out. I tried to cancel before the end of my discounted time only to be able to deactivate my acct and thought it was cancelled. The next thing I notice was that they charged me for another 6 months, not just 1 month but 6. $120.00 is what I was charged. I've tried to reach out to them to fix the issue, but there isn't a phone number. So I emailed them again. If no response, I'm disputing it with my bank because of no response on their part. Please beware especially if you are on a fixed income.

They completely IGNORE any of the fields you have marked as deal breaker and simply flood your email with picks nothing close to what you ask for. Worst, is they simply can cut your account, allow you no access and then make it almost impossible to ever contact them. I am an extremely polite, courteous and decent man and not one of the few ladies I've chosen to meet would have any complaints about me. Yet, I cannot even get any explanation from them as to why they have stopped my access to my account.

This site is full of scammers. I don't think Ourtime does any significant screening of the profiles being established. These profiles make contact and immediately want your phone number. When you question them about their motives they delete their profile. This has happened four times in the four weeks I have had a profile on their site. I cannot find any type of link for direct contact of the site. I also agree that the profile filter doesn't work at all. I keep getting suggestions from several states away. I have cancelled my membership and will use more reputable sites in the future. This site is a dumpster fire and you should steer clear!

Total rip off, I've set my preference multiple times and all I get is views from 100s of miles away. They want you to pay for help!!..short story is DON'T DO IT!!! The algorithms etc are all messed up. Total waste of time and money, I canceled early and now have to wait till end day and make sure they don't charge me again...Read the reviews..This site should be closed down!!!!

You can not get into their site unless you make a full profile. Once I made a full profile and was able to view a few profiles, I went in to edit my profile and when I did, I got this notice to verify my phone number. I put phone number in and they would send a code. I Never received a code so was locked out of their site. I wrote 13 emails to customer service and still NO help. I then wrote several emails to delete my account and nothing was done. They keep sending me pictures of men who are interested in me but I can not get it to site. I finally contacted an attorney friend who also wrote them an email to delete my account and send me a confirmation of the account deleted. Still no one did a thing. Now I am filing a lawsuit because they are using my pictures without my ok.

I decided to try Our Time for one month introductory price. I checked off the box that says “cancel my subscription “. This is what you do if you want to make sure that you’re not renewed. Well, big surprise, I was renewed despite my checking the box. I immediately called PayPal. They took the charge off, but this has happen before. I call this practice a scam. Some people don’t pay attention, but I do. I never take more than one month if I decide to try out a site. By the way, the platform is not recommended. Not a good way to even get a coffee date. The men in my area, don’t follow up or bother to reply to a message, even though they messaged you first. Good luck. Go to another site. Match, being part of the group does the same thing.

OurTime is just like most other sites that send you photos of groups of men you specifically said you are NOT interested in. There is no filter for photos or the criteria you pay for. I am so disappointed that I paid for membership. I would love to cancel and get a refund. However, I'm sure there will be an excuse as to why I don't qualify for a refund. I've only been on the site for barely one week. I will be canceling my membership as soon as it expires. Such a waste of MONEY.

With my experience since January, I have found that there are more fake profiles, scammers, sexual content on all of the dating apps not just OurTime. It’s a shame that real people who are looking for someone to experience life with has to deal with this.

Do not buy into this....you buy subscription but you can't connect to the person and then want to Upgrade in order to respond or connect. I have been trying deactivate my account and get a refund in less than 4 hours. This is just for you keep buying upgrades with no positive outcomes. This is just a waste of time, and now I have to wait for my subscription to end, not having connected to anyone. Don't do it.

Do not trust these thieves. They are total frauds sending out likes from false profiles, then they hit your debit cards for never ending amounts that you didn’t agree to. Avoid them like the plague and save your money.

This happens time and again: I get an email from OurTime stating "Member A" wants to make contact with me. I click on "Member A's" picture. One of two things happen: (1) When I click on the picture it takes me to "Member X". OR (2) I click on the picture, leave a message, but can't get back to the picture immediately like if I wanted to add something to the message. OurTime is a total waste of money!

I was a member for 12 hours. Upon checking my email the next morning, saw it had been refunded with no explanation from them. When trying to log in, my membership had been blocked also with no explanation. Then when I contacted them by email, got an automated reply saying there would be a real reply in 24 to 48 hours and that has still never happened almost a week later. Since no rules of theirs had been broken, the most likely explanation is that a person (divorced at least 4 times) I used to know who was on there badmouthed me to the site and had me banned for no reason. Since I was refunded, maybe it's not such a big deal but them blindly taking the word of one party against a person who broke no rules is disappointing and then never following up with an email to attempt an explanation is also pretty bogus.

Our Time posts fake profiles that are gorgeous, handsome, beautiful, and perfect. They send you "likes" and "messages". To reply back to a message you are required to upgrade and subscribe for a cost $. BEWARE if too good to be true!

I signed up on December, paid for 6 months. No problem. I moved so I hid my profile. After my move I shared my profile again. It was okay less than a week then totally disappeared and there is no way to contact Ourtime. Their numbers and emails don’t work. If you go on for help the robo call sends you to just ask site for you to pay for help. Really?! I even tried I forgot my password it says they sent me a code and nothing ever comes to my email. This is so ridiculous. I wouldn’t recommend them for anything. I can’t even cancel. I paid to be ripped off totally. Go anywhere else. Make sure you can contact them and not have to pay for their issue. I wonder if they do this on purpose to get more money. IF ANYONE CAN GIVE ME INFORMATION ON HOW TO GET HELP I WOULD GREATLY APPRECIATE IT. This is a total ripoff.

The 'Top picks' are anything but top picks. Lots of fake profiles on the site, Catfishers are definitely allowed on the site. Another Match.com money grab and big-time loser site. In 3 months on the site, I received several messages from clearly fake profiles, no doubt fishing for $$$. The quality of the so-called 'Top picks' is a complete joke - they clearly have nothing in common with my profile. Don't waste your money! The Match Group parent company owns 41 dating sites and in 2022, the Match Group generated 3.19 billion U.S. dollars in revenue. Their sites include Match, Tinder, Plenty of Fish, OkCupid, Hinge, and Ourtime. In my opinion, they are a scam with little oversight.

The very first woman that I had contact with was a catfish. The pics were taken from this website **. She was supposed to be Lisa from Tempe, Az. It was a guy that lived in Pennsylvania. I got many fake profiles that Ourtime encouraged to send a message to. I finally got one that pulled a new surprise that I hadn't heard about. That one was able to get into my Ourtime account and delete all my pictures and my identity. When I joined, I had to give them information about myself before getting approved. Apparently, that's not always done, because these fake profiles that were supposed to be female members couldn't have been vetted. Now they blame me, banned even a new account that I paid for again. At least my account on Silver Singles got handled properly from the same offender and I turn in every fake profile that I come in contact with.

Tried to login in but they didn't allow to use my email address and my password. They want to have underscores. Ridiculous people. If I want to become a member why you are giving me a hard time and expect me to create a new email address. I was a member before and I am trying to locate someone I met there. For years the same people appeared there. People there is not bad, yes I also met 3 scammers there but you just have to report them, Block them and don't sent them any money or gift cards they ask you.

I figured I would try this site being that it has more people in the age 50 and over range. I purchased a week subscription around Thanksgiving thinking if it was a joke, I didn't spend on a month or more subscription price. Turned out, I could tell in 3 days it was a joke. Only other paying members can reply to your messages. This is apparently how the site makes its money. Women named "Victory" and "Freedom" on there and they claim these are their names. One was a ** woman in a rural area claiming to be **. I tried one more week at the 25% off price around Christmas. All of a sudden you get these scammer profiles reaching out right before your subscription ends. Then it shows you have messages waiting, but no messages are there. So thank you OurTime, I'm officially not paying a penny for a paid site again. These are no better than the free sites.

I helped my 74 year old grandfather who is a widower and looking for a companion get set up on his site. I took pics for him, filled out the profile and questions with him, got him a login, verified the account with him, and showed him how it worked. All pics were blurred out and you have to pay to see who liked your profile. I paid almost $80 for a 3 month subscription so he could use these features. Again, showed him how to use it and let him loose.

No way to tell if someone is a paid member who can respond to your messages. This is so Our Time can offer to sell you access from unpaid members as an optional purchase. While accounts active in the last few days are clearly marked, there is no way to tell how long other accounts have been inactive. I saw some of the same inactive accounts that were there when I joined briefly three years ago. No attempt is made by Our Time to allow only identifiable photographs as primary photo. There are hundreds of people who post a primary picture of themselves wearing sunglasses, which is just dumb. Minimum signup is now for 3 months. The database is not granular enough in filtering. I spent hours and hours eliminating members with dogs. Pet preferences could not be filtered.

OurTime is not what it advertised. All fake people, all fake answers. I can't believe after all these years I fell for it. I'm going to call my bank and see what they say. I'm not paying for only 10 days of subscription. And I only went on there 3 time. Beware.

Don’t hand over your bank details to this scam site! It’s nothing but a ghastly rip off! They overcharge you, they put you on automatic renewal and they don’t let you cancel. My search for wife was finished on J4Date.club - I found just what I was looking for. She is exactly my type of lady and I am more than happy! This is what happens when you search on a legit site. So I encourage everyone to stop wasting your time on Ourtime. They are only good at emptying your pockets! Don’t try to make it work – it’s rotten!

Paid for premium service. When I tried to message other members all they would see is an attempted communication. No word were received. When I tried customer support/service no human available. Only generic computer answers that didn't address my problem. Very disappointed. Will try eHarmony.

To their credit I found my true love, but customer service has been something else - particularly Jorge. I canceled auto renewal, but they charged me. Maybe I will get a refund but they've accused me.

They drag you in with likes and fake messages, once you pay, these profiles are nowhere to be found. I know there are great sites like J4Dates where they have active profiles, and if you receive a message or chat request from ladies (no matter if you have free, minimal or maximum account) they don't disappear and you continue messaging until you meet them, if everything goes well. I guess it happens when the site provides real profiles. Ourtime provides fake profiles! Another thing that drives me crazy is their customer service, they make it confusing and difficult to delete your profile.

This is not a real and SERIOUS company, think about, to take your money, right away all is good and smooth, so AS LONG AS everything is smooth with the app you are good, although they have very few subscriber, 8.9M against 530M in Tinder or even eHarmony with 37M, so you are paying for chances that are extremely low, I did not know about this, so I signed up with Ourtime, all went good and smooth, then I signed out as I got tired and needed to pic some photos, next time I tried to sign in (next day) I got a message YOU HAVE BEEN BLOCKED, I am like, what?

Since the day I originally looked at the Ourtime.com app, I have received eight fake profiles. These are people using AI to make it look like they speak English and are interested in a relationship. There is a line that you can use to ”express a concern”, regarding a profile, but it doesn’t seem to work. BEWARE! These people are very good at what they do. And it appears that they are being coached.

As my former review of match.com this one being the same co. and same result taking away 2 months of my service. All I can say is don't use them. There are opt thing is hard to follow and then when you don't pay the bill they your time 2 months worth. So use your own thought and think if you want to use them. Bad, bad co.

On OurTime, common sense flies out the window. So don’t assume that only one profile per user is allowed. Nope, you can have multiple profiles albeit with the different email addresses. Perfectly legal and confirmed with the Customer Service. And if this isn’t enough, some multiple users share the same user ID. I have a habit of bookmarking profiles and then looking them up later and make a choice. Nope, not possible with OurTime. I bookmark one, then try to bookmark another, and boom two supposedly different users have the same user ID. I personally don’t think that the numbers are recycled. More likely some if not all of them are FAKE in my humble opinion.

I’ve found that being a paid member is not worth paying for. There are duplicate profile photos & the profiles have different names, different states they reside in but the same interests. Most of the profile photos look fake & they recommend everyone & anyone but no one you would have an interest in meeting. I definitely don’t recommend this site.

I was a user of Ourtime.com for a substantial amount of time (on and off). At the beginning there was a serious problem of phony (spam) profiles and I would spend a good amount of time blocking these. Our Time did improve security somewhat with 2-step verification, however spam profiles still made their way into the system. However I could deal with that issue. What eventually threw me off is the ineptitude of the staff to solve what should have been a simple problem of my login not working. It was never fixed in weeks, and if you try their "customer service" number, 866-727-8920, it is terminally busy and apparently out of order. So forget about receiving any help for what you pay to use the system.

Profiles did not conform to my preferences. Asked for ** only, christian, 60-65, within 100 miles. Got all ethnicities, age 49-70, atheist and **. Also documented profile of a scammer via screen shot before he deleted his online profile. Double billed, canc, but no refund provided. Cust service did not email back. Took screen shot of canc #. Had to file vendor dispute via my bank to atremot to get refund and stop possible recurring billing.

I’ve been on a number of dating sites and OurTime is the worst. IMHO the best is J4luv because they weed scammers out. My entire experience with Ourtime was negative. I won’t call it an utter scam but the price is too much for what is available. So what do they offer you for real after you take enough time to set up your profile and upload pictures? Tons of fake profiles, computer-generated messages and auto renewal for 3 months - it does not matter if you untick this option. Most of the prospects that seem more or less real either live 500 miles away or haven’t been online for months. So that’s why I’m telling you Ourtime is a waste of time!

Received a like from someone I personally know who flat out told me she didn't do it. The website did it from monitoring my views in a deceptive ploy to get me to sign up. In other words the website programmers orchestrate phony activity from phony profiles which is complete criminal fraud. These people should all be arrested, fined and shut down.

Been with for a year. Included in my profile - that interested in locals. Get several messages from out of town. Dry spells where get no interests at all. Not enough info on likes/comments on men's profiles. Few even acknowledge that a like has been sent or that a comment has been sent. Thought the site dedicated to seniors would be more successful for me, but it's just the same as all the ones I attempted when younger. Waste of my time and money.... Have the decency to at least respond and if they aren't responding - kick them off the site, cause they're just taking up space!

This site does not appear to use much in the way of a matching algorithm. They send any and everyone at you regardless of distance other things you might care about. Several in one month have been scammers. And, it is down, server not responding, regularity (like every Friday night and Saturday morning for me).

I have been using OurTime for several weeks now. I get new posting every few days but most are from different states. There is no way to search what is near to you. Also it appears that keep pictures and profiles online even if they are no longer members. You can write a message to them but unless they rejoin they cannot see it. I get the feeling that the majority of the listings they show are no longer active but are left on to make them look more successful. I will give it a few more months (I have a six month contract) but it does not look like it is organized well enough to be of use.

Most of the members selected for me were from another Country (Canada). A large number were Christian, I am a strong agnostic. There is a very limited place for profiles and when members wrote or sent likes, information as age and location were missing. All attempts to rectify this were met with canned messages that obfuscated the answers. There were a lot of obviously canned messages as "I liked your profile" or simply "Hi". Were often identical and when I replied I often got run arounds. (Compared to other sites as eHarmony and Match, this was, for me, by far the worst. I am not only dissatisfied but extremely frustrated.

Note: the "4/5" rating here is FAKE. When you look at the reviews, there are 7 total at 5 stars! The most recent is 2019! ConsumerAffairs has a 1.27 rating of 5 on the BBB! So DO NOT TRUST THEM! If you pay this site, you get a good rating, it is that simple. OURTIME IS A SCAM! We wasted hours trying to help mom to setup an account. She is 80. Our father passed away a year and a half ago and she was finally ready to find a new friend and have some kind of relationship. We should have looked for reviews before trying this site and app! Now, we know better!

Do not!!! I repeat, Do not give this company your credit card number! I made the mistake of giving mine and had to cancel my card and get a new one for they kept taking money from my account. There is no customer service to speak of so I contacted the BBB for help and after a lengthy period of back-and-forth communication, I received a refund from the company. This company is nothing more than crooks and scammers! RIPOFF!!!

I subscribed to Ourtime.com at an expensive $120.65 less than one week ago. Every time I try to log in it tells me my password is no good and to reset it. When I try it tells me I am unable to do so. There is no number to call. The only way to contact the company is via internet on a problem form. The response is slow, maybe the next day. I paid more for this site than another site I am using and the service is terrible.

I have been on this site for about 2 months now. Average about 1 new date per month. I have put out 65 messages over that time. I have had three first dates. All miserable. The first was nothing like her pictures. She put on about 30 pounds and she didn't smile in any profile pics. Absence of any dental hygiene was why she didn't smile (to put it as nicely as I can). The second was not honest of her political and spiritual values. Her cultist beliefs ended that date promptly. The third was not happy with her decision to move to my area of Florida from another state. Well I think this is a piece of paradise. I am considered one of the nicest men by my friends and social contacts. I am also fit and relatively attractive for my age (70). Very few of the patrons in my preferred age range (62 - 73) appeal to my sense of sight and activity level. Waste of my time digging through the piles to find that "needle" in the haystack.

Where do I start? So many scammers! The site pays no attention to your preferences. I rarely see someone in my state, and have even gotten recommended matches out of the country! Every two minutes they are asking you to pay for an upgrade. There is no feeling of trust. Example: Profile: Number of children: No children. A favorite thing to do in my spare time: Spend time with my children. Horrible site!

I signed up for a month to give the site a try because it looked promising, but the day after I paid, I started getting unhinged messages from one of their members. I was shocked and felt threatened, so tried to remove my profile and request a refund. It should have been a simple transaction as the payment had gone through a day or two previously. But after multiple emails and requests for help through the Contact page on their website, it became clear that there was no customer service, or none that would respond to my concerns/request. The whole experience left me feeling compromised and uneasy. I recommend staying away.

I was sent hundreds of daily message from this site so decided to join. The only option is the 6 month Best Value, due to the steering issue of the design. As soon as they got my card processed, I was blocked. I cannot communicate with anyone and their customer service number is in essence, a recording that says, "there is no customer service again available. please call back". Then it disconnects. Be aware they have your card now, and will never offer service. I wanted to cancel it because the men were likely about as many scammers as the Free sites like FB dating and POF. Many, many frauds, and the ones that weren't were not men I would have in my home, much less a relationship with. You can guess what kind. YUCK!

Zero stars --- Negative stars. I enjoyed this site for about a month. After that, I began to see that they don't take down obvious scammers -- one obvious stolen model picture had several listings; a different first name and town on each. I cancelled my subscription at renewal and thought that was that. I soon began getting email notices from match.com (a different dating site), where I apparently had a profile. They kept asking for payment. I did not sign up for match.com.

Well a friend of mine who knows me very well she advice to give a try with the OurTime dating app. She told me then I can just take a look without pay anything for it. So I have nothing to lose. I spend 3 hours go through all the Women of my same age. Oh by the way I'm 56yr old very attractive man - according to my friend..!! However..!! I quickly become very depressed because there is nothing really attractive. Some women are posting their cats and dogs pictures. Who knows why?! But I totally snapped when I woman posted this comment in her profile "I'm very family orientated and I love to spend my time with my family" and I thought the man who will be with her or maybe even marry her He need to be in relationship with whole family... Why you even are on the dating app?

I can't access Messages from my phone and Messages are the key way for people to meet. I can't login on my computer unless I change my password every time. It won't save my password although I keep asking it to. More problems I don't remember. I have contacted them three times asking they either fix the problems or refund my money; the only answers I have gotten are computer generated notices that they received my message.

A unpaid membership is worthless, you can't send a message or respond to one. As a premium member you still don't have access to 2 perks, you have to pay more. Their discovery section is supposedly to see matches to your profile, what they do is show every member they have regardless of your filters. Their rules are very loose giving them the a ability to cancel any member for what they call 'Fraudulent activity'. That happened to 2 people I was in contact with, don't bother questioning the reason they won't tell you. Their customer service is horrible, one woman advised me to drop my concern. I sent 2 questions through the help center, their answer was not what I asked, it was an answer to other subjects. The 1st thing I noticed was how few members they have, now I know why.

Well I went to the site because it was for older adults. I figured more adult and less game playing. Immediately I was met with challenges in regards to reaching out to members and buying a higher tiered subscription. Ok. Fine. But as I scrolled through some of the pages, I started to notice women that were barely in their 20s let alone 50. I went to the reviews section and I was shocked. This site is nothing more than a money grab. I really had hoped that this was a good site but based on what I have read and briefly experienced, you will never get any money from me. You all should be ashamed. I have not read even ONE positive review. I'm sure there is at least one but I just couldn't read through all the bad ones.

I would not recommend this site to anyone. It is so full of scammers/frauds and the company does not do a thing about it. Do not believe or trust any of the people on this site. There are more reputable dating sites than this. The profiles prey on senior citizens. I was an idiot. They have been reported to the BBB and I suggest you do the same. They need to be put out of business. It is a SCAM.

The OurTime site does present a good amount of people for you to review. As a member you can message other members. There is no way to go back and look at a person a second time if you clicked to bypass. There are NO searches for specific distances for discovering new people instead you are served tons of people so far away it is absurd. I can't tell the search to stop displaying Canada members. A real waste of time. Every few people a screen shows up wanting money for this or that. It displays people that liked me who magically disappear, they simply vanish. You can put in a mile limit for Search. There are many, many non members shown just like full members with nothing showing their status, another effort waster. The site is very crippled and limited. I paid for just 1 month. I am glad I did not pay for longer.

I was trying to get a refund after trying and looking for a day but no answer. I finally got a hold of someone who told me I have to ask Apple for the refund. I wanted to cancel because the clients they have are not the features I was looking for. I don’t want to insult but this is a site to distance yourself.

This site claims to be a safe place to meet singles over the age of 50. I have been a member for over a year and I have many more bad experiences than good. It does no good to select a geographic area of interest for dating. I live in Arizona and get profiles from Florida, North Carolina, Minnesota, the Dakotas, and even Massachusetts to name but a few. I have also had several single mothers in their early 30s post photos of older ladies, possibly their mothers, and claim to be in their 60s. I have had at least 6 scam attempts from people who claim to be widows and who give false names and contact information. The most recent was two days ago.

So many flaws, I don't know where to begin. It's expensive and once you become a Member they are constantly trying to upsell you. Be careful of their "auto-renewal." You should opt out immediately. And SURPRISE, when you do opt out the membership rate drops to 50% off. Small universe of Members, most are far away. The number of "likes" and "messages" shown on my laptop version versus my phone app never match... Very sketchy. When you do "like" a profile the system automatically e-mails the member, I hate that! If I want to message them, I'll do it myself.

I implore anyone contemplating using this site that you DO NOT. Terrible waste of money, it's such a poorly run site. One of the worst I was ever on. So many fake profiles, many profiles with no photos. Most matches are too far away, ignores your criteria. Just a bad experience. DO NOT JOIN THIS SITE.

I got on OurTime hoping to find someone to have coffee with. Signed up in Nov. 2021, and things were working fine, although I never found anyone even close to what I was looking for. Then in Dec. 2021, their IT team did an update, and now I can't access my account. I have called customer service THREE TIMES, asking them to unlock my account. All they say is they will put in a ticket to report the problem. I am paid through April 2022, but have a feeling I have lost my money. This site is the biggest ripoff of any I have ever been on. So since I can't access my account, it's a pretty fair bet they will change my subscription status so they can charge me for another six months come April. Time to call my credit card company and block them from charging me anymore. Absolutely worthless!

My neighbor was a VICTIM from a married man dating Senior Widows purposely to get title of their property and bank accounts! He was married to 2 other woman and bought an engagement ring to prove his supposed Love. I reported him to company warning them to Remove this dangerous man and was told to go on my profile and block him!!! They could care less! Watch out ladies.

You cannot filter your searches. Most people who you see their profiles live in other states. You see profiles, repeatedly, after you pass on them. Many people don't use profile pics. Plus, I am looking for opposite sex profiles, but also get same-sex profiles! Their customer support is of no help, & they refuse to give me a refund. This website is a waste of money!!

I sign out, next day cannot log in, a lot of phishing people messaging you. Stay away from this app. It's a waste of money, less than 24 hours cannot log in, try to cancel and no one to find. This is the worst online app I ever seen.

Very disappointed with what I paid for. Way too many pop-ups trying to get you to upgrade with addons. Difficult, maybe impossible to distinguish paid members who can reply to a message from free members who cannot. Way too many likes and messages from people living 100's even 1000's of miles away. Have been instantly blocked by too many members after only mentioning fake profiles or catfishing.

Numerous emails daily, same people over and over again. I can understand going out of age range but I am pretty strict about gender. Also got renewed today, a heads-up about that would have been nice since I had intended to end my membership. That's 120 dollars down the drain.

I have been on and off this site and now when my membership expires I am gone for good. I am a woman who dates younger men, but younger for me falls within Our Times' criteria. I listed the age group I wanted matches from and what I got were matches that were often several years older than me. Not interested. When I complained, they told me that they were giving me "the matches that were available". What they are doing instead is throwing me into an algorithm that has nothing to do with what I was looking for. When men I weren't interested in insulted me, Our Time did nothing. Also, someone was stalking me and they did nothing about it until he violated some other rule. Stay away from the site, it's a rip off and not worth it. I never had any dates, or correspondence from anyone on this site. Unless you are a woman who wants to date someone 15 years older than she is you will be out of luck.

I initially replied to a number of men who wanted to meet & asked them follow up questions. They never replied & I later checked to see they never opened my replies. I was able to chat with one man online & he said he never received my replies. The last straw was reaching out to a man whose profile said he had a master's & was an educator. I decided to pay the extra smaller amount they want you to pay to ensure the reader can reply. I then sent a follow up text asking if he had received my earlier text as many others had never replied to me. The immediate response wanted to know all about my negative experience, with no reply to my earlier text questions to him. I then asked more about his background & the responses weren’t even proper English- total scam! I believe the prior profiles were old ones they use to give the appearance of a “real” person- big waste of money & time- Do no trust this site- don’t lose your money!

OurTime sends a daily list of people that you are matched with. However, when you click on them, it's not accurate. It will say the specs are matchable, and then when you click the profile, it can be EVERYTHING you specifically identified as a no way.

This company is the biggest RIPOFF on the Internet. It's nothing but a marketing scam!!!! DO NOT JOIN THIS SERVICE!!! UNLESS YOU WANT TO BE RIPPED OFF. This service gives you the same messages and likes over and over and DOES NOT follow your requests!!!!

What I have found on this site are typically married men who want a fling, or scammers who do not even live in the country who start asking for money. And if there are single men, they look like the Grinch but want to date a super model. Don't waste your time or money on this site. We really need a site where people are vetted and backgrounds are performed.

There is no thrill at all with this app. No one wants to talk, they just want to get your number right off the bat. Plenty of guys initiate conversation but most all for a date and want to know what to do, like just pick something! Most conversations don't end in a question to keep the conversation going...I guess that's just guys these days!

I paid for a 1 month and they had them same Woman RECOMMENDED to me every day for the whole month. NO NEW RECOMENDATIONS. Their subscribers must have been limited because I kept receiving the same Woman over and over every day.

Men in the 60-70 age group have very similar profiles. I.E; love laughter, love outdoors, will usually be 5'10', they don't put forth any effort in taking appealing photos (some photos are a little scary). The men who might be a little interesting to me (world travelers, interesting hobbies, etc.) don't respond back.

Lots of messages but all refuse to video chat. They Can not even use proper English. It's obvious that English is a second Language. Fake Fake Fake. Don't waste your money, it's a scam. College educated Professionals born in U S A and can not even speak proper English. Its hard to tell if they are freelance scammers or working for the site. One thing is for sure, they are not who they say they are if they won't show their Face. Don't waste your money.

I paid for a 6 month subscription. I was not happy with the matches. Not many near my home. Kept showing the same people even when I passed on them. Also didn't keep to the ages I specified. Would not recommend.

I tried this site for a month. I have a couple more days to go. The selection of men were more than usual. But just the past 2 days of (which is close the end of my subscription) I have been inundated with computer generated messages from all over the country. I think it is ironic of the timing. And most of the messages DO NOT have photos, information about themselves or anything else like a regular account. I find this site is not true and honest. Why after 3 weeks am I getting hundreds of computer generated messages a day! I was on once before and same thing happened. I complained I wasn’t getting any messages and then all of a sudden they came through...

I have been a member on this site for a week, maybe two weeks. I have encountered so many fakes. People with pictures and nice opening remarks, with no information other than the city they live in. I had conversation with a woman from Massachusetts earlier. If she was from Massachusetts, I’ll eat my dirty shoes. You only need to read, and pay a little attention. The one tonight did not talk like an American. The arrangement of their words and choice of words were familiar to me, when I vacationed in ** twice. ** is the second largest scamming country, second only to scammers in **. I had two on my page this evening who were fakes. When I reported one, the other one disappeared also. That looks like a concerted effort. Don’t waste your money on here.

I joined Ourtime for a 6 month period. After 1 month, it was abruptly stopped and said I would have to call their number. I called and asked what had happened and the guy I talked to (Roy) said he would let the company know and they would get back within 24-48 hours. After 2 days and not hearing from them, I called again and was told that I was cancelled for not following the guidelines. I told the man that it must be a mistake because I had not done anything wrong. I asked what it was that caused this and he said he couldn't tell me. I asked to speak to his supervisor and he refused to give me a name or number, but after a while he finally said he would see if he could get someone to talk to me. After being on hold for 30 minutes I finally hung up. It was clear that no one was going to talk to me. This company is obviously in the business to take your money and then cancel you without any explanation. They are scammers!! Beware!!

Every time I go on the site, I am told someone has viewed my profile but I can never find the profile of that person. I cannot search a person by location (postal code) even though it is supposed to be an option. Finally, there are extra charges for everything. Overall the site is a confusing incoherent scam to gouge we fools who have subscribed to it. I must add that Match.com is just as bad. These parasites are cursed and should be put out of business and our misery.

The reviews on this site are absolutely true. I wish I could stop people from wasting their money. Half the profiles don’t have a picture. And the ones that do aren’t even local. And the ones that are look like they just fell off a prison bus. They make it so difficult to cancel the renewal. There has to be better sites out there. Please beware.

Do Not Pay “OurTime“ any money. I had a paid membership on “Our Time“ singles website and you expect to make contacts but “Our Time” CONTROLS every person you try to email by blocking the conversations and charging ridiculous “Gifts”, “Tokens”, a stupid “Boost” over and over on your credit card. From $.99 to $6.99 each time and more just to receive or correspond with other members. "Our Time” blocks the conversations from happening so they can get into your bank account over and over. They overcharge for the Membership as well and to make contact with ANYONE which never happens. Save your money. DO Not Sign Up with “Our Time” singles website.

This is the worst dating site. They ignore your location and send you matches from various other states. You will get messages that you have many reviews. They are not there. There are members photos on this site from years ago. I know this for a fact because I was on this site in 2018 and met a guy. When I went back on this site his profile came up. Same one same pic from 2018 and I know he is and has been in a good relationship. So DON'T DO IT. It's too expensive for what you get and the men are mostly just surfing and not seriously looking.

After browsing the site for a week or so - I finally 'joined' (i.e. paid $40 for a one month subscription), because I had 30 messages and likes - and many seemed legit. Upon paying the fee - I was able to see details on messages - and although before I paid up the site showed me primarily local guys (I live in DFW - so lots of guys), upon payment - details revealed that 95% of the contacts were from guys many thousands of miles away! Only 2 of the 30 were in the DFW area - and a total of 4 in Texas. The age(s) you are interested in and the location don't seem to apply - once they have your money. TOTAL SCAM!!!!

This site has gone to hell over the years. They allow pics of girls that are early 20s claiming they’re in their 50s, 60s and 70’s. I report them as fraudulent profiles but nothing gets done. Like others said, they ask for your info right away. Beware because this has become an illegitimate site. I would not be surprised if the entire site is being run by criminal scammers. Do yourself a favor and DO NOT JOIN!

Lots of not active, outdated profiles. Some obviously scammy letters. And no tangible results! Anyway, I found something better! I'm over 50, but I don't mind having a younger partner. I found her on **. She is 37, young and beautiful :) but mature enough for relationship. There are many women there who don't mind age difference, as it fits their culture. Their minds and personalities are mature enough.. Often more mature than those of American women over 50.

If I could give zero stars I would. I did the free trial for 3 weeks before deciding to pay for a subscription. Once I had my paid subscription I quickly discovered that the vast majority of profiles are either scams, old members no longer on the site, or non paid "members" that you cannot interact with; you cannot message or contact them to indicate your interest and they cannot contact you except by upgrading and paying to allow you (unpaid subscriber) to respond. People media is completely aware of this and in fact has designed the site so that it appears that they have lots of active potential partners. Also, please note that when you agree to become a member that they accept NO responsibility for the content or veracity of the profiles; it is to their advantage to have as many profiles as possible so that it appears that you will have a robust experience.

I question the validity of this site. It just did not seem authentic. I searched for local area single women and upon paying for the month service found that those who I had replied to who were supposedly in my area were in different parts of the country. While on the site there were numerous pop ups of women who claimed to be in my given area and upon trying to reply it showed that they couldnt receive messages etc. The site seemed legitimate. That is until I made my payment. Bogus site.

All likes that I got were absolutely fake, but I discovered this only after I had paid for their overpriced membership. I wanted to find a women in my area. All my matches on OurTime were located at distant places, moreover, neither of them replied to my message. What's the point of Ourtime? I have a feeling that it's dead (except of bots). It's absolutely worthless. I got no results for the money I paid.

OurTime is bad., really bad... Very old profiles with obsolete software.. The company is misleading people... Very few active accounts.... Not only did I waste my money I wasted my time. I think the company should reimburse me my money.

Terrible Company. Quick to take your money but provide inadequate Customer Service. Take your business elsewhere, this site has false advertising and ignorance in all aspects. Beware! Try other reputable sites! Avoid!

OurTime doesn't do their work. All they want is to put you on automatic subscription and automatic renewal so they want your cc details. I strongly advise to stay away from eHarmony. In my honest opinion, it's not worth a cent. It is the kingdom of fakes and bots. Don't believe these profiles - they are used to attract new users.

Site was constantly hacked with messages sent with my username that I did not generate. Had to change my password several times. Subscription charges were higher than the web site stated. They would cancel the subscription then sign me back up without my permission and give me no way to cancel by sending me to a URL to cancel which returned a 404 error code. I believe that the company that owns Ourtime, People Media signed me up to several subscriptions I never subscribed include dating sites and gaming site.

10 days in, I found that my PayPal account had been charged an additional “upgrade” fee, was hacked by a woman using the site to solicit funds from men all over the country who changed my profile several times: including photos. Eventually I was locked out of my own profile. I had a six month subscription and was only partially refunded. This experience left me humiliated as was my first attempt at online dating. The account person I dealt with online used COVID-19 as an excuse regarding the breach in security. Before canceling, in order to access my account after this I had to agree not to participate in a class action lawsuit to gain access.

This is the worst dating app I ever been on. Lots of scammers targeting us. They will seem to want to be with you then ask for your email. I think it’s is to get into your computer to send a virus. Some of the guys are good looking and seem desperate to be with you but and you think can this be real but it’s NOT. Don’t be fooled. If they sound desperate to be with you but won’t meet you block them.

I signed up and had to pay for 3 months in advance. Within 24 hours my account starting sending chats to men from me and my mailbox was flooded with emails and many men in the area blocked me because this. I changed my password, but when I logged back in I could literally see it typing as me and I could not stop it. I was forced to close out my account, but I think all my pictures and information was already copied and a fake account of “me” will be set up. If that isn’t bad enough, I’m out $120 too. I should at least get my money back. There is no repair to the guys in my area that believe I scammed them.

I have found this site- like many similar ones - far from easy to navigate. Equally in this case, despite the site being 'free' to join, it is necessary to subscribe to be able to see to what you are being asked to respond. e.g. "Jackie likes you - send her a message". On each occasion that I sought to do that it was clear that I would be given no idea as to who or what I might have been messaging until I had parted with my subscription. I don't want to waste anyone's time - that of the potential recipient or of mine. Equally annoying was that I could not find and route to a 'help' opportunity. I don't have a problem parting with a modest amount of money but am not going to do so until I can see potential 'value for money'. Unfortunately, on this site I could not.

After reading other reviews around the same time frame, decided to add my experience. I was disheartened with no replies from multiple attempts to connect with those who APPEARED to "like" me. It affected my self esteem. I was looking for compatible. He didn't have to be the best looking. Took me awhile to realize my likes probably weren't members & not necessarily rejections. Price to join is steep, so not willing to pay per conversation. Friend said if the guy wasn't willing to pony up for membership probably not worth the time. Now I realize they may have also lost faith in app & not willing to get burned again. Gave 2 stars because was conversing with a lovely man 11 yrs my junior just when my month ended.

Never ever pay or even use this website you can not talk to anyone in the profile, you can never make contacts unless you pay over 50 dollars or more for even one day, I'm not joking. I got sucked into it for 30 days and I'm going to dispute it with my cc company, I was taken to believe I could converse with someone and you can't unless you pay another 10 dollars for one chat. Never again.

HORRIBLE in a word... Poor customer service, not user friendly. No matter what you request, they simply ignore it. I requested specific mileage of 100 miles from my home and specific ethnicity and it's as if I never told them. Got people from east and west coast. Too much money for the poor value. Called many times. No response. When I finally did get a response they did not respect my requests. I would never use them again. I wish I could give them zero stars.

I definitely was scammed by Kenneth C **. I am working with the Federal Trade Commission. New to being single, a widow, Kenneth fell into the a-typical pattern of a scammer. Soon after a two back and forth correspondence, he asked for my email address. Gave me a flashy title for his job title, told me he preferred older woman and willing to relocate etc etc. The next thing I knew he was awarded as independent contractor in Turkey and the rest is history. BEWARE, this site tells you they want to know if you have been scammed but nowhere is there a way to contact them on Our Time site or call them. This site is a hoax.

Terrible experience. This site is full of scammers or phishing. I got a message from someone. I responded and he messaged back and said he never ever sent me a message and he said he was hacked. The site is not that user friendly. Also, you get lots of error messages. One person and I were communicating. I said I wanted to make sure he sure he was legitimate. He got angry and won't communicate with me anymore. Everyone should realize there are so many scammers. I had several. He was insulted. I tried to explain to him it happens often. Terrible experience.

This site is basically a scam. You pay 30 bucks and when you reach out to someone they can't reach back out to you free. They have to pay $5.99 to see what I said to them. The young lady did and all I could say was the site sucks. But she wanted to read what I had said to her so she paid the additional fee. Don't waste your money. It also puts like you answered someone back when you really didn't.

Think twice before you jumping off into this site. I have been on the site for 6 months and it was a disaster. I "Liked" 100's of men and did not get a real response. The individuals that reached out to me turned out to be either scammers or perverts. All but 1 really nice man that did not work out. That was a lot of frogs and never found my "prince". Cost to get on, cost to send messages, cost for this, cost for that. I think I will try a local free one next. Think about it.

There is no way to document your preferences of what you are or not looking for. They were matching me with smokers and people who lived hundreds of miles away. When I contacted the company I was told that when people open up their options they are matched with more people. Waste of my time. Why be matched with someone who absolutely is not a match? There is not enough characters for information on your profile. I thought going to a site that specializes in my age group would be great. It was not. If they could update their system, offer more options (such as exclusions) and a radius it could be better. Until they offer more options there will not be enough people to be matched to. The impression I received is that it is my fault there were not enough matches. Looking for a nonsmoker and not a long-distance relationship is not asking for too much.

At first I got a lot of attention, then realized many were just Likes and there was only the rare response to my messages. I was looking for matches within 300 km, but I kept getting Likes from all over the US and Canada, too far away, even though I specified local in my profile. I suspect many are fake, to pump up the number of Likes. The ads are offensive to women, and they keep popping up no matter what you do... it says they are from Google but they most definitely are not. More of those ads appeared each day, increasingly offensive, especially since the time I decided not to renew. As for scammers... yes, plenty of those, with perfect profiles, sad stories and asking immediately for your email address and phone number.

The web page is hard to understand and what you can do with what you paid for. I wanted to be able to chat but didn't pay extra for call chat or email chat. When I invited someone to chat they weren't on the chat window I had on my screen. I was looking for someone from my area and thought I stated that and yet I kept getting interested inquires from very far away. Never got to connect with one person I wanted to. One that I did chat with immediately asked inappropriate questions that you would never ask of someone you didn't know. This turned me off and I no longer was interested in finding a someone for me. Get this I got over 200 views and only chated with 3.

Also it is supposed to be for older people and lots of young people are on there.

It costs you money for the subscription, BUT, once you are in it will cost separately to send a message to someone, it will cost to boost your profile, it will cost a fee for every little thing you want to do, that's not right! And when you want to cancel and get your money back, good luck on that fight!

What a terrible service. I signed up and paid for 3 months and cancelled on day 3. They give you fake profiles, send you "stock" messages from supposed admirers. Lots of scammers trying to get your private info.

This site has not worked very well for a 78 y/o woman. But the last two days have been the worst performance of the site. When I attempt to log on, it immediately goes to the UK site, not the USA site. (I am NOT a newbie at logging on to this site.)

4 years on the site - I kept track w/ spreadsheet of views, photos, locations, etc. First words in my profile were 'only interested in local matches w/ photo'. More than half who sent msgs didn't fit that criteria. Site lessened the characters in profile, so you couldn't tell much about self. And, the full week before membership ends (I had this happen 3x, when I then stupidly/hopefully renewed), instead of 3-6 views per day, I'd get 57+ views per day, most w/out photos. Oh, men w/ larger breasts than mine, in poolside pics, who request "younger, slender women". This was a waste of time. I'll stick to book, my many good friends and magic wand. Much more reliable!

I paid for six months of OurTime in February. Since that time, I have been hacked three times. The third time, they changed my password so I couldn't contact OurTime. I did get their telephone number and was on hold a total of 8 1/2 hours to try to resolve this issue and get back on the site. After a week of trying to contact OurTime through phone calls and e-mails, I had enough, and cancelled my membership, with four months paid in advance with no reimbursement and absolutely no service. This is a terrible company that does not protect you from invasion of privacy.

On numerous occasions I have not been able to send messages. I click on the icon but message doesn't send. I have emailed the company to report but have never received a satisfactory answer as the problem still exists. I have called but I apparently get put on hold as music just plays and plays and plays! No one ever answers and my problem never gets corrected. I won't waste my money again. Starting my 4th month and no correction to the problem.

I signed up 1 month age, from the 50 profiles I contacted, 45 were fake profiles, scammers, had 1 phone conversation, and 4 so far have not contacted me back. I assume fake profiles. In my opinion this was a waste of money. When I sign in I notice a large amount of activity, and receive about 5 flirts in 10 minutes.?? Is this scamming algorithm? You can judge for yourself. My opinion it's a waste of money, too many scammers and fake profiles on this site.

I joined OurTime for one month only. I’m just over halfway through. After not getting replies, I found my profile to contain someone else’s information. And photos! Premium or Premier Membership? Can’t receive or send my messages without paying additional money! No wonder I have over 200 unread messages. No wonder when you find someone “of interest” and start communicating with them, you scratch your head when they suddenly stop responding. I smell a rat!

After clicking w/ a very charming apparently “normal” guy for a couple of hrs, our conversation poof! Disappeared...twice! We were never able to reconnect. Then, I wasn’t even able to post my pictures or contact someone either via telephone or email. The site is a joke!

This site has no security, there are so many fake profiles and scammers. I personally was scammed 4 times on this site. When they are going to Europe for business and need money, RED FLAGS. I’ve never had so many issues with hacking my profile, trying to get my credit card number. But the scariest is when you are stalked, police have to be called and Our Time does nothing because it’s against their policy. Never, ever ever again!!!!

I understand us Older people don't always age that well but, Holy Crap. Farm girls, Drunken old worn out girls...Fake Photos, long distance emails..No ladies that look like they ever wore a dress or even washed before having their photo taken! Tummies that are full of Horse meat or God knows what..Huge, Fat, unkept girls! "Run Forest, Run!"

I was in the Dating site for one month. In that time I was contacted by scammers and con artist. For every legit woman I got four scammers. They have fake profiles and fake pictures. There is no monitoring of the scammers. The customer service is terrible. When I contacted them I was told I am not forced to be on the site. I cancelled immediately!

This is one of the worst dating sites. The men are disgusting and suck you up the 1st time you sign on as if desperate. OurTime has a tv commercial which is crazy, since they are not a reputable dating site like Match or Eharmony. Don't waste your money or time with this site. Filled with filthy men as if it's a porn site..

I have tried a few different sites in the 10 years of being single and OurTime may be the worst. There are precious few new faces and most are blue collar. If a blue collar, bearded with a gut, man is what you are looking for....there are too many to count. The number of professional and well-groomed men are in the single digits. OurTime has preset greetings so no one has to take any time to think of what to write. I may have received a half dozen original messages. Finally, there are pop-ups so when I want to move on to another profile I first have to click (for a no). Thank goodness, I only paid for one month.

It seems aNYone can join as long as you pay the price. I all of a sudden have a guy sending me messages that are extremely vulgar. It's like I'm on a ** site. Some old guy from south Florida. I didn't pay to get these types of messages. I emailed Ourtime when it started but still haven't heard back and he's still posting messages. I would expect this from a 16 year old not someone that is 60! What a sad world we live in. I don't recommend this site at all. Someone likes you, you contact them and nothing.... It's absolutely stupid.

This is a sad excuse for online dating, an extension of Match.com. I signed up for a free membership. Immediately I started getting hammered by messages from other users, to which I couldn't read or respond to. So I signed up for one month. I answered most of the messages to where I received no further response. There were three that did respond and turned out to be scammers that immediately wanted my email address and did not live in the places they claimed. Same profiles. I reported it. I also asked the question about unanswered messages.

I got 3 to 4 times more messages from people hundreds to thousands of miles away than from anyone within 50 miles. I contacted the customer service about this and NEVER got a response. I then posted a "photo" that was a request for messages only from people within 50 miles and customer service FINALLY responded to THAT by taking my posting down! This is a disaster of a dating service and website!!!

I joined a few weeks ago. In about 3 weeks I have run across 4 scammers. I just turned in the 4th. OurTime confirmed the previous 3. I don't know why OurTime cannot screen people and keep out these scammers. The pattern is they send a message that is very appealing and in a subtle way suggest great sex, maybe for men only. The English may be very poor. They also want to get off OurTime and on to email, so there's no trace. They will bait you until they want money to come see you or need money to get back to the country. OurTime, do your job and keep these people off your site!!! 4 of these in 3 weeks is crazy!!!

I have encountered several different female scammers all using the same type of story. Each starts with flattering texts, some of which include stories of breakups with bad husbands or boyfriends, then sending attractive photos, more romantic texts. Then comes an OMG or sad face. You ask what is wrong? In three totally separate incidents, each woman was importing or exporting expensive goods, had gone to customs and found out she owed another $5000, $10000 or more in duties. Then asked if I could quick loan her the money. In the last case, the woman said she was in Egypt and they were threatening to put her in jail. I have been called every name in the book, but having been scammed before, refused to send anything. Still feel bad refusing but it is just becoming so common.

The tech or member support was writing to me. Also, I had their tech support writing to me on my personal email, which I did not give out to the emailer. I politely told him that I was not interested in emailing and exchanging more photos at that time. He had written to me several times on OurTime. I asked him how he got my email. He proceeded to send me a Virus to my computer and destroyed my hard drive. I went to my Dell computer and Virus Protection helpdesk and they confirmed someone hacked my computer and hard drive. I learned a big lesson from my OurTime experience. Before my membership was over, I had several emails from men who worked for OurTime. Such slimy and cheap men using the service where they work for OurTime. I tried to send an email to the owner/manager of OurTime. However, the men would not deliver my email.

I am a senior caregiver and not everyone I work with are invalids. In fact many are still quite functioning adults who are still a mostly productive member in society. Such is the case with my current employer. She only needs a little help and is very much in her right mind. She is in her early 70s and is still quite attractive and has a desire to date once again. She has tried a few sites and decided to trust this site because of who they are supposed to cater to. What we have learned is this is a double edge sword because this site also attracts many scammers that prey on vulnerable adults who are lonely and are merely looking for someone whom they can spend their remaining days on earth with.

Watch the subscribe page... Having chose a plan they will ask for more money, if you don't answer they go ahead and charge you more...stretching it to six months. If you don't like it they lock your account so you have no access to anything ie. Stopping payments or contacting potential partners. But the help dept would be happy to send you a FAQ sheet that does nothing. AT BEST THEY ARE MORALLY REPREHENSIBLE AND ETHICALLY BANKRUPT.

There are more frauds on this site, than are sitting in jails. They don't want you to find someone, because then you and the money will go away. I only started a profile to see what there was to see. I can say that all of the the complaints on here are legit. I can't even access the account part to delete the profile. Beware!

I paid over $100 for six months of Ourtime, and after several days, none of my photos have been approved as my profile photo. Their system must be messed up, or they are understaffed, which is my guess, and nobody's job is to take care of approving my photo. It's also nobody's job to answer their customer service phone line. I've held for 15 minutes twice as they politely plead me to leave a callback number. I can't do that, I have time now, and can't be interrupted later when they call me at their convenience. I will be disputing the credit card charge and letting people know to stay far away from this shoddy service.

I signed up for this service recently and was very specific in answering their questions regarding what I was looking for - a ** woman in her 50's. This is a "fake site" in that they DO NOTHING to match you with anyone. I was immediately bombarded with so=called "matches" of women in their 50's, 60's and 70's of all races. The purpose of any dating match service is to do that screening for you, but this site DOES NOT DO THAT.

I've received messages & flirts from people who didn't exist or who have told me that they had, in no way, tried to contact me. I've received messages from men (I'm a heterosexual male) who expressed an interest in me but they were ''hetero'' also (and spurious). I've received numerous messages from women hundreds (or thousands) of miles away that want to sell me suggestive pictures of themselves or request money. Match.com & OurTime are owned by the same entity (I've been a member of both). I think that the slimy tactics, rampant on Ourtime, is nothing more than a ''test-site'' to see which larceny works with customers before incorporating into Match's protocols. I'm tempted to demand my money back - or (maybe) I'll sue them.

The site is unattractive and not very intuitive. The men I found interesting never answered or could not commit to a phone meeting. I think that a lot of the profiles are fake. Don't waste your money. I have had more luck and more dates on free sites.

Things like their "Connect" service contains a hidden fee. As to their overall service, I subscribed to their service on October 4, 2019 for six months of services. By January 4th they were asking for a six month renewal of my subscription ($158.00) again. I find that to be a bit early, three months on a six month subscription. I have been locked out of my account as a result of my complaints to the and my refusal to pay early. Considering the fact that their target market are all supposed to senior citizens that is a bit excessive. IF YOU USE THEM BE CAREFUL AND BE SURE YOU KNOW WHAT YOU ARE PAYING FOR.

Here is a summary of Ourtime.com: The flirts and messages and favorites you get are from their IT staff. They send it to you to keep you interested, to scam money from you. They also have a way of making you think you are communicating with a real person. They email and send a cell number you can text to. You exchange a few text messages. You wonder at certain times you do not get a reply. Because this is also from their staff. Again to keep your acct active, to keep scamming you for money.

Everyone be extremely careful. I was scammed for $45000.00. I'm now having to pay that back to my bank. Most every man I spoke to had an accent as from overseas. They are very smart and can get your head all messed up. You want to video chat. You want a photo ID. Something to hold on to so you can report them. Make sure you have their personal info so you can give it to the police. Just be careful.

Some of the features don't even work. The features that do work are often then duplicated on the same page. They send you profiles of individuals completely out of the range of the properties you put in (when you find the hidden, relevant place).

My account was hacked twice in one month. I was told by Flor (customer service rep) that the counts not provide me any information on how this happened. I was kept holding for a supervisor named Rickley who never took my call. I don’t feel my concerns were met and it is unsettling to thinks someone could have access to your account.

I have contacted this site at least a dozen times to try and get an answer. All I am getting is the run around. I am a paid up member. My profile and other pertinent information has been deleted or at least hidden. There was a claim made that I made some kind of derogatory statement, this was totally unfounded. When I asked to have this claim exposed I was told that because of privacy reasons I was unable to challenge this claim. In the meantime I keep getting message to reactivate my account, and messages from women who want to chat with me. I am very upset to say the least.

I’ve been on this site a few weeks. It wasn’t bad at first. But now, I’ve been finding the site is sending out flirts on my behalf without my knowledge. I don’t know what’s going on. Has my page been hacked? Makes no sense. I’ve never seen photos of these people, and they are getting messages I “liked” them, then they respond to me. I have to tell them, I never “liked” their photo. To make things worse, you can’t contact this company direct.

I was hacked on Our Time. Apparently the hack included outgoing messages from me. I called Our Time and they immediately closed my account. I asked to see what was sent from me to elicit hundreds of messages, etc. They said I no longer have rights to see what was sent from me since they closed my account. I explained that at the time of the hack, I "owned" and had paid for my account and they will mot let me see. I do not know if it was sexual or contained personal info. They also said they would hide my profile and I continued to get messages (alerts came to my email) and had to ask three times for them to do so. I am considering talking to an attorney.

It appears that there are numerous expired profiles that are presented as active profile that you are able to contact. I have received very little, if any response from the numerous profiles I have sent messages to. Their Customer No-Service is worthless. Don't not use them. I will never re-new.

I have been on this site before, and currently once again. Who knows who is real and who are scammers??? Most likely a good mixture. I am a male, and have seen women in their 60's to mid 70's posting their pictures and they look like they are in their twenties and thirties! I get most views, flirts, and messages from women 2-3,000 miles away!! Though I state in my profile I am looking for a gal within a 15 mile radius of my residence! Messages I get and may return are never replied back. Today I was messaging a local gal, and all of a sudden for some reason she "was not accepting any correspondence" according to her picture on the site. We were having a friendly chat. If I had something better to do than look at these messages, views, and flirts I would. I am on another dating site and it is the same way. Too bad.

I signed up for one month, which was supposed to automatically renew in one month's time. The two gentlemen I messaged online, I do not believe were actually them. The one had a Masters degree, however both had very poor grammar. I got suspicious and asked to meet the one. The following day, I was unable to sign in. I have sent countless emails to their customer service with no response.... And? I still am unable to sign in! Now I'm contacting my bank, just great!

Most of the time, almost immediately after logging in, I get contacted by a scammer. This does not happen to me on Match. The people who run this website do a very poor job of controlling what another site does well. In addition to scammers, I have collected documentary proof that a very high percentage of the profiles are expired, so I spend a lot of time looking at the profiles of people who are, in essence, non-existent. Can you imagine how much time I waste writing notes to those same people? And when I contacted customer service in writing about the expired profiles and even provided documentary proof, they didn't even have the courtesy to respond. So, in essence, I highly recommend that you avoid this dating website and seek another.

I had signed up and paid 85.00. I was chatting with a man that turned into a vulgar jerk whom I reported to OurTime as being abusive, which he was. The next day my account was turned off and no-one will tell me why. I guess they feel women should be abused. I paid 85.00 for two days of being abused.

I experienced 4 different beautiful women, all of which were the same person. When I called out the first woman, the other would message right away. I would call out the next they would unplug and the other would contact. This is the most ridiculous site to ever be on. It needs to be monitored by the people running the site and watching the ISP for scamming. I would not give money so they would go away. Never join this site. It's awful.

I’ve done what I can. The only way out I see is to report it to the credit card company. Maybe they can help. There are also a lot of scammers. Beware.

The site has you put up a profile and then when anyone responds that's when they ask you to sign up in order to look at any emails or flirts. So I signed up and looked at my emails. Everyone responds with the same phrases - so they all just click on a phrase and that's what you get so it's very hard to get a feeling for anyone's personality. Then I saw on my credit card that they charged in US dollars, so I emailed company to ask for refund and they told me they couldn't refund as I had looked at my emails. I would never recommend this company - it also took 2 emails before they responded. I ended up talking to one guy who asked me how I liked the site and I told him everything said above and he responded with - I don't really like this site either.

or your match parameters. No matter how you try to change it, it will not be changed by Ourtime.

Have been on for one month and will not renew. You will always get likes, flirts and views and if you reach out to someone you will never hear back. I have reached out to several different men and never heard back. Majority of the men on this site look like they never have taken a decent photo in their life. Do not bother, waste of time and energy.

After joining, I discovered that there are scammers on this site, so it's really "user beware". I was drawn in to respond to someone who looked like a very nice match for me only to find that this person was a "ghost" created by some scamming center in Michigan. I discovered this when, after e-mailing back and forth for two months then encouraging the gentleman to meet me in a public setting, he would not agree to do so. So, ladies, beware and don't reveal too much until someone is willing to meet you in a safe place. But I think there are other legitimate people on this site and I will keep trying.

They try to get extra money for what other sites include in the basic package. Your preferences for potential partners are ignored unless you pay more. You do not know if your messages have been opened unless you pay. Avoid at all costs.

OurTime.com did not renew or charge my account when membership ended. OurTime is better than other sites. It is the type of people on sites that make it better or worse for all. If owners don't manage complaints site can be made up mostly of scammers, disingenuous people, opportunists. Site owners should be more accountable and put a banner on top of their site of their own mission statement and what they will allow vs not allow. Why not go back to honest date sites? Online dating is not for me.

When you fill out your profile you probably get flirts. If you get 1 flirt your profile will say you have 2 messages in your inbox, because a flirt is counted as a flirt and a message. So if you fill out a profile and not pay for a membership because you want to look around and get 4 flirts your inbox will say 8 messages to lure you in. If you like someone's photo it is a flirt that their program decides what it says, example "you look like someone I would like to get to know." When I originally joined they had how long it's been since a certain member has been on. They don't do that anymore so you might find members you like but they might not have been on for months. I used that for a reason I quit them. I was getting maybe 6-10 views a week, all of sudden since I told them 2 days ago I wasn't renewing I have had 52 as I type this?

SCAMMERS. BEWARE. Ourtime.com

This site is full of shirtless, scary, dirty men, holding fish. One guy that wrote me, said that he was a DOM. I had to look up the meaning. (**). If I asked a question, I was immediately blocked from their site. Stock photos. Same pictures with different names. Same pictures for one month. Also, I gave my zip code, and was sent matches from 3000 miles away. AWFUL, HORRIBLE WASTE OF MONEY. Go to any bus stop, and you will have better luck.

Went for the one month special. Had 5-6 "Flirts" from supposed people interested in meeting me. After a few email exchanges I suggested we talk over the phone, instead of just emails. Never heard from any of them again. Perhaps one, maybe two changed their minds? All five or six, no way. This is just a scam to get you to renew your membership. I especially liked the fake Susan. She was one of the 5-6 people who flirted, and we exchanged numerous emails. She also was never to be heard from again once I suggested a conversation. Now, My membership expires in a week, and guess who likes my profile??? Same Susan. What a scam. Save your money.

I don't get anyone close to the profile I entered and keep getting pop ups for more money. What a joke - same people over and over. Difficult site to navigate - no simple way to delete. No "Maybe" button - just Pass or Like. I wasted hard earned money for this as they will not give a refund if you are dissatisfied. Don't sign up on this site.

A friend convinced me that I should try online dating. I am a college educated, independent professional that works a lot and I admittedly was neglecting my personal life. I signed up but was immediately prompted to pay in order to actually access anything about anyone on the site. There were limited options, no special price for a one week trial or any type of "try us and see" special. I selected a 6 month plan because 1 month was ridiculously expensive. I knew within the first day that I had just poured $103 down the drain. The supposed "matched" they emailed me were nothing short of frightening. Some of the photos actually looked like mug shots of mountain men that had gotten arrested after a drunken brawl at a bar. Looks are not everything but seriously...these men were not even remotely appropriate matches for a reasonably attractive, active professional female.

I went out on a lot of dates with this site. Everyone was nice and polite for the most part. There was one man who was vulgar and I never went out with him a second time. I didn't meet my true love on a dating site but I was only on it for 6 months. My experience was positive.

In less than 2 weeks, I had the opportunity to meet some very nice local ladies in my age group. I have tried several dating sites, and this was by far the best site I found where the majority of my contacts were within my city/state area of interest. Dating my special lady from here now for a month. :-)

I subscribed for 1 month. I hid my profile after 2 weeks. Full of fake profiles and expired profiles. OurTime fills your inbox with bogus emails throughout the day. Pop ups constantly push you to buy further services. Their app is basic and not user friendly. 100s of men without smiles and you wonder if they even showered. Profiles lacked even basic information. My matches were never per my criteria!!!! Too many aged below 50. Search continually showed the same men. What a waste of both time and money.

This company I thought was legit is full of scammers. I contacted my bank & got a full refund, no questions asked. My bank knows they are a scam. Fake profiles & people who are dead still on their website, what a joke. Thanks for my money back for your fraudulent website.

I was hacked one time by someone else claiming to be and literally contacted over 100 people, several times had someone contact me and tell me they have a friend contact them directly, when in fact they were hackers, and now that my subscription has expired got a email from a phisher saying my account was charged for a 3 month membership. I think their security is very poor, and never met one person after 6 months of membership. But like someone else said after the subscription expired, lots of claims of people who wanted to meet me.

Dating apps are not as helpful to me as meeting people through shared interests and friends' recommendations. I find that many of the sites attract a lot of people who are just curious and not necessarily available for a true relationship.

I was a non-paying "viewer" on OurTime dating Service. I was receiving 2 and 3 daily emails about people wanting to meet me. After joining 9 which was $4.00 more for the 30 day membership than quoted I discovered there were messages from members wanting to meet me. After cancelling my membership I had 10 days left on my 30 days when the email barrage started again. I was told I had 80 messages WAITING!! What a come on. I feel this is a form of false advertising. I won't fall for that again. In my opinion---STAY AWAY.

They cannot be responsible for what people post but their overall caliber of people is somewhat risky. They say one thing one time and something different next time. Never felt safe. When I tried to block someone it did not always work and if it did it took a few days. Again, didn't feel safe.

Matched with people outside my age range, education, income, and common interests. I had to block 3 of them because of rude messages. I had messages from guys. They were very inappropriate. One guy was looking for a woman to present information at seminars on sexual compatibility or so he said. Another one was a convicted felon found guilty twice with 2 different women of domestic violence, stalking, and strangulation. A couple more were Trump supporters who harassed me after I said I was not interested. The absolute worst experiences I’ve ever had with dating.

I won't bother with describing worthlessness of their so-called "services", since that is more than adequately documented in the other reviews. What really pisses me off is that you can't access your account to delete it until you pay for a membership. Nothing but a scam.

My husband and I met on OurTime. I had been on many sites for a few years and not having much success. I finally joined OurTime. I went on a few dates and, again, no match. I said to myself and friends this one will be my last date. I went to the restaurant and didn't see him. I called a friend and said that I was stood up. Turns out we missed each other. We then went on a date that lasted 4 hours. We've now been married 3 years and I'm so happy.

I enrolled on Ourtime. About a year I been a paying member except for few weeks when I got so bored with their lack of care to add more members (I like men). Yes they repeat the same old tired faces over-over and over again and again. So got enough today (been thinking about cancelling for awhile). I feel that ourtime does not respect the limited pool of their membership. They certainly did not me. I am well rounded well kept now 70 year old. I good writer so my profile always gets the younger ones attention. Ourtime does not again respect or appreciate their members.

A good program, works very fast and everything reacts very without you. Personally, I am very pleased I want to write my opinion on this program. I want to tell the creators of this program my opinion on the ideal Program.

Same as all other sites, total BS

I was scammed once and learned my lesson, however that never should have happened. I paid for the site. I did my homework and research on my end. The site should do their part in having viable, legitimate, real candidates. Many of the photos were old or not even who they said they were. I had many telling me they owned a gold mine or some bs or asking for an Apple gift card. I know I’m not the only one so somehow the site administrators should be monitoring the site. I have been off of the site for I did find a real kind gentleman. Good Luck.

This site was easy to use. I saw a television commercial about it. I then went online and created a profile and account. It aims at people 50 and over. No sorting through people that are too young! Been with my March for 5 years now!

Dating site offers free to look then when you sign up, pay, start searching interesting prospects are gone only ugly, indecent men looking someone to keep them financially. At least this dating site did stop charging after I canceled subscription but did not refund months remaining. Silver Singles is better even warning about suspicious predators.

Not the type of dating site for me. The one person I was interested in wasn’t even on this site. No one came close to what I was looking for. I signed up for one month and they kept me on and charged me for another month. Scam like service to me when they do that. They just go ahead and take your money without your consent if you do not unsubscribe. That’s where they get you!!!!

I was constantly hacked. My profile was changed. I was connected with contractors, engineers who were in foreign countries. They started sending very nice e-mails. Then lo and behold they ran out of money and asked for it from me. Not good.

You've already read the negative reviews here and yes, they are generally on the money. I joined with the reasonable expectation to meet a woman, not a harem, just one or two attractive charmers. If you're thinking of joining here are some of my suggestions/observations:

Based upon my experience, I don't see how OurTime could have a cumulative score higher than one star. For those who don't want to read a lengthy review, I'll summarize first and then amplify, if you care to read on: OurTime allows communication only between paying subscribers. OurTime has a very small pool of active members, and of this small number, only a pathetically tiny proportion are active paying subscribers with whom a paying subscriber can communicate.

This Site Doesn't Honor Your 1st Amendment Rights. They wouldn't post my (very clean) photos or even let others see my profile. But they kept my account open. When I asked they said they had a reason why I couldn't be seen by other due to "security" but they wouldn't tell me why. They are anti-American and anti-1st Amendment. Don't use them--you can't trust them.

Several prospective 'matches' were scammers. But the worst part is that the site TOTALLY ignores customer preferences in terms of age, ethnicity, geographic location, etc. They send phony email alerts re: "flirts", etc., but when you go to your page on site to check, they don't exist. I would not use this again even if it was free. When I called the company to complain re lack of adherence to stated preferences i.e., age, education, etc., was told "we can't match everything." And some preferences they don't allow you to change once profile is set up. They also send the same matches over and over. Guess they're at a loss for new members. A total ripoff and a major waste of time.

OurTime.com provided excellent customer service. They responded immediately to my concerns and took immediate appropriate action. I had issues with fake scam accounts. Their security team took prompt action with the issue. I did as well have great experiences with OurTime and have started a wonderful relationship because of OurTime. I recommend the site. They have proper security in place, and as users we must be mindful of our information we provide on profile as well as reporting any suspicious behavior to assist in keeping it a safe and enjoyable experience.

This site is filled with false profiles, scammers and hackers. It is my opinion and feeling that OurTime is aware of what is going on and may be involved themselves. IS ANYONE INVESTIGATING THIS SITE???