OurTime Reviews

You have to subscribe to Ourtime.com to read messages sent to you. Luckily, I only paid $40 for 6 months. This dating site is no better than pof.com, which is free unless you want to upgrade. Ourtime.com is supposed to be for 50+ singles, yet I was receiving messages from 20 somethings. Obviously, they don't screen their clients. I was also sent messages from scammers. To top it off, my account was hacked. I called customer service only to be told since I used their dating site, I can't receive a partial refund. She reinstated my original profile and pictures. Currently the pictures are of me, but the profile has changed back to what the hacker wrote. Please don't waste your money on Ourtime.com. It isn't worth it!

Recently I’ve become a victim of a scammer on this site. As Bonnie has stated on the ConsumerAffairs website, I have also received messages from women, old men with no shirt no teeth, men who look inebriated or high on drugs (?) as well as fake pictures. I received the almost same exact message from 2 men, with only a change in which they were born. RED FLAG! The one I chose to respond to communicated that we should exchange email to communicate off the site. We did. The next thing I knew he was planning our life together, the same thing Bonnie alluded to in her post. At one point I discussed speaking with him on the phone to set-up a time to meet in person. I wanted to know he was real. He originally provided his number and I responded likewise. Chris, if that his real name (?) kept ignoring this request. Another RED FLAG!

I first signed up for free, very soon I had about 15 messages which I couldn't read until I paid so I did. These were from webcam models 30 years my junior doing some "catfishing". Later a lot of messages being sent were accidental including 12 I sent without knowing it. All have the phrases "You look like someone I'd like to know" or "You deserve a flirt." "I'd love to hear from you". Well you get the idea, you click the wrong place and you've sent a message or flirt without your knowledge. There are good people on OurTime, but the site itself is a joke and ripoff in my opinion.

I’ve been a victim of scammers 3 times on this site, luckily I’m not a stupid woman so I reported them. I’ve received messages from women, old men with no shirt no teeth in, and I met 3. One was about 150 lbs heavier than his pic the next was planning my life before I met him in person. It was just a nightmare, if you’re thinking this is an upstanding site cause it’s for older people don’t be fooled. For men if you don’t mind younger women that come on the site cause they need money and will play you, and most fall for it have at it... I can only describe this site as looking at a prison line up!!! Trust me when I say that, if you see a nice looking guy on the site it’s probably a scammer... save your money. There’s nothing real on the site.

I have been on our time for more than a year. I would guess I'm lucky because 80% of contacts have been real. But that might be my achilles heel. My problem has been more with the quality of men I have met and dated men with moderate to severe mental health issues. I even had to beg OurTime to take steps to consider removing one after proof. Some of these men could actually be a danger. What I'm looking for is to spread the word about some of these very challenged men so women don't waste their time and possibly heart on some of these guys.

I called customer service immediately, could not get a refund. But I did cancel any further charges, I hope. WORST SITE TO DATE, PUN INTENDED!

I came onto the site with honesty and openness rarely afforded to anyone. I had all good intentions. Except I was the only one with good intentions. There was one that wanted a "casual" relationship (if I knew what that meant), another wanted over $8,000 so he could payoff the SEC in a money laundering/tax evasion suit, another wanted me to send him $100-$200 so he could buy gift cards to get himself around China. And, of course, both said they would pay me back. And one of my personal favorites was the one that had the photo of himself, shirtless, with a bit in his mouth admitting that he was "submissive". Further, very few of the "Today's Matches", followed my profile. Very, very frustrating. I have requested a refund. Let's see how that goes.

I had been communicating with an individual who held himself out as military close to retirement. There were many red flags in the communications. I finally did some digging and could not confirm the details he was stating and discredited the ones that he did. Fortunately, I have family in the military and they were able to help me with this. The site needs to have a better vetting policy in order to have legitimate individuals interested in meeting. This was my only time and will be my last.

Please don’t waste your money or your time on “OurTime”. This is absolutely the worst ‘dating’ site I have ever encountered. I carefully and specifically put what I am and am not looking for. I receive messages and ‘matches’ from the very people I’m definitely not looking for. I’m not looking for a woman. I receive ‘matches’ for women. I have no interest in atheists; I get matched with atheists. I not only don’t smoke, it makes me physically sick to be around people who do. I get matched with smokers. There are ‘auto responses’, for lazy men who don’t want to take the time to write an actual message themselves. I’ve gotten hundreds saying, “Nice profile, would like to know you”, or “Nice picture, you stand out from the crowd.”

I did meet a few people, but it's just not worth wasting money on this. The majority are not in my town, and some are even out of State. Also some same sex people have propositioned me. Mostly all the photos are years old, and when you meet these people & talk to them, you want to walk out. It's all a flip of the coin whether you find someone. At this time the site does not work. It keeps flipping to a site in the U.K (very strange). Not recommended.

I don't like the fact that OurTime will tell someone you found them interesting, when you did not. I have received quite a few messages from guys thanking me for showing an interest in them, or that I said I liked their photo! Then I see my photo and a note in a bubble saying "I am interested in you", "Let's chat" or something to that effect. So, it seems if you just look at a photo or maybe read a bit of the profile out of curiosity, it will tell the person you are interested in him or her. I feel this is deceiving to the man or woman, as to possibly get their hopes up, when there is no interest at all. I did not see this in the rules, so I'll just have to try to be as careful as possible and wait it out until my account expires.

Warning to people looking for relationships on line. Avoid this website at all costs. You will regret it if you don't. It doesn't even deserve a 1 star rating and you will pay through the nose to cancel your subscription. I met a couple of truthful men online but the rest are pathetic.

I just joined yesterday. I'm hoping I'll be able to stop a renewal next month. I also can't believe how silly I was to not check the reviews first. I have always done that for everything! I try to delete contacts and it's not working. Then I wanted to see if a certain person responded, but this site wanted MORE MONEY for me to see if and when that person responds. I take full responsibility for my blunder and will pay for the month.

Signed up for a month and in that time spoke to 1 lady, didn't go anywhere... The response rate is truly appalling as it was with there other site dating direct (in the end they gave me the option for ladies to contact me free resulting in a few conversations on dating direct). I cannot recommend this site, if you're a decent bloke trying to find a lady to date there are far better sites that are cheaper and yield a result, this one is crap.

Yea, you meet who you think are nice girls but 4 of them asked me for money because they got into Ghastly situations and they all seem to be self employed, parents dead, no family and trapped in a foreign country. They sold my email and I'm still getting spam emails about 'she flirted with you' and when I look at the links, it's not from OurTime.com, it's from some spam outfit with a virus or Trojan hiding behind the link. After this experience I'll probably never go to a dating site again. Someone needs to shut this site down.

I signed up on OurTime.com in July 2018, within a few days I realized that 9 out of 10 of the emails that I was sent and profiles I visited were fake. There is no verification process and most profiles are fake. Seniors are being targeted on this site. Save your money and go out and join a few clubs, dancing, kayaking, playing pool but you will waste your money and time on this site.

I guess you can't blame Our Time for the scammers of this world. You have to be your own advocate for safety. If you get contacted by a man with a Swiss accent from ** delete immediately. Don't waste your time. Another rich man who needs iTunes gift cards.

On the site for 1 month. My profile was hacked 3 times. They changed gender search & my personal details. They've changed my pic twice. When I try to upload original pic, I had to wait for approval. I've responded to 4 inquiries only. 2 of whom were scammers. I've hidden my profile, someone unhid it & changed pic & details. I paid for the subscription in good faith, but my profile continues to be unusable. This is a total waste of time & money, very frustrating that these thieves continue stealing money from honest people. They're as bad as the loser scammers that this site is full of.

I signed up for this and immediately started receiving flirts and emails from fake profiles. I know they are fake because I found some of them on Facebook. Total scam. I also started getting spammed like crazy so they definitely sell your info. When I canceled I suddenly had a bunch of messages and new flirts from supposed admirers. Don't get scammed by this site and waste your money. They are no better than eHarmony. They're all crooks!

I've been off and on this site for many years, and I have met some nice folks. However, in my last 6 mos, most of the profiles I found interesting turned out to be fakes. Also, I find it interesting that a week before my subscription expired, I started receiving an enormous amount of matches, flirts, photo likes, etc. Just a ploy to keep me interested and rejoin. Save your money.

I was on this site 3 days and someone calling himself Dennis hacked my account. I called helpline. A women did was reset password. She told me I could not talk to IT people. I had to go to some website that she sent me at my email. Some company that runs their website. And I was hacked on weekend so you have to wait till M-F to call. This morning Sunday 7/22/2018 again. I could not log in again. After the first time I started get mail or texts to my cell from girls claiming to be from the site. I did a background check on number. They were fake. Do not sign up on this site.

I have been receiving information from people who don’t exist as well. They are often out of state but now showing up as people from my state. If I ask a specific question about their town which is near me, they don’t reply. Viewing traffic is heavy on Friday nights with people’s profiles disappearing the next day. It is very disappointing indeed.

From the moment I became a subscriber I realized that I had made a mistake. I was contacted by phony profiles who were only interested in obtaining personal information on me. Take heed. Be warned, this site is a scam infested social media nightmare.

The site appears to be a scam... based in fake profiles and no regard to personal preferences. Most every message received is from out of state, with the same M. O., almost the same details like being written from a script. They disappear quick once you let them know. I specified local contacts, daily I would get profiles from all over the east coast. Save your time and money, steer clear of OurTime.com!

I signed up yesterday with ourtime.com for a free account. I filled out everything and uploaded some pictures. I immediately was bombarded with "Likes", "Somebody favorite you" and "Messages". Of course, with a free account you are not able to see who it was. One has to subscribe in order to see this info. This was going on throughout most of the night. This morning I logged back in and discovered in the "Notification" field (on the bottom of the main site) that somebody had sent a answer to my message.

When I tentatively joined to have a look, I got stalled according to their estimation, at 18% complete, so I gave up and went to bed. Then began a steady stream of notifications, asking for money, showing me my matches, flirts, propositions etc. Although I unsubscribed (successfully, by their reply) numerous times, the spam just kept coming, 24 hours a day. Women from as far away from Edmonton as Des Moines Iowa were apparently desperate to meet a guy with no picture and an 18% profile. I have (successfully, according to their warped command of the English language) unsubscribed a bunch more times, but the spam just keeps coming. Avoid these charlatans the way you would a steaming mound of Ebola vomit.

Where do I begin? This site is full of scammers and catfish! I have connected online with three people and they all turned out to be scammers. The latest forgot to mention on his profile that he has a child. Also represented his self on profile as being in the science/engineering field and is supposedly doing automotive bodywork (how is that scientific?). He sent a phone number for texting, which belonged to a woman (probably the wife?). When I declined his offer to meet for lunch, he sent a tirade about things I will not write here, but suffice it to say that he would have made me a 65 year old sex slave if he had his way! Incredible. Also my matches rarely had anything to do with what I wanted as far as level of education, even got some from women... STAY AWAY FROM THIS BUSINESS. You have been forewarned.

If you make any indication in your profile that you cannot IMMEDIATELY respond to messages for any reason, your profile essay will get declined. The terms of service say that you cannot say that you are not paying member. Which means they want everybody to appear as if they can respond to you immediately, whether they can or not. But what OurTime does not tell you is that you cannot not state that you are unable to immediately respond to messages FOR ANY REASON. For example, you cannot say the following... "I won't be logging on for a few weeks, because I have some personal issues that I need to take of, but I promise to get back with you." If you say something like that (or anything remotely similar), your essay will get declined.

Just signed up for OurTime after having a free account for a couple of months that I did not use. It seemed like a safe site and connected to Match.com which I think has a fairly good reputation overall. Decided to add photos to my profile on the free account but when I did, the photos were tagged as pending for 2 days in a row. On 3rd day when I tried to log in, my account was not accessible so I called the customer service number given on the message displayed. The CS rep was pleasant and tried to retrieve my account but after searching several ways, she could not find any evidence of an account being set up. She suggested I start over with new account. I did and decided to give it a shot and try the paid subscription. Immediately I began getting "flirts", photo likes and some weird messages... many from out of state.

This website is an absolute joke and a fraud besides. They show you a photo of a person and when you try to pursue it, it often turns out to be a different person in a different city. DO NOT join this site. Customer service is non-existent. They connect you to someone in the Philippines and then that person refuses to allow a supervisor to come on because they are told just to repeat the same lines over and over. DO NOT WASTE YOUR MONEY.

I wanted to take a look at this website and provided little more than my email address. After a few minutes I tried to deactivate the "account". The website advertises that you can cancel at any time and your information will be deleted. Upon checking my "account status" I receive the message that account information is unavailable. I sent them email asking that they delete my account and information and they reply that the account, which existed for all of a few hours, was under review by their security folks and they can't delete it. It's the roach motel folks, you can get in but you can't get out. Luckily I didn't sign up or provide and personal information. They do this probably to artificially inflate their "membership" numbers. What a scam. Stay away.

This online dating site automatically debit my checking for 7 months at 30 bucks a pop. No email. No notification. Nothing. I obviously don't check my account with a fine tooth comb - had a major medical issue but now I need to add it to the list - Scam. I need to let bank know and I've went on the site to cancel. I don't see a phone number to call.

Especially for seniors this site leads you right into fraud and worse. It's a very spammy site with many phony profiles whose sole interest is to secure personal information. I've been on other dating sites and like Match.com this site is VERY SPAMMY and many people aren't who they see. Here are guidelines that I live by on dating sites:

I've read many of the reviews, and from my own experience, I think this site engages in some questionable/unethical practices. While it is important to remember, like offline dating, this requires effort, good judgment and a sense of humor, at times, there are some real problems OT introduces into the brave world of dating over 50:

I joined OURTIME about 2 weeks ago. The first person that I began talking to said that his subscription was about out and asked if we could talk on Google hangout. This is the first dating site I have been on and didn't think anything of it when he asked to talk on Google hangout. After talking for a few times, I realized that English did not seem to be his primary language. He told me that he had a post graduate degree in Business Admin. and that he was educated here in the US. I finally caught on and told him never to contact me again. Then began to receive some really nasty emails from people I didn't recognize.

From October 2017 to January 2018 my profile was hacked two times. Pictures and geographic location was changed. The company did little except to reset my password so I could get back in and fix my profile. When I let my membership lapse they were quick to offer a 50% discount subscription and suddenly I was getting messages and likes! However, I would have to pay to find out who. After each renewal the profiles that had liked me were withdrawn or no longer available. Yet they appeared on SeniorPeopleMeet another site owned by the same company. When I finally stopped my subscriptions I started to get spam mails to my regular email from OurTime which tried to get my credit card info by claiming I was due a refund. This site is a spam! Their concern for your information security is a joke, and the people who do respond are likely employees who are trying to get you to renew. Avoid this site.

This site seems to cater to Scammers. Every guy claims want to get to know you, "Oh but I live in Gaza, France, always out of the States, but I will be back in a few months. Give me your phone number so we can get to know each other till I get back to the States". Check the profile and almost all of the guys who want your money say they make over $100000 - that is your first clue. They are good looking and look younger than the profile says they are- 2nd clue.

Navigating this site is horrible. Don't waste your money. Constant pop ups annoy to no end and they have all these additional charges for stupid things like when the last time someone was online. And be careful to close your account after a month because it will charge your card automatically. I just tried to discontinue my account when my month is up and I still haven't found the link to my account info. They hide it --- at the time of this review I still haven't found it. Oh, and when you set your preferences, they keep injecting matches that you don't want and have to keep resetting... Save your money.

I only joined OurTime.com a few days ago, I have not been proactive, rather waiting to see what contacts I would get. I have had several flirts, and actually have been talking to one match almost exclusively. Very happy with the site, so far. The site is very easy to use, and I am quite impressed by the quality of the matches, and it has been fun reading and responding to the flirts and it is nice to know there are other who are also looking. However, there was a huge amount of emails the first day, a bit overwhelming but nothing to complain about. And the couple of obviously fake responses.

Ladies, be very careful, just because someone is handsome and knows all the right things to say, does NOT mean they are worthy of you. I just had 78 thousand taken from me. Charmed me until I really got worried about mind control. I was doing whatever he asked of me. Check them out thoroughly. And don't assume they are giving the right name, or showing their true picture. CAUTION!!! We feel because the site is for older people, that we are safe. NOT TRUE AT ALL! Be very careful!!!

I was very disappointed with the photos and profiles I was matched with. I did not find most of them to be a good match. Most of the people I was matched with were out of my preferred date range and photos were not up to date. The profiles of some members were not entirely honest. For example, when I said I was only interested in casual dating, I was matched with the same. However, some members were really interested in more than that. So I wasted my time in a lot of cases. I cancelled my one year membership 4 months early, forfeiting the money I had already paid, and never tried OurTime again. In fact, I was so mentally or emotionally exhausted after using the site for 8 months I never used a dating site again. I do not recommend people in my age group rely solely on a dating website.

I have only been on Our Time for a couple of weeks. ALL of the men that reached out to me have fake profiles & live in Nigeria. There is absolutely no vetting on these sites. It is a catalog for phishers & worse.

In general my experience was okay. It was very easy to use and to make a profile. The quality of the matches is sometimes hard to meet nice people but if you meet quite a few people eventually you do meet some nice people also. I liked that the people seemed a little more down-to-earth. When I used OurTime as opposed to just plain Plenty of Fish the people seemed a little more mature on that site and like they were genuinely interested in meeting someone.

The website itself is very good, the matches though do not represent themselves like they truly are though but that it not the website's fault. It is an easy to use site and app and I will stick with it. I do like that it is geared more to a specific age range of people, it is better than a site that has a broad range and makes it more limiting to find someone age appropriate. Overall it is a decent site. Just haven't had much luck finding a good match on there.

This site is NOT in real time. I found they would keep your profile even after you canceled your membership unless you requested specifically so. No wonder I did not get any response from the men I contacted. I was able to see (in one of pages) that they were last logged in a month ago, two months ago, 6 months ago. Also many different icons and pre-fixed messages are just so redundant and impersonal. Then one day, "flirt" was sent to all without me doing so. I think most messages you get when you first join are the scammers, asking phone numbers and e-mail addresses. Anyways don't waste your energy on here!

I wish zero stars was an option, this is supposed to be a dating site for over age 50 individuals. The free membership does not allow you to do anything, so the only option presented by the website is a 6-month membership fee (which will cost you about $120). I spent over an hour answering all these questions and uploading profile photos and a few photos of landscapes I had taken (since photography is one of my hobbies). Every few days all my photos would disappear, no reason given by the website. There is no support on the website to ask why my profile keeps getting changed and deleted. Everyday they will email you with "so-called" matches, every person I was matched with looked like local gang-members or men in prison. I make a six-figure salary (and am highly educated) and I am being matched with men who have completed some high-school and appear to be unemployed.

I signed up for this website a three days ago, completed ALL the questions, set my criteria for height and age range. Received a few emails, responded and asked questions. Never heard back from them. The matches that were selected for me, didn't meet any of my criteria, age, fitness, height. I called to cancel my 6 month subscription 3 days later and was told NOT POSSIBLE. Spoke to a Jeremy and was told supervisor would tell me NO also. NOT PLEASED. STAY AWAY, they also run Match.com.

There are some real people on this site. But, there are also a LOT of fake accounts. Guys who fall instantly in love and eventually ask for money... they get easy to spot after the first few. The worst part of the whole experience was finding out that the site was sending out messages on my behalf. I noticed in my mailbox a lot of replies and when I clicked to open there were messages sent to guys that I hadn't done! I would imagine to keep guys interested or to stop someone from deleting their profile (and I imagine I got a few bogus messages too). When I messaged these guys to tell them, "Sorry but I didn't send those messages," the site deleted me. LOL... I guess as punishment? Haha so I relogged on and needed a new password. Rode out the rest of my one month membership, and exchanged emails with a few men I thought sounded genuine... we'll see...

OurTime.com is made for older people like me who are over 50 so I am not wasting my time with people who are too young because that is a waste of my time and their time. I enjoyed the experience just sometimes too many matches. It's overwhelming. Sometimes I like to be able to respond to all who contact me. With so many matches it's hard to do that. Sometimes I don't have enough time to answer everyone.

The pros, is that their app is easy to navigate. Had no problem with that. The desktop is a little more complicated but not hard. The cons is that there are quite a bit of scammers, but they seem to follow the same pattern. First they exchange a couple of emails with you, then they either ask for your email address or cell (don't fall for this) or they send this long email of how much they love you and age and distance should keep lovers apart or some such nonsense.

I agree with the majority of the folks who have given this site low reviews. The site is actually kind of hard to get through, with different filters for different things; and they are BURIED in the site itself, in places you would never think to look. I'm pretty savvy, and am on several other sites and none of them (even Match.com, this site's owners) is as bad. I get "matches" from women, although I have clearly specified that I am looking for a man; the age range is off, the geographical range is off, the number of actual paying clients is very, very low -- and since you can only send "flirts" and can't answer if you don't have a paying membership, the number of flirts is outrageous, and the number of actual contacts is underwhelming. They have an aggressive message if you don't respond to all those idiotic "flirts" that says you're a "poor responder". Give me a break. Why on this great earth would I spend my time responding to shadows?

They send you matches and you can click yes or no. You never hear from a single person. The people that do contact you live at least a thousand miles away and supposedly want to meet you. You never get a date.

This site deleted my information as soon as I entered it. They objected to the line where I said I would not renew, but they did not have to delete all my information. I asked them to return the information to me or give me a refund. They did not do so and continued to bill me for another 3 months. The phone number they give for resolution of problems does not work. This site will steal your money and make it impossible to resolve issues.

Worst site and experience in my entire life. Originally tried joining for 1 or 3 months but there was nothing stating what services were provided except for the 6 month plan; there was a list of what you received so I joined. Always severe technical issues, I had age criteria but was matched with much older men, would attempt to send a message and an automatic message would come up, tried to change or override. It was absolutely the worst and frustrating, would back out and try again, same issue. Was hacked 4 times, received several email messages with OurTime logo claiming my sex preferences, etc was changed and to contact them.

I have been on this terrible site since the end of last year. I have not met one person who was a real person. This site is full of catfishers and more phishers than I can count. I have been asked to go into their bank accounts to move money around. Why? Because he is in England and has no access to the internet. Oh really then how can you send me emails? I thought they came via the internet. I have been asked for iTunes gift cards. Because, "my iPod got wiped out and I am deployed and cannot buy one." Again is the message still coming from the internet? The latest, he was real good, or so he thought.

First of all, they advertise these nice looking mature adults and when you join everyone on the site looks like they homeless. Where did they find these people and how do they afford to be on the site. Every once in a while someone will send you a message or flirt that looks decent, when you message back they don't really exist. The site says you cannot continue with this person. Some kind of error. That is because they are NOT REAL MEMBERS. When you try to reach OurTime there is no one to help you.

There is an elaborate process of registration, tons of personal information: physical appearance, photos, likes, dislikes, what kind of dating possibilities might be available out there, huge lists of prospects: "favorites," (people you have chosen out of many, many people), "flirting" - that's when you advise someone that you are interested in them, "favorites" - those whom you've chosen for further potential association. The cost is relatively cheap $19.97 to start, although they are constantly offering upgrades for incentives of all kinds. Too good to be true for us lonely women.

It was awful. I spend several hrs trying to stop getting contacted from the LDS community that just received all my photos and info from the OurTime site that I had just joined. It asked after paying to join if you were interested in your info going to other free dating sites like LDS. I pick the no option (opted out) twice and still started and kept receiving messages from the LDS site and another one both I had opted out of. I was so mad but just kept getting sent in circles when trying to stop this. I also couldn't get to the place where you can stop the automatic renewal. I finally had to call a number I searched for online to contact them directly. 1-866-727-8920 and spoke with a Nice young man named Joseph who was an immediate big help and he got my subscription canceled and my $ refunded. Thank goodness for Joseph.

I am a 72 year old female who joined OurTime.com hoping, not for a marriage partner but for a companion where two people find each other and enjoy each other's company and have mutual respect. What I found, in my opinion, was a site fraught with useless matches, "matches" looking for a green card, out-and-out perverts and a customer service (or lack of one) that could not answer a single question unless it was part of some script and refusals to transfer to a supervisor.

I cannot believe the service with OurTime dating site. You put what you are looking for. Forget it you are getting everyone in the country even when you put less than 75 miles and you don’t want a smoker or you are searching for men, too bad you are getting them all including women. So I am sure I was probably a woman on some other women’s website as a match. Then there are some good looking men - guess what they are past men that have moved on. So ladies those men are not really looking for women because they are really not on the site. Then of course you have perverts and dorks but that is just part of looking. I can accept that better than the lies this website has.

Signed up 4/24/2018. 1st 3 days, lots of hits, flirts, etc. I became suspicious, when I started getting "messages" from females, as I signed on as a woman seeking a man. Got a long message from a woman whose friend saw me through her acct. and wanted, desperately to meet me and gave me an email. I wrote back that that was "different" but would consider if I was sent a pic and bio. 10 mins later, I went back and the message was gone, as though it never existed. I began to notice that I was getting auto msgs. from men who had NOT even viewed my profile... especially from OOS. That's when I started to search for complaints. I immediately canceled any future renewal. For the past 3 days, I am getting only a couple of views and bot messages from others, not viewing. Oh... you can GET views, if you want to pay more for tokens. It's a fraud. Don't waste your time, money, or heart. Class action suit, anyone??

I signed up for a month and things were going fine. This morning, I started receiving dozens of emails "responding" to my email but I never sent them out. Quickly realized my account had been hacked. I must have received 75 emails from people. I called OT customer service 4 times and on the fourth time asked to cancel my account, remove my profile and receive a refund. They refused the refund. I asked to speak to a Supervisor, she refused. So I paid for 4 weeks and got 2 and have spent two hours trying to get my profile down and go through this mess and potential security breach. Way to have great customer care... horrible company, People Media and OurTime.

I was on free membership when I was getting emails telling me I have messages. Favorites. Flirts. So I took a chance and paid for a month. Then I might see it was all a lie. No messages, no favorites. No flirts. So don't do it. Oh. They charged me a extra 3.99 fee on top of the monthly membership.

While I didn't actually become a paying member of OurTime, I was in the process of filling out my profile this morning in preparation to do so, when a well-known image of an abusive scammer flashed before my eyes. He/she/it was apparently in the process of viewing my profile. I knew right then that I was writing a profile on a dating site where I should never spend one dime of my money. Acknowledging that red flag, I deleted my profile and all images within. Thank you, OurTime, for letting me know in advance and prior to my providing payment for your "services," that you're actually ScammerVille. And after having read the bulk of complaints here, I feel like I dodged a bullet.

Signed up for a months subscription, I did read up on how to cancel it before I paid the fee so I would know how difficult it might be. You have to log into the "full site" to do so, just an FYI. Ok, so I created my profile, upload pics, etc, etc. 99.9 % of the flirts and messages were from scammers. They're easy to pick up in once you've experienced them as I have on other dating sites. They always want you to text their phone or immediately ask for your email address.

This Online dating site, appears to be nothing but a site where you pay to see irrelevant advertisements. Many of the advertisements are hacked advertisements apparently infected with viruses with the intent of scamming the consumer out of money whilst scaring them into thinking their computer has a dangerous virus. The profile has to be reviewed by them if you make a minor change and OurTime doesn't like it. They delete your entire profile instead of reverting back to the old one. There is no way to know if somebody is a paying member or not. So, if you like someone you have no way to know if they can reply to you. Effectively, a big waste of time.

I came back to Michigan in December. I joined OurTime.com to meet local men as friends. Most of the messages I received were copy/paste of the same "profile" and often began "I think humor is important, and I laugh at myself often." There were a couple other redundant messages. About 90% of the people who sent flirts, Favorites, liked my picture, or messaged were from over 1,000 miles away. No one I sent a chat to ever answered, and only two ever responded to messages. The bots are loaded up on that site.

I became a member on April 11, 2018 because I was hoping to meet a lady near my age for communication together. I found a report on the MSN web page that read "Find Who Is the Top 5 Rated Dating Sites". I checked the page and saw that OurTime had a 4 star rating so I gave it a try and became a member. I received many messages and as I read the content I realized the person was part of the Romance Scammers groups. I had memberships at 3 other dating sites and all three had problems with Romance Scammers but what I found out right away was 100% of messages that I received came from Romance Scammers.

My letter to OurTime sums it all, 2018-04-13. Not for a second do I believe that OurTime is prepared enough to deal with hackers. Sad that I had to experience this in the short time I was with your matching company. In only four months, three hackers contacted me. I believe without a doubt that your company is not capable of responsibly protecting its customers, and that you are mostly concerned with the public not knowing how bad and how often people's profiles are hacked.

I signed up for an OurTime.com subscription on 6 April 2018. By 10 April 2018, my profile was hacked and two charges were made, one was for a one month subscription of $22.47 and the other was for 280 tokens that was $9.99. On 11 April 2018, I contacted OurTime.com at 866-727-8920 about the problem and told them I wanted a refund for the two charges that I did not authorize and for the one month subscription since I was only four days into it. They refunded the two unauthorized charges but refused to refund my subscription charge because they stated that it was in their user agreement. I told two different representatives that the problem was not mine but was their fault because of lack of security for their site and because of that, I should be refunded.

Online senior meeting - Ourtime.com and Zoosk are ridiculous. First time tried online meeting. Paid, only there for a week before I removed. Nothing but total scammers the system and men online. They pick up on the little information you provide then hit on you immediately with the info. Men claim to be well off, have big paying jobs. Give you the same line that lost their spouse five years before, own yachts in MO of all places. Want to take you to Paris, if you describe you love God they will try to lead you to believe they are His disciples. Please women have enough sense to realize this and avoid them. If you don't use common sense and realize the scammers you can get yourself in a world of trouble.

They make it impossible to delete your profile so you're looking at profiles of people no longer on the site. They send you pictures of the same people over and over. They write your profile and make you go out and sign in directly to their official site to write one on your own. It’s not easy to maneuver or figure out your account. Trying to stop using the site, not renew after you figure out how to stop it you're not sure it’s stopped. POF PlentyOfFish is free and has a 10 times easier and better site to use.

So, signed up, wrote a profile, kept getting “likes” from the same 3 men - 2 who live on the other side of the US - went in to my profile to try rewriting it- discovered that everything I had written was GONE, replaced by something about my “sense of style” and how favorite thing is good wine- (making me sound conceited- plus I don’t even drink wine). HOW can they attach false statements to MY photo??? Cancelling & filing complaint with my state’s Attorney General!

I was so skeptical about paying $30.00 to sign up and I am so glad my skepticism paid off this time. I ran into several of the same problems mention by a few people on this site. Under "My View" I had 16 pages of men (over 100) men total that I supposedly viewed. This was FALSE, as I only viewed maybe 30 men total during my time on the site. Clearly something they are controlling on their end. I was getting countless of flirts, (300 total), and out of the 300 it stated that I had 16 actual messages from men. I was skeptical of this as well because I signed up a few months ago for another site which is the sister site of OurTime operated by People Media and once I paid the views, flirts and messages stopped. I hope others do their research first regarding these sites before paying them.

I had used this service a few years ago with no problem, but now after signing up, I was shocked when it showed I had "favorited" and "liked" over 10 people on the first day. I never did this. So you have no idea whether the people that have contacted you are real. It's a total scam and I wish I had known before paying.

I asked for my money back after 1 day on this site. Fake flirts, scammers, profiles that appear to be men & then when you look again it's a woman's profile that has been sending you messages... I guess from profiles being hacked. There needs to be a class action lawsuit brought against these people & their scam network!!!

OurTime advertises free trial but they trick you into paying. Then they connect you to several other dating websites which you did not ask for. One hour after paying I had looked at horrendous selection of members and difficult website and immediately tried to cancel via phone and email. One hour after paying to access site which could not be accessed without paying! They never responded to my emails and kept sending me emails. The potential dates who contacted me online sent repeated messages and it felt like I was being stalked. But the primary complaint is that the site tricked/manipulated me into paying when they advertise a free trial. And then they ignored my attempts to cancel until finally today I got through to someone - many times they could not be reached by phone - and hope that they deleted my account from OurTime and the others they had linked me to. Horrible horrible experience.

I don't blame dating site because I didn't make a love connection. Some people are lucky enough to be on a site at the same time, find each other and have a happy ending, most of us will not and I realize that. However, when I have been on a site for 5 months and not one date and no real messages, I have to question the validity of the site. Question, how many active members they really have. Before paying I signed up did a search and saw that there were quite of few recently active men that met my requirements, I was getting views, flirts and messages everyday. After I paid, (I was lucky the price that I paid was at a much reduced rate from what was first offered, I think less than $40.00) poof, all of my messages, views, and flirts stopped and the ones I supposedly had, I couldn't access them and I could no longer see last activity dates for members.

I have been on several dating sites that were free. I was able to get and go on dates without paying a fee. However On OurTime dating I was charged a fee that was going to be recurring and didn't get one date. I think they are just out to take your money. I requested a refund and a cancellation and did not get either. Do not join OurTime dating site!

From my one month experience as a member of Match.com which resulted in being a victim of fraudulent billing by Match.com, I presumed Match.com was the worst of the bunch. WRONG!!! I saw an ad on TV for internet dating that was geared for the over fifty crowd so, out of curiosity I headed to OurTime.com. I accepted a two week trial offer, posted a professional profile, I am a lawyer, with photos, I frequently run 10k's so my body weight is within parameters set by the gov, have a full set of hair, am over 5'10", then went fishing for a contact.

I purchased a 3 mos subscription and the software is terrible. I think the company sends messages to subscribers to make them think someone is interested in them when actually the person never did sent a message. Their renewal process is also a scam because they just renew even though they were told upfront no automatic renewal. There are so many scammers on this site. In three months at least 7 contact me. Don’t waste your money.

When you have a free account, it's extremely limited, you can't send messages, or view who's "flirted" with you. During this period, I had the experience that I was getting multiple hits per day, lots of messages and flirts. In my account, highlighted red text showed large numbers of people supposedly dying to meet me. I fell for it and purchased a one-month subscription. Instantly, upon my being able to view all of my admirers, the numbers dropped significantly, and since then I barely get any hits. I am attractive and successful, and I am confident in being able to attract people, so it's not me... I believe they pile on all these extra hits in order to get you to pay for an account, then when you do, the reality is, very few people initiate any form of real contact. Waste of money for sure.

My daughter bought me a 6 month subscription. I went on the account and clicked on the do not auto renew in November 2017. On March 8, 2018 they automatically renewed my account anyway. I clicked on an email and it took me to the site before I realized they had auto renewed the account. I then called and on March 13 and told them the situation and asked for a refund of my $99 and they would not refund it and would not let me talk to a manager. I told them I was not happy with their online site and did not want to be renewed and asked why they would auto renew when I indicated not to. The customer service rep refused to budge and would not transfer me to a manager. I do not recommend this site to anyone. The worst dating site ever.

Within 5 days of signing up with "Our Time" (Oct. 2017) my account was hacked at least 3 times. My personal data was changed from female looking for male TO female looking for female; next hack changed my picture and age; and third time back to female looking for female. Thought it was done...but nope, on Mar 12, 2018, the search returned to female looking for female AND 2 of the 3 the "essays" composed for site were changed. Calling their 800 is useless.

As a single lady I joined OurTime to “find my one and only”. I paid for this experience only to find at least 85% of the men who contacted me were not who they professed to be. I tested these men out by allowing access to my cell number, knowing if they were hackers or scammers. I could block them after any amount of calls. One man even went so far as to say he was Italian, with an accent, but did not speak one word of Italian. He even set up a phony business website! I’ve attempted to contact OurTime to no avail. To all those seeking happiness it’s highly unlikely you will find it on OurTime. I do not believe OurTime cares about its’ honest members and too. Is scamming the public!

I agree with the majority who find OurTime to be a poorly run site. Worst of all are the scammers. I get messages from fake profiles anywhere from three to eight times a day. These idiots want me to text them or visit their Facebook page. Sure, I report the scammers, but why should I have to? Why doesn't OurTime check all new accounts and photos before they're posted? Then there are the constant popups, bugging me for enhanced services, at a price of course. I could go on for a long time about how bad this site is, but suffice it to say that even if OurTime offered me a free renewal I'd turn it down.

Now, after creating a profile I am not able to log onto the site. I keep getting routed to a site in the U.K. Luckily the app on my phone was still working and I could get in from there to view the full website, and cancel my subscription.

Actually I joined a few days ago and found a guy I really like. Since then we have been talking to each other on the phone... will be video calling this weekend. So far he seems legitimate. I don’t know why all the bad reviews. My experience so far is good. But will see what happens.

I created an account but didn't actually pay until 3 weeks after - when I received a great deal in an email. Fast forward to today, I log into my laptop and discovered that during the 3 weeks I wasn't a paying member, they would send fake messages to other members. OurTime sent members that I clicked 'yes I would be interested' fake messages that; I made them my favorite member, I loved their pictures, I wanted to hear more from them, I had sent a flirt...which I had NEVER sent. That eventually triggered an email sent to those members that I had liked their profile somehow. And eventually, those members would reply back to my profile with either flirts or a response that would trigger an email back to me that someone had made me there favorite, or I have a message from a member, etc... all to entice me to pay to join.

This site is unsatisfactory. They put photos of men who look like very nice among people who are very poor looking to give the appearance that the site is legitimate, when those people are not actually on the site. They send out messages without your permission, creepy looking men. Most are below 50. Don't waste your money or time. Plenty Of Fish is no better either.

This site should be removed from the internet as its filled with bots, scammers, and Fishers constantly trying to suck you into their scheme and the site itself will edit your content without your permission or a notification. It's a site that is full of those trying to take advantage of seniors. After chatting with one and finally giving her my cell number after what I believed was someone genuine, the next day she tries to get me to send her an $200.00 iTunes card. I may have been born at night, but it wasn`t last night. The site itself changed my info saying I loved my whiskey when I rarely even drink at all and never said any such thing! Avoid this site at all costs, It should be shut down and the people running it should be prosecuted!

I actually thought this site was legit. NOT. What a joke. OurTime uses pictures of models to lure you into thinking they have great people on their site. When you send them a "wink" you never get a reply back. When it says they are online to chat, they aren't. Matches sent to you and nowhere near what you listed for preferences. I thought since this site was supposed to be for people over 50, that it would be legit. Guess people will scam anyone at any age. Don't waste your money, here or any other dating site. I've looked up others and they all have the same bad reviews. I guess the only way to meet people is through people you know. Too bad the lowest is 1 star. I wish 0 would count because they don't even deserve 1 star.

I subscribed for a three month period, in that time I had 34 women try and scam me for money, I reported this to OurTime customer care team, three days later the woman that I reported was back on the site using a different profile but her profile pictures were the same. The company claim all profiles are verified, this is totally untrue, in the time I was on this site I saw on average 4/5 women who were clearly not genuine, I have also had women message me regarding the number of men who are also using this site for the same purpose, to scam them for money.

Fake messages are the best you get. Several times a week I get a very non personal message from a very attractive women who is conveniently located more that a 1000 miles away. If I respond I get another generic message supposedly from this very attractive women who has no intention of ever meeting me. Unless you are VERY unattractive and desperate, you will not find love here. Pay the $36 for a one month trial, don't waste anymore on the longer term memberships. Pay only with a VISA gift debit card from Walmart, or you will be automatically re-billed. Zero stars!

After only a few days using this dating site I felt as though I had been lured into a scamming site. The first man I had a chat with texted me once or twice and then told me he wanted me to contact him via his private phone and email, that he did not like the site. Red flags went up. After a few Google searches to find out what scammers can do with your personal phone number and email, I began to feel that he was out for no good. I chatted briefly with a few men and decided that one was about 50 miles away and I decided to meet up with him for coffee. I thought it best to meet him in his neck of the woods so that he would not follow me home and learn anything about me other than our first initial meeting. I felt safe that it was a very public place that we would be meeting.

After subscribing only 1 of 1000s is worth contacting. And he is not interested in dating nor is he within 1000 miles of me. Doesn't matter what your settings are, this is a scam website taking advantage of everyone honest, letting catfish scavenge them. Do NOT put your heart or money here. If you are there already subscribing, just right click on each photo and run a Google search. Every attractive one will be a celebrity's profile, or a stolen photo. All Attorneys General should take this site down as a consumer-damaging scam and we need you to act. This site is a scourge to America. The only local profiles which appear for the subscribers are catfish. I am so soured on this, I call myself The Cat. I check out everyone, and have not found one attractive yet to be real. This site has wasted our subscription money. Pants on Fire red flags here. Avoid it.

All the other reviews reflect my own experiences. The only thing I can add is that the only time you can see activity for the people you are interested in is when you send a flirt. The one I chose hadn't signed into her account for 4 months. In addition, it seems pretty easy for scam artists to set up fake profiles, although most of them disappear within minutes (meaning someone is catching them and reporting; not sure if it's OURTIME or a savvy customer). I've filed a complaint with PayPal. Even if you can't get your money back, if enough people complain, maybe something can be done.

I signed up for this site 1/18/17. I paid for a month membership only. I specified that I was interested in local responses, never received one. I live in Ohio, the closest received was Kentucky. I canceled after a month. But kept my profile open. At the beginning of this year I answered an inquiry from someone in Houston. I am familiar with Texas so I responded. It took him about 6 weeks but he finally starting asking if I would pick up gift cards for him to use for his "daughter" among other things. That is not going to happen.

Most of the 1-star reviews used the site for a month or less. I signed up with a 6-month membership. Initially, it does start out as described, with mostly long-distance or otherwise unsuitable matches. But I think part of that is because most, like me, start with incomplete or first draft profiles. As your profile develops and some time is spent declining inappropriate matches, the site does a decent job in presenting potential matches, and I connected with a number of very real people over the latter 3 months.

This is a horrible site. Like others keep sending people from across the US. Where's the locals? And what's with these flirt and messages when my profile's hidden? Clearly just to edge me back on the site. Sad they take your money for nothing. I've only been on a couple days and it smells of a scam through and through. Calling today to cancel what a waste of money. Already know I won't get my money back.

After a month I let my subscription lapse. I would get 37 year olds from all over sending flirts/likes which I didn’t like, however as quickly as they came in they disappeared. My recommendation were never followed, they would send matches that never fit my profile. After letting it lapse within in 24 hours I had over 50 views within that time frame. When I was on the site the most views I would get in a day was 5 max!! I think this site takes advantage of older individuals who are truly looking for someone. I would recommend using your money in another way to find someone special!! This site is the worst!!

Have been on this site for less than a week. My account was hacked by what I am sure, is a disgruntled "trolling troglodyte" who took offense to me alerting the service to a "fake or scammer" profile. Customer service not available after 5:00 on Fridays. Can't send an email to them either to report the security breach, over the weekend. Should be interesting come Monday morning, how they're going to handle this. Don't have high hopes for a professional or truly "customer service" oriented response and/or "call to action". Don't waste your time and or money on this site.

I signed up January 18, 2018. I received what seemed like computer generated responses. In other words no messages received were in the persons in words. I received messages and flirts from men who never even viewed my profile and were not on my profile reviewed list. I had preferences that were not met either years younger or lived out of state. Good luck in trying to cancel the renewal. It is not set up for you to do so. But I have contacted my credit card company and requested a new card number...so they make it difficult to cancel. That's one way to do it...

My short term experience on this website has been that there are mostly fakes and not real people on this website. Check them out the best you can, use Google or whatever you can to check them out before you give them any info about you. I filed a complaint today on 3 of them, but there are more I could have. I'm sure OurTime won't do a thing about it. Nor will they refund your money. But some of what I've found is a phone number that said "dangerous", an address that doesn't exist, different pictures and info/profile on FB, and even one who changed his picture and age right after I gave him an email address (I printed out both profiles). And be sure you set up a new and separate email account to use. Be smart and be wary... If you have mistakenly set up an OurTime account.

I was a member for few months a couple of years ago. I then quit. I now get constant supposed flirts. I can't get my information off their site it seems. If I click, they try to sell me a new subscription. If these are real, OurTime is posting my information without my permission and scamming the people flirting me. If they are not real, the company is trying to defraud me as well as misusing my personal info. Horrible!! Never sign up!

OurTime/People Media is a scam. I urge every member to file a complaint with the Better Business Bureau. The site has consistently matched me with people from a different time zone, people 20 years older than me and 20 years younger than me. I sent an email 4 days into my paid membership with no reply, which after I called today they told me they could not find my email. How convenient. They refused me a refund even though they did not provide the service they should have. This company is a lie and a scam...

Scammed my $111.75 - This site is amazing. It automatically sends flirts from you to people you have not even viewed. Then you will receive Flirts and messages from across the nation from Beautiful women, when I would ask if this was a fake message. "Did you message me?" They would respond, but not in any way mentioning my question. I Just signed up yesterday 2/4/18. This is such a scam. Go to settings and try to cancel the auto renewal... IT WON'T LET YOU!!! Please Consumer Affairs Email or Call, please leave me a message as I don't answer unknown callers. Me at this point I'm not really sure how to turn off the auto renewal. I saw their Ad on network TV in Tulsa, Ok. I'm not sure which one. I guess I can start calling them??

The least I can do is hopefully save someone else the expense and time. I was getting likes and views just about every other day from “Our Time” until I actually paid for three months. Then none... it's almost like day and night. It’s so obvious that their staff has set up email scamming bots (automatic batch code programs) that send out fake emails to recruit people and steal their money. Anyway... SERIOUSLY... don’t waste your money on this rip-off web site. Also... as websites go it is poorly written. You would think that since Match.com owns Our Time they would have a better website!

I considered joining, wrote a short bio, but didn't join. I have received 95 Flirts, 20 messages and several pages of matches. After several weeks of daily messages, I saw a photo of someone I met several years ago. I searched for him on the internet and there they were - the same photo of him, the obit of his wife dated eight years ago and his obit dated four years ago!!!

Piece of crap. All these dating services have the same type of programming. Right off there was a problem with inputting date of birth. The system requires one to click the back arrow 60 times to get to the desired yr. I attempted to contact customer service but couldn't select a category and even that didn't work. If I even thought I would pay money for this program I certainly wouldn't because of its primitive set up and poor reviews.

I have tried three different online dating sites, Zoosk, Plenty of Fish, and Our Time. Neither of them produced anything and we're very expensive by today standards. Despite best efforts I've only received one reply out of hundreds by a woman who said that she wanted to meet but then disappeared. On Our Time, several of the people that were sent to me were from at least 1000 miles away or scammers. I think your best bet is to try to meet people the old-fashioned way and save your money, it seems that these sites purposefully don't want you to meet anyone or people were just looking around to see what's out there and not very serious. I understand that it's difficult being alone, but the sites potentially can break down your self-esteem, and you don't want to give them that kind of power.

Joined this morning. By 7pm I had gotten over a DOZEN bogus messages, ALL FROM HOT WOMEN LIVING VERY, VERY FAR AWAY. Apparently the CS's that run this site feel the need to "salt the mine" as they say. Too bad they're such short-sighted idiots; if they left it alone people might have actually stayed.They're just like all the other internet scammers; they don't make their revenue from the continuing business of legitimate users, they make their revenue from all the POOR OLD SUCKERS that pay them, find out it's a scam, and then leave.

I signed up to this site in hope meeting a mate or date. Two months into the membership I haven't yet to go on one date. I signed up for six months since it was the cheaper option, after 24 hrs I realized how bad my decision was, wanting to back away and get a refund, my request was confronted with a strong no refund. Beware if you sign for this site. All matches are not really matches, I get women as matches people I didn't choose as part of my ethnicity, soooo unprofessional, disgusting customer service, do yourself a favor: don't waste your money, didn’t try to call their CS, better talk to your wall.

I signed up on January 3, paid for one month membership. I decided on January 5 to cancel the auto renewal. I met the first guy who turned out to be a scammer. The second, a scammer. On January 18, my Paypal was charged and the auto renewal was activated. I logged into my account to find that someone hacked my account and had been sending messages to other men. I sent the men messages to ignore the emails and that my account had been hacked. I changed my password, but to find that they locked me out of my account. I called customer service and demanded a refunded and to give me access to my account which they gave me my money back, but still no access.

I joined this dating site on 18th December for one month as there was a special offer of £5 and cancelled a few days later. I telephoned to complain as they reinstated my account on the 18th of January, and took £40 out of my bank account. I just want to warn other users to be careful.

There are perhaps a few "real" seniors on this website, but they definitely are in the minority. Based on my search criteria, OurTime.com claims I have 146 matches. The profiles for about 80% of these matches are so incomplete that they appear to be either bogus or whimsical. But in any case, not serious. About 90% of these matches have not been active at any time recently, which could mean they found somebody - or gave up in disgust like I have done. The primary purpose of this business seems to be to generate website traffic - which generates ad revenue for OurTime.

I felt it necessary to post my review because I don't agree with all the negativity being broadcasted on this site! I signed up in April 2014 as a trial. Of course I could only see the profiles of whom I was matched up with, and to respond I had to pay. I took the chance and said I'd give it a try for one month and if it didn't work I would cancel. I was matched up with a couple of gentleman, and after a few dates in of course public places, I found the love of my life! We have been together since May 2014, and last year in February he proposed to me! We have been living together for a year and a few months and I could not be happier! After a 20 year marriage and 2 children I never thought love existed anymore! Thanks to OurTime I found love! Thank you OurTime.com! Could not ask for more!

The reason for this review is because I am so dissatisfied with their program and services. I 100% agree with all the other reviews I just read as I have experienced the same things they have. IT IS CLEARLY A SCAM AND CERTAINLY MISUSE OF SENIORS LOOKING FOR COMPANIONSHIP! There's a scam about FREE TRIAL, every time you view "their" picks for you, they are gentlemen who do not fit your desires like a smoker for a non smoker, different religions when you're specific about what you're looking for, different ethnicities, sending you people who live thousands of miles away, when you were specific about local and it just goes on and on with improprieties! I wish there were a way to get my money back and the service fee attached to signing up for "membership". It is a shame that big companies scam on seniors and misuse their well intentions to build their wealth!

I've tried OurTime online dating twice now (stupid me) and both times it was a complete waste of time. All the negative reviews posted here on Consumer Affairs are absolutely true. There's no real dating going on - they just want your money. For me, the men who did reply were either crude and looking for a hookup or needy and overbearing. Setting an age range for potential suitors goes unnoticed - if you ask for ages 55-65 you can bet you're going to get a lot of people well into their 70s.

I signed up for OurTime.com when it was indicated that I had a "free" month to test out the website. So I agreed to do that and signed up through PayPal. Even on the OurTime website under my account information, it showed that the payment was declined which further indicated that this was, in fact, a free "test" period. Not. I was charged $33.95 and later told it was nonrefundable because I had actually messaged some gentlemen on the site. Wasn't that part of the free package... to test out the website for a month? After two weeks I dropped out of the website because I noticed the following: When I first signed on I received multiple "hits' from men all over the country. Since that is unreasonable to expect someone to date men from other states, I contacted the website and explained that I was only interested in the local members.

I was on this site for all three days. I decided at that point that I no longer wanted to be contacted by the majority of the people. They were matching me to. I received several Dogo messages request for adult pics, etc. I went online and change my automatic renewal to off. When I went back in it showed that it was on when I went to edited it showed that it was off. I did this twice. I searched online and search the site and was unable to find any place where I could cancel my account, so I called the customer service. Customer service advised me that my auto renewal was still on. At this point I requested that my account be completely cancelled and for my auto renewal to be turned off.

First my reference to being a scam - I can't count how many times I've gotten an email that someone has sent a flirt or has favorited me, only to go to the site and there's nothing. I shouldn't be surprised as I found out after Match.com owns OurTime, and Match is notorious for sending bogus notices of someone being interested, especially if you're a free member to try and get you to pay to see a message that isn't there. But tonight, their customer service dept. really got me.

I signed up for the free trial, but you cannot read any messages when on the free trial so pretty useless. I paid for one month (34$) and was bombarded with ads. The site is hard to navigate (I am computer and software savvy) and looks like something from the 1990s. I got "matches" - most of them were from different parts of the country, more than a 2 or 3 days drive away from where I live. I got several messages, anywhere from the simple "I like your picture" to invitations for back rubs and to have my "body covered with kisses". I found a lot of dirty old men or very nice grandpas who I helped navigate through using chat. I am disgusted with myself for trying this - it's an online meat market. Would love to see the actual number of successful relationships coming out of here.

I just created a profile and paid for a month subscription but I noticed something really odd so I started to investigate. This site is a scam, it is designed to take your money and keep you interested so that you won't cancel. I also noticed that they enrolled me in two other sister sites, I was getting blasted with flirts and messages from those sites but none from the OurTime site. When I tried to access the messages from the other site they wanted more money, go figure. This site is definitely a scam.

I have been on this site for one month plus. I have chatted with at least 15 scammers and hackers. They are very nice and continue to make you the perfect date. But you never date. They talk the talk but never follow through. All have accents and some you can barely understand. They also post pictures of the best looking men. So watch out. But you waste your time on a relationship you think you are establishing. I was hacked over weekend twice, which are very busy for dating. By hacked, someone changed my gender as well as parts of my profile. So this was irritating. They are closed so you can't do anything but wait til Monday. I had one decent date in a month. It's not worth the time.

While I know that there are over a million people on OurTime and I have met with at least one, I have come to the conclusion that the website generates fake traffic to get people to pay or renew their paid subscriptions. I wasn’t getting any real communication at the site except canned flirts and ‘I’m interested’ emails (which admittedly is partially my fault) and I decided to let my paid subscription expire. Lo and behold my email inbox is jammed with flirts and notices that I am someone’s ‘favorite’. Easily tenfold the normal number (which is somewhat annoying to begin with). My conclusion was that they were generating fake traffic to make me feel like I had a real shot at meeting many women. They don’t need to do this and I find it a deceptive business practice. I edited my profile to state this and ‘poof’ that part of my profile is gone. I reposted that and expect it to disappear again quickly. The decision to renew or not has been made for me.

OurTime should be charged with fraud. I have been online for one week now, and believe I have not communicated with one human. It’s all a prop; canned messages, canned flirts, canned responses… After asking a few question, and receiving a few responses, my out of state beauty “Dak1899... (A 6'3" beauty from somewhere in Texas) is no longer available to receive messages from you." (Meaning me.) She must have gotten hurt when I accused her of being part of the scam. Could some staffer actually be reading these messages? I wish I was an attorney.

From the minute my payment cleared, I started getting 'interest' and 'profile views' from women all over the country! I must be amazing... I can't prove it, but I am pretty close to certain that OurTime generates artificial traffic to make you feel... better? Then I noticed that I was liking profiles, and sending really lame messages to people in other states! No I wasn't! I am in Florida, and I noticed I supposedly sent a lame canned message to a woman in California. But I didn't, so I sent her an apology. Then I noticed my Sent Items mailbox was FULL of creepy canned messages to woman I DID NOT CONTACT OR CLICK ON. Within a short amount of time, I know I want out.

It's a dumb database programmed to do nothing but put your picture in front of men (women) who get photo options, "Do you like this woman or this one?! How about this one, or this one? And this one?" Like they are shopping for shirts!! So every time a man chooses your picture over another picture you get "A Message". Then, the site encourages men to send a wink or an icebreaker. And all they do is click ok and the site does everything for them, without any effort on their part. So I get 4 or 5 messages a day from the SAME USER and when you open up "the message" there is NO MESSAGE!!! Just a redundant msg just like the previous one... "I like your picture" and then another one FROM THE SAME USER. "I like your photograph". Then in comes another message from the same user "I like your profile!" Then another message FROM THE SAME USER "You caught my eye"...

I stopped the auto re-billing and they blocked my account even though I had paid for an additional two months. This site is a totally fraudulent based on the way they control your account and your re-billing options. If you don't want the auto re-billing... They block your account immediately even if you paid for the entire 6 months. Not only that, when you reinstate the auto re-billing they charge your account immediately... watch yourself. This is the worst site I have been on since 2001.

Within a couple of days as a paid member, I contacted Our Time to find out why I was receiving singles that did not fit my search profile. They said basically that the way it worked was, they sent who was available within my area. They also sent the same people over and over each day, including women, which definitely did not fit my profile. I asked for a refund and was told the fee was nonrefundable and to block the automatic renewal, which I did. The site is a scam. I’d have done better keeping my money!!!

I do not think that it's fair. That OurTime.com would take my money and then provide me with matches that are from out of state. That is incredible. And if that isn't enough you do not get mail. All you get are flirts. Then when you write the people back you get some more flirts as a response to your letters. I have had to block half of the people who flirted with me because they wouldn't stop flirting. It just went on and on until I blocked them. I find it hard to believe that the people are real on there. People don't usually behave like that. Also, I did get flirts from people that were under the age of fifty as well. Like who would really go there at age forty. Whether half of these people are paid for or not I don't know. All I know is that I could not find a button to stop the flirts. Again I did not receive letters just flirts.

This is my second time on OurTime and I'm very disappointed. The advertisements on the site make it difficult to navigate. This is a paid subscription. Also when it supplies the Daily Matches there is no matching to the criteria which I have defined. There is no attempt to match based on selected criteria such as age, race, geographic location, non-smoking or marital status.

I've read so many negative reviews of OurTime.com, and truthfully, I've had some of the same experiences as those people complaining. But, on the whole, I've also met some very nice gentlemen on this site. I've found it's a MUCH better environment (at least for me) than Match.com, PlentyOfFish or OKCupid. OF COURSE there are some "duds" and OF COURSE there are scammers on there - you just have to know how to recognize them. OurTime.com also regularly gives you advice on HOW to recognize them and to make sure to report them. It also gives advice on regularly updating your profile to make it fresh. I can't speak for anyone else, but, my experience here has been positive.

The dating site is horrible! First, it wouldn’t let me create an account and when it finally did, it wouldn’t let me upload any photos and this was after paying for a one month membership. It wasn’t until a couple of weeks had passed and I looked at my account that I realized it wasn’t posted because my photos were not uploaded. I complained and given the company’s error that they would offer me a couple of months for the technical difficulties experienced. They didn’t offer anything to compensate or correct their poor service.

This dating site is sooo riddled with hackers that it becomes virtually impossible to connect with eligible daters. In less than 72 hours my profile was hacked and perverted which required a shutdown and complete reinstatement six times. Getting over the phone help is squeezed into 8 am to 5 pm Mon-Fri BUT the hackers know this and rob your profile times and days the customer service is closed. So you find yourself paying for MANY days of a site which is inaccessible. People Media Inc is very resistant to give out refunds and run you around for weeks to wear you down. Match.com (owned by same company) is the same exact problem. Find other ways to meet and date. These sites are pure brain damage!

This site preys upon lonely seniors. It posts inaccurate information to attract your attention such as saying that you have new flirts and new messages when neither is true. When you log in on the site, it is the same old information sometimes months out of date. The site keeps recycling "matches" that you have rejected months ago. Do not waste your money here. You are better off sitting at home and using your money to buy a good bottle of booze.

Do not waste your time and/or money subscribing to this site. It is the biggest scam! 99% of my matches were from across the country and all guys contacting me were looking for a hookup or whatever else I wasn't. I received the same matches weeks in a row. It is a shame that such business continues to thrive. I canceled my renewal within weeks of using the service, removed all my pictures and just accepted that I was victim of a scam! Customer service is the greatest waste of time and keep in mind that subscription is non-refundable!!!

I signed on for a month and immediately was bombarded with 'likes' and 'smiles' and automated, pre-written messages. I would say that a third of those messages were from people thousands of miles away; or they had no photos, or their profile was so full of spelling and grammar mistakes that it was obvious English wasn't their first language. There are far, far too many fake profiles on this site. In addition, although they claim they're targeting 50+ folks, they are an awful lot of younger singles on here - either fake profiles or looking for their cougars. If you want to try it out, be aware of the scams, the fake profiles. The best test: see if they want to meet in person. That takes care of many of them really quickly.

I signed up for this service only to find they do not screen their people. Anyone can sign up even catfisher and scammer. I fell for one and was taken for a ride. I just got an email stating I signed an inappropriate text. Not sure how when you have to pay for the service in order to send a text. DO NOT sign up.

First the dating site is a scam. It tells you people viewed your account that really didn't, in turns it states you viewed accounts that you didn't. Then I stopped automatic renewal shortly into my 6 month subscription, so when the 6 months was up I wouldn't be able to communicate with other members. I went in to delete my account and photos and it recharged me another 6 month subscription and automatic renewal. I immediately contacted the company and state I DID NOT search profiles just went in to delete my account and was charged. They finally refunded my money but charged me a $3.99 processing fee. That is underhanded and deceptive. All I wanted to was remove my photos so they could not use them.

I have been a paid member 2 times in the past, so I know as to what I speak. First - read these other reviews. They are being 100% truthful. When you put up your profile and pictures, etc (and BEFORE) you have paid - you will get COUNTLESS views, flirts, messages, etc. Then you decide to pay and find out these are from people FAR AWAY. I mean 1,000's of miles away. Also you will soon learn most HAVE TO BE FAKE because their brief description says the EXACT SAME THING. Yes, there will be a handful of local members who are real people but 90% of these are unpaid members so you can't contact them anyway. Also most of these local "members" are old profiles by people who have not signed on in years. I can think of nothing more sinister and evil than to prey on a person who wants to find love, companionship, a friend or whatever...

I was often matched with the same people repeatedly even though I had dismissed them. I was matched with individuals ten years older than the age range I had chosen. I was matched with several people whom I had blocked. A number of potential matches were just profiles of people who no longer were members. I was matched with several obviously fake profiles or catfish playing games and scamming users. There were repeated technical issues, but no tech support. Customer service is useless. The service also tricks users by including one deadline before renewal, but then shutting down the user profile or continuing it by charging a higher fee all without notice. I have traded emails with so-called support and received repeated generic responses that achieved no resolution. The company obviously is used more to make money from desperate people than to provide a legitimate service.

I was tricked into joining for 6 months. The site has all ages, not 50 and older. You get the same matches EVERY DAY, the men are disgusting! All that shows up for me, are men hundreds and hundreds of miles away. This is the scum of the scum men. Don’t use this site!!

First thing that you should do is stop the auto billing. Mind you, once you've done this you get inundated with sign up, special deal (LOL). This site adds a link to match.com, go figure! This site also does not police who signs on and there are a lot of scam attempts from ladies who will ask you to send them an email, very irritating. Certainly not what I had anticipated.

In trying to stop my automatic renewal ending 5 months from now, somehow I have been charged another $45. For another renewal, now I have 325 days of a subscription. I wish I could get a refund for now, instead of however they did this. Called credit card company they have opened a dispute. Writing congressman next. Companies like this should be investigated.

I have never experienced so many scammers as I have on this site. Almost every few days my profile was compromised. I got so upset I removed my profile about 8 days into a one month pay period. I would not recommend this site to anyone except scammers.

This service is appalling. Nearly every contact has no picture and/or is from another state. The number of local contacts can be counted on one hand and I live in the tri-state area. The site is also riddled with young men looking for hookups. I cannot believe I actually thought this might lead to some dates. Complete garbage.

I've been on Our Time about 1.5 years. Each time my account comes up for renewal my views are manipulated going from 10-15 per day to over 50! As soon as I renew, views go right back to a normal amount. Now messages also seem to be manipulated. I receive notices from my email provider that I have mail on Our Time which is normally accurate but this week the mail was not there which has happened before. A fellow I liked messaging who told me he enjoyed our correspondence also disappeared from site with no explanation. Views have dwindled to less than 4 per day despite new photos that draw many views and messages on other sites. My subscription isn't due to expire until February and I won't be renewing. Can't help but think their employees get bored and manipulate the service they're supposed to be providing. Has anyone else had similar experiences?

I felt the ads are misleading... I was under the impression I was only being charged for 1 month, I never received a receipt, etc saying. After being on the site for a few weeks I checked my account and much to my surprise I was charged for 6 months!! After speaking to their customer service about this issue, and asking to speak to the account mgr, which they would not, they WILL NOT REFUND anything to my satisfaction! And NO the results were not good as well. It seemed the only messages I received were their 'auto-generated' messages... I DO NOT RECOMMEND THIS SITE!