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OurTime is an online dating community for people in their 50s, 60s and older. Through the app, users can customize their profiles, browse curated matches and exchange messages. The app is compatible with Android, iPhone (iOS 11.0 or later), iPad and iPod touch.

Pros
  • Curated matches
  • 14-day trial subscription
  • Easy-to-use app interface
Cons
  • App contains ads
  • Pricey monthly subscriptions

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    Customer Service

    Reviewed April 8, 2026

    My profile was hacked!! Someone was sending likes and communicating with other members through my profile!! The person gave a different name than mine and a different occupation than the one I had put in my profile! It made me doubt whether you can even trust the communications you get from other members because they could be coming from a hacker. When I notified the company I got a generic email from Customer Service and they were completely unsympathetic.

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    Reviewed April 4, 2026

    OurTime dating changed me password and will not let me reset or sign in. They are using my profile without my consent any more.

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    Refunds & Payouts

    Reviewed April 4, 2026

    Avoid! First time using a dating app. Soooo many scammers from foreign countries creating fake accounts. I paid for 3 months but canceled halfway through. If I use a dating app again, will only use one that verifies profiles. Don't waste your time with fake profiles and AI generated conversations.

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    Customer Service

    Reviewed April 4, 2026

    Cannot even log in, they cannot for some reason verify my phone number, how do I cancel?

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    Customer ServiceSales & MarketingOnline & AppMaintenanceStaff

    Reviewed April 1, 2026

    Customer care is the poorest quality I have experienced. They do not fix the problems with their own software. Twice they blocked me from using the site for no true reason. While test driving with free membership the app would not verify my phone, causing them to block use. They took 1.5 weeks to fix this but required extreme patience of constantly asking for them to fix. I then became a platinum member only to get blocked again after editing my profile. I truly did nothing wrong on my side. I am tried many dating apps. This is by far the worst.

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    Customer ServiceRefunds & Payouts

    Reviewed April 1, 2026

    Paid for 6 months and after 2 months they blocked my account and said they couldn’t find the email address associated with my account. Funny they sent me a email to that same address 2 days before.

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    Customer ServiceSales & MarketingPunctuality & Speed

    Reviewed April 1, 2026

    Please don't get drawn in to the subscription model on dating sites. They are basically a scam. I am a retired web developer and know exactly how these systems are built. I opened a nonsubscription account on Ourtime.com and got my first pointer from the likes page. I left four likes for women in my area and then left it for three days and went back to look. What I found was that I had received five likes but when I checked on the likes that I had left it was thirty nine! looking through them 80% turned out to be for profiles that I had not even viewed. These are auto generated views to draw people in to the subscription memberships. My advice is to meet people just as we used to. I am now in my 60s so used to date in the late 70s onwards by meeting girls in cafés, pubs even while shopping. There was no internet, or smart phones and yet we met people. What I am saying is that we all need to get out more and not hand our money to parasites.

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    Reviewed March 25, 2026

    This dating service is a fake. When paid for in full if you send messages to AI people otherwise fake made up people with no response back. If you like and message the fake person you. That person then don't send reply or just no longer available. I have used service for 2 months with likes that don't message you back because they are not getting messages. Don't pay for this service. Bad deal.

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    Customer ServicePriceBilling

    Reviewed March 24, 2026

    Signed up. Instantly triple charged me 25x3=75$. Supposed to be $25. My triple payment was credited to a mystery acct. My profile still hidden. Rather pricey. ZERO CUSTOMER SERVICE (phone is a recording). Not surprisingly, OurTime.com is known for not returning mistaken charges. It's a criminal company-you signed your rights to sue in terms of class action, in the terms.

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    Refunds & Payouts

    Reviewed March 19, 2026

    What a waste of money and time! It is a money grab. I paid for the subscription under the very top and can’t see who liked me or see search results for potentials. I have a great profile but it feels you have to pay for a BOOST to get your profile out. The matches they send are random and don’t align at all to preferences. If you like a decent profile, it tries to get you to upgrade to send a message when your subscription already includes ending messages. It’s crazy and random. A rip off! It is beyond awful.

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    Customer ServiceSales & MarketingPrice

    Reviewed March 19, 2026

    I have been a subscriber of both Match.com and Ourtime.com. I think they are the same company. Almost all of the women that contacted or Liked me, were scams. Usually they will only post one picture and as soon as you try and make contact with them. They will ask you to use WhatsApp. Messaging service. That's because it is not traceable. Just learned this from one of my Tech smart friends. The subscription was not worth all the effort. Both sites do not have a customer service phone number and when they respond to your email. It is usually a computer generated email. Good Luck!!!!

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    Customer ServiceSales & MarketingBilling

    Reviewed March 18, 2026

    I was banned as soon as I signed up. I requested 4 times to provide me with details as to why I was banned with no answer. I see other people say they were banned as well so I am thinking that this is some sort of scam. I asked for proof that they had removed my personal information and they won't respond. So I think they are just collecting information from you. Personal Information and credit card details.

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    Customer ServiceRefunds & PayoutsBilling

    Reviewed March 12, 2026

    I sign up for Our Time. Within a couple days, I was communicating with someone. He sent me his phone number because his subscription was ending. Another person sent me a message and when I tried to respond I received a message that my account had been banned. After a bunch of emails with Our Time they said I’ve violated policy by sharing non-public information. The only thing I can think of is that phone number that was provided to me. Of course, no refund I sense. I’ve tried to join a Match.com but it appears the two are the same company. I found this out when I completed my profile and went to enter my payment information for Match.com. I immediately got a message saying that my account had been banned. So I emailed them and said I wasn’t even assigned up user. Their response was that their answer was final and they weren’t gonna discuss it and they will no longer reply to emails.

    Through my own research I found out they were one and the same company. And they will no longer reply to emails. Through my own research I found out they were one and the same company. If you can’t on your own share a phone number with someone how are you supposed to meet them? They don’t allow you to share a phone number. How are you supposed to meet somebody. I usually don’t wanna meet anybody unless I talk to them first. Needless to say the experience was ridiculous. If I could give zero stars, I would.

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    Customer ServiceSales & MarketingRefunds & Payouts

    Reviewed March 4, 2026

    Couldn’t log in. Sent multiple requests for support. They said I violated the terms but I wasn’t. Never able to log on. They refused a refund and refused to respond. It was a horrible experience. 130.00 scam.

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    Sales & MarketingRates

    Reviewed March 4, 2026

    I can agree with many of the negative reviews people have written. I have been on the site about two weeks and most of the recommendations they make do not fit the profile of what I am looking for. The locations are all over the country and the age and other criteria don't fit. Many of the recommendations have a profile that is unavailable. You cannot know if a message you think you sent has been received or read. Some interesting profiles do not provide a way to message them. I give it a 2 rather than a 1 because I have not had any scam activity and I have had a fun messaging conversation with a person just slightly outside my desired area.

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    Punctuality & Speed

    Reviewed March 2, 2026

    They try to up sell you on the every swipe even when you have a paid service. Most ridiculous dating app I have seen. Also the server or hardware they’re using is so slow it takes several minutes to see the notification they just sent me.

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    Reviewed Feb. 26, 2026

    Site sucks, there is nobody local. I have to drive 2 hours to meet anyone, it should be illegal!!! I never will drive 2 hours to meet anyone anytime. Repeat, this site sucks.

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    Refunds & PayoutsTransparency

    Reviewed Feb. 24, 2026

    I was on this site for two days, and they banned me with no explanation at all. Luckily, they gave me my money back, but they didn't even tell me why. I feel most of the guys I was talking to were ok with me, but a couple who seemed ok when we talked, but maybe they were just playing me. I would have given a higher review if they had explained where I went wrong. I am a single woman in my 60's just wanting to find a friend. Anyway, their loss.

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    Customer ServiceRefunds & PayoutsStaffLoan ProcessHonesty & Transparency

    Reviewed Feb. 22, 2026

    After joining, my inbox was filled with likes and messages. I got messages from men/boys in their 30s (I'm 72), a guy who posted he was 66 and whose picture reflected a smoking hot guy in his mid 30s (if he was 66, I want to know what kind of moisturizer he uses! lol), not to mention receiving emails from males of every race, creed and color, despite the fact that I specified my preference. After weeding through them, I carefully selected just two gentlemen with whom I felt a connection. We intensely e-mailed and built on that connection.

    I delayed meeting them both until I felt confident about proceeding and I'm glad I did. One professed his love for me with passionate letters and phone calls. And I was buying it right up until the time he asked me for a temporary loan of $35,000 to solve an urgent business problem. The second one was just as bad. He sent eloquently written emails which were emotionally enticing and I felt myself falling for him. Then I paid attention to inconsistencies (a nice way of saying lies) in his exchanges with me.

    My Spidey senses were tingling and I did on-line searches and could find not one shred of proof that this person existed. I blocked them both on email and phone, refusing further contact. I paid $67 for a 3-month subscription, used it just one week, and then cancelled my account (no refunds). Please do yourself a favor and take a hard pass on joining. Your bank account and disappointed emotions will thank you.

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    Sales & MarketingOnline & AppMaintenanceStaff

    Reviewed Feb. 22, 2026

    I have had one dating experience from the app and enjoyed my time. It did not work out. The app makes a circle of your distance say 50 miles which for me crosses one of the Great Lakes into Canada. Approximately half of the profiles come from Canada but the drive time is not an hour but 4 to 5 hours due to driving around the lake. I do not put likes for profiles located in Canada. I get profiles much older or outside of my desired shape. The expectation from many profiles is a high income earner. I've downsized and had the economic downturn of 2008 and my retirement is not what I expected. I worked as a professional for years but that is not acceptable. It is hard to get a meet-up or a date once economics are mentioned.

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    Price

    Reviewed Feb. 21, 2026

    Awful service. Did the trial offer now I'm being charged for 70 dollars just to talk to someone to cancel the 30 charge. I hate this site. I found someone on my own now I'm trying to hustle cancel this.

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    Customer ServiceSales & MarketingPriceStaffBillingTransparency

    Reviewed Feb. 10, 2026

    I signed up for OurTime selecting what was advertised as $20/month for a 6-month membership. However, I was charged the full amount (approximately $130) upfront. Although that was frustrating, I initially chose to let it go. Within less than 24 hours of joining, I was suddenly locked out of my profile with no explanation provided. I did not receive a reason for the block, nor any warning.

    There is no working phone number to speak with a live customer service representative. The only support option is an online submission form, which provides no tracking or confirmation process. The alternative option required emailing personal identifying information to customer support, which I was not comfortable doing due to security concerns — especially considering the amount of data already collected by the platform.

    As a result, I cannot access my account to manage or delete my profile. I am now actively monitoring my credit card and personal information. Based on this experience, I strongly urge others to proceed with caution. Be very clear on billing terms, understand that full payments may be charged upfront, and be aware that customer support options appear extremely limited if problems arise.

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    Customer Service

    Reviewed Feb. 7, 2026

    I was a member of OurTime. After two weeks I couldn’t sign into account. Notified OurTime with problem because I knew my password. Didn’t even get notification of being banned until I reached telling them I couldn’t sign into account. They finally responded asking me to appeal being banned, still no notification as to why I was banned, communication goes a long way. There is none with them. Can't even talk to a live person. From all I’ve read they won’t explain reasons for ban nor work with you trying to defend whatever they said I did wrong. It appears they just want your money, and uses fake people to like you or view you.

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    Customer ServiceRefunds & Payouts

    Reviewed Feb. 7, 2026

    This has been a nightmare. I had many scammers asking for money etc. I was all of a sudden blocked for no reason. I was paid in full for months. I contacted the customer service via email daily for three weeks, but never received a response nor a refund. There is no way to contact them except for email.

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    Reviewed Feb. 5, 2026

    When I signed up it had 3 months and decent price. But I could not sign up on 3 months as it would not let me so I tried 6 months. I realized right away the site was useless and found how to ensure my credit card would not be charged again. Not even 3 months later they put across screen while blocking people who messaged me Reactivate. I tried to find and verify date I started and saw it would expire in May yet early Feb not even 3 months they blocked me. I hit Reactive thinking I still had over 3 months left on what I paid for and they charged my credit card. These people are big scammers and just want money. Never again will I join a dating site. I am trying to dispute with them now but I see I must go to my bank.

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    Reviewed Feb. 5, 2026

    eHarmony or match or JDate or a lot of others, would have a chat available a phone number available and an email that would get right back to you after 30 years they're saying my phone number is not good. The state of New York of the state of Florida accept my picture from my badge which is way more important but they're saying my profile picture isn't good after they took all my money and they won't get back to me and then they're sending me over 800 mi away to Alabama which is a state I would never go into. I don't even want to walk by somebody that's married to their uncle or their brother or sister. This site is complete bogus garbage. Look on Trust pilot, look here and look everywhere, they have the worst rating I've ever seen. I want my money back

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    Customer ServicePriceBillingTimeliness

    Reviewed Feb. 3, 2026

    I was a customer for literally one day only. Paid the charge in full. The very next day, I was blocked by OurTime. I wrote numerous emails, fill out appeal forms, and this was never rectified; there was no reason given to me. This is a terrible site. I’ll be disputing the charge with my credit card company.

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    Sales & Marketing

    Reviewed Feb. 2, 2026

    They show you about 10-20 great matches. You have to join to message. It’s almost like an “bait and switch”. After you join, you realize those are the ONLY matches. And I live near Chicago. I get matches that are 20 years older than me or live 200 miles away now. Waste of money!!

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    Customer ServiceSales & MarketingOnline & App

    Reviewed Jan. 30, 2026

    Terrible dating site with very strange experiences. I received around 135 likes in my first week, but only five men actually contacted me. Three of them said they had been members for about three months and were trying to cancel because the site was so bad—yet they immediately asked for my phone number so we could communicate outside the app. Another man seemed very nice, but two days after we started chatting, I was notified by OT that his account had been canceled for security reasons. The last person I spoke with didn’t have a vehicle and expected me to travel to him. I canceled my membership after two weeks. I am better off losing my money than my time.

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    Staff

    Reviewed Jan. 25, 2026

    Hi. I joined Our Time a few months ago. I get messages saying that I have matched with someone. I send them texts and I never hear back from them. I will go online to see how I can cancel my membership. I don't think the owners care if you meet anyone and just want money.

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    OurTime.com Company Information

    Company Name:
    OurTime.com
    Year Founded:
    2004
    City:
    Dallas
    State/Province:
    TX
    Country:
    United States
    Website:
    ourtime.com