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POF.com (Plenty of Fish) delivers online dating services, aiming to connect singles through a straightforward interface and various communication tools. Launched in 2003, it offers features like personality assessments, messaging and search filters.
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Reviewed Jan. 24, 2019
Ladies beware of the fake military profiles of widows with small children and on deployment that are being used on this dating website. They will immediately ask for your phone number. Do Not give it. If their text words look like they are talking a little funny or LONG Romantic paragraphs of pledges of attraction and love at first seeing your picture and profile is a sign you are being scammed. I have only been on this site for maybe 1 month and have repeatedly seen this. This website is not safe to use.
Reviewed Jan. 23, 2019
My account was hacked. I noticed I started receiving a bunch of POF meet me responses, and when I went to log in my user pass did not work all the sudden. I checked my email and in junk folder there was message that my POF email changed from csr@pof.com. I tried the change password option include in e-mail, but I didn't get e-mail (must of went to new hacker e-mail address). For past several days I have e-mailed for support with just generic responses with links to reset my password which do not work as my e-mail was changed by hacker I'm guessing. Has anyone had physical support from POF customer service for issues like this? I have never had problems like this getting support.
Reviewed Jan. 21, 2019
I have been on and off of POF over the last few years. I’ve had a few dates but this site is now declining rapidly. It is all to the benefit of females. Too easy to block the good guys. Plus, spamming and phishing (fake profiles) are rampant. It used to be good but not no more.
Reviewed Jan. 21, 2019
I paid for a 4-month upgraded membership in September. In January, I received an email saying that my membership will expire, along with my card the following day. It provided a link for renewing, which I didn’t follow because I didn’t want to renew. The next day, I received a fraud alert from my credit card. Turns out I was on autopay with PayPal and I had been charged. Not what I needed since I’ve been furloughed from my job from the federal government. I contacted POF and told them I did not want to renew and their email was misleading about my card expiring. They would not refund my membership. They did turn off my auto renew.
I had tried to do this directly through PayPal when I found out I was charged but was unable to. I just checked my account tab on their website and there was a note that future auto pays had been turned off, along with a checkbox to turn it back on. I did not see an option where you could have turned it off yourself, but hard to say if that was available prior to them disabling it. I did not find this site useful, and now I’m stuck with another 4 months I don’t want, thanks to their misleading email.
Reviewed Jan. 18, 2019
When I was single 6 or 7 years ago, POF was actually a legit website and you could meet real women by using it. I actually met someone on POF that I wound up marrying. Back to being single again, so created another profile. Now it's a writhing, teeming cesspool of Russian/Indian/whatever scammers that steal photos of models off the internet, create a profile with one photo and a one sentence bio of same half-English gibberish, wait for you to view/message them, and then send you a link to a ** site. This website is hot garbage. Do NOT pay for a subscription to this dumpster fire. Seriously, if you see a picture of an actual attractive woman on this website, there is a 99.9% chance it's a scammer. All the real profiles are for women you almost assuredly do not want to date.
Reviewed Jan. 15, 2019
Trying to login to the dating site Plenty of Fish (POF) is absolutely hopeless. In my case, I was on the site about 10 years ago. I think I made the mistake of using the word “sensual” in one my ads. I understand POF wants and succeeds in having good taste and is a classier than experience than all the idiots who were in the Craigslist personals. But, honestly, the word “sensual” warrants a lifetime ban? Once in a while I try, again, to login, create a new user name and-or new password. But the site recognizes my email address and will not allow me to re-establish a new account. POF has plenty of members and they do not care if you cannot login or open an account. They do not need me or you. Move on. Possibly try a print ad in the National Examiner tabloid in the “ Sheela Wood Find A Friend” personal ads. They will not allow profanity or explicit sexual language, but words such as “sensual” are perfectly acceptable. Good Luck.
Reviewed Jan. 14, 2019
I have visited the POF website on and off for about 6 years. When I first tried it, about 6 years ago, the website was top shelf. I have seen it deteriorate greatly since then. Yes, the women don't like the guys who only want sex, and the guys are tired of women showing up weighing "tons" more than what their photos show. But those are actual users and not the website itself.
It's January 2019 and the first 20 new profiles I see...are all fake profiles. Being in my 40s, I'm seeing provocative photos of girls in their early 20s who have their age listed as 40-something. They only have 1 photo, and a 1-sentence bio. Once you send them an email, they respond with a link to go to some pornographic website. I'm sure the actual women users/subscribers see similar things also.
I have written to POF about this, but they have an automated reply that is meant to brush you off...and really informs you that they intend on doing nothing about this. So much for providing a quality website! Having previously working in the IT/IS field, there is an easy way to prevent these scammers from using the POF website, and that is by blocking the IP address of the offenders. However, POF will not do this. Alternatively, POF employs people who have to clean these messes up daily, only to do it all over again the next day.
The employees of POF do not want to block the IP addresses of the scammers because then they would be out of a job. They fail to realize that if they provide a quality website, the website will grow, and more customer service people will be needed...and then they could do their job with integrity instead. And a quality website with growing users is going to bring more advertisers with more money. But POF fails to recognize this.
Originally, a man named Marcus created this website. Back then, the website (as I previously mentioned) was top notch. Since then, POF was sold and now the quality, the subscribers, and the advertisers are leaving. Now they have to create fake profiles in hopes of bringing back the things that they are losing. Food for thought POF!
Reviewed Jan. 11, 2019
** is a compulsive liar. Not that educated and definitely not a manager. Has wife and kid at home, says she is terminally ill and left him with debt. Telling sob stories all the time. Scamming money and just wants to plenty of ** Buddies with benefits, as well. Cliff isn't his real name! Has a lot of Facebook accounts. Hard to believe that he's divorced then go on holiday together with his Mrs, this was a wedding event as well. Knows how to set up a trap slowly and when you've somehow sussed him out. It's an excuses of lies over lies. Ladies don't be fooled by his posh accent. My private detective had to warn me. Not a genuine person to be good friends with as stated on his POF profile.
Reviewed Jan. 7, 2019
Fake ads and fake mail. It's easy to spot them. One word mail. One picture, not matching the correct age of member as stated in their profile. What a pain getting slammed by fakes. Markus is clueless. He's part of this scam. Is there really a Markus. Save yourself some grief and don't join. You'll thank me later. I also got hacked through POF. Didn't appreciate that.
Reviewed Jan. 6, 2019
Recently contacted by an attractive man and of course got excited by the, so he wants to chat on WhatsApp, Quite common these days, so I agree. SO turns out that David is out in Turkey on a military mission and he has left his 13-year-old daughter at home in Harborne, Birmingham Uk, with schoolmistress? I did think this a little odd. Another story of his parents dying in a car crash when he was young and his grandmother looked after him.
Carried on general chat and he sent more photos of himself and a picture of his military I.D. card after I had challenged him after he started asking for iTunes gift cards to trade for internet connection. Alarm bells ringing now that this is a scam. Asked him about internet banking and he said could not do this. Did this guy think I was stupid? I know full well that military get looked after and are able to access internet etc. He carried on messaging ever hopeful that I would go out and purchase an iTunes card. On searching the internet this appears to be a common scam, don't be fooled. Such a shame as the guy who has been used was really quite nice and I would love to find him and at least let him know he has been used in a scam. Beware ladies!!!
Reviewed Dec. 25, 2018
Very well put together scam this app is. I made the mistake of a upgraded account as soon as I opened a normal one. That's 40 quid I'll never see again. Like everyone else on this page has said. Most profiles are fake sending spam links. Not only that, After you spend a stupid amount of money on upgrading your account the site still constantly pesters you on spending more money on "Tokens" to "get more popular and be noticed faster." What the hell is this!? A casino where you pay every time to spin for a random girl who almost definitely won't respond either because she doesn't exist or because the people that ARE real on this site are precious little princesses that have no personality that think. I should be crawling on my hands and knees just for them to say hello? It's not got a good crowd.
It's very hard and disheartening for people who are shy and not got much confidence in themselves on this site as you're making a big leap by putting yourself out there and then getting nothing in return and you're paying for it! Basically, to very bluntly sum up what this site is (and who it's really for), Its a site where drop dead gorgeous muscular guys with no brain cells can meet drop dead gorgeous girls with no brain cells, fire a couple of innuendos at each other, meet up, bang, have a bit of drama then move on to the next one. If you really are feeling down about yourself or lonely and are seriously trying to find someone to find happiness with THIS IS NOT THE PLACE. It's pish!
Reviewed Dec. 25, 2018
For one I think this site is sexist and allows men to degrade women and insult women with no consequences and do whatever they want. Most of these men on this site are just looking for sex and lie and say they want a relationship or something long term to get it. Once they realize that they might not get it they get nasty and mean and kick the girl to the curb to move on to the next victim. Some men’s profiles even say insulting things about women in their profiles and they aren’t deleted. I think this is run by sexist men who don’t care about how these men are treating women on this site. Women have to go through so much with trying to find a man on here that is not just looking to get in her pants if she actually want a real relationship and not just a hook up.
Most of the men on this site that I have encountered are rude, mean, shallow, conceited and think because they are a man they can act whatever way they want. They are all wrapped up in how the girl looks even when they aren’t even all that themselves and if they can get sex. I’m fed up with the behavior of men on this site and how horrible they act. It also seems odd that most of the reviews here are from men. Makes you wonder who is running this site. Then you have men putting stupid stuff on their profile like the reason all you women are single is because you put him in the friend zone. WELL, HELLO you're single too buddy!!!
I mean really low quality men on here! A lot of drug users, men who are cheating. They just don’t care since it’s free. I don’t care if they are men and have a better job than men me or whatever else it doesn’t mean you have the right to disrespect me and think that you are better than me. This site will make you feel like a piece of meat and valued at all. Stay away!!!
Reviewed Dec. 20, 2018
Since last year I've had 4,246 fake profiles asking me to give them my email address. And I've met 23 women for dates, all of them ugly as. And about 50% of those were already married... I've also noted that around 25% of those had a criminal record. And 10% lost custody of children because of a drug habit. Not a very nice crowd.
Reviewed Dec. 17, 2018
After being on POF for a couple of years, I considered becoming a paid member, until I started receiving many fake looks, likes & being favored by users that didn't seem to exist. Lately I've started to see new profiles of absolutely super hot women (Red Flag). I would select that I liked them. To my surprise, they all liked me back (another Red Flag)! When I would go to the Mutual liked page, the profiles didn't exist anymore. When you message some accounts, you could tell they were bots replying with canned responses, totally unrelated to the message you. Most of the replies try to get you to message them off the POF site.
Several of my friends & I have seen a massive rise in accounts stating they will only accept messages from PAID POF members. This looks as though POF has created fake accounts to get unpaid members to pay in order to contact specific users. This seems to be unique to males messaging women, in that none of my women friends on POF have ever even seen this type of paid members only notification. (Red Flag) When we started to talk amongst ourselves, we realized, NONE of us even knew how to set our profiles to block unpaid members. We eventually did find the setting.
Reviewed Dec. 13, 2018
I've been a member of POF for a number of years and decided to upgrade and pay for membership this year. This past weekend after chatting with another member for a couple weeks, I uploaded pics to my profile and shared them privately with this member. I then deleted them from my profile. Shortly after this I went to upload a couple more and was faced with a message telling me my uploading privileges had been revoked. After multiple emails to POF demanding an explanation they replied with this:
"Thank you for taking the time to email POF.com. Please be advised that your uploading privileges have been revoked. Your account was found to be in violation of our Terms and Conditions as you have uploaded offensive material, indecent images, or re-posted images after having received an image warning. This ban cannot be reset." I understand the site's terms, but these pictures were of QUILTS AND NEEDLEPOINTS I had created. No nudity or anything inappropriate whatsoever. Sorry POF but you just lost a paying subscriber and ongoing member.
Reviewed Dec. 12, 2018
Fraud, scam and theft on this website!!! Do not pay for new features like webcam! POF have stolen 100£ from my account. Thieves and nothing real = Plenty Of Fish. I'M still waiting for my money back, but nothing. Be very careful and do not send your card details. POF = scam.
Reviewed Dec. 9, 2018
I made a few decent connections on POF, but recently it's being overrun with these gorgeous young women profiles that are clearly fake. They use the same "tagline" and if you upload their profile pic to Tineye.com you'll most likely get 4-40 results showing all the ** photo sites their picture is posted. Reporting them is useless as I half believe it's POF itself doing this. The bottom line is NO gorgeous woman whose picture is a perfect body and face is going to be on POF, which in reality is for the older, plain-faced, overweight woman (majority - sorry, but true).
Reviewed Dec. 5, 2018
POF.com is a gross place. Don’t pay for the upgrade - everyone who wants to “meet you” is a **. There are no real people who will ever show up on that tab. Also people there tend to be incredibly shallow, vapid and downright mean. It’s an awful site that is infested with fake accounts. Don’t do it. All it will do is kill your self-confidence. Oh also someone tried to catfish me.
Reviewed Dec. 3, 2018
Updated on 12/22/2018: I want to add some more to my previous review. I have a POF setting that prevents people from messaging me unless their message is 50 characters in length. I thought that would stop the sexbots from emailing me. But I just got a message from a sexbot and the message was "Hey there!" Obviously, Markus is behind these sexbots. The site is mostly unusable now as anyone I click on "Who Viewed You" or "New Users", I end up seeing mostly sexbots and no one real. Even when I click on "Who's Online", I see at least 3-5 sexbots. I think that POF is officially dead. Markus must have gotten greedy and decided that he could make more off of sexbots and die hard loyalists than before when it was just upgraded members. Someone needs to make a new dating site because POF just isn't what it was before with the nonstop sexbot spam that Markus allows.
Updated on 12/07/2018: I want to add more to my previous review that I posted a couple of days ago. Just today, I have already received six POF emails from sexbots. I will probably get some more before the day is through. Also, I mentioned in my previous review that I created a user script to remove crap from his website. Some of the crap that I removed involved red alert notifications indicating someone was interested in me or something. 100% of every one of those were from bots, not real people. It's just a scam to trick you into spending money so you will see who was interested in you.
Markus likes to pretend that he is a champion of justice, and caters to feminist types. He lets women have empty and two-word profiles, but requires that males have three sentence profiles. It should be the same for both genders. Even though there is already a profile setting that can limit who can contact you based on gender, age, location, etc. he made it so no one can ever see or contact each other outside a certain age range, and did it for the women of the site and no one else.
Well if he is so high up on his horse and thinks he is such a warrior of justice, don't you think he should show some integrity? Trying to con people out of money by setting up a fake "someone is interested in you" notifications is a lack of integrity. This guy doesn't have integrity. Which is why we have a dating site that is being overrun by sexbots now, despite the fact that he has been working on this site for decades and has plenty of web development experience and expertise.
Original Review: I'm not sure when exactly, but I will say around 2008, there were a lot of CSS and HTML and page navigation errors on the website. I never put the website or the owner down. I wanted to take advantage of the bug report and suggestion threads in the Forums. As soon as I explained the problem on the forums, I was attacked by a group of people, mostly women. I just wanted to help Marcus by pointing the errors out, but I guess he was perfectly fine with having people ** and give me a hard time.
Then later, some woman was complaining about how this stranger treated her like complete crap and she can't get over it and him because she was otherwise attracted to him. It was so long ago, I don't remember exactly. I probably said something to the effect that she needed to embrace her hate and anger a bit, otherwise she will find herself in this situation again and again for the rest of her life and always be a victim. This wannabe moderator immediately attacked me and said that there couldn't possibly be worse advice than I was giving and then he basically sweet talked her and blah, blah, blah. I found out later that he posted a lot on the forums and signed every single one of his posts with his nickname, trying to bring attention to himself. Needless to say, he became a moderator. Markus must like self-serving douches like that.
Those two aren't really complaints. But this one is. I think that if someone only wants to receive emails from people within a certain age, then they can set limitations on their profile "only interested in men from 18-24" or something like that. It's already a profile option. But Markus one day decided to go far beyond that and you immediately can never ever message or receive messages from someone outside of your age range. I just disagree with that totally.
People 15 years apart should be able to talk to each other if they want, and if they don't want to talk to people older/younger than them, then they can use that profile option I already told you about. It made me feel like Markus was a ** wonder who wanted to cater feminist types. Not only that, but for many years any POF profile I create has to have a certain number of characters usually around 3-4 sentences, but women's profiles have no character limit I know of because I often see completely empty or two-word profiles like "Ask me".
And I live in a small farm town of 4,500 in the Midwest. I moved here from Columbus, Ohio around 8 years ago. And I live near a small city. For many years, I would say the vast majority of women's profiles were real. But now it has been taken over by sexbots. First it was one full search page full of sexbots that got deleted within 12-24 hours. Then it became two full search pages. Now it is more like 3-5 full search pages of nothing but sexbots.
Given what I know about Marku's ** personality and the fact that he is a pretty good web designer who has been designing websites for decades now, I think this is intentional. I don't think people are spending massive amounts of time to create fake sexbot accounts to annoy him or POF users. As some said, they send you to alternate websites that they believe are also owned by Markus. So Markus could potentially be using POF to create sexbots to farm income for other sites he created. And if not, well he should be doing a better job of keeping sexbots out.
I like POF because it is a free site and it is well designed. It is aesthetically pleasing. I mean there are some small things I don't like. Like, why would you put eye color and hair color so far apart? Why is someone's ethnicity and astrology sign in the same line? I also ended up creating a user script to get rid of some of the crap he has on the site. But overall it's a good site. My main two complaints are that he puts age restrictions where you can't see or talk to people outside a certain age range, no matter what, despite the fact that you can already restrict who can contact you like by age, location, whether they have a picture or not, etc. And the second complaint is that he let the site be taken over by sexbots. And finally, I just think Markus is a giant **. Someone like Trudeau or Macron. Or worse. A ** coward who would probably scream that white skittles are racist or something. POF is the best dating website out there that I know of.
I like it better than MeetMe, because MeetMe is badly designed and it is just a place for people to sell or get weed, prostitute themselves, badmouth guys and shame them, or ask for free ** like (someone give me some pizza or soda or cigarettes, or, "Take me out please," or, "Pick me up and drive me somewhere," or, "I don't care who comes over and cuddles but I want cuddles tonight handsome guys please," or, "I need rent money or gas money or phone card minutes please"). I'm sure the same ignorant ** are on POF too, but POF has more class where you don't know what someone is actually thinking because it isn't real-time communication as in tweets or live posts. It is just profiles and you can tell who takes the time to actually fill out their profile or not.
Reviewed Nov. 21, 2018
I've soon realized that Plenty Of Fish is posting their own fake women on their website leading you to another website they own, it's funny if you write to them and say you're fake instantly they disappear, I can sit there right over and over and over again to each fake person and instantly they all disappear, if you see a pretty sexy young woman on Plenty Of Fish it's fake. They put that there... How can one site claiming to help lonely people take advantage of them instead...
Reviewed Nov. 21, 2018
This site is awful. As soon as I upgraded, I already had messages in my account from bots with profile pics of scantily clad women. Half the messages said the exact same thing: "Hey there!" Then every few minutes I'd get a red indicator at the top of the screen telling me that someone else wanted to meet me, and it showed a profile pic of yet another girl hardly wearing anything. It's all just a bunch of fake profiles looking to scam you in some way or another. Computer generated garbage. Freakin' ridiculous. This website should be shut down!
Reviewed Nov. 18, 2018
I have had to create multiple accounts, only to find that the website utilizes shadow banning of users. Certain keywords trigger their system and then you have to change your password which leads to you being full shadow banned. Once you are shadow banned, you still have an account, but you will stop receiving mutual matches from real accounts.
The website also uses deep fake accounts which is basically bots of profiles of users who quit the website. Me and several friends came across our own profiles being used, reported them, and POF took no action to remove the profile. Nobody is off limits. One of my friends paid for a subscription and got banned outright and found out a user she spoke to reported her for being rude. She was unbanned but then realized a week went by without any messages or likes which is impossible for females. That is when she realized she had been shadow banned.
POF also dumps cookies on your computer as a fail safe in case you delete your account to circumvent the shadow ban. They save your pictures and e-mail to add to the shadow ban list to ensure you are automatically banned or shadow banned if you delete your account and sign up for a new one. One of the issues I have with the website is the large amount of prostitution and sex trafficking that is going on. The same accounts keep popping up no matter how many times they get reported and deleted. This is pretty ridiculous that sexbots can get through and use the website more than real people with respectful, kind, and engaging messages.
Reviewed Nov. 17, 2018
I am writing this review now that I reside in Los Angeles. In 2013 while living in Phoenix, I first started using POF. In 2013 I met a woman and everything was pretty much legit. Here in LA it's a JOKE & a SCAM! I have received emails from Egypt, Nairobi, Kenya and Chad! All of the Threads started out innocent enough...a blonde woman tells me she lives in Van Nuys, or Hermosa, or perhaps Chatsworth...PSYCHE!
After all of the "African" women attempt to schmooze me with "near-naked" (probably stolen) pics and promises of "the best female companionship I will ever need for the remainder of my adult life"..."So why don't you PLEASE just send me that $2K to get me on the next flight home to LAX because my roommate spent all of my money here!" Yah right! Does POF block these scammers? HELL NO!
Fortunately I was NOT born yesterday so I simply delete the Thread and am out $ZERO $USD! Perhaps not so lucky for other gullible men and women. My Ex-Wife got taken to the cleaners ($200 is what she'll admit to) by a Nigerian or Somalian Scammer Christmas 2016. So this SCAMMING BS IS VERY REAL! SHAME ON POF FOR NOT OBTAINING DRIVER'S LICENSES OF PAID SUBSCRIBERS!
I have been told that I am a very attractive man (I am very humble so it's very hard for me to state this). I DO STATE THIS FOR A VERY IMPORTANT REASON: Five Years ago I got many replies from women. Now I get almost ZERO replies because I am told that my Pics in my Profile look too "Modelish" so women think I am a SCAM! Even more reason why I am CHEERING the Woman's Review from Huntington Beach (November 8, 2018) in which she states that women need to... "get OFF Social Online Dating sites and go back to meeting Men in Person. In the grocery store..." I LOVE HER REVIEW!!! Bye-Bye POF and all the other Computer Dating BS!!!
Reviewed Nov. 16, 2018
I have set up an account here 4 times. The first two times my profile was deleted with no reasoning whatsoever. The third time my account was hacked by my ex-boyfriend, whom I met on that site. The fourth time, I was deleted yet again with no explanation or reasoning. I attempted to contact "support" several different times, in all of these events, with no avail. When my account was hacked, they could have cared less. They wouldn't even delete the profile. Yet, they will delete my legit account for no reasoning whatsoever. This site is full of fake people, perverts, inmates, bots. There really isn't much for security for people's information, profiles or login. I will never use this site again. The one man I met there is a wanted felon for felony stalking in a different state. The site failed to verify any info and so did he. Steer clear of this site. It is shady and unsecure. There are far better sites to be on and there is the real world.
Reviewed Nov. 15, 2018
I must confess POF customer service, is a joke. They asked for my credit card, they asked to take a screenshot of my driver's license front and back, said I need to download Google assist, then they said, "WE will give you a 100$ Amazon gift card." Amazon canceled it so fast, I thought my spam folder would burst. I've called 3 times, all I want is an email to reset my password, and my account activated. I was told Robin **, of California and Sam ** of Florida, hacked my account. They responded, we have filed a complaint. Well Hell thanks for nothing. Experian Fraud department 1 888 397 3742. Equifax Fraud department 1 888 766 0008. File A Temporary Fraud Report (ASAP).
Reviewed Nov. 14, 2018
Many years ago when it first started out, it was not too bad, and it was FREE, unlike today it's no longer free anymore. Whoever Mark ** is, he don't know the half of what goes on there, they must have paid him off to make his review sound good. Being on the site a couple of times with full profiles and photos, I got squat from the site, except for 16 females who saw me on "Meet Me" and I was notified they all wanted to meet me. Yet I could not look at one of them without Upgrading to $40.00 a month+ and I wasn't going there. Once or twice a week I'd get an email stating I had new Matches...!
These people were "not" my matches, not anything even close to what I would date if met them on the street! I mean freaking ugly old ladies, over-weight, huge bodies, 74 years old! That's not a Match folks...! That's pure B.S! And I'm not going to PAY POF one red cent for that type of service, I'm in my 50s from AZ. and they were sending these matches to me from Tx., NM., with excuse of not enough Matches from local/State Levels, resorting to nationwide search... DON'T GIVE THEM YOUR HARD EARNED $$$$. They're a huge freaking RIP-OFF...
Reviewed Nov. 14, 2018
There's a huge FRAUD issue here, I received email from user Joy078Page, age of 26, profile that gave me someone’s personal card number info, expiration date and 3 digit ccv number to watch her on vid live sex chat. I was stunned, and amongst the abundance amount of fake profiles, POF does not delete them and uses these fake profiles to advertise out to you to buy their premium account by having these fake profiles say they like your notifications, but you cannot view who they are unless you buy the membership. Aggravations users get having to deal with all this nonsense and POF supports it rather than taking a moral step to temporarily shut down and restructure their dating app. Now, about that card info I received, I screenshot the message with her profile, and I reported it and 12 hours later, message and profile disappeared, but I also messaged that scammer they were reported so more likely the scammer blocked me.
But I feel bad for whoever card number info belongs to and they have to suffer money loss damage. I'm all disappointed how POF aka Plenty of Fake site/app is now, it used to be better. But please take my advice, DO NOT use your credit card info or buy their membership. Their company supposedly is located in Canada, you can easily look up the address, but if they were in my city, I'd be knocking on their door to have a goood talk. Don't sign up on this scammer fraud site, do your research and be better about your dating site/app pickings. You've been warned.
Reviewed Nov. 7, 2018
POF.com has absolutely no safeguards and is an ill experience. POF has the audacity to charge for upgrades but no common sense to use a verify system to verify people who sign up?? A simple submit your Drivers License with your photo would do wonders for this site. Instead anyone can sign up with fake photos. There are 100's of Nigerian scammers and men in prison who use this site. POF doesn't care. Not only is this site full of fake profiles, scammers and men in prison but it's full of racists too. Ladies you are better off talking to men in grocery stores or at church or even speed dating. Get off the internet. You will never find anyone "real" and when you do these guys on these internet dating sites don't ever want to meet offline. The type of guys online stay online for years and years until they age out.
Reviewed Nov. 3, 2018
I had my POF account for a long time. Recently I reported a guy who kept sending me rude mails. Next thing I know, I can't log into my account. My account got deleted without any explanation! I made a new account with the same info to see I really got kicked off and I was. I was able to make a new account. Then I see the guy who I reported still on POF! I get kicked off and he gets to keep his account? This site has many rude guys so I will be deleting my new account and staying away. POF is a waste of time. You get kicked off for NO REASON!
Reviewed Nov. 1, 2018
SPENT A FORTUNE & THEY KICKED ME OFF! POF is really Plenty of Dogs. I followed the rules and they kicked me off the site because a paying member with bi-polar & manic depression had me kicked off. She stalked me and harassed me until I had to get a attorney to send her a Cease & Desist Order. She then contacted POF and lied to them, had my account permanently closed. She posted fake photos and fake information and they backed her. I had 2 women I really wanted to meet and now I have been cut off from them. This site is NOT worth being on for free and if you pay to use it you are a fool.
Reviewed Oct. 30, 2018
I was completely happy with POF. I had met somebody we've been talking. Then all the sudden I'm blocked. Will let me update my password. I tried on my laptop computer friends computer...I was blocked. I did nothing one blocked one really crude guy. Why got a new account to find said guy able to find and message then deleted again. What a waste of time and effort. If you are deleting people we should have a right to know why and if it was a petty person who got hurt they should grow up.
Reviewed Oct. 28, 2018
Don't start with this company if you might change your mind halfway through. I wrote a tiny bit of profile, then decided not to continue. But POF still send me regular emails promising matches when I have given them almost no information. I have tried the unsubscribe route many times but you just get led in circles with endless questions to persuade you to carry on. How do I make them stop???
Reviewed Oct. 25, 2018
Had an account on there a couple of years. I deleted the account after a while but recently set one up again. However, upon setting it up (with confirmation by email) and spending time on the profile, the account mysteriously disappeared. This happened the second time. I've no idea what's going on with that site but the complete lack of any contact details suggests the site is being allowed to die while the owner (Markus Frind) still makes a mint out the poor ** that still use the site and pay for the 'add-ons'. Avoid the site at all costs.
Reviewed Oct. 22, 2018
This site is free but certain perks you have to pay for. I have tried this site several times but this last time was the worst. I got approached for sex several times and I believe that one of the guys I turned down had my profile deleted. I was talking to someone I really liked and now I can't contact them or get POF to contact me back in regards to why my profile was deleted. I also can't create a new account. Guess it wasn't meant to be. POF if you see this maybe you should monitor people and complaints better!!!
Reviewed Oct. 18, 2018
Plenty of shady things going on on this site POF, fake profiles, soliciting going on, lies, did I mention fake profiles lol etc... Beside fake profiles always being solicited for upgrades trying to get more $ out of you. I honestly think they will label members as upgraded in order to get others to do so stating that you get better results and additional privileges and features non pay members don't get! One of their many scams! There has to be lot better out there. NOT recommended. :-(
Reviewed Oct. 13, 2018
I signed up with one of their promos. I then canceled the subscriptions and deleted my account like a week before the promo subscription was over. Six months later I see that POF placed two charges on my card. One for transaction fee and the other was the yearly subscription fee. I quickly contacted POF to return the charges. They were able to return the subscription fee but not the transaction fee. On top of that they have confirmed that my account is still available on file and was not deleted. They informed me that if I wanted the account to be deleted I would need to log back in and follow the steps to delete my account. I have attempted to log in but have not been able to successfully log back in.
I have already attempted to reset the password (which seems to be successful) and still not able to log back in. Every time I log in it gets me error database error that it is not able to find the correct information. Note this is not a page that says it is the wrong username or password. This is a error code from the server saying that it can't find my account and doesn't know what to do and give me a error syntax. I am able to make a fake account and able to log into that and delete it as well with no issue. However my first account will forever be partially deleted with my info on it. They have yet to replied to my emails nor have attempted to delete my account from their system.
Reviewed Oct. 10, 2018
This is not my first rodeo with this experience and if something or someone looks too good to be true...follow your instincts. Lots of crazy men on this site. I have had this experience on Match as well, but this time someone contacted me and we texted and spoke on the phone 1-2x wasting about 4 days. I looked at photos and they were too staged. I checked him out on male scammers site. BINGO. POF you are a disgrace - get people's credential, make people show their photo id and charge more and do research. Why is it also fair that men don't pay and women do? I'm DONE and DISGUSTED. I reported this man and had him blocked on POF. Generally they have either never been married, have no children, or lost their wife. They are generally from another country originally and difficult to understand when speaking on the phone. Very smooth this guy was.
Reviewed Oct. 4, 2018
This site's a joke overran by bots. If I wanted to be in an active relationship with a robot I'd visit my local sex store. The one plus this site does have going for it is when AI gets to the point where it's self-aware, I will be locked and loaded for robo dating. The owners of this site obviously do not care, I would much rather go back to Match aka the EA of dating sites than have to put up with this STD fueled ** that they call a dating site.
Reviewed Oct. 2, 2018
From my experience and research this site is racist against men. I have not seen or heard of any women profiles be deleted. Even in their little rules it's all against men. There is no equal or 50/50. They do not delete the women scammers or bots. They promote them. And if you complain your profile will be deleted, if you're a male like me you can't say nothing or complain. They will not respond. They will just delete you. If you're blocked for no reason they will delete you. And you can never get back on their site, they promote women and don't care about the men, if a women falsely complains or doesn't like you, you will be deleted. They need a good lawsuit against them.
Reviewed Oct. 2, 2018
Piece of crap site! Someone hacked my account, used all my info but changed the email and pics. Called support 5 times and kept getting recordings. Office wasn’t open! Closed every day? Very strange, sent 8 emails and still no answer, so basically I’m screwed, some ** is using my info with her pics, lost everything, all my contacts, messages, etc! And they won't do crap to fix it, be careful on this site!!! This site is not legit, no help at all!!!
Reviewed Oct. 1, 2018
Keeping it real... I have sent some msgs. I have had problems logging in. Unknown why they would block anyone. Is that not some form of punishment w/o due process? I would say so. I have never engaged anyone so my chances of being blocked are unlikely like many have said they were. I do think that this site is a waste of time.
Reviewed Sept. 27, 2018
I was on POF for 6 weeks. During this time... I was catfished by three different men. Each man claimed to be on business trips out of the country... Capetown, Dubai and West London. Two asked for money within 8 days. GET OFF THE SITE... should have done my research as they have a bad reputation.
Reviewed Sept. 26, 2018
I'm recently divorced, as of about 8 months ago. I began using POF beginning in the spring, b/c as a super busy career woman that travels frequently, I thought this would be a great way to meet someone. NO! Stay AWAY. The men I met on this site were either felons, and/or just wanted sex. They were also insane. I had to actually block one guy from texting me, & from all of my social media accounts. POF doesn't verify anything about the individuals that use their site. It's mostly felons, & rejects. I've honestly NEVER experienced worst dating experiences more so than when I tried POF.
I would stay away from this site, it is a complete waste of time, & honestly pretty dangerous. Men expect sex on the first date, felons will not give their last name, most drove cars in poor condition. Then, the majority of the guys I also went out with were really cheap. They didn't even want to pay for the date, but still wanted sex out of it. WTF? I went on with a total of 5 guys over the last 8 months & they were either: Felons, cheap, had really bad breath, completely lied about their profile, expected sex, & other horrible qualities. It's better to use any other site or just wait & meet someone organically.
Reviewed Sept. 26, 2018
This is a letter I received from a user on POF. I am a female and this so-called male initiated contact. After a few days, this is the email I get from him. Mind you, he just "happened" to be out of the country for a week in Greece on business. "Glad to hear from you **. Hope you had a good day. You've been on my mind a lot lately since we started communicating. I can't wait till we finally get to meet in person. I've had a very busy week so far with preparing for my trip home this weekend. Done with business here, now rounding up to leave. I'm suppose to be leaving for the States on Thursday night but there's this fee that I have to take care of before leaving (For the shipping of the products of which I Purchased).
The problem is that My cards are maxed out and I won't have any access to more money until I return to MD. I have to take care of that process in person. (My investment funds) I'll have access to my funds once I'm back in town. That being said, I would be needing a little Favor from you. I don't know if you can help me with about $1,500? You will get it back upon my return this weekend??? I am to make a total payment of $21,150 to them but I contacted my friend back home and he was only able to raise about $19,700. I'm short of $1,500. It really would be of a Great help to me if you can help me with this request of mine.
I promise to pay it back this weekend soon as I get back in town. Do you have the ZellePay App or PayPal or a Western Union Money Transfer store near you? Let me know so that I can provide you with the Info for the transfer. I had a very busy day today. I'll respond to your email in the Morning my time. Can I have your cell #. I'll text you. Do enjoy the rest of your day & Hope to hear from you. ??? Mason???"
Reviewed Sept. 26, 2018
On day one they billed me the full 8 month membership when I only wanted a 30 paid membership. Three minutes after receiving the confirmation email of my membership I noticed it said $79.92, 8 month membership. I contacted them. To my surprise there was no phone number only email support. But on my bank statement it does show a phone number 888-345-4454. I emailed support 9/14/18 at 8:36pm EST stating under no circumstances would I want an 8 month membership for something that is unproven and exploratory.
On 9/16/18 4.17pm EST, they responded informing me memberships are non-refundable but, they would they would reduce my membership to two or four weeks depending on my preference then provide me with a refund of the difference and remove my card from renewing my account. In order to get some money back I told them reduce my membership to two weeks and provide the refund and remove my card from auto-renewal status. On 9/17/18 9am EST I contacted my bank to file a dispute, they informed me that Plenty of Fish tried to double bill me and they stopped the first one but, the second got through. I told the representative I signed for one month 30 day trial and got billed the entire 8 month membership. My bank reimbursed me all but the one month membership fee. In the interim, I'm waiting to see the refund from Plenty of Fish and as of this date 9/26/18 11:02am EST it has yet to be processed.
If they rendered the refund my bank would rescind theirs. I would have a two month Plenty of Fish membership at that point. However, Plenty of Fish did not follow thru. Surely they didn't think I had recourse to get my money back. Played themselves. As of last night, 9/25/18 I became locked out of my account, so I pulled up my bank statement and called the 888-345-4454 number that was on my statement. The woman answered the phone billing, I explained that I'm locked out of my account and sent an email and have yet to get a response. I also told her that I'm on the Consumer Affairs website reading complaints and a host of people have stated this has happened to them. I need to speak to someone, she went on to say customer support is only available via email and she would reach out to them and have someone contact me. I told her I preferred a call, she was adamant only email correspondence would happen.
As for my time on the site, bots send you request and when you email the person to try and speak with them you don't get a reply. You get a host of women outside of the criteria you've outline in setting up your profile that would interest you. Plenty of Fish is a scam, possibly a husband and wife, boyfriend and girlfriend or group of friends are getting rich off of just as the old Girls Gone Wild scam.
Reviewed Sept. 26, 2018
I would receive a lot of "meet me" notifications, which I would come into contact with actual profile at times, and they would not say anything but wants to meet. The few conversations I would have the women would be rude from the beginning conversation for no reason or they would block you as soon as you say hello for no reason. My profile got deleted multiple times. I contacted customer service and on last deletion I was told profile was deleted for suspicious activity when it was a conversation but POF could not deleted the suspicious activity of constant nude or fake profile requests that would flood my notifications.
I would receive more attention from dude profiles than actual women that from profile standpoint we shared many common interest. No matter the woman, she would not seem interested and could easily go weeks without responding and when she would it would be short answer. Yes or no. I would get approached by very old women nowhere near the age range I had placed in criteria. I would get male profiles in my carousel even though I was looking for females. I would comment to customer service but it only seemed to get worse with no response from customer service.
Reviewed Sept. 25, 2018
Online dating is typically a failed endeavor for most people, and POF is a spectacular example of why. The majority of 'women' who contact you are actually bots, fake/spam profiles and cross-dressing transexuals. As far as the real women: the attractive/seemingly desirable few are usually belligerently insecure and jaded against men in general, completely negating the purpose of even having a dating profile. Read their pages and you will often see a ridiculous, unrealistic laundry list of criteria and things they will not put up with, simmering with anti-male sentiment and statements like 'Real men only, no time for losers' or something similarly abrasive and condescending. Good luck getting a response at all, other than them blocking you for no reason.
There are occasionally real women on the site that will talk to you. Unfortunately, they are usually the most pathetically downtrodden, unattractive and desperate women you could imagine: loaded with all sorts of personal baggage, often with multiple illegitimate children, still involved with their jailbird exes, living in a Motel 6 somewhere 'until they get a few things straightened out,' etc. Even this last category of beggars is determined to be choosers, and they'll still criticize men for not being Brad Pitt, or for being 'boys' and not ready to handle all 300 lbs of them plus their kids. They'll put up with nothing from you, but you have to enthusiastically put up with everything from them.
Basically, dating anywhere in the first world is a losing proposition for most involved. Only the tip top of the social pyramid should expect any success. When it's online dating, or POF specifically, you can double or triple those bad odds. Western women are spoiled and price themselves totally out of the market, and men add to the problem by rewarding it with lust and attention. Good luck folks, l'm moving to Thailand.
Reviewed Sept. 24, 2018
It’s free, so I didn’t expect much from the women’s profiles (a lot of desperate and shallow) or the site. It is true that you get what you pay for. I couldn’t get in touch with “customer service”. Also, I have had my profile deleted and was not given any notification or a reason. I didn’t even know right away. One woman who I exchanged emails outside of the site told me that my profile and messages were gone. I have read some profiles that said POF will delete profiles. All someone has to do is “report” you for whatever reason which includes standing up for yourself when you don’t agree with the other person.
One other thing is POF sends out emails for people who they say want to “meet you”, but you can’t get to that member’s profile unless you are a paying member. I was able to message one of those women and was told that they did not click "meet me". Seems like POF might be playing games. I can’t see why anybody would want to pay for any added features. I avoided profiles of women who paid taking it that they were desperate.
Reviewed Sept. 24, 2018
POF is allowing ** advertisers to create fake profiles. My experience has been frustrating because it’s hard to find a real person. They make hundreds of fake profiles every day, usually of some stunning beauty in a bikini, or maybe even topless. It’s obvious it’s a fake profile. I sent an email to a few of them just to see where things would go, and they respond by telling you to go to their ** site. It’s disgusting.
As a former IT manager of an international company, I know how to resolve this, and I suggested it to POF. POF has the ability to block the IP addresses of the offenders, but they choose not to. It would instantly stop this perverted misuse of their website. But when I email POF (maybe 20 times… yes, I’m consistent), they won’t respond to my complaint because they don’t want to stop this type of behavior. POF doesn’t’ seem to want to change, for the better, the integrity of their website. So, if you want to join because you don’t want to talk to real people, and you like **, then maybe POF is for you!
Reviewed Sept. 22, 2018
I created a profile with pictures. I was there for a while and I had someone try to scam me by asking for personal bank information. I denied it. As soon as I complain and reported the account my account disappeared. Numerous tries to contact Plenty of Fish so that I can remove my pictures but the customer service wasn't getting back to me hasn't got back to me. I recreated a different account with no pictures to search if I was still on there and again my account without notice less than an hour disappeared. A company that doesn't reply to resolve a problem to me is running a scam. Since PoF is a foreign from the USA it's definitely running scam to get people's bank information.
Reviewed Sept. 21, 2018
I've been with POF now for 4+ years as both an upgraded member and non-upgraded member. In the older days it wasn't too bad of a site once I learned to weed thru all the BS scam artists on here and customer service used to be someone responsive. Those days are completely gone... Now this site has been flooded with young women scammers posing as older women in their 50s and 60s. They post pics of young hotties that are barely dressed. When I contacted a couple of the women they referred me to a website called trustmilf.com so I checked out their web... It was a disgusting ** video site.
I reported literally 100s of these women to POF customer service department for a month now and absolutely no action has been taken nor any response from POF customer service. Additionally I set my profile and contact information for women 50-60+ year old not more than 50 miles from my zip code. I'm being flooded with meet me's and messages from these young tramps/scammers that are all from Southern California areas and a few from Las Vegas many 100s of miles from my zip code area. POF must have new ownership and administrators now who are part of this scam... My advice is DON'T upgrade and pay any $$$ to this now scam ** site. I will delete my subscription to this ** site.
Reviewed Sept. 19, 2018
When I first signed up for Plenty of Fish (POF) I was very excited. I received over 100 messages and views and requests to meet within a couple of hours! They kept coming for 2 days. Awesome I thought. As I kept reviewing the profiles and messages, everything looked the same and as if it was written by the same person or just a few things were changed, they all looked the same. Oh and about 3/4 of what ended up being at least 200 messages in the end were all decently good looking men which is great but in my age group 50 yrs old, I may not be bad looking but those odds are very unlikely in any scenario.
I also noticed all the profiles I received were as if they were handwritten or hand picked for me from where they were from to wording to my preferences in men (most all looked very similar also). I’ve been on other sites nothing like this ever. I got plenty of messages. Again they all sounded very similar. There was one or two that differed but there were other profiles that matched them also I noticed. Nobody actually scammed me. I didn’t pay anything. I was only on there 3 days. But I noticed in between there were a few other profiles literally saying this same thing and that’s what made me take a closer look. They were mad and said there were problems with fake profiles. And sure enough. I pulled my profile and changed all my info and saved it, I only hope they do not keep a back up of anything. I’m concerned about Identification Theft.
Reviewed Sept. 18, 2018
I used to use POF in my twenties and decided I would give them another try. I had a profile for maybe two weeks that I rarely used. One day, I actually browsed and messaged two guys. Went to log back on the next day and nothing worked. Decided to open a second account after multiple password reset attempts to see if it would say my email was registered to someone else. Second account opened no issues which told me they deleted my account. Second account was opened about two hours and off it went again. Deleted. I officially hate this “free” service. I had absolutely nothing vulgar or against company policy on my profile. They’ll keep the catfish and bots but delete a real person's account for no reason. Grade F for fail in everything. They don’t even send an email to let you know they terminated your account. Never again POF. Keep your sleazy men who all mark very ambitious and have a dead end job.
Reviewed Sept. 16, 2018
I was so excited when I joined POF! I was overwhelmed with the number of responses I received! But, that excitement didn't last too long. The quality of the men are poor on this site. I received inboxes from guys who didn't want to post their picture on the dating site, but wanted my personal email address or phone number to send me messages. Thank God I'm smart as I realize most of them are frauds and want to send you personal emails, so they can try and sell you a story to con you out of money. I get the impression that this is a "hookup" site. The men whose profile stated they were decent, turned out to be nothing but con-artists, immature little boys playing games and seeking attention, or bootie calls! Their profile states one thing, but when you began to have an intelligent conversation, they seem to become afraid and will run by not contacting you!
Yes, I know that all websites have good and bad, but my goodness the bad definitely outweighs the good and will cause you to become discouraged about using dating websites. Some of us are really serious about finding that special someone and it's unfortunate that we have to weed through so many fake, immature men who claim they want a relationship, but are only interested in attention and game playing.
Reviewed Sept. 12, 2018
In short, met a person on this site who lists "itself" as male. In reality he/she is a hermaphrodite using a male profile to get females interested. He/she uses several aliases in different sites. This person is still married to its 4th wife. He/she poses as a musician and after speaking to him/her for 6 weeks asked me to marry him/her. I realize this seems farfetched but it's the truth. I have gotten rid of many of my possessions to "live" with this person.
Reviewed Sept. 10, 2018
The lack of support, customer service and care of this product is outrageous. A little pride in your site would be nice, just a little. No quality control for who joins. Every day, twice a day I get bombarded with fake likes from sex site members, etc. Reached out to POF customer care, but they don't care, just want your money and customer satisfaction means nothing.
Reviewed Sept. 5, 2018
I paid for an upgraded membership three weeks ago. At first, I received a lot of messages. However, that quickly faded away. POF offers 24-hour tokens to "boast" your profile for $1.99/each (or about $60/month on top of paying for membership). In other words, POF promotes your profile if you buy these tokens; otherwise, it is hidden. When I asked POF about this marketing scheme, it did not respond. Numerous users sought to "pimp" me; requesting I contact someone not on POF, providing their email/phone number.
I was also approached by a slew of much younger men seeking a sugar mommy. Plus outright scammers. Lots of fake profiles with cartoons instead of photos. When I repeatedly provided proof of these offenses, POF failed to respond. I requested POF refund my money and filed a claim with my credit card company. POF is under new ownership, Markus Frind. He is not showing any responsibility towards his customers. I do not recommend this site to anyone.
Reviewed Aug. 30, 2018
I've been on POF for less than a week and have met a person that is real. So far all is good, will see how things progress. We first sent 4-5 emails back and forth, then I ask if we could meet and she stated that it sounded nice and I told her of a place not far from me and we have agreed to meet there.
Reviewed Aug. 28, 2018
Very poor customer service. They don't vet the profiles and they allow criminals, wife beaters and abusers to become members. The man posing as single and successful are actually married and financially broke.
Reviewed Aug. 25, 2018
I had been a long time member of POF & it used to be about the best free dating site out there. Not anymore. There has been a massive influx of scam profiles, some even showing images of hardcore ** & they continue to post these profiles rather than previewing them BEFORE they go live. Apparently, the only thing that will take them down is a member complaint, after they have had time to scam someone. They keep showing up over & over & over again! I got sick of it, sent several emails to "Markus" with a list of urls of obvious scam profiles telling him he needs to take some of the money he got from the Match buy out ($575 million in cash, by the way) & start policing these scam profiles BEFORE they go live.
The result was he (they, whomever) deleted my account with no notice or warning whatsoever! Beyond pathetic!!! On top of that, guess what? Every single profile I pointed out is now gone. I WAS RIGHT but I got booted for pointing it out! Don't waste your money for the upgraded membership or even your time as there is no concern whatsoever for member safety, they expect YOU to do their job policing the site & you run the risk of getting deleted if you do! AVOID LIKE THE PLAGUE THAT IT HAS BECOME!!!
Reviewed Aug. 20, 2018
They need to get control over all the spam. Good luck finding any real accounts on there. Spam and sex solicitation is about all you will get. You will not find anyone, because by then you will be too frustrated about going through all the spam and bs accounts.
Reviewed Aug. 19, 2018
My wife and I are separated and divorcing, she placed a profile on POF and from what I understand has been finding guys online. This past week I got a strange phone call from one of those guys. It was a very scary call, in which the guy named David found my contact information and proceeded to tell me that he planned to meet her for a date and ** the ** out of her. I confronted my ex with the information but it appears that she doesn't want to believe me. Most alarming to me was his knowledge of my family, children's names, school addresses, etc. Clearly this guy wasn't very stable and my ex is totally clueless about the type of men that don't care less about woman. I'm waiting for the day I get a phone call telling me that my ex is in the morgue.
Reviewed Aug. 16, 2018
I have read that people are finding games and boys on POF. Well duh it's a dating website. You have to filter through the garbage. I met a wonderful man on POF back in 2013. We chatted and met in person. We hit it off real well. We got married towards end of 2014 and have been together since.
Reviewed Aug. 15, 2018
I signed up on Plenty of Fish with the best intentions on meeting my other half, I even paid $40 Canadian for the two months upgrade. The first day I was on, I started to get contacted from fake profiles, sex invites, bots everywhere, very attractive and sensual women asking for my email to start a video call. I felt harassed and molested. I reached out to POF to let them know about how disturbed I was, I also asked for a refund. They didn't contact me back. I'm very disappointed. This site has to face all the allegations and to do something about it. They are stealing and nobody has done nothing.
Reviewed Aug. 15, 2018
Sad I can't go lower than one star. It seems that a large number of women's profiles are totally fake. The cut and paste pictures are a joke. "Fine dining and world travel" tells me all they are looking for is a fat bank account. The one date I did have the woman talked on her cellphone the entire time we were suppose to be having dinner. I excused myself, paid the bill and left her there still on the phone. Isn't there a decent woman (and I do not mean a Walmart queen) who is seriously interested in having a relationship? So tired of the fakes and outright frauds. It would be nice to meet a lady who has most of her original teeth and does not cut her hair with a bowl on her head. Yes, I get interest from those. I would never recommend this site to anyone.
Reviewed Aug. 12, 2018
It is a free dating site, and one expects so many jerks and cons...but I was getting cons like crazy (they would have stated on their profiles they were from the province, we start to text...their # is from the USA, they all have wives that died). Even the men who stated they want relationships...friends with benefits. People who are seriously looking for someone are getting slammed by this, it's hard to look for someone when after a while you don't believe anyone...how can you.
Reviewed Aug. 12, 2018
This site when it first came out was used by a lot of people. It was good for dating and hookups. But then things changed and the admins started to ban any accounts that were sexual. Now it's dead and full of bots. 90% sure half the people there are fake. Just make it look like the site's alive.
Reviewed Aug. 10, 2018
I went on this site less than 1 day. When I attempted to respond to people, it would say, "no internet connection" - which was garbage. I'm always connected to wifi. I couldn't see anything, couldn't write anything, couldn't read or respond. So I attempted to cancel my account. All of a sudden, I was off the site, with no way of logging back in. All PW and emails I have no longer work. I went to ask for a PW reset, it tells me the reset link was sent, but nothing came through. I knew I wasn't kicked out, because I continued to get messages but couldn't open the app!
So I deleted the app completely off my phone. I've been trying to contact them but all numbers you find are no longer in service. No customer service email, nothing. I 100% believe, they kick you out when you want to cancel, don't cancel or delete your account and keep it on for their marketing - which is illegal. They need your approval to use your likeness. As far as I know, I'm still "active" on their site with NO way to cancel or delete my profile; one I attempted to delete in less than a day. STAY AWAY FROM THIS SITE. God only knows what they do with your information!!!
Reviewed Aug. 9, 2018
Stay away from POF. It will freeze on you, lag for hours at a time, log you out of your profile all the time, and if you complain to them about it directly, they'll boot you off of their site for asking to fix the problem. Haha they're a joke of a website. They're worse than being cheap!
Reviewed July 29, 2018
I found it to be a waste of money keep getting matched up with people from other states and I see on this forum a lot of men are complaining about the woman being too picky. Well that's not complain about the men. Most of them don't want anything serious. It's like Craigslist on the down low. I got a lot of guys to just want to have sex and I clearly say in my statement I want something serious. At least try for something serious. I got a lot of men that told me I was too fat which is fine. He like what you like but you really don't need to tell me that. Just don't reply to my flirt. The first response that I got was, "Hey beautiful want to have sex?" I've tried several different dating sites and I've only gotten proposition. No one asked me for a date. A real date. I'm not blaming Plenty of Fish but they at least could have better filters.
Reviewed July 28, 2018
I would give POF no stars if I could. I will never ever use POF again. Very displeased on many levels. Felt mislead in buying a membership to use "premium features" definitely not worth upgrading. At the end of my membership I went to the account settings to make sure that the renewal box was not checked. However, they renewed anyway and it took some searching before I found a way to contact and ask them to give me a refund. I was waiting for a reply and found a response, that ended up in my spam folder. Was told that my "membership" was not refundable. Very unethical business practices.
It has only 2 options for sexual identify - straight or gay/lesbian- It felt like a watered-down version of Tinder (one person after a few messages asked if they could come over). I also was contacted by a few scammers who wanted to communicate offline and quickly deleted their profiles. As well as a few other negative interactions i.e. finding out on first date they were married and someone whose photos were at least 10 years old. I highly recommend that you DO NOT use this site.
Reviewed July 25, 2018
I've been on this site for about a month. Suddenly out of nowhere, last night I had trouble logging in. The site kept saying my username or password were incorrect (they're NOT). I clicked the "forgot password" link and was told I'd receive an email to reset my password. I never got it - was not in any Spam/Junk folder. I tried clearing my cache/cookies, didn't make a difference. Someone suggested turning off your VPN/proxy (I'm using my desktop), but that didn't work either. I found a customer service email address, sent them my complaint, and again never heard back.
I guess they just don't care. I'm glad I don't have a paid account with them; still there are several guys I started communicating with that are probably wonder what happened to me since I can't log in no matter what I do. I wish I'd seen all the negative reviews of this place before I bothered creating an account over there. I wish I could give them 0 stars. Heck I wish there was a way to report them. I am thoroughly disgusted.
Reviewed July 19, 2018
Read this entire review so you know the WARNING SIGNS to look for. My experience with POF was everyone that I communicated with was nothing but a scammer. I worry that human trafficking might be part of this. One guy's profile is looking for females who want to fly out on weekend to get away. Do not fall for it. If you do then don't think you will be coming back. Better say goodbye to your family. Just Google what human traffickers get per head. In my opinion I can say that I believe POF is up for reasons other than a dating site. Every single person on this site has the same MO. Every one of them did the same thing to me.
When I first put up my profile, I did not have a picture right away and before I could get on the site I had over 10 messages. This happened prior to me finishing my profile. Prior to me hitting submit. Shocking when one guy liked my smile...No picture. What does that tell YOU? WARNING SIGNS: • Career Most Used: Engineer, Architect, Geologist, Construction and Service men. 9 out 10 were Engineers. How is that? • Born in other countries – This is done for several reasons. Read below. • Their looks or voice do not match up with their native country Nor does their name. • They work all over the country. • Wife passed from tragic death. • Tells you they have accent. • Child with nanny. • Provide you with their birth date. In hopes you will follow and do the same. Yes, I got that from a guy but who knows it could be a women behind it. You never know. • Sad story telling. • Try to involve you with their job, they will say they need your help.
• Leaving out of the country for work with a week of communicating with you. • They're from another county to explain away their accent however, one guy tells me he is from France and his mother is Peruvian but his accent was Nigerian. (You get the picture). • Use language such as I love to kiss and hold hand, do you like public intimacy? Do you like passionate kissing? You are so beautiful that you are the one to get me off POF. Words that are never used by men in general. It’s to entice the weak. Please don't let that be you, real men/women do not talk like that which means they are a smooth talker. Learn to pick up on the signs.
• Uses texting only or email. They do not want you to hear their voice. They are operating out of the county or they are married. It's best to call the number and hear the person you are communicating with or see if the number comes from a text messaging service. It will tell you. • Emails a lengthy profile. Men and women just do not do that. These are scammers trying to get as much information out of you as they can. The theory is If they provide information you feel obligated to provide the same. What happens when they work out of town, they have an emergency, they get mugged or something bad happens to pull on your heart strings and then ask for money.
I was able to learn all of this in just a couple of weeks on POF. It was the same thing over and over. The best thing I can offer is "listen to your gut", that is your mother know best gut talking. I really do hope this helps many and maybe get law enforcement to act on these sites. The other thing that I noticed and the reason I am suspicious of POF. All of the men that contacted me were not in the search engine. Nowhere to be found except in my email. I guess POF allows people to hide their profile but respond to other profiles. Why does POF give this much power away if it does not benefit them in some way? POF requires you to post a picture or the profiles is removed but there are many profiles without pictures. WHY? My sister is having the same issues on Facebook.
Reviewed July 15, 2018
I "met" two men from this website and started corresponding with them. Gave them my e-mail and was thinking that maybe one of them would be really the one. They were both away in Europe on business, one in Greece, one in France. Anyway, before they could come back to Colorado, one needed $8000 and the other one needed $1000 for some business related issue. I said, "Absolutely not!" I reported them to POF, and then immediately unsubscribed.
Reviewed July 5, 2018
POF is just not dealing with the people trying to scam money from you. One guy posed as a military guy who wanted my bank info. Reported him. Then a guy who wanted me to send him Steam credit cards. Reported him. He had me contact him on WhatsApp. The image is the dialog of his scamming and me calling him out. Reporting is useless. They just make new accounts and start all over again. Bye POF.
Reviewed July 1, 2018
* * * Warning!!! Warning!!! Warning!!! Warning!!! * * * Do not use this website or any others operated by Match Group, Inc.!!! This company has, and continues to be, the subject of countless class action lawsuits in the U.S., Canada, and all over Europe. They have settled a shocking amount of lawsuits for committing fraud (I.E., Fake profiles, fake messages, spam bots, fraudulent billing practices, lying about cancelling memberships, lying to consumers, etc.).
They insulate themselves from external contact so you are unable to complain. If you reach out to them online, you will immediately find that they will send you generic e-mails (I.E., "Thank you for contacting us", "your feedback is important", etc. ), But they will not assist you in any way with actual problems. They make it impossible to contact them in any other way - if you have any doubts about these statements, just try for yourself and see what happens.
Aside from class action lawsuits, consumers have gotten no responses regarding claims, requests for refunds, reports of fraud, etc. The only reason that any laws exist for this service are due to extensive class action lawsuits which they lost over and over; and the only laws that protect consumers from this company's fraudulent business model are in Canada, Europe, and states in the U.S. where suits were already won. They have a legal policy of only protecting consumers in states and countries where they have been forced to by the courts and extensive legal settlements.
Pay attention to the negative reviews and see how many positive reviews you can find out of thousands... you may be surprised at the stories, comments, and complaints that you find, and wonder how they still operate in the U.S. They even got caught using the profile of a deceased U.S. Soldier. This company is a disgrace, do not trust them or you will regret it. Don't just believe me, see what all of the other people who have reviewed them have to say and decide for yourself.
Reviewed June 26, 2018
Let's start with I am not computer literate. Found hard to navigate site, was only on it a few days, then for no good reason they dropped me... couldn't sign on, using correct name and password, but they kept saying wrong password or user name. No place to call for help, just kept going in circles! Tried to reset a dozen times, no luck. Called my ISP for help, finally found e-mail in my spam folder saying my membership (I had Upgraded) was in process of being refunded, thank God, but I have NO IDEA WHY! I didn't use any vulgar language, sexual things, nothing I said that was prohibited in their rules that would get me kicked off.
I am going to go places where I may meet a nice person in my age bracket such as a senior center, church, ask everyone I meet if they know someone who might like to start a relationship. Don't want a bar-hog, hear that grocery stores are a good place but these damned computer web-sites are a total waste of time. Friends tell me I will have better success on Facebook, and that is TOTALLY FREE!
Reviewed June 22, 2018
This site should have their license revoked. They are a scam. They pressure you into buying an upgraded account and as soon as you do, miraculously you start getting SEVERAL responses from women and even a couple of hours of conversation with them. What's funny is that the stats tell you someone just viewed you but when you look at the person's profile who claim they viewed you IT SHOWS THAT THEY NEVER VIEWED YOU! During this phase it tells you that your profile is on fire. After the couple of hours are over, no more communication and the profile pics change. I've had much better luck on MATCH.COM and that's where I'm going back. POF HELP CENTER is A SCAM!!!
Reviewed June 16, 2018
POF seems to have very strange priorities. They're very obsessed with blocking out any form of sexuality, o much so that they edited a guy's profile because he mentioned bartending and cocktails, which they turned into **. Yet, they don't seem to have good control over their own coding and settings. Despite a setting saying I only want to be contacted by local people, I keep getting messages from people in other parts of the country. Unless I slept through a bunch of earthquakes, Florida and California definitely aren't within the 75 mile limit on my contact filters. Even though they obsess over **, there are still plenty of ** pictures. Clearly, they don't have their act together. E for effort, though... and P for prude, too.
Reviewed June 13, 2018
When you sign up for the free version, you will be barraged with emails informing you that this one and that one wants to meet you, viewed your profile, faved you, etc. They will tell you a user's specific name as well... but then you cannot look up the user by the name. But then, to see who the people are that faved, want to meet, viewed ya, etc, POF will tell you that it is required to buy a membership. I ain't losing my mind, I bought a membership and then suddenly, there were no one viewed me, no who wants to meet me people, no one faved me, etc.
So the bottom line: POF sends fake emails to make you think people are already interested, etc, just so that you will buy a membership. After buying a membership and realizing that all the emails from POF had links which when clicked on lead to nothing, I emailed and asked for a refund. They did not ask me why or if anything was wrong. They promptly refunded me. My messages to them for technical support or an understanding of the site were not answered at all.
Reviewed June 11, 2018
This site should have their license revoked. They are a scam. They pressure you into buying an upgraded account and as soon as you do, miraculously you start getting SEVERAL responses from women and even a couple of hours of conversation with them. What's funny is that the stats tell you someone just viewed you but when you look at the person's profile who claim they viewed you IT SHOWS THAT THEY NEVER VIEWED YOU! During this phase it tells you that your profile is on fire. After the couple of hours are over, no more communication and the profile pics change. I've had much better luck on Eharmony and that's where I'm going back. POF is A SCAM!!!
Reviewed June 11, 2018
POF.com was a stable website and has fast good results. I like the layout of the website. It looked smooth and I was able to navigate it easily. I like the variety of people and the overall ease of it. I like the name and it has plenty of fish. It’s charmed. The people was honest. I also liked the members and everyone was very friendly except a few bad eggs lol. Profile customization wasn’t that very good at all but it was good in some areas. Criteria was also lacking. However, there wasn’t a mobile app for my device so I never really used it. Some of the women are rude. The main thing I dislike is the no app for Amazon as that’s a real let down.
Reviewed June 11, 2018
POF is very particular in question and very easy to customize. Finds very specific matches. The questions are in depth and meaningful when it comes to find someone you are compatible with. I usually have common matches on this site more than other platforms. Every user seems to be legit. Most dating sites have mostly fake users. I enjoy the way POF is currently set up. But for some the name including fish is offputting.
Reviewed June 10, 2018
I wish I knew how they matched. It was hard to find women who are my type. I dont think the chemistry test was true to who I was. The profile customization is good, could be better. While POF is ok, I like being able to block unwanted people. I also like that I could put what my personality is. I like being able to list my interest. Though these could be dealt with better. Other things I like are based on people using the app and less about the app itself. All in all, the site looks easy to use.
Reviewed June 9, 2018
All I saw was pic's of weed instead of photos. And all there is, is criminals like ex-cons on that site. I know personally that there are a lot of ex-cons cause when I would talk on the phone each guy would say he just got out of jail. I meet a guy that only had old pictures of himself on his profile. When I went to meet him he looked like he was way older than those pictures. I told him I wouldn't date him and I left. I am just going to try other dating sites. NEVER USE PLENTY OF FISH. It's GARBAGE!
Reviewed June 9, 2018
My experience with POF.com was ok. Seems to me like it is more for people to hook up or for sexual experiences. I would like dating sites that filter out sexual content because thats just not what Im looking for when Im looking for a date with someone. I did not want to give it another go. It wasnt that great of an experience for me as a person. It was just a bad site all around. Definitely will not give it another go in this lifetime.
Reviewed June 8, 2018
There was nothing wrong with POF.com but, most of the men on there were middle aged ** men. Now, I don't have a problem with middle aged ** men, they are not my type at all. If I wanted a sugar daddy, then I would go to a sugar daddy website. All in all, none of the men peaked my interest, so it was a total waste of time for me. I don't think I'll be doing that again. Not now. Not ever.
Reviewed June 7, 2018
My overall experience with POF has been completely terrible, most guys just want to hook up, and even when I find someone who can possibly be my good match, he completely ghosts me. I've been on this site for over a year and have found NO ONE. Just time wasters. Also, I dislike that the guys just want to meet and get some from you, the fact you have to pay REAL LIFE MONEY just to be noticed more by potential suitors, when all those suitors is just wanting one thing in general. I also dislike how when you send a message, it completely exits you out, and most of the time you wont even get a notification. Lastly, I dislike the errors they have or when the site messes up, they really need to fix their things.
Even so, I like that there are good looking guys I get to stare at, the swipe feature is pretty unique in its own way as well. Being able to choose who you would like to meet and who you'd like to steer 50,000 yards away from is something to pull the drive in this kind of site. I also like being able to put up as many photos as I want, as I can share my overall growth on this site.
Reviewed June 6, 2018
POF was an interesting dating site that I used since it really narrows down the choices of people and I like that some of them find people that you have things in common with. It makes it easier to have conversations or at the very least conversation starters. Also I like that you can see so much information about somebody and review them before you send them a message. But I don't like that some people can be absolutely profane and horrible but not be punished or have their accounts removed. I also hate the feature that lets random members send pictures of themselves to you since they send really perverse, disgusting pictures and then I end up banning 30-40 people in less than 48 hours.
Reviewed June 5, 2018
Plenty of Fakes: This site was not worth my money, so many women were scam artists, met one who begged for pictures, then complained! I was completely clothed! (Found out she was from Philippines)! She was desperate to get married but I didn't want her, too scary, Guys, not worth the time, all they want is pictures and play games! All the women want is to pull up your pants!
Reviewed June 5, 2018
I love the diversity in people on the site, how friendly everyone is, how easy to use, etc. I do enjoy how the site itself is set up. I love the customization the site allows on profiles. However, I dislike the overly long application process and how many fake accounts there are. Despite not having as many fake accounts as other dating sites it still has quite a few and I do believe that issue can be fixed. The site and app itself times out on my phone way faster than it really should which made registering a pain. Overall pretty positive experience with Plenty Of Fish. I have found it easy to find and see many potential matches. Matches were all within my area.
Reviewed June 4, 2018
However, I don't like their push to use paid content, or the fact that they don't filter out fake profiles, or that the search function never works properly.
Reviewed June 4, 2018
POF.com was a meat market. All the women there wanted to hook up for sex, for the most part. It was fun, but you probably wont find a long term relationship on it. However, I like that the people are local. I hate a long distance relationship! I did like the fact that there were a lot of women to choose from, and the fact that they put pictures up. I do not like blind date type of setups. No thanks! Everything was set up correctly but maybe they can put a button to try to meet someone in person immediately.
Reviewed June 4, 2018
The women in POF are very picky. Lost all hope. The website makes you take an extensive personality test that women use against you and then you never hear from them again. I wish they had an option for why they stop talking to men. On the other hand, there are a bunch of daily matches and there is a very diverse range of women with a lot of different interests. The searching features are very easy to use too. Other than that, giving some incentive to the women for agreeing to go out on actual dates would be good. Maybe give them a gift card or something or set them up with a free Starbucks card.
Reviewed June 3, 2018
I have use POF many times and my experience on the site has been very positive overall. I like that layout of Plenty Of Fish a lot and like that it is a free site to use too. I also like the way it lets you set up your profile to find interesting woman that you could be compatible with on site. I have found the site to be very good at finding matches that I am interested in. I have found friendships and dates on the site. I have use POF many times and I have found many woman on here to talk too and have talked to many for many months. I have many woman that are very interesting and that I have a lot in common with on the site. I have also talked to many on text and on the phone. I definitely will continue to use the site in the future to find dates and to find friendships. Awesome and involving website.
Reviewed June 3, 2018
I feel like Plenty of Fish was probably the best app that I’ve used to begin dating. I went on a date and the girl was super matched up with me although the feeling wasn’t there at the end of the night. I commend the Plenty of Fish app for bringing me to meet someone so comparable with me. Honestly it was a pretty good experience. I did think it was kind of hard to meet certain people because some people are so desperate but you can’t tell that from an initial picture lol. They should show you how long they've been on the app and how long they’ve been single because that would definitely help in the long road dealing with girls that have been around and around with guys but they don’t have any real dating experience.
The app was super easy to use and I appreciate all of the accommodation made available like the emails and such that was sent to me. The match criteria was very well built as I went on date with a girl who was practically just like me but we didn’t have a spark and maybe because I was thinking about another girl the whole night IDK but I know that they brought me someone that matched my interest and that’s what I requested so it went pretty well.
I did like how when I went to go and meet new girls it would show me who liked me unlike sites like Tinder where it won’t show you another person unless you guys match which is kind of unreliable because what if you never match with a girl you know like it really wasn’t worth going on Tinder but I completely understand that some people can't use apps that easily as Plenty of Fish and it makes sense on why it was so well rounded and helped me find the perfect person of interest.
Plenty of Fish was pretty well made by some ingenious people like they had to go to a college to learn how to do things like communications and or get a technology degree and it paid off very well. In my opinion will I go on again with them not because I’m not deprecate like that but I definitely would recommend it to my friends that are actively searching for girls and or guys to date because I gotta be the best friend I can and I would appreciate if someone helped me like that too.
Reviewed June 2, 2018
I can find men on POF.com but everyone I find always needs money. All are scammers. All men I have talked to have put fake pictures and profiles on their pages. Even on the sites you pay for they still manage to fake their information. The only thing I like about dating sites is the ability to talk to men without trying to look for one in bar or other places. If the men I meet were who they say they are. If only there were some way they could screen the people better. You never know who you are talking to. You never know where they are from. They can tell you anything they want to. And it can be scary sometimes.
Reviewed June 2, 2018
POF was excellent. I met my current fiance through the dating app. The app provides detailed information and allows you to find the best match based on your dating preferences. I liked that it eliminated thought of being catfished because it is most detailed dating site I have ever tried. Moreover, it has a lot of members so it was great candidates to choose from. It's also free so you dont have to pay to message people or read your messages which is a huge relief.
If later you delete and try to make a new account you get blocked off of POF. I think changes would be ability to add more pictures to profile account. Also if you want to recreate account based on fact you never found a match or the person you dated it's didnt work out it should be a hassle to get your account back. Also they need better customer service when you're having trouble with account and need someone to reach. Like maybe a live chat or something.
Reviewed June 2, 2018
My quality of matches has been fairly good with about more than half of the matches being great people that I looked forward to meet. I don't think I've ever had better matches when I used other apps or websites but POF really accurately picks and chooses dates and matches. I feel like this website truly knows me. The using of the website is extremely easy and it makes me feel very tech savvy. I love the profile customization because it lets you change a lot of things. But sometimes the website freezes up and I have to refresh many times in order for it to be able to come back on and for me to be able to properly use it without any interruptions.
Reviewed June 1, 2018
I have used Plenty of Fish. It was easy to use and easy to update information. I liked the variety of people, but everyone on the site seemed to think they were better than everyone else. It made me never want to use a dating site again. I never had any luck on POF though. I finally decided to just give up on all dating sites. There is no way to change a dating site to make people any less superficial. You can't change people. If you could base it completely on a profile and not a picture, it would be nice, but nobody would use a site like that.
Reviewed June 1, 2018
Overall it's easy to setup a profile and connect with people. But PlentyOfFish was a ride! Not guys I would ever get serious with, there needs to be more quality men on there. They were foul, if you're looking to hook up with randoms; that's the site for you. Not the people I wanted to connect with! Asking for "pics" and other much unsavory things before even saying hello (not that saying hello would make it okay.) They just weren't the people that I wanted to connect with. I'm not the type of girl those men were looking for. Don't do it.
Reviewed June 1, 2018
POF was a enjoyable app. A friend of mine told me about it because she have been using it for a while and she thought that I would like it and she suggested that I give it a try. That's what I did and I'm glad I did. And since then I even started recommending it to some of my other friends because I know they will enjoy it as well. The quality matches are good and ease of use of the profile is amazing. I like the matches and how the profile page is set up and be customized. I also like how easy it is to look for local singles in my city and state. This app is better than a lot of other dating apps I have tried and I would definitely use this app again in the near future.
Reviewed May 31, 2018
POF just taken out their customer care number and chat option from their website and making trouble to everyone. I just used the number I previously have of POF [+1-818-322-0217]. They just answered and activated my account but again got trouble log in.
Reviewed May 31, 2018
I liked the ability to search based on the different criteria like heights and religion. I also liked the ability to use the app on the iPhone and message on that app as well. But my overall experience on POF has not been very good. The quality of matches is poor and search criteria never fully works. There are many fake profiles and people that will write vulgar messages. There needs to be more moderators looking for fake profiles. There should be more specific search criteria for items like education and religion.
Reviewed May 31, 2018
Most of the matches were of standard quality but like with any site, I wish they would crack down on overly aggressive members who are immature. It takes the fun out of online dating. Rejection hurts but be an adult. I did get a lot of response when I was on POF but ended up meeting my current husband on a different site. However, I don't doubt that POF is a decent place to find a potential mate if you're careful and selective with who you connect with. The diversity of the people on there was interesting and I did like how easy it was to communicate with others. Creating a profile was really easy. You can make a lot of matches on there and it is definitely a worthwhile site to join if you are considering online dating.
Reviewed May 31, 2018
POF is odd; asks if a car is owned? Quality of matches is LOW; very rural. I am not sure there is any criteria at all with whom they allow on the site. They should provide matches that are actually workable; There are truly so many bizarre characters on this site; lots of nude messages and requests for hook-ups. I wish there was a better match criteria. It's free but free does not yield quality most times. There is the ability to search nations-wide; I like the limitations that can be placed and the mail settings.
Reviewed May 30, 2018
Joined this crap site and I've never got one date. Plenty of email ping pong BS... maybe that's what this site should be called. Give a phone number straight away or close, nothing but ghosting, give email, ghosting. Ask specifics on recognizeable place in pic, ghosting... why... because the site is fake and only wants your money for more fake BS. Don't pay just play if you have a dead life.
Reviewed May 30, 2018
The first thing that I liked about using POF was that it was free. They had quite a few profiles in my age category from different walks of life. The website was easy to maneuver around to look at the different profiles. But I would like to see more of a selection of men who were "serious" about meeting someone for a true relationship and not just for sex. Quite a few men were only interested in a physical kind of meeting and nothing on a personal level.
Reviewed May 30, 2018
POF was alright. I went on a few dates with members I was matched with and the matches were okay and decent. The website was very easy to use and I liked the layout. It was easy to communicate with people. But some of the members were rude. I don’t think you can stop that from happening, unless you had all members take a manners course. Would be nice to see more manners though.
Reviewed May 30, 2018
I have met some sketchy people on POF. They have no job, no money, no direction in life. The people on this site seem to be looking mostly for a fling or not what I was looking for. It's free, so therefore all the low life that have no money and no way to take you on a date get on there. Someone couldn't even come pick me up because they lost their license for a DUI. They should charge money, or screen people out better. I have heard way worse stories about people from this site.
Reviewed May 29, 2018
POF.com is a very easy site and app to use. The match criteria is very accurate and can honestly figure out what I am looking for and what I am not. The quality of matches I am happy with and the people I interact with. The profile customization is also a breeze because I can tailor it to what truly describes me as a person and a mate. I have used dating apps in the past and I could tell not a lot of thought went into designing it. But POF.com knows how to make this site easy to use and match with other potential mates. There are some improvements that can be made to the site. First, users should have the opportunity for a quick chat with potential mates as to not waste each other's time. This allows for a quick interaction and not just match or talk based of a few words or pictures. A brief get to know you would for sure go a long way in getting better quality matches.
Reviewed May 29, 2018
POF is a ripoff. It doesn't allow you to see the people that are interested in you unless you pay but they market themselves as a free dating app and I think that sucks. If I had known that I need to pay to see other peoples profiles and communicate with them I would just go to a better site that's upfront about having to pay like Match.com. I would feel better about going to POF if they told you upfront that you have to pay for some or most features instead of deceiving you right from the start. They should at least offer a free trial or an option for watching an ad to get a free view are a response.
Reviewed May 28, 2018
Plenty of Fish has been a reliable site and always been able to use it 24/7 when I want. It does the best they can to connect people looking for specific criteria but ultimately it is up to all users to be completely honest and update their personal info and interests often. It gets frustrating when a suitor doesn't present themselves as they advertised. Also, Plenty of Fish should find a way to filter people's dating motives a little better. It would be nice if people were required to update photos more often and to be specific on the physical criteria they were looking for.
In my experience, you get contacted more often on POF than you do on other sites which is great because we are looking to make connections. I like that I have been able to make connections from all across the country. Even if I didn't make a romantic connection I have been able to make some very good friends that I have had for several years now. I'm very thankful for that and expect to make more friends using POF in the future.
Reviewed May 28, 2018
I thought it very easy to use. It's fun to go on-site and get to know people. The matching criteria is pretty good. They feature men I could relate to and the quality of the matches are fairly high. Their e-mails are send fairly regular but not overwhelmingly. They offer a good amount of info on each applicant. The personality questions are direct but easy to answer. PlentyOfFish.com is one of the few sites I still keep in contact to. But it would also be nice if they were to come down on their prices or offer a few specials. Also sometimes it is a bit hard to update photos, but this maybe just me and my computer.
Reviewed May 28, 2018
There are some really crazy people on POF. A lot of people who online date have real issues. I would not use any other website to find a mate. People who use online dating seem to have some type of issue or self-esteem problem and you won't be able to trust them because you met them online. I met some men who just wanted to hook up for sex. I have seen and heard POF used in a lot of television shows and I have also heard some bad things about it in the news. It's not safe. It's very dangerous and it was a bad experience. I met my kid's father off of POF and I wish I never did. We dated for four years. He was a hot mess and abusive. I would never use POF or any other dating website again. I would prefer to be single.
Reviewed May 27, 2018
Plenty of Fish is an alright dating site. People on there seem to be younger and less mature. Mostly young women who already have kids. It is easy to use and to find matches. I like that I can talk to women and find women who were interesting in my profile. I can search people and browse their profile to find common likes. I really liked how fast it is. I found multiple people who liked me on the first week. Most the women of my age already had kids (mid 20s). But everything else was great.
Reviewed May 27, 2018
I used POF only briefly. I did not pay for premium features. I have not had great success with online dating. It is hard to know what people want. I think you try to represent the best version of yourself with the limited window into your world, but maybe a good match misses you because you did not frame your qualities the best way. Still, it is good to meet a variety of people whose paths you might not cross otherwise. And you can filter for certain qualities or likes that you could not know just by looking at someone. While it was educational, I prefer to connect with people in real life, to see what they are really like and so they see how I really am.
Reviewed May 27, 2018
The Plenty Of Fish site isn't the best or the worst. I've been on but their app - needs major updating on location search because it's way off and many profile requirements need to be updated and mandatory like must have main profile pic of only you, must see face and actually look at profile to see if it's a fake profile before approving it.
Plenty Of Fish dating site maybe has a few specific things I like compared to other sites, likes it's free to browse and message people compared to other sites, you need to buy a membership just to browse. How are you gonna get any members that way and the different ways you can look for people is different than other dating sites I have a profile on.
But I would like to have the Meet Me feature gone or an option when making profile to choose to enable or disable it. Because when someone sends you one and you're not an upgraded member you can't see who it is even if you have in profile not to send you Meet Me, must have main profile pic of you and only you, no pets, no kids because you want to see who you're looking at and not guessing which one it is. And last, have to search distance much more accurate and stops sending you people who are out of your desired range.
Reviewed May 26, 2018
When I last used POF.com it was user-friendly. It would always give me plenty of matches and the quality was usually alright. Sometimes it could be better. I really liked that most people on the site seemed easy going and down to earth. There are so many sites now and sometimes some sites seem to cater to certain types of people but POF wasn't like that. I like the type of people that used it. But the site could use some updates and perhaps not look so outdated sometimes. It has been a while since I've used it so it's possible that it's already been updated.
Reviewed May 26, 2018
My overall experience with POF.com is not bad, very easy to use, profile customization is good, the matches could be better but that's what you got from free site I supposed. I met a few people from there so it is not as bad as I thought. It is nice that you can hide your profile so I can only message people that I want to without getting tons of messages from a lot of people. But there are too many spam and messages and can not really do much because we have to pay for certain things, missing out a lot of matches but I do not want to pay for that kind of site.
Reviewed May 25, 2018
I've been on and off POF since prior to January 2018. I had a decent experience until this year. I never had a catfish reach out to me until January. Usually I talk a little online then the guy asks to talk on the phone then if it all seems cool we meet, however, starting in January I had 2 men give me fake phone numbers that were only set up for texts. They kept trying to give me excuses and that texting is easier but I saw on the tv show Catfish that people get these fake phone numbers, so I gave the guys crap and reported them. Ever since then I check out the profile and if it has a ton of grammar and spelling errors when they claim to have a BA or even graduate degrees I ask them what country are they in cause they sure aren't here. Now I give them more crap and post the 1st sentence of my profile that I won't respond kindly to catfish.
As for people here that complain about being deleted or that it's not free get a life! You can send and respond to anyone without spending a penny. You do NOT need to spend any money giving women tokens or anything. If they want tokens tell 'em to get lost. They're losers. I've never expected or asked for anything other than they are decent, and NOT a catfish. It is FREE to talk to anyone. You want to see when someone's online or when they peeked at your profile, then you'll have to pony up, but other than that IT IS FREE.
Reviewed May 25, 2018
I like the privacy and security. And it's free. I also like that you can block people. I liked meeting some of the people. POF is easy to use, but too many head games. But it's almost like it's too easy to meet people so no one is serious about wanting to seriously date. It's more of a meat market than the clubs.
Reviewed May 25, 2018
Plenty of Fish is by far my favorite dating app. It's funny my boss uses it too for hook ups and we are always talking about our experiences. It's pretty cool that you can actually hook up online so easily in this day and age. I did not have this technology in high school but man, if I did, high school would have been so much better! I'm glad I have it now though. I like being able to really analyze who I am about to meet before actually talking to them. I've actually used other sites where it's hard to tell what the person is really like or if it is ok to talk a certain way to them. I've embarrassed myself a few times but with POF is pretty easy to get a good idea of who you are going to be talking to so you don't make a fool of yourself.
Sometimes I wish these dating apps weren't so mainstream. It's embarrassing knowing the everyone and their mom can see you on a dating app. There should be a way to lock older adults out of your segment of the website. Perhaps an age restriction of some sort. I really despise when older adults start to take things over, they already infiltrated and destroyed Facebook.
Reviewed May 24, 2018
POF.com was a total waste of time. The members were not there to find long term meaningful relationships. They were only there looking to get lucky and have casual sex. The app was easy to use from a mobile phone. It listed the people nearest to your location. The relationship surveys also helped me to take a deeper look at myself and those I wanted to date. However, I feel this dating app was not taken seriously by those who used it. Too many people looking solely to "hook up." The price of a full membership is not valuable.
Reviewed May 24, 2018
It's a website easy to use and set up. The profile questions are appropriate and there is a lot of people to choose from but I was not impressed with the date that I got. The date did not match my interest at all. The criteria selection should be better to actually get someone that has the same interest and goal. Other than that, most of the people that say that they are looking for a serious relationship are looking for 1 night stands. Do not waste your time.
Reviewed May 23, 2018
There was a lot of different guys to meet and they had a pretty nice website layout. I met a guy on it a few years back and we dated for a few months until he moved away for college. I didn't like that the site was set up weirdly when you were trying to see who had matched with you based on your interests. Nevertheless, I've had an alright experience on POF and I would be willing to use it again at a later date and time.
Reviewed May 22, 2018
Nearly all fake accounts from what I can tell. Also, the real accounts seem to be from people who suffer from acute obesity. Worse still, is the number of mass ** accounts soliciting members. Absolutely filthy website. Needs to be shut down indefinitely.
Reviewed May 22, 2018
It was good experience, I got few matches and I found the POF.com easy to use and user friendly. Also you can see the brief description of the person what he/she is looking for. I like that you can approach anyone you like without bothering that person by just liking its profile and if that person also like your profile then we have a match. But I would like to change the GUI of the website as it is not that attractive, in fact it is dull and does not go by dating site look. Also I would like to change the way in which we look at picture. It should be more enlarged.
Reviewed May 22, 2018
POF is an absolute disaster site with nothing but trash! I think this is the most useless site on the net. I met someone on POF who was a malignant narcissist who stole everything from me. He physically and verbally abused me. I wouldn't visit this site again if it was the only place on the net to visit. I think troll sites like these should be banned from the internet. This is the most useless site I've ever had the misfortune of dealing with. This POS site harbors thieves and liars. What a scum of the earth business.
Reviewed May 21, 2018
My overall experience with POF has been just so-so. I like that POF is free to use. It allows you to register under various sexual orientations and not just designed for only heterosexual singles. It's free to communicate with anyone without needing to pay money. However, there aren't many profiles with users looking for long term relationships and not a lot of members I'm physically attracted to. Some of the accounts seem like were just made because it's free. It seems like many pages are created out of boredom and then abandoned and forgotten about. People may take it less serious, because it isn't a service they're paying out of pocket to use.
Reviewed May 21, 2018
I like that men do respond to my profile on there that makes it worth going on the site to see what out in the world. I just wish some of them were not married men looking for extra sex. POF has a lot of people that are not really wanting to date just talk to people. I have had a lot of men trying to find me on Facebook that won't take no for an answer so that a little bit harsh to have to be mean to someone. I would make sure that there are no players on there and find out if the men or women are married. I hate talking to a man and found out later he married. A lot of men use that site for extracurricular activities against their spouse. I hate that part of the dating site.

Reviewed May 17, 2018
Plenty of fakes: This website is a joke and met a police officers and they are disrespectful, married, with no money, full of emotional problems, they only want to put your skirt up. Another guys if you are not in the number 10 they ignore you, they don't take time to meet a woman. A lot of men with no job, no car, no money... please ladies don't waste your time in this dating site.
Reviewed May 16, 2018
This site is quite possibly the worst thing I’ve ever encountered. I’m a woman, and the amount of losers on there in their 30’s with no car or job is astounding, almost every guy on there has kids and they are “their world”. If you’re not a perfect 10, most guys will not respond to your messages or they will be extremely rude, which is a red flag that all any of them are looking for is a hookup. There is a reason why all these people are on a dating site, and it’s because there is something wrong with all of them! No car, no job, no phone, no teeth, a drinking, drug, or lying problem.
None of them have any money so they can’t even meet you for dinner or coffee for a normal date... They want to come to your house so they can try and get in your pants and then go ghost! There are also a ton of fake profiles that are really scammers from Ghana or Nigeria posing as military men. Anyone can report you for any reason, even if it’s unfounded, and your profile will be deleted just because some dude didn’t like your reply. This site is complete trash, it should be called Plenty of Fools. Actually it should be shut down. Don’t waste your time!!
Reviewed May 15, 2018
Completely fake. 99.9% of the profiles are fake. Bots set up to entice you to pay for a membership. You'll continue getting these blurred out messages you can't read from beautiful women. All messages are from beautiful women, ALL of them. Once you pay you so you can read the messages, they're nothing important and you no longer receive any messages except for the occasional one from management telling you to upgrade your membership. So that your profile will be more noticeable. It's set up to hook you and have you pay for a membership. That's all. Not a real dating site. Common sense tells you that a woman that is not so attractive can still get a man, and even an unattractive woman can get laid anytime she wants. So why in the world would they be on this site? They can go literally anywhere and find a man. Use your heads guys. The head with the brain. Go to a real dating site. This is not one of them.
Reviewed May 14, 2018
I have been disrespected/disregarded by POF. I reported a man on this site in which I went on 2 dates with. The initial meeting was at a McDonald's for 5 mins. I was busy. The 1st date was good, casual but the 2nd dates he was forcing himself on me. It was the worst experience ever. I told him he needed to slow it down. He was talking about moving in, kids meeting, and the future. To me it did not seem right. He just would not listen to me so I stop talking to him and blocked him. He did not know where I live. I have boundaries when dating someone new. He would not stop. Emailing me, texting me from different numbers, POF messaging me “you **," what got me the most was "I love karma, karma is a **, I hope I gave you my STD.” I NEVER had sex with him. I literally was telling him to stop the whole time. I promise that on my children and my life. He knew I was uncomfortable.
I REPORTED this man to POF and they still allow him on his website. They don’t care about the safety of their people. I am disappointed! If people like I don’t speak up then who will?! I told POF look at the messages he sent me including about the STD. I NEVER got a response from POF and he is still on POF. According to the California law intentionally knowing you have a STD and harming and giving it to someone else is a crime in the state of California. I am waiting on some results. I hope nobody else is victims of him or POF lack of protection.
Reviewed May 12, 2018
This site is full of lies. Pictures are not real and everyone lies about their age. I met a few people online and they don't seem like the ones in the picture. POF keeps asking me for money to upgrade and I get a lot of spam. SHAME ON YOU POF!!! This site should be taking down. I hope there is a class action lawsuit building up against them to shutdown. Meanwhile I switched over to Match and they are much better and more professional. Beware of POF!
Reviewed May 12, 2018
Meeting new people, seems like a scam. They promote users, yet I think they are promoting something else. When looking for a number to call, there is no number. If one is giving money, there should be a number to call, just in case. They are really wrong!
Reviewed May 5, 2018
POF what a rip off. I've been on here for just on 5 years. Should have given up after 12 months of paying. It's just like eharmony. Everyone wants to meet you until you pay... then they become fake profiles just like the sites...
Reviewed May 4, 2018
I am off work from injury, broke, goes and takes what I have left, I signed for 2 months, I did not want subscription, there was nothing but spam on the site. Was on a week and haven't been on since. I can't believe they can just rip you off like this.
Reviewed May 2, 2018
I joined POF because the reviews online said it was different than the other dating websites and that the success rate was much greater than any other site. After being on there for a total of two days I was contacted by about 12 'women', all of whom were scammers from Ghana and all demanding money or phones so "we can chat and exchange pictures". This site, along with Ashley Madison and all other dating sites are being overrun with thieves now that Craigslist has shut down their personal ads.
This site is no different or better than any other site and you will be bombarded with responses from fake women from the get-go. Never ever respond to someone from outside the US and even then be extremely cautious. And never send them money, no matter what. Watch their grammar structure, a scammer will write sentences in broken English and then send you paragraphs describing their perfect relationship in absolutely perfect English. You know it's someone doing a cut and paste job. Don't be fooled. Save your money and head to the nearest bar to find a woman. At least you know they're real and you'll probably have the same success rate.
Reviewed May 1, 2018
I didn't meet anyone either. It seems like there's a lot of women that are looking for a guy that's got a lot of money and they've got kids and it seems like their relationships have never worked out. They're divorced, a problem comes, and they leave you know.
Reviewed April 23, 2018
Hi, I’m really don’t have time for this **, but these people are really annoying me. And do not give a damn! This is the second attempt with this company! My friends tell me I give up too easily! Well I’d like to tell them my issues with them honestly, but then they’d think I’m an idiot! Yeah... it's a win-win situation! And it's NOT free! You have to buy gifts for the ladies! You need to buy upgraded package to be able to communicate half decently! I’m 57 years old, and if a 30-yr-old looks at my profile and I try to contact her.
I’m outright told to review my matches! BITE ME! What really has me pissed though is Thursday I gave my email to everyone on my friend’s list and now my account is totally screwed, can’t log in. Was asked to just change my password and all would be good. And now have a new account I can’t get rid of and lost my upgrade package, plus now have 40 unanswered messages. The ** who answered my complaint says "if you actually have an upgrade" wants all the info. Bank statements, time, date, email, passwords. I sent an email back to this ** and told him to do his job or give me back every dime of my money! NO ANSWER YET!... and as I’m looking at trying to resolve this today! IT’S NOW RUN by Match.com.
The main reason I left Match.com several years ago is because I was chatting up a storm with this really cool girl. Who wasn’t even a girl. Some ** from Africa posing as my sweetheart using someone else’s photos! I got a suspicious after a bit when she refused a Skype video. Went online, did several searches. Took all of an hour to find pictures of her online and was a ** star! After another few hrs, was actually put on a cell call to her and she told me men always were doing that! Yeah POF... RUN! And don’t look back! I lost $1200 to Match.com and that was nothing! According to this website I joined Scammers.org. Average loss per person is $10,000.
And POF in just 2 mths was approached by one lady who was suppose to be Asian. Met at my local library... wasn’t. Not even close to her picture!... that was awkward! 2 others who made actual contact and called me were using temporary phone cards. One contact my ESET Security would not even allow them to access my computer! I’m going to try to get SOME of my money back. Pretty damn sure I will be at fault somehow!!! PLEASE pass this on to whoever you know! Maybe at one time this was a worthwhile site. NOT NO MORE! See ya! Very, very, very unhappy Canadian!
Reviewed April 2, 2018
I had a "lady" tell me to go hang myself as I'm too old and ugly for the site. I complained. Guess what? They won't let me post up any messages to the people I'm talking to. The person that said that is still there posting. She has no picture and no fixed address. But all I get to help is sweet f/all if I did that I would be banned.
Reviewed March 29, 2018
Plenty of Fish will take a pre-authorized payment from your PayPal account if your credit card is on there and then will not give it back stating you had pre-approved payment... be careful. Make sure you go into PayPal and delete the pre-authorized payment, these people are evil and don't care. All they want is your money!! They did it to me deducting for a year!! $85.00.
Reviewed March 28, 2018
I know that many people today are tight on time and therefore looking for ways to meet others and sadly dating sites like POF are attempting to lure such clients by making outrageous promises which are never fulfilled due to misleading promotions along with uncivilized and lying members. As a man I can only provide a review of the women members but it is fair to say that this review applies equally to most of the male members as well. To begin this is a "free" site (as POF claims) but if you're a man then I would like to inform you of the pitfalls. First, women get to use POF without charge but men are now required to pay by purchasing tokens. How these tokens work still remains a mystery because nowhere does POF explain the policy they apply for tokens so your best bet is to purchase the minimum which will cost $2.25.
The majority of women on POF are either separated or divorced but it's amusing to read their profiles where they say "I'm looking for the man of my dreams..." Dreams? Who exactly did you marry then? If these women can't be devoted to their ex's then what makes a single man think that she will be devoted to you when challenging times surface in your relationship, and they will. Rather than working out problems these women will simply pack their bags and walk away on you too. Do you really want a woman who's been around the block a few times AND has a house full of kids under the age of 18? Guys, you're better off staying single than getting into a relationship with one of these charming "ladies".
Women who state in their profiles that they like to travel simply mean that they are looking for man to take her on vacations and pay for all expenses. I've been in contact with a few of these "charming" women who seem to feel they both deserve and are entitled to this. Many women will not continue conversations with you if you don't own a house, nice car and a substantial income. Some women have actually told me in person that they won't date men who earn $50, $60 or even $100 per hour. They want a man who earns a minimum of $100,000 per year because she doesn't want to work any longer and expects to enjoy her life while you continue working. There are women's profiles that clearly state that the man must have a 6 or 7 figure income before she even replies to your letter. Many women's profiles are fake. You'll see photos listed on a Toronto profile and then the same photos in a Vancouver profile. Be very cautious about this.
The majority of women NEVER reply which suggests that these are either fake profiles or the women are just playing games with no intention of ever meeting, or, they DEMAND a man who looks like he just stepped out of a fashion magazine and nothing less will be acceptable to them so don't ever expect a reply from any of them. If you do end up sending two or three letters to her then she can file a "harassment" complaint against you and you will be banned from the site. Yes, it happens frequently to the men.
POF offers a "Meet Me" feature. You receive daily notices informing you that "these women (or men if you're a woman) want to meet you. Click on their profile to see who they are". This is a huge red flag that screams "scam". POF is supposed to be free and here they inform you that a mystery member is very interested in you, BUT, if you want to know who they are you need to pay for this service. Why pay for a service that is already free to begin with? If these women are interested in me then why didn't they simply contact me themselves? POF is working hard to scam people out of money for services that don't work and are redundant. Don't get caught up in this scam. Keep your money in your pocket.
The majority of POF women members are as pleasant as an angry Pitbull. Most will never reply to your messages even if you do nothing more than pay them a compliment on their looks. The majority of women would sooner block/ban you from contacting them unless you look like you just stepped out of a fashion magazine so be aware of this right from the beginning. As a man you're nothing to them unless you are financially secure, own a car, house and can afford to travel; which means that YOU will be paying all expenses for the woman.
Remember, the women on POF are here because it's completely free for them so they have nothing to lose and therefore they will play games with you knowing there will be no consequences for them in any way. POF attracts the scum of society and that is what most of the members are. If you want to meet somebody genuine then consider joining a service where BOTH genders must pay in order to use the service.
There is a growing number of transsexual "women" appearing on POF. Some identify themselves as such but the rest keep this information from you so be aware and NEVER send any comments to them because that's a great way to get yourself banned without warning. By comments I mean "why are you posting on the women's side? This is a site for MEN wanting to meet GENUINE WOMEN". This will get you banned right away. It's sad that men need to pay but they are not allowed to view genuine women.
Many women will post photos but they are not their own photos. I've been told by quite a few women that because they want to maintain their privacy they post photos of women who resembles her. You may be looking at a nice looking girl but that is a photo she just yanked offline somewhere. For your own sake, you should make it a habit of asking each one whether she's using her real photo. Sad but true. Customer service is virtually non existent. You have to search on google to find an email or phone number and if you end up trying to contact customer service you will never get through to anybody be it by phone or email. Feel free to try if you doubt me.
POF has a list of rules which they strongly enforce (sorry, I was laughing so hard I couldn't type for a moment. I'm ok now). Here is what POF has to say about using photos in your profile, "POF has 0 tolerance for users who are rude, UPLOAD FAKE PICTURES..." It then continues with "Any user caught doing so is DELETED". Until recently POF had a policy that stated all photos of members must show their face clearly or you could report them and POF would inform them to follow the site rules or their profile would be removed; and that is how it should be. As you read this, POF has altered that policy and currently if a profile has no photos of the person but rather images of shoes, their legs, flowers etc.
You, as a paying member can no longer report this as a violation and if you do, YOUR profile will be deleted. Wow, you can't request that a woman shows her face so you can see what she looks like even though you are PAYING to use a service designed for dating. What kind of dating site encourages members to NOT post their photos and expect to meet somebody? The only word I can find that accurately describes POF is "hypocrisy".
Most of the women are extremely arrogant, disrespectful and simply lack class and decency. One important detail for men to understand is that if you send a letter to a woman who ignores you she will block/ban you from contacting her again. Yes, that does seem very inappropriate but they do it rather than replying with a simple "no thank you" response. Once a certain number of women block you for nothing more than having no interest in you, POF shuts your account down but your profile is still up! What does that mean? Your profile is visible to you but can't be seen by the women. In essence you have a "ghost" profile that is up and running but women are not able to see it and they can't contact you. Yeah, that is POF for you.
Finally I would like to stress a very important detail concerning a policy that POF has in place regarding "inappropriate" letters. I was stood up by a woman who had no courtesy to call or text me especially when she knew I was driving almost an hour to meet her. I was left sitting alone with no way of knowing what happened to her. I called her twice and she didn't answer. I then texted her to find out if she was ok but again no reply.
I drove back home and found a letter from her on POF. She simply said "I changed my mind". I replied by saying "you were inconsiderate in how you treated me. That was disgusting behavior for somebody your age". In the span of 2 hours my account was shut down and I was banned from POF for "violating site rules". Customer service emailed and informed me that I was "rude" in my reply and POF has a zero tolerance for rude comments. This clearly is a site with ambiguous rules that can go in any direction. You really don't want anything to do with this scam "dating" site. It's not worth the frustration or effort. You're better off staying home alone with a movie, then again, what exactly do you expect from a free "dating" site?
Reviewed March 28, 2018
Won't let you search parameters other than what they think you should want. You enter a search and they change it so you don't get results other than what they think you should get. I get notices some member wants to meet me but when I look at their profile, it says they've never looked at mine. So how can they want to meet someone they've never even seen? It says it's free but to communicate with anyone you have to pay. POF is really a POS site. Piece of **. It is a waste of time and money to be on this trash site.
Reviewed March 26, 2018
Well I have been on this site in the past and had mixed results but my most recent experience has been horrible and what is worse is the fact that I gave them $40 of my money for an "Upgrade" for 2 months, complete waste of money and time as more than half of my meet me connections are all bots, people advertising **, scammers, or fake profiles, and the few actual real women I have connected with and/or messaged either ghost really quickly, or just don't reply at all, and they have such strict wants and requirements to even message them, this place has turned into a cesspool. I have already canceled my sub and I will be contacting their customer support to see about a refund for the time I will not be using and have them delete my account, also what's worse is they link to sex hookup sites and all 3 of them are basically reported as scams by most reviewers.
Reviewed March 23, 2018
The majority of the girls I will come across on 'meet me' are girls with completely nude, ** profile photos and the majority of such girls message me wanting me to sign up on their live online sex cam website and pay them for 'a show'. Completely unclassy and tasteless to find POF allowing so many of these people allowed access on a dating app that primarily promotes people who are serious about dating and finding someone. I have also went through the trouble of going on some of these profiles to report them, but the next 'meet me' girl I come across is the same racy nude profile photos. Disgusting.
Reviewed March 23, 2018
Really? I tried this site because it was recommended by a friend. I keep getting messages from people that say their friend just saw my profile and wants to get in touch. Or the last jerk sent me a text and we started communicating. Then he gives me a phone number and states we should talk or meet and that would be better than using POF. Ok text to that number with no reply, email through POF with no reply. Then I realize that the first story and the latest are very similar. Both persons are from out of the country, both are widowers. Just too many coincidences.
I remove pics from the site, change my profile and just kinda shut down the app on my phone. Lo and behold the very next day I get an email from some guy on POF with exactly the same story as the first “my friend” wants to meet you jerk and gives me the exact same email address as the first ** that pulled this ** on me. I’ll admit I’m not the sharpest pencil in the box but please, I’m also not the dumbest.
Reviewed March 18, 2018
After 10 months and 3 different dating sites. I never met anyone in person. POF has a upgraded section called wants to meet you. I was contacted multiple times, with no in person meets. A few prospects carried on a chatting for a couple days, but when it came time to meet, they disappeared with as much as the conversations to show for it. One of them disappeared as soon as I pointed out she lived within 4 miles of me. Some of them try the damsel in distress act. They try to get you to send them money cards to save them.
It varies in context, but always a damsel in distress. To manipulate the hero gene in men. The general population should be informed of the dating scams. There's more I can reveal to anyone interested in sounding an alert to warn lonely desperate people looking for love. I'm not desperate, & my eyes are wide open. I revealed I was on to the scam, POF has blocked me. I'm not saying it's impossible to meet a real person on dating sites. It's just not likely, with no checks or balances. I suspect there's multiple profiles being orchestrated by one person as well.
POF.com Company Information
- Company Name:
- POF.com
- Year Founded:
- 2003
- Website:
- www.pof.com
