OkCupid Reviews

The app constantly tells you that dozens if not hundreds of people genuinely like you. This is done in order to push you towards their premium option, which costs 40 dollars a month, which is not an insignificant amount of money to spend, but hell, I figured that I had to pay to play in order to find love. I genuinely wanted to find someone that I could have a real connection with, a real shot at finding my life partner.

Dislike the site. I haven't been on it for that long. I paid for the basic membership package and I don't like it because first of all I feel like they played me. When I looked at my people you may like future. It didn't show locate I'll and then I open it up thinking all I got all these likes then I open it after paying for it it's all foreign woman. They should at least allow you to see the location then you can turn around and decide if you are actually going to pay for the membership and all the women who are in Massachusetts a lot of them are not even online and there's barely anybody from Rhode Island there. I feel like this site is more for people who live in more heavier populated areas like New York or if you live in New Hampshire. That is what it's more geared towards.

I would have to say it is very misleading and they'll say you have 19 likes but when you go into the box after you paid for it you really only got maybe five and it's overseas and sometimes it just seems like the site is dead but I'm a new subscriber so I'm going to give it to the rest of the month and see if I change my review.

OKC offers the space to post a meaningful opportunity to post a fleshed out profile and more- worked OK for a while. Recently (past 5 mos), very glitchy, can't see any photos and an entirely unresponsive staff - only automatic responses w/o any real effort to correct the situation. This is costly on a personal level in both time and money. Look elsewhere.

I joined for one month, to see how it works, after one week I was told I was banned. There is no way to contact anyone, now I'm out $40 and afraid my subscription will continue to be renewed. I would never recommend this site to anyone! No one will contact me no matter how many times I write them.

Said I had 75 likes and over 150 views, paid for the one-month membership and all my likes and views were from ppl in Kenya, Nigeria, Congo and other 3rd world countries. Everyone was a scam. No match in my area and when I search my area says no one is in it. Total bait and switch. Don't waste your money, just delete it as you will never get a real match, just scammers.

Scammers girls working for this dating site pretending like near you and want meet. Just want your $$$ for messaging, and never going to real dating. Nice girls working from computers and lying like they want be with you. Big SCAMMERS.

I picked this app because a friend had had great success with it. That was a while ago, and it shows. The app is unusable without paying. Almost none of the features work. It's not much better if you do pay. If they do offer you half price for a month, DO NOT DO IT. They will recharge the card a day early and then refuse to refund you (even though I sent a request in less than 24 hours). So you will end up spending a bunch of money on an app that is garbage. I should have looked at the reviews here because everyone has had the same experience. I'm sure that's why they are being ridiculous about refunds...Everyone knows the app is worthless now that it is owned by Match and they're not making enough money for their CEO. Also...they know their app is horrible, too.

OkCupid was at one time my favorite dating app. I have been using it for about 20 years, essentially since it was founded. It was more fun than the other apps, with a far richer experience. The more questions people answered, and the deeper their responses, the better you were able to know them. To that end, I answered over 3,000 questions over the years. OkCupid also used to periodically release interesting posts about research conducted on the site. It was more devoted than any other dating app to fostering true connection beyond merely swiping an endless series of pictures.

Jackpot. The ** women are eager to talk. Real legit people who just want love. I spoke to several before finding the one. I found my wife in Vietnam. 4 months later I went to meet her. 4 months after that we were married online via Courtly online marriages. 4 months after that I went back to Vietnam and had the ceremony. Most wonderful experience of my life and I am 51 years old. If you're over 30, forget about American women. Seek one over seas. Be kind, and realistic. You'll find the one.

Once they get your money, in my case 89.99 they can do whatever they want. I would definitely not use this dating website. I personally was on it for less than a day, spent boatloads of time uploading photos, writing etc profile. No Chance on OKCupid.

This website is an absolute NIGHTMARE. It's like they're running a scam operation, not a legitimate dating site. They ban people left and right for NO REASON. You pay good money for a membership, and then BAM, you can't even log in! "Server issues," they say. What a joke! Their customer support is NON-EXISTENT. You send an email begging for help, and all you get is an automated response saying they received your ticket. Then... crickets. And to add insult to injury, they DELETED MY ENTIRE PROFILE without any warning or explanation. This site is a complete waste of time and money. It needs to be shut down IMMEDIATELY before they rip off more people. Don't even THINK about using it.

It's pretty bad because all I get are hits from gay men in the Philippines and I'm nowhere close to there. The people close don't hit me up and some of them look like horror-film extras. I'm not sure how OkC matches people up but so far NONE of the matches are plausible. You may as well vape and try to date the smoke you exhale.

Site takes your money but you can't message anyone. Tried reaching out to see what the problem is, and couldn't even find anyone to contact. Site is a total scam. Beware, beware, beware. Don't know what else to tell you. OkCupid ripped me off.

It's not worth any money you spend. You get a lot of repetition... The same people. And the filters don't work. For example, if you have "no smoking" as an absolute and list it as a deal breaker, you will still get matched with lots of smokers. They base matches on the questions you answer... Even though 90% of them are stupid like... Do you prefer coffee or tea? And they do not allow you to delete questions once you answered them to improve your matches.

The people that are supposed to change and you get new ones everyday.... They don't!!!! They are the same people. There isn't any people locally to view or message. I paid and you can't even see likes unless you pay more! This is garbage.

I've used the app several times before over the last 10 years. Now, in 2024, it is absolutely horrible. They've stripped out all the features so that now it's not much more than a place for fake profiles. The only one they left is the inclusivity for gender or sexual orientation, which is not helpful if you're CIS anyways. And you can write as much as you like. Before I even started my profile I had a dozen "likes" from Asia and Africa. To date, we're talking dozens of fake likes. You can't search by questions anymore. You can't comment or explain your questions anymore. Your daily matches don't refresh often and the worst part is you cannot reject them if you know you're not interested so you keep seeing them week after week. There's no way to search or browse members to proactively search. Their customer service does not respond to emails and there's no phone number to call anymore. FB dating offers more than this and is free.

OKCUPID has joined the ranks of what I think is corrupt and dishonest dating sites. Better known as scamming in my opinion!!! READ READ and READ again everything about your intended membership!!! They have free, which lets you see pictures of people who may or may not be active members. That's essentially what you get for free. The BASIC membership which is what I purchased at $70 for three months is VERY MISLEADING. First impressions lead one to think you see all pics, all profiles and can correspond with other basic members and premium members.

Dangerous low-quality site. It needs to be seriously investigated. I’ve lost count of how many times I’ve been asked for money. I’ve never been asked for cash or gifts on MyUkrLady since it’s a legit Ukrainian dating site. I should haven’t subscribed for OkCupid.com, but I was curious. As a result I just wasted money for the paid subscription. I haven’t met any genuine woman on OKCupid. But my subscription was renewed against my consent at a much increased rate.

OKC is a woke dating site that allure men with fake and bot profiles in a hope that they will pay. Use Bumble instead--real, high quality people with real results. If OKC is 1 then Bumble on 0-10 scale is 11. It's that good. And it's totally free. There is an upgrade option available, but will yield the same results as a non-paying. After bad experience with OKC I tried other 'free' dating sites, they all been much better than OKC, but the crown goes to Bumble. I never looked back! :)

I’ve been on OKC for about 3 weeks. Now this morning I try to sign in and can’t. It says being banned. I fill a complaint with okc and they cannot give me answer why. I have not done anything wrong on there. There is a lot of people got banned for no reason at all. It's a scam and fake website. Okc is full of scammers and fake profiles like ok fake. Okc should be shut down. Horrible website. FAKE.

This site has a large percentage of false profiles. In addition, the matching algorithm seems to internationally ensures your likes and messages are undelivered. Once my subscription expired, the site flooded my email with matches and messages from 30 people. The catch is to review them, I have subscribe again. In my book, this is a scam.

Get banned for no good reason, while there are half naked photo profiles that they allow. Most people I met were divorced with children. No matter the location, always I had a ton of them. Naively paid someone money on there and turned out to be fake, I’m glad and lucky apexchargeback did enough to recover my m0ni. Plus, I get permanently banned for unknown reason. This website/app has a big issue with "dead" profiles.

I recently set up a profile page. I submitted a profile pic and I completed the profile prompts as thoroughly as I could via my computer. I was told after a couple of days I had 77 'likes'. I was on the verge of subscribing to their premium service and then I wasn't allowed to purchase their services. I was told by a customer service rep that my account was terminated for no specific reason given. I assumed they thought I was catfishing or was a bot. I am a real person and was 100% honest about everything I had in my account. To me, these services are a scam, and honest people like me who are looking for a serious relationship are given the short end of the stick. I'm 100% done with online dating forever.

Honestly I wanted nothing and I mean nothing to do with this app. One of my friends who is now married met her husband on here and after getting out of a rough relationship she wanted to get back out there. I didn't have much information on my profile but I ended up going on one date with a guy who I am now married to and have been with for almost six years. Give it a chance. Not all the matches will be a hit but you have to have patience when you find a connection you know.

I joined OkCupid not quite one month ago, and I did cancel future resubscription because of all the bad matches they sent me. I wonder if I am the only person in my town who signed up for it! So I wanted to see if anyone had messaged me the last few days of my membership, and I cannot get into my account. It says they want to "verify" my password, but they never send the code to my email until hours after! Then when I have finally received the code, it still doesn't work and I have to do the whole process all over. There is no phone number for customer service and I have not seen an email, but from the looks of it, they would not respond for days anyway. If you are an attractive, well spoken woman looking for a nice man to date, you will most likely receive a lot of mid 70-ish looking men with full scraggly beards! OR foreigners who I would not want to date. Look elsewhere, this app is nonsense.

I have used OKC on and off for a few years and have gone on a few dates. My subscription was about to renew and I was going to cancel because I was running out of women in my area, which is fine, it happens. The day before I cancelled, I had zero likes. The day after my subscription expired, I suddenly had 27 likes. Now I get about 5 likes a week, where I used to get 1 every two weeks.

10 years ago this was one of the best dating apps out there, but since then it's seriously gone downhill. I've gotten well over 400+ likes in just a couple of months and 95% of them are all from overseas people in Nigeria, Philippines, etc. There's literally ZERO settings that allow you to block people of the nationality, age, race, etc. so my inbox gets flooded with 15+ likes a day. Also, when you do talk to these overseas people it's 95%++ of the time one way conversations that die out fast. They've also increased the cost of the premium to $45/month which is insane. You don't need premium on this website as a dude because you're just flooded with more likes than you can realistically manage.

I would say if you get on these dating sites it's a total waste of time, the people you introduce yourself to never reply. I'd say it's all about the money. I'm sure if you pay for membership you may have a chance to talk to someone else but I'm not paying for something they advertise for free.

It needs to be seriously investigated. There is no profile vetting, so scammers run rampant. I’ve lost count of how many times I’ve been asked for money. I’ve never been asked for cash or gifts on EasyFling4You since it’s a legit dating site. I should haven’t subscribed for OkCupid, but I was curious. As a result I just wasted money for the paid subscription. I haven’t met any genuine woman on OKCupid. But my subscription was renewed against my consent at a much increased rate.

They claim that they’re a free site. They do just like the rest who claim the same thing. Then after drawing you in taking your information and time, you find out that you have to pay to message and or see your likes. This is a gimmick. I don’t appreciate it. It could have been straightforward but no. Everything is a scam nowadays.

Yesterday I created an account with Okcupid. My matches were being created and was bumped out, so I signed back in and was informed I was banned from their site. I have never done anything wrong on their site. I didn’t even get to go into my account. I supplied my number and email then automatically was banned. I even uploaded my photos to the site. When I emailed the company asking why they stated it was for the safety of the community. When I asked what the complaint was they pretty much told me due to privacy I could not know why! This site should be shut down and banned from being allowed to have the site up.

Fraud alert! This app allows Fraud. I tried to contact the company that someone else is trying to use my profile and my phone number for their account and they said they can't do anything about it. Fraud! Stay away!!!

This site claims to have good algorithms but they stink. I got some men in the first few days but now I have zero people in the “stacks”. They must not have enough members. You also can’t filter people based on what they are looking for, you can say “long term dating” but if the peopke also say “hookups” you still see them. About 50% are looking for hookups… The “Cupid’s picks” are supposed to be better matches for you and refresh daily. I have had the same two men for 4 days who are not even the ethnicity that I’ve stated I’m looking for. I have sent 3 emails asking for help and have had ZERO response.

Only messaged like ten female profiles in my area, got banned for no reason. In the past I've learned how rude, mean and hostile female profiles are. Females can lie and then you're gone. Also Okcupid is really bad with privacy using your phone number to login in.

A lot of people recommended this site, when I first signed up I got a lot of likes, of course you have to pay to see who they are. So I paid the lowest price in Canadian dollars and what happens? All of them live outside of my location, turns out you have to keep paying just for the people outside of you're location can't like you. And so many people don't even bother uploading a photo, they always just have 1 picture of flowers or their pet, so they are telling me they are flowers or an animal? Why is there no rule for dating sites to you HAVE to upload pictures of YOU or they delete your account. I get a like I go and check and it's a blurry random Google Image. I know it's not just OKCupid that does this but they are the only ones to make it so you have to keep paying to only get likes in your location, the minute you stop you get flooded with likes mostly in the Philippines.

I paid 45 dollars to find out that 95% of my likes are coming from possibly fake profiles from all over the world. Even if they're not fake I'm sick of "swiping left" on people because they live 8000 miles away. Bumble allows you to pay for a day pass to check out your likes which is nice and cheap and everyone is within your preset geographical specifications. OkC doesn't have a day pass. What they do have are hundreds of profiles that like your profile and when you finally give in and pay for the month because you have 112 likes you find out that the VAST majority of these people aren't even within driving distance. I will be deleting my account when my subscription is up.

Awful site. Absolutely ridiculous. A total waste of time. Lots of obviously fake profiles and stolen pics and endless foreign scammers. In the event you do manage to start a conversation, the person disappears. I suspect that the employees of OKC are behind many of the fake profiles and they engage in fake conversations to get people to stay and pay. I really HATE OKC because it has wasted so much of my time. Despicable.

Do not use this company. They're a scam and full of bots and scammers. They need to shut this company down. I'm tired of it. This and being scammed. The company has out of country bots who send fake emails then scam you for money.

To put it bluntly - Okcupid.com is the cesspool of all dating apps/websites. There are no redeeming values about it anymore. It has become flooded with fake profiles of people who swipe right on you, to feed the urge for you to pay and find out who "liked" you. Strangely, in the event you do swipe right on these people and start a normal conversation, they suddenly disappear from your feed. I do believe that there is some sort of collusion with profiles under okcupid to get people to pay. Not to mention the swarm of profiles from outside of the US randomly setting their location as somewhere local, only to find out they live halfway across the world. There's nothing wrong with meeting someone from abroad, however it can be frustrating for those who want to meet someone nearby. I could go on, but to put it simply- don't waste your time and money on this trash excuse of a "dating" site/app.