eHarmony Reviews

If I could give them no stars, I would! Do not bother with eHarmony and go to another website. Eharmony expects you to lower your standards to match with anyone in your area. There are no matches to begin with. The price is outrageous for the amount of matches. Even attempting to cancel the day of the purchase is impossible for a return. They just want your money with nothing in return. You make a purchase for nothing.

Complete waste of time, energy and money. The only "connections" were con artists and thieves. Stay away and save your money and sanity. The cons are getting really good these days, be careful

I tried to cancel fours after joining. First they capped denying my photos. Just regular pictures and they told me I couldn’t cancel. This platform is a scam. I will open a case with the Better Business Bureau. Also very limited people I put Florida and only a few women are on there so they keep telling you extend your surge.

Horrible company! I thought they were reputable—should have done my scam search first! I thought the premium subscription would be worth doing month-to-month but was charged $435.85 for a year that I didn’t want. When I contacted them with several emails, was told they had a no-refund policy. I contacted my credit card company and filed a report to get my money refunded today. Will see if they can satisfy me. The few men profiles were either missing pictures, horrible-looking men and one was a possible scammer. Do not use this company, haven’t received anymore suggestions except 1 today!

I paid for a full year of eHarmony, and unfortunately, it was one of the worst subscriptions I’ve ever purchased. From the beginning, I found both the website and the app confusing and not very user-friendly. There isn’t enough explanation about how everything works, and getting help or finding good customer service is difficult. I often found myself frustrated just trying to figure out how to use the service effectively. What disappointed me most was how inactive and repetitive it felt. For months, I seemed to see the same profiles over and over again. I wish there were a better way to organize or set aside profiles you’ve already looked at so you can focus on new ones.

Where to begin... I went to this site and enrolled in the top-tier subscription. I thought there would be fewer scammers on a paid dating site than on free ones. Wrong!! eHarmony is loaded with them! Most of the women who were matching with me turned out to be fake. I asked for a refund within the first three days and was told they only allow refunds in that time frame in certain states (??)! The other issue is that, even though I cast a wide net in terms of criteria (distance, age range...), I haven't had a single (not one) new woman's profile to view in 4 days now. Are there really that few women? The distance I set includes not only my state, but neighboring states. Don't waste your money! I feel like the whole thing is a scam!

⚠️ Be very careful with eHarmony’s services. In my experience, there is absolutely no benefit to signing up for this very expensive dating app. The minimum cost is over $40 per month, plus taxes and other charges, which can result in paying more than $460 for a year. What I found especially disappointing is the extremely limited number of profiles available. There simply do not appear to be many active members in city. In my case, I was seeing only around 10–15 potential profiles, which is extremely disappointing for a service charging this much.

Horrible dating app. I could go 2 or 3 days without being sent any profiles, When profiles were sent, some had no photos (scammers), some only had a head shot (scammers), and the ones with photos had not been active for weeks. Also, if I did send a like, I found if someone responded within 10 minutes, they were scammers, as they wanted to know about me, but would not provide any info on themself. Please don't waste your money like I did.

Several reasons to have a one star rating. I should add that there was a zero star rating. I would have checked it. Very few profiles available for my geographical area, which is a major metropolitan city. Very few dates. I selected a man seeking a woman, however I continued to get men’s profile profiles, suggested to me by eharmony, and apparently my profile was showing up in other men’s searches for someone to me. I continue to ask why that was happening, what was going on with the programming of their site and they continue to tell me how to change my preferences on the site. Obviously that was not the problem. The problem was I’m a man seeking a woman and they were sending me men for profiles.

I would not recommend this company based on their deception and poor customer service. Very deceptive ad. Tried to sign up for 50% one month deal. Ended up being charged over $500 for full year! I tried to phone them immediately at the number listed in their website. A recorded message there advised they didn’t take phone calls! So I contacted them via their message form. Two days later I received a note saying basically ‘too bad’. No other method to fix my mistake! I would not recommend this company based on their deceptive and poor customer service.

E-Harmony has proven itself to be a ridiculously impressive scam. Upon the recommendation of several websites, I signed up to E-harmony’s premium plan in the hopes of finding someone I connected with. Throughout my three month plan, I was connected to no less than 4 scam profiles. All four attempted to get me off the app into other separate apps, which is a common tactic used by scammers before they trick you out of money. As E-harmony was not proving fruitful, I requested my account be cancelled and the second payment not be charged.

Less than 1 star if I could give it. This site is a scam. Their pricing is completely unclear and where there should be a minimum of a 3 day grace period for a refund if you change your mind they do not give it at all. I will be calling my credit card company to fight them but it may be a lost cause. Run away from these scammers!

I paid $260 for a subscription hoping for a quality dating pool, but it was a complete waste of money. Within my very first hour of using the app, I completely ran out of potential dates and matches. The platform ran out of men in my area almost immediately. Do not recommend if you want an active, populated dating pool for the price.

Love Love Love Eharmony. ❤️ So much fun and fabulous way to find love. So so happy I gave Eharmony and online dating a chance, I met nice people. The best. Thank you Eharmony for your wonderful help.

Eharmony is corrupt, corrupt, corrupt! I never once went on the site, yet they continued to charge me. There is no customer service to speak with. They’re bought and paid for on the Better Business site. They’ve submitted fraudulent inquiries to a collection agency who’s been calling me. Sickos - do better and they claim to be Christian. Very disturbing 😡

Big waste of money. They restrict you from updating your profile. Hardly any matches in my area. And they do not provide a search for similarity on political affiliation.

The worst experience ever. Tried to cancel and wouldn't let me. No one will take a phone call or talk to you to try to work it out. It's a scam as far as I'm concerned.

Worse dating site ever. They won't help you navigate their website. No response ever from customer service

I tried canceling my subscription within an hour of getting it, and I was not allowed. I stayed on since I was paying for it anyway, It's only been a month and I was matched with a felon who got out of prison within the last 3 years. I had another match that had TCDJ as university and was literally dressed in his prison uniform. There's several matches that are clearly fake. I have experience with helping people with fraud. You get someone from Canada trying to "like" you.... yeah no thanks.

Worthless dating site/app. 0 real matches in 2 months. Only matches I have had turn out to be scammers. Customer service is nonexistent and worthless. Giving a 1-star rating because they don't have an option for negative numbers. DO NOT WASTE your money, like I did. Sign you up for 3 months with no way of canceling service. Complete waste of time.

Absolutely dreadful service. I would never recommend this to anyone, outside of an enemy. I am currently owing them some 265.00 because I don't want to date someone on the other side of the world. When I explained what was going on, I just got a blurb saying, in essence, "You signed up, now you owe us." It's just this side of fraud.

This company is by definition a scam; I signed up hoping to see if there were other matches but unfortunately there are none to be had; within 12 hours of signing up I expressed that I wanted to cancel due to lack of matches they said they have the right to hold me to the subscription contract. Do yourself a favor and don’t sign up.

Excited about joining e-Harmony to find a partner, and be disillusioned in less than 3 hours later. I decided to pay for this service based on promotional ads - which later revealed to me that this service is just not worth it with limited profile selection, limited selection of preferences and an abundant amount of profiles "not logged on" 3-5 years past. !! BUYER BEWARE!! In reading the cancellation policy it appears that several other States have a better consumer protection policy than New Jersey. The inability to cancel this subscription after less than 3 hours of perusing the website, is just unbelievable.

It's the worst thing ever, a month later and says I haven't had one profile visit, but if you like big companies constantly asking you for more money and offer nothing in return eHarmony might be for you.

The worst dating site I have ever used and total dishonest, the lies, and deceit runs deep here, they take your money then dictate to you how and who and when you will contact whom they may or may not allow you to contact, yes they make it hard on anyone they do not want you to contact and they make it hard on you for whom you wish to contact then make you pay thru the nose for the service, they discriminate against people for showing them they are wrong or have complained about them also. . Terrible liars, will BS you about claiming things are wrong with your computer when it's them causing the issues, I think they are bias against Christians and jews, republics also, they have a political bias and a religious one also. Rotten to the core this Place. Run away from this place.

At first when I went through profiles, I saw a pattern and soon it was obvious that this was a high end POF. Soon I ran out of profiles, and it asked me to expand my search by changing preferences. I refused. Then suddenly out of nowhere I lost my access and after dozens of requests to reinstate my access I was not given any help at all. This was such a waste of time and effort. I say run and go somewhere else.

This app used to be good. My friend who met his wife on this app recommended it. However, this app is not as good as used to be due to fraudsters using AI technology to victimize the dating app users. Since many online dating fraudsters are **, being an ** using online dating app is in a triple-disadvantage position. 1st, the fraudsters target **. 2nd, app users avoid dating Asian since there’s a risk of encountering a fraudster. 3rd, even the app itself won’t let me post my photos or being extremely picky about what photos I can post. I checked other non-** profiles and found out they could post the photo with similar background and eyewear while I cannot.

I used eHarmony for much of 2025 to find a wife. 90% of the women are fake (catfish). eHarmony puts no effort to confirm if the identities of the people using the site are real. They don't care, they just want your money. I am now happily married from other real solutions, eHarmony was not one of them.

Please, please do not use this dating site. There is no one participating on it. And the few men that reached out to me were scammers. It is shocking that there are no serious daters and almost no one participating in this dating site. The cost is way too much and you get next to nothing. Go with something else that people are actually using. Like Match - which isn't exactly a great experience either but there are choices and real people on there. Good luck in your search - don't go use eHarmony!

eHarmony. eHarmony supposedly be one of the top sites but it's nothing but a rip off. I was on the site for three weeks and all they sent me was overweight men that looked like former drugs addicts. It was horrible. I asked for a refund for the three months minimum I had to pay for and they refused. Anyone looking to use this dating site I say run! It is not worth $5 of your hard earned money. I had to pay $87 x 3 months and not one like, message or anything. I consider myself attractive where I should have received at least one inbox when their site rated my profile as a top catch but yet crickets and the men they sent me were horrible. This site is horrible and their set up is worse. You can't search the data base unless they send you the profile. Beware of Eharmony Dating Website. It's another scam in my opinion.

eHarmony used to provide SO many profiles to scroll through but recently, I’m only able to see a few before getting the message to expand my search. My search is already plenty wide. Eharmony has absolutely tanked. I’m trying to get my money back! 😠

It’s a scam! Pay money for nothing! You get one matching profile at a time. You either go with it or delete it. If deleted it’s gone for good. You won’t see it again. If you don’t get any good matches and delete them you’ll have no profiles to even view for days or weeks! I can’t believe I paid for this crap. Hopefully this helps someone else save their time and money and try something else because eHarmony is a joke! Nothing but a ripoff scam!!!!

Nothing but overweight people. If your in shape don't use this site. Big waste of money and more important my time!!!

User support is delayed and sometimes non-existent. There is a high number of frauds. Most are obvious. Unfortunately, the other legitimate online-dating options are minimal (at best).

Terrible website. There are very few people on this site. They are selling something they do not have. Rip off.

Eharmony has been the worst dating app I have ever been on. Most of the profiles don’t even have pictures. When I called customer service they were not helpful at all. Don’t join this!

eHarmony is a scam. During a two month period, the contacts I received turned out to be both scammers. One wanted me to give her $4000 after just one week of correspondence. All the other contacts they sent were incomplete with no picture and very little information about who they are. I had to have my atm card replaced, so the last payment did not go through. After deciding that there were only a few months left on the one year (bogus) contract, I gave them my new card number. Yet they still blocked me and continued to ask for a new card. I responded with "it will be a cold day in hell before I try again". STAY AWAY FROM THIS SCAM.

Total scam! I had to cancel my credit card so they would stop stealing money! Run. Don’t walk.

Perhaps someone more clever than myself can come up with a better name than Scamharmony or Escamarmony, but that is my experience. A never ending stream of scammers.

Even though I stopped the automatic renewal with the eHarmony March of this year, they turned around and turned the renewal back on and now have billed me $406 and shares my membership goes to 2028. I cannot get access to my account to stop the automatic renewal and cancel the membership unless I pay this amount. I don’t understand their practice. I received an email in March confirming the automatic renewal was turned off and all of a sudden this May I get a notification that my account is renewed for another 12 months and I owe $406 but I cannot gain access to my past account unless I pay him this amount of money to turn around and do the same thing I did before. Cancel the account and turn off the automatic renewal. It’s a vicious circle with these people. I find their practice to be deceiving and a scam.