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Reviewed Nov. 23, 2014
I signed up for Match.com. I was instant messaged within the hour of joining by an alleged military person. He asked for my personal email stating that he was overseas and he had issues with match's instant messaging. He sent me a couple of photos claiming to be a soon to be retired widow. He claimed he was stationed at Camp Eggers in Kabul Afghanistan. He was evasive to my questions, but sent me a long winded email titled "all about me", which consisted of a military resume. I googled camp Eggers and discovered it was closed this year and that the verbiage he used to describe Eggers was verbatim. I further found a military blog indicating a scam that is occurring with men from Africa posing as US military personnel, who become involved via email and eventually ask for money.
Reviewed Nov. 23, 2014
I'm not an unattractive person but have had 190 views and only two people messaged me, which quickly stopped for no apparent reason after some basic hellos. Someone sent me a 'wink' and I immediately responded because I was on. Absolutely no response. It's amazing how many people are on but no one is willing to chat. Lesson learned.
Reviewed Nov. 22, 2014
Seriouscigars.com was hacked and someone got my credit card and personal info. They used different cards on different emails that were stolen so my card was billed 60$ and I reported it to my bank. The bank reversed the funds and cancelled my card. I got a new card a few days ago and now my email has 100+ emails from Canadian men interested in this female hacker. There was also someone else from seriouscigars credit card info used to create the account.
MATCH.COM does NOT verify email addresses actually belong to the person registering on the site! They don't use the VERIFY your email to login. If they did, 100% of the ** would be cut. Luckily enough I took advantage of that and made the spam and credit card some random emails problem. Didn't have to verify remember. :) MATCH.COM allows people to make fake profiles with stolen credit cards. If they at least (bare minimum) verified email addresses before allowing FIRST logins. The site would have maybe 1,000 REAL people. This is the best SCAM I've seen to date. I'm not saying people don't find love on here, I'm just saying it's gotta be hard to weed through all the fake hacker stolen credit card accounts.
Is there someone out there who can MAKE Match.com VERIFY emails so people don't get spammed? That alone would block the hackers from being able to use a fake card. But wait, Match loves the hackers... People get billed and most never get their money back... Why would they want to change their ways when they make millions? Maybe THEY (Match.com) are the ones hacking so they can do this scam? Also, credit cards should match the account name before they bill you.I mean, it should be YOU, being honest, looking for love on a dating site, so the names SHOULD match. But if Match.com refuses to or does not change their verification policy (or at least ENABLE ONE), then it is my belief that THEY (Match.com) are the ones fraudulently entering card info so they can keep all your hard earned money.
I would like an attorney to contact me to see if we can get a judge to MANDATE them to verify emails at least so hackers can't as easily put in credit card info and steal millions from people. ** p!ss!ng me off...
Reviewed Nov. 21, 2014
I checked the DO NOT renew on my profile. They renewed anyway. The customer service rep said that she looked at my profile, and I had not checked it! (I was charged twice: 127+ $). HER supervisor declared to me (and my Capital One agent) that this option was not available. It WAS in early 2013 because I remember clicking it (after digging for the option). THESE people are thieves AND liars. Who wants to join a class-action lawsuit? THANK goodness I have Capital One has the recording of the rep and her supervisor, and they have conflicting reasons for MY charge.
Reviewed Nov. 21, 2014
I created an account, entered some information, and suddenly BAM back to the first page where you sign up! I did it again, entered the same email and username and pw, and the same thing happened again! Third attempt was different, I didn't fill these personal information pages, I went straight to my profile and settings page, there it says I need to confirm my account. I did it by clicking on the button in the email they sent. Then I got an error message that this email and account don't exist. I tried to log in, and the same thing: My account just doesn't exist! I registered for the 4th time, and logged out, and then I tried to log back in, and the same error!
I'm confused, how can there be 25,000+ people online if the SITE DOES NOT WORK? It's been like this since 8 months ago, when I first tried that site. They haven't fixed this! I have Windows 7 x64, I have used different browsers, disabled plugins, etc. and NOTHING HELPS. Match.com is a HUGE LOAD OF PURE CRAP.
Reviewed Nov. 21, 2014
I want to express my absolute disgust towards the customer service department of Match.com. Users beware - if you do not take your account off of auto-renewal for billing, you will be charged and denied a refund. I called a few days after I discovered a new charge on my card because I never got a notification that my account was about to expire and apparently they put you on auto-billing when you first sign up for 'convenience'.
I spoke to three different account representatives, including someone at their corporate office and they were unwilling to help me in any regard. All they tell you is "unfortunately, there's nothing we can do" like they are reading off of a script. What they are really saying is that, "I am not going to put any effort into helping you fix this situation because you are not important to me." This is the most frustrating experience I have ever had with a company, let alone a company that acts like they care about your personal happiness.
Then they sent me a customer service survey, which expires after 3 days, so now I am no longer able to give my feedback because that window has passed, so instead I'll publicly let people know how I feel. They also have horrible customer service hours (I live on the west coast) so they are closed by the time I get off work, and they've even cancelled my account so that I am not able to use it - but they're keeping my money!! If they are not going to refund my money then they do not have the right to cancel my account.
This is an absolute scam, and they are crooks who need to be stopped. I have seriously never felt so disrespected and appalled at how heartless a corporation can be. You can bet I will be sharing my story with everyone I know and who will listen, because as a professional who has worked in customer service, marketing, and management - I know this is not how you do business or retain customers, and I do not want to see anyone else treated this way in the future.
Reviewed Nov. 19, 2014
I signed up for 6 months, poked around the site for about an hour, found it to be totally useless, and promptly cancelled. Saw a charge for $137 on my credit card the following day and called the Match customer service line to request a refund. They absolutely refused, and I gave the person a piece of my mind. Then I contacted my credit card company to dispute the charge, since I am out $137, and Match is out nothing. This company is not interested in customer service at all, just in raking in the $$$$. I will NEVER do business with them again and will advise anyone I know against it. SCAMMERS!
Reviewed Nov. 19, 2014
This website is plagued with non-existent matches. It does not attend to your preferences and requirements. For example, if you ask to be matched with men only, you start receiving "likes" and "emails" from women or worse from women claiming that their bosses are too shy to write... PLEASE! Sometimes, you receive these pathetic, full of Sh^&%, long emails that are just too insulting to your common sense and intelligence. Do not waste your money.
Reviewed Nov. 18, 2014
I paid for 6 months membership by my VISA for Match.Com last October. After 3 weeks into it I couldn't log in to my account and I had to do it via my Facebook log in. I discovered my account was hacked by someone else and using my profile and e-mail to communicate to others. He changed my e-mail address in file, my age, my picture and my location. The next morning I contacted the customer service and they restore my account after changing my password. About 4 days after, I couldn't log in again and my account was blocked in by match.com with no explanation. I contacted their customer service again and was told it is in the hand of the head office and they have no information about my file. They will send request to them and I will be contacted in 24 hours. This did not happen.
I called the customer service daily for a week and still have no answer. I asked either to restore my account or get refunded. Although the site itself not bad, the customer service of this site is 3rd grade, the worst I ever seen. The problem in this site if you run into problem you get no help or resolution and leave you hang and dry.
Reviewed Nov. 17, 2014
I decided to give Match.com a try since they had a half price sale. I am 50 years old and Match would send me profiles of women between the ages of 28 and 38 who claimed they were interested in me. The problem was their profiles said that person was interested in me...listed they were looking for men no older than 40. One day I was online and I get three wink alerts in my email box from pretty women half my age. I immediately click on "View Their Profile" and all three profiles were not available or deleted. I called Match's customer service to ask why these profiles were unavailable since I just got the Wink alerts five minutes ago. The match customer service rep says to me, "We do not send fake wink alerts to people in order to keep them as members." The problem was, I never mentioned that nor did I accuse them of doing that. Finally when I emailed them to cancel my membership, I was bombarded with pretty women's profile, mostly from out of state. What a joke.
Reviewed Nov. 17, 2014
I paid for the 3 month service about a week ago. First of all, you have to be on your guard because there are scammers lurking in there with fake profiles. The scammers I came across were trying to get your email address or phone number right away when they send you a message or when on instant chat. Also by looking at the girls profile, you will notice a 29 year gal old looking to meet men 70 years old... yea right! Or look at their Ethnicity and it reads something like "Latino/Asian/White/Islander" and the picture does not match... yea right! So, again beware and always be on your guard. The plus side is there are a FEW real girls there. There are few and far apart. I did manage to meet one lady and currently arranging to setup our first date. But it took about 40 emails all together to get one to respond. It's all a numbers game. Just make sure you post your best recent picture. I've seen some real ugly photos where the girl look like she did not care. If I get a chance I'll post an update in the near future.
Reviewed Nov. 14, 2014
They told me someone had infiltrated my profile and sent out messages posing as me! However, they would not disclose if it was internal or someone who had obtained my password and logged in as me! I would need search warrant to release any account info. Other than being a huge nuisance, I'm concerned about the safety of my personal and financial information! Has anyone experienced anything similar?
Reviewed Nov. 13, 2014
I had the account for 3 weeks before I cancelled. The 1st 3 days I couldn't get on because the password didn't work. Had 1 week of ok operation, then my password got messed up AGAIN. So, I cancelled and I was informed that they don't refund you any money. I spent $139.00 on this stupid website. Never again.
Reviewed Nov. 11, 2014
I had a one month subscription with Match. I cancelled, then all of a sudden I had likes and emails. Signed back up and the 3 emails turned out to be 1 and the guy didn't even exist. There was no user account by that name. So I cancelled again. I feel stupid for this but I got a bunch of notifications that 21 men "liked" me and I had 2 emails. So, I tried again. It was the same thing. Bogus emails from fake accounts. Very hurtful.
Reviewed Nov. 10, 2014
Most of my "matches" did not match me. If they did they based it on general qualification such as "he has no children living at home". Since I am in my 60's that is rather lame basis for a match. It seemed like many of the men I emailed did not exist; not only did they not respond (reasonable) but some never even read the email/profile. These were the most interesting ones. I think they didn't even exist in the match world or were on a long, long time ago. I have a personal friend whose profile popped up. When I told him that he said, "I've haven't been active on Match for about a year!"
Reviewed Nov. 9, 2014
I did not meet anyone of interest during my subscription. I had men asking for money, etc. Never had I a compatibility rate over 90. I cancelled prior to my subscription end date and they still took money out for another subscription. I contacted my credit card company, and they refunded my money. Then Match billed again and I lost the money. So now they have over $76 of my money and I cannot login to contact them. I called my credit card company again and they stated there is nothing they can do. NEVER will I recommend Match.
Reviewed Nov. 9, 2014
First response on Match.com...was a SCAM ARTIST. Wanted to borrow $2,000.00 after 3 days of sending red flag LOVE texts. 1st clue... works in South Africa... wanted to correspond on IM Messenger. His name is James **, goes by **. His bank is USCB, of which I'll send copy. Contacted Match.com. They did NOTHING...!
Reviewed Nov. 9, 2014
It’s decent site-- for a web dating site. If you're a trial member there's nothing you can do there-- you can't send emails, and you can't read emails if anyone writes you. And they review everything you try to post. If you write anything critical to the site, they edit it out. They used to be a lot more strict about photos. Now, if it shows your face they'll generally allow it. Like all web dating sites, they claim just about a 50/50 male to female member ratio, but I don't believe it. There are always far more guys trolling the web for women. That’s just life! Anyway, like I said, you can't do anything there unless you pay to subscribe-- and it's not inexpensive. But the plus is, women who've paid are probably more motivated to meet someone than women who do the free sites like PoF and zoosk, so that's good.
As a guy, I know the member profiles they send me everyday as 'teaser' matches (I’m a free trial member) would never write back in real life if I subscribed. So, expect to get sent a lot of cute member profiles to get you to subscribe, but take it all with a grain of salt. They sift through and send out the most attractive profiles to us chumps. No law against that, is there? Guess not.
Final: yes, I wish those 26-year-old really cute blondes would write to me, a 40-something regular guy. But I’m not going to plop down $40 a month for it to happen because it won't. I’d do a one month first. It’s pricey, but my experience with dating sites is the first few weeks are going to show the best results. Longer on a site - without a major overhaul - usually is about what you're going to get results-wise. When you do try to cancel they'll usually give you a good deal to stick around longer. In the old days they used to offer me a few months free when I tried to cancel. But I’m old now, so maybe not.
Reviewed Nov. 8, 2014
I am a tall, fit, professional in my early 60s and used Match several years ago when I was first divorced. After 6 months, I had interacted with about 200 women online and had met over 30 for a dinner date. I met a beautiful, fit, professional woman who was smart, funny, and enthusiastic about our relationship and we had a wonderful, exclusive 2 years together. It ended over events that were outside of our control and not either partner's fault. I had used POF during that initial search and met only a fraction of women compared to those from match. Over the last year I have re-enrolled in match, as well as POF and joined the free Cupid site. Again I have interacted with over 200 total women online and met over 40. Again, match has produced the majority of those meetings and those women have all been reasonable reflections of their profiles.
I have encountered a number of scams from all 3 sites, and a very small number of seemingly imbalanced women whom I blocked. I believe I have become adept at identifying scams and have a long list of 'tells' which seem accurate. Again, match produced only a small number of apparently fraudulent or block-worthy candidates. As such, I have seen and read thousands of profiles over a relatively long period. And I have been able to compare those to actual women in what I consider a significant sample. Match has proved to be remarkably accurate and a great help in my search. I have every expectation it will allow me to be ultimately successful. POF and Cupid are helpful on a smaller scale and produce many unwanted contacts.
I have now read several hundred complaints and 'reviews' in this website and found them to bear little resemblance to my experience. While I have not had occasion to request a refund, which seems the difficulty most often recited, many of the other criticisms do not mesh with what I have found. Repeated recommendations to abandon Match and enroll in POF and Cupid, only, strike me as illogical and nonproductive in light of my reality. That I found no good reviews, that match was rated most consistently a single 'star', and the regularity and location of contributors all cause me to wonder how or even whether these 'contributors' were vetted, selected, or screened. If this is exclusively limited to 'complaints' then that should be made clear and it would seem that the 'review' aspect would be irrelevant for your head note. The appearance of 5 possible 'stars' would also seem then irrelevant. If this is being used as a tool for those associated with POF and Cupid to divert users from Match, it would certainly seem helpful to know that, as well.
I believe that many of those who use these sites to find authentic relationships for their lives are already vulnerable to false suggestions about how to succeed. They are already sometimes scammed by other users on all the available sites, not just Match, and should not be further misled by a site which is seemingly positioned to provide a full spectrum of 'reviews'. If you believe this is somehow in your 'terms of use or 'review guidelines' then I encourage you to prominently display that to the casual reader. I will be interested to see if my 'review' is ever displayed in its entirety on your site. As written it has 2725 characters. Good luck, don't settle.
Reviewed Nov. 8, 2014
I suddenly began receiving emails from these thieves, and I NEVER have had an account or membership with them. In fact, I've deliberately NOT joined their site. That means they phished my address, and who knows how much other information about me? I've sent numerous emails asking them to stop emailing me. I've "unsubscribed" following their BS instructions, and that's only gotten me MORE emails. I work in the disputes department of a bank, and I love processing against these creeps and taking money away from them and returning it to the multitude of customers who've been ripped off by these thugs. Contact your bank and dispute the charge. Each dispute costs Match.com a $40.00 fine and more. It also damages their relationship with their bank. Go get 'em!! Grrr.
Reviewed Nov. 8, 2014
Fraud, flat out lie. They say you have someone who favorite your profile. When you respond you can never see their profile. Then they show people, you send e-mail after e-mail never to get a response. When they send you an alert someone likes you, they're always 1,000 miles away from where you are. Now I'm going to try and close my profile. Get my money back!!!!!
Reviewed Nov. 6, 2014
Apart from the pitfalls, highs and lows of online dating, my biggest complaint is that I can't unsubscribe the iTunes. I really don't want the service, it's not a good time, and having it actually stresses me out. I still don't know how to stop payment, my best guess is to cancel my credit card on the account. But now I can't purchase anything in iTunes for 3 months until the account has expired. Or it relapses. Other than that, it's what it is. It's not clever or flashy. And for men, I'm sure it's stressful. I met someone special on there, by luck, I think. It didn't work out, but I wouldn't have met her without it. For that I gave it 2 stars.
Reviewed Nov. 5, 2014
As my 3-month trail membership came to a close (I decided not to renew), I gave my email address and phone number to some women with whom I had been communicating. Some time had passed and I figured they just were no longer interested. I reread one of my messages and noticed that my phone number was incorrect, and thinking it was just a typo, I sent another email with the correct number and an apology. After reviewing other messages I had sent, I noticed that the same mistake appeared in all of the messages. I also saw that my email address was changed from "[aol username] @aol.com" to "[match.com username] @talkmatch.com", thus assuring that any further communication would be possible only through the site and a renewal would be required to continue. I still had two days left on the subscription.
Now I know that outside contact info is not allowed on match.com profiles, but these were personal messages. So, either someone at match is reading these messages and changing the content, or they have software that recognizes phone numbers and email addresses and automatically changes them without informing the customer. Either way, It's a pretty sleazy practice. Who knows, maybe the women were shills, too.
Reviewed Nov. 5, 2014
I subscribed to Match.com on 11/2/2014 at 10:53AM thinking that I was going to be paying $19.99/mo. as advertised. Once I submitted my credit card information, it stated that my credit charged was charged $239.88! They charged me for the FULL 12 months at once. At no point during the subscription did it say that I was going to be charged the full 12 months at once. I went to their website at exactly 10:57AM (4 minutes later!) and canceled my subscription. Three days later, I saw a transaction on my credit card for $239.88. I tried to find a customer service phone # to call them right away to get a refund but instead found an email address.
As I was going to submit my email, it took me to another page with a phone # to call for a refund. I called and spoke with a representative who refused to give me a refund as per "policy". I then spoke with a supervisor, Henry or Henric, who was absolutely cold, rude and not helpful at all! He absolutely REFUSED to issue me a refund stating, "You failed to see the right side of the page that said you were going to be charged the $239.88" and "It was your choice to join". I was furious! He had an "I don't care" attitude with me the whole time. So after joining for 4 minutes, I am now stuck paying $239.88 for a full year! HORRIBLE COMPANY, HORRIBLE CUSTOMER SERVICE AND POLICIES! DO NOT USE THEM!!! I will be writing the Corporate offices to submit my complaint.
Reviewed Nov. 4, 2014
I subscribed for this service this morning for my mother. Once logged in, I tried to help her create her profile and search for singles. The ease of use for an older individual was not ideal in the least. The site promotes that it is easy to use at any age, but this is clearly not the case. The site was even hard for me to navigate (took me 20 minutes just to get a picture uploaded). My mother decided that she was not going to be able to use any of the features by herself, so I called the company to cancel. After being a user for a little over an hour, I was denied a refund by customer service reps, supervisors, AND 2 managers. $150 for an hour of use. DO NOT USE THIS SERVICE! They are thieves.
Reviewed Nov. 4, 2014
After being with Match.com for 7 months, I've learned and realized their business lacks integrity and definitely don't care about its customers and cares only about revenue. Ironically, Match.com is a company that's suppose to "HELP" people find love, and yet it's not a people-oriented company at all! Match.com automatically renewed my 6 months subscription with my consent. When I found out, they told me user can choose not to select automatic-renewal option. So basically, by default, when you first sign up to Match.com, the option of "6-month automatic renew" is setup in your account. As a user, you're not aware you had this choice until Match has already charged your credit card.
The "CORRECT" business practice would have been: 1) By default, assign "non-automatic renew" for each user's setting. 2) When 6-months membership is about to expire, Match.com should send an automatic email to its customer informing them their membership has expired and request customers to renew again. Also, apparently as I found out today, if you don't find a match within the first 6 months of subscription, you have 30 days to call Match and they will give you next 6 months for free. If you tell them after 30 days, it's too late and you will be charged for the 6-month subscription. WHY ARE USERS NOT INFORMED ABOUT THIS? So here I am, having been forced to continue another 6 months of membership with no option out. I feel that it is so unjust and unfair for Match.com to do this to all of its customers. For all those out there, please don't go thru the mistake I went through.
Reviewed Nov. 4, 2014
Finding a good woman in match.com is nearly impossible because everything is based on their viewpoints and often their misjudgment of my character, written and photos. The biggest flaw of American women are their high expectations for men what she wants. Flexibility and adaptability are keys for the relationship. The meeting and date reality from this dating website of match.com is 80% of failure. Some women are prostitutes or ex-prostitutes, femme fatales, and even, desperate for they're seeking a gold digger. I was unhappy with the dating web service, and they kept pushing me to join their dating support sites such as chemistry.com and additional fee for deceptive ad of boosting the chance to meet more people. I cannot refund till the expire ended. It really wasted my money for this gimmick dating website. We suggest you to avoid www.match.com, and it is not worth! Stay out of this dating Web site at all cost.
Reviewed Nov. 3, 2014
Auto renew is a scam. I complained and told it's policy. Well it's a terrible policy, it's robbery! I asked for a refund once and got it. They never turned off the auto renew.... Daaaaaa!!! Obviously I didn't want it anymore or I wouldn't have asked for a refund the first time. I need a lawyer. I think a class action is in order and charges for theft would be appropriate...... Any lawyers want to take this on?
Reviewed Oct. 31, 2014
Match continued to bill me, refused to refund my money, or even pro-rate a refund after I contacted the company with my cancellation. Citing "policy", no one with whom I spoke apparently had authority to act responsibly to assist consumers.
Reviewed Oct. 31, 2014
No consideration. Paid for 3 months of service, stopped cold at 40 days, told to contact resolution dept., no such dept exists.
Reviewed Oct. 31, 2014
The worst men I've ever met in my life were from Match.com. The last man I met on Match.com was 5 years ago...when I was done with Match. He's an abusive bully narcissist (redundant?). He couldn't get a date any other way and surely no one who personally knows him would fix him up or introduce him to women. Five years ago, after I literally ran from him, I see he's still on Match.com, and other sites as well, scamming women. He is not looking for a date/relationship, he is looking for victims. He uses them for sex and moves onto the next victim. I think this is very typical, not an isolated case/situation.
When I told him what I thought, he bragged, "That's what almost all of the men on the site do -- get the woman pumped up, sell her a dream to get free, no-strings sex, and then dump her after sex -- it is what it is", he said. That's what he told me and 5 years later he is still an active member -- a very active member. His former neighbor whom I ran into last year told me he's had his tires flattened and other things happen and yet he still keeps conning and duping women on Match and other sites. In my opinion this is the type of people the site attracts. This is the reputation Match has created for themselves. Disgusting. Waste of time and money.
In my opinion there's something wrong with the men on the site. Every man, about 8 total, I met all had this same juvenile high-school boy attitude. I think it attracts mostly (not all, but mostly) scumbag narcissists and that it's a safe, anonymous playing field for sexual predators (perhaps not those with a sexual fetish for children or underage teens) meaning those who will screw anything 18+ in a skirt. Based on my experiences I personally think the men on Match are married and/or losers who can't get a date any other way and they are serial daters looking for sex at the women's emotional expense. I had the worst experiences with these men and once even had to call the police on one of them who had harassed me. The other stories were equally as disappointing and awful. A waste of time and money. I quit 5 years ago while I still had my dignity and self-respect.
BUT...this last guy I dated, 5 years ago, is still on the site every night for the past 5 years. I am able to access the site and have observed his activity for 5 years -- not because I care about him, but was interested in the psychology behind this man/boy juvenile-like behavior and also check in as sort of like my own unscientific but accurate social experiment and have authored a book about this -- no I do not mention Match in the book. He doesn't know my girlfriends and my sister and I all watch and we can see him on-line plotting, conning and drooling over his next victim, and although I can't respond as I am not a member (not that I want to) he is constantly scoping out new victims -- for 5years now so he has a sufficient number in the pipeline.
It's like a part-time job for him and these serial daters who have no intentions of having a real relationship because the site tends to attract narcissists. There is no hope/therapy/cure for narcissism and the narcissist cannot love you back -- ever. Narcissists have victims, not girlfriends and spouses. In an region/area where the women clearly outnumber the men 1:3, he and others have been on every day for years. Match doesn't track this pattern or care...they only care that these men are paying them and that is all they seem to care about -- M-O-N-E-Y.
Reviewed Oct. 31, 2014
I had been talking to someone online and I got this email: "Re: Hello - I pulled up your profile and came up with what I could not believe. You can see it for yourself, just follow the link or copy and paste it on your browser and see what am talking about. I think there should be an explanation for it. Kindly view and see for yourself. Hope to hear from you." You can tell it is a scam... but this is one of many. Anyone else getting these type of emails?
Reviewed Oct. 24, 2014
I am talking to all the women out there who are looking for a relationship. Do not for any reason try it, it is a waste of money and you will end up feeling worse than how you started!! This is a hook up site. I wish I had read something similar before I joined and it would save me a horrible summer.
I am an attractive woman, mid thirties with a good job but new in big London, so difficult to meet people. I received hundreds of winks and inappropriate emails from very old or very young men. A lot of men that clearly we had nothing in common (physically, financially or career like). You could see that some pictures are fake (one of them had a picture of Will Smith)!!! All of them asked my phone number in the first few emails.
Finally the bankers started their game and I am talking about real players. Plenty of emails, CVs, facebook and LinkedIn accounts so you will feel safe. Very polite and true gentlemen. And then expensive dinners (they pay for everything, I have to give this to them), texting all day long for weeks so you get used to it, come to pick me up from work so I don't walk or use the tube, plans for trips, activities. They will say they want a relationship, they are hurt, they want to settle, they will always tell you that all the other girls were ugly or uneducated and you have the whole package (which is true, so why not believe it?). And finally when I was relaxed and thought that they were interested and I let go, they disappeared and did not even reply to texts. Well, they were not abducted by aliens, the next girl was available, so they use it to have an easy day for sometime, eventually some sex and then off for the next pretty girl. And for you who wonder why I did it twice, after the first one I did not think it would happen again and gave the second one a really hard time, making him wait a lot, but he was willing to give a damned good performance, no matter how long it took him.
So, unless you are looking for a hook up (for which in my opinion an attractive woman does not need match, we can find men easily for that) do not join. I did not even ask for refund, unsubscribed and do not want to hear about this again.
Reviewed Oct. 24, 2014
I had a terrible experience with Match. DO NOT SIGN UP! It is actually a scam. The people on there are all strange. I met up with three men and they all stalked me and constantly texted/called me. Therefore, I am done. When I tried to get a refund for a terrible and scary experience, and also not even utilizing the account for months due to a surgery, they would not give it to me. They want to collect as much money as possible without even actually doing what they can for you. They will charge your credit card without notifying you. Customer service was extremely rude as well, very condescending, and they only want your money.
Reviewed Oct. 23, 2014
I found out that my legal husband who is still married to me opened an account with Match.com. I called this company to complain that the screening process is not adequate and that married men should not be signing up. The company basically did not want to hear what I had to say and pretty much said screw you… Does anyone know how I can expose the company and my good for nothing husband for unfaithfulness?
Reviewed Oct. 22, 2014
I was a victim of falling for a advertisement and getting a 3 month subscription. I was given the option to sign up for 1 month, 3 months, 6 months or a year... So I did the 3 months subscription - Now one would think you buy a 3 month subscription, then your account would only be active for 3 months unless you renew your account. Well, I am at fault that I did not read the fine print well and I was continuing to be charged for an account that I never used and thought had closed. After contacting the company, they were rude and unhelpful. The first person said, "we don't do re-funds", then when I asked to speak to a supervisor, that supervisor gave me 1 month refund. I was not happy with that, so I called the corporate office in Dallas, TX and I was given another 1 month refund. So a total of 2 refunds so far from a company who first employee said "we do not do refunds". So that obviously not true.
As a customer I would think it would be in Match.com's favor to please customers and in return hope that they recommend this service to others. BUT for me, I do NOT recommend it. IT'S A scam on the fine print. Be careful if you sign up and watch your accounts closely.
Reviewed Oct. 22, 2014
I joined Match & all I got were inappropriate emails, scammers & all my matches were WAY outside of my preferences. LOTS of hidden and fake profiles as well. I paid with PayPal & filed a dispute/claim against Match & PayPal found in my favor after I submitted my complaint. I had tried to no avail to reach Match by phone & email & received no response ever. So....if you paid using PayPal file a dispute & escalate it to a claim & they will most likely refund you because Match will not respond to even PayPal's emails!! Good luck! For me...lesson learned, I will not be doing online dating anymore as I have yet to find a decent dating site.
Reviewed Oct. 17, 2014
Joined free portion of site & completed profile. Within 2 days, I received 3 emails from the site urging me to subscribe...seems 3 members had made me their "favorite." I did subscribe, paid my fee...only to find out that there were NO members who "favorited" me! I sent a total of 25 emails in 2 days and got NO replies! Called Customer Service (?) and was told there are NO refunds! They explained that members who favorited me were no longer on the site! THIS IS THE BIGGEST SCAM I'VE HEARD OF IN A VERY LONG TIME!
Reviewed Oct. 17, 2014
I met someone on Match.com who claimed to be 35. It turns out they were 47, and the images they used were most likely over 10 years old. I barely recognized him when we met. This man also gave me a fake last name, and told me he was a firefighter. I felt very awkward at our meeting and finally I went to the bathroom and pretended I was sick and left. This man knew my full name and he continued to text and I blocked him. He must have googled me because he found my email address. We never communicated through email. It was strictly Match.com then by phone. It was when he emailed me that I noticed he had a different last name from what he gave me. I googled that name and apparently he had been arrested! He told me he was a firefighter, which he WAS. He was actually fired for sexual misconduct, years prior. I explained all of this to Match.com and they said they "know how I must be feeling", but they refused to give me a refund.
After that experience I had no desire to ever use Match.com, so I requested a refund. I am sure there are decent and good people on Match, but the criminals outweigh the positives. I feel the least Match.com could do was refund my payment in effort to restore my faith in the company and restore the company's integrity. I still would never have joined again nor recommended the site to others given the nearly criminal experience I had, but at the end of the day you would like to think the company has your back and is doing everything in their power to ensure this does not happen to others. A simple gesture by refunding 40 dollars is the least they can do as well as at least hear your suggestions on how to better improve the security of the site. However, this was not done. As far as I am concerned this company has less integrity than the members who falsify information.
Reviewed Oct. 15, 2014
Well it appears that back in February 2014 I had contacted Match to cancel my subscription. They did indeed cancel and issued me a refund of the renewal. Now after signing back up with Match, my subscription ended yesterday the 14th of October 2014. Now I was recently laid off from my job about 2 weeks ago and was not paying attention to my renewal date. I was contacted by my bank today of the new charges. After contacting Match they refused to refund me because they said they did a 1 time courtesy refund already. I asked if there was a manager I could speak to and plead my case. They said no and that they follow the same protocol. We all know that is BS because EVERY company has someone that has the authority to make the final decision. No compassion for people. I am unemployed and now paying for something 1 DAY past the renewal that they say can't be undone. I could see if it was 1 week or so after, but 1 day!!!
Reviewed Oct. 15, 2014
I helped my mom start an account on MATCH.com. She has been lonely since my dad passed away a couple of years ago, and she is finally ready to move forward. As you can imagine, this was a big step for her. We quickly realized this site was a HUGE waste of money. She was immediately contacted by scammers. None of them lived within our location, and upon photo searching them online, we learned they were all scammers in some way. Reported this to Match.com and all they would say was, "you need to be more specific in your profile if you want to find a real match." Are you ** kidding me?? No refund, not even a partial for the 3 months she paid, even though she's only had the account 4 days. Someone needs to shut them down.
Reviewed Oct. 15, 2014
They automatically charge your credit card without warning. They don't allow you to see the end date of your subscription on the mobile site or the app so you have to have either a good memory or set a reminder to cancel before your subscription ends. A legitimate business would at least send a reminder email that they will be billing you for a renewed subscription BEFORE they bill you. I had to go through my credit card statement to realize I had been billed and when I called for a refund I was denied. They wouldn't even credit me for shorter subscription time and acted like they were doing me a favor by cancelling my membership so that it doesn't automatically renew the next time. Definitely not a customer service based business. Subscriber beware.
Reviewed Oct. 14, 2014
Match.com took money from my checking account without my permission. I cancelled my subscription with match.com in May of 2014. Then in October of 2014, I called my bank's fraud prevention line at their request. They asked me if I authorized a payment to match.com just a few days ago (October 2014). I told my bank no and I reported it as fraud. Now I need to try to get my money back.
Reviewed Oct. 14, 2014
I signed on for a three month membership in April 2014. I cancelled the membership (as required in order not to be auto renewed) on the site in my account in early June. I hid my profile at the same time since it would otherwise be active until the 3 mo. term was up. I never signed back on but my card was charged July 11 effectively renewing my account. I called the company and was given an automated refund process. My son went into the hospital about that time and I failed to confirm the refund until I was charged yet again Oct. 11. I immediately phoned and bypassed the automated refund system. They refunded the Oct. 11 charge but in spite of admitting they could see I was both hidden and never used the site after I claim to have cancelled, they would not refund the July charge.
It is worth noting here that when I saw the second charge, I signed on and saw the active status. I cancelled and an hour later signed in again and found it active again. I cancelled again, sent an email and called the business office the next morning when I was refunded only the Oct. charge. It is a bad bad bad company. I have attached a screenshot showing the cancellation on my account with a confirmation #. The email that came did not have this number and you cannot see it on my account anymore without my reactivating my account. I did not have either a confirmation or an email the first time I cancelled. I think they automatically charge (renew) accounts and wait for the person to call and dispute. It's a scam!!!!!!
Reviewed Oct. 13, 2014
I checked out many of the online reviews as I thought about whether or not to get a subscription to Match.com. I have been a 'looker' on the website for some time, browsing the website features and available profiles. It was quite obvious that some of the profiles were old (one guy's profile stated at the bottom that he had added that last line in "2012" -- I assume that if his profile had indeed been updated in 2014, it would be common sense for his profile to reflect this).
A profile I favorited IMMEDIATELY became hidden a few moments later. The profile originally stated it was a 34 y/o male. Suddenly his profile became unavailable and the age was updated to show 62 y/o male. I have also received winks and emails when I deliberately made my profile hidden for a few days. How is this possible when my profile should not be appearing in public view? It makes me suspect that Match.com is recycling old/abandoned profiles to lure new users into thinking that many people are active on the site. I ended up not paying for a subscription because 1) I can't say that I really trust the website; 2) there are some other websites which are free and offer better features. I hope others will do some research before paying for a subscription.
Reviewed Oct. 10, 2014
Be mindful that all your effort on match.com can be a complete waste of time. Match.com monitors our activities. If they feel our activities are bad for business, they "terminate" the account without warning, without providing a reason, and without refunding any payment balance. That's what happened when I started to have a lot of correspondence. I had made lots of friends, trying to sort out who is best for me to date, when Match terminated my account, after investing all that time, just as I was getting close to finding the right person.
It's embarrassing to just disappear and lose connection with people you've befriended. Match does not supply a phone number for resolving termination issues. They handle it with what appears to be automated emails, telling you to read their terms and services, without specifying. And it's an invasion of privacy to read one's personal messages and monitor activities. This organization is out of control. Poised for a class action lawsuit.
On top of having wasted a considerable amount of my time, having separated me from people, especially one person that I was developing attachment to, and embarrassing me, they did not refund the remainder of my funds, which is over $50 without any explanation. If you're the type of person who is planning to use the service frequently, Be Careful, Your entire experience and bridges you build on match can all be wasted time, if someone there decided to terminate your account, especially if you have excessive activity.
Reviewed Oct. 9, 2014
I came on match.com because I was told by the site that BBBW and BHM were a huge part of the site. This is NOT true. Paid for 6 months and met no one except men who wanted a warm place to put it OR were romance scammers or cat fish. It's really sad. Now that my "paid" time is up and I'm on the free time, there are no new choices for me to contact. Don't think this is the right way to meet anyone. Good luck to the thin ladies out there. Maybe you'll get a better chance. Good luck on your search. To top it all off, if you give a bad review (less than 4 stars) on match.com, the system won't take your review. That's why they have a 4.7 rating.
Reviewed Oct. 8, 2014
Joined Match just about a month ago - have already reported almost 40 fakes or scammers. There are so many guys listed as widows all with no preferences - a dead giveaway! Match says they have a team of people who look into profiles - well if so they should hire me and fire the rest of the team. These fakes are so easy to spot. There are women fakes and scamming women also I hear. I am going to quit even though I have paid for another month and know there is no way to get a refund. Match - shame on you!
Reviewed Oct. 6, 2014
Been on this site several times, no luck whatsoever.... Will never join again and don't recommend to anyone.
Reviewed Oct. 6, 2014
I have been on and off Match multiple times and I thought I would give it another try. NOTHING has changed and if anything, has gotten worse!!! This site is a JOKE. It might have been a good site YEARS ago when people were finding their match, but as time has passed by, that is not the case anymore and so many scammers on this site. Match also post PHONY profiles on here just to get people to join. When you do, you find out these profiles are NOT genuine. Also... beware... Do NOT give out your personal email address to anyone on here or your phone number until you meet them. In one month I had at least ten people email me telling me this was their last day and they were not going to renew but wanted to get to know me through personal email. I was smart enough not to share and emailed them back calling them a "scammer". That is exactly what they are too!
Also beware of anyone reaching out too, laying in on real "thick" and trying to play on the heartstrings of the unassuming newbie on this site. Do not fall into their trap!! Almost all the time they are a "widower" so you will feel sorry for them and they also call you cute names like "sweetie"..."honey"..."the angels brought you down from heaven"....I think you get my drift. Don't get sucked in!! If you are new to the site be very careful!! I also agree with the other writer on here... They trick you into signing up again if you re-enter your profile. I have already complained to them about this when I left the site and said they should be ashamed of themselves. Will anything change?? Absolutely not...so stay off this site or potentially get involved in one of the most frustrating and possible scams of your life!!! Share with your friends and their friends.... We need to get the word out to STAY OFF MATCH!
Reviewed Oct. 5, 2014
I give this company a zero star rating. I signed up for a subscription for match.com because I thought a paying site would offer better odds of meeting someone who was serious about finding a mate. The first thing that was peculiar (I should have stopped right then), was that unless you clicked the permission to auto renew it would not allow you to proceed with the prescription process! I decided on the 6-month membership (silly me) because it seemed to be the better deal. It also stated that if you took that, your membership would renew at the same rate (wrong... It would renew at $30 more! AND THE AMOUNT IS IN US FUNDS).
The first few days, I was inundated with flirts and emails. I would reply and not get any further responses. Then I got a message from "Thomas" whose profile showed pictures of a gentleman: he seemed quite nice, so I responded. I then received a nasty response from a WOMAN, who said her profile had been hijacked (explain to me how this happens, unless it is done from "inside"). I received another message from "Thomas" asking to communicate via personal email. I constantly received messages from "men" claiming they were leaving the site and asking to communicate via personal email. I did so with a couple of them, and found that their writing style would change (leading me to believe that their profile personalities were being maintained by several different people).
I noticed a quick way to weed them out was to suggest a meeting at a coffee shop... After I suggested that I would receive no further messages. I also noticed that some messages I received belonged to people whose profile "does not exist" or "profile is hidden". The thing that alarmed me the most was that the frequency of this occurring was far greater than chance (A word to the wise: if you respond to a request to communicate via personal email, don't send any pictures. I suspect they use them to create fake profiles).
I hung in for 3 of the 6 months, then decided I had had enough! I went in and removed all my details from my profile, as well as pictures, then I went to PayPal and cancelled my permission for "auto renew", then went back and cancelled my subscription and deactivated my profile. I have an observation about "auto renew" that I would like to share... If the site is as good as they advertise, and so many people find matches... Then why would you need to "auto renew" your subscription? Isn't the purpose to find a match so that you can get off the site????
I went back to the site (just to the "home" page, because I wanted to go in to make sure my info was gone)... Their site recognized my IP address (I did not sign in) and wouldn't allow me to even look at their home page unless I wanted to click "reactivate my account". I promptly closed the page, without clicking on anything. I'll bet that clicking on the reactivate would suddenly not only reactivate your profile, but also a new "permission" to auto renew!! As I mentioned at the beginning, I give them a zero rating because I believe that they make their money by preying on and taking advantage of lonely, innocent people. "SUBSCRIBERS BEWARE."
Reviewed Oct. 4, 2014
I buy 3 month in match.com. I have a lot of men wanted to chat with me. They all begin very nice chatting about a week or 2 weeks with me, after that they all go for a trip to Africa and start asking for money. They send you photos, they call you on the phone, but all ended the same way, asking for money. What is happening with match.com? It is converted in Alibaba and the 40 thieves, don't have any respect for people's feelings any more.
I think this dating site should be investigated. I am from Miami, and ask for men who lived in Miami or near. Men lied on their profile. So far I never met anyone, only chats, and strange phone calls. They hide their phone numbers, send pictures that probably don't belong to them, and the worst part was a man hacked my account very easily and lots of ladies start sending me chats, until I call match.com and I was told someone hacked my account. Finally I resign from match.com to avoid more problems.
Reviewed Oct. 2, 2014
Match.com now has a feature called "hot spot." You’re basically paying extra money on top of your subscription fee. What it claims to do is place your profile at the top of searches for 1 hr so you get more activity. After months of no interested activity I decided to give Hot Spot a try. I immediately started receiving winks, some from very attractive women. I tried to send emails to some of the women who winked at me but all their profiles were hidden. Why would women show interest but not allow you to respond by hiding their profile. Is also an interest that most of the hidden profiles were from women that look like they could be models.
Since I bought a package of 10 Hot spots I continued to use them on different days and times. Every time I had similar results, lots of winks from mostly very beautiful woman but the profiles were always hidden. I did get a couple real responses from average looking woman but 95% of the winks were from model type woman who had hidden profiles. Also whenever my account is about to expire I get lots of winks, emails from women who never reply when I say hello back. As soon as I renew my subscription all the activity stops.
There is definitely some shady stuff going on with this website. It really appears like a lot of fake profiles and interest is made up by Match.com to deceive you into thinking people are showing interest in you to continue getting your money. I feel like an idiot for letting them string me along as long as they did. I've read similar reviews, why doesn't investigate this website?
Reviewed Oct. 1, 2014
I have joined Match on two separate occasions recently and once many years ago. Each time I took only a one month membership and made sure NOT to select the auto renew option! They are very quick to take your money. However the 'matches' were often very far away or not at all compatible. Why would you 'match' me with a guy who definitely wants kids when I definitely don't! This is an irreconcilable difference as is racial preference. Further the obese matches are clearly not a match for my active lifestyle?! Then there are the bait emails and flirts that I believe are initiated by the company. Before you pay there are endless flirts, interests and emails. The second you pay, NOTHING. Then, when your membership is due to expire you will again be inundated with winks and emails which you will then have to pay to read.
This has happened all three times I've been with Match and that is just beyond coincidence! I literally got a several winks and he's interested on the day before and the day of my expiry! Plus there is one gentleman (no regrets here) who has contacted me on every single time I've been on Match and on different sites too! Same picture. Same profile. Hmmm professional profile/staff member? I do have friends who have meet their partners on Match and that is why I keep hoping for the best. You are better off trolling the bars and gyms and would be further ahead emotionally and financially for sure! Match is after your wallet not your heart. Buyer beware!!
Reviewed Sept. 30, 2014
They are making too many fake profiles, plus they charge you automatic without refund. Yes $40 or $100 is not big deal if you find a right person. But they have to do right. Be careful. Make you cancel your membership. I have been there for one year. Did not find anyone - mostly creepy. Never, never, ever go Match again after I find out they try take advance of us.
Reviewed Sept. 29, 2014
The auto renewal feature is a good feature and I have no problem with that. My issues is that they do not warn you about charging your account. I got no notice except from my bank informing me of the overdraft caused by this charge. That is a problem. I get so many junk emails from this company on a daily basis but they can't send me one that says I am getting charged tomorrow for a renewal. Poor customer service for sure. I will never use Match.com again. There are too many free sites to use now which is why I quit using Match.com in the first place.
Reviewed Sept. 28, 2014
Match.com is totally bereft of any sort of conscience when it comes to how to treat their customers. I have now been a member a month, and can seriously say that I've never been so angry and disillusioned by a membership anywhere else. They charge you hideous amounts of money for very small possibilities of contact with other members. Only if you continue to "upgrade" your account and profile with lots of extra add-ons is there a chance to get actual contact with presumable dates.
And then, after this month of membership that I had ran out, suddenly there was 4 more flirts and lots more emails to read (which I can't read now that I'm not a member anymore). That's almost as many flirts as I had during the whole time before the end of my membership. I guess they have specially employed people that go in and "visit" your profile and "flirt" with you to get back in Match's scam payment plan. Avoid Match like a plague.
Reviewed Sept. 26, 2014
I bought a 3 month subscription and can't get a refund even though I closed the account after 9 days and didn't correspond with anyone.
Reviewed Sept. 23, 2014
I paid match 137.00 to be added on their site. I have no way emailing my contact. Every time I try, it say, "apply now when you paid with you should get results." This has been going on for three weeks now. I am paying for something I cannot receive. Please help me solve this problem.
Reviewed Sept. 22, 2014
I deactivated my account when I still had more than a month of membership left from my 3 months membership I purchased. And I just found out last night, they charged me $78.36 on my credit card for another membership when I did not signed up for membership auto renewal. I called and spoke to several customer service people, and they all said they can't issue a refund because it is a company policy that their membership always automatically renews without customers permissions. If you don't go on the website somewhere and cancel the auto renewal, it will be auto renewed. Well, first of all, if they do not give you an option of membership auto renewal, and just put everyone on that anyway, that is very shady.
It is absolutely ridiculous, people call this a scam and also, if they received a refund request about it, they at least should be flexible on that. I never heard of one of those companies who auto renews your membership if you don't call and cancel it, receives a complaint from the customer who did not want the auto renewal and have a major problem with issuing a refund. Those kind of companies are all flexible on that kind of issues because they do not want to get known for scamming customers. But these people kept repeating that it is their policy not to issue any refund on this particular issue. Well, and the last person I talked on the phone was a supervisor, and he just said there is nothing he can do and just hung up on me. Wow.
Reviewed Sept. 20, 2014
My account auto renewed.. I called the next day to cancel and they told me I sent an email, so too bad... Spoke to a supervisor, she said she would give me one month but it was not even a fraction of the three month renewal. I put the charge in dispute knowing I would lose but pay them later. When I lost the dispute they had locked my account and then said they will not re-instate until 60 days.. by that time my subscription is over. You can't get a person on the phone, the people you do get can't help you with issues like this... so they are holding the account hostage.. I didn't like the site to start with but if I paid I might as well see if anything changed. But as I said it is held hostage so now I paid for a 3 month subscription and can't use it... How the rich get richer..
Updated review: Sept. 21, 2014
No need to pursue match.com regarding my previous complaint. Misunderstood and as far as I'm concerned it has been taken care of and thank you.
Original Review: Sept. 19, 2014
I signed up with Match.com for a free trial. The first few days were great. I used my username and password without any problems. Then I was receiving messages from Match.com that I had received views and messages from those who were interested in my profile. The only problem was the company wanted me to pay for it. I am not interested and when I tried to log in to cancel my free trial, it would no longer accept my username or password. I tried emailing someone but as soon as I entered my email address it was like I was blocked to continue. I tried to find a phone number to make contact but was unable to do so. I read that you have to be a paying customer to have their number. I want to speak to someone to remove my photo off of this dating site. Anyone have it? After a free trial what do they do with our info and pictures. I did sign in through facebook.
Reviewed Sept. 19, 2014
I deactivated my account at the end of July but was renewed anyway. I didn't realize this until I received my credit card bill at the beginning of Sept. I didn't do anything about it since a month had already passed but was wondering if this is a recurring issue for customers of Match.com. I've heard from other friends that it has happened.
I also wonder about the ethics of this company when matching clients. I noticed that my requirements were ignored for most matches. Many of the matches hadn't been active for over three weeks (could have been more but that's the longest inactive period noted on Match.com). I suspect these members had cancelled their accounts but their profile was left on. I've also been matched with fake profiles on several occasions which makes me wonder how well they screen their clients (Google images is one source I have used to determine the validity of profiles).
I'm not requesting anything but would like this company to be held accountable for what they offer and what is truly offered. I have deactivated my account again and do not want to be billed for any more services. I don't have access to any pictures as I have deactivated my account.
Reviewed Sept. 16, 2014
I wrote a review a while ago about Match and thought I had learned my lesson. First off, I want to note to all I have used all the services that Match has to offer. Emails, winks, events, everything. I have actually, through sheer luck, have made one friend, a nice guy who after time, we are becoming friends. Then recently, I meet someone else who as it turns out, we are better friends. That I am not upset about.
What I am pissed off about is that it is all lies. I cancelled my subscription, I was done. The day I stopped is the day everyone decided that they wanted to contact me. For a week it went on and on with the likes, emails, favorites, everything. So stupid me, signed up for one month. $38 down the drain and of course it all stopped. To add insult to me, these people either never responded or told me I was wrong, they never showed interest. I went to an event, everyone was 30 and I am older than that. These events are meat markets.
So I emailed and told them what has happened and they said they have too much respect for their customers to send out false emails. RIght @#$%^&!!!!!! So I called them and they say my profile is fine and they are not giving me a refund. I never asked for a refund!!!! I asked them to fix whatever is going on and they say my profile is fine and they are not going to change. And on top of that they don't care.
They are not going to change. We need to start really fighting back against these people. They are taking our money and doing nothing.
Reviewed Sept. 15, 2014
The first "gentleman" I communicated with we talked via email for 1 month. He said he really cared about me. He listed in his profile that he lived in Woburn, MA, turned out he didn't. He said when he was done with his business, he would move to the area. Well he started to have trouble with his business and he would lose everything if I did not give him $3,000.00. He harassed me and I had to go to the police. Of course he removed his profile so how do I report him to Match, so he doesn't do this to someone else? Match does not seem to make it clear or easy for reports. The next two guys were disgusting perverts! I wish there were a better screening process but I guess there can't be. People are paying good money to meet their "match", the site should be more user friendly.
Reviewed Sept. 13, 2014
I joined Match.com in early 2012 and after a couple months of no luck I discontinued my membership. Then on Nov 8, 2013 I rejoined using a free 7-day trial which I did not extend. This week in September 2014 a friend told me my profile was still there and it just says I haven't been on in 'over 3 weeks'. I googled my username and sure enough it popped up with Match.com but there was an overlay window that wanted me to enter name/email etc to look at the profiles. Match.com is using old inactive profiles to expand their user base.
Reviewed Sept. 13, 2014
This site has one objective, & that is to milk you of fees. The default position is that when you join, they open the repeat subscription, which you cannot reverse for 48 hours. This I did, then they offered me a free upgrade, & unbeknownst to me, they reactivated the repeat subscription (they say that I should tick the box to unsubscribe for a repeat subscription, but as I am not reactivating it, I have no way of knowing if this is true). In any event, it is clearly unethical. I e-mailed them twice via normal method, & twice I sent messages via the site. I received no reply. The only way I could get a response was to phone, which costs 10p per minute, & even then the person on the end of the phone was rude & very matter of fact. As far as the site itself is concerned, it is not bad, but the whole business model is to keep you subscribing & snatching your money. The matches that it runs for you are so far away it is laughable, so you are far better off searching yourself. Avoid the site. It is expensive & designed to take money from you in any way they can.
Reviewed Sept. 12, 2014
Subscribed to Match.com for 3 months. Less than a month later, my bank called and asked if I had authorized a charge for a Cupid.com. Match had already deducted another subscription fee and tried to deduct for Cupid. I contacted Match and they basically told me I was in error. They hadn't deducted anything. I had to cancel my debit card and wait a week for another. Charges were reversed by the bank. Guess they might have got away with it had they not got greedy.
Reviewed Sept. 11, 2014
I have tried Match for quite some time and have had no luck finding that one true love. I don't blame Match totally for that but when you ask to send an age group that is within your age group and you get everything but then there is a problem. I don't want to date a kid and I don't want to date my dad. I was ok with that and finally said enough!, cancelled my subscription. I kept getting emails saying that guys liked my pictures and my profile and I was put off because I cancelled my subscription. I went back into Match.com and deleted all of my profile and pics. However the emails keep coming and this is how Match gets people. They keep sending the emails of pictures of guys that are acceptable and try to get you to subscribe again. I am human and do look at the pictures and sometimes the profiles. Well, there was this one that really irked me!!! The profile these guys put up are amazing. Who do they think they are.
This one guy wanted a beauty queen, someone politically savvy, funny, dressed well, was going to be there when he needed her and there for his kids when they needed her, athletic, could have a good conversation but knew when not to talk, could look good in dress up clothes but yes look good in your cleaning clothes too and if he wasn't the one don't worry someone out there was. And on and on and on, so if these guys are so perfect and want the perfect match why don't they have girls crawling on them. Anyway, I just wanted to let him know that his profile made me mad so in haste I hit the send button to send him an email and before I knew it I was signing up again for match for three months. $80.00 + I immediately cancelled it on the Match site and then called my card company to take it off my card but they said it would have to wait five days to post and then I could dispute it. They also told me to call Match and they would refund me since it was a mistake.
I called match and after a half an hour of explaining they said sorry no refunds, so for a minute of getting my blood boiling from this guy it cost me $80.00 and change. I also told Match that if I wanted to renew I would have taken their offer of half the price but I wasn't happy with their company. They didn't care. I asked Match how they still had my card info if I had canceled my account before and they said they keep it on file unless you call them up and ask them to take if off. If match is that bad off perhaps they should take notes from other dating sites that are finding people matches and they might make more money. This is just a consumer BEWARE NOTE FROM ONE THAT IS SO SICK OF GETTING RIPPED OFF BY THESE COMPANIES. Sad that they go after the little guy. As I said I do not blame Match for me not finding someone, I am a little picky and I thought I canceled my subscription in good taste but this is now a different story. To take my money for one email and not even consider a refund after only a 10 minute email use of match is crazy. MAKE SURE WHEN YOU CANCEL YOU TAKE EVERYTHING OFF OF THE SITE AND ASK TO HAVE YOUR CREDIT CARD REMOVED.
Reviewed Sept. 6, 2014
ONLINE DATING SCAM - My sister went online to match.com and had to subscribe and pay to communicate with anyone. She got a hit from Robert **. Robert ** said he was from the Ukraine and he had an adopted daughter name Jordan. He sent my sister pic of him and his daughter. He worked on my sister for about 3 months. After one month he was in love. He sent her sweet words and love songs. He said he was an architect and very rich that she would never have to worry about money which she said she was a single mother on a fixed income but she takes care of herself and her children and did not need money. Finally he said he was flying in with his daughter to meet my sister.
The day he was set to arrive he called her and said he had just gotten a big contract in Africa and they would be there for some time. "I am so sorry my love" is what he said. Then he calls her from Africa and said someone stole his cell phone and his wallet and I don't know what else. He calls my sister and said he was desperate and needed $1000. She told him she did not have that kind of money. So finally she went and sent him $300 western union. Just as she was leaving he text her from his cell phone and said "Thank you my darling!" She went back in and was able to cancel the transaction, thank god!
She ask him if they stole everything including his cell phone how was he calling her. He got irate and told her she lied when she said she would send him money. It has been about a month now and the text and calls have started again. He says him and his daughter are trapped in Africa and in danger. "Please send me money. I love you, my darling." She said she did not have money. All she has in her life was her sister now. He wants to talk to me and says if I send him money he will double it when he gets back to the United States. I told my sister to text him and tell him I think he's a fraud and I am reporting him. Monday I am calling the police and the attorney general's office.
What make me so mad is these people prey on other when they know they are weak of heart. My sister has been gone thru so much and now he is harassing her. She was right, she has a sister that loves her and I am going to put a stop to this guy or whoever he may be. He has text her 4 times this morning and want to know why I have not called him. He wants to profess his love for my sister so I will understand. His name online is Robert **, the number he is calling from is **.
Reviewed Sept. 6, 2014
I subscribed to Match.com and so far have had to cancel twice. I have been ripped off by them already for $115.11. I called them when they responded to my bank by saying I had accessed this account over 110 times during the months they billed me again. This company are liars and they will rip you off. Do not trust them with your banking information. I am going to the BBB although I do not know if it will do any good. At least it will be on record for anyone else who is smart enough to check the reviews and complaints before they try this company.
Reviewed Sept. 5, 2014
Back in December of 2013, I subscribed to Match.com I cancelled 4 months later. Chemistry and match are the same company and I have been inundated with emails saying my account was activated on chemistry. I did not create or reactivate my account with either website. In fact I never created one with chemistry. I called and all they could tell me was that "someone" created an account using my email address and user name. Now I am pretty certain the "someone" was in fact match/chemistry.com. It is a scam. I have had to cancel this 3 times now.
These companies are not practicing with any integrity or moral. To think that they have some pretty personal information on you and further exploit it by trying to trick you into signing back up with them is just bad business. I was receiving emails from men and I don't even know if they were looking at my profile or one that the companies made up! Quite frankly if they are exploiting folks who are looking for companionship I would rather be alone. Stay away from match and chemistry... I am sure there are plenty of other dating sites with more integrity.
Reviewed Sept. 4, 2014
Match uses false account advertising - offers a 2 day trial period if you sign up, but then charges you full amount and says that they won't refund you because you received messages. Phone representatives said that they could offer me the refund, then offered me a 25% discount, then changed their mind and said that they couldn't do a refund because the account was charged. (They don't seem to understand the definition of a refund!)
Reviewed Sept. 4, 2014
Since signing up with this website, have had five people contact me, two of whom were trying to scam me. One serious enough that I have notified the Fraud section of our police force in England. Told Match, after a succession of abortive phone calls, showed very little concern. As regards the rest of the website, their matches, totally not in line with anything I was interested in. Sent me details of women and overweight men, two things I specifically do not want and when I complained, I was told they were just guidelines... So why are they calling them match? Then received numerous emails telling me my profile popular, when only one person looked at my details. When I do a search, not deleting the people I do not want to meet. Search for fifty miles away covering people 500 miles away, etc. Despite numerous complaints from me, no help whatsoever. A total waste of time and money.
Reviewed Sept. 4, 2014
I am 52 years old and wanted somebody within 60 miles. I was getting emails from 30 years old and some of the people were WAY over 60 miles away. The people I did date and go out with were not what I would say were honest with my requirements. I had to settle for what I could get on the site. Pretty pathetic and I did get my heart broken from a pathological liar.
Reviewed Sept. 3, 2014
I signed up for a 3 day trial - misclicked something in an add on, the sidebar regarding a reduced monthly fee and when I tried to get my 3 day free trial It signed me up for a 3 month membership instead. When I called Customer Service (legitimately within the first day after having put the order in - as soon as I realized the error) they were unwilling to correct their technical mistake on the phone or provide a refund. I asked to speak with someone in a higher position of authority and was just put into an email list that couldn't be responded to.
I canceled my renewal of my subscription - and this was confirmed on the phone but now after the 3 months no corrections have been made and the subscription got renewed DESPITE having canceled and having been confirmed as canceled on the phone. I cannot express how flawed horrible and inappropriate this site and their customer relations are. DO NOT EVER JOIN!!!!!
Reviewed Sept. 3, 2014
Don't waste your money. Their customer service is horrible. If you're not satisfied they refuse to credit your charge account.
Reviewed Sept. 3, 2014
After setting up a profile with specific details, NOT one thing was followed correctly. Called to cancel & they will not refund my 3 months subscription. Poorly run. DO NOT use this site.
Reviewed Sept. 3, 2014
After reading reviews I was careful to set my account to NOT auto renew when I joined. I even changed my payment from Paypal to a credit card so I would have more control just in case. It didn't matter, they auto-renewed and charged Paypal. When I called, they said I'd used email so they'd have to bill me for a month, which was half of the 3 month charge. I was told it changed back to auto-renew because I'd read an email, but I am sure that it was not auto-renew because every week I would go in and look at the setting to be sure. This is definitely a case of fraud, but not sure who can stop them.
Reviewed Sept. 2, 2014
I was on Match.com on and off for about 5 months. I met no one. Most of the men were of a foreign nature, and out of the USA, like in London, Cambodia, etc. We corresponded for a couple of days to about 3 weeks, and then bamm. The questions came asking for x number of dollars, for one reason or the other. They are so sweet and nice, and call you baby, cupcake, honey, whatever, to get your attention, and than they ask for you to leave Match.com site almost immediately, wanting you to contact them through their personal e-mail, and or text. Yes, I did this several times, corresponding with all kinds. Most of them were widowers, never married, no children, the only child of their parents, but, parents are deceased for many years.
The photos would be very gorgeous men at times, so how could you not believe what they were telling you???!!!!! Yes, it seemed at times I did not receive e-mails, that I thought I should have, and yes the wording most of the time, was different than it was before, like you were talking to many different guys through the same connection. Once we moved to communicating on yahoo messenger, then, it more or less was free to talk however they wanted too. I have been cussed at, threatened, whatever, and no I will never suggest this site to anyone. I am done forever. Here is a contact number for MATCH.COM 1-800-926-2824.
Reviewed Sept. 2, 2014
I had used the free trial offers twice. On the third time, I decided I would become a member. I would get updates in my g-mail. One I opened my mail and it was for an old account. I tried the help category, sent an e-mail, etcetera. My card was used to open another account because I went in to an old account space; I guess? The site also exploits people: the "free trial periods" are used as phantom profiles. They use them to for filler to feed the members who are lonely. I have written my states attorney general, I pray you do the same.
Reviewed Sept. 2, 2014
SCAM Artists! Don't use -- They renew billing at high rates -- even when you try to cancel online. They are a disgusting company with horrible customer service policies and no care for their customers at all. I believe that 1/2 the profiles are fake or predators. That is all I met --- beware -- OKCupid is so much better and free!
Reviewed Sept. 2, 2014
This whole Match is a SCAM!! DO not waste your money$$. There is no real ppl to be met, then they renew and take more $$$ on renewal, without consent!! BS! Waste of time!!! And money.
Reviewed Sept. 1, 2014
After several years of subscribing, my 6 month subscription had ended. I was on my smart phone to hide my profile and accidentally clicked on the one click subscribe button. And of course, I was automatically billed for another 6 mos. I attempted to contact Match.com through their customer service link which is obviously intentionally difficult to find. Evidently, they don't want to provide customer support because they didn't reply in either case when I complained about my unintentional subscription. Therefore, I contacted American Express to get my money back. I got my money back, but Match blocked my account so that I can't even go into remove my photos or delete my profile.
Reviewed Sept. 1, 2014
I took their 3 day trial offer. I automatically deactivated renewal cause this happened to me before. Even though I deactivated and definitely confirmed auto renewal, they charge me again. They claimed it was not deactivated. Total lie... Happened exactly same way 2 times. I am sure there are 1000's of others. Beware.
Reviewed Aug. 30, 2014
I have taken three-month subscriptions twice in the past year to Match.com. Prior to paying for the three-month subscriptions, there were all sorts of requests to speak, e-mail or meet in person requests. After joining the service, the requests dwindled to NOTHING for three months. There was however ONE request from a local female with all sorts compliments and come-ons. I quickly responded with absolutely NO response at all from that very same person.
This seems to be the norm for ALL the dating sites. ALL of these so-called dating sites are chocked full of deceitful practices. The biggest one being that the sites make it look like you have been checked out by MANY members when in reality you have been checked out by NO ONE! Sites like "Our Time" do this all the time. They also rearrange, add and delete information within messages sent between members. You never know if your message arrives to its recipient as it was sent. I mentioned these deceitful practices in my profile at it was QUICKLY DELETED by OurTime.Com staffers before it could be seen by anyone.
My current subscription with Match.Com expires at midnight 8/31/2014 BUT I have already been stopped from any contact with any members today 8/30/2014. I have already been contacted today to REJOIN because there is now someone interested in me, again now because my subscription has ended. The Money Grubbing games that these dating site play with the GULLIBLE public. Well I for one am DONE with ALL of these sites.
Reviewed Aug. 29, 2014
I set a FREE account about 2 weeks ago. It soon became clear that the FREE account is completely useless as all you can do is search and surf. You cannot contact anyone, ever, at all!! So I decided to sign up so that I could communicate with the people I'm seeing on the web site, makes sense right? After paying the six-month program and spending about 3 hours sending emails to several people, I discovered a serious issue. As a paid subscriber, I can send emails, but only people who are also paid subscribers can respond. There is no way of knowing if the person you are emailing even has a paid account. So how many of those emails were ignored by disinterested people and how many were not replied to simply because they don't have a paid account?
I called customer service to complain about this issue. They advised that there is a feature which allows non-paying members to respond. The sender has to pay an additional $29.00 for that feature. What an obvious money grab. I'm sure there are a lot of account holders on the Match that haven't paid. They are just surfing the site and seeing who's out there, killing time.
Other dating web sites allow people to respond regardless of their status as long as the sender has paid. This way the paying member knows his message can be responded to at least. I find this feature to be very inhibiting and makes the site quite useless. That only a paid subscriber can respond to my emails should be made very clear in the beginning. It is hard enough making a connection on these dating sites but this is too much. Very disappointing.
Reviewed Aug. 29, 2014
I had my name with match.com long before I signed up for the paid service, and more than one friends told me about how exactly match.com works and its auto-renewal policy. So at the time of signing up on 11/23/2013, I paid attention to the following: A. Promotion price for 6 months at $89.96, B. 6-month guarantee offer, C. No auto-renewal.
I did NOT receive any email for cancellation as I did NOT agree to the auto-renewal to begin with. I made sure I met the requirements for the 6-month guarantee, did NOT see any charge to my credit card on 5/23 or 5/24, even 5/25. So I assumed everything worked out as I expected---getting another 6 month access for free. When a new member asked me about my experience, I told him "not that great. I'm still here only because I got the 6-month free access".
I had no idea I was charged on 5/26/2014 for $119.94 until I need to verify my payments for my Canadian charges on 7/21/2014. I called match for correction immediately, Edwin answered my call and told me they can not refund any balance even I "cancel now". The 6-month guarantee is not automatic even I met the requirement of actively interacting with other members. He can not show me where are the terms related to my issues in their "Terms of Use". I had to find out on their website. ---I told him their "Terms of Use" was revised in Feb. 2014 and I was looking at the one in Nov. 2013, he refused to help further.
I don't agree the charge because: match.com should give some kind of notice for auto-charge date and amount before the charge, like other companies do. Match should have better and clearer instruction about the 6-month guarantee. I had no more access to match.com after I called Capital One for dispute, although I did NOT change access code at all. To be fair and correct, they should refund me the $119.94 and get me the free access as I did meet their requirements. I know there are many people have the same or similar problem with this company. Anyone can help to stop it?
Reviewed Aug. 29, 2014
I quit Match after a month and my contract ended at one month. Many weeks later I continue to receive emails from Match telling me about all the men who have winked at me or are interested in meeting me. Either they are keeping my picture up in order to lure me back and pay another round or they are lying to these supposed men who are interested that I am also interested. Either way, it is dishonest and deceitful.
Reviewed Aug. 29, 2014
I thought I had done my homework by researching top online dating sites. Match.com came highly recommended as one of the top five. However, it is clear that this rating does not take any of the complaints lodged against this site into account. I paid for a three month subscription and after two weeks, had to remove my profile because I had received almost a dozen scams and only two legitimate responses.
When I signed up, I decided to put myself out there. I spend a fair amount of time writing the profile and uploading recent photos. I had a lot of "views". However, I quickly noticed that "winks" and "likes" were never responded to. It is as if they fell into a black hole. The site often said that I was "interested" or that I had indicated that someone was one of my "favorites" when in fact, I had never done either. I sent out 80 emails with less than a one percent response. The responses I received that I was most interested in tended to be from very accomplished attractive men with profiles very similar to my own. I was surprised that they initially commented on how "pretty" I was and often said "wow". Who wouldn't be please, right? What a hook! In response, I sent initial emails asking if they wanted to chat.
The first emails came in very well written, as you would expect from an educated individual. However, by the second email, the grammar and writing was so off that it was as if someone with absolutely no education was writing. The grammar and overall thought process of what was being written continued to consistently decline with each email. They were asking me for my email and phone number, as well as pouring their hearts out. (Ok - even I know that men do not do that upfront!) When I said I was not comfortable leaving the site yet, I was either bullied or told that they were so interested in me that they took their profiles down so they could concentrate on getting to know me and only me. It was strange that in one week, 5 emails from 5 different men from 5 different parts of the country all said essentially the same thing.
First, once I initially responded, the profiles were immediately hidden. Second, the formatting looked similar where paragraph headings essentially began with "my background", "my career", and "what I want". Third, all of my questions would go unanswered and if I asked for a recent selfie, I received a completely different photo. Fourth, most of the men were working overseas or had just come from overseas and all made reference in some form or another to South Africa. Fifth, when they sent me their phone numbers, the area codes did not match up with where they lived; or for that matter any part of their stories. Sixth, when I quit emailing, they came back begging me to respond or got very mean. Does any of this sound normal?
I am sure there are some very nice men out there looking to meet nice women. I wish I had found some of you. Unfortunately, I am a single mom and cannot afford to put either myself or my children in jeopardy. As a woman and as an attorney, I can't leave this site fast enough. I highly recommend that you stay off this site.
Reviewed Aug. 28, 2014
I joined the site for 3 months and opened my account on the phone. I specifically asked for it not to have the auto renewal on. During this time i discovered that the mobile app does not work in Canada but works if you are outside Canada (I travel a lot). During the 3 months i did not get any emails warning me about the auto renewal or explaining how it works. I didn't use the site much simply because they kept on matching me with people that were out of my match preference which tells me they just match you up with whom ever... I kept on getting matches that I had already said "no" to or already emailed show up in my matches again...
Anyway, after the 3 months the site automatically renewed my membership and charged me an additional $67... I called in the day after my membership had expired and spoke to the customer service and their supervisor and they kept on referring to the site policy... overall, a big scam... consumer be aware...
Reviewed Aug. 27, 2014
I'm a very good looking man at 45 yrs old. I signed up for a 3 month membership thinking it could save me money. I began with a search for ladies, sending winks and short friendly polite messages to probably a hundred ladies in all age ranges and locations. I was surprised when I received 0 response from my inquiries. My profile was very professional, descriptive and there were about a dozen really nice pictures of me. Nothing! I used their match every day and sent messages. I kept sending messages and winks to hundreds and no replies. Then I figured it out - there are a ton of men trying to score and a very small amount of ladies that have a paid subscription. So the entire program is a waste of time as nobody in the area is there and wants to pay their ridiculous fees to reply to messages.
Match.com is a waste of time. There are no contact email or phones on their site to make a complaint or request a refund and nothing works. They want you to come to their parties so they can make more money from attendees. This site is a waste of time. The only responses I received were from grandmas with no teeth living in trailers. Don’t use Match. They are deceiving the public with their dating site scam!
Reviewed Aug. 27, 2014
I had signed up for a six month membership. It was canceled after two months because I allegedly violated some obscure "inappropriate contact" rule. I know who reported me and what they reported me for and it is sickening that match would do such a thing. I had exchanged emails a few times with a female member. She told me in her last email that she had lied in her profile (which happens quite frequently but mostly you won't find out about it). She was quite a bit older than her posted age and very unapologetic about it. If someone lied about their age, what other lies are they hiding I wondered?
Without using swear words, vulgarity, threats, harassment, or intimidation I expressed my disapproval using words carefully chosen from her profile - her words - to succinctly make my point. Things like "it shows a lack of integrity and character..." and "you attract that which you put out there..." and "there are enough liars and dishonest people on this website already, please don't add to the problem..." Terse, yes, but it was literally one small paragraph and only one email.
She took offense and reported me and my membership was terminated. Not a warning, not a suspension, just outright terminated. No refund was due either so I paid for six months and used two months. I sent an email to customer service explaining that I was terminated based on the words of an admitted liar and suggested they contact the other 300 women I had sent emails to, the 60 or so I had corresponded with, the numerous ones I had conversed with, and the dozen or so I met in person to see if I was truly this cyberstalker, a threat, if there was any credence to her complaint. They cited their privacy policy as the reason they couldn't discuss the matter.
So, beware, fellow users and potential users. If someone lies to you and you even hint that you have a problem with it, your membership will be terminated. Of course, she was free to continue lying to everyone who viewed her profile and no disciplinary action was taken for her fraudulent representation of who she is, what she is, etc. But in the end I suppose it is so much easier to expel me than deal with the liars...If they cracked down on liars the website wouldn't be financially viable. I was expelled from match for telling the truth and doing what any rational, normal, logical person would do when they confront an admitted liar.
Reviewed Aug. 26, 2014
I bought a 6 month subscription a year ago. The first misleading practice was to say that you could pay month to month but then they take the whole amount out at once. So I tried the service and like some of the other complaints on this site, I got people beyond my parameters winking etc. I went to a stir event and found that the men were almost all in their 60's; there were only a very small few that were 40's and younger. I was 51. I realized that it wasn't working so I cancelled early so I wouldn't forget. I called first and the lady told me I had to cancel on the website, so I did. Anyway, unbeknownst to me they took out $119.00 in Feb and then again last Thursday. I saw the charge and phoned immediately - not open on the weekend. Called first thing Monday, I kept getting kicked off the line no matter which phone I used.
I got through this morning and the initial agent was so nice and polite, and he refunded the latest charge. He couldn't refund the earlier charge so he sent me to Jose # **, his supervisor. I was told repeatedly that I had not cancelled; that I thought I had cancelled but I had not, etc. He had proof in front of him that I had not been on the site since 2013, yet he refused to believe that I cancelled because I haven't found my confirmation number yet. Basically he's implying that I didn't use the site but I hadn't cancelled and I was allowing them to take money from my bank account for a service I didn't use. It's ludicrous. Yet he refused to refund me my money. He didn't care if I told all my friends, family or the public. The worst customer service I have ever experienced.
Reviewed Aug. 25, 2014
I was on Match.com for 3 months, & had a few dates. I am not writing about the quality of the dates/service in that regard. I went onto the site via my cell phone & turned OFF the auto-renewal feature right when I signed up (I have made that mistake before). However, apparently, it didn't go through. I did not realize this because, in my mind, it was done. When I was billed the renewal, I called to cancel my subscription, but the phone number on my bank statement AND the number on their website would not go through/was disconnected. So, I had to use the 'chat now' feature. I chatted with 2 different people (Malvy & Kacey) & we talked in circles for quite a while. It was frustrating. When I went to actually cancel my account, while chatting with Malvy, I ended up getting an account renewal email - and was charged $35.99 in addition to the auto renewal fee of $68-something. What???
When I complained about that, she acted like it was some sort of favor to me that they refunded that 2nd fee of $35 - when the website was clearly having some issues (in addition to the phone line problems). I explained that if I had simply forgotten to turn off the auto renewal, I would not be upset at all. However, something was/is wrong with the mobile site, as I had 2 separate issues with it several months apart... and I am fairly tech-savvy. Needless to say, I never got my $68-something refunded after talking to 2 people for over a half an hour. I was not at all impressed with the customer service - especially since I couldn't actually TALK to someone via phone. I am never going to use this service again - and recommend that you don't either, unless you will NEVER be using your cell phone to log in!
Reviewed Aug. 24, 2014
I had an active Match.com account from January through May of this year (2014) and I had about three dates in those four months. I sent out numerous emails and got very few replies. Half of the accounts that expressed "interest" in me, gave me a "wink", or photo "like" were "hidden profiles" when I went to look at them. About 25% of the other "accounts" were people who lived in other states. I live in Virginia and half of the accounts that said they "liked" me were in Texas or Minnesota. That's quite a long haul to go on a date. My first communication was with a scam artist who sent me some seemingly thoughtful messages and emails. When I tried to set up a date with her, she was in Singapore buying jewelry for family's business. This made me suspicious, so I copied & pasted the "letters" she'd written me in google and they came back as a known scam.
After that debacle, I went on a date with a girl who actually existed. The three dates I got through Match were with nice girls, but we just didn't "click". But after four months of persistent emailing and searching, it's not worth the monthly fee. You have to spend most of your time sifting through bogus accounts to find serious users. Needless to say, I was stupid enough to activate my account after month and a half of closing it down because I kept getting "likes" and "winks" in my email account I had connected to Match. I got re-interested, reactivated my account and the "likes" and "winks" all of a sudden came to a grinding halt. I cancelled my subscription for good this time. If anyone has any good dating site suggestions, I'm all ears.
Reviewed Aug. 24, 2014
I'm a 44 year young man from Canada (articulate and attractive) who has used Match.com on a few occasions. While I have met a few nice women online (I stress, only a few) the majority of the experience is a nightmare. Here is a list of the problems I have experienced: - Twenty-something year old women from the US reaching out to me on a daily basis (obvious scams, but I will say Match does a pretty good job deleting these accounts quickly). - Men posing as women (hard to believe it happens, but it does). - 50 to 60 year old women sending me emails looking to meet...like COME ON!!!! If I wanted to date my grandmother, I'd sign up for geriatrics.com - Women who post pictures from 10 or 15 years ago, pictures that aren't even of themselves or who completely lie on their profiles (admittedly, there is nothing Match can do to prevent this).
Here's my biggest issue...about 75% of the emails, winks or likes I send out (and I only send out to my age group) don't even get a response or even bother to look at my profile. I would imagine if these were legitimate profiles, they would at the very least read my profile or check out my pictures (maybe not all of them, but certainly more than 1 out of every 4). This makes me think the majority of the profiles are fake (set up by Match themselves). From my considerable Match.com experience, I would say it a money-grabbing scam. That is my opinion.
Reviewed Aug. 23, 2014
I registered 3 days ago on Match.com. First, I only want 6 months trial. They somehow led me to a website stating I should register for 12 months. One click got me to 12 months payment processed instantly. After I paid, I had such a difficult time to upload my picture. I wasn't given an explanation. After spending whole day upload the picture, a message says the memory of the pic was too large. I tried to make the picture smaller by editing and resave. I finally got the picture ready, but my log-in is blocked. I called the customer service and a woman has difficulty speaking English took half an hour to get my email address. After a long while, she told me that the headquarter will respond to me via email.
2 days ago, I got an email saying that they have processed a refund, which I don't have any confirmation of, with a very impersonal response stating: for the best interest of this member community, I can't be their member; they can't tell me the reason; I need to get a subpoena, search warrant or court order to obtain the info. I strongly believe because of my foreign name, I am wrongfully targeted. I truly wish a lawyer can contact me. I am a physician practicing in USA for 20 years and a law-abiding citizen. I am humiliated beyond belief. Please stay away from Match.com. Can someone suggest what kind of lawyer I should hire?
Reviewed Aug. 22, 2014
I had a very similar experience with Match.com and its customer service. A lot of obviously fake profiles and scam profiles. The mobile app freezes constantly. And they signed me up for auto-renewal after I distinctly declined it. The sign up process makes it easy to assume that there is a normal cancellation policy. There isn't one. Tried talking to customer service, but it was more like talking to a brick wall. The reps basically admitted to every criticism on this site, then still refused a refund. For people who had similar bad experiences, I would file complaints with your bank/credit card company, and even file a complaint with your state's attorney general or consumer protection department. This goes far beyond poor customer service into the territory of deliberately ripping off their customers.
Reviewed Aug. 21, 2014
I joined Match.com June 7th 2014, got a message from a guy who I thought was local to me on June 20th 2014. He gave me his cell phone number which had a CA prefix. (I'm in Colorado) We texted for a couple of days and then started calling on the our cell phones. His connection was always being interrupted, so I gave him my land line number. He was "everything" I was looking for and he said I was too. I found out that he wasn't local to me but lived in TX, with a CA phone number. That was my first Red Flag! We started to email and he sent me pictures and I did the same. Couldn't send pictures to his phone, just his email. Ok maybe he doesn't have a camera phone. Then 2 weeks into "our relationship" he was being sent to Istanbul Turkey because he was a contractor and he was commissioned to build a bldg over there. He was going to come see me but had to change due to him leaving, but he was only going to be gone for 2 weeks and he was going to come see me then. I admit by this time with all the phone calls, romantic emails I could see myself with this guy. Plus the pictures he sent, he was fairly good looking.
The day he supposedly arrived in Turkey he ran into problems with the machinery he was going to buy and asked me for a loan. Not a small loan, a whooper of a loan. My heart sank! I had been watching Catfish on MTV and I thought great, he's a scammer. I googled one of his romantic emails and over half was from a "scammer website". So I immediately told him to get lost! He speaks with an accent and can't spell worth a darn either! He told me that he was who he said he was and he loved me and on and on and on. . . . No I didn't send him any money which brings me to an email I got yesterday. He threatened my job if I didn't send him $200.00. . .I called Match.com after I discovered the emails on the scammer website and requested my money back. Of course since I used the system for 3 weeks they would not refund any money even though my account is blocked and I don't go to the site at all now.
I wanted to make a complaint and all I was told was she would forward a msg to the main office. I gave her this guys screen name and told her I had been scammed and Match.com could care less! Thank the good Lord I didn't send him any money but he took more than that - he took my heart. . . I know that's my fault but I feel very violated! STAY AWAY FROM MATCH.COM. I HAVE TOLD ALL MY SINGLE FRIENDS THIS!

Reviewed Aug. 21, 2014
The worst part of Match is that it is used mainly as a way for men who are married, players, wanted just to sext, or scammers to find a woman to either have sex with, sext to, or get money from. I would say that 90% of the men that I responded to were in 1 of these categories. I found out after I joined that Match.com is known as a sex site not a relationship site. Then when Match automatically renewed my subscription, I called them to ask them why they renewed it without my consent. I was told that it was clearly stated when I first joined that this would happen. They must get this complaint A LOT because she told me the exact wording and where it could be found, when you sign up. At the very least if they want to keep the auto renew, they should make the statement in BOLD LETTERS and send a reminder when your subscription is close to ending. I think the auto renew is done in unscrupulous manner. Another huge problem is that this program does not work properly. It does not match people according to what who are looking for. It just randomly sends profiles. It is also very hard to figure out what you can do on the site, especially if you only use a smart phone. They need to make it user friendly.
Reviewed Aug. 21, 2014
Matches generated automatically by match.com were all poor, with very little in common and no better than a random selection from the population. Anyone can see and contact you, even if they don't meet the criteria. For example almost all incoming contacts were outside the age range I had given match.com. This wastes a lot of time. Finally the site uses recurring billing so you have to remember to cancel or you will get billed again.
Reviewed Aug. 20, 2014
I applied to the free subscription to Match.com and realized that they applied $134.00 to my credit card. I called to get the refund an hour after I found out they applied the amount to my card. They said they could only refund me $80.98. What a scam they have going. I will make sure I tell people never to go on the site.
Reviewed Aug. 19, 2014
This site continually send me emails that state someone has emailed me and gives me a link to their "Profile". Every single time I get a page that says "this member's profile is not currently available. Try these suggested profiles instead". When I have emailed their Customer Service department I get a form sent to me within seconds that states the member has taken his profile off even though I just received the email and responded to it within minutes. My other complaint is that I Google Image every single one of the photos I receive.
I have sent the Customer Service Department the links on the internet that state the photo in the profile is being used fraudulently. I then check that profile and find it on-line for up to a week later. One profile took two pictures off a male model's Facebook page and another off LinkedIn of a completely different person. All three were on one profile. I emailed both the model and the LinkedIn person to let them know that Match.com had been notified that their photos were being used. In one week I found 10 "Profiles" using fraudulent photos. Anyone who uses these on-line dating sites and doesn't Google image all the photos or check on Pig Busters before contacting any of these members is putting themselves at risk.
Reviewed Aug. 18, 2014
I didn't know but I THOUGHT there might be auto renewal like other companies. I went thru settings and look for it. There is nothing besides the CANCEL. So I thought it's fine. Because I didn't wanna cancel my membership for the service that I paid already. I just wanted to stop auto renewal. Good Job! Very nice fraud. And people let them do it even so many complaints about same situation.
Reviewed Aug. 18, 2014
All of my information is reset to zero every day. Technical tried twice to fix it. I cannot use this site. I asked for a refund. They refused. They were of no help whatsoever. Very disappointing. I would never recommend this service.
Reviewed Aug. 16, 2014
I was sent a sexually abusive email by a stranger on Match.com. I responded by blocking him, telling him to NEVER contact me and telling him that writing sexually abusive and violent emails was unacceptable. Match.com customer service Nicole ** told me that I could not write in that way and that if this behaviour continued I would be removed from the site. It included the fact that if I wanted access to the emails in question that I would need to subpoena Match.com for them. It was unacceptable to be harassed by a stranger online in the first place. By defending myself and blocking him I took steps to protect myself. Match.com refusing to remove this person from the site is tantamount to them agreeing that sexually abusive and violent messages from men to women are an acceptable part of their business.
Reviewed Aug. 16, 2014
I've heard much about Match so I decided to give it a try. It was late at night when I created my profile and decided to wait for them to approve and post it before I pay for a membership. The next morning, I discovered that I had a few letters waiting for me from female members. When I clicked on my mailbox to open the letters, I was informed that I need a full membership. What? If the woman who sent me the letter has already paid for the privilege to contact me, then why must I now pay on top of that to open her letter? No other dating site that I'm familiar with has such a dishonest policy. I'm stunned that Match would stoop so low in order to extort money from people.
My advice to people is to avoid Match.com at any cost. This site exists simply to steal money and little else. When I poked around out of curiosity to see what the membership packages were, I selected the basic package for three months and when I clicked on the "next" button, I was shocked to see that it automatically jumped to the six-month package deal. Nice system they have to grab your money. Please stay away from Match. It's not worth it. The people who run this site are criminals.
Reviewed Aug. 15, 2014
I originally signed up for a 6 month service and accessed the site 3 times while a member. I cancelled and received a refund but was auto-billed 6 months later... I thought it was some automatic billing mistake but when I called they refused at all levels from the agent to the supervisor to a guy named Tony ** at Corporate office to process a refund for the upcoming 6 months. So all in all, it cost me $240 to "use" the service for 3 days. I just can't believe this. I warn you, to cancel and get something in writing, not just a refund.. You will need a confirmation that they will not auto-bill... When I received the original refund I thought I was done with them, but surprise I was auto-billed again. They will not refund it based on their terms. My credit card company issued me a temporary dispute refund. I am following this up with a complaint to the BBB.
Reviewed Aug. 12, 2014
I received over the top emails from some guy claiming to be named Thomas "Tom" ** aka Sweet Big Guy. He said he was an engineer, had a 15 year old son named Kelvin and was widowed. I just watched Dr. Phil with a woman was scammed for more than a quarter million dollars by someone who has very similar profile information and was exposed, but not caught. Has that "European" connection. I would like to know how to contact Match.com directly.....to ask if I have given my information to a scammer. I did not give him any money. He gave me a phone number which I dialed and it said it was not a functional number. Then I got a text saying to call back from "TOM". Does anyone know how to contact Match.com directly? I obviously deleted my profile after this but am fearful of being tracked by this guy.
Reviewed Aug. 11, 2014
The most useless dating site I have ever seen... They charge you credit card even without your consent... I had to call for a refund every time I subscribe. The last time, they told me I can't get a refund because I sent a message the particular month which was a lie because I never check messages because the stupid web site wasn't helping..
Reviewed Aug. 9, 2014
Match.com needs an upgrade in fair billing and cancellation practices. I had selected the 3 month plan and was billed for 6 months. I immediately cancelled my subscription and a message prompt appeared that I could use my 182 remaining days left to view match.com even with my profile cancelled. No mention of any refund. When I try to access Match.com a prompt asks me to reactivate my account, and I cannot proceed any further.
Reviewed Aug. 8, 2014
Match.com guarantees you'll find someone in 6 months and will give you 6 months free if you don't. They let you know in big print what you have to do, and even have a setting to let you know if you are meeting the requirement for the month. Then in small print (I'm learning now), they have a requirement you have to let them know you qualify for the free 6 months 1 week in advance or they will charge you again. They don't have this info in the settings to know if you qualify. I used the match.com guarantee about 15 years ago and the free 6 months was automatic. They are able to auto bill, why can't their supposedly smart system match it against who qualifies - they know who does as they are letting you know you qualify in your settings. This is just bogus.
Reviewed Aug. 8, 2014
After about 5 weeks on Match, I met someone that I wanted to date exclusively, but did not want to cancel my membership because I pre-paid for 12 months of their service. They did not have a "on-hold" feature so I removed my pictures and then removed the profile description info from my Match account. Match requires a 200-character entry in the "My Details" section so I entered "I am now dating one person and not currently looking." They review everything you add to your profile to make sure you're not circumventing their pricey site by supplying your private email address. Somehow they concluded that I might be married or something and terminated my account, just 5 weeks into my 52-week subscription.
Summary: I have been mostly unhappy with their service even before they terminated my account. The only intelligent thing that Match.com has going for it is the choice of a short and intuitive name, "Match." They do a very poor job at offering you good matches and they have so little profile data available for their members, it's very hard to do any research on your own. They have a summary section where you describe yourself and/or what you seek, and they ask for some physical description data, and little more. Mostly, you just look over a few general pieces of information on the person, and if you like their picture (which is not always up-to-date) you email them hoping that they will reply and you take it from there. You have a lot of 'misses' and very few 'hits'.
I did a little looking around after I subscribed to Match (wrong order to do things, I know!). I found another dating site that had a free option so I created a free account. Even with the free account on Cupid, the site was a much better dating service because you can find out a lot about a person before you decide to contact them. This helps you become more efficient in your emails which do take time!
So now I am kicking myself for paying for Match when Cupid is MUCH better for free, and then to add further insult, Match cancels my 52-week membership on week number 5! I sent a complaint (more of a waste of my time) to their customer service and am still waiting a response, but really, losing my Match membership does much more damage to my pride than anything else. It will have very little impact on my dating, assuming my current girl does not work out.
Reviewed Aug. 8, 2014
I continue to get contacts from military men even though I called Match with some concerns that I have. Match did change some things on my profile which has helped some. I have changed my occupation which now has changed the amount of incoming contacts. I asked Match about when I log onto the site, I get automatic chats, are those generated people that are potential matches for me. Match reply was "yes they are." I informed Match about why am I speaking to people that all have the similar stories, backgrounds when asked basic questions as what type of work, how long have you been on the site, what are you looking to find. Match replied this was her first encounter of a member bringing this to attention.
The person I spoke with on Match was a little convincing that the site security was great but not perfect. Since my call with Match I have experienced less generated chats, different screen names with same picture and profile, phone calls from foreigners that I can't hardly understand or hardly hear, phone suddenly disconnects. I will be contacting Match about my new concerns and informing them I will be canceling my account. This will be interesting to find out what will happen next.
Reviewed Aug. 7, 2014
On Feb 11, 2014, I got on Match.com to cancel my account. It is hard to cancel given their interface. I was sure I had done so. I come to find out that they auto-renewed twice at $71.97 each time. The customer service representative did refund one auto-renew charge but not the second one. They sent me a PO Box number (seems antiquated) but I suspect if I spend time they won't do anything about it. If you are going to auto renew, make it clear to folks. It's not. Be straight and clear. They do this funny (you'll save this much). Then when someone wants to cancel let them do it easily. The company spends the money they make fielding complaints. I will never use Match.com again due to this.
Reviewed Aug. 6, 2014
After speaking with multiple people on the customer care line, I learned they do not offer refunds in any situation. I was under the impression I would be paying by the month, instead three months' amount was taken from my account. I would strongly recommend being cautious with the billing on this site. The people answering the phones at the customer "care" center could not speak clearly, and were extremely hard to understand.
Reviewed Aug. 6, 2014
Not only is it close to impossible to CANCEL your subscription, but the entire year I was on MATCH.COM, I got no more than five responses. Been off 6 months (finally), and each week I get notified that I've gotten mail or someone has "like" me or tried to contact me. WHAT A SCAM-- just to get you to re-sign up!
Reviewed Aug. 3, 2014
I have no idea what is going on with my account. I found a phone # but can't get a hold of anyone. My 6 months was coming up and I qualified for the next 6 months free, I think. I couldn't find information on when my account would be up and how to get the next 6 months for free. I was able to sign up for a STIR and they billed my account within minutes. When I tried to use Match and contact someone, a pop-up told me my subscription was cancelled. We'll see if they let me into the STIR.
Reviewed Aug. 2, 2014
I was a member of Match for a month when my account was hacked and I couldn't log in. When I contacted Match.com over the phone, I was told my account was closed for "suspicious activity" and I had to create a new account. When I asked for a refund, I was refused and I was still billed even though Match closed my account without even notifying me.
Reviewed Aug. 2, 2014
Having forgot my password I am trying to cancel my subscription. When you follow the match.com link to retrieve your password via your email the link does nothing. It would appear that this single full-time dad will be charged like untold numbers before him for a service that he doesn't want or can afford. Avoid this site at all costs. Plenty of Fish has many users and won't cost you money you don't have... most of the users are the same.
Reviewed Aug. 1, 2014
Account setting was set to non-renewal and they have renewed my account and charged me $59.97 3 days ago and refuse to refund the money. I have told them that they are welcome to prorate and charge me for the 3 days of the 3-month subscription, and they are refusing to do anything. Since a new subscription was started several months ago, they say that they can reset my account settings to suit their purpose which is to charge people without any notification regarding end of subscription, etc. When you don't have a subscription they also bombard you with emails and notifications to entice you to join and then play this type of game when you do join.
Most of the people on the site that you might be trying to contact also don't have subscriptions, so basically you are wasting money trying to contact somebody who cannot even see who was trying to contact them. Information is hidden so they get them to subscribe. Hate the site, hate their policy, hate the games they play and I cannot believe that this can be legal. Have actually had very good experience on other free web sites, with much better policies. Have started a dispute with the credit card company, we will see where it goes. Do not subscribe to Match, it is a waste of time and look elsewhere. They get a hold of your credit card information and do not let go.
Reviewed Aug. 1, 2014
I was trying to send an email to someone and I got to the payment option which was fine. I was change the year for 227 instead of what I asked so immediately I call them. They told me I couldn't get a full refund back because I use the service which was not true. Do not have a membership with Match.com. Their customer service was not good either.
Reviewed July 31, 2014
The snakes at Match automatically set you up for auto renewal of your account. When I went through all of the cancellation selections they STILL charged me another month and told me I didn't turn off the auto renewal. Why would I want to renew when I was cancelling? Why wouldn't the selection of CANCEL automatically tell them to STOP CHARGING ME?
Reviewed July 29, 2014
Just do not get caught up with the advertisement hype. Signed up for monthly, got instantly charged annual fee and company denied any corrections. Not an accommodating company, do not fall for that feeling that you will be ok because it only happens to others. Do not give any credit card information to this company.
Reviewed July 29, 2014
I do realize that they say in the agreement that they "offer" an automatic renewal...get this....so that your online experience will not be interrupted!!! ! Give me a break. It's so you won't notice that your original subscription is about to end and the new one is about to begin, only to drain your bank account of the membership fee all over again.
This morning, I noticed my bank account shy the amount of $119. It was Match.com that had taken my hard-earned money. The transaction was pending according to my bank. I went on Match.com to try and cancel my subscription. (They make THAT area difficult to find BTW.) I found the area finally and cancelled my subscription, but I am still in Match.com for another six months. (I didn't cancel in time.) IMMEDIATELY in my inbox was an email from Match.com saying they were sorry I was cancelling and would I like to re-subscribe!!!!! The answer was NO. Excuse me....but if they had sent, out of human decency, an email reminding me that my AUTOMATIC RENEWAL DATE was approaching, I would not be so pissed off.
Reviewed July 28, 2014
I am receiving daily emails from Match.com from different subscribers wanting to contact me. I have never subscribed to this service. Have never contacted anyone from this service. Have gone to Match.com to unsubscribe my email address 2 times. Have gone to my spam and tried to block Match.com on a daily basis.
Reviewed July 27, 2014
A few years ago I tried Match. It was as bad as everybody has said in the prior postings, and my experiences are much the same as those that have already been aired. No point in restatement. However, certainly some good advice on subscribing to any service is to follow this protocol. I learned this from issues with other types of subscriptions before this.
Try using one of those debit cards to pay the subscription and not the one hooked into your bank account but, one you have to load with money. Put enough on to cover the subscription and they have nothing to charge against in the future. Most people have back up credit cards they do not use often. If the load use debit card doesn't work, use this type of card to set up the subscription. When the bill comes, call the card company and tell them you think there may be an issue and the number has been compromised (You are still responsible for the subscription and you need to pay the bill). They will send you a new card and number as well as block and flag the account for the old number. When the site tries to auto renew - nada, they can't auto charge because there is nothing valid to charge. If an outfit like Match auto bills and won't refund, your account has been technically compromised so, it is not necessarily untrue - your CC account has been compromised.
Complaining here is all well and good but, people need to take it the next level. At least get something done by voicing and writing your complaint to a group that can do something. Go to the US Consumer Protection Agency website and file a complaint. There is a sample complaint form you can use. Then, using this form, complain to your State's Attorney General. via email or snail mail. Match and the rest of the scam dating sites do not make enough profit to bribe every official in every State to ignore complaints. At least there is a chance some new safeguards can be put in place. If people had done this over the years, there would be millions of complaints filed and something done by now.
If more people followed this protocol, much of this could be stopped on any subscription site. I believe after all these years Match has PO'd millions of paid users. Had they have done this, they wouldn't have been charged in the first place and somebody would be watching sites like Match more closely. It takes an hour or less. Is your time really worth more than the hassle if you don't do these things than the cost and grief of trying to get resolution that isn't going to happen?
Reviewed July 26, 2014
For 5 days I've in contact with a woman by the name "Mary **". She's very friendly and cunning, then asked for a $1000.00 because her purse was stolen in London. This went on for 5 days, asking for money be sent to her. I even asked for her hotel phone number, she didn't answer my question, just ignored it. She also claimed to be sending a package with 115 grams of gold and provided a fake invoice showing all the particulars. I saved the invoice if anyone wants it. She made a mistake by sending me a copy of her airplane ticket, with the name "Mary **". I'm adding the Invoice for the gold with this eye opening saga.
Reviewed July 25, 2014
I joined to see what all the commercials and fuss was about. Then I got sold on a "best value" deal for $79/3 months which is a deal Vs doing the site for 3 months individually. The people I encountered were alright, however after a while I figured out it was not for me. I went to cancel and discovered that I was automatically renewed for the same package "for my convince" and had my card charged for another $79 dollars for 3 months of a service I will not use. When I asked for a pro-rated refund or anything, I was now with rude customer service reps who repeatedly told me that the fine print says that they auto-renew and that they have no refunds. So be careful if you try this site. They are into "got ya" billing and will hide behind the small print while charging your credit card. I am not a fan of companies like this.
Reviewed July 25, 2014
HORRIBLE PEOPLE to work with. Creepy people on this site and you can tell that many of them have fake profiles. It's just a matter of time before something bad happens with someone.
Reviewed July 24, 2014
I followed a 7-day trial link and they charged me for 3 months instantly, before the trial was over. Staunchly denied refunds when the matter was brought to their attention, including escalation to a manager. This is a fraud site. Watch out for the trial links.
Reviewed July 23, 2014
I registered once but I made a mistake based on their misleading advertisement: certain amount per month when in reality is a huge amount charged instantly. The very same day I did the transaction I called to ask a partial refund, to be switch to the 3 months instead of 6 and explained what happened. Well, they said, NO. This is so unprofessional and greedy! In the other hand the website features are immature, childish and even ineffective. All those "likes" and "winks" and people of course are not encouraged to talk. And once your registration is finished, you have to take the time to call them so your profile is not active. Then, they just "hide" your profile. But you can still see the user name, just not picture and no links to interact. I don't understand why you become a "property record" of Match.com. I don't recommend this website to anybody!!
Reviewed July 21, 2014
I get Favorited and winks all the time and when you message these people they never respond and many times the profile is not available or hidden. Here, the obvious of all fake crap when you get within a few weeks of your account expiring, you become the most popular person around but it's always the same, the people who check you out are fake. I'm also very popular with people out of state. Imagine that I'm so awesome, people from across the country wanna talk to me!!! This site brags about how successful they are but I don't believe. It's all LIES!!!
Reviewed July 21, 2014
My daughter subscribed to Match.com and can't get a refund. She said she had no idea it was going to take out 197.00 at one time. It was a big crock of **. I cannot believe as big as a company they are they would not offer a refund for the people who do make mistakes and don't read the "fine print". That is the biggest ** site I have ever seen!
Reviewed July 21, 2014
I just wanted to give it a try, see who was on there and how this site was different from all the other millions. It's just like the others, tons and tons of people searching through a sea of faces. I never looked through the available profiles, but was hoping that the site would send me matches based on my preferences. Well I got them and they never matched what I was looking for. What's the point of specifically filling out the profile with specifics if a random email with a bunch of guys who weren't what I wanted at all is sent instead??? When the month was up I was hoping that it would just disconnect me, but I found that the next day I was able to login. Then I checked my card that I used to pay, and it was charged!!!!!!!!! WTF.
What kind of company has an option for 1 month then continues to bill you? 1 month is 1 month. I did not receive an email stating that it would be automatically billed, or that my membership was ending and I needed to renew. Nothing. Just simply billed me for another month. Apparently that is how this company works. IT'S A SCAM. Why would I sign up for just 1 month if I wanted more?!! I would have signed up for an automatic billing if I was happy with the service but I am not and Never will use this scam site again.
Reviewed July 21, 2014
I have received 5-6 messages from different members like this: "Right_One55554g in Portland just made you his favorite". Then when you go to check that person's profile you get this message from Match: "The profile you're looking for is not available at this time. Instead take a look at these:" They give you several other profiles as substitutes. It took me a while to catch on that Match sends out messages using (probably a former member's profile) to 'entice' you to look at the profiles they mention. This is a deceitful practice and I liken it to Bait and Switch which is illegal. I have communicated the fact to Match that they are sending fake messages. So far they have lied through their teeth.
Reviewed July 17, 2014
I Had been trying to sign in so many times and failed again and again. Funny... I know very well the password and the Email Address I am using. I have contacted the customer service for so many days and they have not responded until today. What are they doing? Shaking legs? I realized that my email also has been hacked. My friend from Match.com received email from me asking for money which I never did. No wonder he was scared of me! Now I'm wondering either this site is a base for all this scammers. Why can't they stop them? I've paid for USD89 and only able to use the site for 2 weeks when they promise me 3 months. I don't think they will refund me and probably they will continue to renew my subscription. But the only way I can do now is to call the Credit card center to block this Match.com to debit my card. I'm really so upset and Very Please if you were to take action against this Match.com. What is Satisfaction Guarantee for? Angry and Furious.
Reviewed July 17, 2014
I am a female whose account got hacked by one of the scam women. They changed my password and profile pictures and emailed about 50 guys. I immediately canceled the account and tried to speak with someone at Match customer service. They did not respond to my emails and now that my account is canceled I am unable to access the customer service phone number. So I guess they are just planning to keep the money that I paid for the rest of the subscription period? This company is clearly ripe with fraud and poor customer care. The accounts obviously have no security and can be taken over easily. There needs to be some consumer protection litigation against Match to protect all the members and especially the men that are being scammed.
Reviewed July 17, 2014
I went to use Yahoo Personals because I had luck with it in the past only to find it no longer existed. Instead, Yahoo was promoting Match.com. I paid the $74 to get started and immediately I was getting fake sounding profile names that said they were interested in me. One that didn't look fake asked me to talk to her on Messenger then proceeded to fish for personal information. I was also getting matches sent to me that didn't resemble anything I was looking for. I realized it was a mistake so I tried to cancel. No option to cancel. I called Match.com to get a refund (there was a phone option to ask for a refund) and I was told they had a no refund policy. I asked to speak to the supervisor and was told no. I asked for a point of contact at Match.com corporate and was also told no. The only way to reach them was a PO Box. Now I KNOW IT'S A SCAM. The brass want to hide from the actual complaining customers and built a firewall so money goes in based on misrepresentation and no money comes out because of the customer disservice. I called PayPal and they refunded my money.
Reviewed July 16, 2014
I signed up for the 6 month plan and within the first few days, I was favorited and winked at by accounts that are fake. It was a regular pattern to keep you interested. I called to cancel my membership after only using the service for less than 2 weeks and they absolutely will not refund you any money, even if you don't use up the membership.
Reviewed July 15, 2014
What initiated this posting was the fact that my membership auto-renewed. My conversation with customer service was completely unsatisfactory and I will be contacting the CEO by mail. To no avail I am sure but I need to express my contempt for their practice. Apparently in terms and conditions it states that approving payment for membership also approves auto renewal. I wasn't aware of this and my subscription auto renewed for 3 months. I am willing to pay for the current month despite not using the service but they refuse to refund the fees for 2 months that I will not be using.
I have had 3 successful relationships since joining Match in 2010. Successful in that I dated someone at least for 3 months. I would say that is not a great average. I see the same faces on the site even tho I have been a member only for 3 months in 3 or 4 of the past 5 years. SO I am not the only one who is not successful.
I advise that you try another dating site or do not join for more than 3 months at a time otherwise the matches they send become repetitive. Also beware the auto sign up and mark your calendar for when to cancel. There is no opting out of the auto renewal. In order to join at all, you have to agree to that. This is transparent way to "steal" from you in my opinion. They know people won't be aware of this and so they will at least double their money. I guess if you sign up for a year it will auto renew for a year and they won't refund that either. A disgusting policy I think. If I sign up for online dating again it will certainly not be with a disreputable company like Match. I hope they aren't all like this. By the way, I am 62. Thanks for reading.
Reviewed July 14, 2014
Subscribed to Match.com. Immediately inundated by every prostitute and scammer on the planet. More than a dozen the first day, with creative names like **. All of an age way younger than I am and most with beautiful women pictured, all obvious scams. Called help. No way to block a group of users, such as those too young to be really interested, and once they fill in your "likes" page with garbage, no way to bulk delete them. And if you would rather get your money back than deal with this nonsense, cannot be done. No refunds offered on original subscriptions. Don't waste your time. There are other alternatives that are managed far better.
Reviewed July 14, 2014
I wasn't that impressed with the site. Their idea of a "match" has no depth or real connection with what you put in your profile. On June 22 I went through their cancellation process. It said I would have access until the end of the period and then it would be unavailable. I started getting some email notices and just checked things out as they came in. I wasn't exactly sure when my contract ended and poked around some until I thought my account should have been down and wasn't. I went in to the cancellation screen and found out they had renewed my account on June 29th. I then started looking for a way to contact customer service. There were NO links anywhere in their system when I was logged in. I ended up Googling and got a link.
When I went there, I got an error message saying that page was incompatible with my browser... REALLY??? You're incompatible with Internet Explorer, the single most widely used browser in the planet??? I downloaded and went back using Chrome and filled out their contact form. They tossed up a message saying something about my mail being related to renewals and that if I bought a 6 month plan I would get a free renewal if I didn't find someone in that 6 months. I had to read the fine print to tell them their page didn't address my issue and to send my complaint. Then they sent me an automated response telling me to go and cancel using the process I used several weeks ago and that they would not do anything unless I took yet another step by replying to their automated ignore email.
I also have a friend who had a Match account. When she became successful at cancelling, they blocked her from logging in, but I could still see her account as ACTIVE and it said she had been ACTIVE in the last 24 hours even though she had not had an account for over a week! She knew they were leaving her account visible because she suddenly started getting a ton of winks that looked suspiciously fake (as in about 20 per day when she hadn't seen anything in weeks prior). Clearly these were lures to get her to re-subscribe to find out who the winks were from. She had to send a threatening letter about privacy violation before they took her account down. Just know that if you join it’s like Hotel California. You can come but you can never leave. I've asked them to delete my account and refund the money I deauthorized them to take. If they don't, I'll be back to post more.
Reviewed July 10, 2014
When I opened a profile on Match.com, I received numerous contacts. Unfortunately, since I was subscribing, I could not read emails, chat or interact. So I joined. Immediately the attention stopped. The next day, prior to the 3-day refund period ending, the contacts again ramped up. After the 3 days, the profiles were suddenly hidden and I was contacted only by people requesting my personal email, in their initial email, to continue communicating. Once you say no, they disappear and their profiles are hidden.
Match.com does nothing to protect their subscribers. They are not protecting the interest of their customers and refuse to refund money. They run a 6-month guaranty which requires you to send emails. Then they tell you no refund because emails were sent. Their customer service is outsourced so their reps are basically reading the same script that is circulating globally. Ineffective to help anyone. I truly feel bad for the very lonely people that Match.com is setting up to be ripped off and harmed by scammers. I'm sure there are plenty. Match will tell you they can't help with fake profiles, but I've been on Plenty of Fish for years and have never run across a fake profile. Shame on Match.com for exposing their customers. Match is as unethical and immoral as most of their subscribers are. Join POF instead.
Reviewed July 10, 2014
I signed up for a free trial weekend and didn't even finish the thousands of questions it asked. I deleted my pictures and profile 3 times. I called and emailed customer service to try to get my picture taken off and they will not remove it. How do I get off this site!!!
Reviewed July 9, 2014
They charged me twice at $45.57 and I can't reach them! I am disgusted with service!
Reviewed July 9, 2014
I joined a week ago and have had over 100 emails and winks and notes from fake accounts till the time I did not take up the subscription. All of the members were fake, the moment I subscribed and paid everything suddenly stopped. Before it was messages after messages. Members are fake, they don't respond!!? Save yourself the money, you will not meet anyone!!!
Reviewed July 9, 2014
I joined a week ago and have had over 100 emails and winks and notes from fake accounts. 90% of the members that are real are never available in real time. Most pictures are fake and/or from years ago and really absurd! Members are faken or the site keeps sending daily matches who have not been active for several months. The site encourages you to join activities that are completely out of your age range! I am 49-year male and they send me activities designed for women between 55-65!!! Who the ** at age 49 wants to connect with a 65-year-old woman?!! The site has annoying ads from sites that you visited earlier!? Amazon ads on Match!!? Look, save yourself the money and headache; you will not meet anyone on this site!!!
Reviewed July 7, 2014
Have been a member of Match off and on for a couple years. Several months ago some bizarre things started happening. Someone hacked my then-closed account, set up a false profile and charged it to my credit card on file. When Match was notified, the account was closed and I did not lose money. HOWEVER, upon rejoining a month or so later, I now get daily (sometimes even more than daily) winks, favorites -- and even emails -- from thinly veiled fake members. Usually these are widows, 1 photo only, profile full of flowery language which sounds like it came from a female writer, seeking women usually older than the "member".... and in even more bizarre situations, these fake members suddenly turn into women. The thing they forget to do is change more than their photo (so this new female may be 6'2", works in construction; or if going from female to male -- the new "he" is into aerobics and popular female books.
These are not just fake non-paying accounts... I have received emails with pressuring messages claiming their membership is soon to end and to please email them at some outside yahoo or other email address. I have complained many, many, many times to Match in recent months. Some these accounts are quickly closed. But more disturbing is the supposedly paid or premium accounts (was someone hacked just like me a few months ago) seem to be allowed to stay up. Even if paid, these are truly and obviously fake accounts -- with the "tells" as seen in other accounts (widower, one photo, inconsistent info, states hair is blond, yet photo shows dark brown), stated height 5'5" yet photos reveal someone taller (standing in doorway, etc)..... My membership runs out in a few weeks -- I will use other resources in the future (if I need help in the future; I may not).. Never will I return to Match again. For what it's worth, I am in the older boomer population -- I look very attractive and fit for my age.. not sure if that attracts more of these fakes. Whatever. I'm DONE with match.
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