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It's Just Lunch is a personalized matchmaking service that caters to busy professionals looking for meaningful relationships in more than 110 U.S. cities as well as cities in Canada, the UK, Ireland and Australia. Matchmakers get to know members and use their dating preferences and relationship history to select matches. It's Just Lunch makes all the arrangements for comfortable and safe face-to-face dates, including the time and place. All members have to do is show up ready to meet their match. Potential pairs meet over lunch or after work for drinks.
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Reviewed Oct. 3, 2014
Sheri was very professional and helpful with the dating coaching session.
Reviewed Oct. 3, 2014
It's Just Lunch has provided me the opportunity to get out and meet some wonderful ladies! I feel a sense of security, especially knowing my information is kept confidential. I'd recommend.
Reviewed Oct. 1, 2014
I joined IJL in late May. I have never had a date! I have called multiple time asking for someone who can tell me what is happening to my account and they keep telling someone will call you back on 24 hours. They never do. It's like I handed over thousands of dollars for absolutely NOTHING! No dates, no introductions, NOTHING! I am so disappoint and appalled. They are basically crooks who steal your money. Now I am trying to figure out if there is ANY recourse available. Please DON'T sign up. It is nothing more than a scam.
Reviewed Oct. 1, 2014
I want to honor Ali by reporting that I think she's done an excellent job truly listening to what I am seeking in my next match. Her efforts have made my recent match and two far better than those before them. Thank you Ali!
Reviewed Sept. 30, 2014
I signed up with IJL about 4 months ago and in my opinion, complete waste of money. The men I've met were nice but the service is off on the level of professional people they say are matches and have yet to meet someone who's graduated from college. I'm also an active person and they matched me with a person who has a hard time walking and can't drive himself anywhere. Totally regret signing up with IJL.
Reviewed Sept. 30, 2014
Erical is wonderful. HAPPY CUSTOMER.
Reviewed Sept. 29, 2014
I am writing this review because I do feel who you get as a "dating director" is just as important as the dates themselves. Vanessa is mine and she gets it!!! The one I had before (not mentioning name) was not listening. Vanessa has done a great job with my matches because we are on the same page. Keep up the great work!!
Reviewed Sept. 27, 2014
I don't usually do reviews, but in this case I really felt helpless and scammed. I signed for to IJL to try something new. My friends did caution me about the amount of investment ($2800-- Premium Standard Membership-- 6 mos/4 dates) and that it wasn't worth it-- I should have listened. I had been communicating with FL representative for several weeks who was very friendly and said all the right things to get me to sign up. She started with saying that I would have plenty of dates and that she had a lot of men that she would connect me with. I did end up signing up in June 2014.
The Rep told me she would be communicating with me throughout the dating process and be available to talk after dates. A couple days after signing up, I received a call from the local IJL person. We talked and she said she would be sending information about my first date. I asked about how the communication works with the FL Rep and she bluntly commented that I don't need to communicate with her any longer and that I will only be working with her from now on.
First day was on June 29th. Very bad date. The guy was nothing I would be attracted to and had a negative attitude on everything. The guy even commented that he didn't understand why we were set up on a date since we live so far apart. I provided my feedback on the date as requested and then got a call to further discuss. IJL set me up with an IJL representative for the personal interview on July 3rd (had to drive 1 hr for a 30 min interview). On Mid July, I reached out to my local IJL and inquired as to next steps and when I would be expecting to hear about the next date. She responded and I quote "your membership determines the number of dates and basically priority." First I was taken back with the ! marks and tone of the email. Secondly, I felt deceived.
So bottom line, IJL isn't what they claim to be. They pursue you and continue to tell you what you want to hear. Once you sign the contract they take about 2-3 wks to get you on a date, to check the box. I have read and heard from others that they had the same experience on their first date. After the first date, it was basically 2 months before they contacted me about my 2nd date. This guy was nicer, but he lived in NJ and Ohio. Kind of hard to have a relationship with someone who basically lives in 2 different states. He even commented that he can see how to manage a relationship with his travel. "Uggh," I thought, why I was set up with him, I don't know. I did provide my feedback again to IJL and just got a simple thank you email and we will contact you when we find your next date. Now I'm on waiting mode again.
The contract does state that upon three cumulative months of active membership or 3 date introductions, I would be eligible for a 60 min coaching session. I have a feeling I won't meet this qualification since I have already hit 4 months and only 2 dates so far. Not sure if active membership means waiting around for a call about a date or not. lol. BOTTOM LINE-- DON'T WASTE YOUR MONEY-- like I did!
p.s.-- I decided to go back to the online dating sites. I used POF and have been on 3 dates already with good men. In fact the 3rd date and I are planning our next date as I continue to wait for my call from IJL.
Reviewed Sept. 26, 2014
I have been working with Debbie **, South Florida Director. She and everyone she works with have been delightful. Debbie works hard to make matches that work on multiple levels and I admit I am not the easiest client to work with. As a relatively high profile business person, I travel globally most of the time and am interested in meeting and dating independent women with interests of an international scope and who are active in a variety of outdoor sports. I don't think Debbie could have done a better job of arranging dinners and lunches with interesting ladies, several of whom I continue to stay in touch with.
Reviewed Sept. 25, 2014
I would like to say thank you to Erica for such a great job. She is always pleasurable to work with. She understands that I am looking for true love here. She is the best!
Reviewed Sept. 24, 2014
My dating coaching experience with Sheri ** was excellent. It provided some excellent dating tips to improve my experience. I would recommend this type of session for everyone. IJL is a great organization and experience. Bob
Reviewed Sept. 24, 2014
Joined the end of Oct.2013, after being told by interviewer there were 5 men she thought of for me. "3" weeks later 1st date with man who wasn't interested in IJL at that time and left after 40 minutes: no lunch. My guidelines: 55-65. 2nd: 68 yrs, hard of hearing, few activities interested in and not active. 3rd: very nice and best time but 60, never married, set up 2nd date, called night before to cancel: I feel he has a commitment issue. 4th: been with program 1 1/2 weeks, "too many dates already," he said. 5th: wanted a bed partner; 6th: 69, nice not very active. No matchable resources for me and I shouldn't have been encouraged to join by telling me there were "many men" to set me up with. Lost A Lot of $ and NO prospects.
Austin is NOT a good place to meet eligible men at least in my age range. Devastated. IJL seems to be less of a matchable company than online companies. Few of my requirements were ever followed because of lack of matchable men to me. Staff kept trying to convince, force me to take older dates. Extremely disappointed, angry, and 6 dates for woman is very unfair. Staff was just doing their job but to the detriment and EXTREME cost for me. I also had been calling the "corporate office" (if it exists) since December 2013, to talk to someone with No one EVER returning my call. Makes a member of the organization feel real good when the main office doesn't even acknowledge your existence. Bottom line, Austin is not a resourceful town at this time for women my age and it's dishonorable to lead woman on with only 6 total dates, 1 per month was all we got, and not even near being a match.
Reviewed Sept. 24, 2014
I've had quite a pleasant experience to date. I've met lots of great people, one woman I'm actually quite interested in. I'd have NO problem recommending this service to anyone!
Updated review: Jan. 9, 2015
I am very pleased with my experience at It's Just Lunch. My dating Director, Andrea ** is very personable, listens to my concerns and takes her time matching me with compatible dates. I can call or email her at any time without worries that I'm imposing and she takes my suggestions seriously. I would recommend Andrea ** and It's Just Lunch to anyone who has gone through a divorce and is starting over.
Original Review: Sept. 24, 2014
My experience with It's Just Lunch has been a good one so far. I have been matched with people who have similar life experiences to mine and it is easy to relate to them. I've had fun dates with stimulating conversation and I look forward to meeting more people.
Reviewed Sept. 23, 2014
I got a phone call with the dating coach. I enjoyed talking with her. The call was convenient and I will hear back after my next date. She was fairly insightful and made helpful suggestions for my next dates. I will know after my next date what to ask the woman I am on a date with.
Reviewed Sept. 22, 2014
Debbie from It's Just Lunch is a joy to work with. She is responsive, listens and is no nonsense. The listening part is especially important to me. I have used other services in the past and they have just not listened or cared enough to match you with someone within your requirements. This has been an entirely different and positive experience.
Reviewed Sept. 21, 2014
My experience with Amanda and team at IJL has certainly been worthwhile! The team has listened to my feedback after each introduction and has been successful in finding the gentlemen who have very similar interests to my own. The introductions are fun and I have learned to accept almost all second date requests to get to know the person better. Way to go IJL - the past few months have been a lot of fun!
Reviewed Sept. 21, 2014
Meeting someone new is difficult, stressful and often left to chance. With IJL there has been none of that. Before we meet I know we will have common interests, we know enough about each other to have a conversation and best of all, I know she is interested in meeting someone new and she knows the same about me. I have been a member of IJL for over 4 years. In that time, I have had two serious relationships, made several new friends, found a few new restaurants and never really had a bad evening. With this most recent introduction, I have met someone who is intelligent, beautiful and loves to try new things. Independently we have decided to go offline (no more introductions) I do not know where it will lead but I am looking forward to finding out.
Reviewed Sept. 19, 2014
My experience working with Kevin at It's Just Lunch has been fun and I am looking forward to more great matches and meeting more interesting and fun people.
Reviewed Sept. 19, 2014
My first coach was Kim **. She was very friendly, but the first few dates were pretty bad. The first one spoke poor english and was very blunt about not being interested. The second one did not match the profile given (she was not a professor), the third one was black (and please understand this only as preference, all people are beautiful) when I had been specifically asked before hand if I was interested or not.
I am a difficult customer and took advantage of NY state's law that allowed me to put the service on hold for a lengthy amount of time. When I felt open to the service again, my new coach was Kevin **, and to be honest, suddenly the volume and quality of dates doubles. Each date I have been on has actually been worth my time attending, with intelligent and interesting women.
Kim ** did not do a good job of filtering good matches for me -or- she did the best she could in a limited pool of people. Kevin ** did a good job of filtering good matches for me, or he got exceptionally lucky with both the size and pool of available women. While I do think the service could work, the price sucks vs what I thought its projected value was, but I did eventually come to like the service. Cheers.
Reviewed Sept. 19, 2014
The men that I met while on IJL were great prospects - men with qualities that I have not been able to meet on my own. The dating coaches have been very nice and supportive.
Reviewed Sept. 19, 2014
I was a little skeptical at first, having tried a matchmaker service once before, but IJL has been great! Kevin ** is thoughtful, considerate, and genuine. I truly appreciate his professionalism and work that he puts in to make my match experiences worthwhile. I've already recommended IJL to a few girlfriends. I hope they are lucky enough to work with Kevin **!
Reviewed Sept. 18, 2014
Working with Obed is always a pleasure!
Reviewed Sept. 18, 2014
Since Kevin has been working with me he has been excellent!! He really does his home work and he has put together some very nice dates for me. I would recommend Kevin to anyone who is serious about finding good dates to meet. Kevin also took time to ask me what I was looking for and the kinds of things I like in woman I would like to meet and get to know.
Reviewed Sept. 18, 2014
The dating coach, Sheri, called to talk to me about the IJL dates. She offered some excellent tips on dating, talked to me on feedback from dates, commented I was doing a good job, and gave me some enhancement tips. It was very worthwhile and she was very good to talk with. She had some excellent tips and was very helpful.
Reviewed Sept. 18, 2014
The first couple dates were off the mark, however my most recent date is more of the kind of guy that I am looking for. With the service at IJL after each date you provide feedback to them and they take into account the feedback you give to find your next match and then send you out on the next date. Working with the IJL team has been a positive experience. My new Dating Director Rich ** rocks. He is so professional, listens and very responsive to my requests on what I am looking for.
Reviewed Sept. 17, 2014
It's Just Lunch, maybe you have read their ads while taking a flight from Mcghee Tyson or even on the radio locally but if you are thinking about using them, run!! It's Just Lunch in Knoxville is pretty much a scam and all they want is your money. They do everything via the phone and when you ask if you can come to their office to speak to someone, they said it's only "for members".
When you ask a representative how many members they have in the area they reply with "Knoxville is just a "hub" for Knoxville, Chattanooga, and TriCities; however they cannot give a definitive answer to the amount of clients or members they have because they claim it is too dynamic. They said in any hub they have around 100-200 members. Well if I assume that their ratio is 50/50 that means there is 50-100 woman in their service in my area of 1.5 million people (not great odds). Then if I take into account the age ranges, that would break it down to probably 10-15 in my age group without even getting into things like education, religious beliefs, morals, values, physical traits, etc. So based off their own numbers they possibly have 1 person to match me with. For anywhere from 700-10,000 dollars this seems like a waste of money.
The other thing that deterred me from It's Just Lunch Knoxville is that they do no checks and balances. They do not confirm their clients' identity, they could have a criminal record or they could even still legally be married. I work for a national lab in the area and I cannot personally take a chance on dating someone with a criminal record. I'd love to use a service that is local and does check people out and is for more serious people than someone who creates an online profile at 2 am. However this is definitely not for me nor with their clientele do I think anyone should turn to them. You are better off with Craigslist than this joke of a service. They do the same amount of checks and you don't waste thousands of dollars.
Reviewed Sept. 16, 2014
My experience with IJL has been fun and interesting. There have been a few duds, but that is to be expected. One woman has turned into a good friend but not a romantic interest. I have been on multiple dates with a few. A recent introduction hold great promise as we have great chemistry. Time will tell.
Reviewed Sept. 15, 2014
The dates have mostly been misses, and my first dating director was not very interactive with me but then they switched me. The last 2 dates were actually enjoyable and the last guy and I really hit it off and want to see each other again. Session with Sheri was nice, very helpful, good feedback. Thanks.
Reviewed Sept. 15, 2014
Great staff in Milwaukee. Liked the protocol (no internet). Met some great people. I think because it was a little pricey to join.
Reviewed Sept. 15, 2014
Kevin has been great to work with and looks for the best matches for each client.
Reviewed Sept. 15, 2014
I have been working with IJL for 2 years. I have met many interesting people, and now find myself happily in a relationship with one of them. I recommend IJL, and I am very thankful to the team who worked hard to help me meet a match!
Reviewed Sept. 15, 2014
Average prospects. I am not putting all the blame on It's Just Lunch but I think it is not worth 5000.00 dollars.
Reviewed Sept. 14, 2014
I cannot say enough about how enjoyable it's been to work with the entire Denver IJL team! Rachael and her colleagues have been nothing but professional and very thorough with the coordination of all meeting details. As a busy working professional, I really appreciate all the plans being handled for me. I'm excited to be back in the dating world again and just want to say, "Thank you, IJL!"
Reviewed Sept. 13, 2014
I joined It's Just Lunch after a friend told me about it and I must say it's been a very rewarding service. To keep this short and sweet I told them what I was looking for in a match and in no time flat they found me someone amazing. I'm a difficult person to match in my opinion but they found me someone great. So I am very thankful to have found such a great service and would recommend this to anyone.
Reviewed Sept. 12, 2014
Enjoy great dating experience with dating coach to enhance your dating experience.
Reviewed Sept. 12, 2014
Michelle ** at IJL has been very professional and thoughtful about matches and great with follow up. And I have enjoyed working with her. I look forward to continuing to work with her till the point where I hopefully won't need too soon. :)
Reviewed Sept. 11, 2014
Very good experience with It's Just Lunch. My dating coordinator, Kate is the BEST!!!
Reviewed Sept. 11, 2014
I just had my 60 minute coaching session with Sherri ** on Sept. 9th, and I enjoyed every minute of it. Sherri was cheerful, insightful, and very encouraging. She listened to my concerns and reassured me that there is the right one out there for me. We reviewed a number of things regarding each of the dates I'd had so far, and analyzed how or if anything could have contributed to me not making or making any connection with the men I'd be set up with. She was very thorough and knew all my details provided to the program. She was quick to follow up, and remains interested in my future experiences. This means to me that she is invested in my happiness with someone, cares about her job and her clients, and is willing to go the extra mile to make sure I'm satisfied with my choice to join the program. While I was not as happy with my experience with IJL previous to my session, I'm now super energized and ready to find the right one. Sherri really turned this around for me.
Reviewed Sept. 11, 2014
I enjoyed working with Sharry and Obed. I have had fun going on dates and did meet wonderful new people. Being a part of the IJL family has been a wonderful experience for me.
Reviewed Sept. 11, 2014
Vanessa is the most sincere person I've worked with at IJL. She genuinely cares about what I am looking for.
Reviewed Sept. 11, 2014
Finding love is hard but It's Just Lunch makes it easy to connect to other professionals. It's great to have someone set up the date details when you're meeting a stranger for the first time. As always the staff is lovely too. I especially enjoy working with my matchmaker Debbie.
Reviewed Sept. 10, 2014
First and foremost, I want to IJL know you are very very fortunate to have Kevin as an employee/ consultant. If it wasn't for him I would have followed through with my lawsuit and Better Business Bureau. He listened and was concern so again he is your life saver. Beyond him I will never recommend your service for it was one lie after another. I had 4 consultants- Kim if I recall was my first, then onto Ann, then onto Josh then ** (who supposedly was a Sr Consultant Mgr) then Kevin. No ever read my profile and this was my third time joining. I vowed when I was living in Ct I would never do this again but Danielle convinced me plus I was new to the Annapolis area.
As for my profile which was wrong for it came out in conversation - hair color, my profession, college degree, professional and lastly religion. I was set up with 2 men without a college degree, 1 was a construction worker, 2 were Jewish, 2 just got off hold not for they were in relationships but because they were frustrated and lastly height requirement which he was 5ft. I felt I was bait for all of these men mentioned to me that I was the first woman they have met. None of the men had any of the same interest.
Lastly I did not hear from someone for 3 months. I also added to my consultants, call me and get to know me. Understand and listen to who I am but no one did. This was not a $200 dollars and not to mention it was $2,000 for 6 dates vs what I paid the two times in Ct which $1500 for 12 dates. Next insult to injury was the way I was spoke to. Provee was done right insulting, telling me if I gave this a chance I would have had the man taking and paying for my to Puerto Rico this past December. Next was **. We spoke, she understood and the man she set me up with was Jewish and 5 ft tall. I called her and she never ever returned my phone calls but emailed to say "well let's look forward in setting up again".
Then Josh finally called after three months. He was let go 2 days later and Kevin took me on. At that point I was so upset, mislead, disgusted with the values and work ethic of IJL. Kevin did the best he could do in correcting it so I again love Kevin. Overall, very very disappointed in how the whole situation was handled plus you could never speak to management for who was ever in the office at that moment they acted like they were upper management. Very deceitful especially when clients are very vulnerable and there hearts are on the line.
Reviewed Sept. 10, 2014
SAVE YOUR MONEY!!! You can receive better service for a tenth of the cost by signing up for Match or EHarmony. IJL has only set me up with one person from my city - everyone else has lived 45 minutes away. It has gotten to the point where they are just trying to find me someone to meet their 10 date minimum. The last time they called me they wanted to set me up with someone who was 5 inches shorter than me (even though that was my #1 qualifier), then someone who was 20 years older than me (which they tried to hide from me), but the best was someone who still lived at home with Mom and Dad.
They set me up on dates at expensive hotels... This is basically a blind date. Why would I want a $60+ meal at a HOTEL??? When I probe them for more information about my date, they are unable to give it to me. I spent 1.5 hours on the phone with them telling them all of my likes and interests - did they not write down any of the information??? TERRIBLE, TERRIBLE service!!!!
Reviewed Sept. 9, 2014
Kim **, with IJL listens when we discuss the Woman that I will fall in Love with and marry. Twenty years ago I was a member of IJL. This is where I meet Cindy, we fell in Love, never that's right never fought, because the woman's always right! Even when they're not! You know you got the right woman when she says she Loves you even when she wrong. Guys that are not comfortable in their own skin should not try this. Cindy died four years ago, I never thought I could hurt this much... why am I telling you this? Because Kim ** listened to what my story; went to work to find me a new mate. Kim is doing a great job! Thank You IJL.
Reviewed Sept. 9, 2014
Kate - professional, knowledgeable, competent and friendly. What else can I say?
Reviewed Sept. 9, 2014
My experience with IJL has been very positive thanks to Amanda. She is extremely positive, professional and most importantly Amanda takes the time to listen to me, learn about me and make sure that each date progressively is a better match.
Reviewed Sept. 9, 2014
It's Just Lunch is absolutely awful. Before paying the almost $3,000 fee to sign up, I was hounded daily by phone calls. Once I signed up, I heard NOTHING. I was switched to 4 different Dating Directors, one worse than the other and completely unresponsive. The only way I get set up on dates is by reaching out to them and asking if I am still on their Active List. I literally have to call them or email them to keep me fresh in their minds. There is zero one-on-one interaction or coaching. They are awful. It is a scam as far as I am concerned and I am telling everyone who will listen, to never ever waste their money like I did. It is a lot of money and it pains me to think about what a waste it was.
Reviewed Sept. 9, 2014
Nika has been easy and fun to deal with. Very active and responsive. I am very happy with the service I am receiving. Thank you.
Reviewed Sept. 9, 2014
Debbie, my dating consultant, has been very good about listening to my likes, dislikes and experiences. Sometimes, I fear she must cringe at the sight of my name in her email but she is always polite and professional and does her best to make this a rewarding experience. I like that I can connect with Debbie by email during off hours at my convenience knowing that she will return with answers by the next day at the very latest. Without Debbie and IJL, I would never have discovered some restaurants that have now become some of my favorite places.
Reviewed Sept. 8, 2014
I have been very pleased with the personal service given to me and overall positive dating experience I've had since joining It's Just Lunch (IJL) through the Denver office. Since I live about an hour outside of Denver, the IJL staff, in particular, Ms. Amada **, is always very conscious about not scheduling my dates during busy traffic times and holidays and many times is able to set me up with more than one date on the same day. Ms. ** is also very good about listening to my feedback and adjust accordingly in the hopes of providing me with an even better experience on my next date. I have met so many nice, intelligent, pretty, and successful women through IJL, but have yet to meet that special one. No doubt, it will happen. Thank you again to the entire IJL staff in the Denver office for making dating at age 53 so enjoyable!
Reviewed Sept. 8, 2014
I love speaking to Faye. She is always so pleasant and upbeat. Faye and her team are doing such a wonderful job, wish I could be a part of the team!! Thanks!
Reviewed Sept. 7, 2014
First, IJL is not for everyone. You really need to know about the service and be realistic about it all before you try it.
I was very new to the area and working a demanding job, so very hard to get out and meet people. IJL sets everything up for you and makes it easy to just show up and meet someone. If you're expecting supermodels and top tier women every setup - then be ready to be disappointed. Most of the women have situations similar to mine, busy, wanting to meet someone for a nice night out. It can be a little random, and yes they do try to match based on your criteria, but if your criteria are crazy unrealistic, prepare to be disappointed.
Everyone I have met was nice and a good time to get out and meet someone new. Most of them I went on 2nd dates. I wouldn't recommend the service if you are super picky.
Reviewed Sept. 6, 2014
Amanda ** has been absolutely helpful, enthusiastic and supportive pertaining to my experience with It's Just Lunch. With each dating introduction/experience, she listened closely to my feedback to make sure that my next encounter would be filled with growth and fun. Thank you Amanda for your invaluable service. Dating in this day in age is not necessarily straight forward or easy and you have helped me understand myself I bit more to find the right person. I look forward to working with your team throughout the rest of the year. Thanks again!
Reviewed Sept. 5, 2014
Whatever you do....do not use IJL. I was misled by Tia who sold me a wonderful story. She said they would give me a minimum of ten dates in a year. Then she kept telling me that she didn't have anyone. Finally, she gave me this man who was ten years older than me and nothing that she described him to me. He couldn't of been more off base from what was promises. I forgot to mention he was almost an hour late to the date.
I called several times with no response and then a date review type of appointment was set up without my knowledge and a gentlemen called from over an hour from where I lived and asked where I was. I said I had no knowledge of the appointment. When I called Tia to discuss this she never returned my calls. I called to ask for a refund as months had passed with no communication and I was told had to speak with one manager after the next. I finally spoke with a Debbie out of the Philly location and was told that the company does not offer any refunds whatsoever. What kind of company does business like that? For the money I was paying I ended up meeting someone on POF. DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME OR MONEY!!!!
Reviewed Sept. 5, 2014
George and Kim are awesome. My experiences with IJL started out very unfortunate. I was being sent on Dates and my Dates had no idea we were supposed to meet. Basically I was sitting in Restaurants looking stupid. However George started taking care of my matches and he introduced me to 2 people that I almost turned into marriage. Unfortunately George was moved to another department and my experiences became horrible once again. Then Kim started taking care of my matches. Once Kim started matching me, I have once again started meeting people who are awesome matches.
Reviewed Sept. 4, 2014
Sharry has been my Dating Director. She has done not an outstanding job but a superior job. Her choices for me and the manner she conducts herself should be noted and I hope appreciated. Thank you.
Reviewed Sept. 4, 2014
With It's Just Lunch, I have been able to meet some wonderful women that perhaps I wouldn't have met otherwise. I have been introduced to women that have similar values, interests, and lifestyles as mine. Dating has been a pleasure.
Reviewed Sept. 4, 2014
In my opinion, It's Just Lunch engages in unethical and deceptive sales practices and shady behavior. Read why the Better Business Bureau gave them an F rating. Below is a quick summary of my negative experience with IJL over the past 8 or so months.
I started this with Josh as my and he had no clue what he was doing. He should have been fired a long time ago. He sent me on a date with someone who was 10 years older than me with a 12 year old daughter. On the plus side, when Josh was let go I was then put with Kevin, whose been a breath of fresh air! The first person he set me up with, it went great.
Misrepresentation of their ability to introduce me to a minimum of five compatible men within my parameters. I have had 7 or so dates in a year's time, none of whom I would say came close to possessing what I described as desirable traits in a partner. When asked if there was a lack of men in my age category, my dating director said that the number of men fluctuates because many of them decide to be put on hold. In other words, I refused a date without knowing it counted towards my minimum of 10 dates. After speaking with my dating director, Kevin, he "refunded" me that date. The first person I had spoke to, Julie, was very good at her job. Said she was from Baltimore, said there are tons of matches. After I signed up I never spoke to her again. We spent hours on the phone before I decided to sign up. I asked for a prorated refund, which I was refused.
I hope those of you who are considering joining IJL decide to spend your money in another. If I knew what I know now I NEVER would have done it. Who knows, maybe you will meet the Mr. or Ms. Right at the bar of a fine restaurant and you will not leave with the feeling that you were defrauded.
Reviewed Sept. 3, 2014
I have just ended my membership with It's Just Lunch, and I have been asked about my experience and if I would recommend the service. Over the course of one year, I have met many wonderful women that I was fortunate to meet. Some were women that I saw again and some were just not my type. All of them were professional and quality women. My representative Ali was a wonderful liaison between the women and myself. I would recommend this service for the man that is looking for quality women. Rather than emails, you're put in front of each other and you meet. You either like each other or you don't.
Reviewed Sept. 3, 2014
Ethan ** has been an exemplary match maker, THANK YOU ETHAN!
Reviewed Sept. 3, 2014
I have been with It's Just Lunch for almost a year... Have had several different dating directors. Results for the most part has been frustrating. Several NO SHOWS and bad dates. My Current director has taken a person interest. She has tried very hard to make good matches. Only frustration is that with the Central location, the locations for 1st meeting are not always close to my home. It appears that Directors really do not know the geographics or traffic patterns for the Scottsdale/Phoenix area. My most recent match thru Kate is very nice. David and I have been on 4 dates, and communicate pretty regularly... This is the ONLY person that I have seen more than once thru It's Just Lunch. Kate Listens and tries hard to find the right match.
Reviewed Sept. 3, 2014
I was promised men to date that were Christian men and this was my #1 requirement. When I signed up I was told about many men that were to fit my Christian desire and they set me up with non-Christians just to get me out on dates to meet there minimum of 5 dates. I refused to go out with anyone else as they do not have a lot of Christian men. To get my money back I was told by a dating specialist that it is 1 in a million to get your money back. I have been through specialist after specialist and the only thing I was offered was an extra 2 dates when they can't even get me 1 date to meet my requirements. This was told to me when I signed up that we have many Christian men. This company has treated me with such disrespect and I am so very disappointed that I did not use better judgement.
Reviewed Sept. 2, 2014
Do not join IJL for the Nashville, TN area. It's a total scam. There seem to be more females than males. After several very mismatched dates, I met a gentleman that told me he had 3 meetings that week alone. I had not heard from Obed for 2 months. My dates were so far off the mark than I started dreading my dates...when I had one. I spent $2,200 for this rip off dating service. I've had 3 dating coordinators in the 10 months I've been a member. This is the worst managed business I've encountered in some time. You will regret joining IJL.
Reviewed Sept. 2, 2014
My contact person with IJL was Kevin. He was pleasant, helpful, and attentive.
Reviewed Sept. 2, 2014
Kevin at IJL has been extremely helpful, professional and a great help. By far the best dating coordinator that I've met thru my IJL experience. Working with Kevin at It's Just Lunch has been fun and I am looking forward to more great matches and meeting more interesting and fun people.
Reviewed Sept. 1, 2014
In January 2014, I engaged It's Just Lunch, based on the promise that male counterparts would be thoroughly screened through in-person interviews to assure my safety and to determine matches based on my personalized written core criteria. Subsequently, the service demonstrated a complete disregard for my safety and core criteria. The 3 male counterparts that were introduced by the service were not as described and were not adequately screened to the extent that in one instance my personal safety was compromised. I've made multiple attempts to terminate the service. However, the company members have refused my attempts and will only offer me more dates. After filing a small claim in court, I've learned that the (dis)service doesn't operate legally in my home state. So far I have yet to receive a refund, so I'd like to save the money of other people that may be interested in joining IJL. This company is a total scam and complete waste of your time and money.
Reviewed Aug. 31, 2014
It is sometimes really hard to meet the right person so meeting and working with Jenna ** was great. I felt she really cared and understood how difficult it was to date and find a compatible people. It was very easy to connect with her, and I feel she worked hard to find me a match. It took a few months to meet a great match, but they kept working and then they were able to find a perfect match. I always went to great restaurants which always helped even if the date didn't go perfect. I am very grateful for the experience.
Reviewed Aug. 30, 2014
IT'S JUST LUNCH, more like IT JUST A SCAM. There is nothing at all personalized about this dating service. The so-called professionals are just well-trained actresses who make you think they are trying to meet your requirements but... It's just get your money and get you finished. How can this be personalized service when you get passed around between 3 to 4 people? On several occasions it was obvious that the matchmakers didn't even communicate with each other. My requests were invisible and ignored until the every last date. I ask for dates within a half hour of my residence in Denver. What did I get - dates who lived one to one and a half hours away. Either they can't read a map or it's just whoever, wherever. They were very limited in making any of my wishes come true because the pool of men they had to choose from was much smaller than they led you to believe. It wasn't really a fair game all along. My very last date was another one from the mountains.
I'm the one that lost $2,500 because this dating service has no ability to give people what they are looking for. They use their sales techniques and overly friendly tone of voice to pretend that it's a perfect date. Most of the time, the men either didn't really have time to date or they didn't want any more than just that one date. I got the feeling they were too professionally busy to put any time into a relationship. I get the feeling that these busy professional men don't have the time or energy to find their own dates. Their mission really is to just have a date once in a while.
I don't find myself unattractive. I work out and have a stable life... and the men seemed to have a good time. So what went wrong? Out of 18 dates, only one led to a second date. Is that a reflection on myself? Or is it that it just doesn't work the way you lead people to believe because you do not have enough men in your men pool. Your agency is devious. Just where did all those positive feedbacks come from? No doubt it was all created within the company by your so-called professionals. After 18 dates, more than three-fourth of my dates complained of the deceitful service they were receiving. Personally, I would not recommend this company to anyone who values their self esteem and their pocketbook.
Reviewed Aug. 30, 2014
Kevin has been great at reviewing my prospective matches and connecting me with great matches! He is thorough and direct; just the type of personality needed to find the "right" person for me, which I am dating right now!
Reviewed Aug. 30, 2014
Sheri gave me some wonderful and very useful tips.
Reviewed Aug. 30, 2014
My experience working with Kevin at It's Just Lunch (Baltimore) has been fun and always look forward to our talks and of course in the end GREAT :) matches he sets up for me.
Reviewed Aug. 30, 2014
My experience working w/ Kevin at It's Just Lunch has been excellent. He is considerate and concerned about matching me w/ compatible dates. I'm looking forward to more good matches & meeting more interesting & fun women.
Reviewed Aug. 29, 2014
Kevin is very personable and even though I've never met him, I feel comfortable speaking to him and letting him know what I need. I like that Kevin is very flexible as he was able to change the location of my date and time when I told him about traffic in the area. I definitely have a better experience with Kevin than the previous dating director. I feel Kevin wants me to find someone through IJL and works hard to help me find suitable matches.
Reviewed Aug. 29, 2014
None of the criteria I gave them was used in selecting "matches." My dates had no common interests with me, and were not physically or mentally attractive to me: all the personality of day-old soda. If the men here did not have to pay for the service, it explains how they could give such positive reviews. Please contact me if you know of a class action suit in California.
Reviewed Aug. 29, 2014
I had a great conversation with Sheri and enjoyed my time speaking with her. I felt that she listened to my needs and concerns and that I was understood. It was a pleasure working with her.
Reviewed Aug. 28, 2014
It has been my pleasure working recently with Suzanne. She has a lovely phone manner and is always chipper, upbeat and encouraging. She has gone out of her way to learn about me and my unique attributes and has to the best of her abilities matched me with women good and appropriate for me, with whom I have stood a chance of really liking and continuing. Thank you Suzanne. Don't take this wrong or personally, but I hope I do not much longer require your wonderful services, for that will mean that I have met "the one." But as we both know, that happening may not happen and as long as I can remain in the game and have fun along the way, I am happy.
Reviewed Aug. 27, 2014
Kate ** has provided me excellent services. She has been prompt, courteous, cordial in repeated contacts. My match was excellent. We have many common interests and goals. She and I continue to date and plan more times together.
Reviewed Aug. 26, 2014
I really enjoyed talking with Sheri today. She gave me a lot of helpful dating advice and promised to help me find my future Babe!!! lol She also reaffirmed that my dates have been pretty good ones and that we just haven't found the right match yet. I have been putting a lot of my dates into the friend zone because we haven't experienced a lot of chemistry yet. It is a matter of finding the right person and connecting in romantic way. Hopefully with the help of IJL, we can make that happen.
Reviewed Aug. 26, 2014
I had a great time. The person I was matched with was everything I expected. Friendly, easy to talk to, intelligent and attractive. We agreed to a 2nd date that I am really looking forward to.
Reviewed Aug. 22, 2014
I am so far very happy with IJL and would surely recommend them! The agent who has been working with me is very caring and polite. He follows the guidelines I set for them and is routinely in touch with me. He is easily accessible and always available every time I've had a question. This is the way to go for the busy professionals!
Reviewed Aug. 21, 2014
I want to express my gratitude to the IJL team for bringing my hopes and dreams for a loving companion to fruition. The initial meeting with Amanda ** was an easy, pleasant experience. She was interested, therefore, in tune with who I am and what qualities I desired in a mate. After each introduction, I was given an open ear to my feedback - positive and not so positive. I asked and they listened! Thank you. It's Just Lunch.
Reviewed Aug. 21, 2014
I really am enjoying the service I received from Its Just Lunch. My director Fay is really on top of her game. She listens to me and I can tell she tries her best.
Reviewed Aug. 21, 2014
I was told that I would have at least one date a month. It's been two months and I was sent on a date with one guy that was nowhere near what I had requested. Since then they haven't been able to find anyone who has time for a date. I've been told that "they're too busy". This is a joke. Don't waste your money. I spent a lot of money on this and then they send you on a date at the most expensive restaurants and you still have to pay for dinner and drinks. Really??
Reviewed Aug. 20, 2014
I prefer IJL to the other dating services I have tried because you are assured of getting dates. I have had two dates with very attractive, career-oriented women who share many of my interests. While there was not an instant connection with either, I think IJL is on the right track and knows the type of woman I am looking for. I am looking forward to my future matches.
Reviewed Aug. 19, 2014
Sebastian from IJL (It's Just Lunch) agreed that I would receive a minimum of 10 dates for $2,100. He called out several male names and descriptions that would be available to me. I rejected his offer because I live 2.5 hours away from the IJL office in Michigan. He countered and offered a "travel" discount in which I would received 10 dates for $1,700. He said that all other aspects of the contract would remain the same except the price. Some time later I found out that he had changed the contract to 5 dates. Even though I provided documentation to support my story, IJL (via Mitch and Cherise) argued with me. I told them to ask Sebastian, and they claimed that he was no longer employed with them. Finally a third IJL person (Kevin) agreed to provide one additional date because of the "confusion". To add insult to injury, IJL has only provided two dates in the ten months. One of the two was a poor match. They clearly do not have substantial membership to provide dates. The catch is that the contract allows them unlimited time to provide you dates. Furthermore the minimum is treated as a maximum. It's clear in all discussions that the intent is to provide me with the minimum dates.
Reviewed Aug. 19, 2014
I have been set up on many enjoyable dates with men who I have found attractive and successful. I appreciate the IJL team listening to and acting upon my feedback as to what I'm looking for.
Reviewed Aug. 19, 2014
I have dated with It’s Just Lunch on a couple of occasions, and each time I concluded my memberships because I have been dating a woman I met through the service. My matchmaker Laura really took the time to get to know me and what I was looking for. Even if a few of the matches were not perfect, my dating coordinator Natalie listened to all of my feedback to help make the matches better. I have been seeing a great woman that I met about a month ago, but it feels like we have known each other much longer. On a scale of one to ten, this date was a 20! I would recommend It’s Just Lunch to anyone that wants to date quality singles.
Reviewed Aug. 18, 2014
Being in the service industry myself, I understand that a company is as only as strong as its employees. I've had the pleasure of working with Mandy, the dating director of Boston and South Florida. I inquired about IJL's services with the desire to meet someone who can offer more than "the girl next door." After being sent out on some questionable dates and working with several dating directors who would not return my emails or abruptly hangup as soon as I expressed my concerns, I was losing faith in the service. However Mandy went above and beyond to remain resilient and empathetic, despite me venting my frustrations and criticisms against IJL.
Mandy took the time and tailored my dating program and requested changes from upper management so that I was in the right program and was able to gain exposure to the right demographic of women. Her consistency has won me back and I write this letter of recommendation that a company especially one catering to the needs of working professionals, that other employees can learn from Mandy's example and professionalism. Job well done.
Reviewed Aug. 18, 2014
In a busy world, we become experts at our job and often neglect our love life. Sheri was very helpful sharing her advice on how things work in a dating world. She answered many of my questions and helped me feel more confident meeting my next match. Thanks Sheri, you made a world of a difference!
Reviewed Aug. 16, 2014
I signed a contract with It's Just Lunch dating service July 2013 for $2800. The contract promised a minimum of 5 dates and individual marketing to find appropriate dates. The next day, they sent me on a date. Come to find out, the man is used on a regular basis to go on dates. He had been on 18 dates. After the date (and the 3 day rescission period expired), I never heard from them again. When I called, they would not give their names. They did not return my numerous calls or emails. My personal physician wrote a medical release letter which was a valid reason for breaking the contract. They ignored it. I had an attorney send a demand letter. To no avail. I got ripped off worse than most. My loss was $2800.00. A hard pill to swallow.
Reviewed Aug. 15, 2014
This company is a joke. They are unprofessional and don't deliver what they promise. I will be asking for my money back. Very Very disappointed.
Reviewed Aug. 15, 2014
I am most pleased with his help along the way. Fernando is sensitive and caring and pays attention to my personal wants and needs. Good for him and good for me!
Reviewed Aug. 15, 2014
IJL is a great program. My new Dating Director, Obed is Awesome! If I had him longer, I would've given 5 stars. Currently 4 stars and growing!!!! Keep up the good work. Thanks.
Reviewed Aug. 14, 2014
Mitch has been my dating consultant and I could not be happier with him. He has done such a great job at adapting the search of the type of person I am looking for with each date. He really cares about what you are looking for and does his best to find that person. I always look forward to the dates because all of the women have been wonderful. He does a great job and I could not be happier with his performance. I have not had a bad date in IJL and know I will always have a great time.
Reviewed Aug. 13, 2014
Overall, I have been very disappointed in my experience. Most of the dates really have not been good matches and I feel as though sometimes I've been mislead. I have felt as though the quota of promised dates just needs to be met and it doesn't matter whether it's a good match or not. I've have voiced my concerns but no one ever followed up with me. This far, Sharry has been the best person to work with. She is very nice and personable. I would definitely not recommend this, especially with how expensive it is; I was expecting better quality matches and experience overall.
Reviewed Aug. 13, 2014
I joined IJL to meet other busy professionals and that is what I have met. I look forward to meeting other very interesting matches and having fun dating.
Reviewed Aug. 13, 2014
It was nice to talk with Sheri. She was easy to chat with and it was great to hear the feedback from the dates.
Reviewed Aug. 12, 2014
I have really enjoyed my It's Just Lunch experience. Internet dating and apps like tinder don't appeal to me mainly because I think you need quite a bit of time to maintain your profile & stay active online. It's Just Lunch takes all the leg work out of meeting new people and I have to say over all it has been a really good experience with most of guys I met being a pretty good match. It's hard to see how I would have done better myself online. Even though I didn't hit off with all of them I have been very lucky in my dating and had great fun. The dates that didn't go as well have provided lots of entertainment for my wider circle of friends so even that in itself is a benefit. The thing is that it is great to get out, meet new guys and feel like I am doing something about finding a partner.
The other thing is that you know you are meeting people who are also interested in meeting somebody. Meeting lots of new and different guys has meant that I have got more clarity on what I want from a relationship and a partner as well as opening my eyes to give lads, that I mightn't otherwise, a chance. Blind dating can be challenging and the most difficult thing is the initial meet up but that is handled really well by IJL and venues are appropriate for a first date and in fairness the staff in the venues have always handled it very well. I have had an overall positive experience and while it's early days may soon be calling time on my single days.... Without IJL and my dating director insistence on keeping an open mind our paths would never have crossed....
Reviewed Aug. 12, 2014
Sheri was fantastic. Took time to listen to my needs for a change. Gave me some great advice, made me feel like I can really do this and she boosted my confidence.
Reviewed Aug. 12, 2014
I want to comment on It's Just Lunch. I rate it a below zero. When I joined I spoke to people for two hours to tell them exactly what I wanted. It took over three months to get a date. I said I would go out with someone from New York who goes back and forth to Florida. I went out with a gentleman who lives in Florida and we had nothing in common. I waited again for weeks. I called 8 times both here and in Florida and they never returned my calls. They told me they had a lot of men my age; now they say they do not have anyone for me. I went on a second date with a player. My third date forgot his wallet. The fourth date he walked out. I paid over three thousand dollars because I wanted quality dates. I finally have someone who does return my calls, Fernado **. He is very polite and gets back to me but I only have one more date left so I hope he finds me someone. I really believe he is trying. I could have spent 100.00 and went on Match.com.
Reviewed Aug. 12, 2014
With all my travels, my busy schedule, It's Just Lunch has been very convenient and helpful. If at first you don't succeed try again. With their help and understanding that Nika showed by listening, I have met someone who could be special in my life, that may have not met otherwise.
Reviewed Aug. 12, 2014
I have enjoyed working with IJL and Fernando of the Cincy office. He has tried hard to find dates that he thought would be compatible with me and that I would enjoy their company. I have been pleased with IJL so far and have enjoyed the dates. I prefer it over the computer dates because you actually get to meet someone rather than going through all the profile business on the computer. If you don't like them you just go home. They also try and find nice places for you to meet. They have all been very classy and nice restaurants.
Reviewed Aug. 12, 2014
The staff at IJL does not really care for what you are looking for! For them their pockets and paying clients are more important. They set me up with a guy who was above the age range I was looking for. When mentioned they did not care about the fact and said "we won't introduce you to anymore clients of ours if you don't go meet with him." I kept an open mind and met the guy (who was nothing I had said I was looking for). I actually paid for my share of the dinner which I was not supposed to as per their policies (elite client pool) and they sent me an email that they would deactivate my profile and not introduce me to anymore people.
So in essence they don't care about their paying members who are paying 5K to be their elite client, and if the 2 people meeting are a match or not. They just want to get to the count of people they introduce to them. These women have no ethics and standards for respecting your boundaries. Dating is hard as it is but to top it all off with this, no really a pleasant experience. After they deactivated my profile they still kept on sending me harassing emails. So stay away from them...all they have to offer is some hokey hopes of matching you up. But if they can't even read on your form you fill out the age range you are looking in, what lesser could they do to match you up with someone!? Thanks for reading!
Reviewed Aug. 11, 2014
I just wanted to share my positive experience with It's Just Lunch. On my third date, I met a man with whom I connected immediately, and we have been together for the last 5 months. It was his third date as well, and we were both surprised that we met each other so fast. It seemed weird actually (in a good way!). My coordinator Abby was really helpful, and she has always been good about following up with me. I was initially hesitant to try the service, but I am glad I stepped out of my comfort zone and took the risk.
Reviewed Aug. 11, 2014
There are two reasons why this is a 4 out of 5 stars and not 5. First, I used to be in another city's dating group/services with IJL and I was less than pleased, despite numerous attempts to get them to improve the overall direction they were handling me. Secondly, the person who recruited me (name will remain nameless but I still have her number) to join IJL promised her personal involvement in the process and despite numerous (6) voicemails left, she has yet to return a phone call. Completely unprofessional.
However, since I have joined the Nashville group of IJL, I have been extremely pleased with their willingness to work with me, the quality of matches and the sites picked for the dates. The Dating Director has talked with me on the phone several times and every time asks if they are meeting my needs, no matter why they called. Additionally, while I do not consider myself overly picky, I know what I like and don't like and the Nashville team has done an excellent job with meeting my desires. The Nashville dating director and their team are doing a very good job and are a 5 of 5 Stars. However, as stated, my previous experiences must temper the overall IJL rating. I would highly recommend IJL in the Nashville area based on the quality of the work I have seen.
Reviewed Aug. 11, 2014
Although I have just started working with It's Just Lunch, so far I am very pleased. Mitch and Kevin made me feel comfortable and they were both easy to talk to. When I needed to meet on a Sunday to save me an hour and a half drive each way for my face-to-face interview, they made that happen. I feel hopeful about meeting the top quality men they will find for me.
Reviewed Aug. 10, 2014
I really enjoyed speaking with Sheri. She gave me 2 suggestions that I really appreciate. Her suggestions made me reflect on my communication and realize that I may not be communicating as clearly as I thought I had been. I also appreciated hearing the feedback of my dates. Hearing how others perceive me is important to my own self awareness.
Reviewed Aug. 8, 2014
I would say so far, I have been having an experience with this service, struggling to jive with the dating directors I was set up with, until I was put with Josh. This man knows how to treat a customer with the respect everyone deserves and I am hopeful for favorable results with this service. So as of right now, I’m happy to give this guy some accolades for performing at the level of customer support I expect that should come with a premium service like I.J.L. Fingers-crossed I’ll meet ms. right with josh's help.
Reviewed Aug. 8, 2014
Kate has managed my account, my emotions and my heart in such a professional, caring and wonderful way! I am so glad that she has taken over the AZ region. She has given me great client service from day one and a stronger hope for love! I know her job must be tough trying to manage expectations of the heart with so many different personalities all at once. Kate, I appreciate you! Please keep up all the great work!
Reviewed Aug. 8, 2014
Melody was very professional and helpful but after 3 dates I lost my excitement as every match was so far from what I was looking for. Kate called me and introduce herself after she took over Melody's position and I decided to give it one last shot. With just 3 day notice, she worked so hard to find the perfect match to date. I can't say enough on the results she achieved in a short notice. Thank you.
Reviewed Aug. 7, 2014
My experience working with Mitch at Its Just Lunch (IJL) has positively exceeded my expectations. Mitch promptly returns calls, shares dating tips, and addresses issues that have enhanced my dating experience. His matches are well thought out, fun, and meet the desired criteria. I look forward to Mitch setting up more great dates and meeting more wonderful women. I recommend IJL to anyone new to the dating scene.
Reviewed Aug. 6, 2014
I continue to be most pleased with the services provided by IJL. My session with Sheri was no exception, but beyond only proved the rule. She asked me very intelligent and understandable questions and was an attentive listener. I felt that the points that needed to be made were made and that she left the conversation with a sound understanding of me and what I am seeking. I am optimistic that on the strength of my session, I will have even better matches in the future, although I must say that to date, I am not at all displeased. Good for Sheri and good for IJL!
Reviewed Aug. 5, 2014
Sheri listened to everything I told her and offered some good suggestions that I will use. I appreciate her time and enjoyed talking with her.
Reviewed Aug. 4, 2014
Prior to working with Ethan, I would have rated my experience a one so a 3 is quite an improvement. Ethan heard what was important to me and I have the first dating experience since signing up in April that was worthwhile. Although not sure this date was a fit, it was 1000% better than the past. I was feeling like I just threw away $2900. Ethan has given me hope this might work.
Reviewed Aug. 4, 2014
I am the biggest fan of Elite Private Search and It's Just Lunch. I have tried other dating services and sites and nothing has worked. Michelle has worked with me and set me up with some fantastic guys. I have finally met exactly whom I am looking for and it's going great. I cannot thank Michelle and the staff enough. Other members have loved it too. Finding love is my most important goal. These wonderful people have done it for me.
Reviewed Aug. 4, 2014
I was very misled. I was assured there were matches in my area and not true. My dating director changed over and over and over. I had to remind them I had not had my face to face. One date told me he paid $40 for 3 dates. I complained about the dates but to deaf ears. They denied they were offering men very cheap rates. They denied they were doing anything wrong!! I would save my money.
Reviewed Aug. 1, 2014
I have been very happy with IJL's service and especially with my dating coordinator, Sharry **. She really takes the time to get to know me and what I am looking for and looks out for me on my dating adventures. I know she's in my corner and I appreciate all she does for me!
Reviewed Aug. 1, 2014
Special thanks to Abby and The Minneapolis It's Just Lunch Team. My dating experience with them has been outstanding. Abby and her team really took their time to get to know me and the things I need in a partner. The women that I have been matched with are professional, attractive, intelligent and the dating locations they've chosen are perfect. I believe it's their personal focus in finding great matches for myself that will lead to a successful long term relationship.
Reviewed Aug. 1, 2014
Sheri is an amazing person. I felt we connected right away. She was friendly, caring, and very knowledgeable. I would recommend her to others.
Reviewed July 31, 2014
IJL is a first class matchmaking service. I don't want to use the term 'dating service'. I've had conversations with a couple of people who wondered why I paid so much when the internet is free. Well, you get what you pay for. I met some wonderful people, all of good character, and IJL did a very good job of matching people's characteristics with my needs/desires so that I might find a common bond with them. I'd recommend IJL to anyone with even a casual interest in having a long-term relationship.
Reviewed July 31, 2014
Like most professionals, I came to It's Just Lunch to meet someone of significance with the same romantic and life goals that we could share and nurture together. Though the persistent efforts of the staff and expert consultation from It's Just Lunch Cleveland, I'm happy to say I met an amazing woman, Amanda, and I look forward in sharing smiles and life moments with her during the days ahead. Thank you It's Just Lunch; I couldn't have met her without you...
Reviewed July 31, 2014
The I J Lunch team I worked with were professional and courteous. They were timely and available. Obed was very responsive and helpful.
Reviewed July 29, 2014
Complete disaster. 9 months in have had 3 measly dates. All require me to drive 1 hour or more one way to meet the dates. NONE were even close to being a match. Clearly the company has not provided and "elite" matching service like they claim to provide. Yet their company policy is they NEVER refund ever. So I am out thousands of dollars for this crap. I feel 100% scammed. To take thousands from someone and provide such terrible services and refuse to refund. My 1st date never happened. There were 2 restaurants with the same name within 3 blocks of each other and we each went to a different restaurant and never found each other. The date was on the weekend so there is no one in the company that can be reached so when we couldn't find each other after driving 1 hour up the road, I had to turn around and come home. Very bad 1st impression.
After your 1st date you are REQUIRED to meet in person with a representative from the company. They will not provide more dates if you don't do this. It took them like 3 months to get this meeting done. They kept rescheduling my meeting multiple times. So now I am 3-4 months into my membership and had the 1 very bad 1st impression and now this mess. So clearly I am not getting a good feeling on this company. The dating coordinator told me he would send me a $25 dollar gift card for my trouble which I NEVER received. My next date was a guy who is agoraphobic, so he is fearful to leave his house. He plays video games all day long, and was into comic books. He said he was using the dating service to help him get out of the house more. Clearly he isn't even looking for a relationship, he is using the services for therapy. They shouldn't even be sending this guy on dates if he isn't looking for a relationship. I am clearly wanting a serious relationship to spend this amount of money on the services, so why would they send me on a date with that? We had NOTHING in common at all, a complete waste of my time.
My next date was a guy that was like 5 foot tall. He told me he specifically told the dating service he did NOT want to date a woman taller than him. Yet here I am at 5' 7" with this guy on a date. Its Just Lunch truly does NOT do any matchmaking. It is a RANDOM draw. If you are due for a date and he is due for a date they just throw you together to meet their quotas and to fulfill their contract. Every date I went on the men would say they were not getting matches. This short guy said he made it clear he would only date white women and he was sent out with woman of other nationalities. It was obvious that his wishes were ignored, and it is obvious mine were too.... so to me Its Just Lunch truly does NOT do actual match making.
When I signed up I was told these members are professionals, that are well off and stable... The one date works as an equipments manager for a sports team. He helps distribute the equipment for the players on game days. Now I have no problem with that, I didn't join the services to find millionaires but my point is that they flat out LIED about their services. About the quality of the dates, and quality of their matchmaking... as an ELITE service. And I paid a premium expecting ELITE services and I did NOT get that. It is extremely hard to get in touch with anyone to lodge a complaint and when you do all they want to do is add more time to your membership, which I don't really understand why I would want more time?
If the dates are NOT matches, and I have to shell out money at these expensive restaurants ($30 dollar meals is where they send me), and drive 2 hours up and back for the date, spend all that gas money too.... for these terrible matches... why would I want to do MORE of that? The dates just flat out suck and they want to give me MORE? That isn't the answer, the answer is find me better dates ASAP or give me my money back! That is apparently my only options. I am forced to go on crappy dates, OR just lose my money. Because the supervisor flat out said, it is company policy we can not and will NOT give out refunds. AWFUL customer service. Way over priced. You could get the same quality dates on any of the online dating services for 1/4 of the price. Total waste of money. I can honestly say this was the worst money I EVER spent in my life. And will do everything I can to make sure no one else spends their money with this company.
**** PLEASE do NOT spend thousands unless you are willing to let that money go. You will never see your money back, under NO circumstances do they give refunds. So that is a HUGE chance to take.
Reviewed July 29, 2014
Ethan was very good in matching me with my prospective date. Job well done, my compliments to him. The date was everything he advertised. I had a great time meeting her.
Reviewed July 29, 2014
I gave them the $1000 with great hopes of great dates and hopeful of finding my match and lifetime mate. Ugh. What a waste of time and money. In the interview I had given them three things I sought in a mate. Very simple things. One was "I don't want anymore kids". Ha. My first two set-up lunches were "matches" that definitely wanted kids. I took the loss, canceled the service and forfeited the remaining eight dates. They sell a good story, but they are useless. Waste of time.
Reviewed July 29, 2014
Thank you It's Just Lunch for a fabulous dating experience. All dates were nice and I enjoyed them, but the 6th one hit the jackpot. We were so compatible and had so much in common. He is a fabulous, caring man. I felt my dating coordinator, Sharry ** was wonderful and really cared about finding me the right match. I felt like she was a Dating Coordinator and a friend! Great experience.. So much better than trying to do it yourself on the Internet. Additionally, I just found out one of my neighbors in my cul-de-sac met through It's Just Lunch and have a darling 6-year-old! I would highly recommend this dating experience!
Reviewed July 28, 2014
I enjoyed the service so much that I signed up again. Still looking for that special person. I would recommend this company to anyone looking to meet new people and find love.
Reviewed July 27, 2014
I had a very rough start with IJL and Mitch has completely salvaged the relationship and renewed my faith in the business. He helped reactivate my membership, has taken time to get to know me and matched me with a really terrific guy last week! I really enjoy working with him and am excited about meeting new gentleman for 'lunch'. He is also very prompt and easy to communicate/schedule with and makes the entire process fun!
Reviewed July 27, 2014
My date coordinator Josh is so friendly and helpful. He's always upbeat and ready to do all he can to make everything fall into place.
Reviewed July 25, 2014
I've been a client of IJL for a little over 3 months now, and my experience working with Mitch as my matchmaker has been great. He's very amiable, humorous, and perceptive; I feel he understands my expectations of a match and is diligent in his endeavor of setting me up on dates, and I feel very comfortable discussing with him the parameters of my pursuit and the outcome of the dates that I have thus far been on. I've been on 3 dates so far, and even though none of them has eventuated into something long term, I know he has my best interests in mind in picking dates for me, and I look forward to working with him. What I like most about Mitch is his affable and laid back demeanor, and I feel like I'm speaking with a friend every time we talk.
Reviewed July 25, 2014
I joined It's Just Lunch because I was sick of the online experience through various dating websites. I wanted to meet a better quality individual who was looking for a long-term relationship. I also liked the idea of having a personal dating director. With my demanding job, I simply don't have the time to sift through profiles. After research and careful consideration, I chose IJL to help me find a match. I can tell you that they have delivered. The men I have met are professional and engaging - true gentlemen. My dating director has taken the time to ask specific questions in an effort to know me better to help with future matches. You will have to be patient through the process, but overall I am pleased with my experience.
Reviewed July 25, 2014
I was very impressed with Sheri and my coaching session. She called me on time and was very friendly. I was very excited about the feedback that Sheri gave me. It was positive, so of course I liked it. I am looking forward to receiving the material that she talked about sending me. I was very happy and encouraged after speaking to Sheri. She answered all the questions that I had and gave me some great advice as well.
Reviewed July 25, 2014
Where do I begin? Should it be the "strategic" salesman who kept asking me if I had any questions (I realize now was a clever "technical way of CHA so that he couldn't claim I wasn't given an opportunity to discuss terms or recognize his "creative" use of claims until after I began the process), rather than initiating what the clarity of contract terms mean to It's Just Lunch (i.e. "no matches for you" means what THEY say: like we have people as clients we can create dates with; NOT they're even remotely compatible with you)? Or should I talk about that the salesman wanted the immediate sale that he knowingly gave me bad advice about the right time to start my contract?
This might actually be fraud, which I'm currently checking on. Or that he "totally knows men right off the bat" he'd like to set me up with (never happened)? Or the lack of response to phone calls and emails from the directors? Or the sloppy scheduling so that no one was calling me when I was home waiting for dates to be schedules as promised? Or should I talk about the date that stood me up, for didn't seem to bother IJL even a little, and gave no apology or refund. Oh, and allowed him to lie about calling the restaurant (I had them check while I was there waiting)?
Or should I mention that my dating director got snappy with me about the ONLY requirement I had (a religious one), but told me previously that her male clients had show-stopper requirements esp in re to non-smokers, height, body weight, etc.? Or would it be best to describe that the last conversation I had with my dating director, she told me I should be initiating more contact (daily) with them to schedule dates. I forgot to ask her if I could reverse-charge them for the amount of effort I'd be putting in for doing their job. It's a hard for me to decide where to start...
Reviewed July 22, 2014
Men - if you like unattractive women, this is the dating service for you. This service was terrible on all levels: first of all, none of the women were attractive. I made it clear from day 1 that one of my criteria was that the women I am matched with should be physically attractive. I went on 5 dates, and the women were average looking at best.
The logistics of the situation were also terrible - in one instance, they scheduled a date at 6 pm in the perimeter area on Friday, so of course traffic was miserable. My date arrived 30 minutes late since she didn't know the area and got stuck in traffic. The date itself was of course incredibly boring and, as in all cases, I knew the moment the woman walked in that I wasn't attracted in the least. They consistently got my and my matches' information wrong. They make their "matches" based on incredibly mundane details like "oh - you both like fishing - you'll make a GREAT match!", so I would steer clear of this service. It's a colossal waste of time, money, and energy.
In addition to the money you spend to sign up, you end up spending a lot in terms of time, gas, food, etc. when you actually go on the dates, so it's a pretty substantial investment with no hope of a return. I'm also guessing they don't treat their employees very well, because the turnover seems to be exceptionally high. I was constantly being transferred from one dating director to another as a result.
With regard to refunds, they won't give any because they suck and don't stand behind their "product", but the way to handle it is to dispute the transaction through your credit card company. I made it clear from day 1 that physical attractiveness was one of my criteria, but I came to find out that not only do no attractive women sign up for this service (it's very difficult for an attractive woman to get her head around the idea of paying $2,700 to go on dates), but they don't even use physical attractiveness as a criterion for matching! So basically I was lied to or at least deliberately misled from the beginning. I'm going to dispute it with my credit card company based on the fact that I wasn't purchasing the product I thought I was purchasing, and I'll get my money back that way.
If you're looking for help with dating, I would recommend online dating sites over this "service" - it's substantially cheaper and much more effective. While I haven't been thrilled with the results, I've certainly gotten a lot better dates with Zoosk and match.com than here (I actually am able to meet women who are attractive - imagine that!). My advice - stay away, stay far away from It's Just Lunch.
Reviewed July 22, 2014
Sheri was wonderful to talk to today. It was so nice to talk to someone that really understood what I was looking for. She was sweet, patient and funny. She had great tips and feedback for me to be successful at dating. She really took her time and I never felt rushed. It was like talking to a girlfriend.
Reviewed July 21, 2014
Staff very polite, professional. It's a recommended dating site for individuals who have busy schedules.
Reviewed July 20, 2014
I have had a lot of fun getting to know some great people through your service.
Reviewed July 18, 2014
When I called to get information on It's Just Lunch, they were more than helpful and accommodating. They answered all of my questions in a very professional manner. They seemed to understand my concerns of living in a small city, promised that I would only date in my city, and assured me that they would refund my money on a date attended pro-rated basis. I went on my first date within my first month with the service. The date went well, just no romantic connection. I met with a dating consultant to discuss my date, but spent more time talking about his divorce and issues with dating.
Several months later, I went on a second date with a man who was nothing like what I described I was looking for, and my dating consultant told me she only set me up with him because he was the only guy in my area that had signed up in my age group. Then, she tried to set me up with a guy who lived more than two hours away (when I had expressed in the initial call that I was not willing to do long distance), and he had an odd back story. My dating consultant told me she thought he had a family and was trying to date on the sly, yet she still would have let me go out with him!
When I called to express my frustrations, the company was not the least bit sympathetic to the fact that they could not offer me the services they claim to be able to provide. They ABSOLUTELY, under no conditions, will give refunds, pro-rated or not. This company is a scam. I cannot believe they are still in business. They are crooks and shame on them for operating such a sham excuse for a service! They claim to have the client's best interest at heart... give me a break!
Reviewed July 18, 2014
Everyone is very helpful in trying to find the right match for me.
Reviewed July 18, 2014
Michelle at IJL is so easy to work with. She is engaging and smart, and has a great sense of humor, which makes the process fun and less of a "hunt". She also has a great eye for spotting what is real and what is not in people. That is so important to me. I hold her advice in high regard and I trust her implicitly. She is professional, but makes you feel like she is just a very well-connected friend who genuinely has your best interests in mind. Highly, highly recommend!!
Reviewed July 17, 2014
Speaking with the dating coach was absolutely helpful! I was able to get advice about dating etiquette and I was also encouraged by the coach about what works for me, and encouraged me to stay hopeful about finding my match out there!
Reviewed July 17, 2014
My dating coaching consultation with Sheri was very informative and rewarding. It was uplifting hearing the positive feedback and at the same time informative in that Sheri constructively points out the things that I need to work on. She is very pleasant on the phone and always positive.
Reviewed July 17, 2014
Very pleasant nice guy but the dates were just not compatible.
Reviewed July 16, 2014
I was very pleased with IJL. I thought they went out of their way to be helpful and try to accommodate your individual needs.
Reviewed July 16, 2014
Overall satisfied with my experience as I have been able to meet men outside of my usual social circle. Unfortunately, I have yet to make a connection with someone through the service but I'm still hopeful!
Reviewed July 16, 2014
I was nervous about joining a dating program, but my experience with It's Just Lunch has been really positive. My Matchmaker, Mitch, is a great guy... I really enjoy working with him! I'm really looking forward to what the future may bring!
Reviewed July 15, 2014
My experience with the service has been good. I enjoy the initial personal attention and that the representatives really try to get to know me and what I am looking for. My only real complaint is that I find the cost of the service to be steep for the services rendered, or at least the structure of the cost. Perhaps a per date cost would open doors to more hesitant customers, as well as package deals. I understand that the logistics require manpower and that manpower costs money, but if there was a way to reduce costs or piecemeal costs, I would be more inclined to recommend the service to others. Another possible benefit would be done, form of feed back on the date performance from the other party or mild coaching in the dating process. While my profession exposes me to various social situations, I am very socially awkward so even a small amount of assistance in preparation for the dates would be helpful, unless it is already there and I'm just unaware. The representatives have been very helpful and informative to work with and the service is great for people in my position with an often unpredictable schedule.
Reviewed July 15, 2014
I thought our session was very helpful as we discussed tips and possible suggestions going forward how to improved my overall dating experience. I thought this is a useful service in my membership. Also, I was informed about some of the issues I had with the service and all my questions were answered.
Reviewed July 15, 2014
Very pleased with the level of activity and the quality and appropriateness of the "match".
It's Just Lunch Company Information
- Company Name:
- It's Just Lunch
- Website:
- www.itsjustlunch.com
