Christian Mingle

I've had five women who struck my interest. All five were scammers who wanted money from me. The first two conned me completely, but I didn't give money to them. The last three gave away their plan to me with intense questioning. But it was all a huge waste of time -- especially spending weeks on communicating with the first two. This site does an absolutely horrible job at filtering out con artists. Total waste of money.

I signed up to Christian Mingle for 1 month. The vast majority of people contacting me are hundreds or thousands of miles away. Hiding behind distance is a scammer trick. But what is unacceptable are all the dead profiles. I have screenshots of profiles that have not had a login since 2021. Some have not logged in, in a year, or a year and a half. This practice of presenting profiles that are no longer active, or as I suspect, people who are not even members anymore, is clearly dishonest. Bait and Switch. These people who run this "Christian" dating site are not honest people.

I have never connected anyone on there. It's so strict on profile summary and so hard to log in and so hard to navigate. There is absolutely no meaningful usage from this company/website without paying.

Two weeks into a 6 month paid subscription (if you still join, recommend paying for the shortest period first), it became clear that trying to find a match would be close to impossible. You are not able to screen who sees you based on your preferences. You end up with messages from people from all over the country and it is a four step process to figure out who they are, that they do not meet many, if any, of your preferences and to finally block or archive them. Time draining. The matches they give you based on % match against preferences still does not take into account that the person who has matched with you has no interest in your age group or distance from you or them. It was a complete waste of time and money. Also, Christian Mingle acknowledges all of the shortcomings and has no regrets about them. Their response was summarily "too bad."

No local people to meet. Gave me matches all over the country. Turns out the man I was texting was a scammer. Thankfully I suspected it but need to be careful and check out info. Even then they can be great at deceiving.

Christian Mingle is filled with scammers/fake profiles. You cannot trust who you are talking to. The pictures and profiles are from women, but the person behind the pictures and profile is not who is represented. I would save your money. I canceled my subscription after one month because it became very discouraging to get messages from fakes trying to luring me into a conversation that was nothing more than a waste of my time. I complain about this to Christian Mingle and they told me there is nothing they can do about it. I find that hard to believe. It is your choice, but from experience I would save your money and find another site.

Just joined last week. 99 percent of people here are scammers. Very few real men and all of those are on the opposite side of the country. Don’t waste your money. You spend more time clearing fakes than talking to anyone real.

At least 8 out 10 were not who they said they were. Honestly!! No one is local. If they were supposedly in their area and you lived there, then they just moved. Lol SMH. If you are in town they had to leave for a few weeks. NO WAY TO ACTUALLY HAVE A CELL TEXT OR PHONE CALL WITH MOST OF THEM. I hace had at least 50 contacts in one week. Not even 1 phone contact SMH. Google Chat is their love I have found out. SHAMEFUL. EVEN IMPLICIT SEX OFFERS!!! This is not a Christian site and if owned by Christians it is only for profit. Embarrassing!!! One other scam. And it is easily googled, is the “I am in the military out of the country scam“. And CM can’t control this!!! If there is a hell….and this is extremely frustrating. Bombarded by fake girls. Today. Two pics on same page with a girl with different name. Oops! To represent Christians this way means they should be shut down. Imo.

I subscribed to Christian Mingle and then they said I canceled. I DID NOT. I had paid for three months. They now want me to subscribe (again) to see my messages. I contacted them many times to complain. THEY HAVE NOT RESPONDED.

I am a widow and after 2 years decided to step out and use this site because of the Christian affiliation. This was all new to me. I got on the site and checked it out and decided to pay for one month. I was on the site for one week. There were only a couple profiles I had interest in. I started a conversation with a man and listened to his story but never really felt it was the direction to go. I shared this with him, but it was not received well. I went back to the dating app and decided to respond to another person who had reached out to me. After a few days something did not seem right. The end result was both profiles were made by the same person. Different pictures, different contact information, it was unsettling. I am new to all this, so I have a lot to learn but I deactivated my account and will never go back on that site again. This was not a Christian encounter. Be careful ladies.