Selective Search Reviews

I spent $40,000 and had not one single date. Afterward, meeting after they told me that they had lots of eligible men, they disclosed that all of the men they get are looking for women much much younger. In the past, that is not been my experience, at least, in more sophisticated cities, but apparently for them it is. I was delayed twice. Once for a broken foot and went for a surgery. So my calendar expired and they extended it for a month and managed to find one person who would have a phone conversation with me.

I remember meeting horrible matches in NYC and finding out the girls were on sugar daddy sites. Big waste of money and felt scammed. Oh well, I now know all these high end matchmakers are playing the same game and duping clients.

Resolution Update 06/06/2019: I feel I was a bit hasty in posting my original criticism of Selective Search. They have shown that they truly care about their clients’ satisfaction and are willing to go the extra mile in order to achieve success. I have been very impressed by their effort and commitment, and I look forward to finding a special woman to share my life with through Selective Search.

Selective Search is a top notch company. All of the matchmakers are very passionate about finding you the love of your life and they are an absolute pleasure to work with. Sara recently introduced me to an amazing man. I can't say enough about Sara... she is a kind, sweet extraordinary girl and a consummate professional. She has a keen sixth sense which enables her to find you a perfect match. The man that I met is remarkable and he is truly one of a kind. I was amazed at how much we had in common and how strong of a connection we had. I definitely would have never met someone of such a high caliber without the help of Sara and I am very grateful to her! I highly recommend using their services as they take the time to truly get to know you and the qualities that you looking for, in a partner, in order to find your soulmate. Let the matchmakers do the work for you and they will find you love! Thank you Selective Search!

Nicole ** at Selective Search LLC delivers first class customer service. She treats everyone she interacts with - even non members like me - with the utmost respect, attentiveness, and class. I would imagine that members of Selective Search are pampered with the same level of care which, in my book, reflects highly on both the company's integrity and its position as an industry leader.

I began the process of creating an account with Selective Search. When I got to the part asking about marital status & family, I didn't think twice... until they wanted to know the gender and birth dates of my children. I felt very uncomfortable supplying this information... Wouldn't just "do you have children?" suffice? I then decided to look up reviews of the service before proceeding, and after reading so many negative reviews, I decided not to complete a profile with them.

I would highly recommend Selective Search to any man or woman who is looking to find someone for a real, committed relationship. I am happy to say I met my husband through this company. I signed up with Selective Search over two years ago as a female in their database. The matchmakers were extremely professional and contacted me for a face-to-face meeting several weeks later, in which they had a discussion with me about my interests, goals, what kind of relationship would work best for me and what types of men I'd be willing to meet. The women I met - **, ** and others - were all very polite and kind and had good intentions.

I hired this company in 2013, and was very disappointed at the results. I agree very much with the comments made by **. You are given huge promises but in reality; you get as close to this as they have in their data bank. The women pay nothing, and seem to be lead into thinking the company is working for them, and as the comments show, an attitude is often the result. I disagree with one comment that men only want arm candy; if so, wrong place with many candidates I viewed. It's a frustrating experience, but as the posts show, even with zero results, $20k less, some are still pleased. That is the gift of conning someone. It reminds me of people who paid thousands in real estate courses, made nothing, but still believed it will work.

I have had two years' experience with Selective Search, and recommend them highly. While I have not yet had success in my search, they have been very attentive and sensitive in assessing matches, and in supporting the dating relationships. I have met most impressive women whom I would never have had the chance to meet otherwise. Highly recommended.

I just wanted to post an update about my interaction with Selective Search. After my previous post on 8/15/2014 regarding not hearing back from the matchmaker when she promised, the CEO, Mitchell Berk, personally contacted me. He was very gracious to take the time to ask my account of what happened. I was very impressed with his professionalism.