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It's Just Lunch is a personalized matchmaking service that caters to busy professionals looking for meaningful relationships in more than 110 U.S. cities as well as cities in Canada, the UK, Ireland and Australia. Matchmakers get to know members and use their dating preferences and relationship history to select matches. It's Just Lunch makes all the arrangements for comfortable and safe face-to-face dates, including the time and place. All members have to do is show up ready to meet their match. Potential pairs meet over lunch or after work for drinks.
- Guaranteed face-to-face dates
- Free onboarding interview
- Customized membership plans
- Fully confidential
- Lengthy process
- Can be pricey
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Reviewed March 13, 2013
I met my boyfriend on my very first IJL date over four years ago and we are still very happily together. The staff at IJL really listened to me in terms of what I was looking for and what was important to me in a relationship. Not only that, but IJL has checked in over the years just wanting to know how we are doing. We never would have met otherwise and I credit IJL with finding the perfect match for me.
Reviewed March 13, 2013
My experience with IJL has been great. I've met some great quality women. The level of service is always very professional, and I feel that my matchmaker is very in tune with me and what I am looking for. I would recommend this service to anyone who is serious about dating and looking for quality matches.
Reviewed March 12, 2013
Very first class ladies and professional. I would rate IJL for just one dating service. They are very nice and professional people working there who enjoy their jobs. Debbie is there to listen to whatever issues you may have about dating. I would recommend It’s Just Lunch over any other dating company.
Reviewed March 12, 2013
The staff at It's Just Lunch were very great to work with and made sure to contact me on a regular basis to introduce me to new potential matches. I went on numerous dates with girls introduced to me through IJL. The reality is that although a few of these experiences resulted in subsequent dates and while I did not meet a partner throughout this time, I did get to enjoy the company of several different girls over the course of more than a year.
Reviewed March 12, 2013
When I meet an IJL date, they weren't excited, maybe the exception of one. None of them would take that chance and talk on the phone after we meet or show any interest in or common things. I’m so sad and disappointed of this journey. I spent a lot of money. I am ready to have good friends and a significant other.
Reviewed March 11, 2013
Daniel has been great at finding matches for me and fine tuning them when I give feedback after each date. I have enjoyed using this service and have told people about my experiences with it. Whenever I talk to Daniel, he is upbeat and positive about potential matches for me. He makes me feel encouraged to go out and meet them.
Reviewed March 11, 2013
I love talking to Richard. He gives me confidence, and I've had more dates with him as my dating director than all the others combined. The dates I've been on have been fun, although I haven't found Mr. Right just yet! Thanks for the great experience.
Reviewed March 11, 2013
My dating director Richard for the Sacramento area has done a fantastic job filling in for Brienne. It has consistently sent me out on quality dates during the last month and honestly done a better job in finding dates that I have more in common with. I feel much better with Richard at the helm. Wish he could have been in charge from the beginning. Thanks buddy.
Reviewed March 11, 2013
While I did not meet my match with It's Just Lunch, I met genuine and interesting men, a number of whom I went out with multiple times. At times, the process was frustrating, but I thought the overall experience was positive. The staff responded to phone calls and e-mails in a timely fashion.
Reviewed March 9, 2013
I loved the fact you talk to real people and they constantly work on bettering the experience if needed. One on one help. The other stuff is a joke and just luck to find what you are looking for. The level of research they do to get to know you and find a match that’s going to fit what you’re looking for as closely as possible is fantastic. The staff seems to be handpicked to size you up and pair the best match, even finding out the hidden personality trait you may have overlooked.
Reviewed March 9, 2013
Great matchmakers! Professional. First rate all the way. They take the time to personalize the choices and to research your dates. No guesswork and none of the problems you have with standard internet dating sites where photos are old and profiles are not accurate. You can relax in just showing up knowing that all the groundwork and screening has been done ahead of time, and that there will be no surprises.
Reviewed March 8, 2013
I was just divorced after 25+year marriage to my college sweetheart and had not dated since college. I am a professional and did not have time to spend hours on a website, but I really wanted to date and get out. It's Just Lunch, and specifically Richard ** has done a great job of setting me up with dates with great women. Some have led to second or third dates, etc. While not every date has led to such, every date has been enjoyable. I would wholeheartedly recommend It's Just Lunch.
Reviewed March 8, 2013
Overall, IJL is pretty good. But it takes like 10 dates to get one good one. It's usually at date number 10. So overall, if they can make a match, I'd say it works. But I'm guessing the people who pick the dates are at the mercy of the market, so I don't complain too much.
Reviewed March 7, 2013
My name is Paul and I would like to say that I have been with It's just lunch for a while now and it has absolutely been a great experience for me. And I would also like to say that if you're looking for an upscale dating service that It's just lunch is the perfect opportunity for you. I have been working with Daniel and he is absolutely the best guy ever. He really helps you and he really assists you in any area that you need help. Again, I would recommend Daniel for anything that you need and I consider him a really good friend so please try It’s Just Lunch.
Reviewed March 7, 2013
The advisors/matchmakers are very professional and have had my best interest at heart; they listened to what my preferences were. I have met many wonderful ladies and have become friends with some of them. In today's world of dating, I find this method more secure. It has been a very positive experience. I would recommend them again. I’m hoping to find the "one”.
Reviewed March 7, 2013
The one-hour conference consisted of my receiving feedback from my first four dates including following future dating tips. Sheri was excellent! She listened thoughtfully and openly. I asked specific questions for which I was offered clear answers to assist me on different strategies to utilize during future dates. Sheri made me feel comfortable to share personal thoughts about dating.
Reviewed March 6, 2013
Three dates that Richard has been my dating director. Richard has by far been the best dating director I have had. There has been about four previous dating directors, none of which set me up with anyone I would go out with a second time. I believe Richard, being a man, is easy to talk to and understands what I am looking for. It has been a pleasure.
Reviewed March 6, 2013
I was very happy after speaking with Daniel about my first match because I felt he showed a genuine interest in me as a person. He was very easy to talk to and listened to what I had to say. Daniel is the epitome of customer service, and I look forward to working with him!
Reviewed March 5, 2013
Usually I am not one to complain. I like to focus on the positive and give credit where credit is due. Unfortunately the issues that I have been having with this company are forcing me to do so. I am also not alone in this as there are over 20 negative reviews on Yelp that say how deplorable the company is and that a majority of the folks have had a similar experience to mine.
I signed up for the "elite dating service" It's Just Lunch when I first moved to New York City in 2007. They failed to provide me with any semblance of a match nor listened to a single thing I said when I told them what I was looking for. I was stood up more than once and the one date I actually did go on was exactly opposite as to what I was looking for. They also failed to provide me with single lunch date, which I requested, due to the fact that I live outside NYC.
I shouldn't have renewed my contact with them this past December, but I thought maybe things with the company may have improved, and my mother's desire to see me with a gentleman urged me to give them a try. They sold me with no doubt two men that didn't exist. I should have known they were too good to be true when they said "his family owns property on lots of different islands in the Caribbean" and they had similar interests. But I signed up anyway. I gave them my availability and informed them I was going away for a week in January and will be out of town.
When I signed up, they said I would work with only one dating consultant the entire time. While I was on vacation with my family, a time I value as they live abroad, a random consultant I had not dealt with ever frantically called and emailed me asking for my availability. I was aghast that there was no communication within their team nor they had on file that I was out of the country. I was even more unhappy that they ruined my vacation. When I asked the rep to stop contacting me and that I was on vacation with my family, he was very rude and emailed me back and continued to try to contact me.
Once I got back to the US, the original rep asked me for my availability. I distinctly gave her my dates available and dates unavailable and mentioned lunch dates were better. What do they do? Schedule me when I was “unavailable” and during an evening time. At this point I had enough of their incompetence and asked for a refund. They did not contact me for a couple weeks. When they did try to contact me, it was to try to reschedule me for the date. That is not what I asked.
I continued to try to get a refund of $900 from this company, and continually, they refused to do so. I asked repeatedly to communicate via email so I may have documentation on our conversations and the fact that I am often unavailable on the phone. They refused to communicate with me via email despite repeated attempts. They continue to try to schedule me for a date. I am now over 2 months of membership and they have failed to provide me with a match or any semblance of being a reputable business. As per their contract, I can ask for a refund and get it. But they still refuse to do so.
I am at my wit's end dealing with this company. I very much would like my refund as I cannot afford to throw away $900. It's also the principle of the matter. They failed to provide a service. I also would like to warn as many other women and men that come to NYC wishing for love not to deal with this company.
Reviewed March 5, 2013
I initially joined It's Just Lunch at the basic level. The first man to whom I was introduced was lovely, but was not as ideal a candidate as I had hoped. Then Brenda called me and said she had an "Elite" level man she wanted me to meet. What a difference in this man and the other! There was no comparison! She explained the exclusivity of the Elite membership and I liked what I heard. She assured me that these men are personally chosen by her and coached by her. She also explained that they pay a lot of money to work with her because they are serious about finding the right woman. What she said really "spoke" to me because I am serious about meeting the right man as well.
I decided to invest in myself via Brenda because I was impressed with her confidence, her success rate and her attitude. She told me she is good at what she does and has done this exclusively for many years. I liked that. She told me that she handpicks each man and that she is usually "spot on". She was right. Each man she has had me meet has been quality and has had practically every quality I have told her I want. I am not wasting time with men with whom I have little in common. I feel very good about the fact that I have one person who is working exclusively for me by putting quality candidates in front of me. And she keeps coming up with more great men for me. Brenda stays in constant contact with me. I feel I have made a new friend in her and I have! I am confident that she will find the man for whom I have been looking.
Reviewed March 4, 2013
I've been on five dates with successful and mature single men so far. I had fun in most of my dates, and it's very encouraging and refreshing to know that there are good men out there who are still available. It's been difficult to meet single men who are my peer from other occasions, and IJL definitely helps! IJL arrangement makes me feel safe and in control of my dates. I don't have to play games to figure out whether the men are single, looking or just flirting, etc. I recommend IJL for single career women who are looking for a nice and fun date.
Reviewed March 3, 2013
Sheri was helpful in reviewing previous feedback and making suggestions for future dates. I appreciated the feedback.
Reviewed March 2, 2013
It's Just lunch (IJL) Singapore is a professional scam in Singapore. Do not, I repeat, do not join this service. I recently closed my case with It's Just Lunch Singapore (IJL) at the Singapore Subordinate Court. So I just want to share my experience with anyone who might have the intention to join this service. This is my warning to you: Do not trust them and avoid them if you don't want to have trouble and a nightmare dating experience - see my case below.
I joined IJL in Nov. 2012, paid the full amount of $2,568 for a one-year contract with 14 dates. Actually, I did not really want to join this service after my face-to-face meeting with one of their consultants due to so many complaints I found on the internet. However, she kept calling to hunt and recruit me. When I raised my concerns regarding my doubts, she gave me such confidence and assured me that their database had more than enough suitable matches for my requirements. Moreover, she confirmed firmly all of the men on their database were serious about relationships and nice gentlemen. If they were just looking for fun or not qualified, they would not take them in as a member and they do verify their profile if they are found out to be lying! She insisted to offer me help and promised to find a match for my specific requirements. I was convinced by her sweet words and after meeting her at least 2 times in person. She just knew how to play on a woman's psychology so well. Her face just looked so sympathetic, trustworthy and she seemed to be a professional match maker. But that trust lead me to the most foolish mistake that I have ever made and from there, my nightmare dating started.
I went through two dates that were arranged by them and both turned out to be ridiculous, lousy and waste of time dates! The first man came late without informing me. Disappointedly, he had nothing in common with me. It's likely that IJL just picked up any random man who was available to date with me! There were no follow up calls from IJL after my date at all. I had to call them and left my name but they did not bother to call me back. This means they just hunt you when you are not yet a member but when you are a paid member, they do not care for you because you are just totally in their entrapment!
My second date was a nightmare date. The man did not turn up until I called him. He said he was in bed and was not informed of the date with me from IJL that particular day. He turned up 45 minutes late in a scruffy T-shirt. He then told me he was just looking for fun! He was not interested with the service any more, but he was rejected for a refund from IJL. He did request that they do not arrange any more dates for him but the staff of IJL still kept calling to insist that he turn up for some random dates! I am sure if you were in my shoes at that time and heard those words, you would understand how bad I felt. I had to pay a big amount for this service only to be arranged to meet a man looking for fun!
It also strongly proves that this company is really unprofessional and unreliable. They do not consider the client's requests. They did not take note of my feedback from my first date, to please arrange a proper 2nd date for me. The fact is they do not have enough suitable men for all their female members, so they just try their best to find any man to show up for a date to fill in the numbers for the contract regardless of matches. Their consultants know nothing about match making. They don't have enough experience about matching and they are just working like salespersons trying to trap as many clients as they can and earn their commission.
It took sometime to bring my case to the Small Claims Tribunal which was found inconclusive. After that, I was determined to bring them to the Singapore Subordinate Court. At the court, I called them a professional scam, and when they tried to defend themselves, they said the behavior of male members is out of their control, meaning if a man comes late or does not show up, or is looking for fun or bad behavior they can't control it! That also means that we, as paid members, have to carry this risk with their service. If you are lucky enough to meet a nice guy or you are in bad luck, you may have a bad date like a man who never shows up or is late or misbehaves! These risks are not their fault, their problem and not their obligation as a professional match making agent. This is absolutely not an acceptable answer!
Only when I asked in front of the Judge so why at the consulting meeting did the consultant not tell me the truth that I have to take risks when I joined the service and be frank with me by telling me that my date might be late or not turn up or might be looking for fun(!), that instead she just convinced me that all her clients were nice gentlemen, serious and qualified, that they shut up after this comment and the Judge allowed me to claim back a portion of my original investment.
I did a bit of digging around on the net and found many women - just like myself (in Singapore, Thailand, and USA) - who had been ripped off by IJL. I was one of the lucky ones as I got part of my money back, but many more didn't and the company is still operating to this day. There will be a big outcry about this company before long and I want to warn everyone not to get involved with them because if you do, you stand to lose a lot of money only to get back trouble and grief. I knew some other women like me where the date did not turn up and no calls from IJL for a few months, or even they arranged non-suitable men for dates. So to all ladies who are thinking of joining this company, I honestly tell you, don't waste your hard-earned money and your time in this scam. You can use that money for travel or donate it to charity, which is better than supporting this kind of nasty service existing.
Finally, as an ex-paid member of IJL in Singapore, and on behalf of all members who were victims of this nasty service, I would like to thank the owner who established this lousy service. She did a very good job in creating a very professional scam dating agency! Spend some of your time and search how many complaints are pertaining to your company online!
Reviewed March 2, 2013
The person who contacted me after I inquired about the IJL services online was dynamic, understanding & promised some “great guys” that matched my criteria that they had for me to meet. I was very excited about the possibilities. I did not want to spend $2,000 but I thought that if I spent the money, I would get better service and results than paying $19.95 a month for men looking for hookups & no commitments.
Unfortunately, the quality of service and quality of men did not meet my expectations. There have been some men with whom I have had good conversation, but a lot of them are awkward & cannot carry on a conversation. The last date I went on had a hard time making eye contact, because he was too busy watching other women walk in the restaurant door behind me.
For the amount of money I paid, I expected to get feedback after each date, but that has not happened. After each date, I send an email to my “dating director.” Then, I wait until I get another email telling me that they “are excited about my next date.” This often takes weeks before I get a response. They might give me a few details about my potential date like first name, age, occupation, and a few hobbies, but not much more. Often times, I have asked the men about a hobby that my director mentioned, and the men end up being confused why I think they are interested in that hobby. In the end, we find out that the director gave incorrect information about my date as well as myself.
Another disappointment about the service is that they go through dating directors fairly often. This leads to a very impersonal relationship with a person whom is to be able to match me with my soulmate. Most times I talk to the dating directors, they do not seem to be excited about their jobs. It seems they are just going through the motions & need to make another call to meet a quota. They do not know anything about the city in which I live either.
Overall, my experience with IJL has been very underwhelming and often times disappointing, because I feel like I paid way too much money to not be known by my dating director & to not get any feedback.
Reviewed Feb. 28, 2013
I had a great experience with Kelly at It's Just Lunch. I have tried online dating for years and was meeting men who were not interested in having a healthy relationship. It was nice to have the opportunity to meet quality men who were interested in spending time with me. After about 4 or 5 dates, I met somebody great and have been with him now for about one year. I think it's very important to be open-minded in trying a service like this because it really does come down to being honestly ready for a healthy, mature relationship. It's definitely about quality and not quantity.
Reviewed Feb. 28, 2013
I am happy with the service provided by IJL. I am particularly happy with my dating director, Obed. Because of his efforts, I am giving IJL a higher rating now than I had given in the past. I was not pleased with some dating directors before. I have had only good experiences with Obed. I would suggest the service to other single men I know.
Reviewed Feb. 28, 2013
It's Just Lunch is a wonderful way to meet a great man or woman. Why? Everyone is intelligent, educated, polite and professional. If there is no chemistry, you both know it. One says goodbye and one moves on. One does not need to pretend to go on a second date or waste any time. It's great to meet for lunch or dinner and talk to the person face to face so as to get to know the person and hopefully there is a click. Also, Tia ** is a fabulous dating director. She is efficient, polite, professional and determined to find a person with similar traits to mine.
Reviewed Feb. 27, 2013
After several meeting dates over the course of 18 months, I wasn't crazy about the traveling but realize living in rural area, I had to make sacrifices. This January, I met another IJL client and we had an instant connection. We have many common interests and find it very comfortable to be with one another. We've decided to date exclusively and are grateful that we joined IJL because we would have never have had the opportunity to meet otherwise. It takes patience but it does work!
Reviewed Feb. 26, 2013
I did not know what to expect during my first IJL phone call but Rochelle's professional and friendly manner made the information session fun. Daniel's humor and prompt assistance helped make my first date-match a breeze. Rochelle and Daniel work well together and I am looking forward to my first IJL date. Thank you Rochelle and Daniel for my positive IJL experience.
Reviewed Feb. 26, 2013
I'll be driving a good bit for some of my dates, but so far it's been a good experience. They have set me up on a surprising number of dates for as long as I've been a member. Most have been at least close in educational/professional background, and one lady they recently set me up with seems to be a very good match; I saw her again just a few days ago. Finally, working with Obed has been good as he really works to make things convenient.
Reviewed Feb. 26, 2013
I know it’s hard to match someone that’s why I came to professionals in this field. I wanted to meet more quality people that are more on my level, and I think last night I have. Let’s see what happens as sky is the limit. The guy has a potential and a drive to be in a serious relationship and that is what I am looking for; someone who shares my views and my morals about life and family. So far, I am satisfied with the results, yet there is room for growth. Cheers!
Reviewed Feb. 26, 2013
I recently reached out to IJL to try an alternative approach to organically meeting people given my busy schedule. I had read the reviews on various websites and saw a lot of bad. However, I also saw some good. I then figured that I would take a stab at it. I spoke with Robin of the Houston office initially. I voiced my concerns about gambling with $2,400, but she was a good sales representative and convinced me that she didn't need my money because business was so good; however, it is always happy to take new clients. She was great and had good rapport.
I did not want to divulge the full cost at that time so I asked if they did payment plans. I was specifically informed that they did not allow any sort of payment plan. I told them to give me a day or two to think it over, and I will be in touch. She called me on a Friday and said she had 2 dates ready to go, and I needed to pay so we could get the ball rolling. I simply could not give her the full amount at that moment and told her I only had $1,900. She needs to give me 2 weeks so I can get my next paycheck. She then insisted that I put it on a credit card, find an alternative mode of payment, etc. When I did not budge, she said she could take my $1,900 now and the remaining $500 can be paid later. She sent a courier on a 1 hour trek to where I was to get my check. That should have been a sign considering that she just told me that they don't do any sort of payment plan. All the while, their “absolutely no refunds" policy was never mentioned. A policy like this, one would think, should be clearly reiterated to a potential customer.
I went on my first date literally four hours after I handed my check to the courier. The following night, I went on my second date with another girl. The program seemed to be legitimate, and I felt much better about my decision. That next week, I was contacted by my mother and informed me that my father was going to need treatment and his insurance provider was not covering the costs. I, like any child, agreed to do whatever I could to help so I decided that my dating life needed to be put on hold. When I contacted Robin to tell her that I needed to drop out of the service and requested a $1,500 refund ($1,900 less the $400 portion of the service I used [12 dates guaranteed/$2400 = $200/date]), she not only told me no but requested my remaining balance of $500. I had been enrolled for 7 days, the contract is 1 year, and she absolutely wouldn't hear what I was saying. She went from the awesome, cool and fun matchmaker to an IRS auditor in three seconds.
The next day, I was contacted by Audra about the situation. I expected her apology and a solution to our problem, but I clearly underestimated these people. She informed me that I needed to pay the remaining balance because I was contractually obligated to do so, or she would send it to her legal department. Oh, and she had some great girls for me to meet! Yay! I told her to send it to legal as I will do the same.
All in all, do not use the Houston Galleria IJL office because they do not care about you as an individual at all. They are completely focused on your payment and that is it. They are not good people at their core. How could they run a good business, especially one that requires compassion, care, and understanding? Take your money and run because these people have bad karma heading their way.
Reviewed Feb. 26, 2013
I enjoyed my experience with IJL, Obed was a good contact to have and kept me busy. I will sign up again should the need arise. Thanks.
Reviewed Feb. 26, 2013
I thought it was a good idea, but after my 3 dates (which I complained about), I decided not to extend my membership. This was in Charlotte, NC. Maybe other cities are better. I wasted a lot of money!
Reviewed Feb. 25, 2013
Sheri's coaching session was extremely productive and informative. She asked in-depth questions about my IJL experience and my dating behavior at large. She was engaging, a good listener and gave excellent feedback and tips - all without meeting me in person! I feel like I got a lot out of the conversation and I am glad that this is part of the IJL service.
Reviewed Feb. 25, 2013
I decided to use IJL when I got really serious in my search for a life partner. The staff was consummately professional and made it easy. It was a lot of money, but boy was it worth it. The first several dates weren't quite right, but the feedback from each one helped refine their matching. There were lots of near misses and then one bullseye. My 8th setup was magical - just perfect. I'm now engaged to that woman and will be marrying her next month. Thank you IJL.
Reviewed Feb. 25, 2013
I found my fiancé on my second date arranged by IJL. The service was expensive but worth it. I didn't have to do any looking myself, and they set me up with my soon-to-be husband. They have high-end clientele and convenient dates.
Reviewed Feb. 24, 2013
Starting to date and meet new people, after being married for 25 years, was not as intimidating as I thought it would be after I met Christine **. Christine put my mind at ease instantaneously with her warm, positive, open, and energetic demeanor. She was candidly open about what to expect and how the process worked. I think that most of us get in our own way when it comes to finding someone right for us. We have a tendency to fall back into the same relationship habits and patterns that got us there in the first place. Hiring a matchmaker helped me help myself. She opened my mind to meeting people from all different professions, ages, and backgrounds. She expanded my view of what could be a great match for me. I followed her advice and stayed completely open to whoever she matched me up with. To my surprise, not hers, my best matches were the ones I would have never picked for myself! Thank you Christine!
Reviewed Feb. 24, 2013
George was my dating director. I adore him! He is extremely personable at making it so easy to express your thoughts and feelings about each date. It is like chatting with your best friend. I went on 6 dates in 3 months which was more than what they guarantee. Each person was intelligent, friendly, ambitious, well traveled, and interesting. I truly enjoyed meeting and getting to know each of them. Andrea, whom I met with, is also part of the dating team I worked with. She is super outgoing and upbeat. She really wants to help find the best match for her clients. George and she were amazing at finding matches for me.
Reviewed Feb. 23, 2013
I asked Dolci where I could relay my experience with IJL. Dolci directed me here. I would like to state that Dolci has been delightful to work with. She is affable, sympathetic, energetic and professional. I met Thelma for my photo shoot and found her also to be extremely accommodating and most pleasant. I am new to this process, but have had distinctly rewarding experiences with the personnel. I am interested in seeing how everything unfolds, and I very much look forward to continuing interactions.
Reviewed Feb. 22, 2013
Patty was a great to work with. She was always cheerful and helpful. After many years of using other services, IJL was able to help me find what I was looking for.
Reviewed Feb. 22, 2013
All in all, the service has been good. The girls have been very nice and understanding with me. I won't lie; I'm picky, and that can be an issue. It has to be pretty rough really finding out about who would be a good fit. I mean, I'm sure everyone likes, for the most part, the same stuff (I like restaurants, I like movies, I like having a good time). I guess it's getting more in depth, which I guess is my job, now that I think of it! However, it would weed out some of the matches.
Without trying to sound like a pig (which I know this is going to), I would like to see what the girls look like. I know you can't judge a book by its cover, but looks do go along way. I realize this is what match and e-harmony are built on, but people lie all the time on that. I think it's a pay option, but I wonder if adding it to the regular deal will increase clients. Most people I talk with are nervous or afraid to do the blind date deal, and that's why they won't sign up. Also, they don't want to pay extra for that. So these are a couple things I've just observed in my time with it. Take it for what it's worth!
Reviewed Feb. 22, 2013
I have been with It's Just Lunch for almost a year and have gone on many great dates. They listen to my feedback and match me accordingly. I have been on several second dates and see a great quality in the women I am meeting.
Reviewed Feb. 22, 2013
My experience with It's Just Lunch has been very positive so far. I recently placed my account on hold to pursue a relationship with a wonderful woman I met through the company. This would not have been possible without the efforts of my matchmaker, Linda, who has taken the time to really listen to what I am looking for. I found that this process has made things really easy with the help of the dating coordinators, Marissa and Talya, who are efficient in setting all of my dates. I would recommend this service to anyone.
Reviewed Feb. 21, 2013
Javier has done a terrific job of coordinating dates and times for me to meet some great women. Bravo to Javier and thanks to IJL for all the support especially on Valentine's Day! I would recommend IJL as the real alternative to online/virtual dating. Real Action, Real people, Real results even with an active lifestyle, past divorce, kids, and growing business in my circumstances. IJL is the right solution for meeting and dating today in the Saint Louis Area.
Reviewed Feb. 21, 2013
I recently completed a dating coaching session through IJL, which I found to be very helpful. I received good advice and general dating tips, as well as specific feedback from the woman I have dated through IJL. I would recommend all customers take the time to go through the coaching process.
Reviewed Feb. 20, 2013
Sheri was very engaging, professional, tolerant and did a great coaching session. She provided some great feedback, which I will use going forward. Wish I would have gotten this session sooner. I would suggest providing real time feedback after every date. Sheri is awesome and she has a good sense of humor.
Reviewed Feb. 20, 2013
We met for coffee at Robert overlooking Columbus Circle and Central Park. Table reserved by It's Just Lunch was by the window in what must have been a gesture by the restaurant to your company. My date was good looking, intelligent and conversant on many subjects - really quite more than I expected. We look forward to getting together again soon.
Reviewed Feb. 20, 2013
I called It's Just Lunch to inquire about pricing and how the service worked. After a very hard sales pitch, I was asked for my credit card number. I said no but she kept selling me and eventually I gave in, $2,200! I instantly regretted it and became even more regretful as time went on. I hesitantly went on the first date, which was with someone I would never go out with. Honestly, I wouldn't even consider going out with. I was never called after the date for feedback. After waiting about 5 days, I called and asked for a refund. I told them I wasn't interested in the service and would like to cancel. I was told this wasn't possible but that they were happy to place me on a courtesy hold. I told them I wouldn't be using the service and that was giving away $2,200. I asked for a partial refund, again not possible. They proceeded to talk me into trying one more date. Realizing this is basically a scam where no matter what I will not get any money back, I figured I had no choice but to try one more time. Again, a disaster.
I emailed and asked again for a refund. They will not respond in writing; instead, I got a voicemail while I was at work saying they would put me on courtesy hold. I emailed again and got an email back that I had been placed on hold. $1,100 per date, with two guys I would never go on a second date with, wow! I've never even met the It's Just Lunch team in person. This is a total waste of time and money. Even the first guy I met said that it has been an epic waste of his money and he couldn't wait for it to be over. I also recently met a girl who used this location and also had a horrific experience. I honestly only wanted what is fair, a partial refund. I offered to pay for the 2 dates and requested the balance to be returned and even offered to pay a penalty for early cancellation. Just realize if you get sucked into their very strong sales pitch, you have no recourse. I will spend the next 11 months of my courtesy hold, making sure I alert the public to this service which is little more than a scam!
Reviewed Feb. 17, 2013
I have been working with IJL for about six months. Obed, my consultant, is very professional and detail oriented. He makes the whole experience easy and efficient. He is very good at his job. I have met several very nice, intelligent and professional women. IJL works for me, because I am very busy and my time to meet new women is limited. I would recommend this service to others. I have met a lot of really nice women.
Reviewed Feb. 14, 2013
I have been enjoying my IJL experience so far and I am looking forward to my next dates. Most of the folks that I have met so far have been a lot of fun and were enjoyable to spend time with. IJL has introduced me to people that I would have never had the chance to meet during my everyday busy life.
Reviewed Feb. 12, 2013
I’m so happy with the service that was provided by my matchmaker! Heather is awesome to work with and does a great job at finding matches for me. I'm very impressed by the clients in the program, and IJL makes everything so easy. It’s great for busy professionals, and I like the option of doing lunch or happy hour. I highly recommend IJL and Heather!
Reviewed Feb. 12, 2013
I was pleased with the service. My coordinator was especially pleasant to work with. She was always positive and had my best interests in mind.
Reviewed Feb. 12, 2013
I just signed up for this and have determined I had a grave mistake. My dating director, Javir, yelled at me on the phone when I called him back to tell him I was not interested in his first match. I gave him specific criteria that was not compatible with his choice. Javir threatened me and said, "This will count against you." I paid these people $2,600 a couple of days ago. I will be contacting my attorney tonight.
Reviewed Feb. 11, 2013
I signed up for IJL and my credit card was charged (over $2,000) on 12/13/2012. It is now over eight weeks later, and I've had exactly one date. I have called and emailed the local dating director multiple times, but I haven't heard back from her. I emailed the national contact and also have not heard from her. This service is not worth the money!
Reviewed Feb. 10, 2013
Obed has been my Dating Director ever since I joined IJL. Obed does a good job of listening to my requests and matching my dates to the requests. Anytime I call Obed, he answers immediately or returns my call within a short time. My experience with Obed and IJL has been a positive one.
Reviewed Feb. 10, 2013
In 2002, I was fortunate enough to meet my husband through IJL after dating a variety of people for about 8 months. I had a lot of fun during those months, and I had an incredible amount of dates, both in IJL and outside of IJL. Because I was very open to dating, I had success meeting men outside of IJL which kept me plenty busy, plus I joined IJL with a friend making it even more fun. My experience with IJL is, of course, going to be different from others; but I believe that my proactiveness in guiding the team at IJL is one of the keys to my success.
By carefully planning my expectations in the beginning, they established the patterns of the dates they sent me on. I tried to be extremely open minded to what the other person’s ethnic background, age, profession, family situation, etc. was in order to increase the range of men I dated. In addition, after each date I always gave IJL feedback so that they could improve my selections.
Over time, I was meeting more and more men that fit my profile, but honestly, there was just no chemistry. After a few months of this, while also maintaining my open mindedness, I was able to meet someone who had recently joined IJL. I said to him that he should date others as he would find IJL to be fun. A few weeks later, we began dating seriously and we got engaged 7 months later. We continue to be happily married, and I wish anyone the very best in trying a service that manages your selections and creates an atmosphere of comfort and safety while dating. Good luck.
Reviewed Feb. 8, 2013
Joined IJL in 2004 to meet people and maybe find someone to go out for movies and dinner with. On my 8th date, I found someone whose company I enjoyed and that, like me, was not looking for romance. We went out for awhile. Two years later, we were married, and this year, we are celebrating our 7th wedding anniversary. I now have a loving and caring man, but most specially, we have fun together. Thanks It's Just Lunch! For me, it was more than lunch, it was a life change; and I am loving it.
Reviewed Feb. 8, 2013
I had about six or seven dates so far. I enjoyed every date. Some are better than others, but never really disappointing. I love the fact all I have to do is show up looking awesome and ready to talk. I’m looking forward to continuing and finding the "right one" to have an extended relationship with.
Reviewed Feb. 7, 2013
I am impressed with new Milwaukee management and crew. Liz, especially, seems dedicated, talented and most of all concerned. She is really trying to match us up. As a discouraged veteran of 30 plus dates with IJL in the past, she seems to be a good one. Granted, I'm starting over but in better hands. Finally, Milwaukee seems to be in the hands of the founders with their ingenuity, creativity and concern on how to best help others. It will be interesting to watch. Go Liz!
Reviewed Feb. 6, 2013
IJL has given me great opportunities to meet several very intelligent, accomplished women. I'm more than satisfied with the service being provided. It has been virtually painless to consistently meet very impressive women. IJL has removed many of the hassles and inconveniences of dating. Thanks, Debbie (my local dating coordinator) and thanks, IJL!
Reviewed Feb. 5, 2013
I had a terrible experience with this company. I spent over an hour talking to a sales rep about myself and about what I like in a guy. It's been two months now. The first date never showed up. The second date was the complete opposite of what the sales rep and I discussed. He even mentioned that other girls he was sent out on dates with have complained. He is Catholic, and his last date was with a Jewish girl who stated she only wants to date Jewish men. I paid $1,000. The contract I signed stated the term was four months or four dates, whichever came first. I think they try to send you on four dates to meet their obligation regardless of whether the match is good or not. I have also emailed both the sales rep and my matchmaker (Jeff), and both have ignored my requests for a refund.
Reviewed Feb. 5, 2013
So disappointed in the quality of service. I was only matched with 2 (of 8) dates that actually lived in my county. One lived two hours away. One was a librarian aide. He could barely maintain a conversation and so improvised I felt I should pay for lunch. Then they ignored me for 10 months and promised to make up for it with 2 extra dates, which they then refused to honor. I would tell anyone and everyone to not do IJL. I promise you will be disappointed.
Reviewed Feb. 4, 2013
I would highly recommend It's Just Luch as a very professional matchmaking service, which is much better than on-line dating.
Reviewed Feb. 4, 2013
I signed up for this service because I could not handle the risks involved with online, unscreened dating. It's Just Lunch is not any better than Match.com. No one is screened. The relationship directors don't do any more than you would do yourself. They matched me up with a married man who was separated but was not getting a divorce. That is not a match! That is a dead end. I was introduced to men who were older than they were supposed to be - one was an alcoholic. Two dates were so awful that I wanted to climb out the restaurant window. Do not waste your money or your time! I could write volumes about this company, but I have wasted enough time and energy on this issue. Go for a lovely trip and enjoy the cost of this service.
Reviewed Feb. 2, 2013
Obed, my dating director, does a really nice job. He's 200% better than the last several. He's on the ball and very friendly. He is a pleasure to work with and I'm pleased to recommend him. Why do I have to write 50 words when so many less will convey my point?
Reviewed Feb. 1, 2013
Their staff has been attentive and professional, thoughtfully identifying matches. Calls are always returned promptly and I trust their judgment and screening process.
Reviewed Jan. 29, 2013
I'm writing regarding this dating service. Hopefully, my experience will be a warning to all those out there! First, please beware! This company are not who they say they are. Major rip off. For the past couple of weeks, I've been trying to get in contact to get an explanation. Carrie, one of the first people I spoke to, mentioned a lot empty promises and basically, all she wanted to do is take my money. I was set up with a couple of dates that really didn't even match me. It's like they weren't even reading what I wrote on my profile. I'm thinking these people just pick randomly, which is not what I paid for. Plus, I haven't been set up for other dates just like they promised. Beware of these people: Anton, Brianne, George, and Brandis. None of them wanted to help me with a peaceful resolution. I swear these people change their names every time I speak to them. It's crazy. Be careful with empty promises and avoid this company! It's a scam.
Reviewed Jan. 28, 2013
I signed up for this service even though there is no location in VT. I thought I could make the trips to MA and that they had people in the area to date. My first date was with a man from the Cape, who had no idea I was from VT. I had a change in circumstances and I can no longer just drive down there anytime I would like. I have one of my children full-time. I attempted to tell them and they really did not care. I tried to contact the person who I signed up for the service with and she just forwarded my emails without helping to resolve my issues. I asked her for a manager and she did not respond. I am now trying to do the face to face and I cannot schedule it due to my child. I even asked my representative, "Who do you have for me? How do you know they will date someone from VT?" No response as of today. I would like help getting a refund. Thank you.
Reviewed Jan. 24, 2013
My time spent on my Dating Coaching Session shed light on what is going well and things that I will keep in mind in order to experience more successful dates. The Dating Coach has listened to my specific experiences and provided relevant feedback that I believe will help me on my future dates!
Reviewed Jan. 24, 2013
Molly has been great. I think service is rather speedy. I've been to some nice restaurants. I assumed you got 24 dates with signing up but found out later it's only 18. It should be explained a little clearer. I also think you should offer a shorter membership, blah blah blah. Sorry, I couldn't think of 50 words.
Reviewed Jan. 24, 2013
It's Just Lunch has done all of the hard work in finding a person that I like then setting up the date. Each date has gotten better and better and I look forward to having fun with each new person that I meet. My dating director, Debbie, has shown true concern in trying to find me an amazing guy to date. Having this service has taken the stress off in dating.
Reviewed Jan. 23, 2013
Good opportunity to meet different people and experience new restaurants. It's just fun to meet new people and go out. I've been on more dates since starting the program. Better than the bar or club scene to meet interesting people. Only downside is the travel and distance between participants.
Reviewed Jan. 21, 2013
I have been trying to write this to IJL sooner but life has me really busy. I wanted you to know that this is the second time I have joined IJL. And I was very pleased to have been able to work with Obed. He is a wonderful addition to IJL staff compared with the individual I had to work with the last time. He is personable, friendly and puts in a lot of effort and time trying to find a match that you are looking for. I am on hold right now but when I return, I am looking forward to working with him again. Thanks Obed.
Reviewed Jan. 21, 2013
IJL introduced me to my wife in November 2007. We were married in October 2011. Our wedding website is here: **. The tab for "Our Story" describes our IJL experience. We both felt like IJL was just pairing us up with anybody else that was available in the system, but, luckily, we met.
Reviewed Jan. 21, 2013
Wow! What a great conversation I had with Sheri. She was upbeat, informative, and very friendly with a nice pleasant voice. I wish I had spoken to her a few months back to correct a few things I've done wrong. I would totally recommend speaking with her. :)
Reviewed Jan. 21, 2013
Patty hooked me up with a date and, so far, things have been great between me and this girl. We have been seeing each other for about three months now and it really has been a great match. We really connect on all levels and our communication is as open as can be. That's what makes it special.
Reviewed Jan. 21, 2013
I was skeptical about the service until I connected with Tia **. She intuitively understood what I wanted and needed. You can tell that Tia gets vested working with her clients and demonstrates that she wants the very best for you. I have already recommended the service to many friends and I hope they are lucky enough to work with Tia.
Reviewed Jan. 21, 2013
I had been relocated to another city due to work. I called IJL to cancel my membership because I could no longer date in Calgary. My dating director, Patty **, was sad to see me go. In fact, she went out of her way to transfer my file to my new city so that I could date there. Moving is stressful, but that help from IJL (especially Patty) made it that much easier. That's great client service! Thank you so much Patty. You're awesome!
Reviewed Jan. 21, 2013
Response to coaching session: The session was very helpful. It gave me some ideas about how a conversation should flow on a date. The most important information I received was that I should be a good listener and make the other person feel that their presence and contributions are important to the process. Sheri was positive and helpful in guiding me to more successful dates. Her constructive criticism was appreciated.
Reviewed Jan. 20, 2013
I work with Brenda ** out of Dallas and am part of the Elite program. Brenda is outstanding in every way. She truly works very hard to find good matches, not just 'dates'. She gives 100% and truly cares. She coaches along the way to try and help you have success. I have worked with other IJL offices and people and other companies - none of them compare to Brenda. I commute between Kansas City, MO and Dallas. I tried IJL in Kansas. They did not live up to their commitments, didn't return phone calls, even called me to say they would give me a special for $200.00 for me to try them again, that they were going to fix the KC office and really had great matches for me. They took my $200.00 and I never heard from them again - sort of like stealing.
Reviewed Jan. 17, 2013
I have been with IJL for about two years now. In these two years, I have had at least 6-8 dating directors. Out of all my dating directors, Christian is an exception! He is great at returning emails, always answers calls, is very patient at listening to and answering questions and is thoughtful in picking matches for me. Before I was placed with Christian, I was actually considering canceling IJL, because I was frustrated and disappointed in the services I had received and did not think my experience reflected the price point I was paying. (For example, dating directors before never answered their calls, seldom returned emails, and matched me with people without having read my file or got me on the phone and called me with the wrong name!)
After my multiple frustrated phone calls to customer service, I was fortunate to be placed with Christian. He completely changed my experience and now I think my investment with IJL is worth it. IJL is not a cheap dating service. You should hire more dating directors who can uphold the standard and caliber as you have advertised. Christian is exceptional. Turn him into a coach to help other dating directors understand the vision or put him in charge of hiring dating directors. I think he can contribute a lot to your organization.
Reviewed Jan. 17, 2013
Obviously, dating is difficult for me. It was great to converse with Sheri on ways to reinforce what I do right, and ways to improve on some weaknesses. It was really helpful to even identify areas of weakness in my dating skills because I don't have an outside perspective or a knowledge base of qualities that lead to success. Sheri took the time to explain the concepts in an enjoyable and engaging manner, and checked for understanding. I just recently used one of suggestions regarding eye contact and conversation skills, and patted myself on the shoulder having made an inch forward towards success. Today, I found out we are stuck in the friend zone, which gives me the opportunity to develop those other skills. I would like to thank Sheri for her time and effort, and taking a genuine interest in my situation. Thanks!
Reviewed Jan. 16, 2013
This company is a crock. First off, I never registered with the company. I was simply looking into a job that they had listed in my area. From there I started receiving phone calls daily from their Florida office (954 area code) and every voicemail they leave me states they want to talk to me before they go into a meeting. They purposely leave voicemails as if they're someone I know personally and never leave the company they're calling with. On several occasions, I've called back genuinely confused on how I know them. I've received several calls from Paris, Lisa and Lauren - all of which never state that they're with It's Just Lunch. All of which stated they wanted to chat with me before they go into their next meeting. So ridiculous! I've told them several times to stop contacting me, yet they still do. Obviously, they need some business because I can't get rid of them!
Reviewed Jan. 16, 2013
I signed up October 2011 and to make this short, this was how it all went down. My first date cancelled on me 1 hour prior to meeting. I got the message from the waitress since this was a weekend and I was seated at this restaurant. On the second date, I got a call from the matchmaker to inform me that my date could not make it due to personal issues. Once again, I was already seated at the restaurant, but this time 45 minutes away from home. On the third date, I actually met with my blind date. What a disappointment! She was looking for a man in the 50's because she was 46 yrs. old and I specifically told the matchmaker I wanted someone my age - 37 yrs. old. They stated she was 38!
On my fourth attempt, IJL set me up on another imminent epic failure with another woman. As soon as she stated she was into the swinging lifestyle, I walked her to her car. Done deal. No mas! On my fifth attempt, IJL called me with the most fake squeaky as well as annoying voice, to ask me if I would be interested in meeting with the woman who had cancelled on me. I agreed. I was cancelled once again while approaching the restaurant.
$2,200 bucks worth? Nah! Save your money and take a trip somewhere!
Reviewed Jan. 15, 2013
Patty is always pleasant; she's there if I need something and very easy to work with and talk to. Patty always provides detailed descriptions of the matches and what I and the ladies have in common. There have been times when I or the lady have had to change the date or time, and Patty has always found a solution.
Reviewed Jan. 14, 2013
This company is a scam to the first degree. They will take your money ($1,800 for 6 months, but can be more, depending on your salary). They will not return calls and they will match you with completely inappropriate individuals. My last date was with an admitted drug-addict and felon. Please don't waste your money. You cannot get any of it back and you can't even contact the home office, which is in Oceanside or Palm Springs, California because the address is hidden from even the information operator. The phone there rings, but no one ever answers regardless of which department you try to connect to. Don't go there! They are scary!
Reviewed Jan. 14, 2013
I'm really impressed with the quality of gentlemen I meet through this service. I am really enjoying my dates and the conversations I have with these men. The dates are always at a nice restaurant in a relaxed atmosphere so it makes it easy to have a great dinner and a nice conversation to try and get to know my matches.
Reviewed Jan. 11, 2013
It was a Saturday night, my 3rd IJL date and coming off a lousy set up the month before. My attitude muddled through this, and after my next scheduled date, I would put my membership on hold. There wasn't the formal escort, and she came over by herself. Cute, independent-within minutes, the personality! What a terrific personality. Let's get to the here and now. After canceling my next IJL set up and putting my membership on hold, I haven't been this happy since... probably forever. Thanks IJL!
Reviewed Jan. 11, 2013
I want to tell you a little bit about my experience with a cool dating service that I just joined called It's Just Lunch. Basically, I joined a dating service because I just didn't have enough time to go out and meet people and I wanted a fun way to meet, like minded professionals at a relaxed setting on my time frame. At first I thought the service was a little pricey but when I sat down and did the math, it actually came out to great value. I have enjoyed working with my dating director George. I'm hundred percent satisfied so far.
I basically added out how much time and money it would cost me to go out and randomly meet people, opposed to having a specific date set up for me, of the caliber of women that I wanted to date, people that were interested in a serious relationship and meeting people on my time frame, it was just perfect. I'm very happy with the service of It's Just Lunch! I would recommend this service to anyone who is serious about meeting a quality person to date. This service is very convenient and well worth the money!
Reviewed Jan. 11, 2013
I am very happy with the service! It's one of the few services that really deliver. I recommend you call if you are a single professional looking for your next love; this is it. Give it a try and you will be very happy. It seemed like a lot of money at first but I am so glad I did it. Do the math and see for yourself. It's very worthwhile.
Reviewed Jan. 10, 2013
If it were not for Brenda in the Dallas office, managing the Elite clients, the results would not be nearly as good as they have been. Brenda makes the effort and takes the time to do what I would consider is an excellent job of matchmaking as it should be done. Without her, I would not be using IJL due to the poor results in the past. Thanks to Brenda, I am quite satisfied.
Reviewed Jan. 10, 2013
IJL experience was excellent. It started with a staff that was kind and made me feel comfortable. They listened well to my 'wish list', shared honest information, and took and delivered feedback well. I was very impressed with the quality of service and selected dates. (All dates were very respectful and a gentleman!) This experience also enabled me to grow as an individual. Thank you IJL.
Reviewed Jan. 10, 2013
Brenda set me up with two great matches, and I decided to put the membership for 30 days on hold and see how the relationships develop. Both women are very attractive, well-educated, and just fun to be around. Since I have never spent a lot of time dating women, I have to get used to this new "life". Up to now, I had a very positive experience working with Brenda.
Reviewed Jan. 9, 2013
I decided to go all in to find someone different and special. I don't think the men could wrap their heads around a normal girl from Abilene, Texas. I hope to find someone interesting and earnest. Brenda and I have become friends, and she knows so much about me. She really took the time to get to know me. I love her!
Reviewed Jan. 9, 2013
I have been working with Brenda ** for the past few months. She has worked very hard being very professional and looking out for my personal interest. I recommend her and look forward continuing working with her in the future. Jenna has also been very friendly, always helpful and fun to work with. She and Brenda make a great team and show that they enjoy their profession.
Reviewed Jan. 8, 2013
George and Patti have exceeded my expectations on all levels in terms quality of dates, venues, etc. These people add value by listening to my needs and come up with dates for a very short notice. I would recommend your service and have recommended it to good single friends. This is my first service and I'm happy I chose It's Just Lunch.
Reviewed Jan. 8, 2013
The women I met through IJL were interesting and delightful to be with. The conversations over lunch and dinner were animated and educational. It was apparent that the IJL staff was investing a significant amount of time, thought and effort to find matches with the profile I requested. Over a six month timeframe, the IJL effort resulted in several repeat dating experiences that are ongoing. If one's expectations are realistic, IJL can deliver.
Reviewed Jan. 3, 2013
As a young health care professional in Dallas, I found it very difficult to find the free time to date. I joined It's Just Lunch, and they have introduced me to so many great men! They really make dating much easier by taking care of all of the details for me.
Reviewed Jan. 3, 2013
I wanted to let you know my dating director, Brandi's, is great. She really understand what I am looking for. Brandi's is always upbeat, very positive, and provide good feedback. I would recommend this service to all my friends and family members. I always look forward to hearing from Brandi's for her input as I date.
Reviewed Jan. 2, 2013
My city is listed as one of their locations, so I thought I would give the service a try. They sold me hard when I called and told me they had lots of wonderful men for me. I signed up. It turns out they were incredibly dishonest and had no one in my city (it should not be listed then!), and I was set up on dates two hours away from me or with men who lived 45 minutes away. I have no interest in ever seeing the men I met again - It's Just Lunch seemed to be randomly setting me up with men in a 300-mile radius. It's Just Lunch did not listen to my preferences and even made me drive four hours round trip for a 15-minute "face to face" meeting with one of their representatives. We met in a hotel, very sketchy, and it was a complete waste of time. It's Just Lunch has not responded to my requests for a refund. I am extremely disappointed and would never recommend this service to anyone. I'm currently trying to get a refund, but the company is extremely hard to pin down. It's been an awful experience.
Reviewed Jan. 2, 2013
I have been working with Anton (my Dating Director) for about a month and a half now. I have been on two dates with another one this Friday. Anton has been the consummate professional. I have a busy schedule and travel often, so meeting people is difficult. Anton has helped me out tremendously. He is polite and has a personal touch. I trust Anton and look forward to the matches he has for me in the future.
Reviewed Jan. 1, 2013
I decided to try something different than the online thing and heard about IJL on my Sirius radio. So, I got on the net, found your site, and contacted your people in Miami. First, I've got a great matchmaker, Patty. I have had my first 4 matches, and they were all excellent. Things are looking very positive. Patty has good instincts (very nice women), and we continue to try to find the "match" for the "one". So far, very positive, excellent! Thank you Patty and IJL.
Reviewed Dec. 29, 2012
I guess just as a little review, I have not found the perfect woman yet but thanks to It's Just Lunch, I am much closer. This is a complete program and honestly, it is what you make it. I took some risks and went out on many of the dates, met a lot of incredible people, and ultimately, I am closer to what I was looking for than I was when I was sitting at home. This is a very good program that I would highly recommend!
Reviewed Dec. 27, 2012
Most experiences have been good. My rep obed has done a nice job in matching me properly with women that are interesting attractive and suitable.
Reviewed Dec. 26, 2012
I have thoroughly enjoyed my IJL subscription. I moved to NC six years ago by myself. I'm newly divorced with no friends or family. My children are all grown and gone. I read about It's Just Lunch on a search engine, I think. Anyway, it sounded like a good idea, much better than dating sites which I hadn't wanted to do. I just wanted to get out and meet people that I had common interests with, who are about my own age and let nature take its course. I have met some terrific people and enjoyed the no pressure style meetings. I'm still looking to meet that special someone but I feel secure that I will because I'm meeting quality ladies that I have similar interests and compatibilities with. In today's hustle and bustle, it's nice to have IJL looking after my social life interests.
Reviewed Dec. 26, 2012
Proof is in the pudding as they say. My third IJL date and I were married this December. Our first date was arranged by IJL in July 2010, so I'm not certain why this request has been made at such a late date. The only reason I did not give five stars were communication issues between my first two dates, IJL and myself about my marital status (separated but not divorced at the time). Thanks.
Reviewed Dec. 21, 2012
The service I have received is amazing! My contact is just excellent and works hard to find me wonderful matches and dating times that are able to work around my difficult schedule. I have not found my soul mate yet, but I have great optimism with the ladies I have met recently! I would never have met such amazing ladies without the help of IJL! I cannot thank my contacts enough for all they have done and their superior service!
Reviewed Dec. 21, 2012
My husband and I were married on June 17, 2012, about two and a half years after meeting though IJL. I had been using IJL for about 5 months, but my husband had already been a member for over a year. We hit it off immediately, and ended our first date with plans to go out again the following weekend. The ladies at IJL were always so nice and easy to talk to. They are really dedicated to finding the best match. I would definitely recommend IJL to anyone who has tried internet dating unsuccessfully. Better yet, skip the internet all together and call IJL first!
Reviewed Dec. 20, 2012
I recently renewed my membership with IJL due to the excellent customer service provided by Brenda. Brenda exhibits passion in her position and genuinely cares about her clients and their success in matchmaking. I have had the opportunity to work with other agencies prior to IJL and Brenda’s superior service sets IJL apart from the competition. I would recommend IJL due to Brenda's passion, drive, and great customer service.
Reviewed Dec. 18, 2012
I have worked with the It’s Just Lunch Dallas office on and off for the last three years, and it has been absolutely terrific. I have been introduced to many nice ladies and have enjoyed the dates that I get set up on. There is nothing that I would change about the process to make it better.
Reviewed Dec. 18, 2012
Joining It's Just Lunch was overall a very personal and positive experience. They listened to me when I gave my feedback about my dates to continue improving and making better selections for me. On my third match, IJL set me up with my now fiance. We are getting married this March and I couldn't be happier.
Reviewed Dec. 14, 2012
The folks at IJL did exactly what they said they were going to do. My fiance was my first match but I liked the professionalism with the whole process. They listened to me when I started this process and I could not ask for better results. I have recommended IJL to many others and will continue to do so.
Reviewed Dec. 12, 2012
I had been divorced for a few years and was ready to start dating again, but I didn't know where to start. I had heard about It's Just Lunch through the grapevine and thought I would give it a try. So far, the experience has been a lot of fun! IJL has introduced me to so many great guys from around the metroplex that I never would have met!
Reviewed Dec. 12, 2012
Poor customer service - The second star is only because my current dating director Obed has been very good to work with. Near the end of my contract with IJL, I was actually going on dates that were good matches. Dating directors kept changing, and each new one was less familiar with my profile, and my needs. When I tried to contact the person who signed me up, I did not get a call back; neither did I receive an email reply. I was not angry. I had been polite, and specific about what I expected. I was just hoping to be the recipient of great customer service.
I am a good client, and I pay good money for something that is billed as an exclusive service. IJL is just not it. In short, IJL sells but does not provide. I cannot recommend the service. I hope that someone reads these reviews, and takes steps toward improvement. For now IJL is a beautiful, but poorly executed concept.
Reviewed Dec. 12, 2012
I just want to express my sincere thank you to Brandes and all the other very skilled, hardworking, and personable staff at this organization. I only am very familiar with Brandes who I cannot say enough good things about. She would be an asset to any organization she would ever serve.
Reviewed Dec. 11, 2012
I've been with It's Just Lunch for little over half a year, and for the most part, I've been very happy! The dating directors I have are George and Ryan. They do their best to get me what I'm looking for. It's funny, but I've noticed that in the beginning, it was a learning process for them, and for myself. Every match I've met I've learned to what I like in a woman, and what I would like to avoid. And I always have looked to give them hits to what I would like them to concentrate on, like the height of a woman. George is very easy to get a hold of and he always returns my emails and phone calls. I've noticed that he pays attention to the reviews that I send on each of my matches. Out of the two, he has gotten me the most matches. Ryan is always nice to work with but I would like to see more of match output from him.
We all know this service is expensive, and people should realize it's not their job to create the spark! There is work involved! A man or a woman is not handed to a person on a golden platter. This is where it can get frustrating at times because you are dealing with a blind date! But look at it as fun!
One of the last great differences is that It's Just Lunch helps create the best overall experience for their customers by conducting several follow-up meetings. I can't say enough of this; it has really forced me to think of how I can better myself. Sheri was my last dating coach, and I took a lot from our conversation. It was challenging to think of answers to her questions. She made me really analyze myself and it was fun to think of things I show or give a person on a first glance. I would recommend anyone to just take the chance. What do you have to lose?! The very first date you will have is more than you would have had if you didn't sign up!
Reviewed Dec. 11, 2012
I've had a great experience with this service and my reps George and Ryan. While no dating service can guarantee love, I feel It's Just Lunch did a great job in setting me up with a variety of people. All different, but in every case I could see why George and Ryan thought they'd be a good match for me. They put real thought into these matches. They didn't just match me up with random people in my area which has been great. I would highly recommend.
Reviewed Dec. 10, 2012
Maurice has set me up with many beautiful, intelligent and amazing women to date. Sure I can find and date women on my own, but Maurice and IJL introduced me to women I wouldn't otherwise meet. Maurice has been extremely professional while also being personable. He takes the time to get to know what really matters to me and I'm sure you, clients. If all your clients listen to him, they will be treated to exactly what they want - a wonderful dating experience. Tia** recently met me up on a date. She is a true blessing of a woman and we are thoroughly enjoying each day together and creating a wonderful future. I highly recommend and have recommended IJL and Maurice to any and all my single friends and family.
Reviewed Dec. 10, 2012
I entered into a service agreement with the company. It’s Just Lunch at the cost of $2100.00 to arrange meal meetings between myself and single women in which we both have similar interests and goals in life. Before contracting for their services, they explained procedures, which they would deliver to me. I was told that they would match my profile with women looking for my qualities and attributes and interests in life.
It took four weeks for them to match me up with a woman. When we met and began a conversation, the lady asked me what type of business do I have, and I responded I don’t own a business I work for an insurance company. She then asked me if I was single and I told her I was married but had been separated for quite a while. She then became very upset because she was given false information about me by the Its Just Lunch company. Once we finished our meal, I asked her if she would like to go out on another date and she responded no because she did not want to date a married man, and was only interested in a businessman. We both left very upset not with each other but because of the deceptive lie told by the Its Just Lunch company.
I called Its Just Lunch the next day to lodge my dissatisfaction. I asked the representative, “Why did you lie about me and my profession and marital status to the lady you matched me with?” and she quickly change the subject. I asked her when could they match me up with another lady and she responded with, “Maybe a few weeks because were very busy right now.” This response along with the falsification of information really upset me, so I began to express my dissatisfaction to her. She responded with, “I cannot speak with you right now” in a very rude manner and hung up the phone.
I called Its Just Lunch back six more times and I was hung up on each time. I am very upset and dissatisfied with the company, their lack of honesty and customer service and I ask anyone to avoid them.
Reviewed Dec. 6, 2012
After five dates, my experience with It's Just Lunch has been at a satisfaction. I have enjoyed all five of my dates, but I have never heard back from any one of them. I'm not sure how your criteria are for choosing someone, but it doesn't seem to be leading to any long term relationships. I do hope my experience in Jacksonville will be better.
Reviewed Dec. 6, 2012
I was with a matchmaker named Amber for about five months and then a couple of months ago, you guys switched to JaviR. Great move for your company. I was very unhappy before this change was made. Amber never returned calls and was not interested in getting to know the clients and what they are looking for.
Reviewed Dec. 4, 2012
Do not believe these people. They are not looking out for you or what you want. You are passed from person to person. Dates are cancelled with no consequence. They don’t personally email you. Everything is a form; they will only talk over the phone so there is no trail. It takes multiple emails and calls to get someone on the phone. They just take your money and lock you into a contract. Do not sign up!
Reviewed Dec. 3, 2012
The service is outdated in that you can't see your matches before they are set up. Therefore, the matches are based on common interest and not chemistry. Although chemistry is something that cannot be matched from paper, it did seem that the matches made for me were based more on age than on actual compatibility. I did drive about an hour to meet my dates, and in the year I was at IJL, I didn't feel any of the men were candidates for long-term relationships. Overall, this form of dating did not work out for me, but it doesn't mean it couldn't for someone else. If you live in a big city and close to where your dates will be arranged, then do it if you have the expendable income. Otherwise, join some clubs and organizations.
Reviewed Dec. 1, 2012
The dates that I went on seemed to be based on whoever fit into my age bracket, not based on how we would get a long or anything IJL talks about when you first discuss joining. Shame on me for not checking out this site to get a better understanding of what I was in for. I do not live in a large city, so my dates were from other cities, and we both would drive 45+ minutes to get to the date. I have to tell you every one of my dates were not anything like I described I was looking for. On several of the dates, we would joke about the company and talk about how we thought we were getting played.
I also had to meet with one of the IJL staff in the next city over. For me, this next city was an hour and a half. I was given wrong directions and ended up an hour away from the location after traveling and hour. I received no explanation for the wrong directions, except maybe a “whoops, sorry”. I received a call from my IJL contact asking for my availability, and I responded with no thanks, that I wasn't happy with IJL and the dates that I did go on. Funny, how I never heard from them again. Most companies would have at least called to ask what my concerns were and take the criticism and maybe make some changes - not a word. I wasted my time and my money on this one.