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It's Just Lunch is a personalized matchmaking service that caters to busy professionals looking for meaningful relationships in more than 110 U.S. cities as well as cities in Canada, the UK, Ireland and Australia. Matchmakers get to know members and use their dating preferences and relationship history to select matches. It's Just Lunch makes all the arrangements for comfortable and safe face-to-face dates, including the time and place. All members have to do is show up ready to meet their match. Potential pairs meet over lunch or after work for drinks.
- Guaranteed face-to-face dates
- Free onboarding interview
- Customized membership plans
- Fully confidential
- Lengthy process
- Can be pricey
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Reviewed May 13, 2014
Sharry ** with IJL Charlotte has been excellent. Matching me with four lovely ladies so far and she has already called me about a fifth. If she can keep this up for the rest of the year I will be very pleased.
Reviewed May 12, 2014
I had a positive, generally quite productive date consultation session with Sheri at IJL. My It's Just Lunch dating experience has been pretty good and overall I feel it's getting better. I have met some charming, accomplished, vivacious and beautiful women, and had many nice afternoons or evenings out. Going forward, I hope that it leads to the "right romantic connection" very soon. :)
Reviewed May 10, 2014
I'm new to Miami and saw an ad for IJL in the United Airlines magazine. It looked upmarket, established and exactly what I was looking for. I don't particularly have a problem getting dates but I wanted someone to get me 'suitable' dates and that's pretty much what they advertise.
I filled in an online inquiry and even though it was Sunday afternoon, my phone rang straight away with an enthusiastic lady who felt like my best friend after five minutes! She couldn't promise me enough. I talked about my circumstances and what I wanted to achieve and was told IJL could deliver it all. Eventually, I signed up at a fee just short of $3000.
That was the last I heard from the enthusiastic lady. I was then handed over to dating director Debbie - an extremely unpleasant and uncooperative woman who seems to drag herself through the day with the minimum effort. Debbie has 3 telephone lines but all go to voicemail and all the mailboxes are full so you can't leave a message and she completely ignores emails. She never talked to me to learn anything about me or my preferences. I just received an email one day to say a date had been set up, the man's name and time and location to meet. Incidentally, not the biggest problem but an important issue.... If you need to cancel at the last minute, you are told to call the restaurant! There is no emergency contact at IJL and even if you give permission they won't give your contact to your date. My date was during a bad tropical storm and we were warned to stay indoors. My date was flying in that night. I rang the restaurant several times to see if he had cancelled but they didn't speak English. In the end, I took a chance and went, in dangerous conditions. His flight was delayed and he was an hour and a half late. I'd think IJL could set up a better system.
Anyway, to cut a long story short, he simply wasn't a match for any of my criteria I'd discussed with the enthusiastic woman. I wasn't particularly upset. I assumed info hadn't been passed on or it was teething trouble but when I finally talked to Debbie, she said they didn't match on my specified criteria. I was livid because I'd been promised that they did. Many heated discussions followed and I demanded my money back but it was clear it would be like getting blood out of a stone. I asked Debbie what criteria they did match on and she kept repeating the mantra 'like minded people'. I pointed out she had never bothered to find out anything about me so that must have been difficult and pushed her to name one thing I had in common with my first date. Eventually she said 'yoga'....never done yoga in my life!!!
In the end, I decided to draw a line under it. They were never going to give me my money back but I hoped at least their service would improve. Debbie set up a couple more dates. Again I'd just get an email with name, time, place but could never get hold of her for more info. I just went with the flow, perfectly nice men but totally unsuitable matches for me... In fact, I was finding more suitable dates on Match.com because at least you can specify some criteria there. It became clear that they probably don't have a lot of men on their books and their only matching was if you were of the opposite sex and similar age. All my dates had had similar experiences and were unhappy. One told me he had even taken them to court.
Problems contacting Debbie and her disinterest became so bad that I filed a complaint with the Better Business Bureau. I was then contacted by another enthusiastic lady, Provi, who said she was now going to work with me and get everything on track. We talked about my likes and dislikes in depth and I mentioned one issue from all the dates Debbie had sent me on that I was never going to get past... height! The men had all been so small I actually thought one might be a clinical dwarf. I'm only 5 ft 7 in so not an Amazonian and didn't think it was such an unreasonable demand for a man to be at least 5 ft 9 in as I'm absolutely never going to be attracted to a man shorter than me. We all have our deal breakers and I would think a dating service would take this into account. Provi said she agreed and would make sure it was noted.
Provi set up a date for me with a tall, handsome, animal loving eye surgeon. I said he sounded perfect joking that the only thing that could have made him more perfect would have been if he was a plastic surgeon! When we met, he indeed seemed perfect and to add to that, he told me he was getting out of eye surgery and opening an aesthetic clinic... What are the chances???? Anyway we had a fun night. He seemed to be enjoying himself and not in a hurry to leave. I did think he seemed a little theatrical for a surgeon and was also a little confused when he mentioned he worked from home but I was having a good time so what the hell. Needless to say, I didn't hear from him after our date and far be it for me to suggest he was some kind of set-up in order to calm me down and drop my complaint but I have heard a rumor about IJL being found out doing this in another part of the US.
I was surprised that as soon as I did not proceed with my BBB complaint, Provi disappeared and I could not contact her and I was back with Debbie. Two more dates with two unfeasibly tiny men really got me annoyed. We eventually had a conversation during which she told me they don't match on height and the average height for a man is only 5 ft 7 in anyway. This woman makes it up as she goes along! I again put in a complaint, this time to their head office (I think... working out their corporate structure is not easy). Debbie called me, whining on about my difficult demands and saying she was doing her best... My only criteria and demand had been for a man on a similar financial level to myself and and able to look me in the eye. I actually think I have been pretty UN-demanding given that I've parted with $3000! At the time of her call, I was driving to the airport and couldn't discuss in depth so once again agreed to draw a line and give it another go but I said I would need to know a lot more about anyone else she set me up with because otherwise I was just wasting my dates (you get 11 or 12). I said I'd let her know when I was back in town.
I've been back in Miami a week now and despite giving her my schedule three weeks ago, sending her around 5 emails asking her to confirm she received it, I did not get a response. Calling her once again just goes to VM. I have never received any feedback from them, as they promise, from any of my dates. She told me this would be done in a coaching session that she would set up when I was back in town. I also asked her about this in my recent emails but again I'm just being ignored. I understand there may not always be a match available but she has no excuse for not setting up a coaching session.
I have totally had it with IJL. They are a slippery organization that promise you everything when taking your money but deliver nothing. I believe my expectations were reasonable for this kind of service... I wasn't expecting them to deliver Mr Right. I was just expecting them to deliver matches that I had something in common with and met my needs of attraction (at least on paper) and thereby INCREASED my CHANCE of meeting Mr. Right! I also expected good lines of communication and a dating director who has some level of enthusiasm.
Reviewed May 9, 2014
Sheri just gave me some really good tips and advice on how to enhance my dating experiences. I was married for almost 30 years, so it's not like I have much experience at this! She was kind, thoughtful and helpful. I'm looking forward to implementing her suggestions, and seeing what happens!
Reviewed May 9, 2014
I had a great date coaching session with Sheri. She was very funny and easy to talk to. She obviously did a lot of preparation before the session because, in addition to the pre-session questionnaire I sent her, she had apparently reviewed my past matches, feedback, etc. She really knew her stuff and came to the session prepared. I am excited to put some of her suggestions into practice! I highly recommend her!
Reviewed May 9, 2014
Michelle is always so friendly. She has a great ability to find positive attributes in all the people assigned to her. Michelle is a pleasure to deal with and I think her attention to customer service is a fantastic representation for your company.
Reviewed May 8, 2014
Even though I haven't met the man, I have to say the entire experience was fine. The customer service was great and it was very easy. The dates were set up in nice places and my dating director was responsive and available. Shari my dating coach was great!
Reviewed May 7, 2014
My coaching session was greatly positive. It showed me what to work on, what can be better, and what I need for my next dating situations. I thank IJL and their staff for working on all the necessary components on order to make my meetings successful!
Reviewed May 5, 2014
I have returned from a break from IJL and had Mitch assigned to my case in Detroit. I have met some good women and he responds quickly to all of my correspondence. I am very happy with his customer service and would recommend him to anyone.
Reviewed May 5, 2014
After evaluating dating firms in the area, I surely decided to go with It's Just Lunch. I've been on three dates so far and all have been enjoyable. Although chemistry can't be controlled by a firm, a good firm will provide agreeable matches. The matches directly picked by Kirk and Sylvia have been great so far. He is a respectful and hard working individual who does his best to arrange agreeable matches.
I provide him feedback after my dates and we move on from there. If you are looking for a firm specializing in the OC area in California, do all of your research then let Kirk do the rest. When investing in a firm compared to a dating website, remember both men and women are serious in not wasting their time and both individuals must invest more money than a typical dating method to more selectively meet someone of their liking. Give Kirk a chance to arrange your dates. I have yet to be disappointed.
Reviewed May 5, 2014
I feel like there hasn't been great matches available so far. Some dates I was surprised I was being set up on. My dating coaching session was great and fun, and hopefully there will be some good opportunities to put all that info to use.
Reviewed May 5, 2014
Hmmm… Where do I begin? I went on one date with the most amazing lady ever! It has now been two weeks dating her and it is just Awesome to have such a great person in my life!! I really do see us spending the rest of our lives together :) and it is all because of Erin ** at "It’s Just Lunch". Thanks a million Erin!
Reviewed May 3, 2014
Well, I have been "IJL" for about 3 months. When coming in contact with one of your staff members, first it was Sylvia. She was very helpful and getting me started on the process of my membership on here. Then I was contacted with staff Kirk. He has been very helpful as far as setting up dates, does a good Job selecting restaurants, very well informed. Keep up the good work Kirk.
Now on some of the meet ups with the Ladies, let's just say on one date, (dinner date) was interesting. The next day, I told Kirk my side of the story and he said he was sorry to hear the date didn't go well and he understood about what I'm seeking for my next date, etc. Kirk is very patient and takes the time to help you in anyway concerning restaurants & dates, etc. Thank you Kirk for all your help!
Reviewed May 2, 2014
I've had a wonderful experience with It's Just Lunch! The folks at IJL have done a fantastic job of getting to know me and identifying dates that meet my hopes and expectations. The team has been engaged and proactive!
Reviewed May 2, 2014
I love working with Elisa and Michelle at IJL... I talked with Elisa for over 2 hrs before I joined, and I felt such a strong connection with her and the passion that she has for her work that she inspired me to join... Later, I worked with Michelle as my dating director, and through several long conversations, Michelle and I developed a great connection, and she gave me confidence that my true love was on her way to me... Michelle set up one date for me where she told me to walk into the restaurant and declare that I was there to "meet the love of my life!"... I did just that, and I was introduced to a beautiful woman that I did fall in love with... Unfortunately, a deal breaker was discovered that broke both our hearts... Michelle was a compassionate and thoughtful listener through the whole experience and offered advice, feedback, and most importantly, hope... I am confident that my true love is just around the corner, and IJL and Michelle are working hard to make it happen!... :-)
Reviewed May 2, 2014
Dating coaching session - Well it was very refreshing to be able to listen to good and professional advice, and to create a plan to get to my goal. She make me feel comfortable and it was like having a conversation with a good old friend.
Reviewed May 2, 2014
I loved working with Erin Springer at IJL! Within 3 dates she had the person that I was looking for nailed down! I am now dating an awesome guy and things are looking very promising! Thank you so much for this wonderful service that you provide.
Reviewed May 1, 2014
Nika has been diligent at arranging dates for me and finding men that fit my profile and personality well. She is always friendly and accommodating both on the phone and in her e-mails. I am grateful for the support.
Reviewed April 30, 2014
Through IJL I have had a welcome opportunity to meet highly intelligent women that have so much to contribute. In just few dates I am humbled. I thought I knew women, but have found that a Lady is more than a fairytale. I have been offered, by a truly professional dating counselor, the chance to create a new spark of romance. I do admit, I am not the golden ring, but, IJL has reinforced the life fact that "There is someone for you", "There is someone for everyone." Without doubt IJL has removed my fear of dating, has truly found "Ladies" that I can converse with and enjoy companionship. I am a professional within my industry, but did not expect the commitment and dedication (total underestimation by self) of "It's Just Lunch." If others might read this, "IJL" is not a bar, friend or relative trying to help you. IJL is something a whole lot better.
Reviewed April 29, 2014
This is my first experience with a personalized matchmaking service and I was reluctant to join. However, so far it's been a great experience. My dating coach Debbie has been very helpful and professional. She is easy to reach, easy to talk to and has been understanding of the type of men I am interested in meeting. I'm excited about every date she arranges for me.
Reviewed April 29, 2014
Thanks for all your help!!!! I met the love of my life :-) We were married last month. He was my 5th date, I was his 3rd... Sorry it took so long to write. We wouldn't be together without you. So sorry I doubted you in the beginning.
Reviewed April 28, 2014
Vanessa listened to me & found me just what I always wanted in a man & then some. I meet my date for a lunch. I invited him to a outdoors concert after lunch, then he took me to dinner. We had the best first date ever! I have enjoyed my conversations with Vanessa. She is a great asset to IJL & us!
Reviewed April 28, 2014
Watch out for the sales pitch. These salespeople who really are not matchmakers work on commission and will say anything to get your business. You do not receive any personal service. They do not follow the preferences and criteria they are given and will never refund your money even though they do not do as they promise, other than throwing you together with people to meet their numbers plans.
Reviewed April 26, 2014
I just had my first coaching session with Sheri. I found her easy to talk to as well as a good listener. She asked a lot of questions that made me think about my dating experiences differently. The feedback she gave me tells me I am on the right track with just a few tweaks. The best way to go into the session is to keep an open mind. After all, we all have opportunities to show our best self on our dates.
Reviewed April 25, 2014
After experiencing difficulty parking at two of the restaurants chosen by It's Just Lunch, I was very glad that the Senior Dating Coordinator was receptive to my suggestions for alternatives, which were more convenient in this regard and also on the IJL list of restaurants. My dates welcomed the options, and some voiced similar complaints about parking at a few of their previous restaurant destinations.
Reviewed April 24, 2014
It was very nice talking with Sheri. She was very pleasant, informative and gave me a lot of helpful advice. She is very good at her job, a definite people person!
Reviewed April 24, 2014
I was a little hesitant to sign up. However my It's Just Lunch Contacts made me feel at ease and helped me along the process. Rachel was amazing at making me "just chill out" and realized this was not about just the money, it was about finding the right one and enjoying yourself. Debbie took the time to figure out what my "it" type was. She hit the ball out of the ballpark. These two have been fantastic even when there were the bumps in the road.
Reviewed April 24, 2014
Sheri was very knowledgeable about her profession as a dating coach. I had made a lot of mistakes on my dates and Sheri had the right answers to correct them or make different decisions on the dates. She clarify was on my level to understand the basics to possibly have a second date with the women I will meet in the future. I had more confidence after my conversation with Sheri and she wanted to make sure I understood everything within the hour we spoke on the phone.
Reviewed April 23, 2014
After a rough start, It's Just Lunch worked with me to get who I was, what I was looking for and nailed it on the head, they took their time to get to know me and what I was looking for and we teamed up to find the right one!.
Reviewed April 23, 2014
I am very satisfied and comfortable with the service received from the whole team of IJL and specially for the dedication and excellent care that Debbie has put into my case, helping me find the right match for my personality. This whole experience has been handled very professionally and looking for the best interest of all the people involved in such an interesting process of finding the most appropriate soul mate.
Reviewed April 21, 2014
I would highly recommend IJL to anyone who is interested in meeting the right person. I recently moved to Cleveland and I have found the IJL team to be incredibly impressive and in short, amazing. Janelle and her team have a unique ability to make the experience professional, fun, meaningful and easy. With a busy schedule, this is particularly important to me. I have been very pleased with the experience and have recommended IJL to my close friends as well.
Reviewed April 20, 2014
I did the website dating for more than a year and it was frustrating to send emails back and forth to women that may or may not be interested in dating or just seeing "what's out there". When I would be spending a great deal of my time pursuing internet dates, I would have a date 1 every 2 months. When I started It's Just Lunch (IJL), I was apprehensive about a dating service as I had never used one before. I went on my first few dates and I was nervous and I made some rookie mistakes, but because I have been going on dates closer together, I've been able to learn from my mistakes and have definitely gained more confidence and present the best version of myself on dates now.
This is where I think the real value is in this service. I have been on multiple dates without having to do any of the legwork; I will repeat that, any of the legwork. I step into the restaurant with a woman that is a put together professional, that has been verified, has met with Its Just Lunch management face to face. Erin and Natalie have been a great help. Thank you.
Reviewed April 16, 2014
I gave a five star only because you finally found a match that met my profile.
Reviewed April 15, 2014
I want to say that Obed is always attentive to my concerns/needs as far as dating. He has worked diligently to find good matches for me. I appreciate his time and attention very much!!
Reviewed April 15, 2014
Dating directors send links for good reviews and get bonuses on every good review that is online. IJL does a great job on selling that they are a premier dating service. The reality is very different. In the year that I signed up I had over 6 dating directors and only 2 of them were worth it. The good dating directors are quickly moved out of Orange County and lousy ones were put in their place. The new dating directors could not even bother to call their clients to introduce themselves. You have to manage them very carefully and I found myself sending emails constantly asking for them to set me up on a date. The dating directors did not spend time getting to know me or what I was looking for in a partner. I felt they just sent me out with anyone so that I would stop calling or sending emails. They did not take my feedback to heart. Needless to say it was a very frustrating year and I do not recommend IJL to anyone. If you do sign up I wish you lots of luck!
Reviewed April 12, 2014
It's Just Lunch is a great way for a busy professional to meet that special someone. The IJL team coordinated dates that worked with my busy schedule and allowed me to meet some really great guys. It didn't take many dates before I found the one! Erin and Natalie were fun to work with and took the time to set up great dates. The process is smooth and allows for a lot of flexibility. I definitely recommend IJL for those who are ready to meet that special someone.
Reviewed April 12, 2014
Sharry has been wonderful. She is always so positive and a genuine pleasure to work with!
Reviewed April 10, 2014
I have joined IJL4 (the San Diego franchise) 3 times. Yes, that's right. The 1st and 2nd times were pretty good. I didn't meet the love of my life but I went out on some decent dates. I was about halfway through my 2nd membership and they called me up asking about the Elite Service. It was pricey but I fell for the hype anyway. Big mistake! The matchmakers were useless. They didn't do even half of what they promised. I didn't go on one date for the 1st 2 months of a 6-month contract. They sent me on two dates (one was OK and one was lousy) and then I called up to complain (again).
I find out that the local franchise is out of business and the corporate office will be handling me. Things did not get better when the franchise took over. I went out on one lousy date and then they told me that my contract was up. I didn't get a fraction of what I paid for. They told me they would give me one more date but that's still not nearly what I was expecting. DO NOT sign up with these guys. Both corporate and the San Diego franchise suck! Does anyone know how to get a hold of them? I'd like to take them to small claims court but I don't even know who to sue because IJL4 is out of business.
Reviewed April 9, 2014
I have found the experience to be a good one, pretty much since the first day I called to sign up. Everyone I've spoken to has been both professional and friendly, always interested in my best interests and, over time, were able to really fine-tune the men I was matched with. Some negative reviews exist online for this service, but I have found those to be totally inaccurate, or due to people who have a set decision already in mind of who they want to be with, and it's totally unrealistic. Within the men who are a part of this service, I found that my matches were usually very well suited, and improved steadily as my dating continued. I have already started advising friends to use this service if it exists in the city where they live, and will continue to do so.
Reviewed April 7, 2014
I would like to say that Katie has simply been the best person for me for arranging for matches. She has always been honest and has listened to me when I made requests. She has been very attentive, always polite and is very caring. Simply the best!
Reviewed April 4, 2014
I had a great session with Sheri on 3/24/14 and her dating advice was spot on. Not only did she listen and give me great advice on future dating but she took it a step further and identified an Oprah "Ah-Ha" moment for me that brought everything back in a full circle with the feedback gathered from my previous dates with IJL and past relationships outside of IJL.
Sheri, has continued to follow-up with me to see how I am feeling in regards to my upcoming date tonight with another IJL candidate. Prior to speaking with Sheri, I have worked very closely with George almost a year now. George is the absolute best! He listens to my feedback and pushes me to be more open (in a good way) so that I continue to get the best dating experience and candidates with IJL.
Reviewed April 4, 2014
I had my first IJL today, and poor guy drove 3 hours and we were no more match than a man in the moon. They told me he was in the medical profession. What is so funny about that is he is PhD. I think they looked at the Dr. in front of his name and thought he was a medical doctor. These folks are dingbats.
Reviewed April 3, 2014
Obet is the best. Working with him is a pleasure. He needs a raise.
Reviewed April 3, 2014
Sharry is very nice to work with. Easy to talk to. Answers questions and listens well. She always gets back to me very quick if I have a question. I would recommend her and It's Just Lunch.
Reviewed April 1, 2014
I have several great dates and met some really great women here. Thanks Obed for the great work! It's all been very good in my view, and I have recommended this to a friend who has joined as well. Great Concept and thanks for everything!
Reviewed April 1, 2014
After deciding it was time to date again, I joined IJL mainly because I was not interested in going through picture after picture and profile after profile of "available" men who would also be going through my picture and profile. I wanted something a little more intimate or my dream was someone would find me a compatible life partner. And then I learned about IJL!
I contacted them and met with someone by phone who asked me many questions and told me how the program works. I decided I had nothing to lose and lots to gain. Let the dating begin. I was assigned a dating director. I met with another staff member who got to know me a little more personally since they work as a team. She encouraged me to keep in touch with my dating director and let her get to know me.
Well, I will be honest, initially, it started out less than perfect. I was unimpressed with the service and I felt that no one was listening to my needs. And my dates were less than perfect for me. I took action. I met by phone with my dating director Vanessa and asked her to listen to my concerns and she DID. She listened to me, we got to know each other better and she went out of her way to understand what I was looking for in a partner.
I have to say, since then, IJL has been an amazing experience. I could have just went on the dates and been miserable, but the key here, is let your director know you, talk with her/him and express your needs. After all, they are there to make this a good experience. Currently, I am dating a wonderful man who I hope to have many more dates with and who know what will happen! And I am grateful for Vanessa and IJL in making this happen. Thank you!
Reviewed March 31, 2014
I have used IJL more than once and really like their service. It has been helpful in finding really great people I wouldn't have found otherwise. As a busy person, it’s hard to find time to date, but IJL really helps you get excited about the process and makes it so easy. Thanks IJL for all you do.
Reviewed March 30, 2014
I've had 4 dates so far & my last date was excellent. I felt Shari & I have had a good relationship & she truly cares that I find the perfect match. I know that I can call Shari at any time & she responds within a timely manner. I love having the personal interaction that IJL provides. Thank You!
Reviewed March 30, 2014
Overall I do feel this offers quality matches with similar interest. This can be a function of not be able to read behind the participants. I did like my interaction with the Dating Advisor. She was professional and offered great advice. She was prompt and provided timely follow up. Great work Sherri!
Reviewed March 30, 2014
Erin and the rest of the team do a wonderful job of communicating. While I was a little unsure at the beginning about the expense, I feel like it is a good value. I met some really interesting people I would not have ordinarily met and found an amazing romantic connection that I would not have met on my own. I would encourage others to give it a try!
Reviewed March 29, 2014
I've been with IJL for a couple of months. So far, it has been a great experience. The matches have been spot on and exactly what I'm looking for. I'm new to the area and finding good quality women is hard to do. My dating coach Obed has been prompt and finds me matches that I express to him that I want. It is worth the investment for sure!!
Reviewed March 28, 2014
I live near Boone, NC and would like to see if it is possible for me to be paired with ladies closer than Charlotte, NC. Bristol, VA, Bristol, TN, Johnson City, TN., Winston Salem, NC and Greensboro, NC are all possibilities. Sharry has been very kind and considerate and has worked hard at finding me partners. She is always very kind and considerate and works hard at trying to get matches together.
Reviewed March 28, 2014
Nika did an outstanding job for me. I believe that she always had my best interests at heart, and worked within the parameters set by IJL. My dissatisfaction comes from the IJL experience as a service. The saleswoman (I don't care what title she has, because she was nothing but a saleswoman) way oversold the service in my opinion. I feel that the truth was manipulated in such a way so as to still be somewhat "true", but very misleading. I was led to believe that the feedback from my dates would be quickly shared with me so as to be beneficial on following dates.
There was a long (two month) period of time when there were no dates available. Per the terms of my contract, I could have cancelled my service and received a partial refund. My first "match" was a stretch. My second "match" wasn't even close to being a "match". She was not the type of person I described as my interest. She told me that she explicitly said that her "match" could not have dependent children, when I, in fact, have three. To make my date even worse, the server handed me the check, although I was assured by Christian that the server would bring two checks. My date walked out, and I politely paid the bill.
My "matches" did get closer once Nika became involved. However, I'm still confused as to why the females I met paid substantially less than I did for the IJL service. There are more reasons as to why I am dissatisfied, but there is no sense in going on about them. In general, I feel that I was sold on a service that portrayed itself as much more than it really is. I definitely did not get $1,000.00 worth of value from this experience.
In early December I seriously considered filing a complaint with the NYS Attorney General's office. I chose not to do so once Nika became involved. As I mentioned earlier, I felt that Nika truly had my best interests at heart. She tried to accommodate me the best she could. Unfortunately, by the time Nika became involved, my excitement in the IJL experience was gone.
Reviewed March 27, 2014
Wonderful dining experience with a beautiful and cultured woman who really impressed me with her looks, spirit and soul. We really hit it off and I am really looking forward to our next interaction!
Reviewed March 26, 2014
Sheri was very helpful. I will try to improve my weaknesses that she notice. I feel that this coaching session will improve my chances to a second date. Thanks.
Reviewed March 26, 2014
I am enjoying the complete "It's Just Lunch" experience. Sharry is a great coordinator that listens to my feedback. She has made the experience the best.
Reviewed March 26, 2014
Sheri does a great job with coaching - she offers positive and constructive comments to make my dating life even better. I recommend IJL as it is a great part of my social life to meet new people.
Reviewed March 25, 2014
Sheri has restored my faith in IJL. She has been very receptive and more importantly to me, very communicative. Each time I emailed her, she responded promptly, even if it was just to confirm reception of the email. The counseling was enlightening. Sheri provided some helpful hints and it was interesting to hear feedback from my dates. I enjoyed having someone really listen to me and to be patient and realistic.
Reviewed March 24, 2014
IJL made it easy for me to start dating after being divorced. They arranged great dates and I became comfortable with dating. This led me to meeting someone that I've been dating for over a year.
Reviewed March 24, 2014
Getting honest feedback from my dates and suggestions of what I can do better on my future dates is of great help and gives me hope for better results in the future.
Reviewed March 24, 2014
My first date match up was incredible. Everything I mentioned I was looking for this guy has. I was amazed and still am amazed at how good a job Karina did. I am incredible happy and may have found my life partner. This guy feels the same way. We are so thankful to Karina.
Reviewed March 24, 2014
I had a good experience with "It's Just Lunch". It is a great program for busy people like me. In reality, it's a shortcut to find a romantic relationship. I am very thankful to everyone at "It's Just Lunch", very pleasant and knowledgeable crew.
Reviewed March 24, 2014
Sheri was very positive and helpful during our coaching session. She gave me several tips on areas that I could improve based on feedback from my previous dates. I would have liked to talk to her longer so we could get into even more detail about how I could improve my dating experiences overall.
Reviewed March 23, 2014
Do not waste your money! This company is a total scam. I spent $1500 and got 2 dates in 4 months. They lack professionalism and are only interested in your money. My first date was set up in a town that wasn't really convenient for either of us since the dating specialist didn't know what city I lived in. She was supposed to make a reservation in both our names. When I got there, I found there was no reservation. And weirdly enough they had us meet in a hotel. After the first date you're supposed to meet with a representative from IJL. A meeting was arranged and I drove 3 hours and was stood up by an IJL representative. After that I started to wonder about this company. I was than informed that there were only 2 men available for me to date in my territory of 3 metropolitan cities and that these men were separated but not divorced. This was unacceptable to me.
I went on one more date when she finally found someone who was divorced and this person could not have been more opposite of someone that I would chose for myself. There were absolutely no match making skills used to make this match. When I complained and asked for my money back I was told my membership had been terminated and that there was no way to get any money back. I am astounded at the lack of professionalism and the total disregard for customer satisfaction. Like I said, DO NOT WASTE YOUR MONEY!!!!
Reviewed March 23, 2014
I know that matching people up is tricky. Dating reps are usually very enthusiastic and friendly - very optimistic. However, I do think that when clients provide clear specifications about the most important criteria, at least those ought to be strictly respected. There are three things that cause my dissatisfaction.
1) Lack of communication - As a service provider in a very personal field, I expect that dating counselors or advisers would be in frequent contact to apprise clients of the status of the search. I have had to take charge of the communications, sometimes emailing and calling several times, to get an update as to the status of my situation. One makes oneself pretty vulnerable getting into the dating game. Hiring IJL was meant, in my case at least, to be a support mechanism. What I have experienced is a sense of being unheard and even denigrated because I want to know, at least every 10 days to 2 weeks, that my case is being considered. I have gone months - literally, without hearing from IJL. When I do hear, in several instances, I have been switched to a new dating rep. Then that person seems to want to start all over without a clear sense of the feedback or input I have already provided. Which brings up the second point.
2) Do the reps read the feedback? Are there notes about our conversations when we do have them? Which leads to 3. 3) How do you get to speak with someone who is actually in charge? The difficulty of talking to someone who is not a dating rep makes me feel like there is something the company wishes to hide. Why is it so difficult to find someone in charge?
I do hope that this situation improves. I have felt that I was taken or am being taken advantage of and do not like that. I do not expect perfection, and I am glad if the long time between dates is actually a precaution against sending me out on unsuitable meetings. However, I would be satisfied, maybe even recommend the service, if there were more frequent updates as to my status, and a sense that at least one person actually read and reflected upon my feedback rather than being moved from person to person, and starting over.
In 8 months I have had 5 dates. One was totally unsuitable, another I cancelled when I learned my friend, also an IJL client, had gone out with him and reported his drinking problem, and one who told me at the end of the date that he was already with someone. The last date I went on, probably had all the right qualifications on paper, so I am not unhappy with the service, but I do hope that you read the feedback before choosing his next date - for her sake.
Reviewed March 20, 2014
I've enjoyed my experience with IJL and met some great ladies. Sharry is a very good coordinator and actually listens to my feedback and just doesn't randomly select girls for me to meet. I would recommend IJL to anyone tired of the bar scene or finds it hard to meet people because of their busy schedule. I fall into both categories and am glad I gave IJL a try.
Reviewed March 19, 2014
It's Just Lunch has set me up with some very highly potential mates. I am still in the process of finding the one but overall they are very patient and compassionate. Also they are a very friendly team. Open and honest. I would recommend them to friends if they asked for help in the love area of their life.
Reviewed March 14, 2014
During this past 6 months, I have had the opportunity to meet various interesting men of which I am certain under normal circumstances I would not have come across. We have had engaging conversations as well as the enjoyment of nice settings. My experience has been a pleasant experience.
Reviewed March 14, 2014
I have been with IJL for almost a year. I was happy at the beginning. However, I did not have any date from December to February. I was not quite happy with the service and were thinking about quitting. But Vanessa took over a couple of month ago. Since then, I decided to stay. She always replies to my emails and calls. When I have a request, she always respects me and takes care of it right away. Because of her service, I am willing to continue trying the service.
Reviewed March 14, 2014
They have no sense of where you live and where they arrange dates. Their sales people are worse than the worst used car sales people and have no idea of what they are selling or who you are. They need to use maps (any map) to understand the geography. They need to be able to answer the phone using a human. Tomorrow is never soon enough when things are not working. Suspend your account, but they will charge your card anyway. It is a Very bad business. Too expensive for what is delivered. Don’t even think about it. It is very bad.
Reviewed March 13, 2014
Sheri has great communication skills that enabled me to learn faster. She has easy personality that makes learning fun. I was very happy with my session.
Reviewed March 12, 2014
It's Just Lunch is a great concept and I found the staff I met to be very professional, friendly, excited about the program and helpful. Unfortunately, my dates, though all very nice, did not evolve into a relationship or even friendships. Life it seems has different plans for me. Nonetheless, I would recommend the program to others.
Reviewed March 12, 2014
It was a good experience and well organized. Up to this point I found it enjoyable. I feel it is helping me reach my goal.
Reviewed March 12, 2014
My lunch date with Leroy was nice. We were on time the restaurant was beautiful and the food was delicious. Our conversation was interesting, we have some things in common, so is our lunch enjoyable.
Reviewed March 11, 2014
I highly recommend IJL. Their staff is top notch! My personal experience has been fabulous thus far. I work mainly with Kara, but the rest of the team all do a fantastic job and appear to be quite knowledgeable. I like the fact that they're straight forward and provide me with pretty clear-cut direction. The fact that I travel a ton means that I don't have to do a lot of thinking when it comes to planning for date. I prepare based on the information they provide first-hand. Then the rest is up to me. The more dates I go on and the better they get to know me, enables them to tailor my next date. Now I'm not saying this is the "end all be all," but it does complement what I do on my own. After all, you have to want to be in a relationship in order to find that right person. IJL just increases your pool of potentials. Bottom line, if you don't have time to read profiles online, which I'm not a fan of… then this is a pretty good alternative.
Reviewed March 10, 2014
I have know about It's Just Lunch for a while. I just never pulled the trigger in the past. That is until a couple of months ago. I am in a not so unique position: I am an officer in my company and I do not have time to do the website/bar thingy. Well, I definitely can do the website thingy; however, going through all of those profiles, then sending e-mails, and maybe if I am lucky, I get a response... who has the time?
It's Just Lunch does exactly what it said it would do... set me up with QUALITY matches. I do not have to worry about the education level, or the age, or the emotional majority of the person sitting across the table from me. It's Just Lunch took care of all of this for me. If you are looking to find someone special use It's Just Lunch because the person sitting across from you is spending just as much money as you. Therefore they are just as motivated as you to find someone.
Reviewed March 10, 2014
Kerri is my 5th dating director and by far the best. She communicates and listens. She is actually working hard on my behalf to find me the right person.
Reviewed March 10, 2014
I have gotten great service from my primary coordinator, Alexis. She has taken the time to get to know me and really wants me to be successful. She is responsive, kind and has good insights into the process. Megan has been great to work with also.
Reviewed March 7, 2014
They set me up on two dates that went well. The third date they refined my search and set me up with the most wonderful woman. We can't stay away from each other. Thank you.
Reviewed March 6, 2014
I liked my coaching session. My coach, Sheri, was very nice, friendly, easygoing and non judgmental. I received very useful information regarding what I should talk about, what not to say, how to dress to impress, feedback regarding the impression I made during my dates, how to keep a balance in a conversation, tips on flirting, interesting stories to share and my attitude overall. I came out of it with more confidence and inspired with optimism.
Reviewed March 5, 2014
I was matched with wrong men. My last date was totally mismatched, not only interest wise but also physical appearance. It is conveyed incorrectly that you get the minimum 4 dates because you only get 4 dates -- very disappointing. My dating coach Sheri was very nice and helpful. She gave me great dating insights.
Reviewed March 5, 2014
IJL is a great service - Dating director Obed is very prompt on follow-up with phone calls and emails. His customer service is superb. Highly recommend!
Reviewed March 4, 2014
Became a member almost a year ago. What they promised was to set up 10 dates within a year. No more, yet they were not able to meet the requirements despite my follow up call to request for their better response. I was contacted more often to ask me if I want to put it on hold because I was travelling (for 3 days!) or men are not available during holiday season. Only 9 profiles been shared so far, including 2 happened last month (after 10 month of contracts). Dates didn't happen with 4 of them. Because they are travelling or last minute cancellation.
Among the 5 I met, only one met my original requirements. I was not been particular about my request. Nor for schedules. Some guys are given dates 5 days a week. Clearly there are more women than men registered. They were attentive only until I paid up the money. After that they were quiet for 1 month. It clearly shows their intentions. They just want your money but they really do not care about you. Worst service ever experienced in my life. Big, big regret. Big waste of money and emotion.
Reviewed March 4, 2014
I have been so pleased with the quality of the matches I received through IJL as well as the professionalism I received from Kara and the others I encountered. The men with whom they matched me were professional and good quality people, which is what I was hoping to meet. However, it just takes one who feels compatible on so many levels and I feel so grateful and happy to say that I am in a committed, long-term relationship with someone who meets so many of the criteria that I was hoping to find. Thank you for your diligence and attention to detail!
Reviewed March 4, 2014
Sheri was positive and helpful. The coaching session went well and was informative. I felt out of the all of the people I have dealt with (five Dating Directors) she was the only one that gave me the impression that she cared. Also James the membership consultant seemed to be on top of his game. I may have to fill one of these out again about the Dating Directors. That one will be less positive. But the coaching session was good. I almost wish there was more feedback but that is up to the girls to provide after the date.
Reviewed March 3, 2014
There have been issues with organization and communication, although as of late, Kara seems to be the best. What I mean by that is telling one person one time and me another, no shows, doing a reminder call when no date had been set up. Just messy customer service. There are not many men in the Denver region, and many more women. As I've been told by many of the dates I've been on, so the number of dates is a lot less than I had imagined.
The group is quota based so there are times it feels they set up or try to set you up with someone who is not a good fit. Once I told them "no thanks" and they said it would have to go against my quota. I don't care about a quota, I care about meeting good matches and not wasting his or my time. But it felt more like they were trying to make numbers than really working on matching couples. I do not at this time plan to renew my membership when it ends.
Reviewed March 3, 2014
My contacts at IJL have been very engaged and committed to the goal of finding really good matches for me. I am a busy professional and a single mom. I have met so many men that, I am convinced, I never would have encountered otherwise. A great way to spend an evening, and sometimes, lots more! Thank you IJL for getting me out and interacting with interesting men!
Reviewed March 2, 2014
I've been pleased with everything about It's Just Lunch! It's easy to participate, the process feels uncomplicated and safe, and the dates are fun. The people who work at my local office are helpful and pleasant. I'd recommend the service!
Reviewed March 1, 2014
The women I have met are quality women who are intelligent and have a good sense of humor, as well as being courteous and very good conversationalist. When we go out to dinner, the places are some of the best restaurants I have been to and are reasonably priced. Best of all Just For Lunch arranges all the details for your next date or "meeting". All you have to do is show up and enjoy the company of the person you're meeting for that day. Can it get better than that?
Reviewed Feb. 28, 2014
First, the IJL coordinators are excellent and really make a difference. Your initial meet up is a hassle-free encounter, allowing you to arrive focused and with a smile on your face. Second, the quality of the people that I have met is beyond reproach. Every date was an interesting and articulate individual with whom I spent more time with than I had originally planned.
Third, I had suggestions for the coordinators, such as how far I was willing to travel on a weekday evening, and they were always receptive to my comments. I never had to make the same comment known a second time. Fourth, perhaps the service is a little on the pricey side - I'd agree. It is inaccurate to suggest that this results in no people of limited means working with IJL. Rather it is accurate that the people who you meet have made a financial investment. They are serious about themselves, their time, and getting to know you. And ultimately, what more could you ask for?
Reviewed Feb. 28, 2014
I enjoyed the coaching session I had with Sheri and learned a lot. It was interesting to hear some of the feedback she shared with me so I can concentrate on better presenting myself. Sheri is very upbeat and positive and presents the feedback to you in an uplifting way.
Reviewed Feb. 28, 2014
Thus far I am hoping that it gets better from this point going forward. I want to meet women who have time to date and will make a real effort to get to know the person. I hope they will clear the evening and not have a business meeting planned for later on that night. It would not leaving anyone feeling great to see their date run off instead of getting to know the person better.
Reviewed Feb. 27, 2014
This review is for Alexis **. Alexis & everyone I have dealt with at It's just lunch have been very responsive accurate & very helpful in all aspects of their service to me. I've already recommended them. Thank you very much.
Reviewed Feb. 26, 2014
Thanks to Amanda and Annie, I met an amazing guy! We are so compatible with enough things in common and enough things that are different to keep a relationship alive. Thanks for listening to what I was looking for, responsive to my feedback, and finding the perfect person for me.
Reviewed Feb. 26, 2014
As I went through this process, I kept weighing the points and thinking of the concept behind this method. Basically, it's a few hundred dollars to be set up on a blind date. Certainly, there is a security factor, which I believe is good. I also believe that the dating consultants are making an effort to match based on the feedback the clients provide. The women I've met were decent people - however, if I had photos prior to deciding to agree on a date, I probably would not have consented in two of my four cases. I think there is something valuable in an initial visual attraction which this system tries to understate.
Out of the four dates (and I'm not certain now if I will get the fifth one that was stated in my contract), two women actually wanted further contact. The educational backgrounds for three of them were impressive. However, one was unemployed, which made me think that the dating consultant was either misled or was misleading me. Also, it had me scratching my head as to whether this person should be spending her contract fee on dating rather than towards some other bills that must be handled.
My conclusion is that old phrase "caveat emptor". Hey, maybe this method would work for a small percentage of the dating population. I think the sales pitch of talking about vast numbers of matches and having one person already picked out (which didn't turn out to be a date) is a bit dubious. Good luck to you if you decide on employing this company for your match-making attempts. Just be aware and take the time to consider the method in use.
Reviewed Feb. 25, 2014
My overall experience with IJL has been very positive. The counselors I've worked with have all been professional, friendly and sincerely interested in finding good matches for me. The majority of the people I've been matched with have been high quality, interesting and easy to talk with. I would recommend IJL to anyone looking to meet like-minded, fun and interesting people.
Reviewed Feb. 24, 2014
I'm really enjoying my experience with It's Just Lunch. I honestly believe my coordinator listens to me and takes the time out to find me the best dates possible. I know this takes time and I am pleased with my results thus far.
Reviewed Feb. 24, 2014
It was nice to review with Sheri the previous dates midway through the commitment. There were many insights to not only my personality, but also how others perceive me.
Reviewed Feb. 23, 2014
I joined IJL about three months ago and am overall pleased with it. My coordinator Alexis is great at keeping the schedule organized and providing feedback (not to mention sharing the occasional kernel of dating wisdom). I have found that the women I have been introduced to are worthwhile and it has been enjoyable. If the price doesn't scare you away, I would recommend this service for people looking expand their dating horizons.
Reviewed Feb. 22, 2014
She is responsible of making my experience and relationship very special. She is very professional and efficient. She is very responsive. The dating director is a crucial position and you are very well represented with Melody.
Reviewed Feb. 21, 2014
Debbie is the best and cares for her clients to the zenith! Debbie, took the time to see what happened in past "Just Lunch dates" and made new ones a better fit. I'm happy with this site because of Debbie. Thank you.
Reviewed Feb. 21, 2014
My overall experience with IJL had been poor until Melody became my matchmaker. She is very personable and follows through. The men she has set me up with have been quality. I'm looking forward to meeting my soulmate and enjoy working with her!
Reviewed Feb. 19, 2014
I joined IJL soon after my divorce and found it to be an exceptional service to meet new people in similar situations as myself. So much better than the internet sites which I found very disappointing and tediously unproductive. My contact was Elizabeth ** who listened to my desires and objectively sought a match for me. And she finally did just that and am currently happy for a change.
Reviewed Feb. 19, 2014
I had a lengthy telephone coaching session with Sheri ** today. The session was enlightening and useful. Sheri was professional and yet accommodating. In summary, it was very useful.
Reviewed Feb. 17, 2014
IJL seems to enjoy a high degree of success because of its system of human interviewers. These people put together more complete profiles of IJL's clients than would result from simply filling out a computer form. The interviewers ask follow-up questions which cause the client to provide far more information about themselves and what they are looking for in a partner. This gives IJL's date arrangers the information they need to make better matches. In my case, I met my perfect match on my third date, her first. You cannot ask for better performance than that.
Reviewed Feb. 16, 2014
My 1st date was with Tony. It went very well. He is just a great person. Very educated, polite and phenomenal manners. It turned out that we know the same individuals and we have a lot in common. It was more like a business lunch than a date. Tony referenced to his wife few times. I do not feel comfortable dating someone who has not finalized his divorce. I just do not feel right. Tony took my card and promised to call me next week. These are types of men I would like to meet in the future. Thank you for introducing Tony to me! I look forward to my next date!
Reviewed Feb. 16, 2014
Tia is wonderful to work with. She is highly sensible to her client's needs. I would recommend her without any hesitations. Thank you very much.
Reviewed Feb. 15, 2014
Debbie **, senior dating director, south Florida has been excellent since she started to work with me. She is smart, dependable, dedicated, communicates well, intuitive, hard working, and pays attention to details. My initial experience with IJL was inconsistent and sometimes unreliable in terms of facts about women I was matched with, but since Debbie took over it has been a consistent excellent experience which I attribute entirely to her.
Reviewed Feb. 15, 2014
I joined IJL because I want to meet women who have something invested, as I do, and will hopefully have the same goal as I do -- to build a relationship with someone, and because I gave up on the online dating sites... not good experiences. I also joined because my expectation was that I would meet more women who work in "white collar" jobs, and are more... "cultured"... for lack of a better word, than I was meeting using the online sites. I was a little disappointed at first because I was not meeting women who have the attributes I desire (both physical and other).
I think that may have been due to my failure to adequately describe my desires to those at IJL. IAC, I have recently met several women toward whom I have felt an attraction, so things are getting better. Overall, I am satisfied with the program, but I am not convinced yet that this, or any other method of meeting women, is adequate for men my age (65). But I am not unhappy or dissatisfied with the service I have been provided by those at the Denver office. Dasha, especially, is a very sweet, accommodating, and eager young lady.
Reviewed Feb. 13, 2014
Overall, I've been happy with my experience with IJL. I've only been a member for a little over a month, so everything is relatively new. Vanessa has been very helpful in matching me with people with whom I am compatible. She's been very kind and sincere in her efforts.
Reviewed Feb. 13, 2014
My dating coach session with Sheri was helpful in several ways. Sheri provided encouragement as well as practical feedback that will be helpful to me as I continue to date in hopes of finding my special someone. And she was humorous and easy to talk with as well.
Reviewed Feb. 13, 2014
I have really enjoyed working with Vanessa of It's Just Lunch! She is very professional and delightful to work. I think she gets just as excited about the dates as I do! So far it has been a fabulous program. They pick the match for you and set the time and the place. All I need to do is show up and have fun. Thanks for making this a great experience, Vanessa!
Reviewed Feb. 12, 2014
I found this session to be quite useful, because it is seldom you can get feedback from the other party, which helps pinpoint where your improvement opportunities are... And dating can be very strenuous and complicated, so feedback helps to reassure your positive points and take care of the negative ones. Also, considering you only get one chance at a first impression, fixing a bad strategy is most important for ultimately succeeding.
Sheri, my dating coach, seemed very knowledgeable in the topic and did offer good advice. She was punctual and was very easy to talk to. I do recommend for any other customer to be as open as possible. Giving enough information will allow your coach to guide you better. And ask as many questions as you can. Take advantage of the whole hour. Good luck!
Reviewed Feb. 12, 2014
I've had a couple of interesting dates. My dating advisers are very positive, helpful, kind, and fun to work with. Now if I could find someone special it would be great. I'm sure it will happen soon.
Reviewed Feb. 11, 2014
Sheri is someone I feel like I can be open and honest with about my dating experience at IJL. She is funny, witty, good listener, made our session very easy, great personality. During our one hour call, because of her I felt like I was talking to a friend of mine, I did not feel uncomfortable at all. I am usually very private and don't open up too much to my friends and family, let alone someone I barely know. But I was very open and honest with her. I know for sure the feedback she provided to me from my past dates and the dating tips she gave me will be very helpful for my future dating. I highly recommend this to anyone. I only wish she were my dating director.
Reviewed Feb. 11, 2014
I have enjoyed the service so far. I was a little disappointed in the one-on-one meeting with the IJL representative. It did not seem like anymore information was gleaned from me other than what I had told the other IJL representative over the phone a few weeks earlier. On my first date, the woman was told a few incorrect things about me that I disappointed about (my name and my height). But I think that was more Anya's fault than the service's fault. The other two IJL representatives George and Kirk both have done a great job of setting me up with some quality dates. Even though they have not all worked out the way I would have liked them to, I have not had a bad date yet. Of the six dates that I have had, I tried continuing on with two of them. Unfortunately one did not work out, but the other hasn't failed yet ... so that's promising!
Reviewed Feb. 9, 2014
I've been very impressed with my dating director..... She is very good at targeting my dates and is very professional over the phone. I'm having a positive experience!!!! Thank you!!!
Reviewed Feb. 8, 2014
I recently completed a dating coach session with Sheri. I honestly got a lot out of. I felt that Sheri asked a lot of good and responded with honest and good feedback. I know this will have a positive influence on my future dates.
Reviewed Feb. 7, 2014
I would recommend It's Just Lunch to all my single friends. The company was good to me. I have been having a good time on my dates that you and the coordinators set up for me. This is my second year in as a client. Alexis as my coordinator does her job well. She explains my matches to me in fine details, calls me right away if there is a change in the date that she sets me up with, very polite and answers all my questions in full.
Reviewed Feb. 6, 2014
I had a real bad experience with your service, mainly with your dating directors: Pat, Natalie, Martha, Judy, to name a few . My complaints should be documented at your end since I had called several times and voiced my displeasure & disappointment with your service. This all changed when Melody became involved, she has done a much better job than all of the other put together. It's like night and day compared with others. She is a wonderful dating director and an asset to your company. I was about to take legal action against It's Just Lunch but Melody stopped me by doing a great job.
Reviewed Feb. 6, 2014
It's difficult enough to find the perfect drink at a bar and finding your perfect match in love at a place called something like "Sharky's or Strobe's and Epilepsy" is even harder. This is why IJL has been instrumental in completing my search for me. They take the necessary time to find out what really makes us light up when we meet the right person for us. We're a generation of social media and reaching beyond the barrier's of local hangouts to fulfill our heart's needs; why not have a guide for the adventure. Hire IJL and finally attain the Heart Confidence you've been searching for on your dating journey.
Reviewed Feb. 6, 2014
I have used It's Just Lunch for a year. I have met many nice women. Alexis is my coordinator. She has been good at coordinating the dates. She is very professional.
Reviewed Feb. 5, 2014
Sheri has been a great coach, listens carefully, gives good feedback, has been very effective. It's easy to talk to her openly and she asks lot of questions to understand me deeply.
Reviewed Feb. 5, 2014
I joined It's Just Lunch about a year and 9 months ago. I meet my fiance through their service. I meet about 20 potential dates before her. One other resulted in a relationship. Their service consists of interviewing you both over the phone and in person. They then try to set you up with potential dates. They set me up about 1 date every 2-3 weeks. They arranged the place and time to meet that is agreeable to both parties and make the reservation for you. You then both meet in a fairly low pressure environment.
The service does not have a magic ball to predict if the people they set up will be perfect matches. And what might sound like a good match on paper will not be a great match in person. Rarely did I run into someone that I suspected had outright lied to them. However, a vast majority of the women I met were lovely people that for one reason or another was not the right match for me. I often had a pleasant evening of conversation even if it didn't result in a relationship. I eventually did meet a most amazing woman through their service who I recently became engaged to. Honestly, I doubt I would have met her in a different route. In all, I had a very positive experience with this service.
Reviewed Feb. 5, 2014
They set me up with a woman they spoke highly of. We dated... then she was charged with insurance fraud. What a ride that was. They really did not seem to care when I told them. Did not offer to give any type of free service.
Reviewed Feb. 5, 2014
My dating director Kerry is awesome! She calls me at least once a week to see how things are going and has had nothing but great matches for me since we have been working together. I'm excited to see what happens in my social life in the next few months. I am very confident that she will find me someone special to add to me life if she hasn't already. She truly listens to what I am looking for and THEN, she uses that information to make the matches fun and interesting. She focuses on quality matches, not quantity of matches. It's been a fun process so far and I am looking forward to seeing what happens with my IJL experience.
Reviewed Feb. 5, 2014
I enjoy my conversations with Gloria always and direction when I ask her questions, and her humor always puts a smile on my face. And the date she set up for me turned out to be a good date. Look forward to the next one through her. I will call just to say hi. Keep up with the positive support. Gloria I look forward to the next date, hope soon.
Reviewed Feb. 4, 2014
Went through the initial process, which involved sharing some information with a coordinator, so she could understand my interests and personality. The process was painless, and the questions were designed to match me with women with comparable interests and personalities. I would say the IJL coordinator I worked with is very good at her job, with a knack for picking appropriate matches on many levels. Have enjoyed the experience so far and would recommend to friends.
Reviewed Feb. 4, 2014
I have really enjoyed my experience with It's Just lunch. All my dates have been really nice and even the ones that I have not seen but once, they were very attractive and they had a lot in common with me. I have recommended this site to my single and divorced friends. This site does a very good job to set up a man and woman with similar expectations.
Reviewed Feb. 4, 2014
So far, I have found It's Just Lunch to be helpful in the dating process. Each employee has been fairly attentive to my case which has made the experience more than favorable. I think the matchers do their best to make good matches. I greatly appreciate their efforts.
Reviewed Feb. 4, 2014
As a professional, single male in my early 40's, I was relocated from New York to Miami, without any social network to speak of. I met with the folks at It's Just Lunch and was immediately impressed with their pre-screening and matching process. I was soon introduced to my Senior Dating Counselor, Debbie, and I had my first date scheduled in no time. Debbie has done a terrific job matching me with some terrific, interesting dates at vibrant, date-appropriate restaurants. Thanks to IJL and Debbie, I've started a new relationship and have developed some great friendships in a new city!
Reviewed Feb. 4, 2014
Can this really be my life? Or has there been some mistake? Mucho thanks to Debbie for the perfect date with Emma! Wherever I am, you have a friend.
Reviewed Feb. 3, 2014
I work with Alexis at It's Just Lunch and she has been a pleasure to work with. The service is well-managed and customer-focused. Thanks, Alexis, for the great experience with IJL.
Reviewed Feb. 3, 2014
February 3, 2014. On Friday, I met my fist IJL Match whom I'll call Mr. L. I was pleased with Mr. L's appearance in regards him being well groomed and sporting business attire. The date lasted for approximately 90 minutes with continuous conversation that revolved around our professional, educational and personal profiles. I would like to commend IJL for this introduction ....as Mr. L brings an impressive background "to the table" for representing the quality of matches that I am seeking.
The evening was very pleasant as Mr. L and I easily conversed, placing a significant amount of discussion around our traveling adventures. While there were some common areas that we shared notes on....hearing about those uncommon experiences seemed to equally hold our interest with each other resulting in me adding a few future destinations to my "bucket list". And so from my point of view...the purpose of this match was to determine if there was an interest in moving on to a second date. I did not receive that "vibe" from Mr. L. Specifically he stated that he is not looking for a soul mate but is seeking connections that might fit into his different social agendas. For example Mr. L stated that he might determine who would go to a tennis match or who would might accompany him to a concert. From my point of view... this came across as a "deal breaker" for reasons that I'm sure you can imagine.
On the other hand, I do believe that the right woman could ignite a spark in Mr. L's heart....and override the "menu" approach to dating that he appears to have. And although I am a spark ;-) I'm not the one for him. Once again I would like to commend IJL for this experience....especially since the first two months resulted in a very bumpy start. At this point that is just a "blip" on my memory radar.
With that said and now that were on the right track: Soooo...I'm ready for Door #2 :-) or shall I say ...Bring it ! lol. Recommendations.....Please DO include those seeking Soul Mates. Recognition: I would like to extend my sincerest thanks to Ayeide for listening to my discussion points which were very lengthy yet clearly appreciative. Recognition: I would like to also extend my sincerest thanks to Julie, who rescued me from the on-going challenges I first experience. Both of you ladies are so very professional and I'm looking forward to what lies ahead from IJL.
Reviewed Feb. 3, 2014
Sharry has been great in setting up dates and communicating what is working. All of the women I have met are good looking and matched most of my interests. I would definitely recommend IJL and Sharry to friends.
Reviewed Jan. 31, 2014
I worked mostly with Alexis. She is probably the most enthusiastic and energetic coordinator I had. She is amazing at portraying my dates in a very positive way... I can only imagine how she described me to my dates! I really appreciate her patience in coordinating my dates within my schedule. It was a true pleasure having her as my coordinator.
Reviewed Jan. 31, 2014
In general, it is very hard for me to comment on the service for now, since I only dated 3 men since my sign up last July, and my first date in last October was a big disappointment since the restaurant where I supposed to meet with the date was not even open. I had to take another trip on a different date to meet the same guy again, really waste of time and energy. The worst thing was that I could not find anyone to call for help (it was on a weekend) at that time, it finally took me about 40 minutes to find a nice lady who helped to explain the situation to the date. I was told that a small reimbursement would be given for the mistake, however it has never been received so far.
In addition, the match does not seem to work very well, it is hard to imagine that the director who never met both sides would be able to match an ideal date just by crunching in numbers. Although I was told that each date would be fine tuned to meet the expectation but I found it is not working very well so far. Well, I patiently wait for the next one and hope things will change for better.
Again, I don't think this has anything to do with the director who I work with, I think herself sounds like a nice person, and maybe the process itself make it hard to find a perfect match.
Reviewed Jan. 31, 2014
Karina was very responsive and professional. She always returned my calls and emails in a timely fashion. She is kind and supportive in a potentially stressful and emotional situation. We never met in person, but she is very personable on the phone. I hope she succeeds!
Reviewed Jan. 31, 2014
When I first joined Just Lunch I was very excited, then I went out on my first 4 dates and I had very poor experience. Then I spoke with director and told her what I was exactly looking for. But what made the turn around for my experience was the changing of my coordinator. Alexis ** was great person to work with, she is absolutely a joy person to deal with either by talking to her or by scheduling my dates, she is very enthusiastic and she has great customer skills. I was very dissatisfied with my service with just lunch then I started to work with her!!
Reviewed Jan. 31, 2014
My dating coaching session with Sheri has very helpful. She provided many useful insights to help me reach my dating goals. The information was presented in a very constructive, positive way that resonated well. She was also a great listener and was able to quickly respond to all of my questions.
Reviewed Jan. 31, 2014
Tia has been very diligent, responsive and on the ball with her service thus far. She is a pleasure to work with and I look forward to meeting the matches that she has made for me.
Reviewed Jan. 31, 2014
During my one-on-one meeting with Thelma; I expressed my pros and cons regarding my first date through IJL. In this meeting I ultimately revealed exactly what I'm yearning for in a man. Karina very skillfully took action. Karina diligently read through many profiles until she found what I can only describe as my future second "perfect" date. Even though my date is scheduled for a week from today, I wrote the word "perfect" because everything I heard about this man sounds "perfect for me!"
Karina is a stellar professional. Karina is always pleasant and more than happy to do her very best to ensure a good match. I highly recommend Karina at IJL for anyone who's earnestly looking for someone special.
Reviewed Jan. 31, 2014
Melody has done an excellent job for me. Finding amazing and beautiful ladies for me to meet. She is wonderful to work with. Always very friendly and full of positive energy. I wasn't sure about dating this way but Melody and the ladies I have met and all of the staff of IJL have made this a great experience. Thank you.
Reviewed Jan. 30, 2014
The service is great, personable and attention to details was paid. The telephone conversations were thoughtful, my preferences were considered and the dates were timely. Though I have not found my match through IJL, I would recommend it as an experience.
Reviewed Jan. 30, 2014
Debbie has been my contact with you folks. Let me rate her. She has been professional and courteous. Still remaining at a business level but I could tell she was also a friend. Always a good representative for you. As far as meeting folks through any dating service, I think it is hard when you are 70. Possible but not easy. You guys did your best. I met a few possibles but have finally given up. Not on meeting people - just doing it through dating services.
Reviewed Jan. 30, 2014
I recently joined IJL and I have been impressed with the professionalism and attention provided by the staff and the dating consultants, in particular Debbie.
Reviewed Jan. 30, 2014
The coaching session took about an hour, in a series of questions about dating habits and routines. Sheri was friendly and encouraging, offering feedback and helpful tips on how to get the most out of each date.
Reviewed Jan. 30, 2014
I must say Sharry is great at her job. She is very sincere, talks with me about what I am looking for in a date, sets up dates for me. The weather this January has been terrible and Sharry has taken extra time to reschedule dates. I am so appreciative because this is so much work to try a reschedule both parties. Once again I give high praise and many thanks to Sharry.
Reviewed Jan. 29, 2014
Welcomed and excellent feedback received. I'll be able to make a small changes that I didn't recognize as important that others saw very important. I was hesitant of what I'd get back but self continuous improvement was needed and is always good. Few changes go from being a good dating experience to a great dating experience. Thanks!
Reviewed Jan. 29, 2014
You are a 'doll'... Thank you for putting so much effort and love into my finding Mr. Right. I am grateful. Thanks again. I enjoyed meeting James last evening.
Reviewed Jan. 29, 2014
Expectations Met. Of the meetings set up to date, I am matched roughly half the time with people that I can spend a few hours with to meet and get to know each other. But all of the meetings have met my general criteria. I understand that the amount of people in my area limits the ability to match specifically to all of my criteria.
Reviewed Jan. 28, 2014
Just finished coaching session with IJL.....wow...truly eye opening and helpful....Sheri was very good at getting to a specific point and coaching in a way that made you feel that the answer was the most simple and natural reaction to specified happening....I truly endorse this session ...try it....you will not be disappointed...
Reviewed Jan. 28, 2014
I would highly recommend It's Just Lunch as a dating/matching service. I am 57 years old and have been dating again the last few years. This organization is by far the most professional and the most interested in who you really are and what will work for your unique needs. I always know that when they make a match it is based on my needs and their experience with me. It is not about how many matches, it is about the quality of the match. I strongly believe they are the best at what they do.
Reviewed Jan. 28, 2014
My coaching session with Sheri from IJL was perfect. We discussed my dates up to this point and the questions Sheri asked were specific and right on target. I believe that our coaching session will lead to dates with women very close to what I'm looking for. I didn't know that coaching sessions were part of the IJL process and I was very impressed with how thorough the session was. Sheri did a great job and I believe the results will show that.
Reviewed Jan. 27, 2014
So far I met decent people but Debbie has been a very good help. Hopefully I meet the ONE soon. But relationships are like the lottery.
Reviewed Jan. 27, 2014
Frances is very enthusiastic and joyful in her efforts to find a suitable match for me. She responds in a timely matter to my concerns and tries to accommodate wherever possible. I highly recommend Frances as a Dating Counselor.
Reviewed Jan. 26, 2014
I am early to the program, so my experience is limited, and that is reflected in my level of satisfaction. Hopefully that will improve soon. I have not had any unpleasant experiences, as both of the women I have dated so far have been very nice, even if nothing will likely develop further from those particular dates. I was not pleased when I learned the second date had a daughter, as I thought I had made it clear when I registered for the program that I was interested in women without children. Nevertheless, I have spoken at length with Melody and she has taken steps to remedy that situation.
My experience with Melody so far has been extremely positive. She has always been very frank with me, is working hard to set me up with women she believes will be good matches for me (the misunderstanding regarding the last one was not her fault), and has promptly returned my phone calls. I wish other staff members were a little more receptive to communication, and I hope that the general level of communication among the staff at this program improves, but I am glad that Melody is looking out for me and continuing to work well with me.
I also enjoyed my face to face interview, and I received some very helpful advice during that. Hopefully, more prospects will soon become available to me so that I might be able to meet that special someone and provide an even more positive assessment of my experience with this program in the coming months.
Reviewed Jan. 26, 2014
Kirk has been of amazing assistance to me. I would consider myself to be very particular, and to my surprise, he knows exactly what I want, and how to go about it. I trust him enough to run my businesses for me! He is incredibly sharp, warm, sweet, and understanding to my needs, and I would recommend him to anyone!
Reviewed Jan. 25, 2014
Kirkb is doing a great job of helping me find my special someone. He is always available and easy to talk to. On to the next date!
Reviewed Jan. 25, 2014
I was surprised to have the dating coach session and was very pleased with the results. I was asked a lot of questions about dates, which made me really think about my habits, expectations and areas for improvement. I definitely recommend a coaching session as it will help me on future dates.
Reviewed Jan. 24, 2014
I'm in the middle of the dating process, and I am just loving it. My "coach" is named Alexis. It took me a little bit to ask her this, but I really thought she owned the company. Her customer service skills are outstanding! She takes the time to listen to what you have to say. She really cares, and wants you to find that right person. In this day it is hard to find the right fit. IJL gives me the WOW factor. If anyone asks, I would recommend IJL in a heartbeat. I have really enjoyed trying all of the different eateries. The matches have not been bad and at times kind of funny. Alexis, Game is on - let's find the right fit.
Reviewed Jan. 24, 2014
Very good first date. The lady was above and beyond the type quality person I had hoped for. She was very pretty and very educated and cultured.
Reviewed Jan. 24, 2014
I love the fact that all I need to do is give my coordinators my availability and they make all the arrangements for me to meet someone new. I can relax when I show up at the designated meeting place. It's easy to focus on getting to know someone at a first meeting rather than hassling with trying to coordinate schedules. Thank you, IJL!
Reviewed Jan. 24, 2014
Obed is the best dating coach! This is a fun and exciting program and Obed does a fantastic job being thorough, explaining the process, and making you feel comfortable and confident. I would recommend this dating service and highly recommend Obed.
Reviewed Jan. 24, 2014
After a couple of hiccups which were not Sharry's fault I met some really great women. Sharry was super to work with. Friendly, caring and kind. Very reactive to my interests and circumstances. My experience was fun and rewarding.
Reviewed Jan. 23, 2014
I've only been in "It's Just Lunch" a short time, but so far I've been very satisfied with the way that I have been taken care of. Sharry has been very attentive to what I'm looking for in a partner. I'm sure with her help I have a good chance of finding the one. Thank you.
Reviewed Jan. 23, 2014
My first interaction was with Julie - what a riote, easy to talk to, lots of fun. Then my dating counselor was with Nika - no sense of humor, hard to get a hold of. Felt like I was always after her to get me out there. First date had young kids or kid and I was clear I didn't want to date anyone with young kids. Was a waste of my time. Next 2 had nothing in common with me. Now I'm with GLORIA ** LOL. She’s funny, easy to talk to. I hope she gets it what I want. When I call she’s normally there. My first date is this coming weekend and I’m hopeful.
Reviewed Jan. 23, 2014
My first date with IJL went pretty well! It was a nice evening to unwind after work over a drink and small dinner. No pressure, no expectations… just being yourself with simple, easy conversation and let the chips fall where they may. The IJL Dating Director was very helpful and made sure the coordination of the meet and greet was seamless. IJL is a great alternative to the dating sites, bars, gyms or even self setups!
Reviewed Jan. 23, 2014
I have enjoyed my experience with It's Just Lunch. Melody has done a wonderful job matching me with men who have many similar hobbies, interesting personalities, and a physical compatibility with my personal preferences. I appreciate the time and effort she puts into finding matches, arranging dates, reviewing feedback, and following up with me. The reason for giving only 3 stars relies solely on the price versus the amount of dates I've gone on -- with a limited income, it's simply a lot of money (not that it's not worth it) to spend in one year on 10 to ? dates. While I haven't made a worthwhile or lasting connection with a match yet, I know we are heading in the right direction and have confidence in Melody's skills that my next dates will be as compatible and enjoyable as the last few she has orchestrated.
Reviewed Jan. 22, 2014
I have and would again recommend IJL. Megan and Klarissa are both patient and very good listeners. I ask a lot of questions about the ladies I am going to meet because I am a busy and want to make sure the matches are good fits for me. Also when there is a date set I like to be certain the time and location are accurate, so I am always double checking. So I have been happy with the experience at IJL and tell friends when I can.
Reviewed Jan. 22, 2014
I wanted to let you know how much I've enjoyed working with Sharry, my dating director. She has been wonderful not only at scheduling dates for me but listens to my concerns and offers good suggestions. I appreciate her efforts so much and will tell others about the great service she is providing. It has been a pleasure to work with her.
Reviewed Jan. 22, 2014
I joined IJL 4 weeks ago, and I am enjoying the dating process. Alexis is my coordinator and she "gets it." I feel like I can be fully expressed when conversing with her. Overall, I'm comfortable with her. She has a way of being with you because what you want matters to her. Simply put, she listens. I like that!
Reviewed Jan. 22, 2014
I have had a good experience with Its Just Lunch. They have made the sometimes difficult and awkward world of dating easier to navigate for sure.
Reviewed Jan. 21, 2014
I had been a member years ago. And initially, I thought things seemed better, a lot more people involved "working for you". But as in the past, I think it's hard when you speak with so many people because they really don't get to know you so I'm still on the fence about my experience. It's not bad but it's not great either. Karina has been attentive and responsive but I feel as though last time more information was shared with us about our "dates" many questions I asked I was told they could not be answered.
Reviewed Jan. 21, 2014
I was pleasantly surprised with the quality of the women I was introduced to. I highly recommend this program for the man that wants to meet high quality, professional women. I have tried other dating services, and this has been by far my best experience.
Reviewed Jan. 21, 2014
Melody is kind professional and has a great working knowledge of matching people together. I would recommend her to all those concerned or involved.
Reviewed Jan. 20, 2014
I've had the pleasure of working with Alexis from IJL - Chicago over the past 3 weeks. She is a joy to work with, very responsive, matches very well, and always available. She is great to work with.
Reviewed Jan. 19, 2014
Sharry V. has been a wonderful dating director. She returns my calls and emails in a timely manner. Even more than that, she is like a fairy godmother. I feel that she takes a personal responsibility in finding matches for me that she truly feels I will enjoy spending time with. Sharry V. knows me from talking with me and the information from my interviews. She has used that information to find matches for me. She is able to filter through matches to find ones that fit me and would take me so much more time to determine on an online match site on my own. Thank you, Sharry! I'm so fortunate to have you!
Reviewed Jan. 18, 2014
I'm very pleased with my experience with It's Just Lunch. They make it easy and enjoyable to date. I love trying new restaurants that we go to. The men are professional. Your security is never compromised. Highly recommended!!
Reviewed Jan. 18, 2014
I should have known it wasn't going to be good when the first date they set me up with was a man they said was "good for first dates". So after sitting and listening to what I was looking for, they were not even trying. I am convinced they just set up dates with the next person who signed up every time. They asked me questions about my interests, etc but when on dates, I was told what was told about me was not at all the things I considered important... (Dates were only told every time that I enjoy hiking & camping & wine tastings when the reality is I rarely find the time to hike, haven't camped in 15 years & have been to 1 wine tasting ever.)
I brought it to their attention, but it never changed. I have 5 kids... most were teenagers at the time, and I asked them to make sure that it was mentioned that I have children (understanding specifics were considered private info & not shared)... it was never mentioned and 1 man actually asked me to leave the restaurant when he found out. Apparently, he wanted to stay and see if he could meet someone else at the bar. The matches were not good... none of them. One man wanted to sit down & eat at an expensive restaurant rather than just sitting at the bar, and then he gave me $10 toward the bill.
When I asked about changing some of my "criteria" after being set up with a couple men who looked much older (I believe I asked the max age to be 45, not the 50 I originally said was OK), I was told I couldn't change my criteria. They did set me up every few weeks, but I told them I would prefer fewer dates but with some thought put into whether or not they would actually be a good fit. Just a bad experience overall...
Reviewed Jan. 18, 2014
Thank you Sheri! You were very kind, patient and compassionate... You had a lot of good and common sense insight that I thank you for... I will try to incorporate all that we talked about on my next date!
Reviewed Jan. 17, 2014
Baton Rouge Experience: I joined IJL back in May of 2013 with the hopes that this service would be much better than the dating websites. I don't have a lot of time as I travel a lot with work. I went ahead and paid the very high rates for this service thinking I was going to get a dedicated person trying to match me up with the best possible match. Since I have signed up I have gone through six (6) "personal" match makers, have gone on only three dates, and basically never hear from anyone ever. All three dates that they sent me on were absolute train wrecks! I would have never matched myself up with anyone that this organization has and it appears they clearly aren't listening to me when I say what is most important to me with a match.
Worst of all is that I joined this service because I don't have much time and they end up setting me up with a person that lives 2, 1.5, & 1+ hours away. If I don't have much time now how do I have enough time to sit in a car driving to go see someone? I have had much better luck with Tinder than I have with IJL and that is a free nondescript service. If you are planning on joining this service I suggest you save your money as you will not be happy with the outcomes. I have never written a review in my life, but this service is so bad that I felt compelled to try to save others from making the same mistake I did.
Reviewed Jan. 17, 2014
I have been doing It's Just Lunch for several months now and I found the dating coaching session to be very helpful & interesting. It is important to have a conversation about your dating habits and what you may or may not be consciously aware of that are habits/patterns that may be perceived differently than you intend them to be perceived. It was also good to get some general feedback on what others thought of me from our first date.
Reviewed Jan. 16, 2014
I joined IJL to meet more quality folks than I could find on my own. I have had 3 matches thus far and have been more then pleased with the results. There are some issues with timing and contact with directors that could be improved. But overall, I really like the process, I have met some really interesting people in nice places that I can now visit on my own as well. Good Job it is IJL on the matches and the locations for meetings!
Reviewed Jan. 16, 2014
First date my date was sick and notified the meeting place. The meeting place did not inform me upon arrival. Once able to meet the match it turned out not a bad match but not great one either.
Reviewed Jan. 16, 2014
I had an experience with IJL a few years ago, and although I was fortunate to go on several dates, the process was lacking. I didn't get a consistent person to manage my affairs and thus the feedback wasn't properly affecting future matches. I had a meeting with Kristen ** and she assured me this time would be different. She spent extra time in the screening process getting my needs addressed and the importance of how the 2nd time around would be better. At this point, although I haven't found Mrs. Right yet, the IJL experience has been greatly improved. I have had follow up with Kristen and not just a vanishing act after my payment was received.
My coordinator Alexis is excellent at her role in the company. Instead of rolling my eyes or letting it go to voicemail, I immediately pick up her call and enjoy her as a service provider. I feel that my dates are not just blind stabs in the dark and sense genuine concern in her voice with new matches. Alexis has an engaging personality, pays attention to detail and can talk in a frank manner if required. I would love to steal her and have her work for me, need more employees like that!! All in all, the women I have met are all outstanding people and just need to find the spark. With Alexis listening and putting countless minutes on my file, I am in the best hands and appreciate all she does for me and my dating search.
Reviewed Jan. 16, 2014
So far, I've had my first date and the first match was quick. The restaurant choice was great. My director is responsive to feedback about potential future matches as well as to questions about the IJL process.
Reviewed Jan. 16, 2014
I have found Ayide, one of my client service individuals, to be conscientious and truly helpful during the matching process. She is a good example of type of service to expect from IJL.
Reviewed Jan. 15, 2014
To Its Just Lunch, I enjoyed my experience with your service however did not like the spacing of my dates. I had a date at the beginning of September and end of October and all of a sudden now have three in January. I was waiting for three months for these dates! I did make my feelings known during this time. It seemed to be done purposely though so I would like to think there was a method to your madness. I received a call one day before my birthday (12/3) and one day after, one day before Christmas and one day after and one day before New Years and one day after from random staff members for different reasons. I don't think it was a coincidence. It seemed like a control technique of some sort although I am unsure what was actually accomplished.
Regardless, I so far had 4 dates (soon to have 5) who have been fine gentlemen. They all have nice jobs too. I would have preferred a little younger (only 2 or so years) because I am in NYC bars viewing the younger men regularly. Perhaps my 5th date will be more as I requested. Thank you for adding a fifth date by the way as I know it's not in my contract! Overall, my experience with IJL has been satisfactory since I don't believe I met the right man yet. Tia is very sweet and pleasant. I like her demeanor and have no complaints about her in particular. Thank you for a very nice experience!
Reviewed Jan. 15, 2014
I have been assigned a new director Gloria. Totally different experience with her. She thus far (first date set up) has listened to what I am looking in a mate AND is able to communicate. She is fun to talk to and seems to care about people. This of course was not my experience with first director who missed many of my calls and e mails. When I asked for person that was into holistic health or cared about the environment I was given the reply of: "this is not a religious dating site".
IJL I do hope you provide affirmative counseling and self growth to your ALL of your dating directors. They are dealing with people who are in an incredibly vulnerable position. The ability to be able to communicate with a person in this state of mind starts with oneself. Thank you Gloria for taking care of yourself so you could help me.
Reviewed Jan. 15, 2014
I joined IJL about 6 months ago, have only been on three dates but it has not been a good experience. You pay $2700.00 but get nothing in return. Please read your contract very close because what you are told on the phone and what you really get from their service is very different. You are guaranteed 5 dates and you wait about 72 days in-between each date...if you do the math it works out to be $540.00 a date.
First problem, trying to speak with your assigned representative is almost impossible, you will leave many messages and send many emails before they will return your call. Second problem they send you out with dates that do not meet any of your requirements, you do not get to see what the person looks like...just a name, time of date and the restaurant you are to meet this person at. Third problem, when you ask to speak with a manager to discuss your concerns all they do is keep referring back to the contract. I was told by management that they met their requirements of the 5 dates and nothing more will be done. My experience with this company was not good, would not recommend them if you are thinking about signing up. I was very surprised and disappointed with the quality of people they choose for you. Defiantly was not what they advertise.
Reviewed Jan. 15, 2014
I have tried on-line dating and found it to be noisy and distracting - and not effective for me. It's Just Lunch has been a fun experience. I continue to be impressed with the staff's effort and enthusiasm. The quality of the women I have shared time with have exceeded my expectations. Even when the date lacks chemistry, I've enjoyed the time I've spent with genuinely good people.
Reviewed Jan. 15, 2014
I just finished my one year membership at a cost of $2,300. My last dating director (had three), Melisa, did not take the time to call me to let me know when/or if I was available for my last January scheduled date - she just sent an email that I never received (probably went to spam). When I explained the matter, she said "too bad" - that my one year membership was up and they had already provided 12 dates (most very unsatisfactory in terms of age, interests, and compatibility). IJL dating directors did not take the time to listen to my feedback after each date, and furthermore, the people in charge of setting these dates didn't have a clue, nor did they genuinely care if they were doing a good job. This has been an expensive waste of my money and time. I am extremely dissatisfied!!
Reviewed Jan. 14, 2014
Obed has been very good with making sure my introductions are matching who I am looking for. We communicate well together and I'm sure the perfect match is right around the corner.
Reviewed Jan. 14, 2014
I've been working with It's Just Lunch and Alexis for about 5 months. Alexis couldn't have been easier to work with. Her insight into reentering the dating seen was perfect and her patience with my schedule and finding times within my schedule was perfect. Even though I haven't found my match yet I think It's Just Lunch and Alexis have been something I would recommend to anyone.
Reviewed Jan. 14, 2014
Your staff that I deal with is exceptional. Melody does a wonderful job, is helpful, friendly, really good at what she does. The connections you come up with, the venues to meet, all good. Compliment you on your exceptional staff, namely Melody. Thank you.
Reviewed Jan. 12, 2014
I just finished my dating coaching session with Sheri and it was very helpful. I found her to be easy to talk to and the feedback she offered was a nice mix of positive and constructive. It definitely gave me some things to think about as I head into my next date.
Reviewed Jan. 11, 2014
My coaching session was very enlightening. We discussed my dating habits & goals and the do's & dont's of dating. We discussed the positives of making a good first impression. We discussed what topics would encourage conversation and create a positive experience.
Reviewed Jan. 11, 2014
My coach and I talked for an hour on a wide range of things, like what I'm looking for with IJL. We touched bases on my strength and weakness and gave me some ideas how to go forward on my next date. I brought up concerns and they were worked out to my satisfaction. It's good to spend the time and talk about what make you tick, and get that other point of view. It's worth the time. Happy dating!
Reviewed Jan. 11, 2014
I work 80 hrs a week and don't have time for online dating. They take the time to get to know you and find quality matches for you. No stress dating. The staff easy to talk to and work around your schedule. The place they send you are fun and always have parking. I end up getting 4 dates a month.
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