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It's Just Lunch is a personalized matchmaking service that caters to busy professionals looking for meaningful relationships in more than 110 U.S. cities as well as cities in Canada, the UK, Ireland and Australia. Matchmakers get to know members and use their dating preferences and relationship history to select matches. It's Just Lunch makes all the arrangements for comfortable and safe face-to-face dates, including the time and place. All members have to do is show up ready to meet their match. Potential pairs meet over lunch or after work for drinks.
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- Free onboarding interview
- Customized membership plans
- Fully confidential
- Lengthy process
- Can be pricey
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Reviewed Aug. 22, 2014
I am so far very happy with IJL and would surely recommend them! The agent who has been working with me is very caring and polite. He follows the guidelines I set for them and is routinely in touch with me. He is easily accessible and always available every time I've had a question. This is the way to go for the busy professionals!
Reviewed Aug. 21, 2014
I want to express my gratitude to the IJL team for bringing my hopes and dreams for a loving companion to fruition. The initial meeting with Amanda ** was an easy, pleasant experience. She was interested, therefore, in tune with who I am and what qualities I desired in a mate. After each introduction, I was given an open ear to my feedback - positive and not so positive. I asked and they listened! Thank you. It's Just Lunch.
Reviewed Aug. 21, 2014
I really am enjoying the service I received from Its Just Lunch. My director Fay is really on top of her game. She listens to me and I can tell she tries her best.
Reviewed Aug. 21, 2014
I was told that I would have at least one date a month. It's been two months and I was sent on a date with one guy that was nowhere near what I had requested. Since then they haven't been able to find anyone who has time for a date. I've been told that "they're too busy". This is a joke. Don't waste your money. I spent a lot of money on this and then they send you on a date at the most expensive restaurants and you still have to pay for dinner and drinks. Really??
Reviewed Aug. 20, 2014
I prefer IJL to the other dating services I have tried because you are assured of getting dates. I have had two dates with very attractive, career-oriented women who share many of my interests. While there was not an instant connection with either, I think IJL is on the right track and knows the type of woman I am looking for. I am looking forward to my future matches.
Reviewed Aug. 19, 2014
Sebastian from IJL (It's Just Lunch) agreed that I would receive a minimum of 10 dates for $2,100. He called out several male names and descriptions that would be available to me. I rejected his offer because I live 2.5 hours away from the IJL office in Michigan. He countered and offered a "travel" discount in which I would received 10 dates for $1,700. He said that all other aspects of the contract would remain the same except the price. Some time later I found out that he had changed the contract to 5 dates. Even though I provided documentation to support my story, IJL (via Mitch and Cherise) argued with me. I told them to ask Sebastian, and they claimed that he was no longer employed with them. Finally a third IJL person (Kevin) agreed to provide one additional date because of the "confusion". To add insult to injury, IJL has only provided two dates in the ten months. One of the two was a poor match. They clearly do not have substantial membership to provide dates. The catch is that the contract allows them unlimited time to provide you dates. Furthermore the minimum is treated as a maximum. It's clear in all discussions that the intent is to provide me with the minimum dates.
Reviewed Aug. 19, 2014
I have been set up on many enjoyable dates with men who I have found attractive and successful. I appreciate the IJL team listening to and acting upon my feedback as to what I'm looking for.
Reviewed Aug. 19, 2014
I have dated with It’s Just Lunch on a couple of occasions, and each time I concluded my memberships because I have been dating a woman I met through the service. My matchmaker Laura really took the time to get to know me and what I was looking for. Even if a few of the matches were not perfect, my dating coordinator Natalie listened to all of my feedback to help make the matches better. I have been seeing a great woman that I met about a month ago, but it feels like we have known each other much longer. On a scale of one to ten, this date was a 20! I would recommend It’s Just Lunch to anyone that wants to date quality singles.
Reviewed Aug. 18, 2014
Being in the service industry myself, I understand that a company is as only as strong as its employees. I've had the pleasure of working with Mandy, the dating director of Boston and South Florida. I inquired about IJL's services with the desire to meet someone who can offer more than "the girl next door." After being sent out on some questionable dates and working with several dating directors who would not return my emails or abruptly hangup as soon as I expressed my concerns, I was losing faith in the service. However Mandy went above and beyond to remain resilient and empathetic, despite me venting my frustrations and criticisms against IJL.
Mandy took the time and tailored my dating program and requested changes from upper management so that I was in the right program and was able to gain exposure to the right demographic of women. Her consistency has won me back and I write this letter of recommendation that a company especially one catering to the needs of working professionals, that other employees can learn from Mandy's example and professionalism. Job well done.
Reviewed Aug. 18, 2014
In a busy world, we become experts at our job and often neglect our love life. Sheri was very helpful sharing her advice on how things work in a dating world. She answered many of my questions and helped me feel more confident meeting my next match. Thanks Sheri, you made a world of a difference!
Reviewed Aug. 16, 2014
I signed a contract with It's Just Lunch dating service July 2013 for $2800. The contract promised a minimum of 5 dates and individual marketing to find appropriate dates. The next day, they sent me on a date. Come to find out, the man is used on a regular basis to go on dates. He had been on 18 dates. After the date (and the 3 day rescission period expired), I never heard from them again. When I called, they would not give their names. They did not return my numerous calls or emails. My personal physician wrote a medical release letter which was a valid reason for breaking the contract. They ignored it. I had an attorney send a demand letter. To no avail. I got ripped off worse than most. My loss was $2800.00. A hard pill to swallow.
Reviewed Aug. 15, 2014
This company is a joke. They are unprofessional and don't deliver what they promise. I will be asking for my money back. Very Very disappointed.
Reviewed Aug. 15, 2014
I am most pleased with his help along the way. Fernando is sensitive and caring and pays attention to my personal wants and needs. Good for him and good for me!
Reviewed Aug. 15, 2014
IJL is a great program. My new Dating Director, Obed is Awesome! If I had him longer, I would've given 5 stars. Currently 4 stars and growing!!!! Keep up the good work. Thanks.
Reviewed Aug. 14, 2014
Mitch has been my dating consultant and I could not be happier with him. He has done such a great job at adapting the search of the type of person I am looking for with each date. He really cares about what you are looking for and does his best to find that person. I always look forward to the dates because all of the women have been wonderful. He does a great job and I could not be happier with his performance. I have not had a bad date in IJL and know I will always have a great time.
Reviewed Aug. 13, 2014
Overall, I have been very disappointed in my experience. Most of the dates really have not been good matches and I feel as though sometimes I've been mislead. I have felt as though the quota of promised dates just needs to be met and it doesn't matter whether it's a good match or not. I've have voiced my concerns but no one ever followed up with me. This far, Sharry has been the best person to work with. She is very nice and personable. I would definitely not recommend this, especially with how expensive it is; I was expecting better quality matches and experience overall.
Reviewed Aug. 13, 2014
I joined IJL to meet other busy professionals and that is what I have met. I look forward to meeting other very interesting matches and having fun dating.
Reviewed Aug. 13, 2014
It was nice to talk with Sheri. She was easy to chat with and it was great to hear the feedback from the dates.
Reviewed Aug. 12, 2014
I have really enjoyed my It's Just Lunch experience. Internet dating and apps like tinder don't appeal to me mainly because I think you need quite a bit of time to maintain your profile & stay active online. It's Just Lunch takes all the leg work out of meeting new people and I have to say over all it has been a really good experience with most of guys I met being a pretty good match. It's hard to see how I would have done better myself online. Even though I didn't hit off with all of them I have been very lucky in my dating and had great fun. The dates that didn't go as well have provided lots of entertainment for my wider circle of friends so even that in itself is a benefit. The thing is that it is great to get out, meet new guys and feel like I am doing something about finding a partner.
The other thing is that you know you are meeting people who are also interested in meeting somebody. Meeting lots of new and different guys has meant that I have got more clarity on what I want from a relationship and a partner as well as opening my eyes to give lads, that I mightn't otherwise, a chance. Blind dating can be challenging and the most difficult thing is the initial meet up but that is handled really well by IJL and venues are appropriate for a first date and in fairness the staff in the venues have always handled it very well. I have had an overall positive experience and while it's early days may soon be calling time on my single days.... Without IJL and my dating director insistence on keeping an open mind our paths would never have crossed....
Reviewed Aug. 12, 2014
Sheri was fantastic. Took time to listen to my needs for a change. Gave me some great advice, made me feel like I can really do this and she boosted my confidence.
Reviewed Aug. 12, 2014
I want to comment on It's Just Lunch. I rate it a below zero. When I joined I spoke to people for two hours to tell them exactly what I wanted. It took over three months to get a date. I said I would go out with someone from New York who goes back and forth to Florida. I went out with a gentleman who lives in Florida and we had nothing in common. I waited again for weeks. I called 8 times both here and in Florida and they never returned my calls. They told me they had a lot of men my age; now they say they do not have anyone for me. I went on a second date with a player. My third date forgot his wallet. The fourth date he walked out. I paid over three thousand dollars because I wanted quality dates. I finally have someone who does return my calls, Fernado **. He is very polite and gets back to me but I only have one more date left so I hope he finds me someone. I really believe he is trying. I could have spent 100.00 and went on Match.com.
Reviewed Aug. 12, 2014
With all my travels, my busy schedule, It's Just Lunch has been very convenient and helpful. If at first you don't succeed try again. With their help and understanding that Nika showed by listening, I have met someone who could be special in my life, that may have not met otherwise.
Reviewed Aug. 12, 2014
I have enjoyed working with IJL and Fernando of the Cincy office. He has tried hard to find dates that he thought would be compatible with me and that I would enjoy their company. I have been pleased with IJL so far and have enjoyed the dates. I prefer it over the computer dates because you actually get to meet someone rather than going through all the profile business on the computer. If you don't like them you just go home. They also try and find nice places for you to meet. They have all been very classy and nice restaurants.
Reviewed Aug. 12, 2014
The staff at IJL does not really care for what you are looking for! For them their pockets and paying clients are more important. They set me up with a guy who was above the age range I was looking for. When mentioned they did not care about the fact and said "we won't introduce you to anymore clients of ours if you don't go meet with him." I kept an open mind and met the guy (who was nothing I had said I was looking for). I actually paid for my share of the dinner which I was not supposed to as per their policies (elite client pool) and they sent me an email that they would deactivate my profile and not introduce me to anymore people.
So in essence they don't care about their paying members who are paying 5K to be their elite client, and if the 2 people meeting are a match or not. They just want to get to the count of people they introduce to them. These women have no ethics and standards for respecting your boundaries. Dating is hard as it is but to top it all off with this, no really a pleasant experience. After they deactivated my profile they still kept on sending me harassing emails. So stay away from them...all they have to offer is some hokey hopes of matching you up. But if they can't even read on your form you fill out the age range you are looking in, what lesser could they do to match you up with someone!? Thanks for reading!
Reviewed Aug. 11, 2014
I just wanted to share my positive experience with It's Just Lunch. On my third date, I met a man with whom I connected immediately, and we have been together for the last 5 months. It was his third date as well, and we were both surprised that we met each other so fast. It seemed weird actually (in a good way!). My coordinator Abby was really helpful, and she has always been good about following up with me. I was initially hesitant to try the service, but I am glad I stepped out of my comfort zone and took the risk.
Reviewed Aug. 11, 2014
There are two reasons why this is a 4 out of 5 stars and not 5. First, I used to be in another city's dating group/services with IJL and I was less than pleased, despite numerous attempts to get them to improve the overall direction they were handling me. Secondly, the person who recruited me (name will remain nameless but I still have her number) to join IJL promised her personal involvement in the process and despite numerous (6) voicemails left, she has yet to return a phone call. Completely unprofessional.
However, since I have joined the Nashville group of IJL, I have been extremely pleased with their willingness to work with me, the quality of matches and the sites picked for the dates. The Dating Director has talked with me on the phone several times and every time asks if they are meeting my needs, no matter why they called. Additionally, while I do not consider myself overly picky, I know what I like and don't like and the Nashville team has done an excellent job with meeting my desires. The Nashville dating director and their team are doing a very good job and are a 5 of 5 Stars. However, as stated, my previous experiences must temper the overall IJL rating. I would highly recommend IJL in the Nashville area based on the quality of the work I have seen.
Reviewed Aug. 11, 2014
Although I have just started working with It's Just Lunch, so far I am very pleased. Mitch and Kevin made me feel comfortable and they were both easy to talk to. When I needed to meet on a Sunday to save me an hour and a half drive each way for my face-to-face interview, they made that happen. I feel hopeful about meeting the top quality men they will find for me.
Reviewed Aug. 10, 2014
I really enjoyed speaking with Sheri. She gave me 2 suggestions that I really appreciate. Her suggestions made me reflect on my communication and realize that I may not be communicating as clearly as I thought I had been. I also appreciated hearing the feedback of my dates. Hearing how others perceive me is important to my own self awareness.
Reviewed Aug. 8, 2014
I would say so far, I have been having an experience with this service, struggling to jive with the dating directors I was set up with, until I was put with Josh. This man knows how to treat a customer with the respect everyone deserves and I am hopeful for favorable results with this service. So as of right now, I’m happy to give this guy some accolades for performing at the level of customer support I expect that should come with a premium service like I.J.L. Fingers-crossed I’ll meet ms. right with josh's help.
Reviewed Aug. 8, 2014
Kate has managed my account, my emotions and my heart in such a professional, caring and wonderful way! I am so glad that she has taken over the AZ region. She has given me great client service from day one and a stronger hope for love! I know her job must be tough trying to manage expectations of the heart with so many different personalities all at once. Kate, I appreciate you! Please keep up all the great work!
Reviewed Aug. 8, 2014
Melody was very professional and helpful but after 3 dates I lost my excitement as every match was so far from what I was looking for. Kate called me and introduce herself after she took over Melody's position and I decided to give it one last shot. With just 3 day notice, she worked so hard to find the perfect match to date. I can't say enough on the results she achieved in a short notice. Thank you.
Reviewed Aug. 7, 2014
My experience working with Mitch at Its Just Lunch (IJL) has positively exceeded my expectations. Mitch promptly returns calls, shares dating tips, and addresses issues that have enhanced my dating experience. His matches are well thought out, fun, and meet the desired criteria. I look forward to Mitch setting up more great dates and meeting more wonderful women. I recommend IJL to anyone new to the dating scene.
Reviewed Aug. 6, 2014
I continue to be most pleased with the services provided by IJL. My session with Sheri was no exception, but beyond only proved the rule. She asked me very intelligent and understandable questions and was an attentive listener. I felt that the points that needed to be made were made and that she left the conversation with a sound understanding of me and what I am seeking. I am optimistic that on the strength of my session, I will have even better matches in the future, although I must say that to date, I am not at all displeased. Good for Sheri and good for IJL!
Reviewed Aug. 5, 2014
Sheri listened to everything I told her and offered some good suggestions that I will use. I appreciate her time and enjoyed talking with her.
Reviewed Aug. 4, 2014
Prior to working with Ethan, I would have rated my experience a one so a 3 is quite an improvement. Ethan heard what was important to me and I have the first dating experience since signing up in April that was worthwhile. Although not sure this date was a fit, it was 1000% better than the past. I was feeling like I just threw away $2900. Ethan has given me hope this might work.
Reviewed Aug. 4, 2014
I am the biggest fan of Elite Private Search and It's Just Lunch. I have tried other dating services and sites and nothing has worked. Michelle has worked with me and set me up with some fantastic guys. I have finally met exactly whom I am looking for and it's going great. I cannot thank Michelle and the staff enough. Other members have loved it too. Finding love is my most important goal. These wonderful people have done it for me.
Reviewed Aug. 4, 2014
I was very misled. I was assured there were matches in my area and not true. My dating director changed over and over and over. I had to remind them I had not had my face to face. One date told me he paid $40 for 3 dates. I complained about the dates but to deaf ears. They denied they were offering men very cheap rates. They denied they were doing anything wrong!! I would save my money.
Reviewed Aug. 1, 2014
I have been very happy with IJL's service and especially with my dating coordinator, Sharry **. She really takes the time to get to know me and what I am looking for and looks out for me on my dating adventures. I know she's in my corner and I appreciate all she does for me!
Reviewed Aug. 1, 2014
Special thanks to Abby and The Minneapolis It's Just Lunch Team. My dating experience with them has been outstanding. Abby and her team really took their time to get to know me and the things I need in a partner. The women that I have been matched with are professional, attractive, intelligent and the dating locations they've chosen are perfect. I believe it's their personal focus in finding great matches for myself that will lead to a successful long term relationship.
Reviewed Aug. 1, 2014
Sheri is an amazing person. I felt we connected right away. She was friendly, caring, and very knowledgeable. I would recommend her to others.
Reviewed July 31, 2014
IJL is a first class matchmaking service. I don't want to use the term 'dating service'. I've had conversations with a couple of people who wondered why I paid so much when the internet is free. Well, you get what you pay for. I met some wonderful people, all of good character, and IJL did a very good job of matching people's characteristics with my needs/desires so that I might find a common bond with them. I'd recommend IJL to anyone with even a casual interest in having a long-term relationship.
Reviewed July 31, 2014
Like most professionals, I came to It's Just Lunch to meet someone of significance with the same romantic and life goals that we could share and nurture together. Though the persistent efforts of the staff and expert consultation from It's Just Lunch Cleveland, I'm happy to say I met an amazing woman, Amanda, and I look forward in sharing smiles and life moments with her during the days ahead. Thank you It's Just Lunch; I couldn't have met her without you...
Reviewed July 31, 2014
The I J Lunch team I worked with were professional and courteous. They were timely and available. Obed was very responsive and helpful.
Reviewed July 29, 2014
Complete disaster. 9 months in have had 3 measly dates. All require me to drive 1 hour or more one way to meet the dates. NONE were even close to being a match. Clearly the company has not provided and "elite" matching service like they claim to provide. Yet their company policy is they NEVER refund ever. So I am out thousands of dollars for this crap. I feel 100% scammed. To take thousands from someone and provide such terrible services and refuse to refund. My 1st date never happened. There were 2 restaurants with the same name within 3 blocks of each other and we each went to a different restaurant and never found each other. The date was on the weekend so there is no one in the company that can be reached so when we couldn't find each other after driving 1 hour up the road, I had to turn around and come home. Very bad 1st impression.
After your 1st date you are REQUIRED to meet in person with a representative from the company. They will not provide more dates if you don't do this. It took them like 3 months to get this meeting done. They kept rescheduling my meeting multiple times. So now I am 3-4 months into my membership and had the 1 very bad 1st impression and now this mess. So clearly I am not getting a good feeling on this company. The dating coordinator told me he would send me a $25 dollar gift card for my trouble which I NEVER received. My next date was a guy who is agoraphobic, so he is fearful to leave his house. He plays video games all day long, and was into comic books. He said he was using the dating service to help him get out of the house more. Clearly he isn't even looking for a relationship, he is using the services for therapy. They shouldn't even be sending this guy on dates if he isn't looking for a relationship. I am clearly wanting a serious relationship to spend this amount of money on the services, so why would they send me on a date with that? We had NOTHING in common at all, a complete waste of my time.
My next date was a guy that was like 5 foot tall. He told me he specifically told the dating service he did NOT want to date a woman taller than him. Yet here I am at 5' 7" with this guy on a date. Its Just Lunch truly does NOT do any matchmaking. It is a RANDOM draw. If you are due for a date and he is due for a date they just throw you together to meet their quotas and to fulfill their contract. Every date I went on the men would say they were not getting matches. This short guy said he made it clear he would only date white women and he was sent out with woman of other nationalities. It was obvious that his wishes were ignored, and it is obvious mine were too.... so to me Its Just Lunch truly does NOT do actual match making.
When I signed up I was told these members are professionals, that are well off and stable... The one date works as an equipments manager for a sports team. He helps distribute the equipment for the players on game days. Now I have no problem with that, I didn't join the services to find millionaires but my point is that they flat out LIED about their services. About the quality of the dates, and quality of their matchmaking... as an ELITE service. And I paid a premium expecting ELITE services and I did NOT get that. It is extremely hard to get in touch with anyone to lodge a complaint and when you do all they want to do is add more time to your membership, which I don't really understand why I would want more time?
If the dates are NOT matches, and I have to shell out money at these expensive restaurants ($30 dollar meals is where they send me), and drive 2 hours up and back for the date, spend all that gas money too.... for these terrible matches... why would I want to do MORE of that? The dates just flat out suck and they want to give me MORE? That isn't the answer, the answer is find me better dates ASAP or give me my money back! That is apparently my only options. I am forced to go on crappy dates, OR just lose my money. Because the supervisor flat out said, it is company policy we can not and will NOT give out refunds. AWFUL customer service. Way over priced. You could get the same quality dates on any of the online dating services for 1/4 of the price. Total waste of money. I can honestly say this was the worst money I EVER spent in my life. And will do everything I can to make sure no one else spends their money with this company.
**** PLEASE do NOT spend thousands unless you are willing to let that money go. You will never see your money back, under NO circumstances do they give refunds. So that is a HUGE chance to take.
Reviewed July 29, 2014
Ethan was very good in matching me with my prospective date. Job well done, my compliments to him. The date was everything he advertised. I had a great time meeting her.
Reviewed July 29, 2014
I gave them the $1000 with great hopes of great dates and hopeful of finding my match and lifetime mate. Ugh. What a waste of time and money. In the interview I had given them three things I sought in a mate. Very simple things. One was "I don't want anymore kids". Ha. My first two set-up lunches were "matches" that definitely wanted kids. I took the loss, canceled the service and forfeited the remaining eight dates. They sell a good story, but they are useless. Waste of time.
Reviewed July 29, 2014
Thank you It's Just Lunch for a fabulous dating experience. All dates were nice and I enjoyed them, but the 6th one hit the jackpot. We were so compatible and had so much in common. He is a fabulous, caring man. I felt my dating coordinator, Sharry ** was wonderful and really cared about finding me the right match. I felt like she was a Dating Coordinator and a friend! Great experience.. So much better than trying to do it yourself on the Internet. Additionally, I just found out one of my neighbors in my cul-de-sac met through It's Just Lunch and have a darling 6-year-old! I would highly recommend this dating experience!
Reviewed July 28, 2014
I enjoyed the service so much that I signed up again. Still looking for that special person. I would recommend this company to anyone looking to meet new people and find love.
Reviewed July 27, 2014
I had a very rough start with IJL and Mitch has completely salvaged the relationship and renewed my faith in the business. He helped reactivate my membership, has taken time to get to know me and matched me with a really terrific guy last week! I really enjoy working with him and am excited about meeting new gentleman for 'lunch'. He is also very prompt and easy to communicate/schedule with and makes the entire process fun!
Reviewed July 27, 2014
My date coordinator Josh is so friendly and helpful. He's always upbeat and ready to do all he can to make everything fall into place.
Reviewed July 25, 2014
I've been a client of IJL for a little over 3 months now, and my experience working with Mitch as my matchmaker has been great. He's very amiable, humorous, and perceptive; I feel he understands my expectations of a match and is diligent in his endeavor of setting me up on dates, and I feel very comfortable discussing with him the parameters of my pursuit and the outcome of the dates that I have thus far been on. I've been on 3 dates so far, and even though none of them has eventuated into something long term, I know he has my best interests in mind in picking dates for me, and I look forward to working with him. What I like most about Mitch is his affable and laid back demeanor, and I feel like I'm speaking with a friend every time we talk.
Reviewed July 25, 2014
I joined It's Just Lunch because I was sick of the online experience through various dating websites. I wanted to meet a better quality individual who was looking for a long-term relationship. I also liked the idea of having a personal dating director. With my demanding job, I simply don't have the time to sift through profiles. After research and careful consideration, I chose IJL to help me find a match. I can tell you that they have delivered. The men I have met are professional and engaging - true gentlemen. My dating director has taken the time to ask specific questions in an effort to know me better to help with future matches. You will have to be patient through the process, but overall I am pleased with my experience.
Reviewed July 25, 2014
I was very impressed with Sheri and my coaching session. She called me on time and was very friendly. I was very excited about the feedback that Sheri gave me. It was positive, so of course I liked it. I am looking forward to receiving the material that she talked about sending me. I was very happy and encouraged after speaking to Sheri. She answered all the questions that I had and gave me some great advice as well.
Reviewed July 25, 2014
Where do I begin? Should it be the "strategic" salesman who kept asking me if I had any questions (I realize now was a clever "technical way of CHA so that he couldn't claim I wasn't given an opportunity to discuss terms or recognize his "creative" use of claims until after I began the process), rather than initiating what the clarity of contract terms mean to It's Just Lunch (i.e. "no matches for you" means what THEY say: like we have people as clients we can create dates with; NOT they're even remotely compatible with you)? Or should I talk about that the salesman wanted the immediate sale that he knowingly gave me bad advice about the right time to start my contract?
This might actually be fraud, which I'm currently checking on. Or that he "totally knows men right off the bat" he'd like to set me up with (never happened)? Or the lack of response to phone calls and emails from the directors? Or the sloppy scheduling so that no one was calling me when I was home waiting for dates to be schedules as promised? Or should I talk about the date that stood me up, for didn't seem to bother IJL even a little, and gave no apology or refund. Oh, and allowed him to lie about calling the restaurant (I had them check while I was there waiting)?
Or should I mention that my dating director got snappy with me about the ONLY requirement I had (a religious one), but told me previously that her male clients had show-stopper requirements esp in re to non-smokers, height, body weight, etc.? Or would it be best to describe that the last conversation I had with my dating director, she told me I should be initiating more contact (daily) with them to schedule dates. I forgot to ask her if I could reverse-charge them for the amount of effort I'd be putting in for doing their job. It's a hard for me to decide where to start...
Reviewed July 22, 2014
Men - if you like unattractive women, this is the dating service for you. This service was terrible on all levels: first of all, none of the women were attractive. I made it clear from day 1 that one of my criteria was that the women I am matched with should be physically attractive. I went on 5 dates, and the women were average looking at best.
The logistics of the situation were also terrible - in one instance, they scheduled a date at 6 pm in the perimeter area on Friday, so of course traffic was miserable. My date arrived 30 minutes late since she didn't know the area and got stuck in traffic. The date itself was of course incredibly boring and, as in all cases, I knew the moment the woman walked in that I wasn't attracted in the least. They consistently got my and my matches' information wrong. They make their "matches" based on incredibly mundane details like "oh - you both like fishing - you'll make a GREAT match!", so I would steer clear of this service. It's a colossal waste of time, money, and energy.
In addition to the money you spend to sign up, you end up spending a lot in terms of time, gas, food, etc. when you actually go on the dates, so it's a pretty substantial investment with no hope of a return. I'm also guessing they don't treat their employees very well, because the turnover seems to be exceptionally high. I was constantly being transferred from one dating director to another as a result.
With regard to refunds, they won't give any because they suck and don't stand behind their "product", but the way to handle it is to dispute the transaction through your credit card company. I made it clear from day 1 that physical attractiveness was one of my criteria, but I came to find out that not only do no attractive women sign up for this service (it's very difficult for an attractive woman to get her head around the idea of paying $2,700 to go on dates), but they don't even use physical attractiveness as a criterion for matching! So basically I was lied to or at least deliberately misled from the beginning. I'm going to dispute it with my credit card company based on the fact that I wasn't purchasing the product I thought I was purchasing, and I'll get my money back that way.
If you're looking for help with dating, I would recommend online dating sites over this "service" - it's substantially cheaper and much more effective. While I haven't been thrilled with the results, I've certainly gotten a lot better dates with Zoosk and match.com than here (I actually am able to meet women who are attractive - imagine that!). My advice - stay away, stay far away from It's Just Lunch.
Reviewed July 22, 2014
Sheri was wonderful to talk to today. It was so nice to talk to someone that really understood what I was looking for. She was sweet, patient and funny. She had great tips and feedback for me to be successful at dating. She really took her time and I never felt rushed. It was like talking to a girlfriend.
Reviewed July 21, 2014
Staff very polite, professional. It's a recommended dating site for individuals who have busy schedules.
Reviewed July 20, 2014
I have had a lot of fun getting to know some great people through your service.
Reviewed July 18, 2014
When I called to get information on It's Just Lunch, they were more than helpful and accommodating. They answered all of my questions in a very professional manner. They seemed to understand my concerns of living in a small city, promised that I would only date in my city, and assured me that they would refund my money on a date attended pro-rated basis. I went on my first date within my first month with the service. The date went well, just no romantic connection. I met with a dating consultant to discuss my date, but spent more time talking about his divorce and issues with dating.
Several months later, I went on a second date with a man who was nothing like what I described I was looking for, and my dating consultant told me she only set me up with him because he was the only guy in my area that had signed up in my age group. Then, she tried to set me up with a guy who lived more than two hours away (when I had expressed in the initial call that I was not willing to do long distance), and he had an odd back story. My dating consultant told me she thought he had a family and was trying to date on the sly, yet she still would have let me go out with him!
When I called to express my frustrations, the company was not the least bit sympathetic to the fact that they could not offer me the services they claim to be able to provide. They ABSOLUTELY, under no conditions, will give refunds, pro-rated or not. This company is a scam. I cannot believe they are still in business. They are crooks and shame on them for operating such a sham excuse for a service! They claim to have the client's best interest at heart... give me a break!
Reviewed July 18, 2014
Everyone is very helpful in trying to find the right match for me.
Reviewed July 18, 2014
Michelle at IJL is so easy to work with. She is engaging and smart, and has a great sense of humor, which makes the process fun and less of a "hunt". She also has a great eye for spotting what is real and what is not in people. That is so important to me. I hold her advice in high regard and I trust her implicitly. She is professional, but makes you feel like she is just a very well-connected friend who genuinely has your best interests in mind. Highly, highly recommend!!
Reviewed July 17, 2014
Speaking with the dating coach was absolutely helpful! I was able to get advice about dating etiquette and I was also encouraged by the coach about what works for me, and encouraged me to stay hopeful about finding my match out there!
Reviewed July 17, 2014
My dating coaching consultation with Sheri was very informative and rewarding. It was uplifting hearing the positive feedback and at the same time informative in that Sheri constructively points out the things that I need to work on. She is very pleasant on the phone and always positive.
Reviewed July 17, 2014
Very pleasant nice guy but the dates were just not compatible.
Reviewed July 16, 2014
I was very pleased with IJL. I thought they went out of their way to be helpful and try to accommodate your individual needs.
Reviewed July 16, 2014
Overall satisfied with my experience as I have been able to meet men outside of my usual social circle. Unfortunately, I have yet to make a connection with someone through the service but I'm still hopeful!
Reviewed July 16, 2014
I was nervous about joining a dating program, but my experience with It's Just Lunch has been really positive. My Matchmaker, Mitch, is a great guy... I really enjoy working with him! I'm really looking forward to what the future may bring!
Reviewed July 15, 2014
My experience with the service has been good. I enjoy the initial personal attention and that the representatives really try to get to know me and what I am looking for. My only real complaint is that I find the cost of the service to be steep for the services rendered, or at least the structure of the cost. Perhaps a per date cost would open doors to more hesitant customers, as well as package deals. I understand that the logistics require manpower and that manpower costs money, but if there was a way to reduce costs or piecemeal costs, I would be more inclined to recommend the service to others. Another possible benefit would be done, form of feed back on the date performance from the other party or mild coaching in the dating process. While my profession exposes me to various social situations, I am very socially awkward so even a small amount of assistance in preparation for the dates would be helpful, unless it is already there and I'm just unaware. The representatives have been very helpful and informative to work with and the service is great for people in my position with an often unpredictable schedule.
Reviewed July 15, 2014
I thought our session was very helpful as we discussed tips and possible suggestions going forward how to improved my overall dating experience. I thought this is a useful service in my membership. Also, I was informed about some of the issues I had with the service and all my questions were answered.
Reviewed July 15, 2014
Very pleased with the level of activity and the quality and appropriateness of the "match".
Reviewed July 14, 2014
My acute date coordinator!! Working hard to find the right match for me! Always accessible and perceptive to my needs!
Reviewed July 14, 2014
I feel that your company really do care about their customers, and tries to make things work out. That means a lot to me. Thanks so much.
Reviewed July 14, 2014
My dating director, Nika, is responsive, understands what I am looking for, and provides accurate descriptions of my upcoming dates. It is great to date in a low pressure environment and meet some interesting & fun ladies.
Reviewed July 14, 2014
This is definitely a tough process but this company is definitely about quality. They take their time to make sure your next date is great. My director also has great communication skills. Always keeping me informed on what is going on.
Reviewed July 14, 2014
I am very glad to have Fay back. She is a great listener and gets the job done.
Reviewed July 14, 2014
The IJL staff has been nothing but professional, courteous, and helpful. The women I've been set up on dates with have been attractive, pleasant, and intelligent. However, I've had mixed results when it came to connecting with them. I remain cautiously optimistic.
Reviewed July 12, 2014
I need to go on lots more dates per month. I do want to say the three gentlemen I have met in 6 weeks have all been really good people. I liked each one and that is impressive. I want to have more dates and did pay for a membership a long time ago and want it reactivated as I had no dates. I look forward to meeting Mr. Right on It's Just Lunch because the men are good.
Reviewed July 11, 2014
My IJL coaching session was really helpful feedback. It is hard to know if you're inadvertently behaving in a way that is misunderstood and therefore unattractive or showing unintentional 'red flags' on a date. It was really easy speaking with my coach, Sheri. She was warm, friendly and made me feel comfortable with expressing my experience in addition to receiving feedback from my previous dates. Ultimately, this helped me to realize that while I hadn't met the right guy just yet, that I hadn't been doing anything unintentional or inadvertent. It helped to talk about the reasons why I didn't believe my dates had been good matches in a way that didn't make me feel like I was being "judgmental". I felt that Sheri really understood where I was coming from and this gave me more confidence in moving forward. The following date after my coaching session was my best date yet!
Reviewed July 11, 2014
I have been working with IJL for several months, lately with Mitch. He is very helpful and quite enthusiastic, and makes the whole process of meeting new people fun. I recommend IJL as a convenient and effective way to meet people with the interests and qualities that match you.
Reviewed July 11, 2014
Peta has been lovely to work with. She takes into consideration my particular requests in a match and is always looking out for a good match. Nice to have her assigned to my account!
Reviewed July 11, 2014
Would not waste money on this business. They "Hook" you in with a sample profile of the type of people they will introduce you to. Never met a person that was in anyway similar to the "this is the type of people you will meet" profile. For a few of my dates I found that they did not have the details of the person they set me up with right. One was even a habitually unemployed "professional". Despite their claim that they could get you out on as many dates as you had time for, they do not follow thru on this philosophy. It is more a - "you've already had one match this month, just wait". It almost seems like they keep a list by last set up and age group and match blindly that way.
Reviewed July 11, 2014
I have been working recently with Mitch on my dates. He is awesome and has a great sense of humor. He is very professional and courteous. I look forward to more dates being set up by him!!
Reviewed July 11, 2014
I think Nika is great. We have had frank discussions and made sure that we understood the best way to reach other and she definitely has met my expectations. I also will share that this is a service that you need to participate in by being up front about what you like/don't like and how you want things to go. I got off to a rocky start, but I am going on my third date Saturday and the people I have met have exceeded my expectations. I would recommend this service to a friend.
Reviewed July 11, 2014
I experienced a great coaching session with Sheri **. She provided specific feedback that will help me have a better dating experiences.
Reviewed July 11, 2014
I like working with Mitch at It's Just Lunch. He has a good personality and is always very positive and encouraging about upcoming dates. I'm looking forward to more great dates and meeting more great guys.
Reviewed July 11, 2014
Mitch at IJL has been extremely enjoyable to work with. Very caring and personable interaction and he has worked hard to find good solid matches for me. Mitch has had excellent follow-up and is always interested in the goods and the not-so goods in all my dates. I look forward to continuing to work with Mitch and IJL!
Reviewed July 11, 2014
My dating coaching session with Sheri was fantastic. She listened to and addressed all my concerns and provided me with positive and helpful feedback about my dating behaviors. After talking to her, I feel reinvigorated about the dating process. Thanks, Sheri!!
Reviewed July 11, 2014
I have enjoyed working with Mitch and I have had two really fun dates. Look forward to meeting more great women and working with Mitch.
Reviewed July 11, 2014
It is great idea for busy working people. To find someone that is interested in serious relationships. The more detailed you are about someone that you are looking for the better the server is.
Reviewed July 11, 2014
This was a pretty new process for me, but I am glad to say that the people at It's Just Lunch have made this a painless process. I enjoy hearing about my new dates and meeting new people. At first I was skeptical about dating, but I am glad I've made this decision. Thank you to everyone involved.
Reviewed July 10, 2014
I have been, in a short period of time, with It's Just Lunch. For my experience with this location in Cleveland, I am very happy with the service they provide. It is not only that they provide profession service, but also they listen to you and provide the matches you want. For a person with little time for dating, it will be a great choice.
Reviewed July 9, 2014
I have had a wonderful experience with the Professionals at It's Just Lunch. I have met many nice, intelligent and interesting men. My experience has been extremely enjoyable and I would recommend this service to all single professionals. Thank you.
Reviewed July 9, 2014
At first I wasn't pleased but as time went on it got a lot better. Sheri has been a wonderful coach. I think Phabienne may have found my type.
Reviewed July 8, 2014
I have had some horrible experiences with some of my "dating directors", but the only saving grace has been Debbie **. Debbie has been helpful and has really taken the time to get to know me and what I want. The rest of the team I have dealt with sucks, but get Debbie ** and you will enjoy your experience.
Updated review: Nov. 30, 2018
For the most part I have had a great experience with the women set up for me. They have all been nice and what I am looking for. Alisha has been doing great and getting what I look for. I like the changes that IJL has made.
Original Review: July 8, 2014
The Experience I have had on IJL has been Ok. The people setting up the dates seem like nice people. But I have had some mixed experiences to say the least. From people not wanting to be there, to having more than one person there, to being stood up.
Reviewed July 7, 2014
I signed up for a 3-month membership for its just lunch. I am a successful businesswoman that just ended a 2-year relationship and wanted to date. The initial call was with a director. She seemed to know what she was talking about enough to sell me a membership. Every time I spoke with someone after that, it sounded like a joke. The girls, and I mean girls on the phone, didn't even know what I was looking for. They gave me the same Impression I get from the minimum wage girl behind the counter at my tanning salon. Aside from annoying, I trusted that for 1500 dollars, I would get matched with people that had interests on my list.
Number one thing for me was fun, second was dancing. For the first 4 dates, the guys I met were anything but!! And of course HATED dancing. After this, I had a call with the director. If they matched me in any other way, I'm sure it would have been ok, but they were all together wrong. Anyone that looked at my list of likes and gripes would have known. After a few more bad dates, I stopped using the service all together because not only was I wasting my time, these guys wouldn't even pick up the tab. So we were getting set up for fancy dinners, and it was draining my bank account too!
My three months was over and I assumed it was all good and moved on. Well, a quick look at my bank statement indicated they were taking money out every month since! I called only to be told I should have formally cancelled, in which I will be charged for an additional 45 days and must print off a sheet and send to confirm a cancellation. This was outrageous to me!!!!! I thought gym memberships were bad, this is a lot more expensive and it is awful. If you go with this service, I encourage you to read the fine print. It is not as it seems.
Reviewed July 7, 2014
My time spent with Sheri was informative, insightful and helpful. She covered the dating process in general terms from the beginning of a date to the very end. She also let me know what I could do to make the time spent with a match beneficial to both parties. The constructive critiques I received that pertained directly to my dates and their impressions of me were a great tool to help me understand how people perceive me and how I can grow and become a better person as a single woman in a crazy world! Thanks a ton!
Reviewed July 7, 2014
I've now been a member of It's Just Lunch for a few months now, and I couldn't be happier with it. It really has been everything I've wanted in a dating service. I like it that it's an "old-school" type of matchmaking service, where you get set up on dates by real people. Plus my dating counselor, Sheri, has been very helpful in getting to know me and giving me feedback. I would recommend It's Just Lunch to anyone who wants a more personalized dating experience.
Reviewed July 7, 2014
My initial dealings with IJL were pretty frustrating because of lack of communication and the change in personnel looking after my account without forewarning. However since Nika took over and introduced herself and listened to my concerns, things have definitely improved. Nika was swift and caring in setting up new matches and provided good details on each match in advance of my dates.
Reviewed July 7, 2014
Just a word about my IJL experience. I've enjoyed working with all the staff of IJL. Peta has been someone that I can count on to introduce me to some very wonderful women. I can't say enough kind words about her and the entire staff.
Reviewed July 4, 2014
Mandy was my director and contact with IJL. She was professional, diligent in searching for matches for me, and a pleasure to deal with. She was always pleasant with a positive attitude. In my eyes, she was the best dating mentor. Highly recommend her.
Reviewed July 3, 2014
I have been a member 3 times. I really enjoyed the first experience, not so much on the second. The 3rd is moving along well and I am building a communication with the councilor to dial in on my likes and dislikes. It has been getting better and she does listen to my concerns, likes and dislikes. It helps to be very clear on what you like or want or what you want to avoid. Part of it is the looks but it is also about the lifestyle. I am looking forward to my next introduction.
Reviewed July 3, 2014
Ashley ** and the IJL team has done a great job of providing matches based on my interests!
Reviewed July 3, 2014
I have been with IJL for almost a year now. I have experienced great service by Kate ** and she is always very helpful to get me out on my next date. She has done a really good job of matching up my interests/activities, etc. in her dates that she is recommending for me.
Reviewed July 3, 2014
I have really enjoyed working with Peta. However before her, I have twice tried to get a refund, and have found IJL staff to rarely return their email, and at times have been rude. If you like, I am happy to share names with you. Again, Peta has been an exception as she is trying very hard!
Reviewed July 2, 2014
I wasn't really happy with the IJL service for Calgary and Edmonton areas for various reasons: very delayed responses to my inquiries, sometimes no response at all; my first date was not of my preference in terms of ethnicity; I was told he is a great guy (and he was!), but physically I wasn't attracted, as I expected; to date after being with IJL for more than 16 months I was provided with 4 out of 5 dates due a misbalance in IJL male/female clientele, which is obviously shows IJL inability to be honest with their customers about their ability to deliver. However, since Michelle was assigned on my case, she arranged my latest date with Alfred in 24 hours. Moreover, this lady responds to my emails within 2 hours - finally, I am getting a quality service. Thank you, Michelle!
Reviewed July 2, 2014
Peta has acted as my dating director on several occasions now and it has been a pleasure working with her. She is thoughtful, listens and acts on my feedback. I can't complain about any of the matches she has picked for me. She is always positive and upbeat on the phone.
Reviewed July 2, 2014
Obed, since this was my last date, I want to thank you for your time, effort and professionalism. I enjoyed being associated with IJL and would recommend it to anyone. The very best to you.
Reviewed July 1, 2014
I am very Happy with IJL. My coordinator Lisa is the Best. She has introduced me to some wonderful people. I work a lot and don't have a lot of free time. Lisa has worked with my schedule and has brought back my dating life. Thank You!
Reviewed July 1, 2014
I've had a positive dating experience with IJL and Sharry **. Sharry is always working on the best match for me. She is attentive to my feedback and tries to incorporate that into the next meeting.
Reviewed July 1, 2014
I have had some good dates through It's Just Lunch, and some excellent ones too. Some are better than others; however, most make for at least a nice evening or afternoon out, even if they do not lead to more. While some matches were not quite my types despite being really likeable people overall, I've also kept in touch with a few of the more outstanding ladies I've met. I aspire to meet a naturally beautiful, compatible, substantive, cerebral, humorous, interesting, feminine and vivacious woman. Hopefully, IJL might prove to be one of the possible paths to reach that paramount goal!
Reviewed June 30, 2014
This has been a wonderful experience so far. I have been working with Kate, who is fantastic. She listens to everything that I say, both positives and concerns, and is always available on the phone when I need her. The process has been very positive, with some dates that were aligned very close to what I am looking for/hoping for.
Reviewed June 30, 2014
Josh has been great. He listens to me and takes my requirements into consideration when choosing who to match me with. I'm looking forward to meeting the person that he has most recently matched me with. It's such a relief to have someone taking the awkwardness and frustration out of getting to the 1st date. I just don't have time to do it and a really grateful that Josh takes his job so seriously!!! Thanks Josh!
Reviewed June 30, 2014
This is my second time with IJL. The second go around has been awful. After complaining, Michelle has been my coordinator and I have started to meet some better guys who I'm more in line with. Michelle has been good in hearing what I've said I'm looking for and trying to achieve it. No luck as of yet, but I remain hopeful.
Reviewed June 30, 2014
I have been using IJL for the past 6 months. The experience is exactly what I was looking for. They do all of the legwork and match me with the type of person I want to date. I haven't found my perfect mate yet, but IJL makes meeting the right type of person easy and fun.
Reviewed June 29, 2014
Very helpful staff for the most part. Good matches, and they pay attention to what you ask for. Many staff seem to really care about you finding a match, etc.
Reviewed June 29, 2014
Mandy has been an incredibly warm, engaging and professional dating consultant. She pays close attention to detail and is very responsive to my needs and is available to answer any questions I might have. I appreciate her diligence to helping me meet my dating objectives.
Reviewed June 28, 2014
I'm in my mid 60s and reside in Mesa, AZ. I joined IJL from another online dating group. My luck at meeting women was nil; my average was below the Mendoza Line. Of the gals that I met, most have more problems than I. From my perspective, I do not need to compound my issues / character defects.
I saw a Its Just Lunch segment on the local news. I thought what the hell. Bear in mind that I have been out of the dating scene for quite some time. I was indoctrinated into IJL & have met 4 gals. As I recall, the 1st woman was from NW Phoenix [Peoria]. I reside in the east Valley of Phoenix. The driving distance from Peoria > Mesa is some 35-miles one way. The odd tidbit re: Alpha did NOT drive. The red-flag went up. We met at the Blue Hound Kitchen & Cocktails in downtown Phoenix. A perceptible resultant of the 9-question feedback from each mono-y-mono meet / greet after paid-off; the driving distance was adjusted to my side of town. The next 3-lunch engagements were within a suitable distance from my locale.
The 2nd meet / greet luncheon was with Bravo. The Lobby Grill in the Arizona Grand Resort was the scene. She had returned from a journey to China. A nice gal; hence, there was NO significant click with Bravo. My next mono-y-mono IJL meet / greet was at Buca di Beppo where I met Charlie. I rated this meet / greet 3 out of 5-stars; certainly, NOT cause by Charlie nor myself. Clearly, the clip-joint eatery did NOT have their act in sync. They neglected to notice myself & Delta in the vestibule [entrance].
Charlie was a very family oriented gal and quite independent [she has been alone for 10-years after her hubby passed on]. She is somewhat gun-shy. Did NOT like to be touched. She was very easy to chat with; I walked away with warm feeling. We chatted on a variety of topics. Some I choose and the remainder was Delta's choice. Charlie at 60-years young was in my age range, very pleasant & straightforward to chat with. Common interest were sports, Rock-n-Roll music, hiking & travel.. Whew whoooooooooooooo; we did exchange phone #s / e-mail addresses.
The last IJL meet / greet was with Delta at the Kona Grill - Chandler Fashion Center. At the finale, it was quite clear to see that we did NOT [the presumption was unanimous] feel there were enough common interests to warrant a 2nd date. We're 2-people with too many opposites. That's the way it is.
Bottom line, my IJL match-up guru [Echo] has been top-notch / stellar. I figure that she pays attention & focuses to my remarks for the 9-question feedback. Before my agreement to any IJL event, Echo will call me to learn of the requirements / how we're well-matched. At this juncture, it's my right to yay or nay. Echo pays attention to my requirements. I'm NOT a difficult gent to please. Since I'm a rookie, with the aforementioned said, I going into my 5th mono-y-mono IJL meet / greet. There is something new on the horizon. I can say that I'm pleased with the past progress; the better is yet to come my way. At this phase, I'm pleased with the growth.
Reviewed June 27, 2014
I thought the staff at IJL were always professional. I worked with Ali and Dascha and was impressed by their attention to detail and their patience.
Reviewed June 27, 2014
Amazing experience and service! Highly recommend it.
Reviewed June 27, 2014
I have been quite satisfied with my IJL experience. Initially I was feeling rather neglected by the system but now that I am working with my new coordinator Josh I feel like I am in excellent hands. He is very personable and seems to have taken a real interest in my experience and hopeful happy outcome. I look forward to more dating introductions.
Reviewed June 27, 2014
I strongly feel as if this has been a good investment. My coordinator and I have a great understanding. She listens and delivers.
Reviewed June 26, 2014
I have worked with Mitch on IJL. He has been timely, friendly, personable and very helpful in making this an enjoyable process. He makes this a fun way to meet new people. I'd recommend the service and Mitch to anyone.
Reviewed June 25, 2014
I appreciate all the hard work the girls at IJL have done to set me up with dates!! Dating is personal, right? So it makes all the difference to have real people helping you find that special someone. I would also like to mention that Ali has been doing a great job coordinating dates and getting me out with attractive ladies. She is professional, on top of things, and has been a real pleasure to work with. Thanks again to Ali and everyone at IJL for all you do!!
Reviewed June 24, 2014
I enjoy working with Rodney, Ethan, and Charlotte in the New York City office. I have found that the matches they have given me have been with interesting, intelligent women. I feel it's only a matter of time before they send me the perfect match I'm looking for.
Reviewed June 23, 2014
I was truly impressed by the quality of the dating coaching session. Sheri was not only kind and very professional, but she was also knowledgeable and offered great advice. She also took the time to really listen to my concerns. Great experience!
Reviewed June 23, 2014
Just want to say that I enjoyed the service IJL provides. I joined because I... Like many... wanted to meet some quality women, who were classy, smart, mature and women I could relate to and enjoy a lunch or drink and have a nice conversation. I did not go into this with any further expectations. If I would have met someone I really would've connected with... then perhaps something more could've come out of it... but was realistic about this and ended up being very satisfied. The ladies at IJL were very nice and easy to work with and provided me with some good quality dates. I enjoyed the experience and would recommend it to anyone who is looking for people that they can truly relate with that sometimes are hard to find. Just keep your expectations real. Thanks for the time....
Reviewed June 22, 2014
So far, I have been set up with 4 or 5 dates; none even came close to what I would have chosen on my own. One date was botched up -- my date never was notified of the final arrangements. That said, I would like to express my deep appreciation for the professionalism and courtesy exhibited by one of the directors -- Mandy. My dealings with her have always been highly satisfactory and pleasant. Thank you.
Reviewed June 22, 2014
My most recent date was a 10. He was a great guy, and we had so much in common. I'm certainly looking forward to my next one.
Reviewed June 21, 2014
I have had 6 dates now over a 9-month period. All 6 have gotten something out of all the dates and varied experiences which I think is a good thing. There has been something positive about each date. I truly recommend this service versus something like Match.com because you make the meeting experience easy, more professional and legitimate, and take some of the game work out of the new dating experience.
Reviewed June 21, 2014
I have had a great time with It's Just Lunch. I have met several great and attractive ladies. My dating director Phabienne has done a great job and I would highly recommend trying it's Just Lunch to meet the lady you are looking for. They are the best!
Reviewed June 20, 2014
Thank you to everyone at IJL for all the great experiences meeting diverse new people.
Reviewed June 19, 2014
Had a very productive session with IJL's dating coach, Sheri. She provided very practical and actionable advice to improve my approach to dating. Was definitely worth the time.
Reviewed June 19, 2014
I like IJL and I think it is because I was able to find someone who took the time to really understand me and what kind of person I would like to meet. That person is Josh and it took speaking with few matchmakers who contacted me until he contacted me with a match. Josh takes his time in order to get a grasp of what makes me tick, my values, my life story and how and why this drives my standards in terms of who I would like to meet. He has made a lot of efforts to coordinate a date with a woman currently in France who seems to be a really good match for me. I really appreciate this kind of effort and it creates trust between me and Josh.
Reviewed June 18, 2014
IJL has done a good job matching me with others and setting the stage for a good relationship.
Reviewed June 18, 2014
Great concept. It is all about the right dating consultant. Since Sharry started I have been very pleased with her attentive communication and her good matches. Love working with her. Thank you.
Reviewed June 18, 2014
Everybody is familiar with the inherent uncertainty involved in dating. One finds themselves wondering, "What kind of first impression am I making on a date?" or "Is there something I could improve upon to help me put my best self forward?" IJLs coaching sessions take actual feedback from your date partner and construct helpful suggestions, as well as providing general dating advice. I found it very helpful!
Reviewed June 17, 2014
I had a really great experience. I came from elove which was not so great! In a nutshell I was made comfortable with the transition from elove to it's just lunch. Most importantly I met the most amazing love through your company and we are so happy! We are getting married next year!!!!! A special thank you to Erica and Megan!!!
Reviewed June 17, 2014
I've been a client with It's Just Lunch for a couple of years. Finding that special person took me a little longer than I thought it would however, Abby, Brenna, and Stephanie from Minneapolis were very helpful during the entire process! Thanks again!
Reviewed June 17, 2014
IJL delivers on their promise. Amanda and the Team have been indispensable in rounding out my social life with new, high quality, fun relationships. I would and have recommended IJL to friends.
Reviewed June 16, 2014
It's been a tough for me. I'm a private person but I'm working through it with the help of Obed and staff.
Reviewed June 16, 2014
I have been a member of IJL since early May and Mandy has scheduled many dates for me. Mandy has taken the time to get to know what type of women I am attracted to and has done a good job of introducing me to women that match my profile. The restaurants that Mandy has selected for my dates have also been great. Finally, Mandy's enthusiasm is infectious and she is a pleasure to work with.
Reviewed June 14, 2014
I received several points about my approach to the dating interview with a prospective partner. Conversations are easy to start and keeping them light and focused help you learn about the person you are with. It was important for me to learn not to divulge medical conditions early as they could create a negative environment. Keep things short, breezy, and positive. Compliment your date as appropriate.
Reviewed June 13, 2014
All of the people working at IJL have been very helpful and very enthusiastic about the search to find matches for me. I definitely believe that this service is a great way to meet people that have the qualities and interests that you are looking for in a person and it is very convenient as you don't have to go out and look for the people yourself. Overall I have had a very good experience during my subscription to IJL. Thanks!
Reviewed June 13, 2014
Sheri was great to talk to. As far as coaching my dating experience I feel I'm fairly confident however it's good to brainstorm and hear some advice that I might not have known. I think the issue and I believe Sheri would agree that I'm not getting set-up with the right match. I have either been set-up with someone that we have nothing in common, doesn't know what he wants in a relationship or he is still married. Overall I feel I have not had much luck on IJL. My membership ends in September so just maybe Mr. Right might happen?!? I have weaved out all the bad ones....possibly I might find the right one and IJL will end in a fairy tale for me?? Hope so!
Reviewed June 13, 2014
Had a great first date thru IJL and look forward to moving forward. Highly recommend the service.
Reviewed June 13, 2014
I have enjoyed my experience with IJL. They try very hard to get you dates that you will like. When you meet them in person, they may not be what you hoped for because it is different once you meet someone, but most of the time, they are very nice and have much in common. Your contact works very hard to use your comments to improve your next dates and they work with you. I like this better than an online dating service because you actually get to meet the lady and see what they are like rather than relying on a profile. They also choose nice places to go for the meetings. I have enjoyed my experience.
Reviewed June 11, 2014
This is my second (or third) time with It's Just lunch. I have always liked your service. Michelle has been great to work with and really works hard at trying to zero in on what works for me and what does not. I very much like dealing with her. She is straight up and honest. I have always said good things about your service. I recommended Just Lunch to our VP today! I often meet interesting women. Sometimes I meet women who are not for me, but you don't know until you meet. I have family and friends who have met and married using your service and I think if I keep trying, I'll find the girl for me. This weekend, I'm escorting my Wednesday lunch date to her daughter's wedding! Hey you never know...
Reviewed June 11, 2014
IJL is a good idea; however, they have only one city per state that you have to drive to in order to meet a date. In my case, I drove over 2 hours one way. Then, Sharry, the dating counselor, told me that I had to drive back for a short (20-35 minute) meeting to have my picture taken. I had already sent them 4 pictures and was willing to Skype or FaceTime. No, they just could not do that. Their rules are their rules, and they are very inflexible and will not make any accommodations for distance nor time. You are the customer; yet, you are treated like you are doing them a favor. Sharry would not tell me about my date except that he had grey hair and an advanced degree.
When I asked for more, she said she could not reveal that. I asked her if I could meet the person who was going to take my picture after the date, but the reply again was, "No, we cannot do that. You must drive again to Charlotte for that meeting". I asked if I could combine the second date with a meeting with Kim before that second date, and Sharry said, "No, people have not shown up to meet Kim, but they have gone to the second date". In other words, we have your money and we are going to make this as rigid and difficult as possible. Think before you give them your credit card. The first date costs $1,100, the second date averaged out is $600 and the least expensive is $183.33. So you are given just 12 dates for the cost of $2,200.
Reviewed June 10, 2014
They fill you with promises of finding your soul mate, then take your money. NOTE** with a no refund policy*** and then send you on dates with people who don't meet your criteria. I could go into a lot of detail- but the bottom line is this, has been a very frustrating experience and I am now much poorer based on believing in this company. Don't buy it, don't consider it, move to another option.
Reviewed June 10, 2014
My experience with IJL and Obed has been very pleasurable. The professional service and dating coordination is outstanding! I would highly suggest IJL to single individuals looking for an alternative way to meeting other single people.
Reviewed June 10, 2014
IJL has provided a very good service. They have done a great job matching me with the type of women I find both attractive and interesting. I have enjoyed all the dates I have been on. I would definitely recommend their service to anyone who is trying to get into dating and out of the club scene. Thanks.
Reviewed June 10, 2014
I would like to say it has been a pleasure working with Nika. She makes dating fun again. Thanks.
Reviewed June 9, 2014
I will be honest, the coaches are doing a pretty good job. I have been meeting very nice ladies, but have not gone out with anybody. I was attracted to 3 of the ladies out of 5, but one had some personal problems at home. The other one I just met, we were diff as far as lifestyles, so I do believe there is somebody for everybody. It is a numbers game. The more women you see, it will rgt. I hope so.
Reviewed June 9, 2014
I admit that I was skeptical at first, but I ended up being pleasantly surprised by my Dating Consultation! It helped me to confirm what I have been doing well and to review what I can improve in to make my dating experience more successful. It reminded me that dating is as much an art as it is a science. It also helped me to further build my confidence in meeting people. During the process, we discussed my approach to dating as well as specific feedback from my matches. My Dating Coach asked me some thought provoking questions that lead me to review my dating goals and helped me to reassess whether they are on target. They also offered some very constructive advice on ways for me to get the most out of my dating experiences both within and outside IJL. I am excited to put these new ideas into practice!
Reviewed June 9, 2014
The customer service I receive at IJL, is outstanding! The effort put forth by the staff is second to none. They actually care about each and every individual they match you up with. Whether it leads to a second date or just friendship, there's no one I have been disappointed with. I would recommend them to any of my Single friends..
Reviewed June 8, 2014
My experience has been OK. I don't believe that IJL is give their customers what they sell. The follow up and coaching is not as I expected. I rated my experience satisfied only because of my dating director, Obed. He is working very hard to meet my expectations in finding the match that fits my expectations. He is very concerned and works very hard to get good matches for me. He follows up when I need something. He is doing a good job!
Reviewed June 7, 2014
There are missing ingredients in the IJL format. There should be at least one photo of the selected match provided before the investment of time. It might also be a good idea to set up a third party system wherein the people who are being matched by an IJL advisor can speak by phone. Technically, this would be easy to manage.
Reviewed June 7, 2014
The IJL dating director has been working hard finding me dates. I've been enjoying meeting with the people the dating director has introduced to me.
Reviewed June 6, 2014
I love the chat and exp, great service.
Reviewed June 6, 2014
This was one of the worst dating services including the internet that I have experienced. I specified where I wanted to date and I received dates from 30 miles away. Dates from women that had nothing in common with me. When I voiced my complaints, I received no dates. Then they sent me date info when I was on vacation and when I didn't respond within 48 hours, they suspended my account. When I inquired, their attitude was...indifferent to say the least. Terrible, Terrible, Terrible. It was great through the signing up process and then once they have your money, you're screwed!
Reviewed June 6, 2014
I must admit that I was at first confused about all the staff that I encountered at It's Just Lunch -- Dating Directors, Dating Coaches and so on. I thought that I might have an entourage on my dates; I have never had that and always imagined that I would be more impressive with an entourage. The coaching has been a periodic, but very useful and enjoyable service. My coach, Sheri, has always been insightful and very interactive. That is very relaxing. She has provided a wonderful opportunity to review and move forward. I appreciate this.
Reviewed June 6, 2014
It's Just Lunch has provided me the opportunity to get out and get some great practice dating! I feel a sense of security with the process and it's nice to know that the person who was described to me will be the one to show up.
Reviewed June 6, 2014
It's Just Lunch was the best dating avenue I chose. After being on several internet dating sites for six months with not liking the quality of people I was receiving, I decided to join It's Just Lunch. Every team member of It's Just Lunch is so easy to speak with, and is always available. I loved how they sent me a welcome email discussing everything from what to expect, suggested conversation, to feedback on your outing. My first date turned out to be everything I had told them that I wanted in a match. We are currently on our third date and still getting to know each other. Thank you It's Just Lunch!
Reviewed June 4, 2014
I am a single full time dad and I work 50-70 hours a week. IJL has allowed me to meet great women who have been matched to my specific requests. My dating coordinators do all of the hard work for me. They setup the reservations and date times. All I need to do is tell them my availability and go out on great dates with women who have been selected to specifically be the type of women I am attracted to. I highly recommend Its Just Lunch to people that want to go out and date people. The long and tenuous task of weeding out online profile pictures is gone. It's Just Lunch is a great way to go out on dates instead of waiting and searching for dates.
Reviewed June 4, 2014
The site is simply wonderful!!! I would recommend it to anyone looking to meet nice and thoughtful people who are busy and need a professional to help you. They are truly the group to speak with.
Reviewed June 3, 2014
I've had a few coordinators since I've joined IT'S JUST LUNCH and they have all been very helpful. My current coordinator listens to what I want and is very responsive, which I like. SO FAR SO GOOD, IJL.
Reviewed June 3, 2014
My last date with Sarah was a good one. We have gone out 3 times since then. I really like her and am happy. Faye set us up.
Reviewed June 2, 2014
Thus far, I've enjoyed It's Just Lunch. I haven't met 'that special someone' just yet, but IJL continues to set me up on dates very regularly. I've also enjoyed eating out at some of Nashville's finer restaurants. Both of my dating coordinators have been very friendly and helpful.
Reviewed June 2, 2014
Obed has done a very good job trying to rectify the MANY dissatisfied situations that have presented themselves throughout my brief IJL experience. He does a great job supporting and defending the corporate "party line" while still trying to appease me. He has worked very hard to be proactive in meeting my expectations that previously have been egregiously mishandled.
Reviewed June 1, 2014
She was very pleasant, friendly, and I enjoyed speaking with her.
Reviewed May 30, 2014
Debbie is wonderful! She has made my experience at IJL even better. She listens to your needs and she is truly concern about your dating experience.
Reviewed May 30, 2014
I can say from personal experience that I have meet some great and interesting people that I would not otherwise been exposed to. IJL sets dates in great places that are comfortable and trendy. Overall, I rate this service "two thumbs up"!
Reviewed May 30, 2014
Overall positive experience. Generally pleased with quality of matches. Biggest disappointment was the lack of members within an hours drive of Colo Springs. Coordinator Amanda was excellent and it was a pleasure working with her!
Reviewed May 30, 2014
I am in St. Louis and have been using this dating service for over a year. In one year, I have been set up on FIVE dates. The first person I met admitted he has a restraining order out against him by his ex-wife's boyfriend. The last man was terribly obese and talked about himself the entire time. The other 3 have been fine, just not a match. My main complaint though is that when I signed up, I was told there are plenty of men in my area my age. However, now all they are calling me about are men 10 years older than me. This is not what I was sold on. I have asked several times for a partial refund and am told no. I feel like they told me what I wanted to hear and now that they've gotten my money, it's a different story. I was told I'm being very specific by wanting to date someone in my own age range. Mind you, my age range extends to up to 6 years older than me. Seems to be they LIE to you to tell you what you want to hear and then don't keep up their end of the bargain. Then they refuse to give you a refund. Very shady.
Reviewed May 30, 2014
At first, the communication and customer service is impeccable, but after my first date, I didn't hear from anyone for 5 weeks. When I called my coordinator, Lisa **, it would take her 2 weeks to call me back. I couldn't reach a manager. After complaining, it still isn't better. They haven't matches me well at all, and they tell me things about people that are not true. I signed up almost 4 months ago and I've only been on 3 dates. Only worth about $30 a month and I paid almost $200 a month!! So disappointing!
Reviewed May 29, 2014
I consider It's Just Lunch an adventure and I have had a wonderful time meeting quality people. Each date is set up with excellent communication between It's Just Lunch staff and myself. I am meeting interesting people, experiencing a new restaurant and treated well by the wait staff who always know how to help you find your date in the venue and to bring separate checks. I would recommend It's Just Lunch to anyone!
Reviewed May 29, 2014
I had an extremely positive face to face interview and although I went into it feeling a little apprehensive, I ended up thoroughly enjoying it and found it to be extremely positive!
Reviewed May 29, 2014
It has been a short period of time since I joined up with it's just lunch, but there has been a concerted effort to make sure I am out meeting people while still working completely with my work schedule. I am satisfied with the effort they put forth and believe I am going to meet the right person. If I were to assign a grade, it would be an A.
Reviewed May 28, 2014
I recommend It's Just Lunch to anyone looking for a relationship. The personal touch is so much better than online dating! The requested feedback after each date helps narrow the search to exactly what you're looking for in a partner. After five months I've met a lot of nice people and have been to many new restaurants. And - they are still actively (and patiently) helping me find "the one."
Reviewed May 28, 2014
The staff is always happy, nice, and have made me feel comfortable. Meeting quality gentlemen in south Florida is a challenge and as I do not have much spare time to go "out" in hopes of meeting someone. So IJL makes it a little easier to meet people in a cozy setting. Keep those fingers crossed for me, lol. Thank you. :)
Reviewed May 28, 2014
Michelle has done a wonderful job with understanding and matching me with the type of person I'm looking for. Please pass on my sincere thanks!
Reviewed May 24, 2014
I have nothing but praise and gratitude for the Milwaukee office staff. They have been true change agents in my life, listening carefully to my needs and objectives then working their match-making magic, arranging for meetings with several remarkable woman I would have never found any other way.
Reviewed May 23, 2014
Vanessa is energetic, engaged and is on top of the game. She has a complete appreciation for my situation. It is a pleasure to work with her.
Reviewed May 23, 2014
I'll make it short. I'll assume that the IJL and the "dating directors" actually have a system, and skill in matching people. After six "dates" I am convinced that the pool of female candidates is too small, or simply does not have enough diversity to provide a decent match for me. Not one of my matches met my criteria.
Reviewed May 22, 2014
I have been with IJL now for a while and although I haven't yet met "the one", I have met some really great people along the way and would easily recommend a service like this to people that either because of work schedules or other circumstances, just don't find themselves in single-friendly environments. I've had a great time (and continue to do so...) and working with Michelle has been fantastic!
Reviewed May 21, 2014
I was tired of the traditional dating sites and saw an advertisement on CNN for this. Thankfully I did. My initial interview to construct my profile was undertaken by a delightful lady who was very professional. My personal dating director is likewise very precise, courteous and has done a marvelous job in selecting dates that match my expectations. I really think that this is a great way to meet lots of great and interesting people.
Reviewed May 20, 2014
My coaching session was extremely helpful! It provided me with helpful and tactical solutions for the areas I was struggling in and personal advice that was specific to me. It was worth the wait!
Reviewed May 20, 2014
I thought my dating coaching session with my coach, Sheri, was very helpful in keeping my search for that right person in a positive direction. The questions that she asked were very helpful in gaining the insight of what is really important to me as well as letting her know on what to look for in that person I seek to find.
Reviewed May 19, 2014
Katie at the Milwaukee office is a true asset to the organization. Each time she contacts me she is professional, positive and really excited about her role. She does a fantastic job coordinating the date and making suggestions for the meeting.
Reviewed May 18, 2014
When I first joined IJL, the people that I came in contact with were professional but less than enthusiastic. Since Mitch has taken over my account, I have been delighted with his energy, friendship and insight. I believe that he is a real testament to IJL and I will not hesitate to recommend him as a "matchmaker" par excellence.
Reviewed May 17, 2014
Got some great advice from the dating coach session. Really appreciated the insight into things and will try the suggestions given.
Reviewed May 16, 2014
The coaching session went really well; it raised some considerations I hadn't thought of before and gave me some ideas for my next dates.
Reviewed May 16, 2014
Very satisfied as there is no way I would ever encounter such amazing young ladies on my own. My contact person at IJL, Lisa, has done excellent work. After every date I tell her that her work is done.
Reviewed May 15, 2014
Do you want to find true love and the end to your fairy tale? Then, run, don't even call or walk into an Its Just Lunch (IJL) office. You will be sorry. IJL will sell you down the river and tell you anything to get you to buy into the concept of meeting that special someone. I bought into the fairy tale and was shortly blind-sided by deception:
1.You are told that you will have 2-3 dates per month. In reality, you are lucky to get the contractual one per month. I waited over five weeks at one point. They refused to acknowledge THEIR mistake.
2. IJL is welcoming to your parameters to what you are looking for in a special someone at first. However, they will then use them against you when you do not get the number of dates you expected. (You parameters are too narrow.) This does change with the more open minded you become.
3. They will tell you that they have quality members. IJL's idea of a quality person is anyone that can clean up well and has a job to afford their exorbitant fees. Yes... I met several nice men who did ask me for my number, but they never called back. If they changed their minds as IJL states as an excuse, they should be honest and call, right? IJL does not enforce being respectful or honest of the other person in this instance even though it is stated in their handbook you are given when sucked into becoming a member. Quality should reflect superior/distinguishing characteristics above the norm such as having HONESTY and RESPECT. If you want to meet men of IJL's quality, save your money and head to the bars and your computer. The people you meet at the bars and online are no different than the people at IJL.
4. IJL does not work for you. They work solely to benefit themselves. IJL loves your positive feelings, but you are doomed if you become frustrated. ANY issues you have with IJL will be met with prewritten, prefabricated excuses on why things cannot be changed. I was once so frustrated with IJL at one point, I told them my parameters were a specific age range and breathing. IJL would not allow it! Is it not MY prerogative to set my own parameters?
I wrote this review for several reasons. First was to let the world know that IJL is nothing more than an expensive, glorified singles bar or online dating service. Professionalism, honesty and quality are significantly lacking. Finally, I wrote this review so honest, respectful, quality consumers like myself do not get drawn into the IJL maelstrom only to end up feeling worthless, frustrated and embarrassed at being hoodwinked. Keep your dignity and run as fast as you can away from IJL!!
P.S. I have been to the local Better Business Bureau... My two complaints have ended in "disputed."
Reviewed May 15, 2014
My experience working with Mitch at It's Just Lunch has been fun and I'm looking forward to more great dates and meeting more interesting and fun men.
Reviewed May 14, 2014
Mitch has done a great job for me.
Reviewed May 14, 2014
I've have been on a few dates. Even though I have yet to connect with someone I am looking forward to the next one with Mitch. Mitch is easy and helpful to deal with.
Reviewed May 14, 2014
Mitch is a truly caring matchmaker at It's Just Lunch. He has shown me that he has true concern for my needs and is working hard to locate the best matches for me. It has been a pleasure working with Mitch.
Reviewed May 14, 2014
I've had a great experience with IJL to date. The staff has all been friendly and open as to what to expect. Sharry has also been an honest and responsive dating coordinator with whom I've enjoyed discussing feedback and dating opportunities. The experience so far has provided me a great chance to meet a couple of nice and classy women that I hope to get to know better.
It's Just Lunch Company Information
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