Should You Move to the Suburbs?

Pros and cons of living in the suburbs

Like with any major life decision, moving to the suburbs has its pros and cons. While suburbs are full of green spaces and relatively affordable housing, they aren’t ideal for people who appreciate the hustle and bustle of city life.

Of course, you'll need to look into the details of the specific areas you're considering moving to, but in general, these are some pros and cons of the suburbs.

Pros of living in the suburbs

• Affordable: You can likely find lower rent and monthly mortgage payments in the suburbs. Plus, you can cut costs on things like parking.
• Quiet: Suburbs are often quieter and less congested than cities, making them more peaceful living environments.
• Access to nature: You’ll have more outdoor space and have access to activities like gardening in the backyard to connect with nature.
• More space: There’s more space and privacy in the suburbs, meaning it's easier to find houses with more bedrooms and you’ll have space for things like a grill, a swing set and fenced-in yard for your kids and pets.
• Good schools: While it’s not always the case, most suburbs are often home to top-rated schools and other educational opportunities.
• Safe: Suburbs tend to have lower crime rates than cities, making residents feel safe and secure.
• Family-friendly: If you have kids, the suburbs can be a haven. They often cater to families, offering plenty of events and activities for all ages. There’s no shortage of playgrounds and sports facilities in the suburbs.
• Community: The suburbs typically feature tight-knit neighborhoods with amenities like shopping centers, restaurants and community centers.

Cons of living in the suburbs

• Reliance on cars: You’ll need to rely on your car or public transportation to get from place to place. Compared with urban areas, suburbs are often more spread out and not as walkable.
• Fewer cultural activities: Suburbs typically aren’t as diverse as cities. Cultural activities, including museums and ethnic restaurants, might be limited.
• Longer commute times: Depending on where you work, your commute might be longer if you live in the suburbs. Suburbs often have less transportation infrastructure than cities, leading to increased traffic congestion, especially during commute times.
• Changing access to public services: Public services like health care, social assistance and education may be further away in suburban areas. Depending on where you live, you may need to travel farther to access these essential services.
• Bigger environmental impact: Habitat loss, increased energy consumption and increased greenhouse gas emissions are negative environmental impacts often associated with suburban areas due to sprawl and the reliance on cars.
• Less nightlife: Businesses tend to stay open later in cities than in suburban areas. Activities and events in cities typically also run later than in the suburbs.
• Less social interaction: Moving to the suburbs can lead to social isolation as you adjust to a new area if you don't already have friends nearby. You'll need to travel further to visit old friends or meet new people closer to where you now live.
• Increased home maintenance: Extra space means extra maintenance — mowing the lawn and making occasional repairs are practically unavoidable, especially if you own your home.

Reasons you may want to move to the suburbs

Because there are pros and cons to living in the suburbs, making the decision to move there can be challenging. Before you pack up and go, consider whether the suburbs are right for you.

You might consider moving to the suburbs if you:

• Spend more time outside the city
• Feel more at peace outside the city
• Crave convenience
• Aren’t enjoying the city like you used to
• Have thoroughly researched new areas
• Want more outdoor space
• Want your kids to have access to good public schools
• Want a bigger place or yard
• Have a growing family

Jim Gray, a New York-based real estate professional and performance coach at Agent Advice, told us there’s no universal rule. “It really boils down to your unique needs and priorities for this season. If having top schools, space to roam and a quieter setting tops your list, the suburban pros may hit harder than the cons. But if easy walkable amenities, shorter commutes and car-free living are more your jam, sticking with the city could be the move,” he said.

Gray’s biggest piece of advice is to research and spend time exploring the suburbs you’re considering before making a decision. Talk to community members, study commute times, look into resources, and consider working with a real estate agent to find the perfect spot to call home.

What to consider when moving to the suburbs

If you’re considering moving to the suburbs, there are several key things to take into account. And if you decide you’re ready to take the plunge, finding the perfect suburb for you and your family can be another challenge full of important considerations.

Finding the right town requires forethought. Consider things like:

• Diversity: Are there opportunities for cultural enrichment, social cohesion and multicultural education?
• Politics: Will this community be accepting of you and your family?
• Walkability: Can you walk to work or school comfortably?
• Crime rate: Will you and your family feel safe?
• Community resources: Can you access things like health care services, libraries and community centers?
• Population density: Will you have peace, quiet and privacy?
• Social life: Are there opportunities to spend time with and make new friends?
• Affordability: Can you afford to live comfortably there?
• Schools: How do schools in this area rank?

How to know if you want to stay in the city

To know if you want to stay in the city or move to the suburbs, weigh the above pros and cons. Think about whether you can afford the space you need in the city and if you can find the right schools for your kids.

If you love the perks of the city, including its walkability, restaurants and cultural activities — and you can afford it — then it makes sense to stay.

How to choose the right suburb for you

It's a big deal to move away from a city you've lived in for a while. Before you decide where to move, there are a few things you should consider about each area you're thinking of moving to.

Calculate your commute

If you're moving away from the city, you may also be moving further from your job. Calculate how long it will take you to get to and from work during rush hour traffic. You may want to look for somewhere close to highways to cut down on your drive time.

Evaluate the schools

If you have kids or plan to have them, take a close look at what schools your child would attend when you move. While suburban schools are often higher rated than urban schools in general, evaluate the specific elementary, middle and high schools you would live near in each area you're considering. Don't forget to look at how far each school is from your new potential home and how long it will take your child to get there each day.

Do some budgeting

Every move comes with moving expenses, but when moving from the city to the suburbs, your budget will likely be different due to life changes. Your rent or mortgage may be lower than in the city, but you may have more expenses in other areas, such as gas for commuting.

Visit specific neighborhoods and areas

Similarly to if you were moving within the city, you'll want to consider what area you want to be in. Is there a specific neighborhood you like? Or a park you want to be close to?

If you're completely new to the area, drive around to get a feel for different areas in town to find one you like best before you start looking for somewhere to buy or rent.

Bottom line

If you can afford living in the suburbs and are ready to trade in the subway for running errands in your car, then moving to the suburbs is a good choice. Remember, weigh the pros and cons before you decide, and use this guide to help inform your choice.

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