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Lenders See Foreclosure Situation WorseningBad economic situation can lead to emotional problems as well |
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September 5, 2008
The Mortgage Bankers Association says with home prices falling and loans harder to get, more Americans are simply giving up trying to sell their homes and are just walking away. The trend for the future doesn't appear all that promising, either. The MBA report says the percentage of mortgages that have at least one payment overdue rose to 6.41 percent. Real estate experts say the numbers all add up to more problems for the housing market, which shows no signs of being able to overcome the problems unleashed by subprime mortgages going bad. Falling home prices, they say, have cut off the escape route for many homeowners in over their heads, who now find they are unable to sell their homes. Foreclosure activity increased 55 percent between July 2007 and July 2008. A recent report by RealtyTrac, an online marketplace for foreclosure properties, shows one in every 464 U.S. households received a foreclosure filing during the month. It also shows lenders were much more active last month in seizing property in default. "Bank repossessions, or REOs, continued to be the fastest growing segment of foreclosure activity in July, posting a 184 percent year-over-year increase -- compared to a 53 percent year-over-year increase in default notices and an 11 percent year-over-year increase in auction notices," said James J. Saccacio, chief executive officer of RealtyTrac. "The sharp rise in REOs, combined with slow sales, has resulted in a bloated inventory of bank-owned properties for sale." The emotional side of foreclosureHomeowners have faced a growing wave of foreclosures in 2008, yet most reporting has dealt with the economic and financial implications of the collapsing housing market. But psychologists say foreclosures exact a steep emotional toll as well. For most people, their homes are not just a place to live. Homes tie people to the community and social activities, to the familiar faces of neighbors, to friends and to a sense of belonging. Foreclosure brings with it, not only the loss of one's home, but also a myriad of emotions. "Foreclosure means there has been a breach in financial security and that's very scary. Losing a home also brings up issues of abandonment, rejection and isolation for the entire family," said Edythe Harvey, MD, medical director of The Menninger Clinic's Hope Program. "Even a planned move is considered a huge stressor for most people; so when you are being forced into a move because of foreclosure, it can trigger all sorts of feelings." Just as there are ways to deal with the financial ramifications of foreclosure, there are also ways to work through the emotional side of it. Harvey offers the following tips: 1. Acknowledge your feelings.When we withhold our emotions, negative pileup occurs. Find someone to talk to or use a creative outlet such as writing or drawing to express your feelings.2. Avoid connecting negative thoughts to your feelings.Instead of the notion "I am a bad person for letting this happen," try focusing on more productive thinking, "this is a bad experience, but I am going to work hard to remedy the situation."3. Live in the moment.While we need to learn from the past and plan for the future, regret and anxiety over things we have no control of is wasted energy. Take each day as it comes. Apply the lessons you have learned to today's situations.4. Reassure your family.If you have children, help them identify their feelings about moving. Assure them that although you are sad to be leaving your home, you are going to work hard to make sure your new home will be as nice as you can make it.5. Ask for help.Whether it is from a financial counselor or a mental health advisor, if you think you are in over your head, seek out assistance."For some reason, it is seen as a sign of weakness. That's just not so. There are times when we all need a little help," Harvey said.Report Your Experience
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