Providing work history information - My son was just recently predetermined to be eligible for a percentage of my retirement disability, which would be the bulk of his SSI payments. In the past, he has worked a temp job here and there, but was not able to keep track of stubs because we are always moving and he just doesn't have the capability to be responsible like that. My complaint is; I have been required to do this numerous times without me even asking for this. It just came up one day not just 5 months ago. I was requested to give them stubs or W-2's for the same job that this young lady was telling me about. I sent every piece of paper I had, explaining that this was already done and he was already paying it back. Her name is Hunan **.
She called me at my home today; Saturday May 12, 2012 at 8:20am from ** to brow beat me about my responsibilities. "How often she could harass me for paperwork if she wanted to and there was nothing I could do about it". Now, how is it that normally, you couldn't speak to a representative on a Saturday morning and that the calls are supposed to be recorded? I don't know why she felt the need to approach me at the time and in the manner that she did. But I truly felt violated because I was already stressed about a million things in everyday life before she called and awakened me out of my sleep! Then, she proceeded to tell me that this is what I have to do as though I asked to be his payee.
Carl is my son, when I noticed his condition and then the teachers at school recognized it as well, and then the paper work was filed. I have been his payee because I am his mother. It still doesn't change the fact that my child is in denial about his condition there for I have problems with him like any other mother. But this young lady, Ms. or Mrs. ** felt the need to make me as though I should have known what I was getting into and therefore I must take and accept responsibility. This was not the case but in a nut shell, she called early on a weekend morning, chastised me and made me feel like I was a slave to her demands when she felt like it. This was so very disturbing to me and had the audacity to make this call the Saturday before Mother's day (of which I lost my mother two years ago and still grieving on occasions like this) and wished me a Happy Mother's Day at the end.
This was a sadistic attempt to put me in my place. I worry everyday about my son and how he will survive if anything happens to me. I only felt the need to send all that paperwork in order to cut any confusion, not to back out of my responsibility and to make sure he maintains whatever financial stability he has. So I ask you, is it okay for Social Security employees to commit such acts of power play when they feel like it? My son is already paying back over payments. I did not ask anyone to go digging to see if he was entitled to a portion of my disability. I was trying to make a point about the ID theft because I thought that the statement of him having earned enough points at his age may not have been correct.
My son is mildly retarded and has asthma and now high blood pressure which are all keeping him from obtaining and keeping a regular job. He never gets called back or he never gets hired, how is he supposed to live? With people like her, he'll be homeless and hungry in no time! Can someone please help me? Thank you.



